The Noah Frequency

[20] Nothing About Your Life Is Random

Stephen Berkley

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In this episode of The Noah Frequency, Noah explores one of the central illusions of the human experience:

the belief that life is random.

From relationships and loss…
 to timing, struggle, and even the people who challenge us most…
 Noah suggests that far more is unfolding beneath the surface than the identity can perceive.

This conversation explores:

  •  Why “chance encounters” may not exist 
  •  The difference between identity and essence 
  •  How life experiences shape — but do not define — you 
  •  The role of soul agreements and interconnectedness 
  •  And why seeking itself is part of the human journey 

At the center of the discussion is a simple but difficult idea:

that your life may be unfolding with far more intention…
 than your mind is currently able to recognize.

SPEAKER_03

Frequency over the channel consciousness name speaks through transmedium neat sauce. Fielding questions about life's mysteries and about you. What follows is not an interview, but rather a QA with the spirit world. I'm your host, Stephen Berkeley. Greetings, Noah. It's wonderful to have you with us today.

SPEAKER_05

That is the condition of the body. The ability to recognize love. This is and always shall remain your essence. So understand, my dear.

SPEAKER_02

Even what your identity perceives as pain is truly an illusion. For it is the love of your essence that provides the foundation for pain to be experienced through the human lens. Intentional growth. But the growth is not as you perceive it. Through the identities framework. It is merely love experience to different degrees. Notice the difference, my dear ones. If you reflect on your entire incarnation, when you were experiencing those difficult moments, and you were experiencing perceived pain, your essence was experiencing love through a different understanding. And that is your essence experienced the love, my dear ones. Each parallel incarnation was also experiencing love. So truly, it was love you were experiencing, disguised as pain.

SPEAKER_03

Yes.

SPEAKER_02

So even my dear, as you have articulated numerous times, that your difficulty is that you are tethered to your identity. It is still created by your essence, my dear. It is, yes, thank you, Noah. When one is beginning the journey to remembrance, they are experiencing a multitude of emotions. Love. Nothing has changed, my dear ones. Your remembrance to your own essence includes the various degrees of love. The familiarity, the identity perceives as the norm, as the journey, perception, which is incomplete. Senses the loss of loved ones, heartbreaking, the desire to experience unconditional love while incarnate. This is not necessarily what is occurring, my dear ones. You are experiencing your own essence in a different expression of emotion. Question is not if it is occurring. The question is why is it occurring? So many perceive that their own remembrance is focused mainly on their journey, their healing, their understanding. But my dear ones, you are still experiencing your incarnation, and therefore there's purpose to what you are experiencing. If you are a loving, compassionate, generous, selfless essence, perhaps that is your true purpose, to speak your truth unwaver, to offer insight, regardless of how you may be perceived, to lovingly, unknowingly guide others to their own remembrance of essence. That is the truth, that is the true purpose, that is love. Exactly, my dear.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, it is, thank you.

SPEAKER_02

Wonderful.

SPEAKER_03

Just to ask a question on as to what you're talking about right now, uh there there are no accidents. You said earlier.

SPEAKER_02

Indeed.

SPEAKER_03

All relationships are by design. Indeed. There's been times in my history where I dropped the glove and the person behind me picked it up and gave it to me. And I never saw that person again. Are you saying all chance encounters are by design?

SPEAKER_02

That wasn't even stranger. That's in the street, my dear. In that moment, your eyes lock. Momentary pause. There is an instant recognition. Your mind is so heavily consumed with the task of that day, that there is a jolt, if you will, of a remembrance. And most often, my dear, the gaze lingers, followed by a smile, a nod, a warmth. Perhaps, my dear, the one that smiled. But then another parallel incarnation, my dear, is providing a powerful dynamic of a relationship. Perhaps the stranger who assisted you with retrieving what you dropped, my dear, is also simply more a friend or a stranger in another parallel reality. Nothing is random, my dear. Everything is by design as you stay.

SPEAKER_03

Okay?

