EPISODE 8: TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AND FAKE FRIENDS

This episode of the Problematic podcast features the host discussing their negative experiences with relationships and friend groups, emphasizing a desire to avoid drama. Key topics include:

•The Adrian Relationship (2019): The host warns against naive decisions in relationships, reflecting on moving in with a partner and quitting a job too soon (2:31-3:01).
•Bobby and Chloe Drama: A detailed breakdown of a chaotic relationship involving jealousy, allegations of cheating, and the host getting involved in a dispute over Snapchat messages (3:56-10:28).
•Toxic Friend Group Dynamics: The host describes a past friend group centered around a guy named Eddie and the fallout that occurred when Eddie developed feelings for Brooke (16:03-23:55).
•The Festival Debacle: A specific incident where the host broke off a friendship with Brooke after a festival weekend, citing her behavior as overly demanding and annoying (26:30-34:14).
•Host's Stance on Friendship: The host declares they are no longer looking for new friends and prefers to keep a distance from toxic, dramatic situations, specifically critiquing the behavior of straight friend groups (34:44-36:51).
 

• learning the hard way not to move in fast or quit work for a partner  
• how jealousy turns couples into nonstop fights and control  
• why calling evidence “AI” is just denial with a new label  
• what blackmail actually means versus being exposed  
• social media “love” compared with real-life flirting and cheating  
• why I avoid friend groups and the drama that comes with them  
• the Eddie, Brooke, PJ, and Erwin fallout and how stories get twisted  
• the festival weekend that made me block a friend for good  
• setting boundaries when someone keeps pushing for access  

