Hickies, Love Theories, Tree Sperm & Canceling Diet Culture

Out-of-context statements from this episode include:

 “Gray hairs are contagious.”
 “Does North West have a BBL?”
 “I’ll take the pig over the man.”
 “Every man I talk to is in love with me.”

Umm… in context, it’s somehow worse. You’ll have to listen to find out how we got here! 

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Transcript

SPEAKER_02 0:00

Welcome to the talk talk talk number podcast. All right. Welcome back to the pod.

SPEAKER_01 0:10

Hi guys. Welcome back. I was gonna say no.

SPEAKER_02 0:15

Right.

unknown 0:16

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 0:17

All right, we're rolling. So guys, as we know. Yeah. As we know, I am 25 years old. Congratulations. So You look not a day over 18. Oh my god. Thank you so much for saying that because that um goes with what I'm about to tell you.

SPEAKER_01 0:34

Perfect.

SPEAKER_02 0:36

So um I am like a quarter of the way through life, one might say. So I'm at work the other day, and they have big lights in there in the bathroom. Okay, of course.

SPEAKER_01 0:49

So I'm looking at myself, and there's a worst place to be looking at yourself, first of all. No. A big light. No, I we already know I hate a big light.

SPEAKER_02 1:01

Um so but it's an establishment, so they have big lights in the bathroom. It's an establishment. So it's shining down on my head.

SPEAKER_01 1:08

And she thought she's going to be. Something catches the light. It's a gray hair. Are you a dead ass? I'm a dead ass. Yes. And I like it. When's the last time you got your hair color?

SPEAKER_02 1:23

Dude, I'd never know if I had grays. Okay, I know I have some.

SPEAKER_03 1:27

I think I have like four on the side and the other. Yeah. I know a lot of people who have them.

SPEAKER_02 1:33

Wait, I thought it was just me. No, you're totally fine. Adam and I didn't pluck it like it. Shout out Adam and Hannah. They both have grays. They do. Really? They both do. I see the people who don't color their hair, they tend to have them earlier because like bitches like me will never know. It's true. I guess we'll never know. Wait, no, but I was like, Wait, but it's kind of like a sign of wisdom. I kind of like it. Yeah. Is it? I love a graying man. So what's the difference with a graying woman? That's so true. I love it. I also thought, because I'm a redhead, my hair might turn white. So that was kind of like Okay, but like can you really tell on one strand? It could have been white for all we know.

SPEAKER_03 2:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 2:09

That's true. It's like getting. I know, I was trying to pluck it out, but then it was like it just kept getting caught. It was literally one strand. I'm about to find it later.

SPEAKER_03 2:16

I love when a woman just naturally goes gray. And it's long. My mom is. Really? Yeah, my mom does it. She has oh right because she has patched hair. And it just like she it almost looks like she has like tinsel in her hair. It looks very festive. Yeah. Yeah. Like she was like very anti, and then she was like, you know what? One day she was like, I'm gonna just let it go. And it looks awesome. I think it looks too good.

SPEAKER_02 2:40

When anyone does it, not she's gonna do it. I really like it. I love when men are gray. This woman that we used to work with, she had jet black hair, and like the front piece, she had two money pieces that were gray, and that's just how her hair grew away perfectly like that. She said, I was like, are you fucking? And she's like in her 30s too. Yeah, I think she looks so good. So cool. Yeah, I love a man with greys, I'm not gonna lie. Yeah. Honestly, me too. Name one man that's gonna be a little bit more. I don't know, it has to be done tastefully, but it's yeah, when you have good hair, it doesn't matter the color of it, really.

SPEAKER_03 3:11

Right. I'm just really a fan of aging gracefully. Me too. I feel like I'm very like I'm like with I love like the celebrities who like they've never gotten any work done. They just like aren't like they look their age. Yeah, and they look really good for their age. Right. You know, like I you can like when people like change themselves, like fully, I'm like, you're in your 60s. Will it be common?

SPEAKER_02 3:35

Because then I'm like, I don't even know what you actually look like anymore. Yeah, right. Exactly. And I don't think they're like, like, I'm just trying to like tell what you actually look like, right? But it's like that influence. That's how I feel about like I've actually never seen like a BBL in real life. No, I don't think. And like I'll see like a real like a real BBL, like fake tits and huge ass, like on like because we don't fucking live in California. We're not gonna see that in New Hampshire. There's no BBLs on the East Coast. Yeah. I don't think. And so like I was watching like a Coachella video and it was like somebody, it was like oh my god, what's her name? Olandria from Love Island. And she's like taking a picture with Northwest. Oh, yeah. And like it looks like they all just looked like characters. Because I'm like Northwest have a BBL? Like, what are we talking about? But like her boobs are just like so gigantic that like it makes her look like she's fake. I'm talking about Olandria. I'm like Northwest, not Northwest. Northwest wanted to take a picture of the club. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I'm like, the like we are not used to that. So like the thought of like seeing because like it they're just on our TVs and on our phones. Yeah, it's not really on the everyday pull in person. I'm like, it's actually extra uncanny. Yeah, that looks really weird. Because like an Instagram model looks normal on Instagram, but if you saw them walking in shops, you'd be like, you look insane. Yeah. BBLs are out, fake boobs are out. Yeah. I'm here to say it. I'm I'm with you on that. Gray hair is in. And I heard his Russian lines are in growing. I guess guys, I actually like it, made me so distraught that I had a dream about it. Oh.

SPEAKER_01 5:12

I and it I think it went along with the cavity thing because in my dream, like, someone was telling me that gray hairs are contagious, and they were like, SHUP! You have to pluck it out or your whole head's gonna turn gray. Oh wait, imagine I looked it up this morning. I'm like, are gray hairs?

SPEAKER_02 5:31

People would literally go bald. People would go bald out of fear of going gray.

SPEAKER_01 5:37

Like I would.

SPEAKER_02 5:38

I'm bald, yeah. No, I am gray. I would also rather be gray.

SPEAKER_01 5:44

Than bald? I can't wait to be gray.

SPEAKER_02 5:47

I know. Oh, I love that. Okay, well, being gray is a hottie. It should be getting your hotties and hotties. Let's go for it. Yeah, let's go. No, it's a hottie.

SPEAKER_03 6:00

Okay, Ari, tell us your hottie. Okay, I'm really excited. I did something that you guys will know. I did a concept because no one ever knows my hottes. Um pick normal people. I'm sorry. Okay, my hottie is romanticizing life. Everyday life. I love the videos of like people doing things that are like adding a little whimsical to your day. I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna add some sprinkles to my coffee. Like you should. You know? I love like my sister.

SPEAKER_02 6:30

I think that's what life's all about. Yeah, I agree.

SPEAKER_03 6:33

Like, I I love my new thing is like anytime I post a picture, I put music on with it because I'm like, this song is exactly how I'm feeling in this picture. I love that, right? You know, like I feel like I want my my life to feel like um like a soundtrack. Like that's the vibe I want. I love that. I want the same. Like, I feel like that's like how I want my life is a soundtrack.

SPEAKER_02 6:58

Okay, period. I like that. I like that.

SPEAKER_01 7:00

She just came to I was like a revelation. Why why are we chat? Like, I think we got the breath. My life is a soundtrack.

SPEAKER_02 7:10

Yeah. Noted. So Noted. I I need to. What's the theme? So was there something that like came to you that you were like, yes, romanticizing life?

SPEAKER_03 7:20

Oh, I just love the TikToks that are like just someone's like say like just talking, but there's like this like lovely music in the background, or it's just everyday life clips, and it's like the music really puts it together. I feel like music just really makes me feel like I love life.

SPEAKER_02 7:38

Yeah, wait, no, it's no, it's so true because I was just on my way here, I was like windows down. I was like, I need a perfect song. Like a song can really like for the first day of summer, pretty much. Yeah, yes.

SPEAKER_03 7:50

But I'm just very much like I have a playlist for like every emotion that I have. And I feel like I just like when my day is good, I have a good song that I'm listening to. Yeah. And I just feel like that like rom some for some reason, like when I I feel like I'm in a movie, when I have like I'm like scrolling through life and I'm like this. Exactly. Like, you know, I just feel like when there's a good song, I feel like good things are like.

SPEAKER_02 8:14

It's like when you're a little kid and you're like pretending you're in a music video in the back and you're looking at the back. Wait, like I still do that. Exactly. Me too. Yeah. That's what romanticizing your life is. Exactly. I've been doing that since day one. I saw this TikTok, and this girl was like wearing my Aramez head scarf because I'd rather use it because I spent money on it. And like, I guess there's like a trend where people are like framing their Aramez scarves. She's like, I want this thing to be dirty because I wear it at the time. Like, I don't know why people luxury items and not using them. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 8:46

That's crazy. Like, yes, I agree with that too.

