I Tried To Do It All And All I Got Was Crock Pot Burnout

If “I got it” is your default answer, this conversation hits home. We dig into the messy middle of control, guilt, and the quiet fear that asking for help will expose a flaw. From the hourly-rate mindset that finally breaks the “I’ll just do it” loop to the tougher shift of sharing the mental load at home, we trade performative perfection for practical ways to breathe again.

We start with the honest reasons delegating feels impossible—pride dressed up as standards, the urge to protect others from our to-do list, and the belief that training takes longer than doing. Then we walk through a clean framework: price your time, document the basics, define “done,” and hire for strengths you don’t have. On the home front, we talk about reframing help as love, not judgment; renegotiating household roles without shame; and protecting the time you gain by using it for connection, not more hustle. Crock pot confessions included.

There’s also a candid look at comparison culture. Social feeds can make it seem like everyone else bakes sourdough, runs a company, and hosts storybook dinners nightly. We call that out and focus on what matters: reliability over performance, micro-delegation over martyrdom, and modeling healthy boundaries for our kids. The payoff isn’t abstract—more presence, less resentment, and a life built around the few things only you can do.

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Transcript

Welcome & Salty Setup

Voice Over 0:02

Welcome to the Group Chat Goes Live Slightly Salty Edition, where your three favorite troublemakers turn the chaos of the group text into a full-blown weekly show. We're talking real life, real opinions, and just enough sass to keep things interesting. No filters, no perfection. Just three women with big personalities, bold stories, and a habit of saying the quiet parts out loud. So grab your drink, brace yourself, and join us. Because the group chat didn't just spill the tea, it went live.

Kerri Ann 0:33

Welcome back, everybody. Here we are. I'm so excited. I am so excited. Okay, so wait, my phone went off. My topic. I need my topic back.

Why Asking For Help Is Hard

Kerri Ann 0:46

All right, so here we are, and today we're gonna talk about others helping, which I think is a huge challenge because for me, and I think anybody can speak to this, is that it's very hard to ask for help. It's uncomfortable, and I'm just gonna speak for me. It's uncomfortable. I feel like delegating is important and I know it is, not only in business, but just in life. But I may have some other issues that have gotten me to this place where that's hard. But I am seeing the other side of it when I do ask for help. And I do see that I have had people come to me and say thank you. Like thank you for trusting me to allow me to do this. I've had some people call it a gift, not just me, but when you trust somebody and you delegate or you ask for help for them from them that they feel like it's a gift.

SPEAKER_03 1:53

Yeah.

Kerri Ann 1:54

Because you're allowing them to help.

Adrianne 1:58

So And I think you learn too, because I mean we can't all know everything. So I feel like when you delegate something, someone brings in a different perspective too. Absolutely. But I suck at delegating. I am a control freak type A personality, and you almost have to like wretch it from my fingers for me to let go.

Kerri Ann 2:18

Yes. So that's what I want to talk about. Yes. Because is it being a control freak? Is it that you just don't want to put things on other people? Is it that there's personal things, like, you know, stuff from the little red wagons you carry behind you from the past that just make it hard to ask for help? Like, what is it? Because I know it's not just us. I mean, I know that I have, especially with you guys, let me help you. How can I help you? I've said it a million times. I've said it to other friends and people that I know. I've said it to my husband who tells me that I need to ask for help. But then when I say, How can I help you? It's even hard, it's hard all the way around for us, but it's important to do it because there's only so much time in a day. There's only so much of you available. And then if you're not asking for help, what is that taking away from? Is it taking away from marriage, friends, families, kids, your own self ability to help yourself and to rest, relax, and do all those things?

Control, Delegation, And Hourly Rate

Adrianne 3:24

I feel like a thing that helped me, but it was with a coach one time, was making me work out what my hourly rate is. So, like what is my hourly rate? And then every task was is this your hourly rate, or is this you could hire someone or pay someone to do that for you? And then does that make you stay on the path to get what you need to get accomplished, but you're not down here in, you know, the admin and you know, little things that you don't need to be doing. And that is control freaky as I am. And most of my issue is taking the time to properly train someone. I don't have the patience for it. Like I feel like you should know it. I hired you for it, but it's not their fault. No. It's I don't have it written out or a plan, so then I end up taking it back. But thinking of my hourly rate has helped me on that. But you are like queen of delegation. So how did you shift from you running everything that was your own to then now handing handing it off to people?

