You Don't Have A Sugar Mama Salary

Random topics from this week’s episode include: making Jordan’s Furniture our next outing, debriefing the Haley Beck case, Kara (possibly) threatening to kick someone out of the car and run them over, Flat Stanley making his podcast debut, realizing not everyone is in agreement when it comes to sharing a toothbrush and the realization that at the end of the day… we might just be deaf and blind. So yeah, that pretty much sums up what goes on in our brains.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Welcome to the Talk Talk Talk Over Podcast. Welcome back to the podcast. Welcome back. Oh hard. I know. I know. And the sun is out. I know. Back to the golden hour. I know.

SPEAKER_01 0:23

The sun is our light.

SPEAKER_00 0:24

This is like my life currently. Like it's actually giving me energy to make it through the day. Me too. Like before I was like, I don't know. I don't know how I'm going to survive this. So of like two hours till it sets two. That's like everything. Yeah. My dream date. No. You know what else is my dream date? Have y'all heard of Jordan's Furniture? Have I heard of Jordan's? I've heard of Jordan's. Have you been to like the superstore, Jordan's furniture? Is that the one that has like the Manchester, do they not? It's in Mass, I think. I think it's in Natick Mass. The Natick Mall, dude? They have the American Girl Doll store. They have everything here. I was thinking. Me not knowing how to handle a microphone. Um, I was like, how do you explain to someone who's not from New England what the fuck goes on at Jordan's furniture? Like, what do you mean there's a jelly bean factory? What do you mean by like what's the case? First of all, what is a jelly bean factory? They literally, like, it's a whole thing, the whole store. Like, so that's like my favorite part of it. I don't even like jelly beans. I know, but it's like the walls are jelly beans, the floor is jelly beans. I'm like, I'm in heaven. I'm obsessed. That's so bad. No, I've never been. Dude, I went there for like a field trip. I went there for my birthday one time.

SPEAKER_01 1:44

I did trapeze for my birthday.

SPEAKER_00 1:46

That was at Jordan's? Yes, dude. The trapeze was at Jordan's. Yes, I did trapeze. I looked at furniture and then I went and did trapeze. Why are you? You're looking at furniture for your birthday right now. Yeah, dude. No literature. Can we go this weekend? Yes, I'm trying to go. Actual trapeze? I don't think it's trapeze anymore. They like changed it out. It's like, you know, one of those things where you put the harness on. That's what I was gonna say. It's like that. Yeah. It's like a rope course. Yeah, like that. But they have like water jelly.

unknown 2:18

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 2:22

There's no trapeze at the furniture store. I don't want to call it. I'm not fucking going. It's just a monkey bar. But they have never heard of something so American in the world. Furniture store, jelly beans, water show, rope water. Water show. Yeah, I remember the water show. I think they have an IMAX theater, too. This is what Europeans think about when they say Americans. They don't picture us. They picture fat people swinging from trapezes at Jordan. And eating jelly beans. Like eating jelly beans. Like, how the fuck do you explain? That's the most American thing ever. Like, that's so like what? What do you what? That is capitalism at its core. They're like, come here, spend money. Yeah. And we'll give you a trapeze. I don't really get what made them put that in a furniture. I never understood it. Like, that's the most random collection of events. Free dipping. Why do you need to be getting me through the door? You don't need to swing me from the rafters. No, the shit is weird. But like everything's like decorated. Like all the walls are like murals, and like there's a whole like animatronic thing. Like, I feel like I'm being bragged. Oh, who's the this feels like a fever dream? What's the mascot? Who's like is it the green monster for um the Red Sox? Yeah. He's like, he's like an animatronic thing on the wall. Like, yeah, that's so annoying then. Imagine being like the marketing person that thought of this, and they're like I am going to apply to right to I know we have furniture. That's what we do. But what if we have jelly beans? What if we have and then a jelly bean room? And then put the market. Yeah. Yeah. Ever think of that? Yeah.