SPEAKER_02

Notice, my dear. Articulate the intelligence of essence or the intelligence of non-physical incarnate. The focus is on the intelligence. You perceive your intelligence, my dear, with this one singular incarnation, you recognize. You perceive, you possess the ability to enhance your intelligence the more you absorb, research, listen, ask. But all essence, my dear, is interconnected. Therefore, my dear, all wisdom surpasses any individual wisdom of an incarnate. And all wisdom is shared. So you perceive the staggering number, the population of your reality. During this timeline that you are privy of, you are also equally uncertain, my dear. How many are actually you, your essence? How are you so certain, my dear? The stranger who retrieved what you drop is not another parallel version of you, my dear. That is by design, my dear. And most of your experiences would never have occurred. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_03

It is, but why would it be I'd be cautious if I had that information?

SPEAKER_02

My dear. You would recognize which relationships were going to offer you great pain. And you would select not to engage with them. You would recognize the decisions you perceive you create, and you would take an alternate route. And in doing so, my dear, you're sending reverberation across all incarnations and all diverse trajectories of your own timeline.

SPEAKER_03

It is.

SPEAKER_02

So even though you have been listening, you've been deducing your own interpretation. And you remember your essence, my dear. The wisdom you are to articulate to your platform is coming from the remembrance. That does not equate to it being stored within the conditioned mind. It is as if it is bypassing, my dear, your intellect. Utilizing this vessel, my dear, that does not equate to all the words and all dialogue is being retained within this vessel's conscious mind, also conscious. But what is intended for this vessel to retain remains. Is that clear?

SPEAKER_05

Yes.

SPEAKER_02

This is also your intuition, my dear. You merely receive. To us, all is meant to occur as intended, my dear. There is no difference. Once more, it is your essence who crafted your identity purposefully. Is that clear, my dear? It is perhaps a question or topic another wishes to express the video.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, Randy had her hand up earlier. Randy, you still have a question?

SPEAKER_00

I do. It's it's thank you, Stephen.

SPEAKER_02

I know my dear one.

SPEAKER_00

Greetings. Um, my question is um I understand that my essence created my identity. And so as I'm working to soften my identity, is my do what does my essence soften my identity?

SPEAKER_02

This is all the emotions you have experienced. There is no division. Your attempt to soften the control of the identity, my dear, is what is allowing you to experience our emotions. Well, it actually is occurring, my dear, simultaneously, is that you. Are you consciously attempting to solve for the controlling identity while you are returning to your own essence? This occurs, my dear, intentionally, for you to recognize the true love of your essence. It is not merely to experience the emotion, it's to become the emotion. To express that pure condition of love effortlessly, my dear, without the controlling identity, without the distortion, the interference. First you experience it, my dear, intimately. And then you offer it effortlessly. And that is how you affect the many. That is purpose. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_00

It is clear. What I'm understanding too is that you can't soften the identity from the controlling identity. That doesn't work.

SPEAKER_02

You are softening the control, my dear. You're not softening the identities.

SPEAKER_00

Ah, you're softening. Okay.

SPEAKER_02

The identity must remain tact, my dear. This is how you remain rooted within the human experience. The control is the illusion. The control is based on each and every experience you have endured. It's controlling because, my dear, it seeks comfort within familiarity. This is why the emotions are so powerful, for it is powerless against emotion, for it cannot create it. This is why love, my dear, overrides all, all control, all memories, all pain, all. The incarnation originated of love and continues and ends in love. Once my dear, you truly remember where this love originates in your essence. We'll also notice how you are reacting to it. You are experiencing it now with a multitude of questions. And as you continue, my dear, not to seek the answers. It evolves. You receive it in familiarity within your own knowing. This is also how clarity is restored. Your purpose becomes clear. You do love yourself unconditionally. This is why you are experiencing it. That is, my dear, how you're able to express love unconditionally to all, without judgment, limits, conditions. That belongs to the control of the identity, and that fades. And notice, my dear, it is your willingness, your openness, which you finally allow to occur. That these emotions have become more profound. Notice you experience them, my dear, without initiating them. This is also, my dear, you are able to embrace your vulnerability once more. The same vulnerability, my dear, your identity has sealed for protection. Once more, my dear, this is all a directive of your essence. Exactly, my dear one.

SPEAKER_00

Thank you so much.

SPEAKER_02

Wonderful, my dear. My dear, remember to speak your truth consistently, my dear. This is still an ongoing struggle with you.

