Do We Love That For You?
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Do We Love That For You?
Do We Love... Reminiscing
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The fastest way to time travel is a smell, a taste, or a story you haven’t told in years and we hit all three. We start with real life chaos (recording problems, of course) and a very real update on speech therapy and voice health, including the rules that make daily life oddly hard: no throat clearing, no whispering, and taking breaks before your voice goes rough. If you’ve ever dealt with hoarseness, vocal strain, or a raspy voice, you’ll recognize the struggle immediately.
Then we sink into pure reminiscing: the drinks we miss (yes, Zima makes the list), the foods that only a parent or grandparent knew how to make, and the comfort of old-school TV dinners that somehow taste like being a kid. We talk lawn darts, dodgeball, scooters in gym class, and the kind of “normal” that would absolutely not pass today’s safety standards. The stories get specific, because that’s where nostalgia lives: family parties, fast food that used to be messier, and the little details that still make us laugh.
And just when you think it’s all comfort and throwbacks, we go straight into mediums, psychics, and a long-running family joke about a “hobo in the closet” that turns into something we didn’t expect. We also share a beekeeping update, what we learned from a bee documentary, and why hive life is both adorable and ruthless. Finish it off with rapid-fire opinions on self-driving cars, electric vs gas vehicles, coffee orders, and cutting your own hair.
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Tech Trouble And Welcome Back
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SPEAKER_00Try this again. Try it again. Hello, everybody, and welcome to episode twenty-four. So time's a charm. Maybe. Maybe. It might. So we just started recording and it lasted about what 10 seconds and then cut off. Yep. In the middle of a sentence. But anyway, this is Do We Love That For You? Yes. And we do not love electronics right now. Not at all. Not at all. Not our friends. No. But today's episode is Do We Love Reminiscing. We've done that like all week. I know. And it's awesome because I am sitting here in New York. Yes, you are. I am here next to me. I am. As you guys saw, we went to our Starbucks and our cake pops. That was nice. And it was. It was very nice that Father rented out the whole second. I walked in and I said, everyone, clear out. And everybody looked at me and jumped up and then did nothing because there was nobody in there. So we were there for a good hour and a half. And I think a couple of people trickled in and out, but nobody sat. We've never had it was awesome. Hence we wouldn't have to move chairs or Heather wouldn't have to move a chair if you got it. And I sat us in the middle. You did. It did. I picked a middle table and I did that on purpose. Yep. And we were those, we were those people who go to Starbucks with our computers and we had our laptops and we were working and we made it look like we were so professional. So fancy. And when I saw Zia walking in, I'm like, and I just started typing away on my computer. She looked so fancy. And and I waited until she almost got to the table. I looked up and I was like, yes. Hello. Hello. Are you for meeting? So too funny. I am gonna give a quick update. I know we're gonna talk about it in a little bit, but I am gonna give a quick update. Absolutely. I have been going. Yes, yes. I gave her her personal mic right on her. So she didn't have to scream in mind. I can't. So I have been going to speech therapy to learn how to speak
Speech Therapy And Voice Rules
SPEAKER_00properly. Yes. Um, and it is working. Um, I'm learning how to blow bubbles in a cup, straw. That was fun. She made me do it. I made Zia do it. And then I sing uh me, mei, my, mo, and moo um without using my throat. I have to only use my mouth, and then I can count to 12. Yeah. Um, but without using her throat. My throat. Right. I said her throat. Thank you. Um, she made me try it though. So I did. Um, but long story short, um basically it's I'm going to have voice problems for a while.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Um, I need to limit my talking. Um, I need to make sure I don't over over talk. Right. Um, when my voice gets raspy, I need to take a break. Yeah. I need to keep um my mouth moist.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Um, I'm sorry for those who hate the word moist. I won't say moist again. I will stop. Let's not say moist. Who cares? Okay, good. Because I know I love people who can't say moist. Um, but I do have to. How did we get our podcast name? Sorry. Oh, sorry. Sorry. Um, no, but for real. Um, I this is gonna be a long process. Um, and and it's gonna be a lot of work. Um I've I am doing it all. I want, I don't like my raspy voice. So I am working very hard at fixing it. Trying to figure out some songs I need her to sing for me. So I can probably get that out for you now. Working on that. Probably could definitely well drink your drink for a little bit. Yeah, I do moist. Yeah, and I brought Jolly Ranchers. So you're okay. I'm gonna moisten my mouth. Oh, moisten your mouth, please. Okay, we're annoying. We understand. All right, yeah. So on the drink thing, we led right into that. That was just an easy transition. What drinks do you remember or miss? Zima. I'm gonna start with the number one. Miss Zema so much. Zima. And another did look up for me how I could get maybe a taste of it. Yeah, we found it was a um was it triple black? It was triple black from Seagull. Seagull's
Drinks We Miss From Back Then
SPEAKER_00triple black, they said. And and with New York, it's it was yes, yeah. The results are it's it's closer to a Mike's in that it's a little sweeter, but it has that lemky, limey zima thing. Yeah, but sorry for everybody that lives in upstate New York. Yeah, you can't get it here. You have to go to Manhattan. Sorry for anybody who lives my way in New Hampshire, you have to go to Manhattan to get it. Yep. Um, so we're at a lock. What else do you miss? Um, not much. Um, they they still have my favorite, which is Jack. So that's still out there. Jack's, yeah. But the Bacardi Breezer, um, I just have such good memories, just like laughing with my friend Barb with that. Yeah. And like we one time we kind of sprayed it into her mom's car because we were laughing so much. Did it come out of your mouth spray? No, it was a black tape. We were just laughing so hard. They call those spit. Yeah, and we were like, go, go, go, go, you know, chug, chug, chug. And we spit it, and we ended up cleaning her mom's car that night. And it was so funny because the her mom was just like, Oh, you girls are so sweet, so sweet. Thank you for cleaning the cut. So wonderful. We're like, Yeah, no problem. So the what I miss is a weird thing, and you can judge. I'm okay with that. Go ahead. But