Mind Clutter Podcast Episode 008 | Wilt, Me, Kobe

On today’s episode of Mind Clutter Podcast, we dive into some wild conversations from the sports and culture world. First up, we talk about Bam Adebayo making history by dropping 83 points, surpassing the late Kobe Bryant on the scoring list — but not everyone in the league seems too thrilled about the milestone. We break down the reactions, the respect (or lack of it), and what this moment really means in today’s NBA.

Next, we get into the headlines surrounding Dwight Howard and the rumors involving that infamous “booger sugar.” Is it just internet gossip or something deeper? We unpack the chatter and how stories like this spread so fast in sports culture.

To close out the episode, we shift gears into relationships and real-life decisions: Is it smart to date someone who already has a baby mama or baby daddy situation? We talk about the challenges, the dynamics, and whether love can really outweigh the complications.

Sports, rumors, relationships, and unfiltered opinions — it’s another Mind Clutter conversation you don’t want to miss.

Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

What's on your mind?

SPEAKER_00 0:04

What's up y'all man? Welcome to another episode of Mind Clutter, man. We back. Consistent. We we back on track. Thank y'all for the people who tuned in last episode. We got a lot of stuff to talk about today, man. We got the White Howard and his girl. We got Bam hitting 83 and niggas hating. We got um what else? We just got a flu of topics. Um we're gonna get into it, man. I wanna try to, we're gonna start. Let's start off, let's start off strong. Let's watch this video of Bam's girlfriend or wife or whatever she is. And let's see what y'all think.

SPEAKER_03 0:47

That's a lie, OB, and I have to record it. And it's it's this shit. I try to tell everybody he needs some help. And ain't nobody wanna fucking listen because he got the money. I gotta say whatever y'all don't want to say. I don't give a I don't I live with him. He needs some help. And this is it. This is what I'm fucking losing my fucking marriage to. This shit. This shit right here. So everybody, y'all gotta help him. He is spiraling. I'm in here with him. I'm trying to love him through it. Coaching our son so man.

