We're Obsessed With You
Emily Hymes and Kyle O'Donnell are two best friends and late night television producers. When they aren't working, they're texting, DMing, and voice noting each other about everything they're obsessed with – both online and in NYC.
On We're Obsessed With You, Emily and Kyle invite their favorite personalities to dive into the things they can't stop thinking about. This is an interview show about hyperfixations, served with pop culture expertise and just a little bit of brain rot.
We're Obsessed With You
Obsessing Over Accessibility, Accents & Anastasia Pagonis
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Put on your micro shorts because Emily and Kyle are back and already planning what they’re wearing to the market this weekend. Then Emily reveals her latest hack for choosing restaurants and Kyle shares his favorite daily word games (and no, they're not Connections).
Later, 2x Paralympian and world record holder Anastasia Pagonis stops by the WOWY offices and reminds everyone why she’s such a badass. She breaks down what it’s like to ski down a mountain while visually impaired, how she shops at Sephora, what it’s like to be paired with a guide dog, and what led her to launch her own haircare line.
Plus, her ~GLOSSY~ obsession and a rapid-fire round of Obsessed or Over It.
00:00 – Welcome to WOWY
03:21 – Emily’s Obsession
07:41 – Kyle’s Obsession
13:58 – Anastasia's Interview
28:53 – Anastasia's Obsession
36:44 – Obsessed or Over It
New show, new obsessions, every Wednesday.
Hosts: Emily Hymes and Kyle O'Donnell
Guest: Anastasia Pagonis
Executive Producer: Julia Aubuchon
Producers: Drew Downing and Ben Gottlieb
Graphic Designer: Maddie Jones
Original Music: Reuben Alexander
For RaffHouse Productions: Haleigh Raff and Glenn Raff
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This Week's Obsessions:
Emily: ChatGPT sourced locations inspired by books
Kyle: Ponder Club's Common 3 / Minute Cryptic
Anastasia: e.l.f. Cosmetics Glow Reviver Melting Lip Balm
We're Emily and Kyle. We started as coworkers in late night television and now we're best friends exploring NYC and our FYPs.
SPEAKER_06This is an interview show about obsessions. Ours, theirs, and maybe yours too. Welcome to We're Obsessed With You. Hey Emily.
SPEAKER_03Hi Kyle.
SPEAKER_06Welcome to We're Obsessed With You.
SPEAKER_03I'm Emily Himes.
SPEAKER_06I'm Kyle O'Donnell, and this is our show where we talk to the people we're obsessed with. About the things.
SPEAKER_03Their obsessed with. Yes.
SPEAKER_06Welcome.
SPEAKER_03Emily, what's up? Um, not much. I said that last week, but really not much.
SPEAKER_06Love that. It's spring in New York.
SPEAKER_03I feel string in New York, and the pollen is pollening.
SPEAKER_06I just feel like I'm finally thawing out, and I'm like, it's so much better.
SPEAKER_03No, it's not.
SPEAKER_06Why?
SPEAKER_03The pollen.
SPEAKER_06Oh, but don't you love not going out in a giant coat?
SPEAKER_03Yes.
SPEAKER_06It's really nice.
SPEAKER_03I don't like transitional seasons though. Like I hate fall or summer into fall, and then I do hate winter into spring because it's like, what do we wear? What's going on?
SPEAKER_06See, I hate summer and I love fall. So the second I can start wearing a sweatshirt and shorts, it's like heavy honor to me. Right. That's it.
SPEAKER_03I think anyone, because we've talked about this, when it is a little chilly out and it is the fall, wearing a sweatshirt, wearing long sleeves and shorts versus wearing long pants and a short sleeved shirt. That the latter feels diabolical to me. Psycho. Psycho. Who does that?
SPEAKER_06I actually don't understand. Your core has to be warm.
SPEAKER_03I completely agree. Even if it's a vest.
SPEAKER_06It's such a Massachusetts thing to be wearing a hoodie and a short in the middle of winter. Like it will be January, and I'll be wearing a short and a sweatshirt.
SPEAKER_03A lot of people have caught you on the street in your short shorts in the middle of winter. Outside Smith Street, just in the skimpiest shorts and a sweatshirt. Where do you get your shorts?
SPEAKER_06Oh, my skimpy shorts, they're usually outdoor voices, makes a good skimpy short.
SPEAKER_03Even with the new rebrand?
SPEAKER_06No, these are like sample sale from like six years ago.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Who else? I like a um champion mesh skimpy short. Heaven on earth. Yeah. I love those.
SPEAKER_03That's cool. I want to get a pair.
SPEAKER_06We'll buy them. Yeah, I'm gonna get them for the summer for the market. I have a pair from um Clemson University when I went, and they're my favorite shorts.
SPEAKER_03Oh, I'm actually pissed I didn't ask you to get me some while you're there.
SPEAKER_06Maybe I'll buy some for you because they also have pockets. Fabulous. Many skimpy shorts don't have pockets.
SPEAKER_03There are a lot of, I look for the shorts like this a lot, and I'm like, oh, this is perfect to go to the market in. I think about what I'm gonna wear to the market, and when I tell you I never wear those outfits to the market.
SPEAKER_06Oh, I do.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I want to.
SPEAKER_06I want to stunt on people at the market.