when I was in my fire department, who will remain nameless because I was underage, yes, I would never drink. Yes. However, they had all the beer on tap, right? Sure, of course. And they had birch beer on tap. So I would take a half a half a cup of beer. Yeah. And it was, of course, like the Budweiser or the or the what was it? Budweiser or Miller or whatever it was. Yeah. And I would take that and then I would half it with the beer, and then I would finish the cup with the birch beer. Wow. And beer in birch beer. It's amazing how much of that you can drink. Um with the beer, with the root beer, like birch beer. Oh, I did it with smoke beer. I did it with root beer, and it didn't work as well as the birch beer, and none of the quote, old guys knew I was drinking. Oh, naughty girl. Oh, I mean, I'd be if I would if okay, let me reword that if I were to drink, yeah, when I was underage. Yes. So I did a lot of that, but my army memory is Boon Farm and Mad Dog 2020. Yeah, we did mostly the uh Budweiser um and the big ones. The 40 ounce. Yeah, big. And it was funny because I we used to say, well, if we drank half and half, we weren't drinking as much, but we were dumb because we kept drinking them, so we still was drinking a 40 ounce. So see, that's that's what I was doing. Getting half beer, half birch beer. You know, if we both share it, so family reunions and family parties, they always had those Bartles and James wine coolers. Yep, yeah, yep, that's that's so funny. Bacardi breathroots, right? And and Bartles and James wine coolers strawberry, oh strawberry, yeah. Yeah, yeah. I think I threw that up a couple times. Yep, no, yeah, I know, and then a good old Everclear. Oh Everclear. That bird the percentage was it was 190 proof, 190. God, that's 190. And I wonder why I have GI problems. I can't laugh. I'm not supposed to laugh. Do you remember hooch? I don't actually, we didn't do the hooch. I remember it, but I we did not, I did not. I was not not that. I was hooked on my Jack. First taste out great relationship. Yep. Jack is a great buddy. I like it. Yep, yeah. I personally prefer the captain. Uh, yeah, didn't get into the captain. No, no, no, Captain. So enough alcohol. Okay. Go ahead. Do you remember any do you miss any food? Food that you don't eat anymore because it was like somebody in your family made and they're no longer around and you never learn how to do it, or yeah, so like something that's just not made any so my mom Joyce used to make a jello thing, you know, 70s.
Foods That Only Family Made
SPEAKER_00Everybody, all the women brought the jello things. Um, and my daughter Star actually, I think she's perfected it. She my my mom Joyce said she would always leave me the recipe. I think she ate it when she died. Yeah, I don't think we got no, we didn't get it. So I think she ate it. Um, but Star keeps crying for me. Okay. And the last time she made it, she made a big pan for me. And it has to be in a blue dish. For some reason, my gosh, it's always in a green. Always had to be in a blue class was always green. So she actually got the got a blue dish and she made it for me. And I like I used to tell my mom, Joyce, like, birthday, just make it for me. I don't want anything, I just want the jello dish. So she would make it, and so Star came over and she's like, I think I did it. So the last time she made it, like quantities of whatever's perfect. Okay, and she goes, I can give you the recipe. I go, No, you're making it. Just do make it. Now you're just now this is her job. You that is now your requirements. So now we've been making a I've been making a um chia pudding. Oh, and I put the walnuts in this thing and pineapple, which was in the other day. Yeah, and let me tell you, it is so close to this jello thing that all like so what do you talk about as ambrosia? No, it's not ambrosia. No, it's layered, it's like a lasagna. I know I don't have my double screen, but I am Googling it right now. Yep, like I know that a lady at the corner, Inga, that was her name, she gave it to my mom, the recipe. Really? Because I had it at her house, I think, first, and then she gave it to my mom, Joyce, and then my mom Joyce made it, and I was like, Don't stop making that. She's jello jello layered jello dessert. This no, oh okay, hold on. We'll have to look into that, but yeah, so and what about you? Miss anything? Well, when you said jello, I thought of ambrosia, and nobody makes ambrosia like my grandmother made, and my mom used to make it really good. She made it different than my grandma, yeah. But my grandma would have fruit in the ambrosia. That's what this was. They had fruit in it. Layer jello with fruit. Um I'm focused. I'm focused. I gotta oh my she's going down the rabbit hole, ladies and gentlemen. Going down the rabbit hole. That fit? No, good, because that looked ugly. Yeah, that's disgusting. Sorry. Um, yeah, but I guess I'm sure they still make it, yeah. But like, do you ever miss like the weird like chef boyard, like those things used to eat when you were like sick and you worked at it? Um yeah, like that kind of stuff. I think I missed some of the TV meals, TV dinners. Oh, yeah. They used to go in the oven, not in the microwave. Yes, and then metal or yeah, it's almost like a metal thing, like the the disposable metal. So funny story about that. Talk about giving my grandfather, because he would watch the 3D movies with me when they would come on, and he was blind in one eye, so he really couldn't see the movie, but he'd sit on the bed and pretend he with his glasses on, he was watching it. And my mom Joyce would always get him get us TV dinners. So, since Poppy Charles was Italian, I had to get him spaghetti. Had to get him spaghetti, and it would come out of the oven with the little treat and everything, and he'd look at me and go, Hey kid, thanks for picking me uh spaghetti. And I'm like, No problem, Poppy. I know you like it, you know, because we are Italian. We are Italian, and he's like, Yeah, and I'm gonna eat that. I'm gonna eat that spaghetti. Yeah, he was not thrilled, not thrilled, yeah. No, that was when I learned that Salisbury steak was delicious, just a hamburger and grape. Oh, but it's delicious. But I can't make it like a TV dinner salzbury steak. We went out to dinner a couple of weeks ago and I ordered a Salisbury steak. You know why? Because it's just a Salisbury steak, right? Like I can't make it that way, but it's so good, it's so good. Yep, so good. It's I miss that. I miss that kind of stuff. You're right. I do miss the TV dinners and and and that kind of stuff. And um, yeah, I don't know about any snacks that have disappeared. I I think they're all really here. I mean, I but we don't snack like because when we were kids, their taste buds grow and I don't know if they grow. Or at least you pretend snack that way, right? Yeah, I don't think mine ever grew up. I still get a happy meal. You know what I do miss is sloppy McDonald's hamburgers because they the ben used to be