You Can Always Rebrand

Rebrands, everyone does it. From the SLOMW to Miley Cyrus, sometimes the only way through is an about face, and Alyse discusses just how to create parameters to soft launch your rebrand and achieve your goals. 

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Hi guys, welcome back to another episode of Go Get Hers. What a dumpster fire of a week, guys. It has been a week. It has. I feel like with Sav's episode cutting in between, I haven't gotten a touch on a lot of things, especially in the pop culture world, that have been going on. And yes, I'm talking about the secret lives of Mormon wives, everyone. I don't know if anyone watches it or if you do watch it. I feel like it's not even old data, but for me, it it kind of is because I hate that I even watched that show. I even hate that I even gave them two seconds of my time because they're literally a perfect example of what not to do, of who not to surround yourself with, and how one person can bring you down, and how one person's self-destructive behavior can impact a whole group, a whole person's businesses, messing up their cash flow just because they refuse to acknowledge that that person needs to be let go. I I truly don't even know where to start on this, actually, because it's such a shit show. So, okay, let's let's rewind to the fact that Taylor, no longer the bachelorette, was the bachelorette, no longer the bachelorette. She's never been the bachelorette in the first place, mind you. Got canceled. Michaela just moved to California, I think I just saw on TikTok. Um, Whitney, Miss Whitney girl, she's in LA. Jen, still miserable and jealous as ever. Um, Miranda, is there no other person in Utah for them to mess with and chase? If I was Miranda, I would lay out every single one of them. Point play, period, just off principle. I don't care if that's my ex-husband husband or not. I don't care if I don't even want him back. Why are you guys going around kissing my ex-husband? Jesse on Caller Daddy, getting a divorce, all the stuff she said about Jordan. Like, there's so much to him back. Layla, the um GLP one thing, the fact that her Mason broke up, like clearly the McHorder, McWarder boys, isn't that their last name? Clearly they're they're they're no good and null and void. I do know they have a sister, and I used to follow their sister actually. Last time I checked, she was pregnant. And then so she must have had her baby by now, but that's a whole different um thing. All I know is that her male name is Elise, I think. And that's the reason why I I always follow people with names Elise, or I like take a particular interest in it just because I feel like this is they're my kin. I don't know. That's so that's so funny or kind of childish too, but I do have like a a secret um fascination with other Elise's because I just think it's such a good name. Anyways, let's start with Taylor Frankie Paul, Miss Anti-Bacharette, Miss Anti-Accountability, Miss Anti-Think with your brain, like all the above. I actually though, like I have never liked Miss Girl ever. Um, even like in the first season or even on TikTok, like I never followed her. I was always kind of um interested though in the swinging thing. That really because at first they never really like talked about what the swinging was, remember? Like they never really said what what really what really happened. They were like, some boundaries were crossed and this and the other. And it's like, okay, just tell me what happened. Like, I don't need all these Easter eggs and stuff. Like, I kind of just want to know the drama if you're coming gonna come online and spread your business because nobody asked you to spread the business or your business. So I never was fond of her. And some of these shows I truly only watch because I want to be caught up on the drama, right? Because I see other people making think pieces about it. So I kind of want to know what's going on and have my own interpretation of the situations. Um, so I but I never really took a particular liking to any of them. I actually really used to like Whitney and was following Whitney way before she blew up. And then when she got roped into, you know, the Mormonism. Well, she was already Mormon. When she got roped into the the Mormon wives, um I was like, I'm glad she's getting the recognition that she deserves and that other people are following her. But and then, you know, that whole thing happened with like her her son, and she posted on TikTok when he had RSV. Like that was just so stupid and dumb of her. But um, but yeah, I that's the only one I really liked and paid attention to. So now that we're what, four seasons into the show, crazy situation. So Taylor Frankie Paul is no longer the Bachelorette, they're not airing her season because of a domestic violence altercation that happened in 2023 with her in Dakota. And the footage got released two days before the bachelorette was supposed to air, and then they pulled it. And I to a degree think it's super freaking performative because it's we already knew that happened. We they they highlighted that in season one. So, for one, I mean, we don't know who leaked the footage. I mean, obviously, it should be Dakota or it is Dakota because it's taken from his point of view. At the same time, that was never conc confirmed. But