This Voice is Mine: the Unquiet Podcast

Permission to Be Seen: Nervous Systems, Shame, and Voice

In this intimate, reflective episode of This Voice Is Mine: The Unquiet Podcast, Dr Emma Offord and the DL team are joined by Helen Marie, a UK-based registered integrative therapist, author of Choose You, and host of the podcast I Don’t Think We Talk Enough About.

Together, Emma and Helen, along with Jolene and Jo, explore what it really means to grow full size: not as a performance of confidence, but as a nervous-system-led journey of becoming. Helen shares her path from a first career in public health into psychotherapy, and the lived experiences that changed everything, including what happens when you’re pulled into the “helper” role and your own story disappears into survival mode.

This conversation goes deep into the “good girl” conditioning, people pleasing, and the myth of self sufficiency. Emma reflects on the hidden pressure to appear “together” as professionals, and why authenticity is not arriving at a perfect destination, but learning to meet yourself with truth, in real time.

You’ll also hear rich insights on somatic work, safety, and voice: why it’s not enough for an environment to be safe if your internal environment still believes vulnerability is dangerous, and how embodiment becomes the bridge between knowing your story and actually feeling it.

A grounded, soul-level dialogue about permission, growth, and the quiet courage it takes to be seen.

Follow Helen Marie and her work on her Instagram account here.