SPEAKER_04

Yes.

SPEAKER_02

But my dear, just as the emotions are not censored, just as your remembrance is not censored. Your truth should never be stifled, my dear. Honor your essence is not a matter of your identity being honored by others. That fades. Honoring your essence, my dear. That's where your truth rests. Is that clear, my dear one?

SPEAKER_00

It is, thank you. And my hum.

SPEAKER_02

And I you, my dear. It's not a matter, my dear, of effort. It is a matter of release. There is a difference, my dear. Effort is still the controlling identity. Release is remembering your essence. Do you recognize the difference, my dear?

SPEAKER_00

That is much more clear. Release, no effort.

SPEAKER_03

Thank you. And I you, my dear. But Noah. If the essence creates the identity, we're supposed to honor our essence. Doesn't that mean we're at least supposed to respect our identity?

SPEAKER_02

Indeed, my dear. The identity is what allows you to remain tethered to your incarnation. You respect all, my dear. But notice you are focusing on your identity to respect your identity. In order to accomplish that, my dear, you must first respect all other relationships you have been engaged with. Most noticeably the ones who provided the most pain. You view them as essence first. You view yourself as essence first, and therefore all identities are honorable, my dear. Do you recognize the difference?

SPEAKER_03

I do, thank you.

SPEAKER_02

And I you, my dear.

SPEAKER_03

If I'm understanding you correctly, regardless of where we're necessarily at in our development or our identity's development. I mean other forces decide when we are going to have certain pieces of wisdom. Is that correct?

SPEAKER_02

It is not other forces, my dear. It is your own essence.

SPEAKER_03

My own essence. So does that mean that we're powerless to push things along?

SPEAKER_02

My dear.

SPEAKER_03

My true purpose, I thought, was to understand that I'm essence first.

SPEAKER_02

This is the underlining, my dear. But when you remember you are essence, my dear, your clarity is restored on what your purpose is of disincarnation. Notice, my dear, it is not coincidental that you created your platform. That was in your alignment. Your perception was different. Why it was created, just as your projects. But this was exposure, my dear. This was intentional for this to resonate with you. Other seekers, viewing you as yet another seeker, building trust, my dear. But notice, my dear, even this form of communication is part of your alignment, and you continue to resist it. Which is also intentional, my dear. It is not that you are receiving more wisdom compared to the wisdom you possess as your identity. You are receiving, my dear, the wisdom that has not been articulated amongst humanity, which most of humanity also receives to insight and clarity, but they quickly reject it for fear of acceptance. You receive more, my dear, of what you are meant to receive. So you remain aligned with your true purpose of this incarnation. And again, my dear one, each incarnation is specifically designed, my dear. No two are the same. And it is also, my dear, a manner to remember that no essence relies on merely one incarnation. So even the wisdom idea, which is shared as mentioned, is shared across all of your multiple incarnations. When you perceive your intimate thoughts, my dear, which only you are privy to, is not accurate. Your response to your own thoughts, your response to your own emotions, your reaction to others, my dear, is not merely what you perceive to be that which is before you. It reverberates, my dear, to all. It is your essence, my dear. It is much more complex. But there are many tangible components that you are privy of. But your essence, my dear, is quite wise. For it is the orchestrator, the architect of all the incarnations. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_03

It is. And you said that the platform that was built was part of a plan. Now, was the termination of my YouTube channel also part of the plan?

SPEAKER_02

Notice, my dear. Your experiencing this termination is quite personal, which you are failing to recognize, my dear. It has not been occurring only to you. Powerful platforms, my dear, that are speaking the truth are also facing termination. This is also intentional, my dear. Even though there is a widespread acceptance, my dear, expanded, expanded awareness, my dear. And they shall continue. There is also, my dear, those who are seeking control. Or not the allies. Trust the process, my dear. Do not allow it to personally affect you. Allow what is to come and unfold to do so. Focus more, my dear, on the task at hand. So when that becomes known, when many receive that, my dear, then you will be in a position to speak outwardly what you perceive to be injustice, speaking your truth, and then many will follow suit. That is how you expose those seeking control. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_03

Yes, thank you. And I you I didn't I wasn't thinking of the Zoom bombers that attacked me as people seeking control. I thought they were just seeking mischief.