that footage is the reason why she never should have been the bachelorette in the first place. Like I was all I was always confused why they wanted her to be the bachelorette. And out of all the people, all the single woman in America, shit, I would have been the bachelorette. I would have been happy with it. I almost, if it wouldn't have been for the fact that I was real in a relationship at the time, I wanted to be on Love is Blind the Chicago season, to be honest. I actually, too, in college, wanted to apply to Are You the One because I love that show in college. And but then I wanted to become a doctor and I knew I'm like, I don't want this to come up when they Google me. Little did I know, I could have just been jumpstarting my podcast career 10 years early. So maybe I should have. But, anyways, I don't know why she was ever the bachelorette, anyways, because that was common knowledge that Home Girl was crazy. Like that was a key plot in like the first episode of Secret Lives and Mormon Wives. So I don't know why they then approached her to be the bachelorette. Knewing her Dakota were still, you know, messing around. And they're to a degree, it would have been nice to see her move on and find someone else. And but that's also why I hate that they have a child together so much. I hate that for her so much because they're never gonna get out this type this cycle. And the thing about Taylor that I've realized about her is that the reason why she's able to take hate so well is because she hates herself. Like I think she really, really, really dislikes herself and really is battling a lot of shame around the whole swinging scandal in general and blowing up her family. Like, I think if she could redo everything, I think she would go back to where her when her and Kate were married. Like, I think she really regrets that and wish that they could probably be together still. I obviously don't know for sure. I haven't talked to Taylor recently, but so, you know, I'm to be honest, I am so glad that they are never gonna be on my screen again, or I hope so. Like, I actually never want to see any of those girls ever again. I especially never want to see Taylor ever again, and that's just where I'm gonna rest my case on her because I could really go into it, but I'm not. Miranda, Miranda and Chase. Chase kissing, making out with all her friends. I am a territorial person, okay? If something belongs to me, as in or has belonged to me, or only people know things because of me, like I have a weird, and I think it's my Leoism, but I do have, especially with men, with my boyfriends, I'm not jealous, I'm territorial. That is the feedback I have gotten, and I recognize that. Like the difference between jealousy and being territorial is jealousy to me means that you see something that can be taken from you. And it has a level of insecurity to it, which I've never been insecure about anyone I've been dating, or insecure that they like my boyfriends. Have like a girl that's talking to them or a girl that's around them, that's never been an issue. I'm territorial in the fact that I'm like looking at the girl like, what are you even over here for? Like, get away from him. Like, I've I've peed around him. Like, this is this is my this is my property. I need you to get the fuck on. That's how I approach dating and the men that I'm dating. So, for one, how did I miss that? Layla slept with Chase and went on to date his brother. Are these the only people in Utah? I like I'm so confused. I thought Utah was a big state. And then Jesse just kissing Chase. Um Taylor has hooked up with Chase. I mean, mind you, they were swinging. So clearly, Home Girl really doesn't like him in the first place. That could never be me. Like, I would I can never be married or be with someone that I'm like not attracted to in that way that I would care if they were hooking up with someone else. So I'm just I'm really confused by that whole situation. But if I was Miranda, like I said, I would lay all of them out just based on principle. Like, why are you guys hooking up and and and lingering around my my ex-husband, you freaking weirdos? Whitney, Miss Girl, Whitney and Jen, Jen and Whitney, Whitney is a star. I can see why she doesn't want to be around them because from the beginning, I think she's always trying to be like, why do you guys never hold Taylor accountable for literally anything? Like, I think she can see through the fakeness, and all of them are just so brainwashed in this small girlhood group that have peaked at the age of 19. And by peaked at the age of 19, I mean peaked emotionally at the age of 19. So they can't really comprehend a lot of things and adult things that are going on. But I'm just glad that she's kind of distanced herself from them and got away from them because I my goodness. I can't even, I'm like I said, I'm trying. My brain is, I feel like my brain's on fire, but also like stuck at the same time because I just have so many inward feelings about them, but also at the same time, like I actually really don't even watch reality TV that much. Like, I this is the only show I've been watching. And this is also part of the why like traitors kind of irritated me. Like, I love the show Traitors, but the fact that it was like part reality show really irritated me because I I just can't