SPEAKER_03The market is like, I can be crazy at the market. Yes. And like, who cares? Right. That feels like one of the places it's like, let's be fun.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. Yeah. You can that just like makes the trick.
SPEAKER_03Because it's like, it's like an hour of your time. You're barely at the market. You're at the market for like one second. You're like, I'm being someone else.
SPEAKER_06And also, don't you feel like a fashion model when you're walking down the aisle and like someone else is coming down the aisle as well? Like you're just like, oh, I'm on parade, you're on parade.
SPEAKER_03Yes, yeah. I'm I don't feel that as much, but when I'm in a hot outfit, yeah.
SPEAKER_06Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_06You guys romanticize your life and get dressed for the market.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, go to the market, the fork read market every Saturday.
SPEAKER_06Yes. Emily, what are you obsessed with this week?
SPEAKER_03I am obsessed with, oh, I'm obsessed with like something that everyone can do. It costs no money except once you actually plug it into the um chat GPT.
SPEAKER_05Great.
SPEAKER_03Um, my friend Andrew, he's a big reader, and he's been doing this thing where he will plug into Chat GPT. I just finished this book and this book, and I really liked it. What where should I go in New York City that would make me like give me these vibes?
SPEAKER_05Maps vibes. Yeah. Oh my god, I love this.
SPEAKER_03So I think that is so fun. And you can do it with anything, I suppose, but I think we should stick to like books. Okay. So I'm opening my laptop.
SPEAKER_06Oh my God. This is a multimedia presentation today.
SPEAKER_03So the two books that I just read.
SPEAKER_06What? What if I just got a crazy email? Fired!
SPEAKER_03So I want you to do it too. I just read Strangers, a memoir of a marriage by Belle Burden.
SPEAKER_04We know.
SPEAKER_03Well, yeah. I also plugged in marriage at sea. Don't worry, everybody. I'm still talking about that. 117 days later.
SPEAKER_06If you don't know, this podcast feels like a marriage at sea sometimes.
SPEAKER_03And you know what? We're staying afloat. We are.
SPEAKER_06We have our two forks, we have our two cups.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, and we're like, we have our own jobs. It's actually perfect. Oh my God. So I plugged in Strangers, a memoir of Bell Burden.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_03And it said, um Wait, what was the prompt? I said, if I just read Marriage at Sea and The Stranger by Bell Burden, where should I go to eat New York City?
SPEAKER_06Okay, great.
SPEAKER_03So if you just finished Strangers, a memoir of marriage by Bell Burden, which I know a lot of people are watching, so they might be very intrigued by this, you should visit New York City spots that reflect her world of suffocatingly good taste. Oh, yeah. Her Vanderbilt Pally heritage and the coastal high society lifestyle she describes.
SPEAKER_06Okay, no offense to every time you've talked about that book. This chat G description made me want to read the book more.
SPEAKER_03Wow, Kyle. I just like your float's going down.
SPEAKER_06Well, you're on it too. I just did not know that's really what it's about.
SPEAKER_03Well, it's about her divorce.
SPEAKER_06Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_03But she's in high society.
SPEAKER_06I don't think I realized that.
SPEAKER_03The one thing that I thought was so interesting, so there are Martha's Vineyard people, and when they get divorced, she finds out, or we're the process of getting divorced, she finds out that they are country club in Martha's Vineyard. When someone gets divorced, you have to choose you have to choose which partner stays. So that like becomes a big thing. Like, because the the country clubs, like, we don't want both of them here. That's drama. So then they have to decide, I don't know, like through their divorce, like who gets the club.
SPEAKER_05That's amazing.
SPEAKER_03Okay, so Grand Central Oyster Bar.
SPEAKER_05Fun.
SPEAKER_03These are Upper East Side Midtown, the Heritage. Um, La Grand Boucherie, Tribeca Downtown, Holy Water, The Mermaid Inn, Good Taste Via Corota, If One by Land, Two by Sea. And I think that's starting to lead me into marriage at sea.
SPEAKER_06I'm gonna love it. I'm gonna do this. Yeah, and I will do, I've talked about the book of Luke on the podcast, so I'm not going to do that. But I'm going to my other favorite book of re of late, Foster Date Explorers the Cosmos.
SPEAKER_03Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_06Recommend a restaurant.
SPEAKER_03Yes, in New York City.
SPEAKER_06That matches that vibe.
SPEAKER_03I think this is really good for book clubs.
SPEAKER_06I think this is a great idea. Also, it's like an ethical use of ChatGPT.
SPEAKER_03Yes, I feel like this is okay. And I think you could also probably plug in a bunch of things and be like, these are my vibe these days.
SPEAKER_06Okay, I'm just gonna say they are getting ChatGPT is getting paid by the Waverly Inn. Because I also got recommended the Waverly Inn. It's such a specific, delicious vibe, elite Northeast Prep School, quiet yearning, intellectual insecurity, privilege with a hollow center. Sounds like us. And a kind of moody, hyper-aware loneliness. Really sounds like us. A little waspy, slightly haunted by own self-serious, but beautiful. Waverly Inn. This is the foster aid restaurant. Intellectual but performative, Cafe Sabarski. Do you know where that is?
SPEAKER_03No, but like let's try it.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. Tommy Jazz, Tomy Jazz, Melancholy and Slur, Slightly Hidden, Bakery, Elite. Teresi.
SPEAKER_03Okay. All right. Okay.