SPEAKER_02 8:48

Like, I know. And I think that is a lot classier than like I think so too. Framing. It's like with anything though. Like, you like don't wait to use like your good plates. Don't wait to use like your good like you're living right now. Like, wear a dress to the grocery store. Yeah, like wear your good dress to dinner. Do it to your friends. I agree. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 9:05

Do what you want. I'm not sure what you're doing. Romanticize your life. The everyday life.

SPEAKER_02 9:08

We've already talked about the fact that I feel like I'm dying. That's why I'm living. I know something. I'm not manifesting that. I don't I don't want that. But I don't want that either. What? I think life is not materialistic. So, like, just use the shit you got. Yeah. Yeah. Romanticize it. Romanticize it. I love it too. That was a good one. Thank you. I agree with that. Okay, Sarah, what's yours? Let's hear it. Um, mine is my hottie is an excuse to go out. Yeah. We were talking about this. I love. Yeah. I just love any excuse to put makeup on and get dressed up and have a drink or two. Yeah. I love that. Like especially this weather, it feels like I need to be outside on a deck. Exactly. Eating salsa, having margarita. Yeah. My god, you just got a piece of gossip. Yes. To go along. Yes. So excited.

SPEAKER_03 10:02

That's what I need right now. So excited. Okay, let's go.

SPEAKER_02 10:04

Let's do it after this. We're going out after this. Yeah. Just like any, like, I just love looking forward to something. Yeah. I love it. Our holidays kind of go together. I know.

SPEAKER_03 10:13

I love it. I love it. We gotta we think I like it.

SPEAKER_02 10:17

And like that is something that it's like you don't have to wait for the weekend.

unknown 10:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 10:20

Romantic life, like I could go after work and just get a drink and enjoy a nice summer evening. Exactly. Spring, summer. All the day is a little bit more. It feels like summer. Taking photos like has to be a part of it. I am a photo whore. And then like after dinner, like sitting on your phones in silence and editing your photos and posting them. Yeah. That's what I want for my birthday. My ideal summer day. Like, that's what I asked for for Christmas every year.

unknown 10:43

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 10:44

I love that. Wait, I found a new way of how we should talk to guys. Like an inn to like Okay. We should ask them to like take pictures. Like we knew.

SPEAKER_02 10:54

That's what Hannah said to us in when we were in Italy and those guys asked if we wanted photos, and I was like, oh no, we're good. And Hannah's like, what is wrong with the many off to us? They need a task.

SPEAKER_03 11:04

Wait, you're right. They need a task. They do. So then we give them a task. And then if they they do a shitty job, we can be like, anyone else? Try again. Yeah, like we like you play into the bit of it. Wait, okay, love. So I feel like this is like a good thing. And like if the picture's bad, be like, can you take it another little shot? Is it a good idea? Yeah. You know, and then I like show them, be like, oh, while you're at it, put your number in there. Or like something like that.

SPEAKER_02 11:26

I'm trying that in New York.

unknown 11:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 11:27

We're doing that. Yes. Okay. Report back to the pod. Yeah, we're gonna try. We will report back to the pod. I will try this. Yes. I feel like you just left a group of 50 people. Like, can you not? No, you need to take it. Yeah, no, I'm cute. I chose Thanksgiving photographer over here. So if you don't want to do it, I'll go choose someone else. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 11:45

Exactly. Have you seen those TikToks where girls will like take a photo of a guy and then go and hand them their photos? Oh, yes.

SPEAKER_02 11:53

They get like the lock screen. The lock screen. They're like, they're so good. See, but it's only funny because it's a woman because if a man did that to me, I'd be like, I'm getting the bouncer. Yeah, just leave this now. You're a pervert. Like, you are so scary.

SPEAKER_01 12:10

Double standard.

SPEAKER_02 12:11

Yeah. Okay, but we're not, I'm not even getting into this right now. No, no, we can't. We can't do this. This will be the whole podcast. I already have other stuff to talk about in our topics about, anyways. Okay. My hottie is clean sheets because there's nothing better than me having my window open all day so there's fresh air in here. Yeah. And then I'm climbing into sheets that smell like fresh laundry. Nothing but I'm out in two seconds. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. If I'm in clean pajamas and my hair is clean and I'm shaved and I have lotion on. Yes. It's a dream scenario.

SPEAKER_01 12:46

With a good book. Yes. After taking photos and dinner.

SPEAKER_02 12:50

Yeah, exactly. You get into that. That's like when you're like at a home.

SPEAKER_03 12:54

I don't even need sex at that point. Like nothing is as good as that. And then you're like tan from the day on your white sheets.

SPEAKER_01 13:02

I don't get tan, but I can't relate to that one. You must get a little tan.

SPEAKER_02 13:08

Yeah. I get um freckles. Perfect. Which yeah. Yeah. My freckles get darker. Exactly. I love that. Okay, so what are your nodes then? Because these are really good hobbies.

SPEAKER_03 13:18

Okay, yes. So I'm the weather's got me thinking about a beach day. I love a beach day. It is one thing I hate. Sand? Oh, I like sand. I like sand. Um about the beach or like in general?

SPEAKER_02 13:31

Uh both.

SPEAKER_03 13:33

Okay. Um, I hate going to the beach and you go in the water, and seaweed is fucking touching my leg. I'm not swimming. I'm chopping my leg off. No, I'm literally not swimming. I'm screaming and I'm running out. I like can't deal with it.

SPEAKER_02 13:47

It's like when you dive in, it's like the little red ones. It's like now it's stuck in your hair, it's stuck in your bathing suit. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 13:52

I have to go home and change now. Okay, I don't like like the sensory of it all. Hate that. But I also like I fear the ocean. Like, I don't like the ocean, so something's touching my leg. It's a shark. Yeah. It's a shark. I don't even want a fish touching me, though.

SPEAKER_02 14:07

No, I don't. The slimy little Something's touching my leg. I would rather a fish touch me than a crab crawl over my feet. Oh. Same. Oh, I hate when that happens. Dude, I when I actually fear for my life. I had like serious fear of spider crabs, and they had them like all over the cape, and I guess my mom had put me to bed, and I fell asleep with my Barbie in my crib. And like its little legs and arms were like poking me, and I like woke up like screaming. Like, oh my god. I thought it was on you.

SPEAKER_03 14:36

No, I thought it was a spider crab this whole time.

SPEAKER_02 14:39

I thought that's what she was. It was not a real spider crab. Spider crab like crawled up. But like I was having like a night out of my Barbie? No one. Thank God that didn't happen. I just had a nightmare that there was a spider crab.

unknown 14:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 14:52

They're like the ugliest crab in the ocean. And then they're legs. And it's like moss and dirty stuff all over the back.

SPEAKER_03 14:59

They're disgusting. They probably had them in old orchard, but like at the Cape, they're everywhere. So it's like I like to go in the water because it's usually kind of warm, but like the spider crabs, like I'm on edge the entire time.

SPEAKER_02 15:14

It doesn't look like any type of little creepy crawler I think. Oh, I just float. Okay, these ones, like this is what they look like because they're always covered in muck. Ew. That's I'm gonna throw them.

SPEAKER_03 15:23

That's disgusting. Because it looks like an actual spider, and I hate spiders.

SPEAKER_02 15:27

Yeah, I hate why it's called a spider. A regular crab, I'll pick them up.

SPEAKER_03 15:30

I like it. I don't want I won't. I fear for my toes being pinched and cut. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 15:35

I haven't been pinched by a crab before. And I got pinched too, and it was stuck to her hand. She's shaking it off, and Adam and I were laughing because we thought she was being silly, and then it was actually stuck to her. We were like, oh my god. No.

SPEAKER_01 15:47

Hell hell.

SPEAKER_02 15:48

I don't claim that.

SPEAKER_01 15:49

I don't go from anywhere near lobsters or crabs.

SPEAKER_02 15:54

Well, luckily when I see a live lobster, their hands are usually tied up. I still don't go near it. Fair enough. Sorry to the lobsters. Yeah. They taste.

SPEAKER_03 16:04

No, I don't think I've I've seen a wild lobster.

SPEAKER_02 16:07

I've never been at the ocean and seen a lobster, no.

SPEAKER_03 16:10

I don't think so.

SPEAKER_02 16:10

Because I think they're pretty deep out, I want to say.

