My Grindr Explorations

Welcome back to This Podcast Is Problematic With Archer — and this episode has a little bit of everything.

🎃 31 DAYS OF HALLOWEEN
First, we’re kicking off my 31 Days of Halloween movie marathon! I’m talking about the horror movies I’ll be watching throughout October, the classics, the slashers, the sequels, the remakes, and all the ridiculous horror that comes with trying to watch a Halloween movie every single day. 🔪🎬

💉 KRISTA PIKE & THE TWO LETHAL INJECTIONS
Then I get into the bizarre and disturbing story of Krista Pike and the circumstances surrounding her surviving two lethal-injection attempts. It’s one of those stories that sounds unbelievable, and I’m breaking down what caught my attention about it.

🔥 GRINDR, VALIDATION & RELATIONSHIPS
Then we get messy. 😂 I talk about being on Grindr, looking for validation, and why I keep attracting people who aren’t necessarily the type of people I’m attracted to. I talk about wanting to be seen with somebody who is “cool,” somebody who counts, and the realization that I shouldn’t settle just because someone wants me.

Do I actually want a relationship? Sometimes I do. Sometimes I absolutely don’t. But if I eventually get into one, I already know what I want: someone who feels like my best friend first and my boyfriend second. I don’t want to force something just because I don’t want to be alone.

👀 THE CORNELL SEVEN & FAKE SOCIAL MEDIA SUPPORT
I also get into the Cornell Seven and the reaction happening across social media. There has been a lot of public support, but I question how much of that support is genuine and how much of it is people posting because they want likes, views, engagement, or attention.

🧠 ANXIETY, LIFE & WHAT COMES NEXT
Finally, I get more personal. I talk about my anxiety, some things that have been happening in my life, and some concerns that have me wondering if I might potentially be getting sick again. I’m trying to stay optimistic and hopeful that everything is okay while I deal with everything happening behind the scenes.

There are also some things happening in my life that I’m not ready to fully explain yet. Once I get everything settled, I’ll be talking about everything in a full episode.

🎥 NOVEMBER 8TH IS THE START OF THE VIDEO PODCAST.

That’s when This Podcast Is Problematic With Archer officially moves into the full video version, and I’ll be ready to tell a lot more of the story.

Until then…

🎃 Watch your horror movies.
💀 Stay problematic.
🍿 Grab your popcorn.
🔥 And remember — I’m probably going to say something you don’t agree with.

