Are We Flirting?
Sydney Rose Matthews and Greyson Hoelzel tackle life's most important question... Are We Flirting?
Are We Flirting?
hot girl summer
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today we're talking about breakups, situationships, and having a hot girl summer with our special guest Isabella!
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So we are all having a hot girl summer.
SPEAKER_05You're asking me if I'm okay. Are you okay? You're describing your d as a mozzarella cheesesteak. Is it awkward to sit next to your ex?
SPEAKER_02One, two, three. Thompson one, two, three, three. Thompson one, two, three.
SPEAKER_06Ah, welcome back to welcome back to the pie. We're gonna talk to you, talk, to you, ah. Got a guest today. Your name is Ibella.
SPEAKER_02Welcome to the back.
SPEAKER_07I'm your host, Sid.
SPEAKER_02I'm your host, Grayson.
SPEAKER_07And this is Are Are We Flirting? Yes. Hey everybody. So it's been a minute. No one cared. Usually people comment and say, for this episode this week. No one asked. And that's just that's just how it went this week. That's all right. Because this week was insane. Here's a quick little recap. I'm going through a breakup. My brother has to get an open heart surgery. And my nephew has to get a hip surgery because he has cerebral palsy. So this week was a little bit crazy. And the next one.
SPEAKER_02And the next one, which is great. Getcha, getcha, get your head in the game. Gotta get you, getcha, getcha, get your head in the game. Woo! Why am I feeling so rough?
SPEAKER_07Wait, keep going.
SPEAKER_02My head's in the game, but my heart's in the song.
SPEAKER_07Shit makes me feel so right. Should I go for it? So that was a little song me and Grayson are doing. We're high spirits here. Grayson, quick, give me a little recap of your week.
SPEAKER_02Um, I also broke up with a girl that I was seeing.
SPEAKER_06Oh, you did? Oh.
SPEAKER_02Sid goes. Sid goes, when are we recording the pod? I go, I can't do it Sunday, can't do it Monday. Tuesday I'm going on a date with this girl, and she goes, Oh, the girl you've been seeing? I go, Yeah. She was like, Why do I have to put up with your schedule? And I go, Okay, fine. So I broke up with a girl just so I can come here and record the pod, which is great.
SPEAKER_07That makes me mad because Grayson has like an acting class on Mondays, and then he has he's gone for work like Tuesday into Wednesday or Wednesday into third, whatever the fuck. And I you're busy as hell. You're s and you have a full-time job, which is like really inconvenient for me.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. So well, usually Saturdays we record the pod after our improv class, but the problem is You were gone. I was gone. I was at the shore. Which is another part of my recap. Um so I was at the shore this past weekend, it was a lot of fun. I didn't realize didn't realize I was drinking 40 milligram THC drinks. I got knocked on my fucking ass two days in a row. Like literally could not remember a single detail. So I think I had a fun weekend. Shout out to Colin. It's his birthday yesterday.
SPEAKER_04Um Happy birthday, Colin.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, shout out to another person I used to see. Uh the last girl I almost dated. It's her birthday tomorrow. Okay. Uh, it's my sister's birthday on Thursday, Father's Day on Sunday. Sid, what are you getting your father for Father's Day?
SPEAKER_07Oh, what am I getting? My guy maybe a restraining order. Um, I am for Father's Day, that's Sunday. Isabella, what are we doing?
SPEAKER_02Isabella off screen said, We're gonna go find the puppies on the streets.
SPEAKER_07She didn't say puppy. She said daddy.
SPEAKER_02That's not how I heard it.
SPEAKER_07Anyway, this week has been weird as hell. We have a lot going on. Um, there's uh yeah, breakups, we're situationships. Isabella's gonna talk about that with us. And yeah, we have we have a bunch in store for you, sort of. Let's take a look.
SPEAKER_02Knicks win championship. How did you celebrate, Sid?
SPEAKER_07How did I celebrate the Knicks winning the championship? Well, I'll tell you. I was with all my friends and we were at Radagast. Is that you say it?
SPEAKER_02Ragestad, I think.
SPEAKER_07I have dyslexia still. We had a lot of fun. That was such a good time. Like the vibes in there were so high. And I Brandon, our friend Brandon, shout out to G-Spotters.
SPEAKER_02Shout out to G-Spotters.
SPEAKER_07For making us um r a comeback for season two. Really proud of them.
SPEAKER_02I was like, Sid, I want to write an episode, and then I wrote the episode, and she goes, Hey, we're not gonna use that.
SPEAKER_07Okay, I'm gonna tell you why, folks. So give me a give me a quick moment. Grayson wrote an episode that um was called Girls Night, and I was like, Oh, this is like funny, you know, uh the idea of me and Isabel like luring him into a sleepover. Um, the script is like he shows up and he tells us, like, tells me that we have to go back to work, and then Isabel is with me, obviously, and then I lure him into the room, and then we like have a sleepover. We play spin the bottle or something, or like I don't know.
SPEAKER_02Anyway, so the whole spin the bottle. Yeah, so the whole spin the bottle thing is actually a callback to the Christmas episode to which I pointed out. Um they don't actually kiss, they don't do anything on camera. The whole joke is that they were just playing it alone. That was the comedic effect of that, which is the whole point of the episode. And then the whole thing of them luring me in, it was never really about that. I was just, you know, kind of me being the Nepo hire. Now my well, in the episode, my father was ousted from the position, which is why people were paranormal board. Yes, which is why people were ready to come back. And I'm just describing the entire episode now.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, so so check out um G-Spotters, uh, the Ghost Spotters. Uh, we have a season two coming out. We'll release an episode at the end of this week. We're really excited about it, and Isabella is my co-paranormal investigator, so it's gonna be something. And Grayson will also be back on those episodes as well.
