Being Different Together

#2 - What Our “Enemy Button” Gets Wrong About Conflict

Nyssa Hanger Episode 2

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In this episode of Being Different Together, Nyssa and Kelly dive into what it means to be different and why our brains are wired to treat difference as a threat. They share personal stories from childhood, band days, identity, and relationships to highlight how difference can create conflict or become a catalyst for transformation. The conversation moves from instinct to intentionality, showing how Real Dialogue helps turn conflict into a play space for learning and connection.

Main Topics Covered

  • Ever felt like the “odd one out”? Discover how embracing your differences could be your superpower.
  • Honest and humorous personal stories about growing up feeling “different”—and why that’s totally normal.
  • Find out why noticing differences is deeply human—and how it can shape our relationships for better or worse.
  • What do pickles, band kids, and list-making reveal about partnership and individuality? Tune in for some relatable surprises!
  • Hear how real dialog and intentional communication turn conflict from a “minefield” into a playground for growth.
  • Learn how dialog therapy helped two people navigate their unique quirks and build a strong relationship.
  • Get inspired to see everyday conflicts—in family, work, or love—not as threats, but as opportunities for discovery and self-improvement.


Links:

Episode 1 of Being Different Together: www.nyssahanger.com/podcast/ep1

Ani DiFranco’s song “IQ”: Ani DiFranco - My IQYouTube · HybridFalconOct 21, 2013

Cafe Hey (in Tampa): www.cafehey.com

Center For Real Dialogue: https://www.realdialogue.org/


Stay in Touch:

Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger

Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady