פרק 7 - עם ד״ר מגי בן יהודה למה שותפויות מתפרקות ומה אף אחד לא מספר לך.

ערוץ טלגרם שלי שבו אתם תמצאו הרבה תוכן על יחסים, תקשורת, זוגיות שותפות והתפתחות אישית. https://t.me/icheskis 

אף אחד לא נכנס לשותפות כדי להיכשל.
 ובכל זאת  כ-70% מהשותפויות מתפרקות.
 מה קורה בדרך?
 בפרק החדש של “זוגיות עסקית” אני וד״ר מגי בן יהודה מדברות על הרגעים שבהם שופתפות נכשלת  ואיך אפשר לעצור את זה בזמן.

לינק לאתר של ד״ר מגי בן יהודה: https://linktr.ee/magi5499

אינה צ׳סקיס - מאמנת לטראנספורמציה לזוגות ושותפים עסקיים. אני עוזרת לשותפים וזוגות לפתור קונפליקטים שמסכנים את הקשר והכסף ולבנות דיאלוג ושיתוף פעולה שעובדים. פסיכותרפיסטית גופנית בשיטת אלבאום, 

נכנסתי לזוגיות ושותפות עסקית ב 2009 ומאז  כל הזמן לומדת על תקשורת, שותפות וזוגיות, מייסדת ושותפה בחברת היי-טי. 

אם אתם רוצים לבנות זוגיות ושותפות יציבים שמתבססים על אמון, לשפר דיאלוג ותקשורת מוזנים ליצור איתי קשר:

וואטסאפ: wa.me/972545389898

מוזמנים לעכוב אחרי בפייסבוק: 

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SPEAKER_02 1:00

Asboyni Dabir kha si partlish Aytalachutafut is kit, to klik tzatli archivalze lisapermah.

SPEAKER_03 2:24

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SPEAKER_02 4:44

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vahat lichaam ma ikanach nousim hiburi nadvari mechanih na konchani sumiket vama aval Adaiin anni rotsali rot vela datat lomia makhomshil chosarimun ilomia makhom shil yot miuravit vladat akul biduk

SPEAKER_03 22:57

Mamash Mamash Bakon Ada Vararishon Ula Gdirata Mataot Mamata Rocheli Mamatelha the Mamatarot Amishuta Fochelan Listakel Gamshan y Uvedit Megidim Zugotimbe Zugivshan Adamishon regal many zapazot ma tamitza me toha the varzean be the uk show it bring it can aze any wide mahal in kolamudaut in colamudauthila shimbik show it.

SPEAKER_02 23:56

Meganotsakafzale is a shishila aimyesh kesher atamachit bakeva nahon aid bake Eser Shanimbakeva Aimyesh kesher kiesh are mono nashimishartim vanisharimbakeva aimyesh kesher shatyatzat mimaarecham tikshor nahmucholim kacha plitvakeh, we achlatochovat, we bottakshaw al mashuk, ešpkuda maximum ani kacha mitbarit machavera we mum shaw satit ma sham rule. A imesh kesher, k shijutzimma nashim yatsawav misgeret, me odme odravsharle agitken, velomi af sharet etahofish bitu v tikshore, liksha nahunik nasimli shoot of herkach.

SPEAKER_03 25:08

Okay, the be met kufash mechanic levenona rishona ve amon amon ka od niulit ve gamshi padahti zaita gishami u literi. So matka be etem nialita dwim. Izmantio taila mistratve na tatila itkurtisimrat, valaimani chwala gidlach mashu, azyamra todal kartisim. Avan Milato Vashilah, Khashivashilah Bayakhaditanu, Aksha Vashilak Elainu, Tieshaba Beoterme Akartisima. Wow Tasidli mazats marmora takhle da zoti, but ishalosh mashukasha az.

SPEAKER_02 26:51

Wow.

SPEAKER_03 26:51

Ban isukherach is a shoe. Wow. Bani Zukherachila Kartyze, Mamash. Mifkashet sevit Pameshevwa. Bebkashet sevit Intuitivit. Lolam maditze be mettivit Amati Anilza Lakshib. Anisajmo trem, Anilotaled. Maitem Wotzim Vematimeni kdeshtatslihu.

SPEAKER_02 27:37

Wow, Takiv Zhiour Likolechaim Vem Masha Matimimheshaf Nachhonsha Batmiya Mizgerat Vayalak Shrier Echad Avalit Ptucha Gama Matguvari Shuna Hatsufama Madmarsaliat, Ait Ptuchali Akiv Vlishanot Valiyasim. Kolekadme ima yam.

