1. Burn It Down, Build It Better

This episode is not a highlight reel.
It’s a reckoning.

In this very first episode of The Rebirth Queen Podcast, I take you behind the scenes of my own rebirth — the kind that doesn’t come from strategy, but from life burning everything down and asking you who you are without it.

I share my story honestly and unfiltered:

– The 8-year-old girl who instinctively knew it wasn’t safe to stay
– Leaving corporate and choosing the unknown over conformity
– The pivots, reinventions, and identity deaths along the way
– And the loss of my dad in 2024 — the moment that cracked me open completely

That loss became my biggest rebirth (to date).

This episode is about what rebirth really means — not as a brand, not as a buzzword, but as a lived experience. It’s about burning down identities that no longer fit, and having the courage to build something truer in their place.

This is the story behind my rebrand.
The reason I rose as The Rebirth Queen.
And the foundation of everything this podcast will hold.

If you’re standing in the ashes of who you used to be…
If you feel the call to start again, but don’t know how…
If you know something in you is ready to rise…

This episode is for you.

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Transcript

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Welcome to the Rebirth Queen Podcast, the place where icons are reborn. I'm Sabrina the Rebirth Queen, and I'm here to slap you awake with raw truth, human design, and Jean key's wisdom, and of course, luck strategy that makes scaling feel like play. This isn't another how to podcast. This is a transmission, a remembering, a reclamation. So if you are ready to burn the old story and rise into your own icon era, you are in the right place, babe. Let's dive in. All right, here we go. First episode is about to drop. I am excited, elated, uh, nervous, uh, you know that feeling when you are finally doing that thing. It is something brand new, something that you've been meaning and wanting to do, and also trust. The alignment of the timing will get you to do the thing when it's time, and now it's time. First episode, burn it down, build it better, because sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is light a match to your own bullshit. I'm gonna take you on a journey today about what the Rebirth story is all about. Why I am the Rebirth Queen. I want to give you a bit of an inside. I will drop some stories. I will wear my heart on my sleeve. I ask for you too, to have this grace and compassion as I am really grounding myself into this brand new experience. And I also wanna let you know that I'm fully unfiltered, so I won't be filtering or editing any of this. This is my raw delivery. This is my potent truth. These are my transitions, uh, transitions, transmissions. I will laugh about myself as I make mistakes. 'cause that is actually one of the things I've learned, which I will tell you later about being a generative one three in human design. And because, you know, English is actually not my first language, da dah. I'm a from a Z Germany originally. I will mix things up. I will say things quirky. I will make up my own words, and that is also just who I am. So I'm not perfect. I don't strive to be perfect, but I am the most powerful version that I can be today. Yet knowing there are always more rebirths to come, that will allow us myself to expand into more capacity, to hold more, to receive more, and then to do more with it. Because it's about the being first, right? So. Let's talk a little bit about my personal rebirth story, and it's actually so beautifully timely aligned that yesterday I caught up with an old client of mine who flew over from the other side of Australia. Perth to the Gold Coast here in Australia, which is where I live, my heaven on Earth life. And we had a wonderful three hour dinner, and it obviously was not planned, but when you have these beautiful conversations, it was an opportunity for me to share more about me and my story. Because obviously when you coach clients, it's not really about you, is it? It's about them. So this conversation opened up about, okay, tell me about this rebrand of Rebirth Creed. What's going. With that, what's it stand for? And then I just sparked, you know, some story and about this and because of this and because of that. And she's like, what the hell? I did not know this about you. So instead of giving you like my whole life story in one place, I'm sure I will drop a lot over, you know, upcoming episodes. I think when I feel into what the rebirth Queen movement means to me. What it means to be a rebirth queen. I believe it's about choices. It's about making choices in times of your life that will propel you into the direction that you're meant to be on, whether you know or whether you don't. So I think about the choices that I've made consciously, unconsciously, out of pain, out of despair. But also out of joy and pure excitement. And also just because I know deep down I was never meant to travel the path that everyone else is on. In fact, I know deep down I was always meant to travel the path less traveled. You know that one. So what are some of the choices that have been pivoted in my life? I will give you a few. I'll give you a short timeline of my life. I remember at eight years old, sitting across of my mom, across from my mom and saying to her, I love you, yet I know it's no longer safe to live with you. I, I will go live with dad. I remember the choice at 18, flipping up an energetic bird to my stepmom. By leaving a letter and my house keys behind leaving my family home, and three months later, moving to London after finished school, I just turned 19. It was a big rebel. If you, I will stand in my power. I will not conform to what is expected of me at such a young, early age. So I moved to London at 19. I moved to Australia at 24 following this, Hey, I met this crazy Aussie boyfriend. He wants to go back to Australia and he wants me to come and live with him. And I'm like, well, you know, what's the worst that can happen? I'm 24 now. I can go to Australia, explore this country. If it doesn't serve me, I can go back home to London. I can always get another flat. Another job making money. Yeah. But I've got nothing to lose. Right. Okay, so I landed in Australia in December, 2006, which is now nearly 19 years later. I remember the decision in 2009 to leave my corporate career, which was in recruitment 'cause Hello. Always been and always will be a people's person to decide to