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SPEAKER_00 0:26

Welcome to your favorite podcast. Hey guys, welcome back to a brand new episode of Problematic Podcast. This podcast is problematic with Archer. I'm your host, Archer. Hey, I wanna say it is fucking October, y'all. Fucking October. It's it's one of like the best times, actually, in I feel like a lot of people's like lives. I feel like October with all the scary stuff and all like the it's just like all that fun and games kind of stuff. I feel like it brings everyone's inner child. And I am lucky to see another October, and I'm so happy that I am here and experience, you know, last night, the first day of October, I went to see a movie called Beware of Boyona, and it's a creature feature with a big ass fucking snake. And let me tell you, I was drunk half. I was like, listen, I took like two buzz balls in the Uber, and then by the time I got there, I took like I was like drinking one cut water, and yeah, I was lit. Now, do I recommend this movie? I mean, it's alright. It was not, I mean, the only reason why I watched it is because of Jessica Roth. And she was tree and happy death day. The only reason why I saw that movie is because of her, and spoiler alert, she dies like in fucking midway through the movie. Fucking Biona, fucking bitch ass snake, fucking ate her ass up. Literally ate her ass up. But yeah, October's here. Saw that movie yesterday, and then came back home and I was watching day one of 31 Days of Halloween. I was watching Night of the Demons 2009 remake with Shannon Elizabeth and Monica Keel and all these other hotties. It's one badass fucking movie. Y'all should really watch that. Night of the Demons 2009. The you know, the original, it was from the 80s, which I really wasn't a fan of, but I have it. But this one is it's fucking badass. But, anyways, guys, it's scary season, spooky season. Can we talk about some scary shit? Just like real quick before we get into anything else, because like I said, this podcast is always random. So I do wait, hold on. I yesterday at work, I'm just chilling, doing my thing, and then I hear some girl on the phone talking to one of her other people, whatever, and she was like, Yeah, this bitch didn't die. I'm like, wait, wait, hold wait, wait, wait, wait, hold up, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold up. What do you mean this bitch didn't die? Who are y'all confessing to a murder? Like, what what the like what? But she was actually talking about this one bitch, the fucking Krista Pike bitch. So who fucking two lethal injections and bitch didn't fucking nothing happened? Bitches like snoring. What the fuck? If I'm a tough bitch, and like you can't, I'm a bad bitch, can't kill me. If it had a if it had a face, it would be this bitch. I don't even know what she did. I was I didn't read into it, I just read the fucking headlines that fucking two lethal injections, and she was just like, bitch. Wow. That that's insane. Like that's just insane. But yeah, she's on death row. She did something. I don't know. Like I said, I don't really keep up with shit like that, but yeah, that's one of the topics from yesterday. Well, not for me, whatever. It was just like one of the headlines people were talking about. But that's some that's fucking crazy. Like, who the fuck is she? Like, like is she like is she coming to get us? Is she like the you know? Is she the killer? Let's just say that. Like, she's the killer. She's gonna come and get her ass out before she goes on on the street and terrorizes somebody. Hey guys, here in my garage, I'm fucking waiting for my fucking pizza rolls to defroze so I can fucking put those motherfuckers in a microwave so I can come in here and chill and eat. Because I'm about to watch day two of my 31 days of Halloween, which I don't even have one. I had a list that you know, but I'm you know what? I'm just going with the flow. So probably probably tonight I will I watched Diana Demons yesterday, which was a remake. So I'll probably watch like a remake today. So maybe I'm thinking Halloween 2007. I might that I might watch that, or I'll maybe watch Halloween 4, one of my favorites, or the best one, Halloween Resurrection. Now, if you're a hater, which I feel like a half of you guys are, you're you guys are hating on me because I fucking love Halloween Resurrection. And if you don't like Halloween Resurrection, then what the fuck are you doing with your life? It's one of the best motherfucking movies ever. Buster Rhymes, Trick-or-treat motherfucker, come on, it's way better than I don't know, El Cool Jan H2O. He even didn't have an old tagline. But Buster Rhymes going busting through that fucking shed, saving Sarah, trick-or-treat motherfucker. That's one of like most iconic movies ever. And put some fucking respect on Halloween Resurrection. That's how I got my my name. Well, it's supposed to be well, I got it from Thomas Decker from you know, Village of the Damn, Friday. I know, and I'm an Umstreet remake, but my name is Decker Online on social media, and I got it from him. But Deckered is really where I wanted it, but like the spelling is way better, Decker, instead of Deckered. But yeah, that was some, you know, that's whatever. It's one of my favorite movies. And you guys should fucking watch it this Halloween season. So yeah, so today, guys, I am just here. I cleaned up my garage, I put up some spooky decorations, I'll take some pictures and I'll post it. Oh, I won't post it, I'll put in a video so you can see what exactly I am like looking at right now. And I have some backdrops that uh glow in the dark. So I have a black light, and yeah, it's pretty cool. And it's like a vibe right here. So and I'm sitting on the couch, the couch where I'm going to be podcasting in video form. Very soon. I was AIing some video, well, some pictures of meme. You know, I had to take off extra pounds. You know what? I really want I really watch that. Okay, I was cheating and I was using chat to help me, you know, and you know, pose a selfie by the banner. And I'm like, oh, like, can you fix the face? Because, you know, like my one of the eye, one of my eyes is bigger than the other, and it looks like I'm cross-eyed, but I'm not, I promise you. But it was giving very cross-sighted, it was it was giving that one guy from scary movie too, you know, the scene where he, you know, you take the glasses off. It was giving it was giving that. Well, my eye, my eye is giving that. And I was like, hey chat, can you like fix my shit? And then he made me little like glider and little skin tier. I'm like, oh, work. And and I'm like, oh, let me put that shit on Groke. And you know, I put oh it was just talking by itself, and I was like, fucking AI is fucking crazy, and it's it's fucking scary. Like any fucking anything you put in that little search thing or like upload a photo and you tell fucking chat or fucking groke, you know, hey, do this, and they fucking they it's fucking lifelike. Fucking like have you have you not seen my thumbnail? My thumbnail is actually badass. I just did it like last week from the last episode, and fucking AI is really taking over and it's fucking here, and I'm fucking scared. What if like it looks at my fucking in my search history and finds some stuff that I haven't deleted? You know, uh whatever. Cheers to Friday, guys. This is I'm drinking a white claw surge pineapple. I wanted to get the other ones but wasn't available, and they gave me this as the option, and I was like, oh work because this one has 8% alcohol. And the other one was like, what, 5 or 4.5? What the fuck is that gonna do with me? Oh fuck. You know, I started October. My mindset for October, I really wanted to be more I want I want to be more free. I wanna be more more. I don't want to be overthinking, I don't wanna be feeling very um, I don't wanna feel like I did in the last few months, you know, that loneliness. You know how the fuck I was spiraling the last episode prior to the one I just posted, whatever. And I don't want that, I don't want to be spiraling, you know, but I do okay. Well, I will I'm gonna put myself on blast. I I do seek validation, and it's fucking crazy because I used to make fun of everyone who's seeking validation, but that's not the kind of validation, like I really like I don't know what it is. Oh, here we go. Like, I don't know what it is. Like, I I like I said I like my alone space, I like to be here chilling, nothing, leave me the fuck alone. But you know, sometimes I just do crave, you know, human interaction and human, you know. And I got it actually like a few I don't know if I talked about it, but I did I got it like two weeks ago, three weeks ago. Let's just say it was an old friend, and boy oh boy, does he know how to fucking kiss? We were here actually in this college, we were fucking making now, like I feel like it was like an hour or so. It was fucking one of like the best, like oh, oh my god, like I can't believe like this is happening. I mean, I made out with him before in various locations and many spots, but it was it was a long time ago, and I haven't seen him like in since 2021, 2020 or whatever. And yeah, it was great to see him and yeah, I wanted to do more than just make out low key like just like put it in me. But no, I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I'm kidding. But you know if it can be real, but I wasn't ready because I was already fucking eating and besides if we ate McDonald's too, and no, I'm not doing that while you have greasy fooding, it's just not but yeah, so I was just talking about like I was just saying that like I was um and then like I I find myself on Grindr and okay, hold on. I did kind of do something stupid on Grindr. I um because in my profile it's me and my AI are generated pictures. Uh no, not playing. Whatever, wink wink. And it's just filtered. So I I might I might think I have friends question mark, but for some reason, and for some reason, and I don't know if YouTube's gonna take this portion down because I'm talking about substance, but it's not really a substance, it's I don't know what it is. A VCR cleaner, actually. Let's just call it a VCR cleaner, and for the gays, we all know what I'm talking about. Yeah, you know, uh yeah, the little confetti that pops the poppers, yeah, those poppers. Okay, so yeah, I was I went on Grindr and I put the headline. I'm like poppers, question mark, and yeah, I was feeling a certain uh a certain way yesterday. Like I I remember I was such a fucking gooner, I was a gooner, so like yeah, I I remember watching this one guy. I don't know, some game that you put something like plastic in your mouth, and it makes you the guy, you know you know the whole thing like this? It's like they're all game and you can see your teeth and whatever. So I used to watch, I don't know why I just did that. I used to watch him, and I'm like, oh my god, why is this turning me on? Like, why I like it? And he he was using fucking some kind of a lotion or some shit, and he was just like fucking jerking it and you know, monkey monkey gooning, like he was doing that. I don't know why that shit was turning me on. That was like fucking years ago, actually. But that's when I first I was introduced with poppers. Why the fuck am I lying? No, I when I used to go out with you know my whole nightlife and a few years ago, that's how I, you know, whatever. But I was fucking craving, and I'm like, I'm I need it. Like sometimes it's like it's a good jerk when you have something like that. It's usually for bottoming, I guess, whatever, but I needed something because it was just tearing me apart and I needed it so bad. So yeah, I put that in, nobody, you know. No, actually, somebody did say I don't know who the fuck it was. Of course, it was like a blank profile, and then like, oh, I have some, you know, I'll I'll sell them to you. I'm like, oh bet. Can you send me a picture? Motherfucker, those it was like halfway and it looked dirty as fuck. Like the like the packaging was like like ripped. I'm like, I'm no, I'm not about to go all the way to your house, God knows where the fuck you live, and fucking get some nasty ass expired poppers. Fuck no, I ain't gonna go to work with fucking rashes on my nose. People be like, what the fuck is that, booger? So I'm like, if only I can tell you. No, but I don't know. It was it's sometimes I just I just like the little rush. No pun intended, but I like the little rush sometimes just to keep the vibes going. And but I had to stop. Like, I you know, I passed out like yesterday and I woke up with shame, I was ashamed. Like, where the fuck am I? I'm cranking you asking for VCR cleaner, even though I do have a VCR. But yeah, I was on there and I guess I was not seeking validation, but I just needed some companionship or whatever. And it's but it's crazy though, because I'm like one of those motherfuckers that like when I get drunk or whatever, at that moment I'm like, I won't, I don't give a fuck. And that leads me into this. I am not a bad looking guy. I want to say that I am not, I'm not being conceited, I'm not being like whatever, but I am not a bad looking guy. I used to be way hotter back in the day. If I do say so myself, but I'm not a bad looking guy. Like, you know, I could lose a couple pounds, you know. I could, you know, I could like uh skip a meal or five. I could lately, especially when I'm getting drunk, which I think I should stomp it a little bit. I I'm settling for whatever. And it's just like, what the fuck? Like, why like I you know, like I said, I'm not the best, I'm not bad looking, but I'm not the best looking guy. But why do I settle with people who are not, you know, they might have a great personality? Let's just say that they might have, you know, cool, they might not, you know, they they might have something more than looks. I feel like that's bad to