SPEAKER_06We know a way in. Yep. But it said Waverly Inn. And also puts them on a map. Oh, this is so fun.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I think it's really fun.
SPEAKER_06I love this. I'm obsessed with this too. Yeah. But now I'm going to do this like movies and things.
SPEAKER_03Oh, that's a good idea. Yeah, you can do it with so much stuff, I guess. Kyle, what's your obsession this week?
SPEAKER_06So, for those of you that don't know, I'm a bit of a cruciverbalist.
SPEAKER_03What's that?
SPEAKER_06It is one who enjoys crossword puzzles. Cruza, coming from a Latin. Cross.
SPEAKER_03I was thinking crucifix. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_06Verbalist word.
SPEAKER_03Duh. Laura, Laura would have known that. Is she a big Yes, shows every day. I didn't know that.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. Um, so I love obviously all the New York Times games. I love Connections. I love the crossword.
SPEAKER_03Don't tell me you're doing the new LinkedIn one.
SPEAKER_06What is the new LinkedIn one?
SPEAKER_03There's the LinkedIn game that everyone's been playing.
SPEAKER_06My cultural blindstone is that I don't know what LinkedIn is. I still think my LinkedIn says I'm a page at NBC.
SPEAKER_03That's probably why you haven't gotten any requests.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, probably. Um, I don't even know if someone could request me on LinkedIn. But, anyways, so I am obsessed with these two other games. One is from this website called Ponder Club.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_06And they do a game that's called Connect Three. And it's three Venn diagrams. So one, two, three. Okay. And they give you one, two, three, four, five, six, seven words, maybe. And you have to figure out how they're all connected. So there's it's like it's three Venn. This is where the pre-suberbalist.
SPEAKER_03Super obsessed. Okay, wait, keep going. I just I'm having a hard time seeing it.
SPEAKER_06It's just you have to, yeah, pull it off on your own. We have our computers today.
SPEAKER_03This is like fun day.
SPEAKER_06So you have these three diagrams.
SPEAKER_03It's like a Venn diagram. Did you say that?
SPEAKER_06I did say Venn diagrams. So then you have to put these in. So the words they give you are Sphinx, Anabus, Pyramid, Griffin, Obelisk, Dragon, slot machine.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_06So you have to figure out how they're all connected. One word will connect all three trends. It's very fun. I love this. I do love what it plays. I don't know. But dragon, griffin, they're all um fictional creatures. So that's connects one.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. It is giving like connections like exactly.
SPEAKER_06But then the one I'm really obvious is.
SPEAKER_03Is this the one that I'm also obsessed with that you told me about the colored one?
SPEAKER_06No, but I love that. Yeah, that one's really fun. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That is a function. That's really fun.
SPEAKER_03I can get into that. Yes.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. So this is called a Maybe it doesn't involve words.
SPEAKER_03Of course, that wouldn't be included today.
SPEAKER_06This is a Minute Cryptic, which basically they are crossword clue. When you do the crossword and you know when you got a question mark one, it's usually a riddle or something. This is just those. So every week they give you a cryptic crossword clue. Or every day, I'm sorry, on Minute Cryptic. And you have to solve them.
SPEAKER_03Okay, so what is it to give you?
SPEAKER_06This one says learn 1970s dance music,$5 off per beginner. I already did this and I got it right.
SPEAKER_03Did you know right away? I did. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_06Because you have 1970s dance music, so that's disco.$5 off. Usually you see a number, it means you have a um Roman numeral. So that's V per beginner. You're taking the P off of it's just once you get it, they have lessons and everything, it makes sense. The answer was discover. Because you have disco, V, and you're taking off the first letter of per. And that's the word. But if you want to kind of stress, like stretch that muscle and kind of get into word games, you can follow Coffee and Crosswords on TikTok. Oh, that's fine. And she solves them every day in real time. So she'll tell you, she'll work through it. So how I got into them is that I would just watch these. Yeah. And I learned how, like, what does this what does it mean when you have a number? What does it mean when you like there's certain words that mean scramble the letters? It's going to be an anagram. The only way to do it, to learn it, is to do it.
SPEAKER_03I wonder if you typed in, I'm obsessed with minute cryptic, where should I go eat?
SPEAKER_06Oh.
SPEAKER_03Should we just try?
SPEAKER_06Are we out of time?
SPEAKER_03I wonder if they'll send you to a place where you can like play it, like a coffee bar or something.
SPEAKER_06Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Or if there's like a real vibe.
SPEAKER_06I'm sure like Liz's book bar. They're gonna just like a wordy kind of thing. Um book club bar. Guys, I am Chat GPT. Get rid of this. Just pay me instead. Um, we want to thank everyone for the support. We love all of you.
SPEAKER_03Almost all of you.
SPEAKER_06We love all of you. Um, if you're listening to us, we are available on YouTube. So go over there to We're Obsessed With You.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, we're both wearing red today.
SPEAKER_06Yes, and we're so hot. And we are on Instagram and TikTok at We're Obsessed With You. Go check us out there. But how you can really support the show is through our Shop Mai. We, everything we talk about on this show are things that we're actually obsessed with. We are not getting paid to mention these things, if you can believe it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but if you want to also be obsessed with them because we have such good taste, you should just go online through our ShopMai and buy everything.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, we get like two cents per purchase. It just helps us continue to do this show. But the real way you can support us for free, thank you very much, is by subscribing and giving us five stars on the podcast app.
