The Tombs We Live In

What if the greatest prison in your life isn’t made of bars—but of fear, shame, regret, or broken identity?

In Episode 8 of Season 2 of Keepers of the Light, Dylan Burcham explores the powerful story of the man among the tombs in Mark chapter 5. Living among death, isolated from society, and bound by forces he couldn’t overcome on his own, this man seemed beyond hope—until Jesus arrived.

This episode takes a deep look at spiritual bondage, hidden struggles, false identities, and the restoring power of Christ. Through powerful biblical teaching and practical application, listeners are reminded that their past is not their identity, their struggle is not their name, and no one is beyond the reach of God’s grace.

🔥 Featured Scriptures include:

• Mark 5:1-20
• Mark 5:9
• Mark 5:15
• Mark 5:19

Whether you’re battling fear, shame, addiction, regret, or simply feeling stuck, this message is a powerful reminder that Jesus still crosses oceans to reach one life.

🎧 Listen now to “The Tombs We Live In” and discover the freedom that comes when Jesus calls you out of the places you’ve been living.

Keepers of the Light is the official podcast of Gospel Lighthouse Pentecostal Church, hosted by Dylan Burcham.

Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:15

Hey everyone and welcome back to Keepers of the Light, the official podcast of Gospel Lighthouse Pentecostal Church. As always, I'm your host, and today we're going to go somewhere pretty deep. Not shallow church talk, not surface-level Christianity, but we're going to dive into one of the darkest and most powerful encounters in the ministry of Jesus. It's a story about chains, a story about isolation, a story about identity and bondage. And what happens when Jesus steps into places that everybody else has given up on. Today we're going to talk about the tombs we live in. Because not all tombs are made of stone. Some are made of fear, some are made of shame, some are made of addiction, some are made of regret. And there are people listening today that you're alive physically, but living among tombs spiritually. Mark chapter 5 opens up with one of the most heartbreaking pictures in Scripture. A man living among the tombs. In Mark 5 and 5, the Bible says, and always, night and day, he was in the mountains and in the tombs crying. I want you to notice something. The Bible doesn't tell us his name because somewhere along the way, he allowed the tombs to become his identity. He lost his identity. People no longer knew him by who he was. They only knew him by what he struggled with. The demon-possessed man, the crazy man, the man in the tombs. And that's what the enemy does.

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He wants to replace your identity with your struggle. But the Bible says that people had tried to bind him, chain him, control him, fix him.

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In Mark 5 and 4, the Bible says, Neither can any man tame him. Society always tries to manage what only God can transform. They could restrain him, but they couldn't free him. And isn't that still true today? It's more true today than it's ever been. People try self-help, success, money, relationships, distractions, anything to quiet the pain. Yet the chains remain on them. Because some things require more than human solutions. We can't fix everything. I want you, if you would, to imagine a beautiful house, fresh paint, new furniture, everything looks perfect, but underneath the foundation is cracked. No matter how much you decorate the surface, the real problem remains underneath. Many people spend years fixing appearances while ignoring what's broken deep inside. That's why Jesus never starts with the appearance. He starts with the foundation. And here's something that struck me about this story of Mark V. Why was he living among the tombs? Think about it. Tombs are places for dead things.

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Yet this man was alive and was living there.

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Sometimes people become comfortable living around things that are spiritually dead: dead relationships, dead habits, dead dreams, dead thinking, places where life no longer exists. And after enough time, the tomb begins to feel normal. But God never intended for us to live among dead things. And this may be the most beautiful part of the story. Jesus crossed an entire sea. He weathered a storm. He arrived in a region where many people didn't even want him. For one broken man.

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One. Think about that.

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Before Jesus preached a sermon there, before he performed miracles for crowds, before he changed a city, he came for one person. Because heaven has never measured worth the way that people do.

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People count crowds, but Jesus counts souls. Jesus asked a remarkable question: What is thy name?

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And the response comes, My name is Legion, for we are many. Notice the tragedy. When asked his name, the answer came from bondage. The struggle had become his identity. And how many people in our society live this way? I am my addiction. I am my failure. I am my anxiety. I am my past. No, those may be battles that you face, but they are not your identity. After Jesus delivers him, though, the people return and they see him, and what they see about him is astonishing. He is sitting and clothed and in his right mind. Mark chapter 5, verse 15 says. So think about those words. He's sitting, he's no longer running, he's clothed, he's no longer exposed. He's in his right mind. He's no longer tormented. And this is an example of what Jesus does in lives every single day. He restores what the enemy tried to destroy. Not just our behavior. Now I'm a true believer that if you're a follower of him and he has saved you and freed your soul, and you're connected to him and have a relationship with him, your behavior does change. But that's not the only thing that changes. Identity changes. You gain peace and purpose, you gain wholeness whenever he steps in to our situation. And the healed man wants to follow Jesus. But Jesus gives him an unexpected assignment. In Mark chapter 5 and verse 19, the Bible says, Go home to thy friends and tell them how great things the Lord hath done for thee. Why did Jesus tell him to do that? He wanted to follow Jesus, but Jesus sent him home to tell his friends about what he had done. Why? Because your testimony becomes powerful when people know who you used to be. The greatest witness isn't always a sermon. Sometimes it's a changed life. A changed life that speaks louder than a sermon ever could, depending on the crowd and depending on who you're talking to. Your testimony will reach the right people that God has lined up for you to come in contact with. That is the sole purpose of your testimony, to use it to show people the goodness of God. Before we pray today, I want to bring this story from the pages of Scripture and into our lives. Because it's easy to hear about the man in the tombs and think, well, thank God that's not me. But maybe it is today. Not literally. I know that none of you listening to this podcast or living among the tombs, I I know that. But spiritually or emotionally, maybe even mentally, could it be you today?