watch people be like brainwashed and crazy. And that's also too why more really, really irritated me and upset me at the end. But I will say Jen is obviously jealous of Whitney and jealous of her in the way that she has a supportive husband. Like in her mind, she thinks that she has it all. Like she has a supportive husband, which I think in that group, having a supportive husband while you're also really like skyrocketing to fame and skyrocketing to in your career is a whole nother level that I think again they can't comprehend because their emotional IQ is the same as a 19-year-old girl. So Whitney being a much better dancer than her, having a much more supportive husband than her, um, I'm sure is hard for her to grapple with. And honestly, if Jen got rid of that husband of hers, I think she'd be much happier, much better off, to be honest. Um, but that's just my personal opinion because you can't have an op as a husband. That just can't work. Like, he can't be your biggest op and have an issue with you dancing with your partner at Disney World because you're promoting a dancing show. Like, he he can't be saying shit to you like that. And he can't be like, Well, I didn't go to medical school. And I'm like, why not? You should you should have gone. You guys clearly supposedly had the money. You were on the track to go. You decided not to. So what happened? Now I'm the problem. Like, and then you know what's always interesting to me? And maybe it's because I'm not married. When guys on the show, Zach repeatedly kept saying, You show up as a mother, but you're not showing up as a wife, or kept saying that she's not being a wife, or she's failing at being a wife, or is not as attentive to being a wife. And I'm just really curious. What's what is the role of a wife? What what is what specifically is she not doing enough? Laying down? Like what, you know what I mean? Like it's not like he was he wasn't demeaning her being a mother. He wasn't demeaning her, I mean anything else but a wife. And I'm just wondering what's what duty of the wife he's looking for for her to fulfill that she's unable to do because she has job responsibilities and was on a demanding show where she would be practicing on the time. I would really like to know. I I'd I'd I'd I if I could call Zach, I would call him honestly and ask him what specifically he was looking for her to do or what she didn't have enough time for, like to coddle his little fucking feelings. Like I I don't I'm not understanding what what the problem was. But I'm just gonna say I've I have two messages from from the secret lives of Mormon Wives sphere that I think goes into kind of the topic that I want to talk about on the podcast today, which is rebranding. Um, and that is one to all the little Mormon wives on there, get away from Taylor. Be done with Taylor, throw her a couple of thousand, be like, get away from us. Thank you for your service, thank you for putting us on the map. Because you can acknowledge that she put them on the map and she is the one that, you know, made them have a show come to fruition. They can acknowledge that while also being like, you are terrible for mom talk. We are not gonna survive this. This is the one chance where they're not gonna survive this, and we need to get away from you because you have no accountability. You can't be cussing me out every second because your baby daddy is has a plethora of issues that is that he's now roping women and manipulating women. Like you're getting you're manipulated, you get manipulated all the time, then you're mad at the at another girl for getting manipulated instead of like being like no Dakota's the problem, right? Like, I I don't I don't understand again. This is the peak 19-year-oldness that I'm talking about. Grown women don't blame them, don't blame the woman anymore when it comes to cheating and the man. That woman has no loyalty to you. Well, maybe that one girl did or whatever, had a little bit of loyalty to her, but at the same time, though, she knows how coy and semi-charismatic Dakota could be. I never saw him as charismatic. He's definitely not my type, but to some he could be. But for her to go around and call women whores and say this, that, and the other, and uh, and all these other things, when clearly her the issues between her and Coda and them trying to get their lick back on one another is is very odd and strange to me, and I really don't like that. Um, so that's my first message. Get away from her, get away from her, get away from her, get away from her. Kick Taylor to the curb, let her self-destruct on her own and stop having her rope you guys into it. And then two for like cussing you out, making you feel bad for everything that you do, walking on eggshells, her showing up late to stuff like that. All that is just so disrespectful just because she's the one that got them on the show. But she's not the one that's keeping people from watching. Everyone's actually really tired of her. So get away from her is my first message. My second message is that if you're a young woman and you're watching that show, it should be example A, patient zero of what not to do when you grow up, who not to marry, who not to surround yourself with. Because the thing about them, again, peaking at the age of 19, is that now that all of them have