BBS Exposed: The Podcast

Ep 3: Apparently I Was Running a Cult

Desislava Dobreva

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This is the first time I’ve ever talked about this - and it’s been years in the making.
I stayed quiet out of respect, out of integrity, and because I refuse to weaponize names or turn my platform into a circus. So if you came here for drama, this is your cue to exit.

This episode is about the kind of betrayal that doesn’t come from strangers, but from someone within your community.

Inside, I share:

  • how a relationship I valued shifted into something I couldn’t recognize
  • how online posts, messages, and accusations spiraled into a narrative where apparently I was running a cult
  • what it did to my confidence, my nervous system, and my leadership
  • the full boundary + identity audit I had to do to find myself again
  • how this experience reshaped the way I lead, trust, and build community

This episode is about what happens when someone’s unhealed belonging wound collides with your leadership, and they project a story onto you that helps them survive themselves.

It’s about confirmation bias, distorted perception, friendship wounds, and the emotional maturity required to lead through all of it.

It’s also about reclamation.

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