Transcript

Quarantine Ramble And Gratitude

SPEAKER_02 0:23

You know, I've been in this room quarantine for the last twenty-four to forty-eight hours. I'm going crazy. I've been sick for the last 48 hours, actually. So I've just been here just talking to myself, talking to the walls, and making friends with any kind of ghost or whatever. Alright, I'm gonna pretend that this is the first time I'm recording this. How many intros do I need to record so to get the perfect one? Guys, hey, whatever. Welcome back to problematic at this point, whatever. But yeah, guys, thank you so much. Actually, you know what? I'm gonna give another shout out. Another shout-out to everyone who's been supporting the pod. I've been checking the Apple Podcast. Uh, you know, I just been the stats of the Apple Podcast. And you guys are really downloading the episodes. You know, I am shocked, you know, damn near in tears, that uh you guys are actually, you know, listening to uh to this little pod of mine. And thank you so much. That's all I can say. Thank you so much for supporting. Thank you so much for listening on the pod on Apple and on YouTube. Thank you. Because I've been seeing the views too. I'm like, damn. Okay. You know, it's not okay, it's not like Mr. Beast numbers, but you know, it's something, right? Like I said, thank you so much, guys. I really appreciate the support. And like I said, you know, I am right now it's uh it's a small pod, and I want to continue on making it bigger. So in a few months, I'll be going visual on YouTube. So hey, waiting for the Zebic to kick in. But yeah, anyway, guys, thank you so much for supporting the pod, and yeah, here we go. Another episode of A Problematic. All right, let's just start, you know, with relationships. All right. I've uh I have not been in a relationship in a while, okay? And Nora don't want one. I don't want one, actually. Like the last time I was in a relationship was 2019 with this one dude, Romanian guy, Adrian. And something that I've learned from that relationship is that don't settle because oh, not only don't settle, don't move in and don't quit your job for some man. Because that's pretty much what I did. Want to do that again. But then I realized I'm like, yo, I was so naive and so like kind of to the point where I'm just like, damn, I don't think I'm gonna meet anybody. And I feel like I settled and I was so scared to like be alone, where I'm just like, you know what, this guy's not that bad. I mean, he's decent, he has an oxant, but the terrors and the red flags were all there, and I chose not to um see them, you know, from cheating, from maybe some abusive tendencies that you know some might say, oh, it's cute, little tantrums, and that's so cute when you're on the floor. But hey, this that was my story, and that was my situation when it happens for a relationship. But you know, because I see nowadays what is a relationship, actually. I don't seen a relationship from from my point of view, I don't think so. I've seen people always fighting, people always being jealous, you know, and you know what, to be honest, like I feel like it's not even my generation because I'm a millennial, I think it's like the younger generation. Let's say Bobby and Claire. Bobby and Claire got together. Claire is always, always jealous of any girl that Bobby talks to. But the thing is though, both of them, Bobby and Claire, are not even some people you will find attractive. I can say they're mid, you know. I mean, Bobby has a good personality, he's funny. Claire, I I don't know. I mean, is giving like quality of a toaster, but so Claire is always jealous of Bobby. Okay, and the same thing with Bobby, Bobby's like so insecure when it comes to Claire talking to any of the male. Yeah, and they always get like a big fight about it. There's always texting. Bobby's always texting her, like, oh bitch, what the fuck you told you? Why are you talking to other guys? And and then we have Claire who keeps texting Bobby that, you know, oh fuck you and your ex-girlfriend, your ex-girlfriend fucked you up so bad. And it was it's it's just so chaotic. And what's crazy is like I was friends with both Bobby and Claire. But we're I mean, we're cordial, me and Bobby are cordial, but Claire, no. Because, you know, there was some situation that happened a few months ago where uh Claire brought somebody to a party that wasn't Bobby, and Claire told me, hey, don't tell this person, don't tell Bobby that I invited this one person that actually works with her. And I had no idea that that one person that she brought was actually somebody who tried to precede her and like talk to her before. I had no idea until after that. So I've been holding back, you know, the whole story that, you know, Claire has been, you know, you know, pretty much, you know, it was a story there. And I just one time I just decided just to tell Bobby and like, hey, dude, like, so you know, this party that you couldn't come because you were you were working late, your girl actually invited this one guy. He promised he wouldn't say anything, but of course he had to go and say something and made this whole thing. And of course, and of course, Claire kind of denied everything. Claire said in a message, she said in the message, and she said that MVS Snapchat, that she yeah, so Claire said in in a Snapchat and you know on his phone, actually it was Snapchat, that I'm lying, and that those messages were actually those messages were actually AI, and then I was blackmailing her. So all the messages that I have on my phone from her saying, hey, don't tell this guy, those are AI. I showed him the messages and he was like, Oh shit, you know what the fuck, and yeah, but her response was yeah, those are AI. And not