a little like messier, like wrinkly, and it they're now they're a little bit more perfect looking, unless somebody doesn't care about it, and then they're like slapped up on there mustard and ketchup from the side. My favorite over in the middle. My favorite that McDonald's person that doesn't care how they make it, boom, my favorite person. Yep, I'm good with that unless I'm driving. Oh, and then I don't want it a messy border, I want it clean and neat. Yeah, but I like when you get the Big Mac and it just like falls apart in your hand and you're ending up like mushing it. But I still don't need Big Mac. I know you don't. Oh god. But no, my menu has not changed from McDonald's. Shocker, yeah. Oh, it has. I think all of it has changed, has changed, yeah, because you don't get your regular Coke anymore. I do get my regular Coke. See ya, yeah, need it. Shame on you. Only place I go, get my regular Coke. You're supposed to be on not zip not sugared. Shame on you. We all know I'm bad. Like Michael Jackson. Who's bad? I'm bad. Um, so alright. Toys. Were this any toys? Uh well, let me think. I don't know. I should have pre-thought about this, shouldn't I? Darn it. It's always good to catch you off guard. It it really is. Um okay. You gotta go there. Okay. Family picnic. Okay. You're in the backyard. Yep. You got
Toys That Would Never Fly Now
SPEAKER_00croquet in the one corner, you got the little Italian women over in the other corner playing bocce. And then the kids are playing lawn jarts. Lawn darts, beautiful, and they actually are dangerous. So dangerous. Heavy. Yes. Love it. Now they're like balls. I don't understand. Or you switch it down to just play cornhole. Sorry, there was no cornhole back in my day. I we never had cornhole. Uh-uh. Nope. Oh. Nope. Those are too easy, you know, whiskey games. Yeah. We didn't have whiskey games. It's like cornhole. Give me a good hard, long. We did it with beanbags, but with beanbags in gym, you chucked them at each other. What did we do with beanbags in gym? They go on the the they go on the parachute. Oh, and you would throw them up and then everybody, the other people would have to catch them. Yep. The girls would go under and we'd throw the things up, the girls would go under and the boys would catch, and then you switch. Yeah. I do remember that. Not really a safe way, but you that's what we did. I mean, we played dodgeball. Oh, yeah, with real dinghy balls. Yeah, not those little rubber playground balls now. We had balls. Yeah. And the and the actual scooters. Oh, yeah. But not trying the ones that they have now. Nope. We had square scooters with a hole in the middle. And sometimes your fingers would get stuck in the wheel. Yep. Because the wheels hold it right. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Good times. I love it. That was fun. It was fun. And you know, I didn't go to the nurse. I was gonna say that. I got so many crooked fingers. And fingers from who knows what? But I didn't go to the nurse that often. Why would you? Plus, I needed my inhaler. Well, I didn't have an inhaler, but I was a puker. Oh. So I remember one time. Subject changed. Sure. I was in second grade, and I remember this because between second grade and third grade, you moved. Well, we were the last second grade class in our one school building. Yeah. And then they closed it and we all moved over to the other building.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00Um, they had built an edition, and now there's like three more editions on it, but you know, anyway. And so I was in second
The School Stairwell Puke Incident
SPEAKER_00grade and it was a three-story building, and the third graders were on the third floor, second graders were on the second floor, first graders in kindergarten were on the first floor. And then in the basement was the cafeteria gym and the offices. Basement, yep, us too. Okay, yeah. So I gave you the layout. So we're at lunch, so we're in the gym slash cafeteria, right? And all of a sudden, I felt like I was gonna throw up. So I tell the cafeteria lady that I'm gonna be sick, and she sends me to the nurse, and there was one of those big stairwells that you know it goes up one side and then midway it turns, and you could look down the middle and see all the way down. Yep. I got almost up to the first floor where the nurse was, and I threw up on the stairs through the hole, covering the upstairs, the hole going down and the downstairs. And I literally got laughing, I'm laughing. That's great. That's that's great. And I literally like shut the school down because they couldn't change classes, yeah, because nobody could get up the stairs. Right. And then when my mom got there, she had to stand at the door and they had to like walk me around the long way to get to my mom so I could go home. But yeah, wow, you shut it down. I shut down just like Starbucks films. Sorry, I'm sorry, drink, sorry, okay, oh my boys, a new drinking game. Keep it moist. Sorry. All right, brought to you by Coca-Cola, known stoke for free. Okay, okay, serious though. Okay, so so sorry, I'm coughing into the mic now. There is a lady at work, and she told me I could use her name, Chrissy. And I count on her. If I go, I feel like I smell something in the school or I smell something, whatever. I'm like, Chrissy, do you smell? And she's like, I swear to God, she says, she goes, I feel like I was a bloodhound in my past life. Because she said, I always
Patterns People And Weird Superpowers
SPEAKER_00smell things sometimes. People don't even smell. She's like, Do you guys smell that? You know, I I count on her to like, you know, what is it? What is it? Tell me what it is, you know. So, do you feel like there is something that you hone in on all the time that you feel like it might be part of a past life or just something that it's goofy that it's just something you do? So, side story, yeah. Go ahead on that. I remember that she had to put a sign on the microwave in the office, yeah, because of the fish. People were heating up fish for lunch, and then that like next day I brought in tuna. Oh my god, I'm like, what do I do? And she's like, It's fine, it's when they cook it, I can't stand it. So I she's allergic, yeah, yeah. So it's very difficult. So I didn't realize that when I brought in my tuna, so I never brought it, or when I did, I ate it in the lobby, but it's like, oh my. Gosh, I felt so bad. She had to put a side quick the one time I opened up the windows for her. I mean, now that we get a breeze, but it was like a list goes out into the vest. Yeah, Lysol. I was like, what are you still doing? Yeah. I saw that going down. I don't need Chrissy going down. But now back to your other question about um I feel like I feel like I'm not the best judge of character, but I'm a judge of character's character. Like if you say, you know, so-and-so is, you know, shady, I can look at them and I can say, oh yeah, because they do this and this and this and this. Like I can hone in on it once it's pointed out. I can find like all your idiosyncrasies and stuff. Um, but I'm not, I know I'm not a good judge of character that way. I've been abused and abused so many times in that sense from friends. Yeah. Or not not friends. Not friends, yes. But um, so I feel like I feel like when you point something out, then I can hone in on it, yeah, and I can get it more specific. Okay. Like if you say, you know, oh, I caught them in a lie, and I'll be like, oh yeah, well, they lied about this and then this and then this, and then like I can like then all of a sudden it like floods into me. Okay. What about you? I don't really know of something like oh, past life kind of thing. I don't know. Um, I'm a huge pattern person. You are. I am. So I look for uh it it clicks immediately. Um, I will find that in two seconds on you, and you better not do it again. Right, yeah. Yeah. Because I'll be like, you always do that. When you do this, then you do that, you know? Um, yeah, so I yeah, I don't know. Maybe I was an investigator in my past life, I don't know, but my grandfather trained me. I mean, he was a police officer. He trained me since you're quite observant. He used to always say, Driving the car, what kind of close your eyes, blindfold me? And he'd be like, What what road are you riding on? What kind? Is it all? Is it this? Is it that? And I'm like, I don't know, you know, or he'd say, Okay, um, we're pulling out of the parking lot or out of the driveway. Where are we? Like without looking, you know, he'd be like, Where where did where are we? Yeah, and I'd have to say, two guys or Kmart or Caldor's or Bradley's, you know, Bradley's up. I know Bradley's way, but James Way, two guys, man. That was yeah, that was our our thing, two guys. Yeah, um, so yeah, it was like I had to hone in and say, Yeah, this is I think we're here. And he's like, Good job. Yeah, you know, so that brings me to a story. Yeah, can I tell you a good story? Absolutely. All right, oh, I cleared my throat. I'm not supposed to. Sorry, don't tell my therapist. Oh, you jumped into another one. I did, but we're not there yet. I gotta tell my other story. So Eliza, when she was little, yeah, used to see spirits. Okay. And I I believe that all kids can see them. Um, whether she believes in them now or not, that's on her, right? Whatever. But at one point, and she was an only child for the bulk of her life, and she never had anybody to blame things
The Hobo Named Charlie Reveal
SPEAKER_00on. So she would blame it on this hobo, right? It was always the hobo in the closet. Okay. And as she got older, she would tell me stories about this hobo in the closet, and it was always funny, and we would blame the hobo. Right. And then she got older, and the hobo still did things that Eliza wouldn't do. Okay. So we used to laugh that the hobo did it. Yeah. Hobo was with us. Right. And um, fast forward, yeah, I moved to New Hampshire. Right. And the hobo came. Oh. So I was talking to Rich, and I'm like, I think whatever this hobo is is attached to me. Yeah. He's gotta be attached to me. Yeah. So Rich found this medium. Okay. And we went to her um Wednesday night. Yeah. And by the way, she's phenomenal. We're gonna tag her in this. Um and she did some cold readings to begin, and then she asked in the group, there was about 50 of us there, and she asked in the group if anybody wanted a specific reach out. So I acknowledged that I did, and I told her about the hobo. Yeah, and how you know Eliza saw the hobo and and it stayed with us as we grew up, or she grew up. And I said, So I just want to know who it is that's attached to and she started laughing, and she says, He doesn't want to be called a hobo, his name is Charlie. Uh-huh. Gotta love a Charlie. I gotta love a Charlie. So I was like, oh, and come to find out, he's not a ghost, he's me from a past life. Oh, see? And I don't know how I feel about that. I didn't think I believed in that end of it, right? I guess if I believe in spirits, why wouldn't I believe in past life? But I do believe in spirits, and I do believe they are out there and they're around us all the time. Um, but yeah, so Charlie is our hobo, love it, who traveled using trains, and that's how he explained it to Eliza. And at the time, I was talking to Eliza yesterday, and at the time there was that uh American Girl Doll movie about uh whatever it was, it was in the early 20s, and people were hobos back then, and I don't remember what the doll's name was, but but she loved that movie and she had that doll and whatever. But um, but yeah, so very cool. Yeah. So apparently, yeah, Charlie hangs with me and and helped me. And you have a t-shirt that hangs with you. I think they spell it different. Yeah, but you know what? They're still pretty cool. Yeah, so yeah, I thought that was really interesting. And so you and I want to go. Yes, absolutely. And like I said, we're gonna tag her in this. And if you're in the vicinity in the New England area, she does a lot of traveling. We were looking, absolutely, she's all over Vermont, New Hampshire, Mass, and New York. Yep. So I am going back to her because she was awesome. Yeah, awesome. Yeah, I I've only been um one time. Oh well, two times. We went to Salem one time, the girls and I. Um, so it's Michaela um Starr and I. Um we took a little girls' trip and we went to this one guy. Uh, we weren't too happy. He didn't pull things accurately. But Starr and I went in Florida one time, and yeah, that pulled a lot. Wow. Yeah, and my grandfather, Charles, Charlie, he came through and he never does. It's usually my grandmother that pops right up. And he wanted to know that I like didn't want to talk to me, but wanted me to know that I was there and that he was gonna send me something. I don't know. But he the lady was like, you know, I knew it was him because he said a nickname that uh he always called me, and I was like, What did you just say? Like it caught me because I haven't I hadn't heard the nickname in like since the kids passed away. So um, you know, everybody kind of looked at me like, really, does that mean something? You know, and I was like, the heck, you know, what the hell is that? Oh my gosh, that's crazy. So that was cool. So her name is Brandy Wells. I had to look it up. I had it on my computer so that I could remember, but I'm on just my laptop. But her name is Brandy Wells, and we will tag her, we will tag her, and then Z and I are gonna go, and maybe we'll take a little do like a reel or something while we're air of it or whatever. It was she was amazing. Yeah, so very cool. So, since you're not allowed to clear your throat, how about you mention that? Well, so I mentioned last week that my therapist, my speech therapist, said a bunch of times, I love that for you. Yeah, and I didn't acknowledge it until the very end. So when I went back this week for therapy, for speech therapy, um, we walked in and she says, I have to tell you, I told my boyfriend about you, and I was like, Really?
Throat Clearing Habits And Fixes
SPEAKER_00And she was like, Yeah, and then she goes, and then we counted how many times over the weekend I said, I love that for you. That's amazing. And I said, That's okay. My husband said that you mean it sarcastically and snarky. So when you say it to me in speech therapy, I'm supposed to be a mad. Yeah, and she laughed and she goes, I love that. And I started laughing. And did you ask her if she was from Jersey? Oh forgotten. Oh god, Jersey's so important. I'll have to ask her. Okay. Um, but anyway, one of her rules is you can't clear your throat. I cannot clear my throat and laugh. And and laugh, and I can't whisper. Don't be a happy person. Exactly. Just next to me, um see? So, but you know what she said? She said for people who are throat clearers, yeah, it's one of the hardest habits to break. Wow. Because what you need to do instead of clearing your throat is swallow. Yeah, and you were telling me that, and it's very hard to it when I when I need to clear my throat, I need to take a drink and swallow it hard. Yeah, or swallow my own saliva. Yeah. But you have to if you do it hard, if you do it soft or take a sip, it doesn't work. Yeah, you still have the urge to clear and you need to swallow hard. And I clear my throat like a hundred times a day, and I didn't realize that until I was thinking constantly because I kept drinking the water. So I'm working on that right now, and it's hard, yeah, it's a very hard habit to break. I didn't know how hard it was until. Yeah. So it's amazing, huh? But you have a medicine story, I do, a medical story, yeah. So one of my pills that I take for my cholesterol, it had changed size. Ugh. So I shouldn't either yeah, no. Um, so I was like, why is it did they give me the right medicine? Like, you know, you doubt it. You don't ever know, right? So I had Michael go online and check this pill. Yeah. And he said, Yeah, it
When Pills Change Size
SPEAKER_00comes in several sizes. And I was like, Oh my god, I'm like, this is crazy. So I was doing fine with it. So one night I walk out and I'm like, Oh, something's in the roof of my mouth. And I'm like, what the heck? Like, I didn't need anything, like you know, so I'm like trying to breathe through my nose, like sucking my nose, you know. Like, okay, get it out of the roof of my mouth. Oh no, and I was like, Oh my god. So I I said to Michael, I I'm not okay. So and so I all of a sudden, like I must have like sniffed or sniffled, sniffled in, you know, I don't know. And all of a sudden the pill went to my throat and I coughed and the pill came out. No, like Michael's like, Oh my god, are you okay? And I was like, Stupid piss, like damn little pill funny. I'm like, what the heck? How do I take control of this little tiny pill? Yeah, so now I've been I have a larger pill, so I've been taking that first and putting the larger pill second. Okay, so they kind of like knock it down. Um, because I am not I'm a person that actually can take pills without water. Oh no. So and I learned that very early because when I was little, I had to take um not prentizone. Um, you're allergic to print theater, theater. Um, and it I used to have to take this, and I couldn't swallow a pill. Okay. So my mom had this little glass and she kept it in the bathroom on the shelf with a little bow tied on it. Can we guess what color the bow was? Anybody? It's not black. Anybody guess the color of the bow? So I was very excited about that. Z is all-time favorite color. All time favorite. Said no one ever. Yes. So she would pull the because I couldn't do it on ice cream or I couldn't do I I applesauce, nothing, deli, no, not breaking things. So the only way I could do it is to drink water. So she'd sprinkle it in the morning on top of the water, and I would just keep chugging water until all the little beads came down. So that's why you were drinking at such a young yeah, dude, shot along. So I was like, this is awful. So I was like, how am I gonna do this? Because it the water would make me nauseous, and then I just didn't like water. Right. So I would take it and I'd chuck it all the way back into my throat, mm-hmm, where like you've already swallowed it and you don't know. And that was it. Yeah, I know. I have a gag reflex that's epically bad. Oh no. I I can't even I struggle to even have x-rays in my mouth. Oh, yeah. Yeah. So no, I I I don't understand. Yep. I don't understand at all. But I get it. Yeah, it's a I I hate when my pills change size. Yeah. I have one pill that I take. I take two of them at a day, or you know, two of them at the same time. Yeah. And they've always been um tic-tac shaped. Oh, okay. And this came out like a perfect square. This last batch. So Rich looked it up for me, and sure enough, and me I had the same numbers on it, so I know it's your pill. But Rich looked it up and he goes, Yep, that's the same thing. And I'm like, I don't want a square pill. Yeah. Or a rectangle pill. I how am I supposed to take a rectangle? Right, right. That's terrible. So terrible. Yeah. So I've been watching this guy on Instagram, and we're gonna tag him because I just I can't get enough of this. You're not taking your notes. I don't you take notes while we're no, I take them when I listen to it. Oh, okay. So he definitely does things very quick, so that's very good for me. Like, I I need things like you're gonna give me information,
Fast Tips And Movie Comforts
SPEAKER_00give it to me in five seconds, right? Don't like he went to the park, and then he saw a tree, and on the tree was leaf. No, please, just tell me that what you did with the tree. I kicked two, yeah, right. Thank you. I pulled off a branch and I beat you with it. Love it. So he goes very quickly, he plays really good song. Um, and he says, How many things you can grow with seeds? Just like get a piece of fruit, cut it in half, get a seed, plant it, do the thing with this. Yeah, got eggshells, grind them up, put them in your plant, use them for this, use them for that. Coffee grounds, love it. Just I can't get enough of this. You have to send me this link. Well, you're gonna post it, so I'll get it. Yep, but you guys gotta go check him out. It's awesome. Lots of good ideas. He says you video, yep. Cleaning stuff, everything. Clean a pot, clean a pan, boom, done. That's and it's literally how quickly he says it. That's for you. Thank you. I love it for me too. It's great. I love it from him. Yeah, but he's able to connect to you. Awesome. Yep, very speedy information. If anybody wants to tell me something, tell me in that speed. That's great. You do really.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00Uh can you tell sloths aren't my favorite? All right, what's up with you in Planet of the Apes? Oh my god, I love my Planet of the Apes, and they make me so happy. I mean, I know it's such a bad story, but I love this. But I'll give it to you. I can't get enough of my Zara or Zara, whatever they want to say. I can't, she's changes with every generation. Yeah, she's so cute. And oh my god, I you know, I love my Charlie too, because my Charlie just reminds me of them too sometimes. I mean, she looks like them to a degree. I mean, she could only talk, and it's funny because when I talk, she mouths, but she doesn't but nothing comes right. So it's kind of like that, it's like the puppet mouth. I didn't miss Marcia's constant cry. Oh, see the German Shepherd cry at thousand decibels all day long. I like that. I'm I love Marcia. Yes, I love Marsha. Yeah, I love Marcia to love Marsha's to know Marcia, exactly. I mean, Marcia's Marsha. There's there's no dog like Marcia, yeah, he's Marsha. Yep, but yeah, but you gotta, I mean, yeah, okay. I know they came out with new Planet of the Apes, okay. The new one I'm not a fan of. I did I do watch the old ones, yeah. And I I did get I I did get sentimental to Caesar, the because that was the main character in the one the new ones. Okay, and I feel really bad for him. And I did like him, even though he's a naughty guy, I did like him. Um, but yeah, it's just the whole I don't know, I'm such a huge planet of the apes fan, I can't even take it. And I think just the way they moved, the way they was just like, how could they do this at this time? And I know they were like before us, but how could they do it? You know, my question is is how did they do it? Right, there was no CGI back then. Yeah, there was a lot of there was like those were pretty much people, yeah. They were there was no CGI, there was no but to get these people, yes, that's what I'm saying, and costumes and makeup and makeup and and get them all out there and doing all these moves. And I mean, when you think about that, and if you haven't watched it, go watch it, go watch the old ones first, watch the old ones first, same thing, you know? Yeah, oh god, same thing as Star Wars, you gotta watch the old ones. Watch the old ones before you watch the new ones. Yeah, Eliza did that. Oh my gosh, and it was obviously not Planet of the Age, but she wanted to watch Footloose years ago. She's like, I want to watch Footloose. I'm like, all right, I'm like, it's on Amazon Prime, go get it on Amazon Prime, absolutely, and she's like, Okay, she calls me. Rich and I were somewhere, and she calls me like two and a half hours later, and she's like, Mom, that's the stupidest movie I've ever seen. Well, I don't like Footloose, like that's okay, but Eliza likes musicals, yeah. She likes that kind of stuff. I like them too. So I'm like, what are you talking about? And she's like, first of all, I didn't even understand. She's like, she's like, I don't know what you're doing. So I'm like, so Rich goes, wait, he goes, what year was it made? Oh, and so she looked and it was like 2006, it was made. And he's like, Oh, he's like, Honey, you watched the wrong one. Yeah, yeah. And so she was like, Oh, and it took her a long time to be able to go back and watch the original one because it was apparently I never watched it, but apparently it sucked. Yeah, I I didn't like Foot Loose when it came out, and I hate the song even more. The the song I'm tired of. Yeah, I it's like it was so played out. Yep, so much. Yep. So, um, yeah, did you want to talk about the bee show that we were watching since the National Geographic B show? And I didn't even know you watched it. I didn't know you didn't. And so my dad actually reached out to me and he was like, You have to watch it, it's about bees, and your bees are coming. Yeah, speaking of oh, you're getting all my bees are gonna be here. I'm picking up my first um hive on Tuesday. I love it, and then the second hive is gonna be right after we record next Saturday.
Bees Hives And Drone Drama
SPEAKER_00So next Saturday when we record, I will have one of my two hives. I love that so I do that's sarcastic. All sarcastic. Yeah, um, I love it for me too, and I'm so excited. I will reveal, we'll reveal pictures as they come and we'll reveal hive names. And if you know me enough, I'm gonna name my queen because yeah, you can't just have queen, she has to be queen somebody. So all that will be revealed when we get along and I'm super excited, but uh, but my dad reached out and was like, you need to watch the bee show. And I'm like, sure. So Rich found it, and because we don't have Disney or whatever it was on, but we watched it, and apparently it's available almost everywhere now. Yep, absolutely, and uh we watched it, and from as you guys all know, I've been doing for about two years now. I've been learning about bees and educating myself on bees and stuff. So a lot of drinky drink. Thank you. So a lot of it was do this. We always do this, too. I know a lot of it was very, very accurate, and and I understood probably 90% of it. And then there was some smart, there was some of it that I didn't quite know. And when I researched it, obviously it was factual. And um, I I we should post the video. Yeah, I found a video after watching that of the girls picking the drones out of the hive. Yeah. And it is, I think I showed you the video. Yeah, and it is the cutest video ever. So cute. And we'll tag it. We'll well, I'll have to send it to you so you can post it because it is so funny because they literally just carry the drone out and throw him over the edge. They're not needed. You're not dead or alive. No, go dead or alive, yeah. You your job, all they do is eat eat and reproduce. Eat shit and eat, eat shit and die. Literally, eat shit and fuck. Yeah. Oh, I'm symbolic. I accepted. But no, but really, that's all they do. And when they when it's too late in the season to to mate with a queen, yeah, get out. We're done. And they're they said that they were born later in the season, too. So I mean, come on. So they're not even needed. Yeah, absolutely not needed. Bye. Eating my food, get out, get out, yeah. Yeah, so I loved it. But yeah, that bee show was amazing. Yeah, very good. I did watch it. My bees are coming. Updates and and all the information. I'll I'll share it all. Excited. And yeah, yeah. So yeah, but good. So we go from bees to mice. Oh, bees to mice, huh? And then we're gonna have to start wrapping up. We're way late already. Well, we're we're right next to each other. I know that's making it harder. That does make it harder to shut up. It really does. Yep, and we're Talking quietly because her husband's taking a nap. Yep, yep. And Charlie's doing so good. She's got her crunching. Oh, was she crunching? I didn't even hear her crunching. You got cops driving around here. What's happening with that today? Oh my god. Mickey Mouse. Oh, Mickey Mouse. See, that's that's why we're so late today. Yep. So Heather said she didn't want to know this story until I told it. But when I was little, um I love Mickey Mouse. And I had, you know, I was part of the Mickey Mouse Club. I have a picture of me with my Mickey Mouse ears on. I have a Mickey Mouse watch from when I was younger, and um, which actually my daughter-in-law looked up to see if it was worth anything for me, but
Mickey Mouse And The Missing Tail
SPEAKER_00yeah. Um, so we were like, um, there was a big thing at the ball. I think it was Woodbridge Mall. And they used to have like these little entertainment things, you know, going on, and Mickey Mouse was coming. I was so excited. So my mom's like, we're going, we're going to Mickey Mouse. So big crowd, all kids sitting down, and you know, I always had to be the prim and proper child, behave, don't say anything. So it was question time, and they're like, Do you have a question for Mickey Mouse? Anyone? And a few kids asked their question. I raised my hand, I'm like, got a question, got a question. And my mom was like, Sprout, oh my gosh, it's gonna ask a question at four or five years old. It's great. So I go, Where's Mickey Mouse's tail? And all the kids were like, Huh. I go, Where's his tail? And the guy goes, Oh, you put it in his pants, and of course, the uh at any age can't just leave things alone. And I said, Well, if he's the real Mickey Mouse, I want to see it. So an upheaval went above and beyond about where the hell is Mickey Mouse's tail? It should be out of his pants. Where is it? So my mom grabbed me because riots were starting of you know, young kids trying to find Mickey Mouse's tail. Where's the tail? She's right, where's the tail? Oh no, it might not be the real Mickey Mouse, and that was like my favorite part because you always he would sing and whistle, and his tail would be going the opposite way of him. And I'm like, he has no tail. So literally, I feel like I was sitting there the whole time, like this is bullshit, it's not real. All right, mandela. Where's Curious George's? Right. So, where's all the tails? Where's the tails? You're gonna make him accurate with this costume. What is damn tail? Give it a tail, yeah. Give him a tail. What's so wrong about that? So last week after we recorded, Rich was having a great time. And I think he was rich at this moment. I don't think he was officially our producer. Um, but he put on his producer hat and and said something to you. Forget what it was now. What did he do? No, you started it. What did I say? I don't even remember. It was in text, and I don't have let me see. Uh, you're we're recording, so I don't remember. No, I don't. Let me see. I think it was on our Facebook chat, wasn't it? Oh, let's see. Let's see. Oh, let's see. So go ahead. So, in any event, while she's looking up what was said, yeah, she goes, she said something. So I repeated it to Rich across the kitchen. And Rich goes, I'm just gonna make her voice Miss Piggy then. And so I texted Zia and said that. And and she laughed and she goes, Do it. Yeah. So I said, I said, Miss Piggy's pissed about everything. Right. So I told him that he could do it. So she may be Miss Piggy this week. Yeah, I don't know, man. And and my voice is a little changing because I keep taking Motrim for my hip, which we might have to update on that one. I can't find it right now, but if we find it, we'll have to tell you what it was about. Screenshot it and find out. Um, but yeah, I'm taking Motorin, a lot of Motorin for my hip right now. We're trying to figure out if we're getting surgery or not. But um, the more Motron I'm taking, it's acting out my um GI problems. So Dr. Polito's not gonna be bad, you know, happy about that. But yeah, it's okay. Well is what it is. Yep, I know. All right, what you gotta do. All right, all right, what time is it? 4640. 46 50. Ready? 50. We'll do it at 50. All right, ready? I think that's what it was. I think I think it had to do with the I think I'll bet you I don't know. Five minute loves. Do you drink more now or less than you did when you were younger? Well, it depends on what you want. I mean, drunk Heather has been requested at some events. Okay. All right. Um, drunk Heather is awesome.
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SPEAKER_00Drunk Heather agrees to everything. Oh. Has no
Five Minute Loves Rapid Fire
SPEAKER_00I might not like drunk Heather that much. Oh no, you would, because Heather agrees to everything. But I don't like when you agree to everything. Yes, but if you want me to go kick someone, I will happily go kick them.
SPEAKER_02Oh, oh.
SPEAKER_00I agree to it everything. I would do it anyway. Um, also, Drunk Heather wants to stand on tables to see how tall she can be or f them to see how strong she is. Huh. Um, so yeah, but in reality, drunk Heather doesn't come out very often anymore because of all the meds. Yes, absolutely. So I drink much less than I do, no, than I did. Yeah, and a lot of it is to do with my medical issue uh issues and the meds that I'm on. Yeah, um, but yeah, yeah. Drunk Heather, when when Drunk Heather comes out, she is a lot of fun. Okay. I what about you? I definitely don't drink. Oh, I mean, I have to be at a really special thing to have a drink. Um, I just I feel nothing to have a drink anymore. Like I just I don't find any pleasure in having a drink anymore. Um, I'd rather have a Coca-Cola full sugar, that'd be great. Um, that's exciting to me. Um, but yeah, I definitely do not drink as much as I did when I was younger. Yeah. Um, if if I do drink, I get even more honest than I am honest now. Oh my god, can you imagine if we were together? Yeah, like so, like if I have an issue with you, it's all coming out, and then you just tell me to hit him, and I would people say, No, no, no, she doesn't know what she's talking about right now because she's drinking. And I'd be like, I say, I'd be like, let's flip the table at him. Yeah, and I'm I'm like, Fool, like, I'll throw up and still continue to argument. I love that for you. Yeah, yeah. Um, yeah, so I do not like to drink. Uh you know what's interesting is Angela talks about her immediate group of friends, yeah, her high school friends and stuff, they still go out for drinking. Oh, but the kids in college, because she went back to college, so she's admittedly in class with kids who are a little bit younger than her, but they don't want to drink. Yeah, it's just you feel like there's like a line where all of a sudden, like, I don't know, it's just weird. I don't know, I just don't see any pleasure in it anymore. And it's funny because people at work are like, Oh, I have a drink today. Oh, the day was terrible. And I'm like, I don't drink. They're like, You do this job without drinking? And I'm seriously, yeah, so you can get through your day too. If you yeah, yeah, well, right. Okay, all right, go ahead. So the next one. When you go to Starbucks, yeah, you don't do Dunkin', but if you did go to Dunkin' or a specialty coffee shop, what do you order? Do you order the same drink every time? Do you order different drinks? So my uh drink, yes, Starbucks, all the same, the same one. Um, and actually, it's kind of a family drink too. I think we all order that one. Yeah, and I never had it until you gave it to me, and now that's all I drink is that um and Duncan. Well, I just always remember Alex, like anytime he was feeling sick and he was little, I'd be like, What do you want to make you feel better and happy? And he goes, I would like my uh moch uh mocha swirl latte over at um Dunkin' Donut. Okay. Mocha swirl latte with whipped cream. So we would always yes with the whipped cream. Yep. So and then I it's like when do we get like local ones? I like to see what their seasonal ones are and then do those, you know, try something there. Yep. So for me, Starbucks, you converted me. Yeah. So I'm now your family. Yeah, so I get your drink, but it's fine. Dunkin', I like to do if I'm needing to