say. Settling like I don't know if it's like cause uh do I have like low self-esteem? Is it is this why? Like, am I like that popped that that I'm just whatever comes my way doesn't fucking matter? I'm cuz I was looking through the stuff, like through my sorry, I'm burping. I was looking through the grinder messages, and I'm like, what the fuck am I saying to these people? And why the fuck did it look like that? And you know, I'm not trying to be mean, but some of the ugliest guys have the biggest confidence. I don't know who the fuck is giving y'all this confidence. Y'all motherfuckers need to stop lying to these men because these men are fucking trying to put game on me, even not only on Grindr, even on Facebook dating, which I'm still active. I get matched with people who I am not attracted to. And I'm like, what the fuck? Is this what the fuck I'm attracting? Like, how come I'm not attracting like somebody that I like? You know, like, you know, do I have a preference? I do, I do love Latinos, I prefer white men, I love my whites, I I, you know, I like, you know, Latin men too. That's pretty much all I've dated and fucked around with. So I usually go towards them or they come towards me, but all like the ones who are matching with me are not them. It's just like I I need a rough neck. I need somebody who can like fucking, you know, knows how to throw it down, like fucking punch me and throw me in the closet. You know, some shit like that. Some rough a rough neck. You know, I'm not talking about no Dio man either, but that's a different story. Cause, you know, yeah, whatever. Like, I wouldn't mind, but I do sometimes want to go out and be seen. And when I go out and be seen, I want to be seen with someone cool, someone who counts. And what I'm getting, it's not that. Am I shallow? Is this is this a shallow episode? Am I just saying stuff? I feel like that is shallow. Like, I feel like I shall shallow. Call me shallow. I just know what I want, and not gonna settle for anything that anything less than what I want. And I get it, you know. But the thing is though, like love is blind, they say, but I can even though my fucked up vision, I know, I know what I want, and it's not what people are, it's not who the fuck is coming towards my way. There are a few a few cute guys, but there's nothing I can do with them. Either they want to hook up and which is fine, but like I do, you know what it is too? Because of the holidays are coming up too, and I want to do some cute shit. That's why. Uh I do like I'm gonna go to pumpkin patch, like, you know, but stand like five feet away from me. We can be cool. Like, you know what I want? If I ever do end up being in a relationship, I wanna be in a relationship where they don't even think we're a couple, or they just like, oh, they hate each other. No, not even that. Kind of like like I wanna like a best friend, like how a best friend, like, you know, we don't have to do all that gay shit, fucking holding hands, kissing, and fucking taking punt like pictures with fucking pumpkins or Christmas shit. Like, no, Christmas pictures, fucking the gays. Yeah, I saw that shit last year. I'm like, what the fuck? Are y'all still together? No, okay. I I would never do no couples pictures like that. That's one of the things. I might be gay, but I'm not that gay. But yeah, that I don't want to do, but I do want to do some cute shit, but I don't want to be holding hands. I don't want to hold hands. Public affection. I that uh that's not me. Like I'll I'll sink a kisser here, but they don't need to see that. They don't, and but like I said, I want if I and end up being in a relationship, I will wanna be with somebody who is like a best friend who will be cool with me, will talk shit to each other, and and and you know, whatever. That's what I want. I don't love that whole lovey dovey shit. I really don't. And then, like, if I'm on social media, you would never if even if I had a boyfriend or whatever, you would never know I have one because I am not posting shit. What have we learned of the life of Archer? For any listeners out there who who've known my experience of me posting with especially with my first one, Angel. I was posting that motherfucker like non-stop every fucking day or every time we hung out, and I was like so in love, and it was just I did too much. And then when we broke up and it was some embarrassment, not only being ghosted, happy Halloween, but not only being ghosted, which oh the anniversary is coming up too on when he he ghosted me, but whatever. Damn, 10 years, that's a lot. I should do a full episode on that. Nah, what the fuck