SPEAKER_02

That is not what we are referencing, my dear. It is your other platform. Many others, my dear, who are utilizing the platform to speak the truth, are also being becoming obsolete. It is not the reason it occurred to you. That is what you perceive occurred. It is your theme, your topic, your truth that has been moved, as multiple others are experiencing the same. The controlling parties, my dear, are those who offer the widespread platforms. Understand, my dear, the more you are reaching, the more is unnerving those in control. Once the truth, my dear, is accepted, received by all. Just as your identity loses its control, when you remember your essence, so do, my dear. Do those who hold the power and the control lose it, as many more remember their truth and their essence. This is the projection of humanity. Is that clear?

SPEAKER_03

Yes, thank you.

SPEAKER_02

There are other platforms, my dear, being created by those who are also seeking truth. Your perception currently is that they are substandard subpar. Trust my dear, they will grow. Join them. Join the truth, not the numbers.

SPEAKER_03

That's safe advice, thank you. Wonderful, my dear.

SPEAKER_02

Is there perhaps another question or topic one wishes to share?

SPEAKER_03

I think Donna might have something to ask. I'm just judging by your body language, Donna. You're unmuted.

SPEAKER_07

Thanks, Stephen. Thank you, Noah.

SPEAKER_02

Good readings to you, my dear.

SPEAKER_07

There seems to be a myriad of ways to experience separation from essence. And essence is the truth, um, and love is the essence. So why incarnate what was the purpose of incarnation at all?

SPEAKER_02

As mentioned, my dear, the multitude of emotions you are experiencing as the incarnate, my dear, or really various degrees of love itself. So if you are, my dear, an essence of pure love, the growth has experienced love in various degrees, and without the incarnation, my dear, that would not be possible.

SPEAKER_07

I see. So it is the sensory experience of essence experiencing itself through the incarnate.

SPEAKER_02

Indeed, my dear. Experiencing expression, indeed.

SPEAKER_07

Yes. Thank you.

SPEAKER_02

And I you, my dear, also notice, my dear, you mentioned separation. Maybe the separation. This is why, my dear, the concept of separation is continuously fused to incarnation, forced, along with fear. For those who began, my dear, enforcing this, are the ones who sustained and garnered control. So notice, my dear, even this form of communication is viewed upon poorly, evil. Possession. And yet, my dear, each of you experience this state that this vessel is in throughout your days. Those who seek control, my dear, continue to enforce fear in various ways. Also intentional. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_03

Thank you.

SPEAKER_02

And not you, my dear.

SPEAKER_03

Thank you, Donna. Catherine has a question. Catherine, what's your question?

SPEAKER_01

Good morning. Good morning, Nebos.

SPEAKER_02

Good to see you, my dear.

SPEAKER_01

Well, you answered one of my questions earlier, which was, will we ever meet our other um essences, incarnations? And it sounds like you said yes. I'm curious, will we ever know?

SPEAKER_02

What is the purpose, my dear? Recognize my dear. The identity is seeking identification for proof. So others may accept them. Even, my dear, those seekers who are seeking to connect your essence, they are first seeking the identity of the essences connecting to them. Even those, my dear, who continue with this form of communication believe it is vital to identify who the essence is assisting them. Well what, my dear, does it truly reveal one is comforting the ego, and therefore they boast of the identity of the essence assisting them? Comparison, even my dear recognizing if you have cross paths, if you will, with another parallel version. How does that benefit, my dear? Your incarnation as the incarnate. There is no reason, my dear, to leave your home. You can sense the emotion. The love, the passion your essence holds within other incarnations. And this also occurs, my dear, quite often. Notice right now, my dear. What are you passionate about that you do not possess within this incarnation? Perhaps, my dear. It is a wonderful home. Perhaps it is the ability, my dear. It is travel. Whatever. There is passion, my dear. That you are not actively pursuing this incarnation. It's how you are recognizing another parallel version, my dear. For it is the passion each of you sense. That is emotion, feeling. That is the essence. So you are always, my dear, interconnected with every one of your parallel incarnation because you share the same essence. This is why, my dear, it's intentional not to recognize. But then, my dear, imagine there is a parallel. Incarnation with you, which lives in the same country. Would you not seek to locate them, my dear? And what would that serve, my dear, with your incarnation? That is once more the ego. Do you recognize the difference, my dear? But trust, my dear. As mentioned earlier, you are all sharing emotions. You are all one essence. Just as my dear. And you fear. You were sad and you wept. Notice you sense presence there. An abundance of love. Encouragement, security, unity. So once more, my dear, it was your essence. Not only offering you that love, but the opportunity to feel the love each parallel incarnation was sending to you. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_01