unknown 3:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 3:51

The Ringland does furniture on us. So that's just a regular day. No, furniture is like a side hustle for them. Yeah. It's not even about the furniture, it's about the jelly beans for real. Oh my god. But yeah, so um let's plan our date and go. Yeah, I'm so down. Wait, because we could be finding guys there who are shopping for their houses and they need a wife. Do you think that's where the men are? They're at Jordan's. Yeah, Jordan's. They're hanging out around. They're hanging out with Jordan. Honestly, I don't know where else they are. No. Apparently. After hearing that Alex Earl just went on a date and the guy didn't even plan anything, and they drove around the halibu for five hours and he didn't even take her anywhere. Literally Justice for Alex. Don't even say that to me. You're telling me that Alex Earl can't even get a good date. Wait, I didn't hear I saw her getting ready for the date. I didn't see what I was doing. No, and then she went into this whole thing. That's fucking good. Yeah, she posted like I'm going on a first date and she said I'll give you guys a recap. And then she went on today saying that like she told him she needed to be home at a certain time, but he booked reservations for like 7 30 p.m. But she needs to be home at 6. And so he picks her up and he's like, Oh, we're gonna go and so hard. Yes, and they drive in there too. If I say I need to be home and so yeah, do I not even matter? Yeah, that's your nightmare. There's literally no reason to take me out then if you're not gonna respect me from the get-go. So he drives her all around and he has nothing planned. She's like, Where are we going? And she's like, at this point I think I'm being kidnapped because he just keeps driving like past Malibu. Yeah, and then she's like, the only thing we did was that we went to Starbucks because he was hungry and he picked me up, but like, Starbucks was your choice? Starbucks. And then he took her to like the beach after driving around for a couple of hours. They walked for 15 minutes, got back in the car, and then they went to the place that the reservation was at, but then obviously the reservation was like three hours later, and they couldn't go because he planned it. It looks like for Alex or oh, imagine what it looks like for the rest of us. That's what I'm saying. We're getting in scraps. Yeah. Scraps. And so then they couldn't get into scraps of that. Yeah. Scraps of scraps. The scraps of the scraps. They couldn't get into that place because the reservation was later, and so he took her to like some random sushi place and then brought her home. Bruh, they probably got home so late. She's like, I wish she was like, I gave him a side hug and I left. I was like, no, side hug is a serious form of disrespect. Bye. Bye. Peace. Yeah. I would have Irish by him. I would have gone to the bathroom and left. That's what I'm saying. Speaking of fucking of naughties. Yeah. Let's get into our hotties and naughtys. Oh god, I just so my hair. You just inhaled that. This is your hottie. Okay. Oh yeah. I was like, wait, what movie is this from? Um, okay. Do you guys know? This is an older movie. The uh you're not gonna know it because you don't watch movies. Um the movie Hook. Nope. Like Captain Hook? It is it's a Peter Pan. It's based on Peter Pan. Well, it's about Captain Hook. Is it not? It's called Hook. This is your hottie. Yeah. No, he's not. Like Captain Hook's not my hottie. Okay, who is it? Uh well now I gotta pull up a damn picture because you guys don't know what I'm talking about. You're unculture. Okay, we don't know Hook. Yes, yes, okay. This is a great movie. Robin Williams plays Peter Pan. I love him. What? Okay, so the this is Grown Up Peter Pan. Yeah. So the basically the movie is that Peter Pan is all grown up and he forgot about um Neverland. And he forgot about all of it. So then like he's like an adult and he's like into the work and he's like not spending a lot of time with his kids. So then like hit Captain Hook takes his kids and like he has to go to Neverland and like basically put your microphone up. Basically like learn how to be Peter Pan again. But there is so you know like no, I've never seen this. Yes, it's crazy. Wait, so who who the fuck is your hobby? Yeah, wait, okay. Robin Williams? Well, I always always Robin Williams because I love him. But so there is um basically in the cast, there is like there's all like the Lost Boys. Right. And the head of the Lost Boys is The head of the Lost Boys. Watch this recently? No, I grew up watching this movie. And so you've just been thinking about the Lost Boys? I don't know when this came up, but he did, and he looks really good. Why is it so hard to find this? There's this bad boy, his name was Rufio, and he was like the Rufio of the Lost Boys. Look at him. Ari, what the fuck is that? That's your man. Why the fuck do you not know this movie? Ari, I can't even. Okay, well, you're only looking at his damn crop top. Like, I don't know why. I'm looking at his face. And his mohawk. Guys, you don't. He was he was so bad and he was so strong. Guys, I'm not yucking anymore. No, move on. I'm not yucking your yellow. No, just vote. Just vote because it's not fucking Watch the damn movie and then have an opinion, maybe. I don't fucking know. We have so many movies to fucking watch. Okay, I have to watch all the shows, and you guys have to watch the old movies. Yeah. Guys, I wouldn't watch old movies for the longest time because I hated how we're like it's not clear enough. Yeah. I was like or nothing. No, Hm. Okay, yeah, I'm good. With a little static there. That's literally like you could ask my parents. Like I would not watch it. We have to enlighten you. They're such good movies. A lot of the Disney movies are before. Yeah. That's probably why I didn't watch Tarzan. You've never seen. Well, I w didn't we watch it? I made her watch it. Yeah, we watched it. We were in Boston, Adam and Hannah's. Oh, wait. I watched it with you in Maine. Oh. Wait, we also watched it then. I think I go and watch it. That was like we did watch it at one point. The songs