SPEAKER_03 16:13

Well, I feel like I've heard of like people. If you go fishing, sometimes people catch accidentally. Yeah. I've never seen that happen though. No, me either. With my own eyes.

SPEAKER_02 16:21

I think you have to be like deep sea fishing. Yeah. Yeah. Sarah, what's your hot uh? You're naughty. Naughty. Let's see. My naughty. I hate this and I've always hated this. Because people bragging about how little they ate is my fucking existence. You're not cool. It's actually horrible for you. Like I've got everything in me not to scream in your face, honestly. Because who are you impressing? Like I. Yeah. What man do not likes a woman who doesn't eat, first of all, if that's what you're doing it for. Literally. Like no one, no one nobody likes that. And nobody also even pears.

SPEAKER_03 16:58

Okay, like I feel like if I eat a little amount, I try to make it the smallest deal ever because everyone's always asking. Oh, are you still hori?

SPEAKER_02 17:07

Oh, are you not feeling good? I'm like, I'm okay. Wait, you're so wrong. You know what? Like, I would rather it be the opposite. You're like, I'm actually hiding because our families are food pushers to the core. They're like, you did not have enough sex for you. Really? Yeah. Yes. When I go to Sarah's house, they eat, you guys eat smaller proportions, I feel like, than my family. Really? Because my mom like cooks. It'll be like the three of us, and she'll cook for like a family at all. Six. You guys are tall.

unknown 17:32

She's like, you guys.

SPEAKER_00 17:34

You guys are cute like that.

SPEAKER_01 17:39

Um, no, but yeah. Why are you looking at me like that? She's like, you guys, you look cute. You guys are like, yeah. You guys not yeah. No, like I guess you're taller than us. Right, right, right, right, right. We have like an average height of like five feet. Like, no, you're right.

SPEAKER_02 17:56

Yeah, but I don't even know what we're talking about.

SPEAKER_01 17:58

Small portions.

SPEAKER_02 18:00

Yeah. Oh, yeah. And then I'll still be hungry. And nobody else is getting seconds. And I'm like, my brother would be on thirds by now. Yeah. Like, I can't take too much. Yeah. You can always take as much as you want. No, I know. But it's still, it's like you fat bit. I would rather, I would rather you eat than come than complain that I'm hungry. Yeah. No, you're right. I'd rather you tell me how you are and that you can't move. Yeah. Well, yeah. Same. For picking overeating, I guess. Yeah. When you're hungry, that's when that's when you're hungry, eat. Yeah. Your body's trying to tell you something. And if it's only a little snack, then that's fine. But like don't be like, if it's a wood, I had three almonds and a grape.

SPEAKER_03 18:43

Congratulations, skinny fruit.

SPEAKER_02 18:45

Are you literally even pooping? There's nothing in your body. Like, are you okay? You know what? I okay, I hate that. I hate when people tell me how little they ate to justify why they are so hungry. I'm like when people I'm hungry and I already had three meals today. And you've had no water and you've had no food. Like, no wonder you feel like shit. No fucking wonder. I don't feel bad for you. I really don't like people who don't treat their bodies right, and then they're complaining that they don't feel good. Like, I have no sympathy because you're not going to be able to do it. You're doing stuff that can be solved so easily. Like, I'm just going to do it. Well, that's like neglection, honestly. You're literally neglecting your water. You're neglecting your soul.

SPEAKER_00 19:23

No water?

SPEAKER_02 19:24

Dude, I filled my water bottle up three times on my water is insane.

SPEAKER_03 19:28

I love drinking water.

SPEAKER_02 19:29

Like ice cold water. That's one of my topics. Okay. If you're a bitch who says you don't like the taste of water, grow the fuck up. I'm so sorry.

SPEAKER_03 19:37

Like people who have to add like the the like flavors in, or they only drink like Gatorade. I'm like, how are you living? How have you made it this far? They're not gonna have cavities.

SPEAKER_02 19:47

I'm telling you, they have cavities. Do not share toothpaste with a bitch who drinks Diet Coke only. She has cavities. They have cavities and kidney stones, probably. Oh no, the kidney stones is so true. Yeah. Wait, what? I know someone that they don't when does one get kidney stones? You're not hydrated enough. You're not flushing your kidneys enough. That's why I'm not sure. So the shit gets caught in there. I don't I don't know exactly how it works. I I ain't the one. No, but you know that for a fact that that's true.

unknown 20:19

Damn.

SPEAKER_02 20:19

What? Like, we don't need to Google it. It's true. Yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah, it's true. I know. Because it happened to someone I know. I know. Okay. So my naughty is Dave Portnoy. Yep. I hate that guy. A fucking creep. I'm sorry, but I'm weird. I really weird that. He's just obnoxious. He's nearly 50 years old and like all of this. And he's in drama. He's hanging out with these young kids. And he's in all of this not only drama, but young women drama. Yeah. Like right now, like the Alexes are fighting and he's like documenting this. Like you're literally 50 years old. I can't even be able to explain how creepy I think that is. And I don't really even know if I think he's funny.

SPEAKER_03 21:08

I've never actually heard him say anything. I've like heard like a few.

SPEAKER_02 21:11

He just had broadcasts with like whatever Richards, what's his name? Josh Richards. And then Breonna Chickens. And they're both in their young 20s. And they like, like you guys. I don't think he does that. How can you be friends? Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 21:25

Okay. Also, like we never really liked his pizza thing. No. That maybe because.

SPEAKER_02 21:29

He came to Nashua and he rated the worst pizza place in Nashua. I was like, don't come to a town and not find he went to a chain restaurant. He gives me a few. I didn't know he started Barstool though. I found that out when I was Googling how old he was in the world. Which like no, I didn't know that. I I literally was like, who the fuck is this guy and why does he come on? Why does he have a lot of people? Well, that's like part of the reason he's involved in everyone is because he all like he has connections to everybody. Which makes sense. But it's just like I don't know. I feel like there's other places he could be involved. In especially in like the sports industry, and he's choosing to be involved in young women's drama. And I think it's creepy and weird.

SPEAKER_03 22:06

He just I just feel like what he does is so dramatic. And it's like the pizza stuff, it's like he like it makes no sense. People are like, oh, he's bringing business. I'm like, he's shit talking everyone's pizza. He takes one bite and he's like, you know what? Yeah. Like he has.

SPEAKER_02 22:21

It's if you have a bajillion dollars, how about you use it for good? Stop worrying about young blonde women. Leave them alone. You're weird. Get out of their business. Get out of everyone's business, actually. Yeah. So he's out of the pizza business because I can't even with him. No. I just can't. I agree. I don't like him either. I know. Okay. Let's get into our topic.

SPEAKER_03 22:44

Let's get into it.

SPEAKER_02 22:48

Okay, so guess what I just learned? You'll never be able to guess. Okay. Oh my god. Pollen allergies are the result of too many male trees. Once again, tell me that.

SPEAKER_03 23:05

Once again, men are the source. Men be fucking up my day. Are you kidding me? No, I'm so serious.

SPEAKER_02 23:11

And it's a man's fault.

SPEAKER_03 23:12

I never had allergicness.

SPEAKER_02 23:15

I knew a man was behind it. I just didn't know what to do. Men are causing our allergies. So if you're if you want to be mad at anyone, there it is. I'm pissed. I'm pissed at the trees. And I want to lose that trees. Yeah. I don't know, but yeah. It's just all over the place. It's in the air. The trees are no longer inhaled over the place.

SPEAKER_01 23:37

Yeah, no.

SPEAKER_02 23:39

No wonder I'm allergic. They're trying to get the flowers pregnant. Well, I'm not a damn flower. Guys, Hannah's colleague. Uh-oh. Hannah. You're on the hammock. Oh my god. Say hey to everyone.

unknown 23:57

Hi, everyone.

SPEAKER_01 23:59

I love that you said that because I was gonna immediately drop tea that I just saw on Instagram.

SPEAKER_02 24:04

Oh god.

SPEAKER_03 24:05

Oh my god. T is a big thing. Breaking news! Breaking news!

SPEAKER_02 24:08

T of people we know or tea of oh okay. God damn it. Save that for me, okay? Do you have any other news? Is there any other news you have to share? Um no, I don't think so. I'm so sorry. No, that's totally fine. It's okay. We love you.

SPEAKER_01 24:29

Of course. An unintentional guest. Yeah. Everyone watches the pod.

SPEAKER_02 24:36

Yes, exactly. Exactly. Listen to watch, but I'll be above. We'll have fun filming, so sorry. Don't apologize. Never apologize. And I will be sitting in. Love you, bye. Bye.

unknown 24:50

Bye.

