Diary of a Cat Mom

What Keeps Me Going as a Cat Mom | Ep. 125

By Dagmar Gatell — Creator & Host of Diary of a Cat Mom Season 1 Episode 125

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Some days being a cat mom feels incredibly hard.

Between migraines, exhaustion, worrying about future illnesses, and unexpected vet visits, there are moments when I wonder how I keep going.

In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast episode, I share what always brings me back to my purpose: remembering that so many of the cats I've cared for were once abandoned, forgotten, or no longer wanted. Every day, I simply try to give them a life where they feel safe, loved, respected, and wanted.

If you've ever questioned whether you're doing enough for your cat, I hope this episode reminds you that love is found in showing up every single day.

What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode

  • Why purpose helps me through difficult days as a cat mom.
  • Why every cat deserves to feel wanted.
  • How small everyday acts of love matter more than perfection.
  • Why being present is one of the greatest gifts we can give our cats.

Timestamps & Chapters

  • 00:00 – What keeps me going as a cat mom?
  • 00:28 – Remembering the cats who were abandoned
  • 01:02 – Doing the best I can today
  • 01:40 – Finding my purpose as a cat mom
  • 02:18 – The love that makes it worthwhile
  • 02:52 – Every cat deserves to feel wanted

Diary of a Cat Mom is a gentle, diary-style cat podcast about everyday life with cats—created especially for cat moms 35+ in multi‑cat homes who see their cats as family.

Resources for Cat Parents
Everything I use for my cats is here: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/

About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast

Diary of a Cat Mom is a personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell, sharing real moments from life with cats. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom, not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, always consult your trusted veterinarian.

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Diary of a cat mom. What keeps me going as cat mom? Welcome to Diary of a Cat Mom. Today I want to share something a little bit more personal. Some days I honestly wonder how I keep up and how I keep going. There are days when I have a migraine, days when I'm exhausted, days when I worry about what the future holds for my cats as they grow older or they develop health problems. Sometimes I feel like I just have very little energy left. And then I remind myself why I do this. When I look back over my life, most of my cats I cared for, they were abandoned, left behind, or just simply no longer wanted. Some were born outside, some were surrendered, some were just forgotten. And none of them deserves that. Whenever life feels overwhelming, I remind myself that every single one of them deserves to feel safe, to feel loved, to feel respected, to know they matter. I can't solve every problem. And unfortunately, I can't save every cat. And I certainly can't control what tomorrow will bring. But I can do my best today. I can make sure they have food and medical care and a warm bed, gentle words, and someone who loves them exactly as they are. For me, that's enough. I truly believe that we are all here for a purpose. Maybe my purpose is simply to be a safe place for the cats that somehow find their way into my life. I often smile and I think about the universal cat distribution network. Somehow, the cats that need help, they find us. And every time one does, I see it as a responsibility, but it's also a privilege. Not because it's always easy. It isn't. They are heartbreaking days. They are expensive bed bills. They are sure endless, sleepless nights with the little one. There's cat loss and grief. There's uncertainty, but there's also trust. There are these tiny nose boobs, the slowplings, the purse, the little paws following us from room to room. Those moments they remind me that love isn't measured by having a perfect life. It's measured by showing up, by being there, by choosing kindness, even when life is difficult, or just because. I don't know how many years I have with my cats. No one knows. But I do know that while they are with me, I want them to know that they are wanted every single day. Because nobody should go through life feeling unwanted. Not people, not cats, not anyone. Thank you so much for spending these few minutes with me today. Give your cats a general tadtif for me if they enjoy cuddles. And if not, maybe a slope blink instead. I will see you in the next episode. Thank you so much for joining me at this episode of Diary of a Cat. Diary of a Cat Mom.