Kerri Ann 4:24

Yeah, because like we said before we started, it was not easy for you when you grew the business and your people then became a bunch of employees that now you had to change the way that you were with them.

Leanna 4:40

Well,

From Solo Hustle To Team Trust

Leanna 4:41

I think in business, when you first start, you are everything to everybody because there's no other option. Like, unless you come with, you know, a ton of wealth starting out. Like for me, I was starting with zero. Yeah. So I had to do all the accounting, all the scheduling, all the every little aspect of it, and you just get used to it. And like you said, like like I just had a process and I didn't have time, I didn't take the time to explain it to people. And I thought if I take the time to explain it to people, then I'm gonna be even more behind because now you know this kind of didn't happen. But something similar with figuring out what my hourly rate was changed things for me completely on the business side. And then I realized that I hired people that were way smarter than me and way better than me in all of the things that they were hired to do. So while it took a little bit of time to teach them like the foundation of who we were as a company, you just kind of let them go and do their thing. And each one of those employees showed up in a way that was so much better than I could have ever hoped for. And as you kind of get that experience, it's a little bit easier to become a little bit more hands-off. So, how do you shift then?

Kerri Ann 5:56

Because I agree with you. We all went to the same coach, so we know our hourly rate. Because I've even said that. Like I've talked to people about that and said I've negotiated in my head when I'm doing something, is it worth losing that amount of money?

Leanna 6:11

Yeah.

Kerri Ann 6:12

You know, like this is what my hourly rate would be. Is that worth it? I would love to say that I do that every single time. That is deal. No. But so I agree on the business end because I think empowering the people that work with you and for you is tremendous because that's where real growth happens.

Bringing Delegation Home

Voice Over 6:31

Yeah.

Kerri Ann 6:31

So when you're doing this every day in business, whether you own a business or you work for a business, you're growing a business, whatever that is, how do you go from being in that sphere and being so high powered in that way and that mindset and shift when you walk in the door at home?

Leanna 6:54

I think at home is where I struggled the most. Yes. Because I can in business, I had the people, right? But I felt like I was failing as a wife if I came home and my husband was cooking dinner. Yes. I felt like, wow, what kind of wife am I that I can't get a meal on the table? Or he would do the laundry or whatever that thing was made me feel so inferior. And he was doing it because he's like, he'd be excited. He's like, look, you made us dinner. And I was feeling like, great, one more thing I failed at, right? Like one more way that I'm not being a great wife or a great lolly or a great mom, whatever it was. Like the kids would call me and I'm like, I'm I'm going to a meeting. Can you wait? Or they'd call and they'd be like, Let me guess, you're going into a meeting. Okay. Right. Like it was in those moments. And I had a really hard conversation with Jeff, and I was like, This is really hard for me. I know you think you're helping, but really you're adding to my guilt. Right. And it was in understanding his perspective of why he was doing it, and that at the end of the day, the reward was quality time together. Yeah. Right. Now, now I don't have to come home exhausted. Or have crock pot meals every single day of the week.

Kerri Ann 8:10

Or you meal's a meal.

Leanna 8:11

I would take crock pot meals.

Kerri Ann 8:13

It got so ridiculous that everybody's like, if they saw the crock pot out, they were like, not again. I don't care what's inside of it. But that was my way. I'm like, there's a crock pot. Throw it all in. Done. My family would have been. That's enough. Right.

Adrianne 8:25

My family would have been like, what? We actually have a home cooked meal and it's not taken.

Leanna 8:29

I know. We had takeout cereal. You want some popcorn? There's a pop-tart.

Kerri Ann 8:33

There's a whole bunch of ways to do a roast, a pork roast, a beef roast. You don't even know. Just ask me. I know a hundred different ways.

Adrianne 8:41

But I think too at home, I had a hard time, especially when the kids were little, because one, you know, I I had a stable job that I left to do real estate. Then I thought I had to add a pressure. Like, okay, I got to make sure I'm making income and I, you know, make sure the kids are everywhere. All of the because, you know, I don't want to say it's my choice, but like I chose, you know, for us to foster and adopt. I chose I wanted to be involved, but I also wanted to have a career. And then I am not, I cook, but it's not like it's that like I'm a Susie Homemaker type of person. And so, but I felt like I was trying to do all of it. And then it just honestly made me resentful.

Leanna 9:17

Yeah.