SPEAKER_02Did you guys do anything else after Radistad?
SPEAKER_07So we had a blast. I got soaked with beer, and then I we ran out into the streets. There were bartenders like pouring champagne into our mouths. We were just running up and down the streets. Brandon was unhinged, absolutely insane, screaming the happiest I've ever seen him. And then we decided to take a subway into the city because that's what everybody was doing, and um then we we took it to Third Street, which is like past First Street, then walked back to First Street, and then Nina um Nina Count, she went into a restaurant because she had a pee so bad, and she walks in there and she's like, Hey, I'm sorry, and like gigantic sign, like school poster size, like presentation poster size that says like no public restroom. She walks right in, she's like, Can I use the bathroom?
SPEAKER_02And they said, Did you just blow in from stupid town?
SPEAKER_07They said, Yep, and they said no. So she goes, Okay, no problem. Do you have some paper towels so I can go right outside? Like, which is awesome. And then they were like, just go. Not I like that she didn't ask for toilet paper. Something about asking for a rough paper towel to to r relieve herself directly outside of this restaurant was so funny to me. So they were like, we don't want that.
SPEAKER_02Where's the weirdest place you've peed?
SPEAKER_07You're gonna have to ask them. I'm just kidding. Um, weirdest place I've peed? I feel like camping.
SPEAKER_02Oh I didn't understand that. You peed on somebody? That was the joke there.
SPEAKER_07It's like hard to be friends with you sometimes. Um, where's the weirdest place you peed, Grayson?
SPEAKER_02Probably outside, like at a campground.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, that's not that weird. Pretty standard, yeah.
SPEAKER_02No, one time when I was in high school, shout out to Tanner, one of my best friends, he peed on my leg.
SPEAKER_07On purpose?
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_07That's special.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_07So that was fun. Um, what'd you do after the win?
SPEAKER_02I don't remember. I was high.
SPEAKER_07Okay, right. All right, awesome. So um what we're gonna do next is we're gonna bring on our special guest. Her name is Isabella, she is 26 years old from the New York area, previously from California. She is Mexican, but if anyone asks, she was and Cuban. She's Mexican and Cuban. And if anybody asks, she was born in the United States. Um, and also she's a uh beautiful, beautiful creator, beautiful mind, and the love of my life. And uh, would you make me the happiest woman in the world? This is Isabella.
SPEAKER_05Isabel, would you like to give a soft introduction? Hello, everybody. My name is Isabel Farragor Solis Gonzalez. Um, my parents decided to give me lots of names to make me more interesting, and that's pretty much all you need to know about me. And I need to stop rumbling the mic, sorry. Me and Sid kissed one time on New Year's.
SPEAKER_07So, yeah, so Isabella, thank you so much for joining us. Um we sort of want to kind of kick this off with a little bit of discussion about some things that we're flirting with this week. Oh my god. So, so what are you flirting with this week, Isabella?
SPEAKER_05I'm just flirting with the fact that I'm I'm probably never gonna find real love, Sid. And no one has a big heart like me. And I can only love others the way I want to be loved. Thank you, Isabella.
SPEAKER_02So you're flirting with the idea of being lonely forever.
SPEAKER_05Okay. And coming to acceptance.
SPEAKER_02Okay, well that's good. Acceptance is the first step.
SPEAKER_05You know all about that, don't you, Grayson? Maybe you could give me some tips.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, no, it it gets lonely after a while, but eventually you just kind of lean into it and you go, yeah, no, this is this is what I needed.
SPEAKER_05But you have lots of prospects, I feel like.
SPEAKER_02No.
SPEAKER_05Really?
SPEAKER_02I have no hose.
SPEAKER_05What? Grayson, what's going on? You went through all them already? You found all the hoes in New York City? Yeah.
SPEAKER_02I went through all four and a half bil million of them. Doesn't surprise me. None of them stuck.
SPEAKER_05None of them I just doesn't surprise me either.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, none of them really I enjoyed any of them.
SPEAKER_07Oh god.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Okay. Um Grayson's flirting with the idea of baldness.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I'm bald now. That's I guess another important update. Um I cut all my hair off.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Yeah, what was that liberating for you for a guy like you?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, no, I I don't really I I've just decided to do it one day.
SPEAKER_05Hair holds trauma, they say that. So when you cut it all off, it was like you were cutting off all the girls that you once were involved with.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, it could be. Could be. There's some grays in there. I don't know what that means.
SPEAKER_04Grays and I can pluck them out.
SPEAKER_02No, because if you pluck one, two more go back in place. I don't think my mom says that. My mom says that. It's true. Okay.
SPEAKER_07Things I'm flirting with this week, cel celibacy. Okay. Yeah. That's something that I'm flirting with. Also, all my friends. Yeah. No. Are we allowed to cuss on here? Sorry. Yes, but I don't want to have actually have sex with my friends. Well, Sid, you do a little bit. Okay.
SPEAKER_05Anytime Sid has one sip of alcohol, suddenly she's trying to kiss everyone in the room. Just like you want to kiss? No, me too. Okay. And sometimes Brandon. I hate to put it off. So the whole friend group. No, but I say it to Brandon as a joke. It's okay. I support you and I love you, said Sid. Okay. Do you guys want to play 21 Questions? Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Sure.
SPEAKER_05Okay. You go first, Grayson.
SPEAKER_02You can't offer up the game and be like, all right, somebody else go first.
SPEAKER_05Okay. Um, so Grayson, have you ever done anal?
SPEAKER_02I have not. What? Next question. Sid, you want to go?
SPEAKER_07I haven't either. I've saved it up for bridge. I think it's nice to save some things.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Like analysella, have you done anal?
SPEAKER_05No.
SPEAKER_02Oh, I thought we were being honest.
SPEAKER_05I am being honest. You always think this of me. I'm totally like we've gone over this.