SPEAKER_02 24:50

I need to know who we're talking about. I know, I need to know how. Sorry, guys, we're canceling the podcast. You have to tell me now. Dumb me right now. You have to tell me right now. Yeah. Oh my god. Okay, another thing on the train of like women are awesome. Eighty percent of organ donors are women. Wow. Really? Yes. Which means we're willing, not only do we give life, we're willing to give life a second time. Yeah. When we've already died and we want to shoot. I'm an organ donor. I am too. Oh, I thought you meant like right now, like what like a lot. Oh, like people do donating their organs. I think people do too. I mean, you could donate a kidney. Yeah. That's what I thought you meant. But I am also an organ donor. Yeah. Shocking. Because I'm like, why do I need it? Literally, what do I need it for?

SPEAKER_03 25:38

Literally, why do I need it?

SPEAKER_02 25:39

I'm not gonna be greedy. Come on. Yeah. Like I don't take them.

SPEAKER_03 25:42

I don't care. Well, because I also like, I'm not gonna have there's no open cast. Like, turn me to ash, put do whatever.

SPEAKER_02 25:50

Like But I feel like there must be a way you can stitch it up without it. Well, they definitely do. They'll make you presentable because a lot of the times, like when people are like sick or whatever, like they can make sure that you're still presenting. But like what if someone you can like cut open your heart and like I don't think you can attach my leg to your leg because anatomy they would like take people's faces and like change them over.

SPEAKER_03 26:16

What if they needed your face?

SPEAKER_02 26:18

They can take your face. Your skin is an organ. Yeah, yeah. Your leg in your face and stuff. And I'm a skinwalker walking around. Woo! Guys. Oh my god. It means I probably looked good, which means I probably died getting a zombie.

unknown 26:33

Oh.

SPEAKER_02 26:34

Carol, what the Carol! What the hell? I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm tired. No. I don't think that's gonna happen.

SPEAKER_01 26:41

I don't think you can take a leg and put it on someone. I don't think it's tied. What if they need like a toe?

SPEAKER_02 26:46

They can have my toe. I have good toes.

SPEAKER_01 26:50

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 26:52

But I don't think that like why would they need a toe? I don't what I think you can survive with all these four. You all your pinky toes are meant for that. Yeah, true. What if they're missing a little bit? Okay, but people don't have feet and they can walk. Like I think they're fine.

SPEAKER_03 27:06

We're not talking about amputees anymore.

SPEAKER_02 27:09

Have you ever seen those videos where it's like somebody passed, but their heart was transmitted to someone else? And the parents can like hear their heart in a different person. That's crazy. No, I'm throwing up. That is crazy. But so cool. Yeah. It's like if I pass away, I don't give up. I'm not gonna lie though. I don't know. I mean, I guess if I really needed it, but like how weird to have somebody else's heart beating in your chest. So, yeah, someone that's like I mean, like, I know you need it, but it's crazy. Whose is this? Especially what if we have what if I had a dude's heart beating in my chest?

SPEAKER_01 27:41

I don't can they do that?

SPEAKER_02 27:43

Kara's greedy. She's like, I can't have that heart. As long as you're the same blood type. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 27:48

But I'm like bigger.

SPEAKER_02 27:51

I mean, I think I'd imagine they find one that fits your chest cavity. You're like, I no, but like I we have a heart. You're like, yeah, but that's a man. I want to open it.

SPEAKER_03 27:59

Don't they do transplants with like what are his morals? This might be completely wrong. Like, don't they do transplants with like pig organs into humans? I think so.

SPEAKER_02 28:10

Yeah, no, they do because my pink had a valve from a pig. Wow. What? Yeah, pigs are the closest animal DNA to us. Oh my god. What? Dirty Phil. Yeah, you guys are right about brushing your teeth. People got pig intestines inside of them.

SPEAKER_03 28:28

Beggars can't be choosers.

SPEAKER_02 28:31

It's literally true though. Like beggars, like literally, if I need a heart, I guess I'll take the dude's heart. It's crazy.

SPEAKER_01 28:36

I'll take a pig over a man. I'll take the pig's heart. Is that okay? Does the same job. Wait, why are pigs close in anatomy to us?

SPEAKER_02 28:46

Wouldn't it be monkeys? I don't know what it is and why it's not. I thought chickens were.

SPEAKER_03 28:51

No, chickens are closest to dinosaurs.

SPEAKER_01 28:53

Yes. Chickens are included. Chickens are dinosaurs. Facts. Okay. Can we?

SPEAKER_02 29:01

Okay, I don't even want to look at it. What am I Googling? Are chickens. No, no, no. We're looking at the pigs, right? Yes. I ask and then I tell you no. Are we close in relation to pigs? Close in DNA to Where are pigs on the family chart?

SPEAKER_03 29:18

Like, where are they on the family tree?

SPEAKER_02 29:21

My great-great-grandfather was a pig. It says pigs and humans share an estimate of 90 to 92 of genetic material, primarily because I think it says both are mammals with comparable physiological systems. So like our heart size, our organs, our digestive tracts are like similar. Yeah, they're just like all compatible. But like, why is not a good idea? So we're not like we didn't evolve from pigs at all. Not that I know of it. What about chickens? Humans and chickens are roughly 60 to 75. That's pretty high. Okay. Overall, their DNA structure differs. They're distantly comparable. Okay, but I feel like any mammal we're gonna be pretty close to. But that's not even a mammal. That's a bird. Hey, so that's a mammal. No, they lay eggs. They're not mammals. Oh, wait, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 30:10

No, a mammal. No, a mammal gives birth to like.

SPEAKER_02 30:14

A mammal gives birth to the birthday. So what is a chicken then considered, if not a mammal? I don't know, but okay. I thought it was like if you breathe air, you're a mammal. No. Because whales are mammals. Yeah, but they like give birth because they don't lay eggs. Guys, am I dumb? Like a crocodile is not a mammal. No, you're right. They're reptile. Yes. They might birds might be reptile. I don't know. Yeah, mammal. Warm-blooded animal that produces milk to nourish their young, hair or fur on their bodies, and three middle ear bones.

SPEAKER_03 30:46

It's typically giving birth to live young. So it's like not egg form. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 30:52

No, you can't. That would be amazing. If we could lay eggs, that would be so much easier. And then you clocked me back. Oh, they also breathe air. Right, that's where I was getting connected.

SPEAKER_03 31:03

And they have highly developed brains.

SPEAKER_02 31:06

All mammals?

SPEAKER_03 31:06

Yeah, I guess.

SPEAKER_02 31:07

Okay, but there are egg-laying mammals.

SPEAKER_03 31:09

Yeah, like a platypus, right?

SPEAKER_02 31:11

That's exactly what it says.

SPEAKER_03 31:12

I did a project on a platypus.

SPEAKER_02 31:14

And marsupials.

SPEAKER_03 31:15

I was really into um finished and fur.

SPEAKER_02 31:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 31:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 31:20

But like marsupials, which are like kangaroos and koala bears. Because they like finish developing in the their mom's pouch. They're considered mammals even though it's not like straight up birthday.

SPEAKER_03 31:32

Marsupial means with pouch. Oh. Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_02 31:37

Wait, did you know that you were telling us that it was a little bit more? Synonym too. We'll go with that. I think so. Synonym to mammal is hairy creature. What the fuck? I mean, right.

SPEAKER_03 31:48

That sounds like an insult. Are platypuses hairy? I think they do have fur, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 31:53

That's the platypus experts.

SPEAKER_03 31:54

They they do. Wow. Let me think back to my diorama. They're hairy. They're hairy.

SPEAKER_02 32:00

Wow. We're learning so much today. I know.

SPEAKER_03 32:02

I always thought that platypuses like didn't. I thought they were like, I don't know. What are you saying? A platypus. I thought they didn't have fur. I thought they were just like rubber.

SPEAKER_02 32:12

No, like it was like a Card. Yeah, they look rubber-y.

SPEAKER_03 32:16

You know?

SPEAKER_02 32:16

Yeah. No, I agree. I don't know these things. I totally agree. Wait, okay, so they're like. This is like completely 180. So As we do. So question. Do you guys use your notes app a lot? Yes. I'm in it right now. Yes. Do you like write everything down?

SPEAKER_03 32:33

Guys, I have the most random notes in there.

SPEAKER_02 32:35

Well, like you know that I do. But I also know, like, in your notes app, though. Like, if I'm out and about, but I'd prefer pen and paper.

SPEAKER_03 32:43

Okay. Like, I write the smallest things I need. Eyebrow gel, travel containers, new outfit.