SPEAKER_00 1:27

So, first off, why the fuck she just walking around with a Q? Like, what we doing here? Like, I don't know, bro. People, it's wild. Um, and like, and that be the thing, bro. Y'all supposed to be getting married, so that means y'all should know something about each other. Y'all should, you know? And you over here getting on the internet telling the business, that nigga ain't started doing coke just yesterday. Like, like, nigga, coke ain't no uh one night and I just go grab a key the next night. Like, no, that's something he had been doing, if that's really what that is. Why the fuck she not in jail? Like, she should be in jail walking around with that much shit on her, but that's neither here nor there. Like, what is we doing? Like, and that be the thing. Motherfuckers get in these relationships, and then they get to flung the business online and da da da da. And hey, when you do that, you is a bitch ass nigga. Like, you you an asshole. Like, and I have been there, so I can say that. I have been a bitch ass nigga. I didn't have my simp moments, I didn't have like moments where it's like, damn. But like when you do that, it don't never make nothing better. Like, if you really care, go to a therapist and tell her that stuff. Go to a couple's therapist. If you you really care, go to the police if it's affecting you and you feel like, like, when a person show you who they is, you gotta believe them. Like, don't shouldn't take time and time and time. Once a person show me, hey, I don't fuck with you, then it's time to move around. Just like how he may have shown, but they might have been doing that shit together. I watched that whole video, her face was dry as a bitch to like the last three. Like, that was the driest cry. Like, what is we doing here? Like, at that point, you just trying to tarnish my reputation. And then, say we get over this and we start fucking around again. You can't bring that's double jeopardy right there. You can't bring that argument up again to the world. Oh, he's doing coke again. Bro, you knew what it was, and you decided to stay then and you decide to stay now, or whatever you're choosing to do. I think he it said he just filed for a divorce or whatever. But like, bro, that shit never ends well when you trying to go on and spirit the business and all that. Like, nigga, I remember I did that before. I felt like that shit turned the bitch wholeness up. Like, you get the this bitch a hoe. Like, you don't go that deep, but it be like little subs you see in on some whole shit. And then you like, oh, that get niggas. She already then made the call, or that person had already made the call that is showing that they not with you no more, or y'all into it, or whatever. You know, every nigga know when a girl on her and her nigga into it. Like, when she posts 40 throwbacks, that's time to enter. That's like, that's like the cat call of a decade. Like, that's that's like an ancient cat call. Like, we know what that means. Once she starts posting 40, either it ain't it either. Because I was gonna say, either they feeling insecure about themselves right now and need to, but they only do that when a nigga ain't fucking with them that they fuck with. Now they feeling like, oh, he ain't loving me, so now I'm finna post all these pictures to get some attention and get some hype or whatever the case may be. Like, that's when we know, all right. I'm finna send a little message. Hey, you cute, what you doing tomorrow? Hey, let me get a date on you, whatever. And ain't nothing better than no sympathy pussy, ain't no better than like some sad pussy, like, cause she fucking you like crazy just to get back at this nigga. I might not even know this nigga, but I'm finna fuck his bitch. Like, cause I gotta put it on the show for me. I gotta represent myself. Like, what we doing? But when they start, when you start putting shit online, bro, it never goes well, bro. And then also, if you a dude doing it, you hype the other niggas up to be like, oh, she how oh she be going? Oh, they ain't together. Oh, I'm finna go do the things you would do. Like, niggas finna attack and she gonna feel it. She gonna feel the hype. Like, female hype don't go away until they about in their 30s, 20, high 28s, and then they start realizing, damn, I might be just busted and disgusted. Like that type shit. And I'm like, it takes for those moments, but as a man, you can't, and you gotta let it ride. Just like even with her, like, bro, you're or I I think the white in them gotta be 40 something, high 39s, like y'all too old for this shit. Like, say that shit for the young niggas. Like, I don't know, like, don't go on telling the business. Cause nine times out of ten, y'all either gonna be fucking again, or y'all gonna be, you know? Or it's just not gonna end well. Like, all right, now we know he hype. So now if y'all get back together, you was about to marry the hype. Like, what is we doing? Like, I don't know. I don't know. Well, let's get into some other basketball news. We got uh shout out to Bam in a bio for the Miami Heat. Last