SPEAKER_03And you should comment.
SPEAKER_06Leave a comment. We'll start calling out comments. If you leave a good comment, we'll start calling them out. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Tell us what you're doing. But you have to leave a good one.
SPEAKER_06Tell us what you're obsessed with. Comment on our YouTube videos. Tell us what you're obsessed with.
SPEAKER_03Tell us something funny.
SPEAKER_06We want to build a community here. That's what we're all here for.
SPEAKER_03I'm so excited for our guests. She's amazing, talented, accomplished, and she's a swimmer. Yes!
SPEAKER_06We are interviewing this week Anastasia Anastasia Pagonis. She is a world record um holder in swimming, and she's a gold medal paralympic. And she has she's blind, and her Instagram and TikTok are all about um making things accessible and teaching people about flyingness and how the world around us really is not built for accessibility.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Um, and what I'm really most excited, though, to talk to her about is like being a girl.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, she is a girly girl. She's such a girly girl.
SPEAKER_06She like leans into makeup, her hair, she's so fabulous. We're just excited to talk to her about her mission, but also like have some fun with her.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, we're gonna have fun.
SPEAKER_06We'll be right back. We are here with Anastasia Pagonis, a world record holding Paralympian and accessibility activist. Anastasia, we're obsessed with you. Welcome.
SPEAKER_02Hi, I'm so excited to be here. I'm so obsessed with you guys. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_06We've been chatting before rolling, and this is gonna be so fun.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I'm so excited.
SPEAKER_06So excited.
SPEAKER_02Thanks for having me. Of course.
SPEAKER_06So we want to just talk a little bit about the Paralympics and the goals that you set. So you first off, I just want to say everyone go to Anastasia's Instagram. She has so many resources about blindness and accessibility and that it's a spectrum. And that is a resource we use a lot for our research. Yeah. And I think you use utilizing that platform to teach people is incredible.
SPEAKER_02Thank you.
SPEAKER_06But we don't want you to teach us, we just want to talk to you because we think you're so you guys go educate yourselves and then come back.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Because this is just gonna be like a key. This is gonna be a great time. Um, you started swimming after you lost your sight, after you grew up as a soccer player, and then around 11, you started losing your sight and you got into swimming.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_06When did the Paralympics become the goal?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so obviously, soccer player, ball, vision loss, not a good combination. It just, yeah, it doesn't work. So my doctor recommended I got into swimming and I I fell in love with it. And I never knew the Paralympics was even a thing until I started progressively losing more vision and actually was looking at swimmers that also had disabilities. And I was like, wait, like how are they getting these like gold medals and stuff? Like this is so cool. And I was like, oh my god, the Paralympics. And I remember going to my first meet and I got my ass kicked. It was amazing. Like, little me, I was like competing against these super cool people. And I was like, Yeah, I got to swim in the same pool at that. Got my ass kicked, but like it's totally fine. Um, and it was just like such a blast to be around people that were just like you. I grew up swimming on an able-bodied team. Um, so being able to compete against people who had the same abilities and disabilities as me was really nice.
SPEAKER_06What was it like to go from a team sport to then like a solo one?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, very interesting. Um, I mean, I was little when I was playing soccer, but honestly, my swimming is a team, it's a team process anyway. So when I swim, it's not just me. Um, I have two tappers on each side of the pool, which hit me with a little pole in a pool noodle so I know that the edge is coming up, so I don't like, you know, face planked into the walls. Um it's kind of is like a team sport. Uh, because if they mess up, it messes me up. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Have you been working with them for a long time?
SPEAKER_01Like, do you feel yeah, I have to have a lot of trust. I'm super duper picky and such a brat about like such a brat.
SPEAKER_06You're a world record holder, I think you have the right to so picky about like who taps me.
SPEAKER_01And it's super frustrating when you're like competing for the race of your life and someone else messes it up. They're like, oh, like that wasn't even me, that was them. And that's part of being in the Paralympics and having a disability. Right, right.
SPEAKER_06What I love A about the Olympics and the Paralympics, but also your content is that you really celebrated all the Paralympians around you. Like you really, it's so inspiring just to have like to celebrate other people's wins.
SPEAKER_01Yes, and that's what's so important. I mean, it's it's sad that there aren't people that do that, but it is so important. Every single Paralympian and Olympian is so inspiring and so amazing, and they deserve all of the attention that they could possibly get. And that's something about the Paralympics is it's a slow process. They are getting better, but we don't get the attention that we deserve. And they are trying to change that, but it still needs a lot of work. So why not use my platform to promote these amazing people?
SPEAKER_03Absolutely. Yeah, it's amazing. What a like great community and the people that you've met. Yeah, it's so amazing.
SPEAKER_01Everyone's so inspiring. The stories that come from these people. I mean, I'm involved in it and I get inspired every single day from these people.
SPEAKER_06Who are some people that you think our listeners should be checking out?
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Oh my goodness. So many. Okay, so Jessica Long, who is a Paralympic swimmer, she is missing both of her legs. She has more medals than Michael Phelps.
SPEAKER_04Oh my god. Yes, man.