SPEAKER_02My ears are bleeding. All of a sudden she wants to speak up. She's being shy a moment ago.
SPEAKER_05I was being timid along the way.
SPEAKER_07This is like, I don't know. Isabella is the epitome of like the Gen Z like brain rot. Ask me what I think of you, Grayson.
SPEAKER_02This is one part of 21 questions. What do you think of me, Isabella?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, bitch you cool, but you not better than a perk, bitch.
SPEAKER_07That's Isabella's been pointing that lately. That's been something that she's been saying. Yeah, bitch, I feel like the cuck chair in a hotel room right now. Do you guys need some time?
SPEAKER_03Oh my god, that's how I feel about you guys all the time.
SPEAKER_02That's how I feel about you two all the fucking time.
SPEAKER_05Oh, I'm so glad we all have this reciprocated feeling against each other. Okay. So I can't wait.
SPEAKER_02Wait, sorry, what are you guys doing after this? You guys are having a sleepover? Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. We're not getting loving on the streets, so we have to provide for each other. I'm gonna have to bleep all this. That's what good friends do.
SPEAKER_07Awesome. So thanks so much. Is that all you guys are flirting with this week? Bald baldism and then loneliness. And um, for me it's celibacy. Okay.
SPEAKER_02I bought myself uh a workout set. Um I got my first uh fat comment. Somebody was like, I'm really worried about him. He's gaining a lot of weight, but losing all his muscle mass.
SPEAKER_07Oh my god. And so when people are trying to get under my skin, they'll be like, oh my god, that's obviously a man. Yeah. And I'm like, people tell me I'm mid. Androgynous. People are like, you're mid. Like, that's just so not true. This is what they say to me. It's literally not true.
SPEAKER_05This is what they say to me. That's how I feel about you, prettiest princess in the world. No, you're literally my princess. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_07Anyway, um, what else are you flirting with? So you're working out, that's awesome.
SPEAKER_02Working out, aka. I bought a couple resistance bands, and every now and then I grab one and I'm just like, all right, I'm gonna do some curls while I make dinner. That's it. That's it.
SPEAKER_07You make dinner? That's a start. I thought well, you have to start preparing for that half marathon I signed you up for.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, still running, still running technically. Um, I'm flirting with now. I spend if I work from home, I'll do I'll work the first two hours at a coffee shop uh around my apartment and and get my own.
SPEAKER_07Flirting with social interaction. No, I don't talk to anybody. All right. No one talks to anybody's social proxy.
SPEAKER_02I don't have a very warm presence.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. Sometimes my friends think that you hate them.
SPEAKER_02Well, if the shoe fits.
SPEAKER_05Well, no, Grayson, Grayson likes to pretend like he's mean, but then he'll randomly do like a very kind act and like his true self in that moment.
SPEAKER_07So this weekend, I was at an event with Grayson, and this man who yeah, sometimes I'm like, Grayson, are do you even like me? And we were both at an event. I went home before him. I am making myself some dinner. I step on the biggest shard of glass you could ever possibly see with your eyes. It goes into my heel. Blood everywhere, blood squirting out everywhere. Just like my fella? And I am like laying there because I can't get up because it there's so much blood, and I have a paper towel like under my heel. Anyway, I put it on my story and I was like, just like whatever. I don't even know what I said. And Grayson sprints over, like sprints from this event. It's probably like a 15-minute walk or something, goes to the bodega on the corner, gets gauze, and just starts like aggressively wrapping, runs and sweating, starts taking off his shirt, wrapping up my foot. And then he goes and gets paper towel, like toilet paper, starts wrapping the gauze, like with then toilet paper, then puts like a hair tie in it, sets me up on the couch, props my foot up, hands me the remote, and then like leaves. And I think it was all like within two minutes and thirty seconds. Oh, that's really sweet, Grayson.
SPEAKER_02Thanks, guys.
SPEAKER_05Like one time I was wearing an outfit and I was I thought that I looked manly in it. So I was like, Grayson, be honest. Do I look like a butch lesbian in my outfit? And Grayson was like, Yeah, you do, you do. And like he was just bullying me all night. He said my makeup looked bad, like as soon as he saw me. But then when we got to the event, like I was like struggling to see, and he took his glasses off and let me wear them after he said all that mean stuff. That's really sweet. I know that's really sweet.
SPEAKER_07But it's kind of like Pem DOS. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_02See, that's how I stay neutral. I do nice things, but I cancel them all out by being not fun.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. What? No, you're fun. You're fun sometimes. We had so much fun at that bar at that barbecue at my divorce party.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we had a divorce party for Sydney after her big breakup. Yeah, that was funny.
SPEAKER_02Do you ever watch your neighbors have sex?
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I actually did once. They um there was this couple across the way, and I was like cleaning up my room, and I look out, and I can yeah, because like you can see their one living room so clear, and they were like making out and it was really intense, and then I felt like bad, like I shouldn't be watching that. So then I went back in my bed, and then every five minutes I got up to see if they were still doing it. It just kept getting progressively way more intense, and then it ended up with them in their bedroom doing like full-on straps. Like she had her, like on her stomach, had her feet and her hands tied together, like a triangle. Do you get that? Are you getting that? Like behind her back.
SPEAKER_02Should you should you show us?
SPEAKER_07Yeah, maybe demonstrate for us. Like, do you see what I mean? Like Grayson's like, you guys are perverts, and then he says shit like that. Yeah, you're just a little pervert just like us first.
SPEAKER_02No, I can just see all these people through their windows right now, and I'm like, that's that's they're visible.
SPEAKER_05You can see that far away? Yeah. Are you wearing contacts?
SPEAKER_02I'm not.
SPEAKER_05Okay, so then what what are those little glasses you wear that for then?
SPEAKER_02You can't see outlines?
