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Each story shows a moment where something shifts: a conversation changes, an idea lands, a different approach opens up.
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Self-Discovery — understanding what truly matters to you.
Book Club Books — learning from the wisdom found in great books.
The Art of WorkLife Storytelling — crafting your distinctive narratives.
Character Traits — enhancing your natural strengths.
Mental Health and Wellbeing — navigating workplace wellbeing challenges.
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The WorkLife Question: Sarah
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SHOW NOTES
Today's Question: What signals indicate engagement or disconnection?
What signals indicate engagement or disconnection? In this episode of The WorkLife Question, I explore what Sarah discovered about reading signals — not in her own breakthrough moment, but in the three leadership situations that followed. The acquisition. The Tom conversation. The leadership development programme. Each one taught her something more precise about what engagement and disconnection actually look like.
RESOURCES
Today’s question is from Creating Three Fundamental Stories That Define Your Identity: Success, Failure and Passion Stories Question Bank — from the section Adapting Stories to Context.
Sarah is the main protagonist in the Story Lesson: How to Lead Authentically Through Storytelling.
Her story is featured in the episode: The Stories Behind the Stories: Sarah.
Sarah's story was told in WorkLife Stories: How to Lead Authentically Through Storytelling. (Free to listen).
Deepen the practice with the WorkLife Compass Guided Programme:The Art of WorkLife Storytelling: Creating Three Fundamental Stories That Define Your Identity Programme Crafting Success, Failure, and Passion Narratives with Powerful Beginnings, Engaging Middles, and Memorable Endings
Welcome to the Work Life Question from School of Work Life, a weekly question to ponder what matters in your work life. Each question is drawn from the School of Work Life question banks. I'm your show host, Carmel O'Reilly. This week's question is: What signals indicate engagement or disconnection? That's the question I want you to sit with today. What signals indicate engagement or disconnection? Let's explore the question to a character I created, Sarah. Sarah is the main protagonist in the story lesson, How to Lead Authentically Through Storytelling. Her story is featured in the episode The Stories Behind the Story, Sarah. Sarah's story was told in Work Life Stories, How to Lead Authentically Through Storytelling. If you haven't already, listening to that story will help you recognize the signals of engagement and disconnection in your own leadership conversations and go deeper with this question. Sarah had learned to read a room by leaving her script behind. Once she learned to read the signals, she couldn't stop seeing them, not just in her own team, in every room she walked into. When the company announced an acquisition eight months after the restructuring, Sarah watched how other leaders responded to their teams. The signals were everywhere. In some rooms people sat back, arms folded, questions that protected rather than explored, a particular kind of stillness that wasn't attention. It was waiting, waiting to be managed through something. In our own room, something different, people leaning forward, questions about what they could shape, conversations about what mattered to them and why. Same announcement, different rooms, different signals. The difference wasn't a news. It was whether people felt led or partnered with. When Tom came to her, he described his team as polite and productive. He couldn't understand what was missing. Sarah heard the signal immediately. Polite means people are managing their response to you. Productive means her completing what's asked. Neither means her present. She asked Tom one question. When did you last see someone in your team surprised by their own idea? He couldn't answer. Sarah shared her own three stories first, her passion, helping people navigate uncertainty, her success, the breakthrough when she finally led from that passion. Her failure, eighteen months of competence that never became connection. Then she asked Tom about his. What drives you? Not the career reasons, but what genuinely drives you to lead people? And something shifted in the conversation. Tom began to find his own answers. He shared his three stories with his team, asked them what possibilities he wasn't seeing in their work. Two weeks later his team meetings felt different. People proposed ideas they had been keeping to themselves, asked for challenges that would stretch them. The conversation went somewhere. Tom hadn't directed it. That was the signal he had been waiting for. And now he understood how to create conditions for it. In the leadership development program, Sarah watched emerging leaders encounter the same thing. She asked each participant to identify their three stories, what genuinely drives your leadership. Whenever you led from that passion and seen real impact, when as leading from competence alone limited your effectiveness. Maya's passion was creating environments where people could do their best work without unnecessary barriers. But when Sarah asked what signal had told her something was wrong before she acted on that passion, Maya paused. She described a team that completely tasked perfectly and never once pushed back. No friction, no questions, no surprises. That's a signal, Sarah said. When people stop pushing back, they've stopped engaging. They're performing compliance, not bringing their thinking. Maya had been reading the wrong signal. Smooth performances had felt like success. It was disconnection, wearing the face of efficiency. When she saw it, she knew what her passion required her to do, remove the barriers, create the conditions, and trusted the friction of genuine engagement would return. It did. That's what Sarah discovered about signals. Engagement is rarely loud. Disconnection is rarely obvious. Both show up in the small things, whether people surprise themselves, whether questions explore or protect, whether friction is present or absent. The signal isn't in what people say, it's in what they stop doing. And once you learn to read it, you stop managing the room you expected and start responding to the room you're actually in. So the question isn't just Sarah's, it's yours. What signals indicate engagement or disconnection? Today's question is from the creating three fundamental stories that define your identity success, failure, and passion stories question bank from this section, adapting stories to context. You'll find the resources mentioned in the show notes. Thank you for listening.