SPEAKER_01Like, how crazy. So cool. Brenna Huckabee is a snowboarder, and she actually did a class action lawsuit with the Paralympics because they took away her classification. So now she competes against people who are more disabled. Uh, sorry, she's more disabled than the people she competes against. Oh, wow. And she still wins.
SPEAKER_05Oh.
SPEAKER_01Period, Brenna. Period, Brenna. Goats are goats for a reason. Yes, for real.
SPEAKER_06Well, speaking of snowboarding, you're also a skier.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. Well, getting into skiing, yes.
SPEAKER_06How this is a dumb question, but how does one with visual impairment ski? Like, what is that process of?
SPEAKER_01Um, I just pray for the best and fly down the obvious ski. God for now. Yeah. So, like, here's the mountain, just send a girl. Like, no. So there's a lot more that happens behind the scenes. I have a headset that's connected to my helmet and connected to my guide's helmet. And I have full trust in my guide. They tell me right, left, someone's in front of me, slow down faster. It's this steep here. And the dopamine and adrenaline rush that I get when I'm like going down the mountain and I'm literally like, I feel a pit in my stomach. I'm like, oh, this is so scary. And then I get to the bottom, I'm like, yes, let's do it again.
SPEAKER_04Oh my God.
SPEAKER_01It's so scary. And honestly, in one of my opinions, like, I think downhill alpine skiing for blind people is like the scariest, most dangerous Paralympic sport because these people are completely blindfolded, going 70 miles an hour downhill.
SPEAKER_03I can barely go down a bunny hill.
SPEAKER_01Like that's so scary, and they do it. And that's why we're pretty cool.
SPEAKER_06Absolutely. And the speed of it all, like I am going like I'm going full edge to edge, just like basically horizontal.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, pizza never works. I know. Pizza will always do you dirty. No, the first time I got on skis, um, which was actually this season, um, oh my goodness, I decided to just free-for all this. And my God bless my poor boyfriend. Um, no ski lessons, nothing. I'm like, we're renting skis and I'm learning how to do this because I had a feature with NBC that I was gonna like had to learn how to all pine ski. And I was like, I can't look like a fucking idiot. Like I have to learn a little bit. And oh my goodness, the first time I was sobbing, we started walking down. It was terrible. He's a saint.
unknownHe's a saint.
SPEAKER_03And then I'm thinking I also think one of the hardest things is getting off of the um chairlift. The chairlift. You know what? I'm not as bad as you would think of my person.
SPEAKER_04I'm terrible.
SPEAKER_01I'm just thinking if I hit someone, that's on you. I'm wearing a neon vest. Like, that is on you, girl.
SPEAKER_06Do you go into most of your life with that mentality of like, we're gonna try it and figure it out?
SPEAKER_01Yeah. I always say I will try something once. And if I hate it, I won't do it again. I tried, we were in Park City, Utah, and I was like, let's try like, let's try a black. Like, I can do it, you know. It's my second time on skis. I can try a black. Cried. It took us like an hour and a half to get down, and we got down, and now I know I'm never doing that again. He was through like trees and like around all these. Oh my goodness, we won't be doing that again. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Um, you told our producer Julia that you have a seeing eye dog, but he's retiring.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_06How do you feel? That must be very emotional.
SPEAKER_01Yes. So his name is Radar, because obviously the best name ever. Um he is a 90 pound yellow lab. He's a big boy. And oh my goodness, he is like my best friend. Just getting my independence back, like having him and not having to rely on like everyone else, is so amazing. But yes, he's in the process of retiring. He's an old little man. So it's hard. Like the thought of like Not being able to work with him all the time is hard, but he deserves it. He had such an amazing working life and he's such a hard, passionate worker. Like he loves working and he's so good at what he does. This is so weird. We're talking about a dog right now. But like he's so amazing. He's so, so, so amazing and so like OCD and anal about things. Like, if I try to cross the street with my boyfriend, that's not at a crosswalk. He's like, girl, what are you doing? He's like, we're supposed to be at the crosswalk, but he's gonna live with my parents, and I'm gonna get a new pupper. So I'm super excited. And he deserves to live his spoiled, retired life now. Absolutely.
SPEAKER_06It's like you're like a grandkid for your.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_03He's beyond spoiled with them, which he deserves it.
SPEAKER_06Absolutely.
SPEAKER_03Are you just as picky about finding a new puppy as you are like with your team for swimming?
SPEAKER_01Honestly, so the foundation I work with, Guide Dog Foundation, they are so amazing. They are a nonprofit and they give veterans and um blind people like me, um, service animals and guide dogs. Wait, can you guys guess how much like it costs to train and raise a guide dog?
SPEAKER_06Oh, I can't even fathom.
SPEAKER_03I don't even, I don't even know where to see.
SPEAKER_06$70,000, baby?
SPEAKER_03Oh my god, is that are we talking those?
SPEAKER_06I think it's incredibly high.
SPEAKER_01It is incredibly high, but just like, okay, it's$70,000. Oh my god, for a guide dog. And they do it all non-for-profit. They are amazing, but they're so they are so picky with who you're matched with. Like, this has to be your perfect team. Radar has the same personality as me. He's like an introverted extrovert. So like he needs his time to like recharge his battery, but at the same time, he's like that bubbly cute boy that like you just want to be around. And like, so perfect for like my lifestyle. He was raised by the New York Islanders, so he's used to like loud arenas, things like that. So it's so good when he's like on pool deck, he's unfazed by anything. Like, yeah, there will be screaming and he's just snoring, and you're like, Oh yeah, that's my guy. Yeah, that's him.