SPEAKER_05No.
SPEAKER_02Okay. Well, I can see movement, which by the way, is I learned this recently.
SPEAKER_07Grayson's the girl that posts his like hospital band at the hospital, and he's like, like, not again.
SPEAKER_05But no judgment, because so am I. Like, I went to the hospital one time and I kept that shit on for like two weeks. And I made sure everyone saw it. It was a priority.
SPEAKER_07All right, sorry, go ahead, Grayson.
SPEAKER_02No, as I I read once at some point that because of our like past as um like prey, that one of the the the the most visible thing to the human eye is movement as opposed to like differences in color, which is why camouflage doesn't really work if you move.
SPEAKER_07So what uh what would you suggest? A cloak cloak of invisibility?
SPEAKER_02No, I'm just saying the whole point was I can see people moving around out there, and that's where the whole comment came from, is because I I can't see like their faces, I can't see definable features, I can't see like really what's in their apartments, but I can see people moving around.
SPEAKER_07Wow. Thanks, Grayson. Thanks, Grayson. So, um, another thing that I really wanted to talk about with you guys since you're professionals, um, but it is situationships. Okay. Isabella is currently in a situationship, and basically I told her that if she gets into a relationship, no, and I'm gonna get into one again. Sid threatened me today. I'm like, a week and a half.
SPEAKER_02There seems to be a lot of that going around where she's like, ugh, I don't want to have to put up with you and your girl.
SPEAKER_07I went I need everyone to be in alliance with me.
SPEAKER_05It's not my fault. I like the pain of of uh being in something that's not real. Oh my god. Tell us about your last situation, Chip.
SPEAKER_02Uh, the girl and I that I just kind of ended things with, it's very like same shit happens every single time. I'm interested in them, and then I just get too busy, and then eventually that I just kind of run out of time of like I can see you once a week at this given time slot, and it's subject to change depending on when I have to go into the field. And then it doesn't work out.
SPEAKER_05Grayson's losing his leg. Yeah, but wait, so do you actually really like them then? Like I'm confused on because you're the one ending it.
SPEAKER_02Correct.
SPEAKER_05So is it a lack of interest?
SPEAKER_02No, I was certainly trying.
SPEAKER_05But then why why do you just give up like that if you actually like them?
SPEAKER_02Uh there's uh point of diminishing returns where it's like, alright, we haven't seen each other for a week and a half, two weeks. I When are you available next week? Oh, it's at this time, oh I have something going on that day that I can't move. Oh, what about the following week? And eventually that just gets to a point where I'm like, alright, this is if it's not gonna work right now when it's supposed to be fun.
SPEAKER_05You guys you guys don't text or face tag?
SPEAKER_02Not anymore. We ended things.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, but like while you guys were talking. Don't say that you did that because of me, please. Because that wasn't true.
SPEAKER_02Uh partially it was.
SPEAKER_07Okay, but you already you already wanted to before that.
SPEAKER_05Only because of the time. I'm just confused on how the spark doesn't stay alive if you're like texting.
SPEAKER_02Um well, I mean, the sp it's hard for the spark to stay alive when A, I don't love texting. I'm not a big texter. I don't know if you guys can tell by the way I'm not gonna be.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, you're a horrible texter.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I don't love texting unless it's like somebody I'm super duper interested in, which every time that happens, it never plays out in my favor. And yeah, that's pretty much it. I just don't love texting. I'm not a big call or FaceTime guy, so okay.
SPEAKER_05But for the right person, you would be.
SPEAKER_02I've tried to be.
SPEAKER_05I feel like you guys texted a lot.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, we did.
SPEAKER_05We yeah, Grayson and I back in the day we used to text a lot. Is it awkward to sit next to your ex? Yeah, it's really me and Grayson So me and Grayson, there was a time we were in love.
SPEAKER_02Um No, I don't think it's difficult to sit next to an ex situationship because I've been doing it now, what is this, the ninth podcast that we've had together?
SPEAKER_03Damn, so every everyone knows a situation ship. Should we break this down right now for the camera? Everyone's probably confused already. Like, I feel like I have to cut the whole podcast out.
SPEAKER_02I feel like people also might be confused because they didn't know that you were in a relationship to begin with. So when you just come out and you're like, alright, I broke up with somebody.
SPEAKER_07Well, because he's private. Well, yeah, he's also like very private, like does not want any like anything out there.
SPEAKER_02He doesn't want one of the of our 1,000 viewers on YouTube to be like, wait a minute.
SPEAKER_01I'm putting this puzzle piece together.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, sometimes it just doesn't work, and I think some that's that's okay. And sometimes it's like weirdly more sad in a different way when there isn't anything that's like explicitly wrong, it's just not the right fit. So we're doing we're doing just fine.
SPEAKER_02So we are all having a hot girl summer, right, Isabella?
SPEAKER_05So I think we need to give context because um bro. Which part are we talking about? We just made it sound like we're all on the bed cracking. Like we all used to crack on here, type of thing.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. In all fairness, that is not true.
SPEAKER_02Isabella and I have made out before a couple times.
SPEAKER_07We never had a lot of time. I'm cutting that first part out and then I'm just keeping the part of you.
SPEAKER_03Why dude, you know, like that shit would actually do good. Like if you guys actually already assume this.
SPEAKER_07Can you ask me out on a date so I can boost my ego again? No. Would you like to go on a date with me?
SPEAKER_02Correct.
SPEAKER_05Ever again? Correct. We never went on a date. Really? Me and Grayson never went on a date either.
SPEAKER_07He's like that, huh? What's up with why do you think it's interesting? Yeah, do you know what's interesting is that like he goes on. On a lot of dates. A lot. Yeah. But never went one with us. Wow. He doesn't even want to hang out with me. Like, he actually, like, I'll just suggest seeing like a movie we both want to see.