was I talking about? Oh, yeah. The embarrassment of like taking pictures down and all that stuff. Like, no, I'm sorry. It's just like nowadays when people be posting about their boyfriends or whatever. Oh, we're so happy we're over here. Oh, we're or oh, we're we're doing this. Oh, look at that. Oh, forever. Me and my baby holding hands. Oh and then y'all break up and then you post, I'm going through a tough time right now. Please, please, respect, you know. Motherfucker, you brought that shit into our lives. You posted on social media, which made it our business. So now I want to know what happened, who cheated, who broke up with who? What happened? Gimme the gimme the T, sis. Gimme. I wanna know everything. So that's the reason why I don't want to post anything. And then, like, when I was after okay, 2016, 2017, when I was like dating somebody, I wouldn't even I can call his name, I don't even give a fuck, Christian. When I was dating Christian, I was blocking that motherfucker's face. Fuck that. Fuck that. I was we were hanging out, dating, not in a relationship, we were just dating. But every time I did post him, and I'm like, you know what? Let me make these motherfuckers. Is jealous. You know, I got somebody. You know, even though we were dating somebody else behind our backs or whatever. But you know, when I was posting Christian, I was covering his face. No one knew. Only like the people that we hung out with, they knew. But other than that, no, I was covering motherfuckers' faces because the embarrassment of knowing that shit is not gonna work out. It was not gonna work out. And I fucking knew it too. I just didn't want to like whatever. But that didn't work out. So I just stopped posting him. They can't say, Oh, what happened to that guy? I'm like, what guy? I'm like, oh, how does he look? And like, oh no, I'm like, oh, I don't know what he's talking about. I ain't post nobody. Sorry. Because what if I get into another relationship, not a relationship? What if I get start talking to somebody else and do the same shit? They don't know what the fuck it is. Then I can just be like, oh yeah, that's yeah, we were together for like years. Well, you know, no, like that's you know, that's embarrassing. But when I met Adrian, I did post him a few times, which I feel like he didn't like that because, like, like I said, he was like cheating. So maybe all the hoes that he had that I had on my timelines, maybe they would like they saw him and blah blah blah. Maybe, yeah, whatever. But I wouldn't, I don't want to do, you know, I I don't want to do that. But for any of the future people or anyone, any anyone right now in relationships and posting all that cute shit, like, oh my baby, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Just know when y'all break up or something happens, I want to know what happened and post that shit. I want to post, post the good and the bad. Okay, how you will have my full respect if you motherfuckers post the good and the bad. Okay, post like, oh, this, or we bought a house, we bought a car, blah blah blah. But post, oh, we got in a fight yesterday, oh this, you know, he got arrested for this, or like, oh, he, you know, like he cheated on me with you know, I I want to know all of it. Give me all the deeds, don't leave nothing, don't leave nothing. Uh you put that shit online, and now it is us to look at all that. So let's just do that, please. Anyone in a relationship, post the good and the bad. Post the good and the bad. But okay, back to me. If anything like that, I'll if I will like date somebody, I I will have somebody like that. But I don't know. I don't know. I do want to I do want to do some cute shit, but behind closed doors. Nah, I don't people don't need to see what we're doing. But yeah, but that's the it's not even a grinder story. It was just like this a story in general. Like, I like what I like, and what I'm getting, what I'm attracting, it's not the people that I want. You know, and people are gonna look at that and be like, oh, well, you should try it. No, stop me. No, I'm not gonna do that. I I'm not gonna waste time. I'm about to be 40 years old, 40, in a few months, January 22nd. I'm not wasting no fucking time just fucking getting anyone. No, no, no, no. Like this whole year has been an awakening, like, from everything, work, friends, family, you know, me finding, you know, myself, you know, doing things that I have not done, or you know, you think you know, but you have no idea. This is a diary of Archer. You remember the MTV show? They're probably gonna click bake the fuck out of this video. The Cornell 7. The Cornell 7.