SPEAKER_06So, how's the process been in trying to be matched with a new one? It must it sounds like dating.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah, no, it like kind of is like it literally has to be your perfect match. I'm a little bit picky with like what I want because I love like a bigger dog, um, and I also have like a faster tempo. So they literally track every single part of your life. I had a puppy that we thought was gonna work out. He ended up not working out for like the smallest, littlest reason. He has like a slight left pull, so he kind of turns a little bit and bows a little bit to the left.
SPEAKER_04Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_01And like, nope, he's not a match for me anymore. And it's like crazy how specific they are, but they need this match to literally be perfect. I mean, uh he is guiding a blind person.
SPEAKER_06Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So kind of has to be like top tier.
SPEAKER_06So we were talking a little bit before the cameras about your nails and your look and that you're a look queen and we love it.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_06You are working on combating inaccessibility in the makeup world because you love makeup and you talk about on your pages um your love of makeup and how you do your makeup. What how are you trying to combat the inaccessibility in that field?
SPEAKER_01The world is not set up for people with disabilities, which is so unfortunate. And you know, the thing about uh accessibility is it's it's really not that expensive and it benefits everyone. Like my parents are just in their 50s and can't see shit. So yeah, yeah. It's like this also benefits everybody. But a lot of brands like to put a stamp on their products and say that they're accessible. So for instance, there will be a brand that puts Brill on their packaging and they'll say, We have an accessible makeup brand, like come check us out. Accessibility, accessibility. But only 7% of the blind community can read Brill. So is that accessible? Right, not really. You're kind of just checking a box at that point. We need we're doing no research, yeah, zero research, 150% not asking real blind people. This seems like there's someone who's fully able-bodied behind this. We need people that are truly living through these experiences, being the ones that are putting in the effort to make it accessible. So for me, the most accessible thing, I actually came out with a bundle with ELF Cosmetics called Beauty. It's called Beauty for Every Eye Bundle. This was uh during the Paralympic Games in 2024. And instead of it having Brille, it had a tactile barcode so you could feel where the barcode was. And you can scan it with your phone, which every blind person loves their technologies. And it was an audio memo of me speaking and saying what the product is, what the shade was, how to use it, how to apply it. That is true accessibility. And we love to see it. But I go into a Sephora. I do love me, my Sephora. I love me my Sephora, and I have no idea what is anywhere. And that is so frustrating to have such lack of accessibility. And I go in and I'm trusting everyone else. I'm like, okay, like what's my shade in this? Yeah. And they'll be like, this is your shade. And I go home and it's like literally white on my skin, and oh my boyfriend gets so mad at me. He's like, Are you kidding me? We're going to Sephora again just for you to leave and be pissed off. I'm like, honestly, so true.
SPEAKER_02Like, you're wrong. Yeah, they do. They do. Yes, they do. Thank you, Sephora.
SPEAKER_06So, what are some of your holy grail makeup products?
SPEAKER_01Oh my goodness.
SPEAKER_06From both an accessibility standpoint, but also just things you love and you're obsessed over.
SPEAKER_01Um, so there is very lack of accessibility in the makeup world. So honestly, there are no products that I use that are accessible, which is crazy. Like zero products that I use are accessible. Um, I have to make them accessible by doing like small things, like putting like um a little rubber band on like I have a black and a brown mascara, so I'll put like the rubber band on the black mascara. So I know, okay, this one's a black mascara. I've had days where I'm like leaving the house and my mom's like we were in the car and he goes, Do you have a booty blender? And I was like, I do not have a booty blender. I was like, no, she's not here. But like trying new products is so scary too, because like rare beauty blush. Like if I apply rare beauty blush the way I do with regular blush, like you would look like a clown. Is it just like full coverage?
SPEAKER_03It is so pigmented, so you one dot and it's like one dot for your whole face. Like it's crazy. But um But it's also amazing once you blend it properly. It's like the best. It is amazing, it's top tier. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06You talk about how like the misconception about blind people is that they're like wearing dark sunglasses and they hide in the shadows and everything. And just by your representation, you're changing the idea of what a blind person can do and look like we're obsessed with you so much.
SPEAKER_01Thank you.
SPEAKER_06We'll be right back with your obsession, but can you tease us with one word?
SPEAKER_01Yes, okay. I think you guys will get this, but my one word is gloss. I think you'll get it. Oh, no way.
SPEAKER_06Fabulous. We'll be right back.
SPEAKER_01Oh my god, I hope it's a good lip gloss.
SPEAKER_03We're back.
SPEAKER_06We're back. Um, gloss. You tease us with the word gloss. Yes. What are you obsessed with?
SPEAKER_01Tell us. Okay, I'm obsessed with the ELF Cosmetics gloss reviver lip balm. She's so good. She moisturizes like a lip balm, but she's like glossy, but not sticky because like my hair gets everywhere. It just has so much hair. The wind. And if it sticks on my lips, I'm like, ugh. So we love her. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_03Do you have her with you right now?
SPEAKER_06Yeah, show us, show us.
SPEAKER_01Yes, I do.
SPEAKER_06Are you wearing it?