only AI, but I was lying and that I was blackmailing her. I need everyone to look at their phone and see the definition of blackmail. Blackmail is if I have permission on you and I'm asking you for money or asking you for favors and asking you for this and holding that thing that you know over your head, you know. But I'm asking for money, I'm asking for this. That is blackmail. Okay, I never hold it against you, I never hold it up to your head that I'm gonna go tell Bobby. I never said anything to you about that. You took it upon yourself because you got caught, and I told Bobby about what you are and what you did. In my opinion, Chloe and Bobby are so messed up in the head that they um they're perfect for each other, you know. You know, I know Bobby was played badly a few years ago from his ex. I know that, and it fucked him up brutally. And I don't know about Chloe's situation, but I feel like she's always allegedly. But yeah, but those are like relationships, like it's just why get into a relationship? Like, how how lonely and insecure are you that you will be in a relationship while all this stuff is happening and like being jealous of somebody? I know for a fact if I was in a relationship and I had like I was dating. I don't I wouldn't care who you're talking to. I don't care. Like those are your people. If you talk to your people, I talk to my people because one thing I will not do is be an insecure prick that I'm gonna get mad and my you know and my boyfriend or whatever because you're talking to somebody else or flirting, you're it's stupid, it's stupid, it's fucking childish, it's insecurities, and it's it just looks dumb, and that's how it is. A lot of people like that, and that's something that I cannot fuck with. Like that's a different thing, and that's really not so good. Well, and I, you know, after the whole debacle with Bobby and Chloe, they ended up being back together. I mean that it's based on lies and manipulation and insecurity. I don't know. Like, if it works out for you guys, hey, you know, go for it, be happy. But I know you guys are not gonna last, and and I know one of you guys are gonna like end up cheating or leaving each other. I just know that for a fact. So, hey Chloe, hey Bobby, I wish you all the luck, but you guys are fucking insane, and yeah, be happy with each other. But there's other there's other relationships too that I just don't understand. Like, you know, that I kind of want to get into it, but I just can't at the moment, but I will get into it. You know, I don't want to say that this couple is actually a couple, or I'm not sure. Are they still together? I'm not sure if they live together, I'm not sure what's the story on that. I just know that the guy is very flirtatious. He is very flirtatious for somebody who has a whole ass girlfriend damn near almost living together. Let's let's call him Ray. Alright, so Ray has, you know, Ray has this girlfriend that he's been having for majority of his life, I want to say, adult life maybe, and let's just call her Helen, alright? So Ray and Helen have been together, I'm not sure for how long, but the thing is though, we have seen Helen with multiple guys, you know. You know, we we've we we've seen Helen a couple times at different parties, you know, that she comes in with uh different people, anyways. Whatever. So yeah, Helen has the like she likes I feel like dating other guys outside of her relationship with Ray. But Ray has a tendency of you know flirting with other girls, and yeah, I just I just don't understand how that is. So you guys have been together for I don't know how long, but I feel like it has many years, and one is dating somebody else, and then you're over here talking to all these multiple girls. How does that even work? I mean, if you don't want to be in a relationship, just don't don't be in a relationship, just don't be in a relationship. I don't understand why you talking to other girls or flirting with other girls, people have seen you leave with different girls, you know, you can't even deny it, but people have seen you leave and with Helen, you know, people have seen you walk in with different guys. So what is going on? What is the issue? Why you know, if you guys are building a life together, why are you guys you know dating other people if you guys are so romantically uh involved with each other? And you know, we can we can take it to like social media, we can take it to you know Instagram, Facebook, or even Snapchat. You know, oh the love of my life, I love her, oh I love him. It's just like if you guys are gonna like just be together for the social medias, just stop because everybody knows exactly what you guys are all about. But if you guys are just using each other as you know, just for entertainment purposes or just like to post up somebody, like just to have somebody, it's just like it's kind of pathetic, you know. Because if you're gonna if you guys are together, actually together, then be together. Just don't use each other just for photo ops and just to you know tell everybody that you're you're in a loving relationship when you're really not. Oh, you never you never know. Probably you are, maybe I'm just saying shit, I'm just talking shit. But yeah, you guys, that is some of the toxic relationships that I've seen. It's I guess that's the new norm, and I don't think so. It's the same thing with friendships, you know. And let's just get into it when it comes to friendships and fake friendships. Like, okay, I'm gonna just say this me as a person, I uh I wanna just say this, and this is to quote any movie that I watch, I've comes with a lot of dead people, and a lot of my best friends are dead, and for me to make friends now it's it's kind of hard, you know.

SPEAKER_01 14:38

I I have not let anyone in in a while nor I want to.

Friend Group Drama With Eddie

Secret Affairs And False Accusations

SPEAKER_02 14:46

I can talk to people, I can hang out with people, but I'm not looking to make new friends. I don't want new friends. I know being being in a friend group is actually exhausting. Being in a friend group it's a lot of work, honestly. You know, too many people just trying to fit in, people just trying to outwant each other, and it's just chaotic, honestly. But I'm gonna just talk about the time that I was in a friend group. In a friend group, you know, with different personalities. When I mean different personalities, I mean what the fuck? You know, it started off, it started off good, you know. I just want to say this is this one guy, this is main guy, Eddie. So Eddie was this one guy who we all used to hang out with. Eddie, you know, he was really cool, he was down to earth, he was funny, you know, and he threw the greatest parties ever. And, you know, everybody wanted to be his friend. You know, he was like top-notch, everyone wanted to be his friend, everyone wanted to be around him, you know, everybody wanted to get anybody to his house, you know, and and just party, you know, because all we did was just like hung around, talk shit and drink and you know, just be with Eddie. He um got to his head and it made it really big, you know, and I felt like that like built up his ego to the point where at the end, nobody wanted to hang out with him. Nobody wanted to hang out with him, you know, including myself. I really didn't want to. I just want to say this it was this one party that we all went to, that's where I met this other girl, Brooke. So, all right, so at this party, you know, it was Eddie, myself, and Brooke. Brooke was introduced to us from one of our mutual friends. Shout out to the mutual friend. I think you know who you are. Yeah, because she they all went to this party together and this where we met. So after that party, me, Eddie, and Brooke came, you know, we were, you know, we came out as good friends. We hung out with each other, just three of us. We used to go get drunk, go cruise around, go eat, go drink some more, go to the pier, just you know, go to the movies, you know, all that all that's all that good stuff that you know you from being new friends. So, you know, we were inseparable, all of us. So a few months later, Eddie has a birthday, Eddie throws a party. Eddie throws his party, Brooke and I go a few days after the party. Apparently, Eddie contracted feelings for Brooke. And everyone hated Brooke. Everybody like stopped talking to Brooke. They didn't want her to go to his house anymore, they didn't want her to talk to him anymore. So I don't know what Eddie told everyone, but I felt not even felt you know what I felt this is exactly what happened in that situation. You know, this is why friend groups are so fucking messy, and this is why I don't want to get involved with any any any other friend group because this is just too much drama. Because friends fall for each other, you know, you can be best friends, you can just act like your best friends, you can act like, you know, oh, that's my homegirl, oh that's my homeboy. But eventually someone's gonna fall for each other, and that's fucking I hate when that happens. It happens in most friend groups, and you know what? And to be honest, in any other friend group, when it's like female or male, half of them are fucking each other. Let me just say that. This is exactly why I don't get into that. I don't want to be in a friend group because of shit like this, and it's just so out of pocket, and it's really so annoying. So, anyways, Eddie kind of stopped talking to Brooke for a second, and you know, apparently like Eddie is telling everybody, like, oh yeah, like she led me on, Brooke led me on, and I don't know, like she wouldn't mess me up, man. I really like her, I really want to be with her, I love her, man. News to her, news to me. There was no conversation had between Eddie and Brooke about them being together. The only conversation they had was hey, you're my bestie, we're gonna have fun this summer. That is it. Simple as that. We're just friends, we're all just friends. So this whole thing that Eddie started coming around to the house and stuff like that, or people don't want to talk to her, this whole thing started, you know, because I felt there was another girl involved in this friend group. PJ. So PJ, also in his friend group, this is a guy named Erwin.

SPEAKER_01 19:56

Erwin and PJ have been spending a lot of time together. Eddie was in love with PJ, and everyone knew that.

When A Friendship Turns Territorial

The “Hey Bitch” Text That Ends It

SPEAKER_02 20:08

He said it multiple times that he likes PJ. You know, but they were just friends, you know, all that. I felt the reason why Eddie told everyone not to talk to Brooke or created this whole story about how he, you know, how she broke his heart and all that was because PJ and Erwin were having a secret affair. And and Eddie saw that. You know, he saw that they were together, they saw that they were making out. So he created this story. I feel like he was embarrassed, you know, to even let PJ know that he liked her. You know what? I feel like he felt stupid and he didn't want to say her, so he brought up Brooke. Because, like I said, there was no conversation about him, you know, telling Brooke about them being together. That was news to her. It was just like it didn't make any sense. So he went on with that. I felt like this is the reason why he just said like Brooke was, you know, broke his heart, but it was actually PJ. So, like I said, people in a friend group they fall in love with each other, they start liking each other. Now, one might like the other one, but the other one might not like them. In this case, Eddie fell in love with PJ. PJ did not want to be with Eddie. But that's what I feel. I feel like that's what happened because it only makes sense. Because, you know, the times where, you know, at the time, me and Brooke, we were friends. We were like best friends, no longer friends. Every time we like used to hang out, we used to just be in a car, just riding around, just like talking and be like, this doesn't make any sense. How the fuck? Like he says that you know, he likes me, he loves me, and he told me. Me, there was no telling at all. It was because this guy was just too embarrassed that PJ wanted somebody else. And you know what? Hey, you guys might be listening to this. You might, you know, somebody will send you a clip or whatever. This isn't me talking shit. This is me, you know, talking about that experience that happened. The same thing that PJ and Erwin accused me of sending a pic to Erwin's roommate who was actually PJ's actual girlfriend. PJ had a relationship with Will. Will and Erwin with roommates. Yeah. So PJ and Erwin accused me of sending a picture to Will. Of them making out. Because there was like, you know, I remember PJ telling me, like, hey, like, do you know about this? Or like, do you did you did you do this? I'm like, no, I didn't do anything like that. So you know, that was the whole falling out with me, PJ, and Erwin, where, you know, they stopped talking to me and I stopped talking to them. And that's when the whole animosity happened when we did not fuck with each other at all. Because they still, I feel like to this day, they still feel like I sent that picture to uh to uh Will, which I didn't. And you know, I I get it, it makes sense because I'm gonna say something. I developed a crush on Will. Will, you know, like Will is straight, and we used to just talk and you know talk shit to each other, and you know, it happens. Sometimes, you know, a gay man has a crush on a straight, you know, whatever. It happens, okay? Sue me. Yeah, I did have a crush on him, but that doesn't mean that I'm gonna get go out of my way and send him a picture of them like kissing. Like, what the fuck am I gonna get out of that? Like, what, just because I was trying to get with him? It hasn't it makes no sense. Because there's no me getting with Will, a straight man. So why would I even send a picture of PJ and Irwin of them making out to him? Well, how's that gonna benefit me? Yeah, I'm friends with him, but it's like whatever. They like the fact that I was friends with him. I was talking to him like after all that time, but it was whatever. But I never sent any picture to him at all. And Will, if you you know, if you know anything about that, or you told them or insinuated that I sent something, that's fucking bullshit, bro. I never send you a picture of them making out. Why would I do that? Why would I do that? So yeah, so that's how the whole friendship, a whole friend group dynamic happened. It's so messy, it's it's buried, it's it's over. It was it was years ago, but I just wanted to, you know, just say that story about friend groups and you know, and having multiple personalities, you know, like Brooke. Brooke was like, um, you know, that was my right or die. We um we, you know, we met at that party, and then after that, we, you know, she dropped me off and we became friends. You know, it was me, her, and him, and then it became me and her. But like, I saw that friendship, you know, going down, you know, and you know, I bought her around the house a few times. Even my mom and my sisters were like, what the fuck? Like, she has like a weird vibe, and people were not just they were not fucking with her. Some of my friends were just asking, telling me too, like, who what the fuck is over here? Why is she being so weird and all that? She was very territorial. I just remember we went to a festival, which I will be back there in May. It's it started, you