night he dropped 83 points. Um he beat Kobe 81. So, like, congratulations, his girl was at the game. Shout out Adrian Wilson, fire shoes, the A1s. I ain't really fucking with the A2s like that. I see what y'all try to do. I know they tried to make them more spacious for men to be able to wear them too. Um, but because the other ones is a lot narrow. But shout out to Adrian Wilson, shout out to Bam, congratulations on 81. And fuck all the niggas who hating, cause like you got a whole bunch of coaches and players hating, oh, he shot 40-something free throws and da-da-da-da. Like, yeah, he did. But for a nigga, they don't just hand out free throws. Niggas had to be touching them, tapping them, whatever the case may be. Like, you're not just getting those willy-nilly. So, and then also when you playing those games, like the referees know the history, they know who Kobe Bryant is, they know who you are. I don't even think a ref would have wanted to have you outscore Kobe and you only average averaging about 20 points or whatever. You know what I'm saying? So, like, I don't think it's just a fluke that he scored 83 points. Um, but you niggas hating, it's like, congratulate the niggas. Sometimes a lot of shit is better unsaid. It's left alone. Like, we know everybody knows what they know, but it's like, I don't know. This is a mess to everybody out there. No matter what you do, whether it's good or bad, niggas gonna hate. Niggas gonna find something to hate. You could wear white shoes, oh why the nigga ain't buy the black ones. You can wear black shoes, why the nigga ain't buy the blue ones. You could whatever you oh, you can walk, why the nigga ain't skip. So whatever you do, somebody gonna have to say something. So fuck they opinion. Do what you do, do what make you feel good, and don't let it get to you, bam. Um and shit. Appreciate the haters, because see, I'm the type of nigga, like, you got all this political stuff going around. Niggas, oh Trump said this, and Trump do this and da-da-da-da-da. Hey, the he's honest. The nigga is honest. He gonna tell you, he that person that's gonna tell you and show you who he is. And when he lying, you know he lying. Everybody got that one member in the family or friend group that they know always lying. You just gotta, yep, hell yeah. You just gotta shrug it off. Like, but I'd rather you tell me who you is and show me who you are, than to I don't know who the fuck you is. Like, I don't want to get political. Some of these candidates and shit, we didn't even know what the fuck they thought, if they could think, if they could walk. Like, so if you have a person that's telling you what they are, hey, you just gotta rather a motherfucker. That's a thing. A lot of people want people to sell them a dream. Uh-uh. Don't lie to me. Come to me with all your baggage, everything, so I know how to handle you. I know how to be aware of you. These niggas being mad at bam for whatever for scoring and getting 83 and still hating on I don't care, and da da da. And you might not care. Hey, you didn't even have to say, hey, congratulations. Move on. Because first off, why is interviewers asking me if I'm just getting done with a game, whether I won or love, don't ask me about no other nigga. Unless this was my roommate or friend or something, don't ask me about no nigga that ain't on my team, that ain't in my conference. So I feel like, but congratulations and move on. Niggas, oh well, I don't respect it, and da-da-da-da. Bro, 81, you niggas ain't scoring 81 in the rec league. If it was so easy to score 83 on the Wizards, why everybody ain't do it this season? Wimby didn't play the Wizards, the Bucks didn't play the Wizards, Johnny's didn't play the Wizards. Um LA didn't play the Wizards. Everybody didn't play the Wizards this year. Why y'all didn't do it? It's not as easy as people think. And shit. If any shit, he got 43 free throws, shit. Boy, let that have been shade. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, keep doing what you're doing, and shit. When people show you who they are, believe. And even with that Trump shit, just it is what it is. I ain't vote. Well, I did vote, but when I vote, I vote for myself. Y'all know that little mark at the bottom? Put me. I'm the best presidential candidate. I feel like I'm the most presidential nigga there is, you know? So why not put me? So that's how I vote every year. So don't try to put me in no box and say, oh, you're nope, I vote for me. But anyways, shout out to Bam. Shout out to Miami Heat. Shout out for you to break record, shout out to Adrian Wilson, shout out to the people that's in your circle. And that's why I say get around people that care about you and love you. Because everybody on the outside always gonna have something to say or something that they want to talk about and fuck them. Um but on from that, I got another video I had seen on uh this reel, and it was basically uh a baby mama saying that she still fuck with her baby daddy in a sense. But I'm gonna play that for y'all and let y'all see that. We're gonna be right back.