in that movie. That's a hot internet. Dude, Phil Collins. Yes, Phil Collins and InSync is in that too. Really? I thought it was on the street. You know the Skitscat? That is my Skitscat Scooby-Doo. Yeah, they sing that. They sing that with Phil Collins. Yeah, I love that. Yeah, really. So good. Okay, continue. Move on from my fucking. I really can't even. No, nobody. Tarzan. Yeah, moving on from the Lost Boys. Yeah, clearly. My body is um Benson Boone. Oh! Mr. Moonbeam Ice Cream? No, not Moonbeam. You don't like the song? I don't like the Moon. Oh, I was like, Am I? Am I your bass later right now? Like, is this the same person? No, wait, but he's like really attractive, I think. He's so hot. I think you gotta catch him in the right light. Because sometimes I see him and I'm like, uh-uh. Okay. We've had this conversation because Sarah's like, I love him, and she'll send me a picture. I'm like, okay, yes. And then also I do see that. When a man has a mustache that is hanging over his lip. Oh, it doesn't do it for you? It's so tiny. No, because why is it? I said it's a fine line between the being so trimmed. Well, because then if it's short, it's giving like Freddie Mercury. That's what I'm talking about, yeah. I think it can be yes, I know Freddie. You know that guy, Fred? I just I don't like it. Just looks like bad hygiene to me. Oh, like it's not maintenance. It can't be too much. But I like I like have you seen him like he'll sing like Frank Sinatra's song? He's got a great voice. He has a really great voice. Really? Does like he can sing. Yeah. I feel like people hate on him thinking like he can't sing, but I'm like, he definitely doesn't have to be a good thing. I feel like people hate on everybody. And I just I know I think why can't we just be happy? Being happy for somebody else does not take away from my own happiness. Like that's something I don't understand. It's true. Some people do it. Because he's successful, it does not take away from my life, like in the slightest. Yeah. Like literally, not at all. Yeah, yeah. Nothing he does changes my life or that industry. Yeah. Like, even if I was. Even if yeah, it's true. It doesn't fucking matter. Sorry. Benson Boone. Yeah, I can I can see it. I like that guy. Yeah. Yeah. I like it. Yeah. Me too. Okay. So um my hottie this week as an unemployed girlie is checking everything off my checklist. Oh. I am such I have like a hundred notes going on at the same time. All but the same list. There's something about it. But I need to like rewrite it. Like I have it in my agenda. And then I have it like in a notebook sometimes. And then I'll also have it like on a sticky note. We love an OCD case. And I don't know what it is, but it's like Sarah's overwhelmed. Like I need to like have it written out so I can cross it up. Otherwise, like I didn't do it. Yeah. Well I'll do if like I wrote it down and like I've written other stuff like in my agenda, then it's like too much to look at. So then I have to condense it and then I'm gonna write it on a different page so then I can be like, this is what I have to do just today. Because my agenda's like every day, right? Yeah. That's crazy. So like now I need to have it on a step separate list. You guys don't get it. That's too much. No, I that's well, yeah, because you don't want to see the other things on the list that you already did. You want to see the list get smaller and smaller. Yeah. I get that, but I like to see everything like crossed off. Yeah. That's why I have multiple lists. So then I cross it out of my agenda and also out of my other list. I think you just need to doodle. I love it. Well, the other thing for me is that if I don't write something down, I'm gonna like obsess about it and I can't move on to something else. Like if I know that I have to edit something for the podcast, I'm not gonna be able to apply to jobs because I know that I have to do that. So I have to write it down so that it's like, okay, you're not gonna forget because you wrote it down. I do that with like if I'm in bed and I know I have to get up to brush my teeth. I literally can't relax until I go and do it. Yeah. I know. So I have to write it down so that I don't forget because then if I forget, I'm gonna be so pissed at myself. Yeah. I'm like not a list person I would like to be, but every time I've tried to make a list, I'm like, I don't really need to do that. Sarah is like just how to be her core. I see that. I'm like a I'm like a type A minus. Oh, like I think I have a little bit more flexibility than like an average type A. Yeah. But I'm not a type A. You're definitely type A. But you're very organized. Yeah, so I would say A minus. Yeah. Like you're very organized. I would expect words A, but then you have some leeway with it. Which like I feel like you're like a B plus because like you are still organized, like you get your stuff done. Like you can be type A if necessary, but like your words on paper. Like, I don't write and I don't have an agenda. I try to start off at such a high standard that it's unattainable to like keep up with it. So then I end up just being like, I actually am surviving without it. So don't try to be someone you're not. Yeah, I'm like, oh my god, I need to be a girl girl girl girl. I need to be an agenda girl. Okay, but then everyone, you're an agenda girl and everyone looks at you as a crazy OCD bitch. I'm a Google Calendar girl. Okay. I'm an iPhone calendar girl. You know, we all got our things. So we do. Yeah. Okay, who is your naughty? Yeah. Oh yeah, we're still talking about that. She's like, what is she gonna ask me? Yeah, I was like, uh I was like, it's my time on your summer. Um, my naughty is when people don't let things just go. I'm I'm so I don't want to re- I don't want I don't want to. I wonder what we're talking about. Like I do not know. Can we air out Ari's dirty laundry? Yes or no? Yeah, the clothesline is out, please. It's sunny out, the the clothes need to dry. And then they need to be folded and put away and donating them and locked up, goodwill, and donating. I just, I just I just feel like it's important. If I'm done with something, yeah, it means I'm done.