Adrianne 9:18

And so with Terry and I, I had

Guilt, Pride, And Domestic Load

Adrianne 9:20

resent resentment that he didn't even know about. And I would be so overly stressed in my car to almost like a meltdown in the car. And one day I remember telling him, like, I can't do everything. Like, I want to do everything. I I can't do it all. And at one point, he was like, No one's asking you to do it all. And he would ask to help with things. And I'm like, No, I got it. No, I got it. No, I got it.

SPEAKER_03 9:44

Yes.

Adrianne 9:44

And my got it was adding resentment to him that he didn't even know because it was just me trying to make it easy for everyone. Like I wanted the kids to be happy. I wanted Terry to be happy.

Kerri Ann 9:55

And it's hard to see the other side of it. Yeah. It's hard. Just like you said, I know with Brian, we almost got to the point where he was like, I don't want to do family vacations anymore. Because it is so miserable being with you, getting ready for a trip that you are not good until we actually get there because you're doing so much and not letting anybody help.

Leanna 10:14

Yeah. That's how it is for me before Christmas. Like there's so many traditions, and it has to be a certain way, and it's got to, it's got to be this plate at this time and this, and you know. And I'm going to say something that probably isn't a popular thing to say. And it was a lot of times I think it's a pride thing. We think that we no one's going to do it better than us. No one's going to do it in a way that makes everyone feel loved on or appreciated and those types of things. And my husband lovingly called me out on that. I mean, he wasn't as bold to say, like, you've got a pride issue, but he was like, I would rather spend the time with you in a relaxed way than this rushed, okay, what do you want to eat? Okay, can we, you know, this hurry, hurry, hurry, this constant state of hurry. And so, you know, I was teasing before we started, but we do. We have someone that comes and cleans the house. We have people that come handle our dog dirt a couple of times a week. We have people who, you know, take care of our, you know, our landscape and our pool. And we're very, very blessed in those ways. But if I have someone coming to do that, Jeff and I made it a point that in that time we are doing something together because I think I know me. You'd add more. I would. Yeah. And I don't call it a control freak. I like to call it a control enthusiast.

Adrianne 11:37

I'm very enthusiastic.

Leanna 11:39

Why else we just call it bad shit crazy?

SPEAKER_03 11:41

That's what we call it.

Kerri Ann 11:42

We don't call it anything.

Adrianne 11:45

No. But I think too, like when you like Jeff's, he doesn't mind doing the cooking. Like I feel like the same. Like once I let go, like with Terry with the kids, like sometimes I'm like, you deal with them. Like I I don't even want to know. I don't want to be involved in it. Or, you know, we did HelloFresh.

Resentment, Boundaries, And Burnout

Adrianne 12:01

And sometimes Terry makes the meals. Sometimes it's the two of us in the kitchen making it, spending some time together. Like I don't feel the pressure. But also it's not just about time and money, is the older I get, and now that my kids are grown, I also want my own freedom, my own time, whether that's us cooking or, you know, Terry and I going to happy hour, or you know, we just randomly decide we're gonna drive up to Payson and hike. That to me now is my time and worth it.

SPEAKER_03 12:28

Yeah.

Adrianne 12:29

And I couldn't do that if I didn't let go and have an assistant or, you know, agents to trust. Like there are things now where my time is more important too. And I feel like that made a big difference for Terry and I too, is that I released that I can let someone handle business and go to Payson for a day. Yeah. Like the world didn't come to an end and I had fun.

Leanna 12:48

So I think if we figure out how to replace the thing that the task that we feel we should be doing with something that's more rewarding or more important, then it's easy to let it go. Right? Do you want to clean your bathroom or do you want to go hang out with your husband or your kids or your grandbaby or whatever, right? That's an easy choice for me. So but if it's just am I gonna go do more work or am I gonna go do, you know what I mean? Like if the tasks are equal, then I'm gonna feel guilty about it. But if I can somehow find a way to do something, like if I get to hang out with you guys, I don't care what's on my to-do list, like I'll deal with it later, right? Because that's the trade-off.