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_06Okay. Your lips look phenomenal.
unknownThank you. Thank you.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Here she is. Oh. She's so good. I love like any of like the nude natural colors. There she is. There she is.
SPEAKER_03Strawberry shortcake. Yes. Okay, is this the flavor that you're also obsessed with? Yes.
SPEAKER_01I love strawberry shortcake and I also love the peach one. Okay. They're both so good. Highly recommend. But it's like moisturizing, but at the same time, I'm always a girl who like needs like a little gloss or something on at all times. And she does it. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So how many colors do they have?
SPEAKER_01A lot. They have like so many. The shade range is amazing, but I always love like a little pinky nude shade. So those are like my go-tos. Yeah. Um, but they have like a clear one too that's good, just like for before bed and stuff. Like I use it all the time.
SPEAKER_06So it's super moisturizing.
SPEAKER_01So moisturizing, so good. We love it. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03So this is what I was just during the break. I was asking a question, and our producer was like, Emily, shush, wait until we start this segment. So I have really dry lips. Like this would help, like, if I put that on overnight. Yes.
SPEAKER_01100%.
SPEAKER_06Especially just like it's so good. Yes. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01The lips are like always just moisturized, and I get so dry from the chlorine, unfortunately. And we've had a rough winter here. So, like, on top of that, um, highly recommend.
SPEAKER_03Oh my god. I love a I love a gloss. I and to your point, I don't wear a gloss often because it's windy, or like I'll put it on and I walk outside and I literally feel like everything attaches. Because you have like a mustache immediately, and I'm like, why did I do this?
SPEAKER_01And then it rubs off and I don't reapply because I'm like, it somehow like ends up all over your face and you just look like a mess. But no, this is amazing.
SPEAKER_03Oh my god. Well, I trust you because you've tried them all. Like I literally have.
SPEAKER_01Like I've tried everything. There are a bunch that I like, but right now this is the go-to. This is the go-to. We're obsessed with her.
SPEAKER_06I love having a hyperfixation like that at the moment, just like something, also something so little. I assume it's not that expensive.
SPEAKER_01No, I think it's like$10. Elf is like, it's so good and it's so affordable. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And you can find it at everyone.
SPEAKER_03Well, I just want to say Elf is everywhere, right? Everywhere. It's not just Sephora or something. Like you run to CVS and you're like, oh, elf. Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06I my lip hydration journey is that I'm obsessed and addicted to Vaseline. Like, legitimately addicted.
SPEAKER_01No, like I went through a phase of that with Aquifore where it was like, if I don't have Aquafort in my lips, like I'm starting to like shake and shit.
SPEAKER_06It's really bad. I've noticed like I won't have it on me and I'll forget it.
SPEAKER_02And I'm like, You're panicking. Yeah.
unknownPanic.
SPEAKER_02No, because it's going on. Yeah, the rest of the rest of the day is gone.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, I'll have to like run into a CVS and buy one because I'm like, I can't go on.
SPEAKER_03Cracked lips, absolutely not there.
SPEAKER_06You will not find me with a dry lip at all.
SPEAKER_03I know. I have a dry lip right now. Don't zoom in through. She needs the lip reviver. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And it's when those things happen, you're like, everyone's looking at my lips. Yeah. You're like, everyone's talking about my lips. It's pulsating.
SPEAKER_01Mine is like pulsating. Oh my gosh, no, it's so bad. Once you have like one thing that you have in your head, you think the world is like staring at it, meanwhile, you're the world just doesn't care about you.
SPEAKER_06They're thinking about it.
SPEAKER_03Yes, exactly. Like this is how I feel about wearing a red lip. Like, I don't wear a color. I usually wear something like very mild, but if I put a color on my lip, like a red or something bold, and I walk outside, I swear to God, everyone's like, oh, she's trying a new thing. And I'm like, how does everybody know that this is new for me? Exactly. Meanwhile, everybody's staring at me. Meanwhile, nobody's looking at me. Nobody cares.
SPEAKER_01Like, that's how we feel when I'm like skiing or like something like that. I'm like, ugh, like I just want to be cute and I have to wear this god-awful neon blind vest. And I'm like, you know what? I might, they're going to stare at me because I'm wearing a neon vest. I might as well give them something else to stare at. So I'm like bedazzling my ski poles. And like just being a girl. Like, if they're gonna stare, give them something to really look at.
SPEAKER_06I always joke that my favorite thing is to be a girl. Like, yes. When I'm in my girl moments, when I'm in my girl moments, I just feel I could take on the world. Yes. So when you swim, chlorine makes you super dehydrated and your skin and everything. What are some other hydrating products you?
SPEAKER_01Yes. So, oh my goodness, I love everything. Right now I'm on like a tacha run. So I'm using like all of these amazing tacha products, and I love it. I also love like a drunk elephant. Um, yes, but right now, very deep into tacha and highly recommend everything. My eyes are super sensitive. So sometimes when I put even like skincare, not even like eye creams, uh, my eyes will be like watering and red and awful, but these have not been bothering me. So very happy with how that's going right now. I also love hair care. Like we love hair care too. Uh especially as a girl on like chlorine. Yes, hair products are so important. I'm always lathering myself up with it.
SPEAKER_06What's your go-to conditioner?