SPEAKER_02 32:50

Awesome. Dude, I write the most random shit. Like, all I have paragraphs in there from when I was like fighting with people.

SPEAKER_03 32:57

Like, I do that too. I do that too.

SPEAKER_02 33:03

Oh, you do. Oh no.

SPEAKER_01 33:04

I have to do it.

SPEAKER_02 33:05

I was gonna say we should play notes app roulette and we like close our eyes and have to read our like pick one. You definitely can. Mine's boring. Um, there's one thing that's good in here.

SPEAKER_01 33:17

Oh, read it.

SPEAKER_02 33:19

It's called Shit Things He Did.

SPEAKER_01 33:21

Wait, I have one called that too. Mine's called Things He Did I Thought Were Normal. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 33:27

Okay, read something. Um lied to my face and swore on his niece's life that he wasn't cheating on me. He was.

SPEAKER_03 33:35

Is the niece still alive?

SPEAKER_02 33:36

Wait, I swore on his mother's grave who's not dead. That's crazy. He didn't cheat on me. Yeah, he did. He also, okay, I for actually forgot about this. We were like broken up, but I was like trying to like work past stuff. Right. So we're on FaceTime and he lives in Connecticut.

SPEAKER_00 33:56

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 33:57

I live in Massachusetts, so we're like two hours apart. We're on FaceTime. And he like he has it on his face. And so I see something on his neck. And I actually have a picture of it because I screenshot it. Oh god. And I was like, is that a hickey? And he was like, no, it's not a hickey.

SPEAKER_01 34:16

I was like, I was like, I'm like, so what is it then? He was like, oh, I was like using my mom's straightening iron and it got my neck. What the fuck? Yeah. He had long hair. I literally have a picture of him. He was long hair.

SPEAKER_02 34:31

He's literally a hickey. Um, not that long. To be flat ironed his hair. He has never flat ironed his hair. I was thinking of what today's the day. What the fuck? No, he would have looked like Lord Farquad. Yeah, but I believed him. You didn't believe him, you knew the truth, but you chose to ignore it because you wanted to stay with him. That's really the end thing. When you didn't show that together with him after that, that was just some. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 34:55

We found a paragraph that's someone.

SPEAKER_02 34:58

Oh, okay. Read it.

SPEAKER_03 34:59

Should I say it? Okay. Yeah. I won't say the name. But we saw him out at the bar. Do you know who I'm talking about? Yes.

SPEAKER_02 35:07

I know who you're talking about.

SPEAKER_03 35:08

We saw him at the ghost.

SPEAKER_02 35:10

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. I thought you meant I thought you meant when you went out the other night with. Anyways, no.

SPEAKER_03 35:17

Okay. Um, so yeah, this was when this guy, like, we we went on a date, it was going great, and then all of a sudden we're playing a second date, and then he just ghosts me. I said, I just want to be up front. I've been getting the feeling that you might not be interested in going out, and that's totally fine.

SPEAKER_02 35:32

It's not.

SPEAKER_03 35:32

What's hard for me is not hearing anything back from you. I'd rather just you I'd rather you just be honest about your feelings. Since we were friends, I thought you'd be able to tell me that instead, not saying anything at all. That's just not cool, and I hate that.

SPEAKER_02 35:44

That's your soft girl era. It was my soft girl era. Now I'm like you were so kind. You're like, yeah, do not contact me. I'm not interested. I feel like it takes a few to be like, okay. It really does. And the last one did it. Okay, this other one that's on my list. I showed up at his work because he wasn't answering me. And he was like, I'm gonna break up with you. Like, this is my place of work. Like, you cannot be here. And so, like, I left because like I'm respectful. Yeah. And then he shows up at my work, like in my parking lot with his buddy, and like the two of them are like smoking in the parking lot of where I work. You're kidding. I'm like, I'm not allowed to go to your place of work, but you're gonna come and do illegal drugs. Why didn't he even need to go there? That's what I'm literally like what? I don't know. Go anywhere else. Literally go anywhere else than in my parking lot. Oh my god, that's so embarrassing. Isn't that weird? Yeah. I was like, hey, get the fuck out of here. That guy's a fucking free. Even after we had broken up doing the place of work, I'm free. You know my schedule. Stop showing up here on Wednesday nights. I'm always here. I have been.

SPEAKER_03 36:53

Weird. Looking back, like I have a paragraph from when like my high high school relationship. Yeah, I probably do too. This is long, and it's me like it's embarrassing.

SPEAKER_02 37:05

Being in high school embarrassed going through a heartbreak is like you don't know any different. No, it's so good. It's like I'm literally like on like putting my life on the line. Because it's like that's what it feels like. It feels like you're starting over when in reality your life is barely beginning. Ugh. You're really just getting started.

SPEAKER_03 37:22

Uh I can't now. The standards are. I need to read.

SPEAKER_02 37:26

My standards are like I will I am really happy single. So in order for me to be adding a lot to somebody, like you really have to be like wowing me. You have to like add all the things. Well, I feel like a relationship should be adding. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 37:41

It's the only purpose is to add.

SPEAKER_02 37:43

Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 37:44

If it's subtracting from your life, what the fuck are we doing?

SPEAKER_02 37:48

Get out. Then I don't, yeah, I don't even know why you would bother putting effort in. No, it's a reason. Sometimes though you don't even realize that it's taking away from your life until you're off. Because your rose-colored glasses are so darkly tinted, dude. Right. Like it is. Because you're brushing over everything. It's just little things and then it like adds up. Right. But yeah, yeah, I I think it's like it's so much easier said than done. Because like when you're in it, you're like You can't tell when you don't notice that you're missing out on so much because you're with someone that's toxic for you.

SPEAKER_03 38:19

I feel that. And it's hard like getting back into it because you're like, oh, like someone likes you, and like your expensive fantasy like of that is like coming true, and you're like, wait, that's like really fun. But then you're like, this is actually not like you start seeing things, I know, but when it's like you're in it, you're like, wait, it it's okay. Yeah, like, or you push things aside, or you don't say something, or blah blah blah. And it's like, why? I know. We're literally all in our 20s. I feel like none of us are dating to just date. Like, we want to find our own person.

SPEAKER_02 38:51

It's also like I'm so far out of dating, like I haven't been with someone in a while that it feels like impossible to get back into it. Yeah. And also, like, how would you fit into my life? Like, I'm gonna have to cut something else out in order to fit you in. Like, and I don't want to take away time from seeing my friends or like working on the podcast or like doing stuff that I'm working towards. I know, but then also I feel like I'm missing out if I'm not dating. Like, I should be meaningful. I know because we're only this hot for so long. Exactly. But it's praying.

SPEAKER_03 39:23

Like, we Sarah's only got a few years.

SPEAKER_01 39:29

Like, seriously.

SPEAKER_03 39:31

It is hard though. Like, I feel like when I was talking to that guy, I was like, oh my god, like my free time was for the podcast and for the girls. What do you mean? Right. I have to fit in time now for a man. That's exhausting. But I was driving to Sarah's house the other day and I was listening.

SPEAKER_02 39:47

I was listening to Taylor's Red album. That's what it does. And um, I was thinking like how exciting it is to like we get the chance to fall in love again. Yeah. Because like it is, it is exciting. I experienced it when I was young and I haven't gotten to since. Yeah. And I feel like it's really exciting that I get to experience an adult love.

unknown 40:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 40:07

That's something like really.

SPEAKER_03 40:08

Aren't there like three crucial loves that you have in your life with first? Look that.

SPEAKER_02 40:14

Okay, God, I'm on my third.

SPEAKER_03 40:16

I know. I think shit. I'm only on my first. I know. I think I only have my first. Don't worry.

SPEAKER_01 40:22

You're still young. Just have to get through one more breakup.

SPEAKER_02 40:26

Yeah. You know what? What's crazy? Like, I can handle it though. Yeah. Like, I'm willing to put my heart on the line again because like I came out stronger and smarter and like more than a little bit. Look how much it doesn't kill your makes you stronger. Right, exactly. I'm willing to put it on the line to do it again. Because I feel like it's I am too, but I do, I am definitely like jaded. Okay. Well, right. But I also feel like fuck it. Yeah. I know. You know why? I can't help it. I'm not shallant. I'm not non-chalant. And when I am like someone, I am not shallow. Like you're gonna know. Yeah. Okay. So the three loves theory. People typically fall in love three times in their lifetime, with each experience as serving a distinct purpose. The idealistic first love, the intense, tumultuous second love, and the unexpected lasting third love. Hey, so thank god. What if my first one was tumultuous? Then what?