Kerri Ann 13:29

I do think that it's just an everyday intentional struggle and choice, not intentional struggle, intentional choice with the struggle. Yeah. Because as much as I would love to say that I've mastered some of that, Brian cooks a lot, which is wonderful because he just knows more than likely I haven't eaten all day because I'm going a million miles an hour. And so he's lovingly doing that. But he also knows how I feel about having a meal together. Yeah. And that's also the stressor that goes. And so when he does, I've given in to that, which is wonderful. And I love that he does that, but also him doing that has shown the boys that it's not just, I know this sounds like old school, but it it just is what it is. That they can also cook and do the things that they need to do for the people that they love, that it isn't just mom's job. A girl job, yeah. It isn't just mom's job or or you know, whatever that may be. But I do it's a struggle every day because you go into a certain mode. And I mean, I know I've even struggled with it with growing the businesses. I mean, Sandy and I have always had a really great, like we just get each other. So it wasn't a struggle in delegating for her and I. But then as the business grew and more people came on, then we had to realign our relationship and how we did things and then delegate to others. And that gave us a lot of struggle between the two of us. And thank God we're so close and we've just done this so long together that we were butting heads because we were just in an uncomfortable place of having other people do the things we needed them to do. Yeah. Like there's just, it's like every day. I mean, and now that we've gotten pl past that place, we

Kids, Roles, And Modeling Help

Kerri Ann 15:20

see that we're we're better together. The business is better, the people that are doing the jobs that we have hired them to do, like they're rising to the occasion. Like everybody is just rising to the occasion because we got out of our own way and asked for help and delegated. But just in everyday life, whether that's it, even my my kids will be like, let me help you.

Leanna 15:46

I think that's a way that they show love, though. Absolutely.

Kerri Ann 15:49

And I know that. I think we all know that. Yeah. But it's just, I think it's an everyday struggle, I don't know, maybe just for me. It's an everyday struggle to just because I feel like I'm doing so much that, like you said, to speak to what you said, like for Christmas, or what I didn't want anybody to help me because I've been gone so much with work. I'm like, this is my gift to you. Relax. I've got it. I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do that. And that isn't the way it's supposed to be.

Adrianne 16:14

But I think sometimes as moms, especially women moms who run businesses, whatever word we want to call that, um, is I think we overcompensate sometimes for our kids because we feel like we've worked so much that they sometimes were on the back burners. But I also think, because I'm, you know, we'll do that too, but I think sometimes, you know, we've talked about before is our generation, we're entrepreneurs. We wanted our kids to be kids, not latchkey kids. Right. But we may have gone overboard to an extent where we've done everything to make everything so perfect for them that and we don't allow them to see our craziness. You know, I'm sure most of us lose it in the car or you know, we're messaging each other.

Kerri Ann 16:59

But our kids don't see it. When I look at my kids ranging, you know, ranging in age from 21 to 31. They have no problem setting boundaries and and delegating and asking for help. Do you think maybe they are so good at it that I'm surprised because that isn't what I like, they're really good at it. Yeah, and we we I don't want to say we did so much for them.

Leanna 17:27

But maybe it's because they see what happens when you don't. Like, let's be a real I want to be like my mom. I mean, I think we all take things like she has way too many drinks at night. It's fine.

unknown 17:39

It's fine.

Leanna 17:40

But if you look at it, think about like our own parents. There's things that your parents, maybe not Franny, because we all love Frannie and she's perfect. But not to Franny. I know. But every other parent, right? You look as an adult and you go, I'm not gonna do things the way that they did. I saw the mistakes they made or I saw how this impacted them. Not even necessarily mistakes.

Social Pressure And Comparison Traps

Leanna 18:00

You just choose to do things differently.

SPEAKER_03 18:02

Yes.

Leanna 18:02

And I think kind of you most of us as parents do tend to coddle our children or help them. Like I stayed home by myself when I was, I don't know, way, way too young to be staying home by myself. So I did. I coddled my children along the way. And I think now, like my kids, yeah, that's not gonna work for us. I know. You're like, what? Like that's who taught you that language during your study. Right. But maybe it's because they saw we didn't think that they saw us burning the candles at both ends, or they didn't see us losing it. No. But maybe they did.

Adrianne 18:35

And I feel like, you know, I I want to agree with that because I feel like with our kids, like the boys used to say, you know, they talk about working all a lot. And I would say, I'm working a lot, but you know, you got to have that $500 helmet you had to have, you know, to protect your brain, or, you know, you got to have that scooter or go to these competitions. Wouldn't have happened if I wasn't doing this and had the flexibility. But I also think they do have more of a boundary of saying no. Like even in holidays now that the kids are grown and be like, oh yeah, I'm going here. I'm like, uh no, we're at grandma's, you know, and they'll be like, Well, I can be at grandma's for such and such, but then I have, and I'm like, I I'm almost 50 and I still have to go to my mom, so you have to go. Like, I don't know who's setting what boundary here, but that's not how it works. Yeah. So I do think they probably saw is we went to one extreme, yeah, and now they kind of reel it in. Like Joey's big on his fun and freedom, and like he works and then he has fun. Yes. Yeah. Where even when I worked full time with the kids, I was working on my side business. Like I never had where I just took off to have truly fun that they do. Like they really do prioritize.