be focused, I want a Dunkin' hot coffee. Just okay, hot coffee, yeah, extra cream, yeah, and go. But if I'm like hanging out or gonna be hanging out, I want the iced. Okay. Um, and then I used to get the Dunkin' uh uh was it? Uh sweeten. Oh, I forget how the order used to go. It was like two coffees, light and sweet, light and sweet. Yep, yep. Um, and specialty coffee. Um, I'm gonna be honest, I generally Eliza, if it's a specialty coffee shop in this area, Eliza's been there. Okay. So I call her and I'm like, Eliza, or I'll text her, what do I want to get from this place? And she'll tell me because if I don't like it, I won't drink it. Yeah, no. And she's like, don't waste your money. So she keeps it and then scolds me for texting her. She's like, You could remember this, you know. And I'm like, Yeah, but you tell me. Yeah, yeah. So yeah. All right. Do you believe in psychics, mediums, and the true calls? Um, yes. Yeah, me too. I do. I mean, there's nothing more to say, whether it's fun or not, whatever. You know what? It connects me to what I want to be connected to or what I think I want. I agree. Yeah. All right. This next one. Yes, go ahead. I showed you a video today. And I said, Do you want to watch? I showed you two videos. And I said, Do you want to watch an OMG video or an OMFG video? Which order? And you did the OMG first, and then you did the FG. Yep. So and you also said she was my Eliza. Which I did. I I said your Eliza sent you two videos. So, with that said, self-driving cars or not? No, I don't trust. Come on, I don't trust people. How am I gonna trust a car? They were in a car, it's in it made a left-hand turn. It did, and it parked and it backed into a parking space. Scary. Oh my gosh. Scary. No, and she sent me a video. Do you remember the video she sent me where she was in the Waymo? Yeah. No, no, we don't like them. No, I don't trust, I don't trust them. I don't trust them. So with the self-driving cars, electric, gas, or diesel. Definitely not an electric car. I own one. Michael owns one. That's true. And I hate that thing. I I have not driven that. I drove, I drove that car to see if I drove. Yeah, if I like to drove the car. No, if I like to drive the car, I did not like to drive the car. It's too quiet for me. Um, I need to hear my car. I need to hear an engine. Although it would be great for the music. No, it's not. No, no. Oh, no. Totally different. I need I need the feeling of the car with the the vibrating of the car. I need it all. Yep. All right. Yeah. I need a real car. Yeah. Um, I don't I travel too much for an electric car. Yeah. I mean, even traveling around New Hampshire. I mean, to get to the VA hospital is almost a 45-minute drive. I would get there and have to plug in just so I could drive home. Yeah. So for me, I don't know. I just want the electric. Um gas, of course, excuse me. I'm drinking soda. Yeah. Um gas, I'm fine with diesel is expensive. Yeah. You know what? I was I drove the school bus for so long, they don't bother me. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So if if I get a car that's a diesel, okay, whatever. Yep. I always I always laugh when they say electric cars, right? Okay. And then you watch a movie and they have to prepare a car to leave somewhere. So it's like years because they're underground, you know, guy, right? And we were watching, it was a beekeeper, I think it is, with uh my adjacent statham. And he goes in the garage and he flips the cover off the thing and it's already ready for him to go. It's packed up with everything. And I said to Michael, he'd have to charge the car. It would be ready to go. But he needs blur or wind or whatever. I drove right, right? I don't know. All right, let's get this last one. Yep. Do you cut your own hair or not? Um, so no. I mean, when I was like six, probably. Um, but I don't care what haircut I get because it's hair to grow back. So if I go to the salon and they don't cut it the way I think I want them to, yeah, I don't care. It's hair. Yeah. Um, yeah, but I'll go to the salon. I prefer somebody else to do it. Eliza's cut it a few times. During COVID, Eliza's a yeah. Oh, that was bad. Sorry. Voice is going. Yep. Um, Eliza cut my hair in COVID. Okay. Um, but no, I go to a salon. Do you go to the salon? So uh so everybody knows I cut my own hair. Um, I actually cut my hair last night. Um, and I do have a student that I promised that if she became a you know selectional hair hairstylist, I would go get my hair. And I had been. And so if she listens to this, she's not gonna be happy that I cut my hair again. Anyway, I do have a short haircut now because last night I had fun. And yeah, so I do do a good job. So whatever. So I cut my whole family's hair when they were younger. Um, I passed military inspection in my husband's haircut. Um, I passed inspection. So that was a you know, that was good. That was like a challenge every time. Um, and I um I enjoy to cut my hair. I enjoy cutting my own hair. Yeah, yeah. I do I did find like when I was in uh Virginia, I had one lady that I really liked and I stuck with her. Um I had a lady here for a while and uh I did stick with her, and then when she left, I that was it, you know. Uh if people leave and I can't find them, then I'm done. Okay. Yep. But um, I do go to my student, you know, I haven't gone in a while, but I really wasn't sure what I want to do with my hair. I always want my Asian haircut that's you've had the same haircut almost all the time I've known you. My pistachio guy from you know, Tokyo Drift. Almost the same haircut since you've known me too. Yeah, but you know what Alex told me about talking about, you know, people that have passed and everything. He says to me the other day, he goes, You know why you like that guy, right? And why you like his haircut? And I'm like, No. And he's like, It's your Uncle Joey. And then I thought for a moment and I was like, Oh my god, it's my Uncle Joey. It's my uncle Joey's haircut, it's feathered, it's like flat and it's feathered, layered beautiful. That's so crazy. So I think this is our longest episode. Yeah, well, but it's the end of our season, it's the end of season two, yeah. End of season two season three coming. Season three next week. That's right. With my voice. Yep, yep. All right, guys. It has been a wonderful day. I'm so glad I got to record in person with you.
Season Finale And Mother’s Day
SPEAKER_00Me too. It was amazing. Yep. So next week we're back to normal though. Yep. You can ask me. We might actually have to record Friday night, depending. Sorry, Ava Force, be with you. Whoa, where are we? I'm trying to close out of our thing, and like I keep hitting Facebook and it keeps thinking people talk at me. I will be tagging and um oh yeah, that's Zia's job. Yep, I post it, Zia tags it. Yep, and uh have a great weekend and happy Mother's Day to those mommies out there. Stay to all the moms, dog moms, people moms, all the moms, cat moms, yep, and the real moms that push babies out, and the real moms, and bonus moms, yes, and whatever mom you want to be. That's right. You know what? If you care for anything, you're a mom, you're a mom. Yep. All right, have a great one. Bye. Bye.