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Today's Question: What accomplishment reveals who you are at your best?

What accomplishment reveals who you are at your best? In this episode of The WorkLife Question, I explore the question through Aisling — a character from The Art of WorkLife Storytelling programme — and what her success story reveals about the difference between an achievement that impresses and one that truly defines you.

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Today’s question is from Creating Three Fundamental Stories That Define Your Identity: Success, Failure and Passion Stories Question Bank — from the section Discovering Your Success Story.

Aisling is the main protagonist in the programme: The Art of WorkLife Storytelling: Creating Three Fundamental Stories That Define Your Identity

Her story is featured in the episode: The Stories Behind the Stories: Aisling aka Carmel 

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Welcome to the Work Life Question from School of Work Life, a weekly question to ponder what matters in your work life. Each question is drawn from the School of Work Life Question Banks. I'm your show host, Carmel O'Reilly. This week's question is What accomplishment reveals who you are at your best? There's a question I want you to sit with today. What accomplishment reveals who you are at your best? Let's explore the question through a character I created, Ashling. Ashling is the main protagonist in the program The Art of Work Life Storytelling, creating three fundamental stories that define your identity. Her story is featured in the episode The Stories Behind the Stories, Ashl, aka Carmel. If you haven't already, listening to that story will help you identify your own success story and go deeper with this question. Ashling's story is about discovering the three fundamental stories that define professional identity success, failure, passion. Today we'll focus on her success story because the question asks something specific. What accomplishment reveals who you are at your best? For Ashling, the answer wasn't professional. It wasn't the workshops that filled, or the standing ovation when she told her story to an auditorium of 100 people, or the methodology that became her life's work. It was this. When our marriage ended, she was concerned about losing her relationship with her stepsons, Patrick, Sean, and Leem, who had been an important part of her life for ten years. She broached it with the eldest, and Patrick said, You welcomed us into your heart and your life, and there will always be a place in our hearts and our lives for you. That's her success story. Not because of what she achieved, because of who she was. That's what the question asks, not the accomplishment that impressed, the accomplishment that revealed. And what does it reveal about Ashling? That at her best she shows up fully in her professional life and her personal life. She doesn't hold back. She welcomes people in. That quality runs through everything she builds, every resource she creates, every framework she designs. It's all built on the same thing, making space for people to find what matters to them. The personal success story and the professional story are the same story, just told in different rooms. That's what this question does when you sit with it. It doesn't ask for UCV, it asks for something truer. So the question isn't just Ashling's, it's yours. What accomplishment reveals who you are at your best? Today's question is from creating three fundamental stories that define your identity success, failure, and passion stories, question bank, from the selection section, discovering your success story. You'll find all the resources mentioned in the show notes. Thank you for listening.