Kerri Ann 19:42

So I'm seeing that there's a connection between foundries for help. Maybe that's why I'm having to struggle here with all of this.

Leanna 19:50

I think we all do, though. Like, I mean, I can I can feel great about, you know, asking for help. And then I'm gonna scroll on TikTok and see someone starting their own sourdough. Darker. And now I'm like, oh man, now I gotta, or they've got an amazing garden, or they're you know what I mean? They're knitting. And I'm like there's so many things that I'm like. It's like Pinterest is my nightmare. That I don't do or I can't do, or maybe I should take more time, or is my family fulfilled because I didn't knit them sweaters and hats for Christmas. They're fine. Yeah, I'm pretty sure

Micro-Delegation And First Steps

Leanna 20:21

they're, you know. But you do, you fall into that. And I think that there's always I don't know if anyone's ever gonna get fully past it. You just learn to what do you not ever want to do again?

SPEAKER_03 20:32

Oh my goodness.

Kerri Ann 20:34

Right? Delegate that. Well, yeah. No, I just think I just that's why I wanted to talk about it. Because honestly, I just think delegating and just asking for help. Like, I'm not even gonna put delegating there because delegating has something to do with a list, and then you have to do all like just asking for help, like is a struggle every day. And that, but I do know that it's necessary for your own mental health and your well-being, as well as whatever relationship you have, whether it's with your husband, your kids, your family, your friends, the people you work with or work for you, like they have to see you in a space where you're willing to ask for help, where you trust them and love them enough to be able to say, I need help, or can you help me with this? Like, I just know on my end, I need that from people. I want, I mean, I just sat with my son and had coffee and said, You're in an age now, you've graduated college. Like, I want you to know I'm here. Like, talk to me and let me help you. I need that. I'm like asking him for that, which I know he would he gladly does because he's just an amazing human, but that's the opposite side.

unknown 21:53

Yeah.

Kerri Ann 21:53

Is I'm asking for something that is sometimes really hard for me to give other people.

Adrianne 22:00

Well, and I think people I think when we have a little bit of a people pleaser personality that we tend to want to help everyone that I feel like internally to us, we feel like we're helping ourselves, but really we're sometimes adding more work. Yeah. But it's a way internally that we think like, okay, if I'm helping you, then I'm just gonna ignore what I need help with because that person needs help.

SPEAKER_03 22:24

Yeah.

Adrianne 22:24

And then it's and it it is kind of a pride thing where if I have to tell you I need help. But I'm a I'm a people pleaser too that I don't want to ruffle feathers. I do avoid things. And so we all do. And I think that's how you end up not delegating because then you think even in business, whether it's your relationship or business, if I have to ask for help, then I'm like, okay, well, I own this business, shouldn't I know how to do this or do that? Or someone's gonna be like, How in the heck are you running a business? Uh, you know, because I have no idea how to do this, but now I don't know who to ask because I don't trust that someone's not gonna talk behind my back and then I'm gonna try to do it.

Kerri Ann 22:59

Well, it definitely is gonna be trusted people.

Leanna 23:01

That those are the people that you and it shows our weakness, right? Yes. If I have to ask, you know, somebody to do something, or I have to ask my friends to show up, like that's that's a vulnerable moment, right? And I'm not great at putting myself out there emotionally, you know. Like if I called you guys and said, Hey, can you know I'm having a really hard day, can you meet me? And you guys both said no, sorry, I'm too busy. Guess who's never gonna ask again?

Kerri Ann 23:26

You know it ain't Well, and that's the thing. When did help equal being vulnerable? Like, when did help stop just being help? Like, I need help turned into something completely different. Like, when did that happen to all of us?