their own separate careers and are doing things that are successful, they're playing this crabs in a barrel game a little bit, it seems like to me. That, and Winnie just jumped out the barrel and and and went on. And I'm really proud of her for doing that. When Jesse could only go to Unwell or support um, what's her name? Michaela Macy's book. Which one was more important? Honestly, the Unwell thing was a little bit more important. It's a little more um once in a lifetime. Like, yeah, Macy, I'm congrats on your book. I appreciate you having me host, and I'm sorry that I'm not able to make it, but now a bigger um opportunity has come up, and now I need to do that. And maybe I'm biased because I love Alex Cooper, but to me, that does supersede your book signing. And that and that is a thing when you have two women that are or multiple people in a group who are trying to elevate their own brands at the same time while also like being the brand. Like, this is a thing, they'll always be known as mom talk. So I don't know why they have they keep saying, like, we have to support each other, and that's what mom talk is about. Like, yes, you can support each other, but you're not gonna always be able to show up and be public in that support. You know what I mean? Like you can be public online with it, but sometimes your presence actually can't can't be, and they should be okay with that. But they seem to have an issue with that, that you know, they're they're silently in competition with each other a little bit. So, like again, like, okay, like Macy, this is a great thing for you. I'm so great happy for you. And yeah, I wish I could, um, I wish I could announce you, but now I have something else for my own brand to also get up there and and develop my own brand. Sans yours. So yeah, I can post on social media and I can say, like, I'm so happy for you. Everyone go, I can promote it up until the day. But for me and my own brand, I have to sometimes make that decision between supporting, now that we're bigger, supporting me and my brand and showing up for myself instead of kind of making myself smaller in order to accommodate you. You know, you get what I'm saying? Like, it's not like it was a mom talk, like big group event. Like, if that let's say mom talk was having, it was the difference between her having going to um Unwell Vegas, right, to promote her own separate brand, or her having like a panel with mom talk. Like, obviously, the panel with mom talk would be more important because that is the driving force in the marketing that they're trying to do. But Macy was marketing her book, it was for her brand. And she, and everyone's happy for her. Like, everyone's happy that she's telling her story. She has an incredible story, I think, and something that people really need to hear. And I personally like am really touched by her story, and that's why I probably like her the second best out of all of them, maybe. Um, but for her to make Jesse feel bad about it, and then Jesse canceling, like, I don't know personally if I would have. Um, because I do think again, there comes to that time where you have to kind of uh make the decision between like, if you can do both in a way that doesn't require your presence while also helping your own brand and knowing that your own um job and work and and likeness is important, um, then that's something that sometimes you have to do in friend groups when multiple women are in the same field or the same niche or genre or whatever you want to call it, that that they have to sometimes make those decisions and you can't hold that against that person or be upset that that is what they choose to do, that their personal brand will sometimes come before helping you promote yours if there is a conflict. Because to a degree, I see them say that all these things are amazing and they're so happy for their friends, but I don't see them really like feeling it. You know what I mean? Like I don't see them, like I can see them being like, oh my God, I'm so happy for you, I'll I'll come and support. But it's almost like this this like I see like this twitch in their eye. Like, oh, like, yeah, I I'm so happy for them, but like when is it happening for me? And and and it's like it's it's not fully setting in. Like they know that they can't be outwardly haters because it's gonna be too obvious and people are gonna catch on. If they don't like an Instagram story, then blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But it's like, why wouldn't you like an Instagram story? Like, if you have to bring that up and say, like, oh, I'm scared to not like an Instagram story because then everyone's gonna be like blah, blah, blah, blah, it's like, okay, why wouldn't you like it in the first place? Like, are you wishing you didn't you you could not because you actually feel like you don't want to? You know what I mean? So my second point about this is that acknowledging when you're in a friend group of women who are just tolerating each other instead of actually hardcore supporting each other and acknowledging that they're all separate entities that have user likeness to become one and that eventually those entities are gonna separate is important. And when you acknowledge it, you need to also acknowledge that that could be a detriment to your own brand and your