know, like the last time we were there. We got a hotel room, everything was cool, woo woo woo the entire weekend. She was just being a fucking brat, being so fucking annoying, bro. Being so like, what the fuck? Like, like I okay, I grew up with women, okay? I grew up with sisters, my mom, all girls. So I get it. I get, you know, their moments. I I get when they're on their periods. I I understand completely, but with her, I fucking I I hated her. And I I feel like she was just doing shit just on purpose, just to like get like a rise out of me, or just try to like be annoying. Because I feel like that was just her. She was so fucking annoying, honestly. I couldn't even do anything because she would get mad. Like, okay, so day one on the festival, which I left early because one, I got fucked up at the pregame, as I usually do. You know, and I wasn't I wasn't feeling good because look at I got fucked up so early. It was it was like damn near 4 p.m. I left at 5 30 at almost at 6, and I was fucked up. And the festival, like it was still going on all the way to like 11, I think. I was not gonna make it. Yeah, I was already fucked up and drinking more. Oh no, and the one thing about me, I know how to drink and I know how to you know hold it. But there was like no there was like no limit to like what I can drink, and I knew if I would have stayed, I would have like made an ass out of myself and ended up in that fucking Sweno's Facebook. And and that was not what's gonna happen. I did not want to end up in that Facebook group. And what the fuck I was wearing, fuck that get roasted by that one guy, fuck that. So yeah, so that's what happened. Like, I didn't wanna I I didn't want to stay. So I left. She got pissed off. But even before that, though, we all ended up going, and then she had this one guy that like she met during my birthday weekend, and she like went, you know, went to this little small, the little uh stadium, stadium, the stage, one of the smaller stages, because she wanted to see somebody playing. We're like, go girl, do your thing. And she meet up with that guy. So we're just like, you know what? Anybody okay, first of all, if I'm your friend, you and we're in the same friend group, and you want to go do your own thing, you want to go hook up with somebody, you want to go see somebody, or see someone, or see another artist that you know are is there, go for it. Go, have fun, have your little adventure. I don't care, be safe, have your 360, we're fine. Everything was fine. But this chick, like, after you know, whatever, she met up with that guy. She meant back with us, she had this fucking attitude. I didn't want to be there. She got pissed off, she turned off her 360, and then she goes on Snapchat talking about like, oh, then let me hear by myself. I'm over here alone, and uh blah blah blah blah blah. You know, pretty much just like taking aim at us for leaving her alone. Like, nah, bitch, you let yourself alone. You're fucking annoying. You know, and I left. I left the festival. I I was I went back to the hotel room, I chilled the next day. You know, day two, we went, everything was fine, blah, blah, blah. Here she comes with her fucking attitude. I just couldn't fucking take it. I couldn't take it on honestly. Like, I, you know, something was telling me, like, you know what, and you need to dump her. You need to like leave this girl alone. Because then I, you know, to be honest, I felt like I was in a fucking relationship. I felt like I was in a relationship with this girl that I don't even like with a girl. Like, I'm not into girls. Nah. So I I felt like I was in a relationship with her. And I'm like, what the fuck? Why am I feeling like this? And why is she acting like that? And it was just too much. And I, you know, I waited for the next morning. We didn't talk really. We just like decided, like, oh, you're gonna take this alcohol, blah, blah, blah. That's it. And then we were like, okay, well, hit me up later. There we go. I blocked her as soon as she left the hotel room. I blocked her. When I say I never blocked anyone faster than I hold on my phone, and blocked her right a fucking way. Never to be heard again. I did not want to be near her. I I can't. Just like actually just thinking about it right now, just get it's getting me tight. Because it was just like, she was so fucking annoying. She was so fucking annoying. And, you know, after that, like I saw her in a few little little outings that you know we have from our with our mutual friends, but I never talked to her. I never wanted, you know, and she kept and she kept texting me. And I think it's no, okay, listen, yes, I might be gay. Cool. Whatever. She texted me a few months later, or maybe like a month, or she texted me every month. I don't want to see my phone with your name talking about hey bitch. I fucking miss you. I I get the I'm I fucking miss you. I don't want to see hey bitch. I I don't. I'm not a hey bitch me girl. I'm not. Don't hey bitch me. Especially when you fucked up my fucking my fucking my weekend. You fucked up my weekend, and then you wanna fucking hey bitch me?