SPEAKER_05And he's like, thanks for that, Grayson. Yeah, no worries. All our dates took place in the back of an Uber.
SPEAKER_07Oh. Oh my god. Can I keep that?
SPEAKER_03Okay, well. Sorry about that. And look at Grayson like trying to be off the bed as far as possible. Like no point of contact.
SPEAKER_07What was your favorite thing about being in a situation with Isabella? Yeah, Grayson. Actually, yeah, this is where we're gonna go.
SPEAKER_02Honestly.
SPEAKER_07No, you have to say, and you have to be honest. You can't lie.
SPEAKER_02I don't want to.
SPEAKER_03What?
SPEAKER_07What was your favorite part?
SPEAKER_02Um no, it was just like I we didn't really know anything about each other.
SPEAKER_04That's your favorite part?
SPEAKER_02No, my favorite part was the sneakiness of it because we both didn't want to like tell you about it.
SPEAKER_07Like you hear you hear this.
SPEAKER_05I'm always involved in these fucking sus-ass situations. Like maybe I'm the problem.
SPEAKER_07Wait, that's actually insane that you said that.
SPEAKER_02Part of the that was part of the fun. Okay.
SPEAKER_07What was your favorite part as well?
SPEAKER_05Um, my favorite part about me and Grayson's situationship was um hard to think of something. Just kidding, Grayson. You're a really good guy. My favorite part about the situationship was the fact that it like it wasn't even really a situationship. Like I was just like talking about it.
SPEAKER_02No, we kissed one time.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we like barely even kissed. I think it was twice. We kissed a couple times, whatever.
SPEAKER_02Twice. We kissed two times.
SPEAKER_05A couple times. Like it didn't even count, but like it was fun to like have someone to talk to, I guess. This is like in my lonely era. Wow.
SPEAKER_02It sounds like you're back in your lonely era.
SPEAKER_05No, I'm not though. I'm just like, I'm trying to be, I'm trying to like be lonely because like I like I can't be like in the Grayson.
SPEAKER_07What was the worst part about being in a situation with Isabella?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_07Um besides me being her friend.
SPEAKER_02The worst part? Yeah. Uh well, Isabella's past hoes that she's had or been able to bag. I was like, fuck, like, that's tough. Like, I can't compete with that.
SPEAKER_05Oh, that's facts. I have some really crazy ones on my roster. On my past roster. Yeah. Okay. And you already know I was flexing that shit in his face. You already know.
SPEAKER_07Isabel, what about you?
SPEAKER_05Um, the worst part about being in a situation with ship with Grayson was the fact that it was Grayson. Like, I was like, why am I like, what am I doing right now? Just because you know, the Oh my god, this is awesome. You guys I'm really glad we did this, guys.
SPEAKER_07So yeah, Isabel and I have been friends for most of my time in New York now.
SPEAKER_05Which is so crazy. If I was gonna move back to LA and then I met Sydney and I was like, I have to stay.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, how did you guys meet? I don't know if we've ever talked about that.
SPEAKER_07We met through Lauren.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so then how did you how did that happen? W when you first met Isabella, how did that play out?
SPEAKER_07It was the best, actually. Okay, so only got our origin story banned. Okay, so basically, um Isabella ran up to the restaurant that we were sitting at, and I was with our friend Lauren, and she was just insane. Like you were unhinged so quick, and I forget you were going through a divorce.
SPEAKER_05I was also going through a divorce.
SPEAKER_07You were going through a breakup, and um you just came in hot with like a story that was like annoying you and it was so funny, and your delivery was so funny. I was like, I need to be friends with this bitch. And then we ended up like we hung out later that night, and then we were like, we have to create something together.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, remember I stole the shoes on the sidewalk and everyone was judging me, but they were perfectly good shoes. I didn't judge you. They were I know you didn't because you like went and talked to the girl that left them there. You were the only defender of me, and uh that will always resonate in my heart.
SPEAKER_07So there was a uh trash can full of of shoes that were.
SPEAKER_05But they were in a bag next to the trash can.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, so she you're not gross. Thank you, baby. No matter what anybody says.
SPEAKER_05Oh my god, baby, no matter what everyone says about me.
SPEAKER_07Your phone looks like it's perpetually in a bag of clean.
SPEAKER_05There's a crack. Grayson really wrote places where we think data centers should be built. Like that's not a good thing. I think that's great.
SPEAKER_02Niagara Falls, I think that would be great. Middle of Central Park would be hilarious.
SPEAKER_05Um Niagara Falls, drip black balls on the basketball court. Two one. Um let him know. Um sitting on the bed. No. Sid was getting mad here last night. No last night. What other name is this a belly? No, I'm not wearing it in yellow. Just kidding. It's on the hat. Yeah, it's gonna have a dad.
SPEAKER_07I just need to stand there. I didn't get ahead of my bed last night. Okay, so hop on the beaver. Okay, and now and now I'm gonna hop on the beaver. And I'm gonna participate in a hopping of the beaver. That's not true. Hello, baby, baby cat.
SPEAKER_05That is true. Me so that's her name. Me still, that's her name. Um she's fit. Run to fame.
SPEAKER_07Okay, Grace and I I wish you could talk and be bucks at the same time. We kind of did really bad.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, dude. Let's talk to us.
SPEAKER_02Isabella involved with girls. Then she went out and did some curls. And no way, that's me. Because somebody told me I'm not sexy.
SPEAKER_05And that's your fat. They said he was fat. Oh, oh, what you think of that? Yo, Grayson, what you think of that? They said you were fat.
SPEAKER_02That makes me mad.
SPEAKER_05Oh no.
SPEAKER_02It makes me feel bad.
SPEAKER_05Uh-huh. It makes you feel sad.
SPEAKER_02Sad.