Adrianne 23:40

I just think it's honestly online social media and judgment. Yeah. I think everyone's so afraid of being scrutinized or judged and people thinking, oh, you shouldn't have taken that on. You know, you have kids, you have like everyone has such a different perspective of life and how honestly how a woman should be. And, you know, we are in a different era. We have more female business entrepreneurs, moms, than we've ever had before. And I just think we're in a new era that we're so afraid of being judged that we're gonna screw something up, yeah, that then we don't. Or like I I take everything internally, and I like I mean, it takes a lot to ask even you guys because I know you're busy and you, and we all have our own stuff, and then internally I'm like, I can't ask them. Like, I they got their own stuff going on, and then I'm gonna deal with it and then till I can't deal with it, and then I send you guys a thousand memes of life, and then that's my sign. That's like my my like smoke signal. Like, help me. I need it. But you know, I so I just think it's judgment. We're so afraid, and I don't know why. The older I get, I feel like I'm having less that I care what people say.

Leanna 24:44

Yeah, but look, I mean, we scroll online and we're only seeing the highlight reels. We talk about it all the time. Right. But when you see Susie Q, who dropped her kid off at soccer and is running a successful, you know, business, and then is talking about, you know, coming home and home cooking a meal and the newest book she's read and the next all of the things, right? All of these boxes that are being checked off. Yeah, I feel less than if I don't have that same amount. It's you know what I mean?

Kerri Ann 25:13

Like the world just is bigger.

Leanna 25:15

Yeah.

Kerri Ann 25:15

Everything is bigger. What we know and see every day is bigger, just adds to the load.

Leanna 25:21

And I kind of think that this is one of the reasons why we decided to do this, right? Because so many people think that we have all of these boxes checked and we all know we're all right, right? Don't say that out there. Dumpster fire. Well, and but we rotate it. It's not always all of us all the time.

Adrianne 25:40

Yeah, that is a that is a friend rule. Yes. Only one of us can be in chaos.

Kerri Ann 25:43

Well, and that's what I talked to somebody about when they were like, I'm so glad you're doing this. Yeah. And they're like, Well, what is all the rest of it gonna be? And I'm like, it's just saying the things out loud that you say potentially in private.

Leanna 25:55

Yeah.

Kerri Ann 25:55

Because like what we say, uh, we know other people are saying or thinking about. And and it just it does feel bad. It's like even talking about this one subject, you know, asking for help. Yeah, so many people labor about it. So many people are stressed out about it, they're overeating about it, overdrinking about it, overdoing all these things about it because they're not asking for help. So they're overdoing, they're stressed out, they're dealing with it in all these ways. So it's there's so many people that are dealing with it and just knowing that it's okay.

Adrianne 26:29

Yeah, I just think most people are afraid to ask. And uh, so why not as broadcast it?

Leanna 26:35

Yeah. Or maybe like just try and give one little thing away. You know, like when your kids are little, they're two, and they want to help, and you know that helping is gonna take, you know, five times longer. So you give them this remedial task that they feel like they're super helping. Like, what in our lives can we give to someone who we trust and who loves us that wants to help us, that will make them feel like they're helping, and it still moves your needle forward a little bit.

SPEAKER_03 27:03

Absolutely.

Leanna 27:03

But it's not something huge. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_03 27:06

Yeah, yeah.

Leanna 27:07

I don't know. I can say that here, and I'm gonna go home and not not do it.

SPEAKER_03 27:11

I wish somebody would drive me around all day.

Adrianne 27:13

Oh my gosh. I would love to have a driver. When Terry is with me, I get so much done in the car all day while. I get I get half of it done. Sometimes I'm car sick after he's driven me everywhere and I'm stressed out.

Kerri Ann 27:25

Well, you see those shows where the person's sitting in the back and they're doing their work and they're writing and somebody's driving and they're getting so much done. Yes, that would be a love.

Leanna 27:35

I know.

SPEAKER_03 27:35

Well, that costs add a Torah vision board. That's true. Goal is a driver.

Leanna 27:42

A driver who drives well.

One Small Ask & Closing CTA

Adrianne 27:46

Although I sometimes have to take though, because he does know where to take me to get my iced teas and my food. And if I'm cranky, he's like, but anybody's my truck driving crazy.

Kerri Ann 27:55

It is not me driving it. No.

Adrianne 27:57

Jeff Corners.

Kerri Ann 28:01

All right. Okay.

Adrianne 28:02

We're gonna wrap this one up. Liana, what are we what words are you leaving? Words of advice are you leaving to our guest? Our audience.

Leanna 28:10

Take one small step and ask one person for help once this week. If we just do it once, then you get used to it and it gets easier and easier. Just ask one person to help you do one thing this week. Love it. Stay tuned for our next episode. Bye.

Voice Over 28:26

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