SPEAKER_01Okay, so on the very low key, I haven't found one that I'm like absolutely diehard obsessed with. So I was like, okay, I'm very much like a hair girl person, love my hair in chlorine all the time, need to keep it healthy. So on the very low key, I'm actually starting like a hair brand. That's amazing. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Um, it's gonna be fully accessible. Amazing. Yes, because as it should be. Yeah, um, and I'm like perfecting all the products. We've been going through this process for like two years now because I'm like, I need these products to be perfect, like literally perfection. Yeah. Um, so yeah, right now I really love where my conditioner's at. So to be determined, but I also love Amika. But yeah, I like Amika.
SPEAKER_03I love Amica. It's fun colors. Yes, yes, I love that. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, no way.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. Oh my god, this is so okay. We gotta talk about the slide. How has it been? How's the process?
SPEAKER_01It's been really, really fun. Um, just like being able to try out all these products and like the different scents and things like that. It's been really, really cool. And I'm so excited to make it something that's like truly accessible for people because I think that's so important. Again, blindness is such a spectrum. So I want it to be like across the board accessible. So it's gonna be color-coded for those that can see colors. Um, and then on top of that, it's going to be textural. So, like every single bottle is gonna be a different texture, and you will be able to find the difference of it just by touching it because that is true accessibility. Wow. So that's like my main thing. But obviously, accessible is great and all, but if it's not a good product, then like no thank you. So she will be perfect.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, also I think there's something to be said about making a really uh the perfect product that is accessible, as opposed to just being like, it's an accessible product, but we we're gonna spend half the amount of money and time on the thing.
SPEAKER_01No, no, no. She's going to be like good for damn like obviously I'm I have color in my hair, like bleach all the time, and like chlorine is not good for her. So yeah, we're still working on like all of the exact final things, but right now I'm really, really loving where it's at.
SPEAKER_06So cool.
SPEAKER_04Yes, I'm so excited.
SPEAKER_06Can you say the name of your brand? Um, don't say anything you don't want to say.
SPEAKER_01No, no, no, I definitely can. So my name is Anastasia. I'm Greek, but all of my cousins have like the same name. So my nickname is Toss. So it's gonna be called Toss for Touch and Smell, T-A-S. Love it because accessibility, touch and smell. Yes, that's so amazing. I love it.
SPEAKER_06That's amazing. We're running out of time, but we want to do a lightning round to get your take on some final hotspots.
SPEAKER_03Oh my goodness, yay!
SPEAKER_06Simply tell us if you're obsessed or over it.
SPEAKER_03Okay. Ready? Okay. Double stuffed Oreos. Obsessed.
SPEAKER_06Valor jumpsuits.
SPEAKER_03Obsessed?
SPEAKER_06I know I'm getting the water.
SPEAKER_01Are you kidding me?
SPEAKER_06You look so good at that.
SPEAKER_01Water polo. Ooh, I'm gonna say obsessed. So badass.
SPEAKER_06Fruit riot.
SPEAKER_01Obsessed! Like my whole freezer needs to be stocked, obsessed. I need to try them. They're so good.
SPEAKER_06So good. They'll change your life. Yeah, they will. Obsessed.
SPEAKER_03Um, electrolytes. Obsessed.
SPEAKER_06Gua shaw.
SPEAKER_03Obsessed. Seltzer water.
SPEAKER_01I prefer a Diet Coke. Accents over it. Accents, obsessed. Obsessed. What's your favorite accent? Oh my goodness. Okay, my man is Russian and his whole family is Russian. So I'm gonna say like a Russian accent, but like a French accent, too. I love it. When we were in Paris, I was like, oh, these people sound rich. You guys sound wealthy. Like, I love that.
SPEAKER_06Yes.
SPEAKER_01What's your favorite accents?
SPEAKER_06Ooh, well, okay, this is like, I'm from the Boston area, and I'm so Boston-pilled that like a Boston accent like really gets me going.
SPEAKER_04Love that. Love that.
SPEAKER_06The Ben Affleck, Matt Damon, that thing like works for me. The Michaela accent is my favorite accent in the world.
SPEAKER_02Make it nice and chef. Make it nice and chef.
SPEAKER_04Take a seat. Yeah. Take it in.
unknownI love her.
SPEAKER_02I love her. She's so controversial, but full fan love Michaela.
SPEAKER_01Love.
SPEAKER_06And she's just doing her.
SPEAKER_01She is so her, and everyone hates her for being her. And you know what? Be you, girl.
SPEAKER_06Absolutely.
SPEAKER_01Make it nice and shab.
SPEAKER_06Make it shaft. That's my favorite accent.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_06I don't even know if you could call that an accent, as much as just her.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, that's just a niche Michaela thing, but like a Boston accent, we love that. Love. Love a New York accent too. Yes. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06We have one final question. Oh yes.
SPEAKER_01Ready? One, two, three. Are you obsessed with us? I'm so obsessed with you guys.
SPEAKER_06Oh my god. We love you so much.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. Thank you so much.
SPEAKER_06Thank you for being here. Tell our listeners and watchers where they can find you. Yes, where can we find you?
SPEAKER_01Yes. Okay. Hi guys. Come check me out on Instagram and TikTok at Anastasia underscore K underscore P. Bye.
SPEAKER_06You'll learn a lot. You'll have a lot of fun. It's great.
SPEAKER_01Yes, education. Woohoo! Yay! Thank you so much. Thanks, guys. Awesome.
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