SPEAKER_05He's real sad because he's getting fat. But we love fat people.
SPEAKER_02And for the people who forwarded 30 seconds, I'm sorry that we're still doing this.
SPEAKER_05We love no, actually, though, guys. Seriously. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02So um the episode that gets us cancelled.
SPEAKER_07Oh my god.
SPEAKER_02So, hot girl summer. My question for you guys Hot Girl Summer. How is this summer gonna be different than last summer for you now that you guys are both hot girls and it's summer?
SPEAKER_05Well, last summer I wasn't hot and I was in a relationship.
SPEAKER_02That's exactly why I'm asking. How is it different this summer versus last summer?
SPEAKER_05This summer is gonna be really great for me because I like someone that I can't be with. And so now I I just get to not be in a relationship and suffer on my own and pretend like I'm being out on the streets, but everyone knows that my hoes are dry.
SPEAKER_07Awesome. Hot girl summer for me, um, yeah, so my first summer in New York, I wasn't single, so now I'm gonna be. And that's really exciting because it's basically nothing's really gonna change that much except that I'll be single, but it's probably I'm still gonna be with my friends the same house.
SPEAKER_02I was gonna say, you guys both hang out with the same friend group all the time, always. Yeah, and looking to branch out to make more friends so you can get introduced to new groups and maybe new people who you can like kiss. If that's what your heart desires.
SPEAKER_07I think that we should have a 4th of July kiss the same way we have a New Year's kiss. All three of us? Like you kiss at midnight. All three of us. No, no. Grayson, will you go on a date with me? No. Will you go on a date with me?
SPEAKER_05No. I would never say that to a guy I actually want to go on a date with, by the way.
SPEAKER_07Thank you for explaining that.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, of course.
SPEAKER_05Oh, yay.
SPEAKER_07Should we do some improv with Isabella? Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I thought of an improv today. Okay. Uh or like a scene today. It kind of doesn't work with three people. I guess I could make this work. Okay, so I I went to the dentist today. This is not the improv. I went to the dentist today.
SPEAKER_05They told you you had three cavities.
SPEAKER_02No, they said I had zero cavities, which is good. They said keep up whatever you're doing. Um But I thought of an improv scene where uh who wants to be in the chair? And I'm happy to be in the chair.
SPEAKER_07In the that chair?
SPEAKER_02In the like, no, like the chair's getting worse. Yo, yo, yo. Actually, I think okay Is it?
SPEAKER_07No, I don't want to be the one in the chair. No, no, no.
SPEAKER_02I think what would play best is I'm in the chair based on and you lay across us? No. The group dynamic. Can you let me finish with it? Yeah, sorry. So the group dynamic, based on how we are in actual real life, I'll be in the chair. Um, Sid, you'll be the dentist, you'll be the dental hygienist. So you just got done finish you just finished cleaning my teeth. You're coming in to check my feet my teeth. I am in the chair, obviously, and it's clear to me that you guys have a history and are trying to rekindle things, and I just have to sit there and listen.
SPEAKER_05Oh my god, I'm nervous. Okay. Okay.
SPEAKER_02Do you uh uh do you have history with improv? Do you are you you're familiar with yes?
SPEAKER_05My whole life is just a series of me saying random shit to fill the gaps of silence, so if that counts.
SPEAKER_02Okay, and with that, um three, two, one, action.
SPEAKER_07Alright, how's everything looking over here?
SPEAKER_05Uh it was rough. Um, I know you might like that. But mean it's about that.
SPEAKER_07Israel, you're just gonna get right into the sexual stuff. I'm sorry, baby. We have to be a little grounded.
SPEAKER_05Okay, okay, fine.
SPEAKER_07Um and action.
SPEAKER_05Took care of business. He had a couple cavities, but um uh I just think you really gotta get in there and take a look for yourself.
SPEAKER_07Okay, I guess I'll um I know it looks pretty good.
SPEAKER_05Something different with your hair today.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, uh it's interesting you notice now. It looks oh um I just wanted to say that it looks really nice and it really brings out your eyes. Awesome. Scapel. It's actually an open heart surgery. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_05Oh, not going on.
SPEAKER_07Oh, wrong file, wrong. It's really not going good. Wrong file, hold on. Sorry, we're back on the okay. Um, let me help you. Okay. No, that looks good. Honestly, why don't you?
SPEAKER_05We should sedate him. And then so we can fuck right now on the thing.
SPEAKER_07Okay, um, yeah, I honestly let's sedate him.
SPEAKER_05I just really don't like the fact that Grayson can't talk right now. Like, I this is not going good.
SPEAKER_07Um, can you close your mouth for a bit?
SPEAKER_02That's the whole point, is I'm not I can't talk, so I'm just listening to this and I have to go, what?
SPEAKER_05Okay, okay.
SPEAKER_02It's fine.
SPEAKER_05It's like an easy out so that you don't even have to do anything. You just have inaudible noises that you're making inaudible noises.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_02And action.
SPEAKER_05Can you guys be my mom and my dad in it? Please, please.
SPEAKER_02Okay, Isabella, you have an improv scene. What do you want us to do?
SPEAKER_05Okay, so you um since it's my mama and then you're my papa, and we're at the deli, and I really, really want to get um a honey bun, but I already had two honey buns last night, and like we went to the doctor and he said that my blood sugar was really, really high, so that I can't be having sugar. And then I try to steal the honey bun. And then you guys have to teach me a lesson about not stealing.
SPEAKER_03Are you guys ready?
SPEAKER_02You get to say action. It's your sick.
SPEAKER_07Okay, one, two, three, action. Alright, I think I'm gonna do the baked lays because I feel like they're like a little bit better.
SPEAKER_02No, it's good. It'll go good with the sandwich.
SPEAKER_04Yes. Margaret?