unknown 31:47

No!

SPEAKER_02 31:48

So that pissed me up more. I was like, oh. And you know what's crazy? I wasn't even thinking about I was considering considering considering texting her back. But no, it was a whole hey bitch thing. Oh no. I'm sorry. And then you know what? Another month passed. Here she goes. She goes, Hey, how are you? How's everything? You know, like I haven't heard from you. I just want to know where we stand.

SPEAKER_01 32:26

I was like, all right, cool, mature. You know, uh, there's no bitch anywhere. I like it.

SPEAKER_02 32:33

I was like, I was like, keep keep it coming. And I I told her, I'm like, no, we good. You know, she's like, oh, what do you mean? Like, I don't, you know, like what did I what what went wrong? I'm like, no, bitch, we're like, no, I call her a bitch, but I'm like, no, we're we're good. And she's like, oh, okay. And then she writes back because bitch, I fucking miss you. Black. I'm sorry, blocked, blocked again.

SPEAKER_01 33:06

Block, block, block, black, block, block, block. No, I'm not your bitch. Actually, you know what? You're a bitch.

SPEAKER_02 33:14

Little bitch. Don't you fucking talk to me like that. The disrespect I felt. Because you had me there. And then you hey bitch me again. No, I'm sorry, peace out. I can't.

SPEAKER_01 33:26

So Tortskate.

SPEAKER_02 33:32

I I I can't. I'm sorry. You were once upon a time a good friend to me, but you fucked up my weekend, so the door you see. It's I I'm done. I don't and I saw you creeping on my Snapchat the other day. Thank you for giving me views, but no, I'm sorry. I can't. I can't I I I can't go back to that. I'm sorry. Sorry, not sorry. I can't go back to that thing.

SPEAKER_01 34:01

I can't go back to friend groups, guys. I can't. You cannot tell me to go back to a friend group. You cannot pay me to go back to a friend group. I can't. It's just too much.

Friend Group Noise And Burnout

SPEAKER_02 34:19

And not only friend group though, like you know, this is probably gonna be one of the last times they're probably late here for me. But the thing is um I you know what to be honest, I feel like this isn't just coming from strange people because I did not I did not have this hard of a trouble like with all the faggots I used to like hang out with. Oh, I'm sorry, all the gay people I used to talk to. I was part of a gay friend group, and it was yeah, they were all fucking each other, but it was never this kind of drama, and it was the kind of drama that we're laughing about. Straight people are fucking dramatic, and I just can't. And you know what? And they were mostly all girls in a friend group. This one here, and they were all straight. And you know what? Every time I used to go out with them or like see them at a festival or see them at a club, I'm fucking sick and tired of fucking hearing a girl, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey Is that hold on?

SPEAKER_01 35:25

Is that all? Is that all you guys do?

SPEAKER_02 35:32

It's a fucking annoying. And I'm not even hanging out with you guys right now, but I I still have you on Snap, and every other fucking weekend, I'm looking actually no, I have you muted, and I'm like once in a great while I'm looking through the story, and all I hear is that has to be one of the most fucking annoying, fucking annoying things that a girl can be doing. Oh my fucking god. Uh maybe just me, but I well maybe I'm just being dramatic. But that's that's what it is. Well, this whole show that I have, this whole podcast, is all about being dramatic. And it's all about like real life experiences and things that I fucking hate, things that I like, things that I just can't get over, and things that need to fucking change because I don't know.

Closing Thanks And Where To Listen

SPEAKER_01 36:37

But you know what, guys? I'm gonna wrap it up. You know what?

SPEAKER_02 36:46

You guys are gonna be listening to this. Like, what the fuck are you talking about? Like, yeah, exactly. What the fuck am I actually talking about? Because I have no fucking idea. But hey guys, thank you so much for tuning in to another episode of Problematic. It's I'm trying to record more episodes by myself, and I'm trying to actually give you some good content. And I have stories and stories to say, you know, and I just can't wait to do the visual pod in a few months. Ozempic, I just, you know, I can't wait. I'm actually excited for all that stuff to come in, and I'm I'm gonna I'm doing my girl with my little studio, and it's gonna be great. But, you know, guys, until then, I want to be doing this audio. You know where to find me. You know you'd find me at YouTube and Apple Podcasts, the problematic, or this podcast is problematic. Thanks so much, guys, for tuning in. I will see you maybe in a few days with another episode with spam. But in that, stay problematic, guys. This is the public service announcement. If you're hearing this, then you're part of the problem. This podcast is problematic. Let it go.