SPEAKER_01 41:25

What if my first one went both?

SPEAKER_02 41:27

Wait, so the second one?

SPEAKER_03 41:29

Can you go?

SPEAKER_02 41:30

Okay, here's the second one.

unknown 41:32

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 41:33

So the first love.

SPEAKER_01 41:34

I'm on my second one. I'm like, wait, like, please tell me more.

SPEAKER_02 41:38

So the first love is the fairy tale. Often occurs young, feeling like a storybook romance. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, I feel like we've all had this. We had high school ones like that. Okay. And it's idealistic and shapes our understanding of love. Like, true. It's like puppy love, like you. Yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 41:52

And then it ends, and then you can't do it.

SPEAKER_02 41:54

Made me realize what I didn't want. Right. Okay. The intense love, this is called the lesson.

SPEAKER_03 41:59

What the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_02 42:00

Yeah, what if they're blended into one? Is that I'm gonna have to Google this later. I feel like it can. I definitely saw my lesson. Yeah, me too. I'm I learned. I learned.

unknown 42:08

Fuck.

SPEAKER_02 42:09

Okay, this one says the second most difficult love, often involving highs, lows, drama in oh my god, burp in pain.

SPEAKER_03 42:17

And goes burping, diarrhea.

SPEAKER_01 42:22

Oh. Just going over the side effects of this fucking love.

SPEAKER_02 42:26

Wait, yeah. Drowsiness. Yeah, but also that was like suicidal thoughts. Okay. This love serves as a mirror, exposing insecurities and teaching harsh lessons about compatibility and self-worth. It often describes as the one that breaks us, but also makes us stronger.

SPEAKER_03 42:44

I feel like that's like ripped in my first one.

SPEAKER_01 42:47

Make it nail on the head for me.

SPEAKER_02 42:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 42:49

Is that the saying? Head on the nail. The nail hammer on the nail? Nail on the coffin. Nail on the coffin. You're hitting the nail on the head.

unknown 42:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 42:59

You hit the nail on the head on the nail. Nail the hammer. We definitely got that one.

unknown 43:04

Anyway.

SPEAKER_02 43:05

Right. The unconditional love. This is the lasting love. Arrives unexpectedly, often when least expected. Yeah, that is the same thing. Why'd you have to say it twice in that sentence? Or after giving up on finding the one? Oh, that's sad. This one is easy, mature, and comfortable because it is built upon the lessons learned from the first two, resulting in acceptance of flaws in true partnership. Oh, that's really sad. I'm ready. Yeah. Yeah, of course it's unexpected. I'm ready. I know. They always say that, but like, what if I'm always expecting it? What if every man I talk to, I assume he's in love with me. Yeah, me too. Have you ever thought about that with the theory?

unknown 43:41

No.

SPEAKER_02 43:41

I haven't. Okay, but it's gonna be unexpected, so it's gonna be something. It's gonna be someone that you don't see that happening with. So true. I think that's for the best, honestly.

SPEAKER_03 43:51

Okay, do you think I don't know if I've already asked this? Do you think you've already met your person? No. At least someone in your life? No.

SPEAKER_02 43:58

I've never thought about that. Actually recently. Did I? Yeah, I don't remember why. No, I don't think I have.

SPEAKER_01 44:05

Like, do I have to like Oh my god. The men that I know I hear. Or it's like, do you think you've been able to do that?

SPEAKER_02 44:10

Honestly, wait, there is there is a few people that I know that I wouldn't mind. Oh.

unknown 44:16

Oh.

SPEAKER_02 44:16

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_03 44:18

What if like you guys were at like the same concert the same day? Right. I feel like being a physical strength theory. I believe in this so hard. Oh, really? Yeah, we like went to high school together, and like when we got together, I like saw a picture that I like I played soccer like when I was like young. Like, so we were on the same team.

SPEAKER_02 44:41

Right.

SPEAKER_03 44:41

And I was like, I didn't even know who you were. Like I thought I just met you. Well we played.

SPEAKER_02 44:48

It is crazy once you like start getting to know someone and like realize how many connections you have.

SPEAKER_03 44:52

It is really cool. So like I I'm a firm believer in the world.

SPEAKER_02 44:56

Well, like it's like we experience that all the time though. Like we every place I've traveled to, I've met somebody from the northeast and they somehow know somebody that I know. Like, what are the fucking chances?

SPEAKER_03 45:08

My dad sent them. My dad went to Japan when he was in the military, and they like had like a day or whatever to do whatever. And he's like walking around, he sees another white man. So he's like, Where are you from? And so he goes, Oh, I'm from Hudson, um, New Hampshire. Dude. He goes, get the Are you selling places in the world?

SPEAKER_02 45:27

He's like, Are you saying fucking with me in there? And not like Boston. They're like, we actually went to the same high school. Like, yeah, like what? That is so crazy.

SPEAKER_03 45:35

Meeting in Japan. Like Boreal.

SPEAKER_02 45:37

Well, that was like, I saw this kid from like we have two high school, well, we have three high schools in my hometown. But we're literally in Scotland, and Sarah and I are walking, and I like drop something and I pick it up, and he's like, Are you Kara? I'm like, What the hell? Dude, we're in the middle of the street. Hello. Like, I thought he recognized you from social. I thought he did too because people had been see- I'm like, no way my ice cream sandwich video yet. And he was like, It's me from like blah blah blah. And I was like, dude, what the fuck? Yeah, what are you doing here? Also, like you're so tight in the environment. And also, like, yeah, like first of all, why are you here? Is second of all, I haven't seen you since you were 16, so you look nothing like yourself. So like I would have never recognized him if he didn't like say hi. Right. And I was like, what are the fucking odds that we're both actually across things at the same time in Edinburgh? Like, yeah, what the fuck are you doing here? Yeah. I don't think I've ever experienced that, honestly. In another country. When we were in we did our pasta making classes, people across from us were from Merrimack. Oh yeah. That's crazy. Yeah, I know. We met so many people from New Hampshire. This other girl said she used to work at a restaurant that's on Main Street in Ashua and she lives in New York now. Yeah. I'm like, dude, are you guys all from my hometown? I came here to like experience something new and I'm seeing a bunch of tourists in my hometown.

SPEAKER_03 46:56

Wait, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_02 46:58

It was like, where are the hot Italians I was promised?

SPEAKER_03 47:00

Yeah. Okay, guys, so it was just Coachella week. Oh, yeah. Um the difference between Sabrina's and Sabrina's like stage and then Justin Bieber's. Yeah. Is crazy.

SPEAKER_02 47:13

Well, it's because women have to put on a performance in order to be recognized, whereas Justin is just like loved because he's Justin. Right.

SPEAKER_03 47:20

He's like literally pulling out fucking YouTube videos of these makes.

SPEAKER_02 47:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 47:24

What the fuck? He's gonna pay millions of dollars.

SPEAKER_02 47:27

I love both of their performances because I think it was very like on brand for both of them, but like it is crazy like how over the top women have to go for their performance. Like Taylor Swift, Dua Lipa, like all of these women like train for so long learning these dancing routines, and then it's like men don't get on stage. Travis Scott jumping up and down screaming. I've I've been to two post-Malone concerts.

SPEAKER_01 47:52

He literally just gets on stage, has a red solo cup in his hand, and he just sits.

SPEAKER_02 47:56

He sits there, and he walks around in like high fives people. Yeah. Yeah, like there's no choreography, there's just the set list. Bring back fucking Bruno Mars like dancing, like bring back. Oh my god, he's all tour right now. I know his tickets are one direction. Like they had some choreography. Yeah, I love Justin used to do choreography, actually. Yeah, he used to break it down. But this is definitely more his vibe. I did like it. Yeah, I did like it. But it is crazy that like women in the entertainment industry, they really just have to reinvent themselves every time they put something down.

SPEAKER_03 48:28

Yeah, Sabrina's set was fucking sick. I didn't watch it.

SPEAKER_02 48:31

I just felt like sick. It looked amazing. Everything fucking sick. Guys, we're literally gonna go to Coachella next year. Mark my words.

SPEAKER_03 48:39

Oh my god. Amazing podcast. Wait, a brand's gonna take guys. We should like actually do it. Like do the car camping, like do the fucking thing. Dude, it looks miserable. I want like a mansion there. Why? It looks actually bizarre.

SPEAKER_02 48:51

People sit in traffic for hours and hours. I know, but like if you're shitting layers though.

SPEAKER_03 48:56

Yeah, I think you could do it the right way. Like, I think if you're camping there, like I feel like the people are like housed like off of it. It's hard. So it's like hard to like drive.