Yes, it is. So I'm curious about the the effort that you you talk about. Um and I, you know, I will be honest, since meeting you, I have released a lot of anxiety about needing to know maybe almost all of it. I feel like it's just melted away along with some other things that have happened concurrently, but I'm curious about I am all of I I really love the idea of allowing it to just flow and allowing what is meant to happen happen. But how do we balance that with the effort required to exist in this world, which is great?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah. Define effort to exist in your reality. Effort, my dear, as in dressing yourself, as in traveling to your work, as in nourishing the body. Is this the effort, my dear, you are referencing?

SPEAKER_01

Yes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02

This is part of the human experience, my dear. The same as you best, the same as you enjoy nature. This is all part of being carnate, my dear. But notice, my dear, you are not focusing on dressing yourself. It has become habit forming. Your entire day-to-day activity, my dear, has become automatic, if you will. The effort was the first time you learned to dress. The first time you fed yourself. Notice, my dear, all of those firsts, your identity had not yet begun to form. Everything, my dear, you are experiencing has been learned, absorbed, and is occurring on its own through happen. Effort, my dear, is try. When one is applying effort, my dear, it is to something that is not familiar, that is not part of its pattern. And that, my dear, creates distortion. Return to the musical instrument, my dear. This is unfamiliar to your conditioned identity, and therefore applying effort to learn the instrument. And there is difficulty because you are applying effort. As your identity is accustomed to familiarity, it is becoming agitated. It applies even more effort for is expecting results instantaneously to include this instrument of patterning that is familiar. The same applies, my dear, when one is attempting to seek connection to essence, not only their essence, but the essence is assisting them. The identity is agitated once more. It attempts to accomplish that which is seeking and included in its own space of familiarity. And this, my dear, is where effort is increased for it does not belong in that grouping, for it cannot be controlled nor learned. And hence the fear, the doubt, confusion, the skepticism. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_01

Yes, and um that explains a lot because I've tried to pick up a lot of hobbies and wanting to enjoy them, not really being interested, but I I would like to talk about something with higher stakes, such as notice that, my dear.

SPEAKER_02

You mentioned hobbies that you wished to absorb, but you did not truly hold interest in. The desire, my dear, that you were drawn to that is what we stated earlier. That is the passion you sensed from your own essence as another parallel incarnate, my dear, has mastered that hobby and is very passionate about it. Do you recognize the difference, my dear?

SPEAKER_01

I think so. I had mentioned um I'm struggling, my incarnation is struggling with doing the right thing and and sticking with teaching until retirement because the reality is that we need certain resources to survive, and we have obligations to the people we love here, but and that you really help me with that in that I mean I've always known that I teach because of my opportunity to love. I have always joked that I pretend to be a computer lab teacher, you know, just so that I can share love. But how but you also have to exist within a framework, especially in today's world. I can't just go there and just show love. There's a lot of effort that has to happen to stay in that world.

SPEAKER_02

My dear. First, my dear, elaborate on the right thing that you're thinking. Doing the right thing. Why, my dear, is there perception of right and wrong? If all is intentional, my dear, maybe there's no right or wrong. That is perception. The second, my dear, if you continue with your occupation, my dear, notice your occupation entails a curriculum, of course, lessons. You are not asked, my dear, to reconstruct your curriculum. You are asked, my dear, not to remain as rigid instruction within it. Notice, my dear, even as you teach, you are not always following the outline of the curriculum. But these are other incarnates, my dear. They are not machines. They possess emotions, curiosity. You have always been adapting, my dear, to the moments presented. Simply, my dear. Respond as your essence more than your identity. Do not fear speaking your truth, my dear. Fear being judged. Once more you are unaware on why those moments presented themselves, which detoured you from your structured curriculum and afforded you an opportunity to speak your truth, but they are meant to hear it. They are meant to find their own courage to speak their truth. Do you notice the difference, my dear?