unknown 15:57

Right.

SPEAKER_00 15:59

I oh I I don't know if that means something else to someone else, but to me, it means I'm done. So I'm not really sure. It's the going around and around and I'm not sure why I have to continue. I have to continue to say, no, thank you. I I think I said I was done. And I'm going to continue to be. No, but like, let's keep talking about it. I'm full. Don't need dessert. Don't need seconds. I'm full. I'm gonna shit this out. We're done. I'm gonna shit this out. And then we've got a shit out the toilet. It's flush and out to see. Goodbye, Nemo. You just flush Nemo? Nemo gets flushed in the movie. Yeah, he does. Yeah, just like with my problems. Honestly, I wish they'd get flushed down. Yeah. To keep it um, like summarize it. Yeah. It's just when people like talk in circles and it's like you've already discussed the problem. Yeah, and then they're not willing to let it go. And then they keep on acting like it's a new problem. Because you want to know why? Because they didn't get the outcome that they wanted. Right. So it's like hard for like that's exactly it. No, we're not talking about anyone in particular. Just no in general. Fucking people in general. I just like it's just when you like it's so hard to like be assertive, but I feel like from like a woman's perspective, it's like, oh, you don't want to be mean, or you don't want to be like emotionally manipulating you to get you to do what they want you to do. Yeah, it's so fucking hard. It's like because it's my my like position, it's like I hate being mean, and I hate having to tell people like no, thank you. Sometimes they deserve it, and then I say it and I get up the courage, I say it, and then you make me say it four fucking times, and I hate that. There's nothing but you know what that's them making you feel uncomfortable. Exactly, exactly. So then it's like I don't feel bad. Right. So sorry, no thank you. No moss, no moss, no thank you. And honestly, that's my naughty too. Yeah, yeah. Same. I just can't fucking yeah. Okay, Sarah's naughty. My naughty is um when a woman is driving a man around. Yes! I don't know why. I just guess it really just pisses me off. And I'm not talking about like in like a yellow but an old man, like a you're talking about like a couple. I'm talking about when I see like a couple and it's like obviously a couple. Yeah, but what if she gets car sick? Yeah. What if she has to put her lip gloss on? No, but she wants to drive because she gets car sick. What? Like she gets car sick, that's why she's choosing to drive. Oh, that's fine. Guys, oh okay. Pressure over here. But I'm driving by and I'm still judging you because I don't know. Yeah, exactly. But it's probably his fault.