SPEAKER_02 49:05

I saw this woman post that she was like, I just sat in my co in the Uber for two hours and we only had to go two miles. Hey, so get the fuck out and walk. Yeah, what are we talking about? So out of time. Like literally just two. Two miles. She's like, I just wasted so much time. Two miles, babe. You could get there in a half an hour if you're slow walking. Yeah. Literally. Like, what are we doing? No, that should sound like a lot of things. No, but Coachella does look like fun, and I'm a huge camper. I think we should really go to the music festival.

SPEAKER_03 49:35

Are there even showers there? They have like um it's almost like a little mobile home type deal where it's just a million showers. It's like a pop-up bath for some days. I've seen those. So they have like a bunch of showers. So you can do that, but there's like fucking.

SPEAKER_02 49:51

Yeah. What? Why though? I'm just saying, like, people are dirty. Like they're probably like, oh shit, I know you know that. Like I left mine in my tent. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 50:00

That's like I don't know.

SPEAKER_02 50:02

Like camping like that.

SPEAKER_03 50:03

I know. It is.

SPEAKER_02 50:04

Because then you want to look good and you you want to take photos of the code.

SPEAKER_03 50:06

That's why I'm like confused how people look good. Like my hair would be like everybody smells like shit.

SPEAKER_02 50:11

My hair would be. I'm theory, but all of the influencers are getting put up in houses with like poppy or like pooch, and they're all getting like these luxury places. So of course, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 50:20

What the fuck is Poosh?

SPEAKER_02 50:21

Courtney Kardashian's brand. Poosh. Oh. Poosh? No, that's it's called Poosh. That's Lemmy. Yeah, Poosh. That was her first brand. I actually haven't heard of that. Alright. Get on top of the Kardashians. I don't know anything about the Kardashians. I am a Kardashian. I haven't heard of Pooch. Really? That was before Lemmy.

SPEAKER_03 50:42

Poosh is kind of funny.

SPEAKER_02 50:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 50:44

Poosh.

SPEAKER_02 50:44

Anyways.

SPEAKER_03 50:45

That's my new vocal stuff.

SPEAKER_02 50:47

Poosh. Poosh. I think that if we got invited and we had to camp, we're fucking going.

SPEAKER_03 50:53

Yes, I would do it. Like I would do it.

SPEAKER_02 50:57

Yeah. I'm going.

SPEAKER_03 50:58

Oh my god, imagine we get put up in house.

SPEAKER_02 51:00

I know people that went in. I know two people that went. Like they paid to go. Like just for the concert aspect. Isn't it so expensive though? Isn't that crazy we walk around just seeing something? Yeah, I'm not I'm not doing that. And also, I'm confused how it works because like are the celebrities just mixed in with the rest of the stuff. Yeah, see, that's what I'm wondering. Like you're just walking out. You're just walking past Kylie Jenner.

SPEAKER_03 51:21

There are, yes, but there are like specific sections that are like VIP up to have the specific bracelet, blah, blah, blah. But like most places. Safety-wise, it kind of seeing well, they're with like bodyguards and shit.

SPEAKER_02 51:34

Okay, yeah. But that's what was like because like I feel like influencers who are not as big, they still go and they post all the time. It's like people know exactly where you are. Yeah. Yeah. Even as like I just like post on my own personal socials, and I've had a stalker before. Like, I'm not like telling them exactly where I am. Yeah. Like, um, I don't need them to know my exact location. Yeah. No, I would be scared of that too. Like, even Kylie Jenner, like, she's posting in the house that she's in. Like, and I'm like, someone might recognize that house. Another influencer, I can't, I think her name is I think it's Victoria Paris. She posted this video that like her driver like printed out her instructions from the house to Coachella, and everybody's like, delete this video.

SPEAKER_03 52:19

Somebody's gonna retrace it whole house.

SPEAKER_02 52:22

I didn't even think about that.

SPEAKER_03 52:24

Oh my god, I saw that video.

SPEAKER_02 52:26

I've seen it multiple times. Like, she does not take a think about that. Like normal people wouldn't do that, but there are some freaks out there. Oh, there definitely are. There's always like bad people and bad things. Well, that's exactly what I think. You can't like stop living your life. You just have to be smart about what you're doing. Yeah. Right. Okay, let's let's talk it over, guys. Let's talk it over and talk about some things. Hit us with the question of the week. Okay. So our question was if you get the ick, are you cutting it off or are you giving it another chance? So our answers were cutting it off or giving it another chance. Wait, I can't even remember how I answered.

unknown 53:06

Tell me to look.

SPEAKER_02 53:06

Can you look? I think I believe in second chances. But depends on the ick. Like, right. You said giving it another chance. Yeah. Because I didn't. I have a hard time. Like, if right off the bat, like, you do something, like, am I gonna cut you off right away because you did something silly that gave me the ick? Well, like silly. Realistically, I probably wouldn't.

SPEAKER_03 53:27

No.

SPEAKER_02 53:27

So that's why I said giving it.

SPEAKER_03 53:29

But it depends. Like, if you're rude to like a waiter.

SPEAKER_02 53:32

But like that's not even like an ick, right? I mean, I guess it is an ick, but also like you're just just for me. Right.

SPEAKER_03 53:38

Like, it's like I'm not gonna break up you after I see you chase after a ping pong ball.

SPEAKER_02 53:42

Right. Like, I don't know. I'm like, well, no, because are you gonna break up with me because I do something that you're like, that wasn't sexy. I'm not sexy all the time. That's so true. Like, I'm so I'm not expecting you to be either.

SPEAKER_03 53:57

No, but your man will tell you that was really sexy. Yeah, and if you're gonna be able to get it.

SPEAKER_02 54:01

If I get the ick, like probably more than twice, then I might cut it off. But that's that's just because if I'm getting the ick, then I'm probably don't like you that much anywhere. Because if I am like attracted to you, I'm probably not getting the ick at all. Well, because I'm gonna think it's funny. I'm gonna love it.

SPEAKER_03 54:18

Like, I'm gonna think I love a silly goofy man. Me too. So, like if you're doing something silly, like I think it's funny and I love it. Yeah, but there's a difference when I'm like, oh.

SPEAKER_02 54:26

Okay, so like what's an ick you don't like? I'm trying to think. I don't even know.

SPEAKER_03 54:30

Oh, like my icks are like more personality, like and like habits. Like someone who's dirty, someone who doesn't clean their dishes, right?

SPEAKER_02 54:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 54:40

Someone who's not on time.

SPEAKER_02 54:42

I guess the ick per se. I feel like sometimes you can't get rid of an ick, right? So it's like things like that. An ick is a turnoff. It's like things that like build off, right? Like you have dirty laundry everywhere, or like you don't clean up after yourself, or like all these things, they add up, and then eventually I just don't think you can do anything right. It's like anything you do is already pissing me off because I'm kind of icked out. So you can't win, and then at that point, like we're kind of like. Well, it's like once I see something that like I find unattractive, like I I'm gonna see that in you as a whole. Like, because what I don't think you can really gain it back. Because why am I feeling that way about you? Like there's something else going on.

SPEAKER_03 55:19

Yeah, I do feel that way. Because then if a like if it just keeps like building upon things, it's like there's something you just don't like them. No, well that's like you just don't like them. You're just and that's okay, you just don't like them. Right. Move on. Right. I feel like it's like figuring out if it's just like a silly ick versus like that's how they are.

SPEAKER_02 55:40

Yeah. Like you know, like if you're just like a non-negotiable for you, that's not gonna work, then like oh, you're like right.

SPEAKER_03 55:47

Oh, you wore ankle socks and it looks really a little weird. Or like, you know, like something some stupid shit like that. But if you're like, oh, you sleep until 12 every day. Yeah, I feel like that's like a different in like lifestyle. You know, like but I get like the icks of people's lifestyles.

SPEAKER_02 56:02

Like I've gotten the ick of like a man getting excited over Pokemon cards. Like that's like an ick for the like that is like very unattractive. But then again, if it was like the right man, then I might I probably wouldn't have got the Okay. No, I agree because like you have a hobby, I'd love that. That's what I mean. Like I would be like, that's cute. But what did our audience say? Are they giving people a second chance or are they saying fuck y'all? So 33% said they're cutting it off, and 67% said get they're giving it another chance. Yeah. Can I speak? Jesus Christ. Yes, you can. Here's the mic. Yeah, so most everyone would give it another chance if they got the ick. Yeah. I think it's fair. I think it's foul. Is it like a permanent? It's yeah, it's like the decipher between is this like a permanent ick or is this just like a little thing that kind of is like and I'm not into it. I think I would try to overlook it, but I think first I don't think it's going really anywhere if I get the ick in the first place. Yeah. Because I shouldn't be icked out by the way. Yeah. Yeah. No, because then it's like the rose-colored glasses come flying off. The second you get an ick, you're like, oh my god, I forgot. He's literally just a man. You're like, it's just the end of the entire time. He is just a man. Do not tell me that. Once again. Once again, he's literally just a man, but we have to remind ourselves that when like we're going out and dating. Like, this guy is literally a man. I know. Like, why are we nervous to talk to him? Yeah. They should be nervous to talk to us. Like, that is just a man at the end of the day. I know, it's true.