SPEAKER_01 25:47

Look, listen. This happened 2024.

SPEAKER_00 25:55

I get it. They don't believe women when they when women confess to things or they go to somebody and be like, hey, this is what happened, they normally don't get looked at, and it's fucked up, it's really fucked up, you know. Like I have sisters, I have nieces, you know, I have girlfriends, like it's so fucked up. My mom, you know, I like grandmothers, aunts, you know, and all and all that. I it's fucked up and it's fucking scary to know that no one will believe you for women that will not believe women if anything happens. Like the whole me too. I thought, you know, we were you know good in society with that. People are waking up and supporting women's rights and all that. But I don't want to say that what grape. I don't condone that. That is sick, that is something that you need help with. I, you know, she, you know, they reopened the case, and I don't know a lot about it. I don't know a lot about this story, I don't know a lot about this case, but I do know about fake supporters. That's what I want to talk about. The fake people. I at least confessing to you that I have no idea. I just heard about this maybe like a day or two ago. I had no idea. I was looking it up, I you know, and I'm like, okay, cool, this is what happened. I know some shit. I don't know everything, but I know some shit. The allegations and this and that. But the thing is though, people, the same thing with anything that happens, it's not that they care, they don't care. There's people like some like some people that I have on social media, not all of you, but I some of them, some some of you know, some people, it's all fake supporters, like fake supporting you fake, fake love. You are posting stuff on your Instagrams or any of your stories saying this and your take on this. You're only doing that shit for liking views, it's very performative, and then you go on TikTok and you see the more performative people you know talking about this stuff, and it's just like, how do I know? Because that's it's so fucked up when some shit like this happens, it goes into you know, it's a headline, and people will you know use that just for oh click on my video, oh you know, like give me uh give me my views or you know, get subscriptions and and you know thing, you know, things like that, like you know, and to that nature. And you see that a lot with you know things that happen in the world with people just fake supporting. I myself, I feel like that is all fake when the people are you know posting stuff like that. Like I feel, you know, that that's meme. That's my opinion. I can be wrong, you know, they can be, but you know, if you go back to their timeline, I don't see anything about you supporting anything else. You're just doing this, not and but not even your timeline, it's just your stories. If you really care about something, you would have it on your main grid. It's not a story because a story is only for 24 hours. I need that shit on your grid. I need that shit on your fucking Twitter. I need to see that on your old Facebook. I don't need a retweet and I don't need a 24-hour thing on Snapchat or anywhere on your stories. Put that shit on your main grid. Because right there makes me like it's it you're you're a fake supporter. It's gonna fuck up with your whole Instagram vibe and your aesthetic that you're trying to go. You know, that's how people think. That's my take on it. I feel like people are fake supporting, just like they fake support everything else. Okay. Next topic. But actually, this is this is a fucking and I just heard that shit Ted. No, yesterday or yet today. I think I heard it today. Gypsy Rose.