SPEAKER_01 13:21

I would say my current partner gets upset when I call on my kids' father for help with certain things.

SPEAKER_04 13:28

But just like the kids, though.

SPEAKER_01 13:30

No.

SPEAKER_04 13:32

How much is the income difference between them two?

SPEAKER_01 13:37

The ex isn't no, so he's making some some coins. Don't disrespect him.

SPEAKER_04 13:44

Very disrespectful. He said I agreed to be with him, I didn't agree to be broke. First of all, do you think that man will provide for his kids if you didn't talk to him three times a week?

SPEAKER_01 13:53

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 13:54

So you're talking to him because you want to, not because you have to.

SPEAKER_02 13:59

At least answering because he's got under the belly there. One day he's gonna ask you for something. If he ain't already been asked, and if he ain't already doing, we are not having that conversation.

SPEAKER_04 14:14

Okay, hold on. Be honest, is the relationship between you and your child's father, maybe not from just your not just your side, but is his side towards you. If your partner looked through and heard every conversation that you're having with your ex, would he feel like there was some inappropriate conversations?

SPEAKER_01 14:31

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 14:34

Now look so you know you're on what you're doing.

SPEAKER_00 14:37

That's what the shit I'll be talking about. Like, why? That's the hard part of dealing with baby mamas. Like, dealing with baby mamas be fun and all, but it be the baby mamas like that, where you make niggas who don't have kids or niggas who have a kid or whatnot, and try to deal with a baby mama hard, because you got people like that that's got a good nigga, it seemed like he taking care of business, he's taking care of the bills or whatever. And you're talking about going to your baby daddy and calling on him for help and stuff like that. Like, what the fuck is we doing? Like, baby mamas is fun. I ain't gonna say fun, like they're a toy, but I feel like they are nice to be with because they have that nurturing effect. Like they soft with you, they comfort, they want to please you or whatever. But then deep down inside, they still got that girl they was before having a kid in them. And they still have some being of they made like their baby daddy is still dealing with their baby daddy, and they just fucking with whoever because it didn't work with their baby daddy. So you always consider damn near a second option, you know what I'm saying? Shout out to Barbie and them on a um 520 somewhere, they was talking about being first round pick and second round pick. And niggas have to have that faith sometimes too, so it don't be just the female. Um and when you dealing with a with a person like that, you have to move around quick. Cause she's showing you that she don't respect who you are, she don't respect what you do. And if it didn't work with her baby daddy and she keeps calling on that nigga when that's basically a way to kind of like belittle who you are, and belittle what you do. So once you see her pull that move, fuck her. Before you even get to the point, her talking about, oh, he still talked to me inappropriate and all that, and we talk, they still fucking. They still fucking, they still doing whatever they doing. He knows he can get in whenever he wants. Because niggas not just doing stuff for people not never returned. I feel like everything in life is transactional. I feel like everything, every yin has a yang. I feel like you breathe out to breathe in. You walk, you talk to conversate, like to get conversation back, to hear yourself talk or sing a song, get a feeling. I feel like everything is something transactional in that sense, or or a yin and a yang with everything. So you got these females like her that's still dealing with their baby. That's maybe dealing with a nigga, especially if you're older in age that has been through heartbreak or been through trauma or been through trust issues or whatever, and then you come in this person's life and you repeat that and um ample those cycles of that going through that stuff again. And it's like, man, you gotta watch out for females like that. And then to get on the show and embarrass your nigga and even bring this up like that shit. She basically just went up there for um approval of what she's doing. Like, oh, you think it's right that I'm doing this? Cause he's not having that much money and nah. She just wanted some reassurance of what she's doing wasn't. But then they told her that's some bullshit you doing. That's some bullshit you pulling. Like, and man, stay away from people like that. Like, and if you is with a dealing with a baby mama or something, make sure you vet her out. Don't just jump into it and da da da. Make sure she wants you for you. Make sure um she not trying to deal with her old nigga or uh even just normal dating. Make sure your person not trying to, and you always can't um go into it like, oh I'll be preventative. Because a person gonna do what they want to do, regardless. If a person wanna cheat, they're gonna cheat. It don't take long to cheat. Just a simple text is a cheat in some people's eyes. Um, so it don't take much to cheat. So a person gonna do what they want to do. That's why when I'm dealing with somebody, I always tell a person I want you to be with me because you want to be with me, not because you have to be with me or you feel like it's some. No, I want you to wanna be here. I want you to have, feel like, oh, if I have a million dollars in the world, I mean a million dollars, a trillion dollars, I still want you as my person. So that's why I feel like when you go in these relationships, you gotta build something bigger than just sex, bigger than just the word love, but actually mean it. Find that joy in that person, find something that can't be replaced with that person. Um, the happiness that y'all can joke together. You could, if you were a shit talker like me, you could talk y'all shit together. Um, everything under the sun that y'all can do, y'all can go on trips together. When y'all are broke, y'all still can understand. Hey, babe, you don't have it right now. I got your back. Or hey, we don't have it right now, but let's find something to do in the house together. Whether it's shit, we could play rock, paper, scissors, go outside and play cans, whatever you feel like you can do with your person, but make sure you have a friend in your person and um you build that trust, that loyalty, and that respect. Because if your partner respects you, certain shit they wouldn't even do. Because they respect you and they respect themselves. They wouldn't go behind your back to do certain shit. They wouldn't put you in predicaments where you can walk in a room and nigga be like, oh, damn, she she talking to him. I thought she was still fucking with her baby daddy, or oh, I feel like uh she's talking to him. She was just in the club dancing on everybody. Like, or he was just out here talking to 10 different girls. Like, people would not that respect you wouldn't put you in that. And I always tell I don't love is cool, but I want the respect because you can respect a stranger. When you open the door for somebody, it's the respect of being polite and all that. So if you respect me, you respect yourself. You get more out of a person. So that's how I feel. Fuck her. Hope she goes back to her baby daddy and hope it failed again. Um, because I don't have no love for people like that. Why you wasting niggas' time? Um, thank y'all for tuning in for to another episode of Mind Clutter. We out. Peace.

SPEAKER_01 21:11

What's on your mind?