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They’ll Call You Crazy the Moment You Stop Playing Small

Eric Season 1 Episode 13

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People will celebrate you when you stay small… but question you the moment you start growing.

This video is for the person who feels misunderstood, overlooked, or judged for wanting more out of life. If you’ve ever felt resistance from people around you the moment you stopped settling, this message is for you.

Sometimes your growth makes others uncomfortable—not because you’re wrong, but because your courage exposes their fear. So if people have been calling you “too much,” “different,” or “crazy” for leveling up, hear this clearly:

You are not crazy.
 You are waking up.

In this video, we talk about:

  •  why people resist your growth 
  •  the “crabs in a bucket” mentality 
  •  how elevation changes relationships 
  •  why being misunderstood is not failure 
  •  how to keep going even when support is low 

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Have you noticed that people are fine with you struggling? But the more you start growing, they get uncomfortable. The moment you stop playing small, the moment you move different and wanting more out of life, all of a sudden, people act like they don't know you and start acting funny. They'll call you crazy, they'll say you're insane, and they'll act like your ambition is the problem. But in reality, it's because your greatness reminds them of what they're avoiding. Your discipline exposes their excuses. Your vision exposes their fear. Your movement exposes their comfort. It's easier for them to hate than to be great. Let's tell the truth. That's crab in a bucket mentality. When one starts to climb out, the other one pulls it down. Not because the crab is doing too much, it's because escape makes the bucket uncomfortable. And that's how life works too. Most people don't hate your dream. They hate what your dreams exposes about their reality. They were comfortable with that version of you that stayed quiet, the version that played small, the version of you that didn't challenge anything or anyone. Now you're elevating. Now you're building with purpose. Now you're trying to build something stronger than survival. And that threatens people who made peace with you being stuck. So let me remind somebody today. You're not crazy for wanting more. You're not crazy for wanting peace. You're not crazy about wanting to build a legacy. You want ownership, growth, and purpose. You are waking up. People only know the old you. Some people only like the smaller you. Some people only supported you when your light wasn't as bright as theirs. Just enough to keep you right below them. But don't let that stop you. Keep going anyway. You keep building anyway, keep healing anyway. Learn, climb, and elevate anyway. Because you don't need anyone's approval to obey your own calling and using your God-given talents. Thank you, God. Hallelujah. Well, you don't need permission to grow. And you definitely need to. Hey, babe. Give me like three minutes. I'm recording. Sorry. Give me three minutes. And you definitely don't need validation from people who are afraid of chasing their own dreams. Let that marinate. So people call you crazy when you stop settling. Good. That probably means they can feel the shift. Let them talk, let them doubt, let them misunderstand. But do not let them keep you in that bucket. Your future is too valuable to trade for comfort. Your calling is too big to be buried under someone else's fear. And your life is too important to shrink yourself to make someone else feel comfortable. So keep going. Outgrow the bucket. Outgrow the doubt and become everything you were meant to be. If this hits home, add keep going in the comments and send this to someone who is growing privately while being judged in public. Ladies and gentlemen, it's time for the toasty tip of the day. Respect yourself. Everything else is bullshit. Thank you guys for tuning in to today's episode of the Nina Freedom Podcast. I am your humble, gracious, God-fearing host, Eric Pinkney. And remember, I believe in you. Like, comment, subscribe, and most importantly, share with your mom and them. I'm out.