unknown 18:59

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 19:00

So probably I'm gonna assume I'm not gonna assume that she got car sick. Yeah. I'm gonna assume. Because we're just gonna assume the man's wrong. Yes. Of course. Like, yeah, absolutely. Well, of course. Yeah, I don't know why. Every time I see it, it's just like really pisses me off. Ever heard a passenger princess? That's her job. Get her. What is the man doing over there? Picking the music? No, because you know what pisses me off is when I'm driving and they're sitting on their phone. You're not engaged. Like, what am I doing this for? Like playing TikToks out loud. I'm gonna pull over and open the door and kick you out of my car. Yeah. And then I'm gonna drive for it and then I'm gonna reverse. Karen, you over. Karen's like, get out. He's like, you're still driving. Get out. Get out. Did I stutter? No. Get out. Yeah, I'm just I really hear it. Tuck and roll. It's like if I'm driving and you're in my car, you have to listen to my music and sing with me. Yes. And pay attention. Oh my god, yes. Wait, okay, so don't be on your phone. Listen to pivoting. But after hearing your guys' naughties, I have to go for a phone. You're pivoting?

unknown 20:09

Yeah, I'm pivoting.

SPEAKER_00 20:10

And it's when a man has nothing else to say in a conversation, and so they choose to number one, repeat themselves, or number two, kiss you. What the what game what? Because what allowed you to do that? Oh my god. And you're gonna keep trying to redirect the conversation. I actually can't sit still right now because I'm getting so aggravated. It's like I'm so hot right now. Like you're talking to somebody and then they just keep repeating like have you ever had someone be like, You're oh my god, there was like the what dating show was it? But the guy just kept being like, I think it was Love is Blind. And the soccer player guy, he kept being like, You're dangerous. And she's like, What? And he's like, You're just like dangerous. Ew. Why do you keep saying that? And then he's like, Stop looking at me like that. She's like, What are we talking about?

SPEAKER_01 21:01

What is going on?

SPEAKER_00 21:05

Literally three minutes of him repeating those two things. Like, that's not the fact that she's doing that's working for this long. I literally would have clocked this man. No, I can't.

SPEAKER_01 21:14

You know what's dangerous?

SPEAKER_00 21:16

My fist in your throat. Wait, or it's either like that that they when they don't know like what to say, but they'll or they'll say I love you over and over again. That is like I just got the chills because I'm having flashbacks. No, I'm having flashbacks. I honestly can't. But then like the conversation will end and it'll be like, I love you. No. Wait, no, but I love you so much. Or they just revert to how are you? Oh my god. Wait, the bar. That was literally the one of your first episodes. Yeah, that was fucking. Oh, am I? You're pissing me off. That's that feels like a hundred years ago. Yeah, wait, that really was. Literally was like two months ago. It feels like I don't even remember that yesterday. I just uh watching the clips from it. No, I know. Yeah, so I guess our naughties at the end of the day are men's behaviors. Men's course. Shocking. What? Shocking. No, but we do want a boyfriend and we are single and like just the right man wouldn't do that. Exactly. It wouldn't be naughty. They'd be super sweet and kind and listen to everything I say. And let me be the passenger princess. Yeah. Until I want to drive. And they're not gonna- If they have nothing to say, they're just gonna shut the fuck up. Yeah. And they're just gonna be quiet. They could be quiet. Oh. Wait, we're gonna silence for that. Like, yeah. We can be quiet. Yeah. See? Yes. Barely. But like we can. Okay. Should we get into our topic? I'm ampedrying ahead. Okay, so I have another story for you guys. Let's hope this is uh accurate news. This is your disclaimer now. I have tried to do a little research that was fairly accurate. Okay, let's go for it. Okay, so Noah back. Do you know her? No. Yes, I do. Yes. I do know that bad. Okay. Haley back. Have you heard of her? Sister Beck. Yes. Older or younger? Older. Okay. She's Brunan. There's a blonde. Wait. Already, already a break in the story. Hold on. Oh my god. No, don't look anything up. Do not. Okay, okay. Haley? I could be wrong. Make me think of someone else. Noah but I know the shit. She looks just like him, does she not? I don't think so. I don't think so. Guys. Who are we talking about? Okay. It doesn't matter. Keep going on. No, it doesn't matter. Noah Beck is an influencer. You know. Yeah. Okay, yeah. So Haley Beck has been found guilty, I think. Of course I think. No, I know this story happened. I don't know if she's actually. Wait, I feel like I know what you're gonna say. Keep going. Okay, so she's a high school teacher. She had an affair with one of her students. Sex.

SPEAKER_01 24:05

Sex They did the D?