SPEAKER_03 30:02

Okay, alanti man rota. Okay. Gama yom. Gamma yom. I'll severish your team meat. Le support exhaort. Hammon. Hammon amon, when it should sadna oceam, shlemim, shinim. Ovrim shemlumdim, mumasheta eta eta tchot la gidmiem. Ma velo velo rake la tet kudot vedefka ma komas ze ani khoshevet jafol me odzo ki boy pimuhatmeatsa. Khatayutse, tayutseye khasit begil chata lo yotseye shirotle pensia, shishimesheva, atayotseve boneo lam kadash. Verov hevre ulkim vepotrima sakim. Verovhevre mehabsim ulay shutaf lo kiem tzrihimotowa filukal kali. Kiem pashutrikim od mishu la seti tameta netel, netil. Vishha, anuseshus tik shoet, umtipiot, b'nyat khazzon meshutaf me od me odme od kriti. Beinal me od kriti. Me od kriti.

SPEAKER_02 32:23

Shligam arca dhibanugamba potkas silah ešli arca echlivnochut briya. Vhada dwarim shaiti, kshe buharim shu taf the betsman niponali ba nadam sani makirpamim. Bazani makiruto ba piknik, ani makiru to batsawa, ani makirto mezeshu makon, anyaf pamlu khoshem, echa ba nadama ze s tovli toba barbecue, echumina el, echumityehesli kesef, echumityeha eslisikunim, echubunetik shore it, atkama michabed, atkama bhagovainaim, atkama nicholi yot shu taf tofitov, gam ze makom shenaknuhayvim livdokoto, loki tovli toba barbecue, elaki uyude alina el, badk shuze aderehulay domali o adereh shona awalanima skima, likabelet adereh sheniu, not mi zema shuachher, beyakh.

SPEAKER_03 33:22

Ani ani m' odme od maskimaitah, yotermize ayomani afilu bocherit, la vodimanishim, shonimimeni, la filu menugadim, la la la dereh sheli kdelil mod mehem, a val kodem kol, shonna, ali sama la shul khan, it'swa me odbura, zekhazan sheli kha nirwa, eta khibubeno, andi rutzali shmo, madateh, madatha, echatha, roimidze burze shell istakel kadima beyakat. Lirota to tat mana. The vodla mata konfliktem. The beseda za tv.

SPEAKER_02 34:24

Nahon nahon khatah. Conflictimem khalik miat smihasha m'akhudim lina el na khonedim la ka.

SPEAKER_03 34:36

Miklalashili. Ani me damshel khazon ve i kazo pa'am sheshli rayon khadash, aniu tsala lot mashu khadash, ani punalia, ani ma mash ponabanium. Okay, tamal anitri kha rega shinach shov yachat. The ani sameta rayonochili, ve isha la chelot, ima masha salita alihimun. Okay, rega, lana nihutzala lehit, lana nihutsala kakat otanu, okay, bamikhlalazu. Vani kushuk ze katamatanochila maditi ve kibalti mianefila dulazu.

SPEAKER_02 35:24

Ki bo isemfiham shalem mefihu. Atihuali shathutano, tihwali shatano bazurat khashivasha itala khacharin nephila, alalikahim, alashurim, arizanura kashev, zhe kibalt bomba ba partsuv. Bomba, kibati bomba. Ki lokali khadihole lil mod mizev lokalihadwo e bema uloya bisedar bata alihrize taliv listtakelbar iv lagit poani loiti besedr visham zlora k shutaf, shuloya bisedr gamli poya. Gamali bahu, bahu. Thulali shativkaha bata alih shalakhutahayom li makom she at muchanali shativ, at muhanali shmo, wat davkami vakeshit bikurit, weat makshivaju t earli nurta dumot, atba makoma kherli gamrayum. Imkha l'chodka ni lomedchani shumat surat khashivash ilbana dam zlizimodo zergam l shano tsli v lirot itsli dwari.

SPEAKER_03 36:32

Azani kaha. Baida riishon okay the ka'as meldgadola laula. Boy, ata nimta begaga o lam, ishtaha kol, kon mashtawutze, the pitom, tata khlispoita kesefle lechem. Bedar mamaškaha as the as monamamon kanas a laulam zeat lamaze koreli, vema lama, vema citi, vani kolka kmashkia, vi shtati, lama dala kaze koesli be khashutafazi t na ega live lama uve khuna fala lai vani khushana chi az ili be ofani shikikara mashushani koretlo matanashikibati bahhaim ze na taim codem itkabalnu kavarnu mifhanim yot mishpaha mishpachat umna bekfarila dize. Kilo marl khutin la tet sha naze bach mehosh. Ve' az biduk boto boto rega, meatger botozman meatger, bidukamachodashimachare, kibal no da, azba i natimanim saperate. He derecha istaklucheli lay la dimedel ehadisra yla dimai tesrindarba shiva. Wowtum annibalam med otam leyat foot. Lelamed otam leyat tik short. Lelam med otam laqshiv rega. Lakshiv, lolit parets, lolit sok, lolit lol litzrokita kol rega linishom liaqshiv. Leat leat ani melamedit otam the kol pamatovanota el yodot. Ela nikani amoti a sanah shi tihnanu liocham sana inusham shesh. Wow. Okay, inusam sheshanim. Shemi pinatima yuam matanahik dolash kibalti mahaim.

SPEAKER_02 38:54

Kian matak biturmatana kibalti matana.