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Because tombs don't always look like graveyards.

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Sometimes they're hidden. Sometimes they're dressed up. Sometimes people sit in church every Sunday while living in a tomb Monday through Saturday. So let me ask you a few honest questions today.

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What tomb are you living in?

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Is it the tomb of your past? You know that God has forgiven you, but you keep reopening chapters that God has already closed. Every mistake, every failure, every regret, every reason why you're unworthy of Him, you keep visiting what God has already buried and done away with. Maybe it's the tomb of offense. Somebody hurt you years ago, and although time has passed, the wound still controls your emotions. The person moved on, but you're still living in the tomb, allowing it to dictate your decisions. And maybe it's maybe it's a church situation, maybe it's church hurt, maybe it's something like that. And you're allowing it to dictate how dedicated you can be to your church and to the Lord. And you hold yourself reserved in your walk with Him because of hurt from years ago. Maybe it's the tomb of fear, fear of failure or fear of rejection, fear of what people think, fear of stepping into what God has called you to do. Maybe it's the tomb of complacency. You aren't bound by obvious sin, but somewhere along the way you've become comfortable in spiritual deadness. You still attend church, you still know the songs, you still know the language, but the fire isn't burning like it once was. And if we're honest today, many people aren't trapped because they can't leave. They're trapped because they've gotten comfortable. The man in Mark V didn't build the tombs, but eventually he began to live there. And what begins as a struggle can become an address if we're not careful. But here's the good news Jesus never asked the man to clean himself up before he helped him. Jesus never said, get yourself together and then I'll come. Or break your own chains and then I'll show up. Fix your mind and then I'll heal you. Get sin out of your life and then start attending church and everything will work out. No. Jesus stepped into the darkness first, and he is still doing that today. Somebody listening has believed the lie that you're too broken, too far gone, too damaged, too addicted, too ashamed, too messed up to get in church and get your life right with God. But the story of the gospel is that Jesus specializes in reaching people that everybody else has given up on. The man in the tombs had been abandoned by society, but he had not been abandoned by God. And neither have you. I get emotional just thinking about that topic. But here's my challenge for you today. Stop making peace with what Jesus died to deliver you from. Stop decorating the tombs. Quit hanging pictures on the wall of the tomb and making yourself at home. Stop setting in the graveyard. Stop calling change your identity. Stop calling bondage your future. And stop calling hopelessness your destiny. You are not what happened to you. You are not your worst day. You are not your deepest wound. You are not your addiction. You are not your failure. You are not your diagnosis. You are not your past. And if Jesus can take a man that was living in the tombs and leave him clothed and whole and in his right mind, you better believe today that he can touch your life too. Today can be the day that you walk out of what you've been living in. Today can be the day that you stop surviving and start living. Today can be the day that you stop identifying with your struggle and start identifying with what God says about you. Because Jesus didn't cross the sea just for that man. He crossed into your story too. The fact that you're listening to this podcast is evidence that he crossed the sea of life to reach into your situation today and call you out of it. And he is standing at the entrance of your tomb today, calling you into freedom. Let's pray today. Lord, I thank you today for seeing value where others see brokenness. Thank you for crossing every distance to reach us. Thank you for loving us so much that you would enter into our lives on a personal level. Lord, for every listener that is struggling with shame, I ask you to remind them who they are. For every listener trapped in the tomb of fear or addiction or regret or hopelessness, Lord, I ask you to speak life into that place right now. Speak into their lives, Lord, that life doesn't have to be the way that they have known it thus far. Break chains, restore identity, heal wounded hearts. Lord, I ask that you remove the hurt that every time they think about church or getting their life right with you holds them back due to the pain that they've been through in their experience. Lord, help us to remember that our struggle is not our name. Our past is not our future, and our wounds, they are not our identity. Lord, I ask that you lead God and direct every listener to a closer walk with you. Call them from the tomb that they live in and help them to see that life is so much better when we walk with you. You said, I come to give you life and give it more abundantly. So I ask that you do that in their lives today. I thank you, I praise you, and I give you all the glory in Jesus' name.

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Amen. Before you leave today, I want you to remember this.

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The man in the tombs, he wasn't too far gone, and neither are you. There is no darkness that Jesus cannot enter, no chain he cannot break, no life he cannot restore. So stop letting your struggle tell you who you are and let Jesus do that. Again, my name is Dylan Birdam, and this has been another episode of Keepers of the Light. And until next time, keep the light burning.