SPEAKER_03 57:32

Guys, I went to the Tuscan village. There were baddies everywhere. Okay. Like where were they when we were going to place the Sam Adams? What time did it was late? We went. It was late. It was like 10.

SPEAKER_02 57:43

Yeah, that's what I mean.

SPEAKER_03 57:44

Like, like I was there from like 10 to like almost midnight.

SPEAKER_02 57:47

And it's right. Yeah. Like my man's is not going out like late every weekend. Yeah, but I don't like to go out late either. But that's what I'm saying. So do we think that they go out like for the same reason we go out? Because we're like, oh, attractive men only go out at night. They're like, oh, attractive women only go out at night. So then we all end up like going out at night, even though none of us want to be here.

SPEAKER_03 58:09

I think it's just like a society thing. Like it's just like we're young, we people out at n at bars at night. Yeah. I feel like that's just how society is.

SPEAKER_02 58:17

Yeah, I feel like it's when you get to because you like do a pre-game, like maybe you have dinner and then you go out. Exactly. I think maybe that's just because like old people they're stopping at dinner. They're gonna be where you least expect it. Like I women are not meant to chase, they're meant to attract. So I'm not like I don't know. But we only have to put yourself in the right areas to meet people.

SPEAKER_03 58:40

Like I agree, if you're staying at home or just hanging out with girlfriends, it's not gonna happen.

SPEAKER_02 58:44

The other thing is they only watch other men doing things. Literally. How about you go to a Sabrina Carpenter concert? Why do you want to watch sweaty men taggle each other? Why aren't you into women's sports? I don't care. Yeah. Right? Watch women's sports. Right. Okay, but like for the event thing, the thing that's turning me off, I feel like women are multifaceted. So like if I saw you at like a bar, like I'm assuming you don't only go to the bar. Yeah. Like if I saw you doing like a crocheting event, like I'm not assuming that is your soul life. Like if I went to a snowboarding event, I'm assuming this is all you do as a man. I really don't expect you to do anything. Right. So like I'm not finding a partner. Not that it's impossible. I'm not trying to totally just your event idea because I do think it's good because you're around new people and like that's how you meet. Well, I just feel like the right people out. Right.

SPEAKER_03 59:41

I like to crochet, but I don't want to find my man out of crocheting. Right. Well, that's exactly but then I go to like a snowmobiling thing.

SPEAKER_02 59:52

It's insane. It needs to be talked about more. The hobby gap is like disappointing. Like, that's like when you're going around and you're introducing, it's like, tell one thing about yourself, and the guys are like, um, I like brother. Yeah, what the fuck? You don't even know who you are. My hair is to be one of those people. Like you don't have it. Like, it's like I hang out with my friends. Like, that's it. That's literally what I used to do. What do you guys do? But like also when we were younger, like we have Yeah, yeah. Like now, yeah, now I have adults. Yeah. Like if I'm dating, I like going to the gym, which is awesome. But like, what else are we doing? I like going to the bar and going to the gym. Right. Oh. When the hinge prompt says um, like when they're talking about their Sunday and their like football game and football and gym Sunday scaries and golf. Oh my god. I'm asking you out so uh fucking fast. Yeah. Like tell me you like tell me you drive your bike. Tell me that you like to, I don't know. Maybe you like singing, maybe you like crafts. You do something. It's like hard though because like there's so many hobbies that are end up being like sports related that are like accessible to men. Like the public basketball courts, there's always men playing five hours. Sports gambling, golfing, sports gambling, it's like all these things that if they're just like expected to go enjoy, but then like women like have to work harder to like enjoy their hobbies. Yeah. Like I would have to throw an event. So all of their hobbies are actually just like dopamine heads. Like hobbies are like something that you I feel like you put time and effort in, yeah. It's not immediate satisfaction. Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:36

But I feel like we have hobbies for different reasons. Like we have like calming and solo activities. Yeah. We have act like active activities. Like active, like we also have social activities. Like I feel like there's many aspects. I feel like a men, it's like sports, active. Yeah, I know. When I go out to sports. Drink.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:55

Like I'm really trying to think of like a male hobby. You should have seen people at work where like this thing that I learned is that women had to come up with hobbies because they don't get like men don't have hobbies because they always got paid to do things. Whereas women had to do hobbies I need to look it up. But it was like something. So like they're doing things that are like considered a hobby because they're not actually getting paid to do it. But like even though they're just as good at all of these things, it's like considering. You got me fucked up. Because like when you I should get paid for my hobbies. Uh I wish I could find that because it was like obviously I just fucked it up bad, but like it was quoted with it. We got you though. Yeah, I'm gonna go. Oh, oh, oh, like it's like a woman working in the like feeding her family in the kitchen versus like a man as a chef. Or like yeah, right. It's like insane. Like any female dominated area, it's like it's like considered legendary and a professor. Right. Like stuff like that. Nurse and doctor. Fuck.

unknown 1:03:03

Fuck.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:04

Wow. That one hit hard. Oh, that's that shit got me fucked up. Oh isn't that crazy? Damn it. It's like it's all rooted in sexism, which is like it's hard because this is just like how society was like created, like men created it. Yeah. I did see this other quote that was like, literally, the world is made for men and they're still failing. Wait, it's so true because they literally created this world from them themselves. Yeah, and they're still self-branding.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:30

But actually, they couldn't do it without women.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:32

No, nobody could do anything without women.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:34

We wouldn't have life without women.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:35

So actually, this shit wouldn't be here because of us.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:39

Right now.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:40

And I yeah, it was like I was I also was listening to Theo James. He was like talking about how he's like scared to be raising his son because he was like Theo James. He's an actor.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:49

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:51

Yeah, and he's like, it's scary how easily people are able to get like indoctrined into like this negative thinking of like be like being a victimized male, pretty much. He's like, I want to raise like a true gentleman and like a true man. Whereas like they could like get down the wrong rabbit hole on YouTube and like you're fucked. Because like people, it's like my bubble on social media is like all of my thinking. Like, I'm never coming across stuff that like I don't agree with. So, like people who get down that other rabbit hole, like it's really hard to get back, and that's why they're like, Well, everything I'm seeing is saying this, so it must be true. Right. It's like, no, you're on a scary side of social media. Yeah, anyways. I gotta do fast. I'm just talking about the ick. I oh yeah, back to that. That is my ick.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:37

Yeah, having good morals, please.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:39

Yeah, please have morals. Yeah, so I do think it's possible. We're gonna try, we're gonna go out, we're gonna meet guys. Yeah, because we're all from the same like area, like we're all from the East Coast, like we hopefully have like good values and like similar lifestyle and stuff like this. Like, we're gonna find someone. We're going to find someone unexpectedly, yeah, not expected, and they're gonna agree with everything I'll be saying on this podcast. Yeah, yeah, they're gonna be like, yeah, they'll be able to financially support us. No, I was texting my brother. Hannah and I are like talking about dating. He's like, Have you guys like ever just thought about dating women? And I was like, Yeah, it's actually just not that easy to switch playing fields, but like thanks for the wreck. Like it's actually not a choice, so he's like, but maybe like consider we approve that every day.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:25

Damn.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:26

Adam was like, just teams. He's like, yeah, he's like every time you guys hate men so much. Like well, every time we're like men suck, he's like, no, like they do. I'm like, thank you. Thank you. I know. Like you wouldn't date a man. Like, yeah, that's a no, that's exactly it. It'd be nice if I didn't have a big thing. They're like, why would you date a man? I'm like, I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:48

Yeah, when the men are against the men, you know what the problem. Well, that's exactly it.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:52

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unknown 1:06:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:23

This is volunteer work.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:24

If you agree with women, help us to get paid. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:27

If you love small women-owned businesses.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:29

Small women.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:30

If you like small women, if you hate me, then you won't like me. Because Sarah, okay. Huge. No, I don't. No, I don't. Guys, we'll see you next week. We'll talk to you later.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:42

Bye.