SPEAKER_01 30:11

Bro!

SPEAKER_00 30:15

Gypsy again? No. I don't give a fuck. I don't even I don't even care if she didn't do it. Get her out. Take her back. No, how? Okay, so gypsy gypsy gypsy Rose's husband died. Apparently of an overdose. I mean it's it it happens. But gypsy gypsy girl again mom baby daddy Who's next? Girl, get help. Like honestly, and that's another headline that I don't know really what really happened, but I did see a few little things, a little tweet, and people making fun of the whole situation. That's why I fucking love the internet, not because of shit like that, but like people make it funny. All these funny memes, give me the Twitters, give me the TikToks, give me every fucking thing, make that shit comical. Which is not a funny thing, you know, because you know, someone's gone. But the internet doesn't have no chill, and they'll just rip you apart, don't give a fuck who the fuck you are, guys. So okay. I stated on the last podcast that November 8th is gonna be, you know, my my launch day for my video format, which I'm excited about, honestly. But I do want to say this like I don't like I have a lot of things happening in my life right now. You know, I trust me, once I get everything situated and get everything like good, I'm gonna talk about it. I I feel like me being authentic with everyone, I need you guys to know everything about me and what I'm what's going like what's going on in my life. So maybe on November 8th, it's gonna be around that time where I'm gonna talk about these things, things that's been happening this whole entire year. Like what's happening with my mental health, with my health and finances, work, family. Like I I feel like I need to unpack a lot, you know, just for me to feel good. Cause sometimes like I get headaches and I get that I've never had I never had anxiety like I've had it, like I have it now, to the point where Wednesday I really didn't want to get out, like get out of bed. I didn't get, you know, I went to work late. I started at seven. I went in like at nine o'clock, two hours late. It just I couldn't, I couldn't do it. Like waking up, it's not just not not because it's like waking up to go to work or whatever, but I was I was up, but physically I couldn't get up. You know what I mean? Like I couldn't get up, and I am scared that this might, you know, go more. I don't wanna I don't wanna get sick like again. I I don't, and that's what I'm fearing right now because like you know, I remember when I started getting sick and I started feeling you know my my hands cramping and and you know I knew something was wrong with me, and one of the first things were you know was me peeing every five seconds, and that's back. So I'm peeing every five seconds, and and then if you go to my room, like I have like two little drawers there that you can like ottomans, I got two ott that I put my clothes in there on top is like nothing but fucking water bottles or fucking Diet Cokes or anything like any liquids for me too, because I'm getting very thirsty again, and then I'm peeing a lot, and that's like that's how that shit started, and I'm kind of scared that shit was gonna, you know. I like I said, I like I lost some a lot of weight for not drinking, but because I can we talk about that. I found out how the fuck I gained all that weight because I was going out with motherfuckers who were drinking 24 fucking hours a fucking day, bro. The the friend group, which you know it's only like two of us now that we talk, and uh, you know, I going back and looking at videos, it's like you'll see me with the K-Man Jack, you'll see me with the Mike's Harder Lemonade, you'll see me with Lamaridia, uh, Lamaridia, a lam lamerita or fucking mangarita, you know, all these fucking sugary fucking drinks. And I do remember fucking buying a 12-pack of the Mike's Harder Lemonade, not sponsored, but I was drinking an entire pack a week, bro. Or even like in a day, I like I'll come home and I'll drink like three of them or four of them, and then I'll overeat and I'm like, you know, sugar and fucking shit. And that's how like one I got sick like that, and I gained a lot of weight for fucking overeating and over-drinking for no damn reason. So now when I drink, I know like, you know, I got my drinks, I got my Tito's, I got my every clear, and I, you know, I'll have a cereal sugar zoda, soda, a pop, you know, just have it with me, and I'll, you know, whatever, and I'll make a little drink. Or like right now, like I said, I have the white claw surge, which is like, yeah, it's one 60 calories, but it's like two grams of sugar. I can go back. I can I can't, I can go back to the whole drinking crazy stuff, you know. And yeah, like I know I'll be in my garage and sometimes, you know, I need a little pick-me-up, but I feel like I'm doing it right this time. I'm not fucking grabbing a sugar ass drink. Like, do I want a monocle so bad right now? Fuck yes. Fuck sugar, sugar up the ass. Do I want like a buzz? I mean, I had a buzz ball yesterday, two buzz balls, but bro, the biggie that I bought on the 4th of July, that shit's fucking gone. And I thought it was me sharing it with people. No, it was just me. I fucking drank that shit. That whole fucking fatter than the biggie. I drank the entire fucking boulder. Hello? Fat Damn. But yeah, life, man. Life, life, life is fucking lifey, bro. And I've never been in this situation. Sometimes I'm lost. Sometimes I like I have good days where I'm some good days where I'm like, you know what? I know what the fuck I am. You know, you know, God got me. I'm gonna be fine. And there's some days where I'm just like anxiety like a motherfucker, fucking headache, and don't want to do anything, because like what's the whole point? But my life is not over. No matter what's happening, I'm gonna keep on doing my thing. And please, if you ever catch me saying prevail, please slap me in the fuck. Cause I was look, I was just listening to the podcast like before, and all I will say an entire episode, like, I will prevail. You will prevail. What the fuck? What's the definition of prevail, Archer? Huh? What's the definition of prevail, Archer? Oh, we don't know. Got it. Okay. Alright, guys. It is 6 22 p.m., October the 2nd. I'm about to go check out my talking about eating food, right? I'm about to look at my freaking pizza rolls. And I'm gonna enjoy a movie. I don't know what I'm gonna watch. It's gonna be a big surprise for me too. So, but yeah, guys, it's October. Let's have fun. Anxiety, anxiety will kick your ass, but just continue on to get up every day, even though if you don't want to. If you show up, you'll be fine. Because you know, you only got one life. This is why I'm doing this podcast because I know if I would never start this, I would have like kicked myself in the head for it. And now I'm like 10 months in, you know. I feel like my audience is growing a little bit, and I feel like I'm doing more better than I was before. So, yeah. Let's um continue on living life, and no matter what happens, we will prevail. Shut the fuck up. Kick your ass with that shit. All right, guys. Thank you so much for listening to a short episode of this podcast problematic with Archer. Thank you so much for listening to me. Thank you so much. Remember, I'm on YouTube. This problematic pod, but this podcast is problematic with Archer. I'm on Spotify, I'm on Apple Podcast. Thank you guys for listening. Thank you so much for the support, and I will see you on the next one.

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