SPEAKER_00 24:08

Guys, the text messages are crazy because she didn't. Did you screenshot them? I didn't screenshot them. You should find them. We should find them because wait, wait, what grade what what you're teaching? High school? Yeah, so she teaches high school. I think she um so I was reading he was a minor when when they started. He's 18 now. Or he was 18 when the investigation started. Literally doesn't matter. No, it doesn't matter because it's disgusting. But the tax special are crazy because he is like I've never seen he must have other sisters because there's one who's like an influencer. I think you're right. How fucking embarrassing. So embarrassing. She's slandering her family's name. That's what I'm saying. Like it embarrassed. Noah back all. Like that's like poor. Noah. I mean, he's a child. No idea. But he's under investigation for a potential charge related to pandering. What the fuck is pandering? Pandaing. Inducing other to engage in prostitution. Yeah. She was paying him too. Oh my god. So in the text messages, no fucking. He kept calling her a sugar mama. And then she would be like, I don't like I don't like being called a sugar mama anymore. And he would be called. Just call me mama. And then he was like, So what the fuck do you want to be called? Then a crybaby. He said that. Yeah, the text messagers, like, wait, so she was paying him to have a chance. Yeah, I think she was giving him money. I don't know if it's necessarily for sex, but I think it is considered it's for Chick-fil-A. Yeah. Yeah. No, literally, at one point he was at the text messages. He was like asking her for money for food. And she like sent it. Oh, it's giving sugar mama. It's such a sugar mama situation. Sugar mama. You don't have a sugar mama salary as I. Sugar mama? Yeah, where the fuck? Are you using Noah Beck's money? Wait. Ooh. We're sparing room. Can we get him on the pot? Oh my god. Noah. I'm sitting here like so. Oh my god. She said whack ass shit. She was saying that. Wait, do the voices. Let's call him Ryan. Ryan. Okay. Ryan said. I'm hungry. Fuck. My house is empty. Going to sleep. Because I drank and I'm being responsible. About to smoke a selfie. What does that even mean? Smoke a selfie? Is it like a mistake? And then he said, here we go. She said. She said, brother, what are you doing tomorrow? I'll suck your dick then. Brother? Yeah, what? I also heard he has a video of her sucking. Oh shit. Yeah. Yeah. And then she must have been hammered because he's like, you're gonna pass out. And then she said, I know, I'll eat this burrito.

unknown 27:09

I'm fucking dead.

SPEAKER_00 27:11

And then and then she said, she's like begging him. She's like, okay, well, add me to your plans. And he's like, if I get an opening. That's literally, that's why it's so embarrassing. Because she it seems like she's so thirsty for like she's so thirsty. Yeah, and then she's like, like he's like, I'm just here for the money. And then she's like, like, prioritize me if you want my dick, my mouth around your dick. He's like, uh, can I just have a hey you're hungry? Like, I need a snow. Oh my god, she's real hungry. My god. That's insane. Ew. How fucking embarrassing those texts being. I know. How embarrassing. I know. She's texting like she's 16. She's like, I hope you weren't dumb enough to show your guy friends or tell them like about the video that he took of her. Your guy friends. Yeah, what the how old is this girl? Is she like in her 20s, 30s? I think so. Oh girls. She's trying to act like she's like in college or in high school with him. Yes. They fucking are. She's literally like one of those high school teachers who thinks like she she's like mean to the girls, but she loves the football players. Like that's what he's getting. He said, She said, like, I'll stay up if you will come. Yeah, but turn your brain off for a few. And then he said, and just get my balls licked. And she said, sure, if that's what you want, balls licked, dick sucked, let's run it. Sure. What are we talking about? This is insane. Thank God they caught this. Because like you wonder who else she did this to. Well, okay, here's more lore. He had a girlfriend while that was a high school kid? Yeah, he had a girlfriend that was the same age as him. And he was also having an affair with another teacher from the school. Wait, yeah, it said there was another teacher, but you know that's a good idea. He's a high school. Well, I guess not anymore. Okay, he was a quarter. I haven't seen the photo. I don't know if they released it. Yeah, but like, what the fuck? Like, how are these popular kid because he's a quarterback? Oh, here we go. Oh my gosh. This is getting a big story. They're gonna make a movie out of this. I They should. There is a movie about something like this. Really? Yeah, there's a movie, and who's the actress? I don't even know. But she's like a teacher. Oh, wait. Yeah, and this the guy, he he he's this he's a famous actor, and he's like, and like they get caught and the kid like doesn't understand. He's like, Well, we love each other. And they're like, Yeah, well, you're a fucking husband. Oh my god, and like she had like a whole like she had a wife, uh no, she had a husband and a daughter. Like this happened. I don't think I've seen wait, I don't think I've seen the movie, but I've seen like clips of it. Yeah. Um, holy shit, yeah, I forgot about that movie. That's crazy. Yeah, we need to be able to do that. But that's like crazy that he was sleeping with other teachers too and had a girlfriend. What more do you want? Even women let us down. How sad is that? It's disgusting. Wait, at one point she also said something like um, like along the lines of like, oh, in the future, like I want to be like your main girl or something like that. Hey, so he's a child. I can't even fathom talking to a man my own age, let alone somebody in high school. No, it's a sort of thing. Like, are you out of your fucking mind? Yeah. Oh my god. I wouldn't even date someone like two years younger than me, I don't think. Literally, no. Well, it's hard to like. It's so weird. That's like a 20, like for us, it's 20 21. No. I don't think I could date a 21-year-old. I could literally I could not even date a 23 year old. I am 23. Yeah. As of next weekend, I'm not dating anybody under 24. Like, I will not do it. Yeah. I want to date someone someone older. Yeah. Same. But that's all she's been proven not to work. So I've gone on a date with a 29-year-old. She's gone on dates with a 27-year-old. Like, I don't know what to tell you guys, but even Alex Earl's not doing well. I know. It's so rough out here. So put the microphone. No, it'll, we're gonna find it's gonna work. Okay, but I did watch a call her daddy episode. It's a more recent one. And it's like it honestly inspired me that the next time we go out, like I think I will try to go up to people. She was saying, like, because like everyone tells you that, but when I hear a man telling me to do that, I'm like, fuck you. Yeah. I'm not doing that because you guys are pussies. But then Alex was like, even back when she was like dating, which was like seven years ago, she said, because before she was married, she was like, I was going up to everyone all the time. She was like, It's a fucking numbers game. Like, people are gonna turn you down, that's fine. And once you get turned down a few times, like you're not gonna be nervous about it. Yeah. And then you can just go up to people, and like it's just all about having conversations. And she was like, it has nothing to do with being like I'm really interested in this guy, and then it like gets you all nervous. She's like, the whole point, like, you should be going after these people, wanting to make them feel good. Like, I saw you across the room, I think you're really handsome. And it takes the pressure like I'm trying to make you feel good and make your day, even if you're not into it, even if it doesn't turn into it. Right, like I'm just trying to like make you feel good. And she was like, You can practice on like people in line at coffee, like other girls that you see, just to like break the ice and talk to strangers. Like, it doesn't have to be this like I really want to sleep with you. Yeah, like it's just like I feel like there is that pressure. Like when you're at a bar, because I feel like that's just like. I know it's like late night, right? Yeah, exactly. Like drinking, and she's like, if it turns into that and awesome, but like if it doesn't, she was like this one time she like went out and she ended up talking to this fucking like professional hockey player. Oh shit. And then she was with her girlfriends. She was always into the athletes. Okay, but where is she finding so many? Boston is 40 no, she was on Raya for a while, and that's where I think where she found a lot of. No, but she'll see them out. Like this guy, she saw him out. Like, I've never seen school in Boston. True. So she probably knows a lot of people. We gotta know where they hang out. Yeah, but she was like, yeah, and then I chatted with him for like a minute, and then he had a group of friends, so I was like, Do you want to join our group of friends? And then we're all just hanging out for the night, whether it ended, like it's just you're hanging out with new people, and that's really what it has to be about. I think so. I think we just it really is a numbers game, I do. Yeah, it definitely is. Like it's the same thing with like job interviews and shit. Like you put out a thousand, you're obviously not gonna Yeah, like you know, so it's like the same thing. I feel like we just need to get better at rejection. We have to be okay with it. It's always shocking because I'm like, why would anyone reject us? Why would no one want to do it? Literally, why would sometimes reject people? But sometimes you talk to people and you're like, wait, I want you to reject me, so I don't have to talk to you. Yeah, that's it. Like sometimes it actually, you're right, like it doesn't even have to do with them not being attractive. Like our personalities might just want it. Right. Honestly, yeah, personality is everything to me. Yeah, because the wrong person wanting you is almost worse. Yeah, yeah. You're like, I'm not interested. Yeah, and you don't know how to draw that line. Right. Yeah. I know. No, yeah. I just think we need to get better. No, yeah. Yeah, I just think we need to uh get better. I just get nervous. It is, yeah, yeah, it makes me grow up and I think we just need to rip the band-aid off and do it. I think that's what it is. I think we need to do like more go to more events. Like random shit. We do. Like we need to go on Facebook. I love going on Facebook and seeing what events are going on. We just need to be like out. Like a Thursday night. Like Sarah's mom texted and said that like all of these young guys are like at this brewery on a Thursday night. Like, maybe that's what we're missing. On a Thursday night, I have no plans tomorrow. People like trivia or some shit. That's exactly it. Like, they do trivia on like Tuesdays and Wednesday nights. So, like, we need to be more open to like doing stuff during the week, also. I think we need to become like local somewhere. Like, we need a like a local bar. We're not even we're literally not even locals to each other. I know. We all live so far from each other. We need to like move why am I sitting like a freak? Oh sorry. Are you? Yeah, I know what I've got my hands like in here. I'm like sitting here. It's like, yes, tell me. I'm like, yes, we need to be locals to each other. Yeah, we need an apartment and then we can be locals at a bar.