SPEAKER_07Papa thing, I can get the honey bun. Did you say she could get the honey bun?
SPEAKER_02What? No, I said no.
SPEAKER_07She just had two last night.
SPEAKER_02No, I said she could get one thing, but no honey buns because of what the doctor said.
SPEAKER_07Okay, um, make it stop. Margaret? Margaret, Margaret. We talked about this. Remember, you you turned the baby voice on, it's like a trauma response, but I need you to turn that off and just speak like you're you're literally 14 years old. Okay, bitch.
SPEAKER_02Whoa, you are not gonna speak to your mother like that.
SPEAKER_05That's my first bitch. Let me get the honey bun. Or I'm gonna tell her what you did last night when you came into my room at three. That is a Bella. Jesus.
SPEAKER_02I guess I'm buying a honey bun.
SPEAKER_07I think actually I do like the idea of you knowing secrets about him, but not that he molested you. Maybe maybe something different. Fine. Okay. Or action. Um, okay, so yeah, I think I'm gonna get the lace chips.
SPEAKER_05Oops. Oh, your phone rang.
SPEAKER_02Oh, let's go.
SPEAKER_05What's that app? There's an H on it.
SPEAKER_02H uh, alright, okay. No, that's what's what do you what do you got? What do you got in your pocket?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, what's in your pocket? Do you have the honey buttons dripping out of your pocket? No, what the hell? I would never do something like that. But he's on curse. He's just trying to distract from the fact that he's looking at girls on his phone again. And I've been telling you this.
SPEAKER_02That is not true.
SPEAKER_05He is, mom. Yeah, we'll just take the latest chips the ones. Okay, fine. I don't want the honey button anyway. I don't even fucking want it. Okay, you're not gonna talk to me like that.
SPEAKER_02You need to watch your mouth, seriously.
SPEAKER_05Dude, you guys are really getting on my last nerve right now. Like I asked nicely and then you guys still didn't give it to me. Like, I don't know what you want for me.
SPEAKER_07$379? There's like air in that. There's like so much air in that bag of chips.
SPEAKER_02Honey, honey, I'll pay for it. It's fine.
SPEAKER_07What's on your phone? I told you.
SPEAKER_02On my tap to pay?
SPEAKER_05He's talking to girls, Mama. Are you fucking kidding me? And they don't look anything like you.
SPEAKER_02Look, it's just a big misunderstanding.
SPEAKER_05So he's not even like imagining that they're you. He just like wants a completely different other person.
SPEAKER_02Okay, here's what I'm doing.
SPEAKER_05Can I get a pack of gum too?
SPEAKER_07Sorry, guys.
SPEAKER_02I work in the police force. You would know this, obviously.
SPEAKER_07Yes, I know.
SPEAKER_02We try and keep it out of Margaret's.
SPEAKER_04Fuck twelve.
SPEAKER_02And this is why we don't tell her things. I need you listen to your father. I know that's why.
SPEAKER_07Okay. Well, I would like to continue, please.
SPEAKER_02I'm in the unit that is trying to figure out sex trafficking. And one of the biggest uses of sex trafficking now is recruiting people through dating apps. And so I'm on Hinge, I'm on Tinder, I'm even on Raya. And guess who I ran across who has a Hinge account? Our daughter, posing as an 18-year-old.
SPEAKER_07You have got to be kidding me. You are 14 years old.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, Margaret.
SPEAKER_07Dude, I'm mature for my age. Like you literally still have honey bun on the top of your lip from last night.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, mature for your age with with high blood sugar? Yeah, right. Let's let why are you talking about it?
SPEAKER_05If you guys are mad about that, then you definitely don't want to come to the doctor's appointment with me next week. Why?
SPEAKER_02Why?
SPEAKER_05That's just saying.
SPEAKER_02Why are you smiling? I don't like when you smile when you're about to deliver bad things.
SPEAKER_05Why do you think I've been wanting so many honey buns lately?
SPEAKER_02Because you're a diabetic?
SPEAKER_07You're not you haven't even gotten your period.
SPEAKER_02How do you know that? Is that like a woman thing?
SPEAKER_07I can sense it. Yeah, and like it's almost like because I have this intuition, I can sense there's also something else going on. Papa's been playing. Why do you have to keep going back to this arc?
SPEAKER_02She goes, Alright, things are kind of good in the scene. Let's bring up molestation.
SPEAKER_07Literally, like. So this is Isabel's first time improving ever.
SPEAKER_02She goes, I make it the I make up things all the time on the spot.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. She's also getting it.
SPEAKER_04She's also like super mucat bar.
SPEAKER_02She's got bronchitis.
SPEAKER_04We're all gonna be sick after this. Um really bad allergies.
SPEAKER_02No, you were hitting the vape and you've got freaking. I did hit the vape, I'm not gonna lie.
SPEAKER_05Hey, if I got it, you got it, type of shit. Okay. I don't think it's like uh I guess we're not allowed to talk about trauma on the podcast. No trauma allowed on the podcast is something that I've learned tonight.
SPEAKER_07Do you have trauma around what we've just got?
SPEAKER_05Not around my papa.
SPEAKER_07Do you want to talk about it? Papa, please.
SPEAKER_05Never mind. Listen, guys. I've been through a lot these last couple months.
SPEAKER_02This will be good for you.
SPEAKER_05You don't know shit.
SPEAKER_07Hey Isabel and I are trying to find ways that we can make money on Craigslist.
SPEAKER_05I will sell my body. It's at that point. It's at that point, I will do anything for a bag. Like, please? I'm not okay, said. And you know this. I'm gonna be home with soon.
SPEAKER_07No, you're not, because you always have you'll always be able to have my home to fall back on. You guys are making my life in editing fucking hell. Like, do you not realize that? The things that I have to cut out of this, it's just a bunch of bleeping and like cuts with no transition.