own success because there's nothing worse than a having an op husband and two and b having a op friend who is restricting you from being successful in the way that you want to. That requires you to continuously show up for them when you also have your own um wants, desires, and and goals that you're also trying to hit and making you feel bad for pursuing those goals if there seems to be a conflict, if there's a way to do both. Like I know it's it's a it's a tough position to be in, disappointing one of your friends, because that is a strong um value that I hold for me, is that I don't like to be disappointed and I don't like to disappoint my friends. If I say I'm gonna do something, I'm I do it and I show up regardless, as I said on um the episode last week, or maybe I didn't, maybe I cut it out. But me and Sav discussed about how we had a collab with um, or she had a collab, she invited me. I end up getting food poisoning that day. I still showed up because I'm like, why would I not go? Like at the end of the day, unless I'm literally can't get out of bed or I am incapacitated, like I'm going to show up for my friends always if that is what I said I'm I'm going to do. And I would hope that they would do the same for me. And I do think I try really hard to set that boundary and cut out people who I feel like show up short, to be honest, because that's not who I pride myself around being around and hanging with and and calling my friend, to be honest. But sometimes you are gonna have to make that call and you are gonna have to decide in weigh what is more important and what is more beneficial to to you and beneficial maybe not maybe isn't the word but is more I mean I think I think important is the word which one is more important for for you to pursue and the whole reason I spent so much time talking about Secret Lives and Mormon Lives is because it's time for a rebrand and it's never too late for a rebrand and sometimes a rebrand is the only way to move forward. The people online who are masters of rebrand are the ones that post like lifestyle content or like scandalous content and then all of a sudden they pop out as Christians and they have a Bible verse in their bio and then they're like reading Bible verses online. Like those are the girls who are masters at rebrands and sometimes it doesn't even need to be a 180 rebrand. It can be like you know how some creators like Keith Lee if anyone knows Keith Lee Keith Lee used to make food for his wife when she was in her postpartum days or something. And so he would make cooking videos. Then all of a sudden he pivoted to reviewing restaurants and food and that's how he blew up. That's what led him to his success. Tony Bravo, you know she typically has been posting about makeup recently she's the tin fish girl she's the the she's the um sardines girl now she's promoting sardines and I love that for her and it's not like a full rebrand but it's maybe just like expansion of her niche. And yes if you're not on TikTok currently sardines are trending on TikTok and everyone's eating sardines. Not me. I I just got on the bandwagon for canned or tinned calamari and olive oil from Trader Joe's that slaps. I make like a little faux ceviche situation with it and it's really really good. I can't de do the um sardines I hear they have bones in them. Someone tell me but I can't do that. But yeah sometimes a rebrand is necessary or an expansion of your niche is necessary and for the secret lives of Mormon wives girls like obviously that's needed. They need a rebrand sans taylor taylor should actually really think about rebranding but this can also apply to your own personal life. Doesn't even have to be content or online related you can decide yeah I want to make a 180 and do something else. Yeah I would like to rebrand yeah you know what I do want to leave my loser boyfriend and actually I do want to be a single girl boss and um girl boss close to the sun. Yeah maybe I do want to buy a podcast microphone and start a podcast and talk shit on it every single week. Like you can rebrand and and make a split decision to change your whole life at any moment and at any time. I was actually just talking to one of my friends last night on the phone about time and you know me. You guys know me. I have been harping and harping and harping and harping on time. That is the one thing that you if you learn anything from me or know anything about me or get anything out of this podcast from me it's that time is one thing we can't get back and time is the one thing that is the scariest thing. It's the greatest currency you'll ever have. So what you do with your time what you do with each minute of every day whether it's you want to relax and you're like I've never had this time to relax before I want to relax. I'm not saying you have to like always be productive or always be doing something but using your time how you want to use it and using your time in order to either further your career further your mental further your relationship like whatever it is using your time how you want to use it is the only power you really have and the really control that you have over said time. And I already said the thing about the Sims. I'm not going to repeat it because people are going to think I need to get checked in somewhere but I was telling my friends