SPEAKER_01 35:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 35:27

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 35:28

And then I'll come visit. Let's go.

SPEAKER_00 35:29

And then Ari's gonna move in because she's gonna get over this. And she's gonna be like, I have to wait to have money. Oh yeah. Once our podcast goes big. Yes. Help us go fund me. We're gonna start again. GoFundMe. GoFund Us. It's a journey together. It's for you guys so that we can be allowed to be able to do that. So we can keep yapping. Yeah. Don't you want us to yap? Go fund us. The link is in the bio.

unknown 35:56

The link is in bio.

SPEAKER_00 35:58

Or just my Venmo. Yeah. Like, come on, guys, please. Yeah, we we all show up with like the nicest clothes. Yeah. If I get money, the last thing I'm buying is design of clothes. I don't have to give a fuck about that. I'll be traveling. That's what I'm saying. Is in a different country. Wait, yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay. New dream unlocked. Wait, yeah. Let's do uh. Okay, perfect. Again, go find us. Make our dreams come true. Do you guys remember Flat Stanley? Wait, I literally just helped a kid check out Flat Stanley at the library. Oh my god. Okay, did you have do you know what we're talking about? No. Is this your pastor? Do we have Flat Stanley? I don't even know what that is. We had to like did you have to take him home? You don't know Flat Stanley? He was crushed. What's Flat? I don't actually don't know what he's doing. Stanley! Mr. Stanley! Oh my god. Oh, what is that? What's Dan? What is it? Stanley? It was like a book. Okay, it's a book, which I don't know if I've ever I mean some of us have read it. Of course we've read it. Because how I remember having the purpose of Flat Stanley is he's a traveling little guy. Yeah, he likes to go on adventures. So like in elementary school, you like color your flat Stanleys and then you like send them to family members and they like post them. Like my grandma like lived in Florida, so like she would like take Flat Stanley all around and then she'd ship me back. It was like a project. Like you said, a picture where like flat stand traveling flat stand. I can't believe this. That's crazy. It was like that, yeah. No, I don't think I ever did that. I'm so sorry. I don't know why, but it's okay. That like well, she doesn't know if she's missed anything. Oh, okay. Okay. Please. Let me ask you another question then. Oh. What do you want for your birthday? Rip. Hold on. Let me get my notes up up. I don't want anything from you guys. You liar. I don't want anything from you guys. That's the worst question to ask anyone. What do you want? I know. I don't I just need love. Just just my best gifts. I want my YouTube to go viral. Can you do that? We're about to buy you a thousand bots. I need my butt. No, I don't want bots, please. Um, what do I want? What do you want? What do I want? What do you want? Do you want a pony? Do you want a baby? I always want new bathing suits. Oh, yes. Uh, write down your sizes. Um, a medium top, a small bottom. Oh. Not a lot. A diva cup. A diva cup. That would be an iconic gift. Wait, yeah. Like, don't have I I would really love if I got one of those. She's about to get 10 diva cubs on birthdays. Wait, this is so funny because in my my topics, I wrote birthdays are for girls. That's boys don't get birthdays. I know that's so true, though. Boys get another year right now. I feel like like good enough. Like, nice boys get birthdays, though. Nice boys. Like, I'll celebrate the guys that I think are cool, but like when I see like a man who like paid to go to the club and they're like holding up the like the bottle girls have this birthday. I'm like, you are a slut. You're a slut. Dude, not deserve a birthday gift. That's what I'm saying. Or if they go to like Vegas. You're a grown-ass man who can legally drink and you're going to pay for women to hang out with you and to give you alcohol because you're going to be able to do that. How embarrassed women to hang out with you? That's like embarrassment. Naturally. That's what I'm saying. Like just go up to anyone. If you have zero ribs, it's so good. You have to accept I wouldn't want you if that's like your body. That does not do anything for me. Like, oh, you bought bottle service. Oh, you bought you got the the bottle. I don't want to go because you know what though? Let me flip it around. A woman with a woman. If a woman does it, it's sometimes I believe in double standards. Yeah. Yeah. Only when it's uh women are on the top. Well, here's the thing is that we're not we're not sexualizing anyone as our birthday gift to ourselves. That's what we're doing. Wait, okay, but like, can we go to Magic Mike for my birthday? Yeah. On that note. In London. Yeah, in London. I looked for flights this year and they were like stupid expensive. Uh no. London is so going to Salem. We should go to London. Have you ever been? No, I've never been. We should go. London? I've been there. Ooh. Dude, I will. Do you like it? They will literally book a flight right this second. Don't even tempt me. No, guys, we gotta go to Portugal first. We need to book our flights to Portugal. Yeah, like right now. Like I'm actually going. Yeah, I want to go. Oh, I'm going. Yeah. Yeah.

unknown 40:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 40:52

I don't know. Okay, we need to figure that out. I know. We're talking about booking nothing. Does anybody have any other topics to talk about? No. Literally, we have nothing. We're like, what do you have to talk about? Let's move on to talking about. What do you have to talk about? Oh God. I forgot we were even recording a podcast, and then I was like, God, I have no plans tonight. Like, is it okay if I come over after work? I'm like, oh my God. Yeah, of course. Okay. Our question of the week is so good. I can't fucking wait. It was very controversial. So I'm arguing. Except it's literally not. It's not. Okay. Let's get into our let's talk. Let's talk it over. Let's get into our let's talk it over. So our question of the week was um um would you share a toothbrush with your partner? And I was thinking about this because I was brushing my teeth and I was like, you know what? If I I just like I can't do anything if my teeth aren't brushed. So if I really have to, like, I'm borrowing your toothbrush. You guys don't feel the same? Okay, okay. I was gonna say it's different, like if I'm borrowing someone's or if someone's borrowing mine, but it's really not because I don't think it's a lot of fun. But like mentally, it kind of does feel different. No, it does feel different. I would rather I borrow somebody else's than someone use mine. Bro, I wouldn't. You would rather? Yeah, because then my toothbrush is tainted. Ooh. Like if I use somebody else's, it's like just I literally just get a new toothbrush. They can use mine, but I'm getting a new one. I'm not using it. Well, that's what I mean exactly. Yeah. So if I use somebody else's, then it's like not my problem because I'm never gonna use it again. But I don't want to use theirs, though. Right. I don't think. This is the dilemma at the core, is that we are on opposite ends and I didn't know this about us. Yeah, I don't know Well, okay, my whole thing is that I taught them that cavities are contagious. So if you learn one thing from us, that is true. That is true. So don't share a toothbrush because Okay, first of all, if you're dating someone with cavities, dude, think think about that. Think again again. Okay, but literally, like their tongue is in your mouth. What's the difference? I know, like people like say, like, oh, like your mouth has literally been everywhere. It has. It's different when it comes to toothbrush in my mindset. It's different to me too, because it's- I don't know why. It's like your attention. You're not getting anything out of it except maybe. There's no pleasure there. Yeah. There's just it's not pleasure, you freaks. It's me to clean your teeth. Okay, read the answer. Okay, like, no. Okay, so. Whoa. So my God. 38% said sure, they would share one. And 62% said no gross. They wouldn't. If we're gonna be honest, I think people are lying. If we're gonna be honest, I don't think. I think people are lying. I think we have a small podcast and people are scared that we're gonna out them. I think they're liars. Yeah. I'm about to out you guys because no, I'm kidding. But we did have um our DMs were like mixed. Okay. One person messaged and said, This actually makes me want to throw up. I said, Oh. Oh, you mean that? I said, What's the difference? Their tongue is already in your mouth. And they said, God care, stand up. Right. No, no, I'm not sure. Right, right, right, right, right. Um somebody else said I stand with them. If absolutely needed, yes. In my mind, what's the difference from making out slash having sex and exchanging saliva or whatnot and then sharing a toothbrush? And then they put in all capitals and bold with with an asterisk, and they said, if needed. Like, it's just not something they do on the regular. Yeah, on the regular, like you guys. I really just don't think I would. Like, if imagine you're in a relationship and you have one toothbrush. People do that. People literally do that. If you do that, please unfollow me. I don't really I don't really get the point. That's like, there's no boundaries. That's disgusting. I'm so sorry. That's weird. But like, what's bro? What's the point of it though? You can't afford to pay 99 cents for the biggest thing. They need to be that close that they share. I don't. I think maybe just freaks. Probably people they don't care about their teeth. So true. They're just like, yeah, whatever. This one said if I forgot mine and absolutely needed one or vice versa, but not on a regular basis. Somebody else said, hell no, with like a bunch of L's. But like a toothbrush is like accessible. It is. It is. Literally go to the dentist, they'll give you one for free. Yep. After your $400 appointment. Yeah, like it's the least I could do. Thank you. This one says if someone came up to me in a store and asked me to buy them a toothbrush, I would. I would too. So like go up to the biggest. 99 cents for literally. They literally are 99 cents. Yeah, literally. For three. This person says it ain't matter, you're sharing everything else. And I stand by that. I was listening to my um this podcast that I listened to, The Girls' Bathroom, and it was so funny because we posted this and then they were talking about it on one of their episodes. No way. And she was like, Yeah, like they call like guys on their podcast Brian's. And she was like, Yeah, my Brian leaves his toothbrush in the shower, and like I just use it all the time. She's like, if it's in there, I'm using it. I don't care. Oh, I'm not sure. And I was like, sorry, obsessed with her. I don't because I would do that. I forgot you weren't on my side. I would absolutely do that. Oh my god. Um Because I'm not dating somebody who's gross as fuck. I'm sorry. Well, yeah, okay. That's but yet again, you don't know what people do with their toothbrushes. So it's a risky game like this. It's a risky game you're playing, but I'm I'm willing to gamble. Like my toothbrush is two feet away, like wire. But what if it's also it's in the shower? There could be pubes all over that. Where are they? What are they brushing? Yeah, wait, what are we using that for? Debris.