become my own boss and enter. Entrepreneurship or just simply being self-employed, being your own boss. As a personal trainer slash fitness instructor, I remember the choice to apply for a job. Thank you, Genesis in Melbourne. Paul, I will never forget you who interviewed me, hired me without having actually completed my certification 'cause he just saw something in me. Sometimes you just need that person that sees something in you before you see it yourself. I remember the choice to leave my boyfriend at the time 2011 because I was not ready to settle, and it was a decision made on I love you, but I love me more. There was essentially nothing wrong in the relationship, per se. It's not this stereotypical, he cheated on me. He treated me like a piece of shit, in fact. Thank you. I, to my knowing, I've never been cheated on and I've, I'm very proud of that. I decided in 2011 to change to another gym and continue training, and something happened with leaving this relationship, being on my own and having this, knowing that there is something more for me here. And that's when I decided to fully dive into the world of personal development because I knew that I didn't just want to train women. I was so curious about why is it that women are so obsessed with a certain amount of, uh, number on the scale? Why is it this obsession about having to be a certain number or being a certain size? Why is there this relationship to food that is so toxic and there's such this emotional relationship to it? So I was like, well, the answer's gotta be mindset. Now this is 2011 when mindset was still like up and coming. So I researched it, I committed to it. I decided to study under the, uh, coaching institute in Melbourne. I was based on the gold, gold Coast again at that point. And what followed was, you know, courage, commitment, consistency into my life coaching mindset, understanding, you know, doing the NLP master practitioner hypnotherapy, speaker workshops, disc profiling, um, quantum read reading. I mean, look, knowing and with one three Human design makes complete sense because I am the student that loves forever learning. Fast forwards, applying it, doing great, building a six figure business in my fitness business, six figures in my fitness business, and changing the journey to decide to become a body love coach and start really venturing into that direction, leaving a gym, doing my, having my own online presence, my own online like fitness coaching slash mindset business. Gosh, the trial and errors are real to then realizing that building a business is actually freaking hard when you don't know what you're doing because you don't realize it's just about the expertise and the skills that you've mastered. Business is a beast, so again, I had made the decision, made the choice to invest into a business coach. Then realizing that, okay, business can take time, and that's okay because it's not about chasing that quick success. Now I know 15 years later, it's actually always been about long-term vision, connecting to that long-term vision, and being committed to long-term success. My growth evolution over lifetime, deciding in 2013 that I needed a site hustle. And started a MLM business, which I managed to reach the top of the position in, just in the two years end of 2015. I also decided another choice in October, 2015 to pack up my entire life and just fuck off out of Australia. 'cause I was so bored that I just decided that, hey, I would just allow the universe to back me. I didn't have, by the way, the safety of the income. I just knew I trusted the universe would have my back if I made that choice, if I had the courage to go first. And so I left in October, and like I said, just December, two months later, I achieved that top rank in the AMY business. Thank you. Super grateful. Allow me to speak on stage in front of 8,000 people talking about how, uh, confidence is just like an orgasm that you can't really fake it. Oh, good memories. And then being in New York as it comes into January, 2016, made another fucking choice again and decided to walk away from the, which was then a five figure a month business to walk away completely because it no longer failed the line, and to actually step fully into my own business. Hide another mentor. She was one of those who got me to see that, Hey, do you realize that how courageous you have been already? And to me, I'm like, no. Really? To me, that feels normal. I've now been conditioned to make choices, to trust myself, to know that choices give me clarity, that I need to have courage. If I want to keep choosing the path, let's travel and to create a life. F on my wildest dreams, on my wildest desires. A life that potentially is not meant for other people, but it's not even about them, it's about me. It's my life. I only get this one lifetime and it's so short to fast forward to 2020, lots of growth for my personal self. Uh, that's where I really tapped into the spirituality. I lived in Germany for a hot second, got engaged, bought the house, had the puppy, decided to burn that all down. Ah, to then building my first six figure cash business in 2020, coming back to 2021 into Australia again, 'cause I got to be in Germany during that COVID period. Again, stories for other days. And then beginning of 2021, I meet my man. Three months later, we become an item. Two months later, I move in and I instantly quantum leap into becoming a, the formal word is stepmom through two, three beautiful children. At that time, they were aged eight, 11 and 12. Two boys, and my oldest girl. The decision to take that on I was a quantum leap. It also made me decide to finish. My coaching certification that I had also launched in German. 