SPEAKER_03 39:01

Tati lain, kolasman kibalti. Kola asman kibalti. Zani khosheb shapitom sham yodu call mina ammora monasimunin. Ala itnaluchili, ani holotak shabvashili, ali holotakhalashili, efoem loyu, efoem kienhsham, makweli, ksem loyu sham the k shem kankoeli k shesh, kshashim, kshaseko, makola shiburi ma yeladin.

SPEAKER_02 39:32

Ithalgamlikroiza shumida ma marim sparim.

SPEAKER_03 39:37

Yoterme uhao, seha kufai, the kola lalikapesis falim. The laya laya internet, alpine sh time, alpine shalosh la madeti utsen gunibun vastatrifa, we azalti le atle aklikanesle toha o la motaile, ve kamuven kwa alpine shesh, al khame sheshk shelamati coaching, azgam, mamash nich nasti kwale tohamuskal, bitoha bitoha devarze. Ve vanitamidomeret yeshem mashu b netina sha be makom sh netina atabami makom patuah shilatet. Vezanigam kol asman melamedit, kol asman ma'a, gamla la studentim shili, gam le mitamin sheli, gamla tal midim shilu ki patro regal le makom shel liot venetina, shava, kshiva, velakshiv, lakshiv, zeloma kbaus naiv lakshiv zebba kola goof, zebba nail lakshiv, zeba goof lakshiv the lakshiv, zilangish, sha ta makshiv, kiksha ni me debarata lakshiva, nimedaberta zesha afilwa a pimot lev shelikemakshiva em gvotia ki ki mashu vifnim sha uved har beltio zilon kak oznai.

SPEAKER_02 41:24

Anibiduke kakhaban shilia bakhorwa kshaabba talih shalimzoitat'smo ve mauru zela sot, kha kol pamu podek kivun v ayalun tkhalu zhu siih, bazu atzar alah istuvev, istuvev khazar, ba nikwa rayti mu khanayim malemale chovot. Avalmashu khamar li rega bifnim tatzri, altakidilo klum. V pitomu na tank elu chuvot kha khamot, v istaklut pnimu, tlihačeu wa sasiwo istakel pneima, vru'aw etaitna luċilo ve mautzehli shanot, bli xi amartilo mila, v memašha. Velatetlo li daber.

SPEAKER_03 42:12

Bidiuk zeh, ki ube etzem pitom ksuayasha m uy tzaratovanochelo. Simonim pitom noflib. Zekat wahim khashu nimen ikhoshhebe betak we betah ksha minael esekim shutafim shutafimhholeta kshabazot yulaya a deva kikhashufliotlanu.

SPEAKER_02 42:41

Shabak tihutmaski maita, gama kshawa, gam tihut, gam echolet li rot mimatimli, mi lomatimli, mi olech badereh shili, we millole olek badereh shili, we mi olehbadereh shili, abali shlugi sha kherit shi khula lyutova, u la lotova, the ammon amon shailot chokola's manshimli v dokimatsmainu, kshanugambu kharim banadam la lehtitula deapulitiyul bhutzlaarit, vegamba miuhacha the kashurkwar leesek le kesefli amon dwvarimakharim, gambazugiut za foot the kolma kom, kolmashahmo sim, kol ma komimaskima, kol makom yesla ni shoot fyot. Ma ba etim kha sloh sha dvarim shatihula latet it'sa khashaloshit'zaaf sha lachli ma zinimshe pro tsimli kanesli shota footoshin yhnsaimba shoota foot matihula latet.

SPEAKER_03 43:46

Kodum kol, kodum kol siapatwah. Fadak should have the holiot mi million sibout, the holiot kalkalit, yet as remaining, the holiot mi makom shelle cook la la la regala khashiva, la moua shel, le show mashushair lo, okay, o col si bach. Lhomishanem massiba lola roots. Le yatser, codem kol siach, visholi, patuah. Kol shinitan, patouach, velagid, velishol, ishol, ishol velakshi, ishol velakshi. Mam viotra, chutafiti ba isika. Mama viotrashan. Cola goof. Okay, shay barrega shay gam shibaliot shu tafselanu veanachnu ktuhim shualimoto azugamitha ber. So mato mit khabergam la chazan shelanu, mit kaber la la la khalumotchelanu, gaman nachnu, echolimadali dok, kmo sha mart, aimumatimli kim ulailo, b'zi beda imulu. Kita midi yetamishwa khem shi yemat imli. Nahun nahon Bizzihadna khash vin shana kot khem la vin ifak evant.

SPEAKER_02 45:51

Kshay shpakamu od davar sha la simata leimani ba shlaya o thehmed zamatzav. Ayimani midamianet mashu, verway the she tmunashulay lore realit bihal, asli shamani machni saita shotafeli, o sha anirwaitat muna realit vlirot ifwashlayot behmet willasimutambatzak ishuta'mi od miskimaitahlzhlit. Maggitodarabalach, ayami ratek, mamash sama sishat vikahanata mon erachamon dvari mhashuvim, sha na shivim leve dok.