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16 | Charlotte Mason Homeschooling with Babies and Toddlers: How Catholic Moms Make It Work

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If you have been trying to homeschool with a baby on your hip and a toddler at your feet and wondering if you are failing, this episode is for you.

This season is not an obstacle to your Catholic Charlotte Mason homeschool. It is part of it. And today I want to show you exactly why your domestic church is being built one small faithful day at a time, even in the hardest conditions.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why your vision for your Catholic Charlotte Mason homeschool does not shrink in this season and what actually needs to adjust
  • How the house in a rainstorm changes everything about how you see this hard and holy season
  • Three simple things that actually work in your Charlotte Mason Catholic homeschool when the days are full and the margin is gone
  • Why whoever is faithful in very little is building something that will outlast every lesson plan you ever wrote

I pray this encourages your heart today.

Go be the peace God created you to be.

— Dana

Scripture References:

  • Isaiah 40:11 — He gently leads those that have young
  • Luke 16:10 — Faithful in very little
  • Psalm 127:1 — Unless the Lord builds the house

Resources Mentioned:

Charlotte Mason Homeschooling for Catholic Moms (free community) 

Charlotte Mason for Catholic Moms (free guide) 

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Related Episodes:

Episode 14 — This Is How to Create a Peaceful Homeschool Day Without Changing Everything

Episode 15 — Dreaming of a Peaceful Catholic Homeschool? How the Liturgical Calendar Simplifies Your Day

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Welcome And Framework Context

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Welcome back, friends. I'm so glad you're here today. We've been building our three-layer framework together in the last few episodes. In episode 14, we talked about peaceful rhythms, and in episode 15, we talked about layer one, the liturgical spine.

Baby And Toddler Reality Check

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Today we are back in layer three, peaceful rhythms, but we are going to get very specific because rhythms look different when you have a baby on your hip and a toddler at your feet. And if that is your season right now, this episode is definitely for you. I want to talk to the mom who is in the thick of it right now, the one who woke up this morning already tired, who is trying to figure out how to do a read aloud with a toddler climbing on her like a jungle jum. My daughter is that mom. I watch her try to execute a beautiful homeschool plan with a baby who will not be put down and a toddler who needs everything at the exact wrong moment. I have watched her sit at the kitchen table with her head in her hands because she feels like she is failing her older children. And I have watched her discover slowly and with a lot of grace that the season she is in is not an obstacle to her homeschool. It is part of it. The little one who interrupts her read aloud is listening. The toddler who sits under the table during morning time is absorbing. And the baby falls asleep in her arms while she is reading aloud. That is school. You are not homeschooling in spite of your little ones, you are homeschooling with them, and that changes everything.

Vision Versus Expectation

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I also want to talk about something that gets really confused in this season. And it is the difference between your vision and your expectation. Because I think a lot of moms are shrinking their vision when all they actually need to do is adjust their expectation for this season. And those two things are not the same at all. Because I think a lot of moms are shrinking their vision when all they actually need to do is just adjust their expectation. And those two things are not the same at all. Because your vision is the reason you chose to homeschool. It is the domestic church you are building. It is the children who know the saints and love beautiful books. It is the home where faith and learning are woven together naturally. It is the culture your kids will carry into their own home someday. That vision does not shrink because the baby will not be put down. It does not shrink because the toddler interrupted the read aloud. And it does not shrink because morning time only lasted twelve minutes. The vision stays exactly the same.

The Rainstorm House Metaphor

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I want you to think about building a house. You have the plans. You know exactly what it's going to look like when it is finished. The rooms, the decoration, the warmth, the family gathering inside, the life that is going to be lived there. Now imagine you building that house in a rainstorm. You cannot work as fast as you had planned to. You cannot do everything you had on your list during that storm because the storm is slowing everything down. Now does that storm change what the house is going to be, what it is going to look like? No. It just changes what you can do. Now, the baby in the toddler season is your rainstorm. The domestic church you are building is your house. And the house does not shrink because of the rain. The work just looks different today than it will someday. So what adjusts in this season is not the vision. What adjust is your expectation. And here is what that actually looks like right now. In this season, one anchor is enough. One book read aloud while the baby sleeps, that's enough too. One morning prayer before the chaos begins, and one feast day celebrated simply. That is enough. Luke sixteen says Whoever is faithful in very little is also faithful in much. This is your very little season, mom. One anchor, one read aloud, one feast day celebrated simply that is not less, it is enough. And that is faithfulness. And Jesus Himself calls it that. The house does not shrink because you are building it in a rainstorm. It just looks different today than it will someday, and someday it will be everything you dreamed it would be.

Three Practices For Hard Days

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Okay, I want to give you three small things to hold on to, not because they fix everything, but because they give you something solid on the hardest days. The first thing is one anchor is always enough because in this season your morning gathering is school. Prayer, one song, one read aloud, even just 15 minutes. That is all that happens today. The day is not a failure. Say that out loud with me. The day is not a failure. One anchor protected every day. The second thing is to read aloud everything. The read aloud is your single most important and powerful tool right now. Maybe sit longer than you think when the book is beautiful. Toddlers may wander, but they'll come back and they are absorbing more than you know. One read aloud serves every single person in the room, the baby, the toddler, the older children, and honestly, even you. So read everything out loud. The third thing is to find your one window and protect it. Because there is one window in your day when the baby sleeps consistently, even if it's only for 45 minutes, and that will be your focused learning block. Protect it fiercely, because everything that requires real concentration goes in that window. Everything else blows around the little ones. One anchor, one read aloud, one protected window. That is a Charlotte Mason Catholic homeschool in the baby and toddler season, and that is always enough.

Encouragement And Closing Invitation

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I want to close this episode by telling you what I see when I look at the mom in the thick of it right now. I see a woman building a domestic church in the middle of beautiful, exhausting, sacred chaos. I see a woman whose children will grow up and remember not the lesson plan she completed, but the morning basket, the read aloud voice, the feast day celebrated imperfectly, the prayers that happened even when everything else fell apart. Psalm 127 says, Unless the Lord builds the house, the builder's labor is vain. Mama, you are not building this domestic church alone. He is the one building it, and you are just showing up faithfully in the rainstorm. And that is exactly what he has asked you to do. This season will not last forever, and I can promise you you are going to wish it back. Because the babies grow, the toddlers settle, and the chaos reduces. The babies grow, the toddlers settle, and the chaos reduces. And what remains is a family culture built on faith and living books and simple rhythms. And that is because you protected it even when it was hard. You are not behind, you are not failing. You are building something so beautiful in the hardest conditions, and mama that makes it even more holy. Please remember to subscribe so you don't miss episode 17 because we are going deeper into living books, and I have something to say about it that is going to change how you shop for curriculum forever. So remember, you are not homeschooling in spite of the little ones, you are homeschooling with them. The expectation adjusts for the season. One anchor, one read aloud, one protected window, that is always enough. And he gently leads those that have young, not drives them, not compares them, but gently leads. And let him lead you through this season. And trust that what you are building, imperfect and exhausted and beautiful, is exactly what your family needs. Please come find our Facebook community. It's called Charlotte Mason Homeschooling for Catholic Moms. The link is in the show notes and we're saving you a seat. And if you haven't grabbed our free guide yet, Charlotte Mason for Catholic Moms, it is there in the show notes too. If you know a mom in the exact season who feels like she is failing, please share this episode with her right now because she needs to hear it as well. Until next time, go be the peace God created you to be.