that either you can that either time can get you or you can get time and I would prefer to get time you know I would prefer to utilize time my time wisely and making sure I'm making steps to achieve my goals and whether my goal is a Porsche well we all know that a Porsche or a house or kids one day or a family like whatever that is I need to be actively working towards it and setting the groundwork for working towards it. And I was talking to him about he's wants to apply to law school and has been thinking about applying to law school and kind of has been saying this for like the past couple years. And the one thing that I kind of reminded him I was like you have so much potential and you have so and I would love to see you maximize that. And you know there's never the right time to start something. There's never the right time to you'll never you'll never feel ready. You know sometimes people are always ready waiting to feel ready. And I think if you wait to feel ready then you'll never have anything because I don't I I don't know what a feeling of being ready ready is. Like there's no really right time to do anything. There's really no right time. I think the term feeling ready is kind of like a farce also because it it differs for everyone. If that feeling even exists I've don't know that it necessarily does. But um I was telling him I was like you need to set parameters for like the goals that you're trying to achieve right. So like if you want to go to law school and you're studying for the LSAT, first thing you should be doing is setting looking up the dates for when the LSAT is available to take this year and picking one and that's your parameter. That at least like you know when you're taking it and you have a guideline of when you need to stop studying or studying up to and you know things will come up and you have summer and you have plans and X, Y, and Z, but at least you have that guideline to know okay like if I take it this time this year, this is the information that I need to know to then apply next year and then go to school in the fall. Like those are things that need to be be set forth. And that essentially is your soft launch into your rebrand and into becoming a lawyer. You can always decide to do that but you can't sit around waiting to be ready to do it though. Like you you have to still take control over the situation. And he's actually the one that was like you should actually talk about this on the podcast and I was like I'm actually recording it tomorrow. So he thought that was very helpful. He was like I feel like sometimes I don't have um a good like I am waiting until the right time or feeling like I'm ready and you're right like it has been like four years that I've been talking about it and I've really done nothing to really make big moves in order to do that because I'm I'm kind of scared of like having such a big life change and deciding where to live and where I want to spend time and whatever. And I was like those things will just come you know like you just you just do honestly like there there are certain things in life that you just do because you have to and that's just like the natural next step. So like yeah you have to take the L set. Then you have to apply then when you get in then you have to find an apartment and then you'll make friends. Like you as much of a type A forward thinker as I am there are some things that I'm just like I have to figure it out when I'm in the moment and I have to just have um faith that like things will align and things will make sense when the time comes for me. And he's 33 and he's like I again like I'm kind of afraid of of re like essentially reinventing myself and like leaving everything that I know. Again like time time is moving and everyone is is in their different lanes utilizing their different lanes and using time differently. And it's never too late to want to change your career path or establish a new one or add something on top of something. I actually thought about getting another master's but then I realized that it wouldn't be very beneficial to me and if and I was able to actually maybe like go to it for free or semi free because of my job but then I'm like I would just be going for the knowledge and that would just be another thing to add to my plate and I don't know if I necessarily want to do that. I remember my therapist asking me about SMART goals and I never heard about SMART goals and I never knew what they were but SMART stands for specific, measurable actionable realistic and time bound. And SMART goals essentially the definition is their shorter term strategic goals and actions that support your organization's long-term vision of success and strategy. So kind of just like a high level outline essentially of broader things that you want to accomplish so S being for specific specific means what are you specifically setting out to achieve like me. Okay I'm gonna use the Porsche example me I'm looking to get a Porsche measurable how you measure the progress of your goal um by how much money I save and the attainment of said Porsche actionable how will you express movement in action uh maybe like every week I'm putting putting aside ten dollars or something twenty dollars fifty dollars however much money in order to have enough money for a down payment for the