unknown 46:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 46:47

At the end of the day, men are gross, so like I do get it. Yeah. Wait, do you guys brush your teeth in the shower? No. Um, if I'm in a rush, I will. Oh. Oh. I was thinking about it. I was like, maybe I could be a person. I feel like it doesn't get as clean for me for whatever reason because I just feel like there's so much water that it just like dilutes the toothpaste that I feel like it doesn't do as good a job. Yeah. Maybe that's just a me problem because I put it under the water too many times. Well, I feel like also I don't shower every night. So like, like sometimes I shower in the morning. So like I gotta grab out from the shower. Yeah, I'm not doing that. Mine's also electric, so like I'm not doing that. If I'm gonna do a toothbrush and a shower, I feel like I'm buying a separate one. Right. You know? No, me too. I feel like I'm blowing away. That's like I have a travel razor and a regular razor. Like I'll have a shower toothbrush and a sink toothbrush. Yeah, exactly. Literally. Yeah. Convenience. Yeah, no, I get that. I've just got I don't know. What did the TikTok say? Were they on my side or what? Um it was a bunch of memes being like No. A few people did say yes. No, no, not regularly, but it's weird if you ha what?

unknown 47:53

What?

SPEAKER_00 47:54

Oh, saying like it's not weird if you have to. Right. Like it's not like That's how I feel. Have to. There's worse things you can share with somebody. Something about it I like Yeah, people are saying, like in certain situations, this one person said not purposefully, but my man used to use my toothbrush on accident and I just rolled my eyes and and used it myself. Kind of sounds like your man's stupid. Mmm, okay. And someone said disgusting. Um I agree with you wholeheartedly. So so yeah, the memes speak for itself. Yeah. And that's how it feels like. If we're gonna be honest, I'm shook because I feel like people in general are gross. I'm shook that everyone said yes. So are you serious? No, I feel like you're shook that people said yes. I really thought this was gonna be an easy no. No, I feel like that is true. Like people are gross. People are gross. And I feel like people think it's normal, and we're like, it is. I really like too. I probably shared a toothbrush twice in my life.

unknown 49:00

Ew.

SPEAKER_00 49:01

With who? With a man I'd been dating for six years. Like, I just like I don't give a fuck. But his toothbrush was like, Yeah, first sign. First sign. His toothbrush was like that. He was waving. He's completely spread out. He was saying, help me. Yeah, I don't think that's a clean man either. He was like, how aggressive are you brushing your teeth that it's like this? I also am the type to keep a toothbrush in my car. So like I'm always strapped with one usually. What? Yeah, I keep it in my console. Do you have like the reusable ones? Keep it strapped on. It's just a regular toothbrush in there. Oh.

unknown 49:34

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 49:34

I do like the little ones. The like the little reusable ones. They have the little dollop. Or like the little it's not like a dollop. Uh it's like a little. Are those reusable? Yeah, or they're not reusable. No, it's like a flosh. Non-floth. Yeah. Like a flough. No, it's like it's just like little, you brush your teeth, it has like the it's like gel toothpaste. And then you throw it away. It's like a floss picker. You kept calling it reusable. That is not reusable.

unknown 50:00

Oh.

SPEAKER_00 50:00

Was I? Non-reusable. No, I thought she said it wasn't. But then I said, guys, am I almost at a moment? We're losing our minds. Am I dab and blonde?

unknown 50:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 50:10

Okay. Well, I don't know. Well, Ari, where the hell can we find you? You can find me at oridomain.10. Find me at Sarah Bennett, 2S, 3Ts. Yes. And you can find me at Kara Kellher pretty much anywhere. And you can find us at the Talkover Podcast. Oh, just kidding. The Talk Over Pod. The Talkover Pod. Just Pod. Doesn't matter. Comment. Like, subscribe. All the things on every single channel. Holler at us. And we'll see you next week.

SPEAKER_01 50:33

Bye. Talk to you later.