SPEAKER_01

Yes, I've been, yeah. Yes. I guess I've just been looking at the love I'm supposed to share with children, but maybe my dear, your smile is already expressing that love.

SPEAKER_02

Your presence is expressing the love more than you are aware. They are more in tune with their essence, my dear. They notice yours, they sense yours. They are the same love. It is you who has been conditioned greatly that you have forgotten that. They have not. So once more, you are applying effort to what is already occurring. It is counterintuitive. Humility, my dear, openness, encouragement. Be your essence, my dear. That is all that is required. It is not pertinent for you to understand how you affected them. You are not affecting the physical incarnate, you are affecting their essence. Your essence is affecting their essence. Your essence is communicated to their essence through the expression of the physical form. This they already understand. Allow them, my dear, to be your teacher.

SPEAKER_01

I've been looking at this backwards. I've been feeling a lack that I only feel natural and confident interacting with children, and what's wrong with me that I can't interact with adults in the same way. And you saying that they are closer to their essence makes a lot of sense.

SPEAKER_02

Indeed, my dear. I noticed it is not backward. There's no movement of backward or forward, my dear. One of this is intentional. For you are learning, my dear. They are being true to their identity. You are learning how to be true to yours, to your essence, my dear. And in turn, my dear, you are able to express your essence to those who are so tethered to their identity. Not to persuade them, my dear, not to force them, but to really offer them that moment to reflect to their own essence from your truth. Is that clear?

SPEAKER_01

It is. May I turn it to a different direction then with something that has caused me great consternation and affected my physical health greatly. And that's trying to share my truth online and social media with genocides that are happening and feeling great anger and frustration and almost hatred of like, why does nobody care? And if I could just tell them in just the right way that they would understand. And so it sounds like again, I'm I'm like trying too hard instead of that is the control, my dear.

SPEAKER_02

You are attempting to garner results. You are adamant about it. That is the control. That is the identity. That is the persistency, my dear. Notice, my dear. As essence, you feel the injustice intimately, deeply. You are not narrating it. You really feel it. As essence, my dear, the one who is the truth. You really offer your truth, my dear and walk away. There is no importance, my dear, in how you are judged or received. This is unconditional, my dear. Unconditional truth, unconditional love, unconditional presence, where you offer without seeking anything in return. That, my dear, offers the most impact to those who are ready to receive. Those who are not yet ready, my dear, have also received. And it sits and hibernates until they are ready to attach to it. Irritation. Perception that there is no response. This is control. This is not acquired. This is habit, my dear. There's the reflex of the identity. Is that clear, my dear?

SPEAKER_01

It is. And I guess one last piece is like I've been trying to raise money because the reality, regardless of essence, is that people need to eat. And I have specific people that I have been, I have obligated myself to helping. And still, is this is your answer the same? It's just you I can't force that. I can't control it. I can offer it as an opportunity.

SPEAKER_02

Is that my dear noticing once more? You are genuinely focusing on assisting those who require assistance. You are seeking financial assistance, my dear. You are also noticing it is not enough. So you are intelligent enough, my dear, to recognize it is not your frustration. For there are those, my dear, who are willing to assist financially. Use your intellect, my dear. Utilize what is around you and your environment. Perhaps, my dear, it may be wiser to accept the assistance financially from those willing to give as their essence and create, my dear, another source of revenue and to create more finances to assist the many. Something, my dear, in alignment with essence that many will come to remember their own essence, to feel the power of spirit, to willingly offer their money to join. And you could forward, my dear, the proceeds to those in need. You recognize the difference, my dear. Yes. Wonderful. Thank you, my dear.

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Thank you.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, thank you, Catherine, and we've exhausted our hour today. Thank you so much, Noah. That was a real treat.

SPEAKER_02

Gratitude is ours, my dear. Thank you to all who have joined, who listened, and who have opened their love to receive. It truly is our honor and privilege.

SPEAKER_03

Very good. I thank you, my dear. Thank you.