SPEAKER_05So the molestation bit isn't gonna make it said.
SPEAKER_07You are enough. You're actually not allowed to speak as the podcast.
SPEAKER_05Guys, remember when we did that podcast way long ago? And it was good? Was it good?
SPEAKER_07It actually wasn't at all. I don't know. It was mostly you like yelling at Grayson. Oh.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, so actually things don't change.
SPEAKER_07I barely even yell at you this time, Papa. Grayson, if Isabel and I were hanging off the side of a cliff, who would you save?
SPEAKER_02I'll save Sid and then I'm just gonna like it.
SPEAKER_07Wow. Wow.
SPEAKER_02I was gonna I was gonna put like kick Isabella's hands off.
SPEAKER_00Just wow.
SPEAKER_07So you don't want me to make relationship? He doesn't want you to be in fear too long. That's actually really sweet.
SPEAKER_02I don't want you to be alone. I don't want to be I don't want you to be broke.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, it's better.
SPEAKER_05Well do something about it then, Papa.
SPEAKER_07You know myself. Actually, can I get some money?
SPEAKER_05Like I said, dude, stop playing games. Stop playing games. Like, don't play in my face like that.
SPEAKER_07Well, guys, this was so fun. I really loved having Isabella on. I learned a lot about her.
SPEAKER_05Thank you so much for having me here, Sam. It's been a pleasure to be here with you and the guy that would gladfully kick me off a cliff.
SPEAKER_02Um it's a pleasure, actually. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, it's really a pleasure. The guy, the guy who said that his favorite thing about being in a situation ship with me was the fact that he had to hide it. It was really great. Um, this is a beautiful life, beautiful day here in New York.
SPEAKER_02It's actually on the subject of this, things are hot when people can't find out. I learned this recently. No, I shouldn't have to do it.
SPEAKER_05I guess it depends on the circumstances. It depends up with your sock. Don't look at it, bitch. I'm trying to hide it. It's dirty. Wait, look, Grayson, Grayson, don't.
SPEAKER_02What's wrong with it?
SPEAKER_07It looks like one of those like raggedy um like blankets that people keep their whole life.
SPEAKER_02Are your socks inside out?
SPEAKER_05Probably Grayson. I didn't check. What's going on?
SPEAKER_02Dude, I'm going through something.
SPEAKER_05I'm going through something.
SPEAKER_07He's tired of us going through something. That's one thing I've learned about Grayson.
SPEAKER_02Fucking going through something. Should we talk about things that we think would be disappointing? Yeah. Okay.
SPEAKER_05Sex on the first date.
SPEAKER_02Some people enjoy that.
SPEAKER_05We know you do, baby girl. We know you do. I, you guys.
SPEAKER_02It's been a while.
SPEAKER_05Are you okay? You're asking me if I'm okay. Are you okay? You're describing your dick as a mozzarella cheese stick.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, and let me tell you something. One bite, pull apart.
SPEAKER_05Ew? I don't even know how to interpret this. How many bodies do you have, Grayson?
SPEAKER_02I don't want to answer that.
SPEAKER_05Come on. Come on.
SPEAKER_02Well, I'll say this. Uh how many do you think I have?
SPEAKER_05Um, like 120.
SPEAKER_02Oh my no.
SPEAKER_05Oh my god. No? Less or more? Way less. Way, way less. Okay, um, 90. Oh my god. 70. 70. No, it's way less than 10. 60?
SPEAKER_02Way less than this.
SPEAKER_05Are you deadass? I feel like he's lying. 50.
SPEAKER_02Way less.
SPEAKER_05What?
SPEAKER_02Yes.
SPEAKER_05Way less than 50. Yes. 30. It's gotta be more than 30. It's gotta be.
SPEAKER_02It's around there. I don't remember exactly. 36.
SPEAKER_05Do you want me to cut this out?
SPEAKER_02Well, yes, obviously. Okay.
SPEAKER_05Now we're just hanging out.
SPEAKER_02It's less than 36.
SPEAKER_05Guys, this is what the people want to see. You guys are being timid.
SPEAKER_02So our friend Isabella clearly has a sex addiction.
SPEAKER_05It's crazy because I'm the least sex addiction person you'll ever meet. Like when it comes to like She's not coming.
SPEAKER_02That's how little of a sex addiction is.
SPEAKER_05I I okay. I will not have sex with strangers on the street. I will not have a one-night stand. I will not have even sex with my situationships unless. Unless unless, unless, unless it's like a special case.
SPEAKER_02So yes. That's a yes. You will have sex with your situations.
SPEAKER_05Only if it's a special case, because you know firsthand that I won't.
SPEAKER_02We never had the opportunity to.
SPEAKER_05Bro, even if the opportunity presented itself, no SEX would have been involved. And I said that.
SPEAKER_07Okay. This was really fun for me to be a part of. Do you guys should I just go?
SPEAKER_05Bitch, no. I need to hear.
SPEAKER_02I feel like I've been on the outside of this conversation the entire time.
SPEAKER_05You're heavily involved. That's only because we're touching physically. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Well, I don't like physical touch.
SPEAKER_05Okay. Is that like a trauma response or is that just like preference?
SPEAKER_02Where is this this buzzword? She picked this up from you.
SPEAKER_05I always say that one thing. Thank you so much for listening. I'm Sid. I'm Isabella.
SPEAKER_07I'm Sid.
SPEAKER_05I'm your host, Isabella.
SPEAKER_02I'm here.
SPEAKER_07And um, this best this is gonna have to be archived as well.
SPEAKER_05What? We need to post this. This was the best episode yet. You're so right.
SPEAKER_07All right. Thanks everybody for watching. Thanks, guys.
SPEAKER_05Like, subscribe. Bye.