car if I want to lease it or to buy the car outright outright realistic is the goal you're seeking to achieve realistic um let's circle back on that let's circle back on that no it's achievable it is realistic is achievable do I want that to be my main goal right now maybe not but like it is realistic time bound will will your when will your goal be complete? Um the goal will be complete like I would have to calculate how long it would take me to come up with set amount of money or how much money it is that I'm trying to save and then bonus why and it says why is it important to achieve this goal it's because Elise has always wanted one. That's why it's important to achieve this goal. What's funny about the Porsche example and the fact that I keep harping on one to Porsche is that four years ago one of my exes asked me what my dream car was and I told him it was a Mazda CX5 and he was like you don't want to aim a little higher or something and at the time this is the car I wanted like my dream car is the car that I want in a Mazda CX5 I mean I still want because I like the shape I just also now want a Porsche I take both honestly if if those are if I can only afford and Maza CX5s if you get like an upgraded one they're expensive. Like they're not cheap cars. So like that were there was some shade behind that from him but I mean your girl likes what she likes. I hate to say it. But again smart goals can be whatever you want it to be I'm using a silly example but I think smart goals are a really great way to hone in on your goals and specify what you want and then create kind of like an action plan on what you want to achieve how you're going to achieve it and give yourself a timeline. Because again like I think parameters and structure gives you a little bit of an idea of the things that you need to be doing in the meantime, meantime and give you some structure on your way to your final destination which is said rebrand am I allowed to give homework out on this podcast? I feel like I can I feel like with the end of Q1 I'm gonna start handing out deliverables action items for the rest of the year which is finding a SMART goal or identifying your SMART goal what you want to accomplish this year and setting parameters and setting out a guideline or an outline of how you want to achieve it. It can literally be anything it could be I need to relax more. It can be I am training for a high rocks or high drox whatever that shit's called your marathon you know like frame it in a way that gives you some parameters in how it's achievable and how in the steps you're going to take in order to achieve whatever it is that you want to. Because go get hers ladies can literally do whatever they want. They can achieve whatever they want they can be whoever they want they'll always come back to them to themselves and achieving and being who they want to be. You know it's kind of giving you can always find your way back home by Hannah Montana you know the song I'm talking about and at the end of the Hannah Montana movie the one that Miley said Taylor Swift wrote which Taylor Swift has some bangers. I'm not her number one fan I I've actually grown to appreciate Taylor Swift's um lyricism like that's one thing you can't take away from her is that home girl can come up with some words to describe how you're feeling but do I really like her in general I'm kind of kind of really tired of her and like I need her to do something with her bangs and stuff and um but and did she take my man Travis have I been liking Travis Kelsey since I don't know 2019? Yes that's okay that's okay I actually like them together. But anyways but shout out to my girl Kayla. Anyways but yeah it is giving you always find your way back home. I was actually gonna play the song but then I didn't want to like get hit with a copyright later on or something because I don't have the funds for that. But who'd have thought that the year of 2026 would be Hannah's year the comeback of Hannah Montana after Molly said she was dead who'd have thought I needed that. You know I referenced her songs more than once in the period of what nine episodes that the climb is prevalent you'll always find your way back home is prevalent like we were 90s kids millennials I think Hannah Montana is a millennial show apparently it's um the Gen Zs think otherwise and I don't really think so but like I was still watching Hannah Montana when I was in high school and yeah it's been 20 20 years since the start of it um and even well into college if it was still on. So I think Hannah Montana is for the millennials and the Gen Zs can sit this one out but if I mean if you want. And honestly shout out to Miley for having her rebrand a couple times. Like when she rebranded into like her bangers era and everyone was like huh? What is she doing wearing this mouse outfit and having her tongue hanging out with these space buttons I would like to say that I was still standing by her side during that era. So I can't believe we're at nine episodes like I'm actually doing the damn thing right I'm pretty consistent at least you haven't been disappointed yet I hope not um but thank you guys again for listening my name is Elise I'm the host of Go Get Hers and you can follow us on Instagram at go get hers podcast and my name is in the bio so see you guys next week