'cause you know, we are bilingual, little bit of multilingual, but you know, I don't wanna brag too much here in the first episode. Uh, the choice to step away from my business, which always had been my number one passion to change my core values to family being my number one, the choice to take the time to get to know each. Child individually to help them with their own trauma, to work on my relationship, which was still very new. Um, and then to do things that just suited me still having a six figure income because at that point now you are embodying it, right? You're coded in it. So money comes to you always and always. Thank you, Melanie and la and then the biggest. Biggest, biggest burn down moment that changed everything. Whew. Sorry. Didn't see me crying on the first episode neither. But here we are, was the loss of my father last year, February, 2024. So needless to say, that has been the most incredible. Painful journey to venture through, and that has been my biggest rebirth year, and I literally was ready to burn it all down because as you know, if you are a mom and I am a mom, I am their mother, I raised them. So you can have your opinion about it. It's absolutely fine. I could be stepmom, mom, whatever the kids call me, mom. But to, as you know, being a mom is harder having three children now. It's sort of that teenage in a newer, spicy home, harder navigating relationships when it comes to raising children, navigating finances, and him being on his journey of growth and evolution and going through his own stuff harder. It's so much easier to walk away. But I, we made the choice. I made the choice to burn it all down, and I'm saying letting go of people that. Family that I'm actually in hindsight, glad I don't have to talk to them anymore. So pretty much burned down all of my family, apart from two individuals that I still speak to. I nearly burned down the relationship with my partner, knowing that if I did walk away, I would still be a mother. And then having the moment, the final moment at the end of 2024 to go. Okay, I feel, I feel ready now. I gained also a fucked ton of weight. So now one year, fast forward, fast forward one year, I look and feel the most incredible. I have, I'm actually back in the shape. I've lost like 20 kilos. Thank you. Proud moment. Worked for that hard. Thank you for obviously having been a personal trainer in one of my last pa past lives. Uh, past times. So I know what I'm doing and now I'm actually back in the same shape that I was 10 years ago. So slay me and again, showing you what's possible for me. It's possible for you. So here we are, biggest burn down, biggest, uh, burn down moment leading to the biggest rebirth, which has allowed me 2025 to do some epic things. Um, and here we are today in this beautiful new beginning of allowing you to see what it takes to build a successful business, to scale it in a way that feels sustainable. That feels sexy, that feels juicy. That allows you to bring back the joy, the fun to also allow you to have a mum life that actually works. I always say, you know, we're, we're chaotic, but it's crazy and it's awesome. We love it to, to not give up and also foster an amazing relationship with your partner. And to then allow yourself to do things again that are wilder than your biggest dreams. So yes, this is for the women in business who are ready to scale, who are potentially burnt out, who are stuck, who are stuck like stagnating, who are noticing that the coaching industry is changing, has changed. We can't do the same thing. When I see some of the copy online, I'm like, oh my God. Why are people still putting content out like that? Even with this podcast, the intention is so different. You are gonna get a a, a transmission, you're gonna get a teaching. You're actually gonna get me whatever energy I'm in on the day, and then another drop will come and you're gonna get an activation for me because I wanna give to you. I wanna give you the, the possibility to do things now, not wait. Right? Because it's never about being ready. It's about feeling the fear and doing it anyway. And then once a month there'll be a rebirth queen round table where I will have a real and raw chat with other amazing trailblazers to give you that community aspect to give you that, oh my God, she's just about baty crazy as me. And like, oh my God, did she fear that too? And oh my God, she felt that fear too. 'cause we were all the same. We were all going through the same journey. So. How do I wanna wrap this up? I think the Rebirth Cream movement is about choices. Even when you don't feel ready. It's about knowing that choices are gonna give you the clarity, right? Choices will give you the clarity. The clarity will then allow you to make adjustments. You need a fucked ton of courage, though, to get out of your fucking way. But when you do so over time, consistently, it will build confidence. And over time that will build your conviction. And then it's really allowing yourself to remind yourself, am I still leading this business? Am I still leading my movement? Am I still building and growing and scaling this business based on my own blueprint, on my own codes? Or am I actually building something that has been built on someone else's strategy? Because this is where the human design and the gene keys wisdom comes in. 'cause I can actually tell you exactly what type of business model serves you the most based on your codes. I can read your prosperity codes and I run my business that way. And I'm telling you, it feels, I mean, it feels embodied. It feels expansive. It feels fucking lit up. 'cause of course it's for me, everything is sacred. Yes. So I wanna lead you or leave you with today to ask yourself, how do you know when something is done and you're ready to be courageous as fuck? Or are you holding back? Are you. Fearful about the consequence of it working, not working, of losing something, potentially gaining something that could be even fucking scarier. Ask yourself, do you feel that it's time for you to step into your next level identity, into your next level evolution? To have your own rebirth moment right now? To remember more of who you truly are, to give yourself the permission to live fully expressed, to fuck the formula, and be the fucking frequency. If you are, I'll invite you to look me up. Follow me on Instagram. The Rebirth Queen is my handle. Send me a message with Rise. Or even if you just wanna give me one thing that resonated with you today, that would be amazing. It allows me then to celebrate this first episode and or if you have a question, give me a question. If you want me to speak about something. I mean, I've got content maps out for days, but if there are something, certain things you would love me to speak on, send me your questions because again, my strategy is to respond, so feel free to reach out. So I wanna thank you. I'm gonna wrap it up here for today, and I'll see you again soon. Okay. Thank you, thank you. Thank you for turning into the Rebirth Queen Podcast. If this episode leads you up, share it with the women who are ready for their own rebirth. And don't forget to subscribe so you never miss a transmission. And if you are ready to go deeper into your own icon era, dm me the word rebirth on Instagram, and let's rise together. Until next time, remember. You don't follow trends. You are the frequency.