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Break the cycle of unavailable love
If you’re ready to stop asking “Why does this keep happening?” And start understanding what’s actually been shaping your choices in love. This is the foundational work of the conscious, secure, and committed relationship that grows with you.
Join relationship coach Asa Baav, who for the past seven years has worked with women, men, and couples, giving her a rare, 360-degree view of what truly shifts relationship patterns, and what helps singles find their forever love and keep it.
Break the cycle of unavailable love
Part 2: Are you unconsciously pushing away available love?
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In this episode, you’ll learn how attraction is shaped by the nervous system, not just conscious desire.
Asa explores a pattern many women don’t expect to uncover: why healthy, emotionally available love can feel boring, uncomfortable, or even repelling at first, and why that doesn’t mean something is wrong.
You’ll discover:
- Why unavailable love feels addictive (and why it’s not actually about him)
- How dopamine, cortisol, and unpredictability create chemistry that’s mistaken for love
- Why emotionally available partners can trigger self-sabotage, doubt, or “the ick”
- How your nervous system prioritises safety over love, and familiarity over desire
- Why asking for what you need can feel threatening, even with the right man
If you’ve ever felt confused by your reactions to someone who was “everything you wanted,” this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening, and how to shift it.
If you are ready to attract and grow an authentic, secure, and deeply connected relationship by aligning with your true self, your deepest desires, and highest values - and you want me in your corner hiding and holding you in your individual journey
The doors are now open to Embodied Love, limited spaces available.
Embodied Love - Asa Baav