Met Gala Looks, Auntie Becky’s Prison Sentence & Chastity Belts

This episode proves that our brains are genuinely all over the place. One minute we’re judging Met Gala looks, the next we’re unpacking Aunt Becky’s prison era, and somehow we end up discussing chastity belts with full seriousness. It’s random, unfiltered, and exactly the kind of spiral you’d expect from us.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Welcome to the Talk Talk Talk Cover Podcast. I bet you think about me. I bet you think about us. I bet you have been thinking about us since last Wednesday. Welcome back. Another week. Another week, another podcast. Another pod. Another week, another pod. So how is everyone? How was your days? Guys, I'm doing good. Oh. Wait, are you still in your period? Guys, I get my period for a week. I get it off. I get back on it, and then I don't have it for three months. So I'm consistent. So you pay your dues. Wow. But yeah, I think we have two periods in one month. But this is like then I don't have it for three weeks. This is like perfect timing because it's about to be summer. So then you're a little bit more. So I'm not gonna be on it. You're literally not gonna have it for the summer. Let's hope that's the case. What a deal. Do you make that deal with the devil? Thanks, guys. How would that happen? Me and the devil. Well, I went to a conference today, guys. Working lady. I know, right? I felt so professional. But it was a women's conference. So they have like speakers. Cool. And so there was this one speaker. She was so cool. She had the coolest story ever. So basically, she she rode across the Atlantic Ocean from Tenere. Have you heard of her? Yeah, wait, she's in a boat. In a boat? She reads. Yes, I didn't know. You heard of her? Yeah, my dad and I followed her. No way. What are we saying? You could like trap her. She literally rode a boat. Oh wait, no, this isn't recent though. This was like a f like maybe a while, like a long time ago. Okay. But her name? Deborah Searle. Okay, that's a correct. But they have a you probably did because they have a competition, which is the competition she was in. Oh let me explain. So the competition. She is from Ireland. Love. Yeah. But so they start in Tenerife and they go to Barbados. And so it's a competition, and basically all the boats have two rowers in each one. So she and her husband sign up to do it. They were training for four years. Wow. Damn. They trained for four years. She was on a rower before this. Her husband was. By the way, I I didn't watch her because it was in 2002. Okay, yeah, that's just born. I was like, yeah, but you probably did watch like the same competition. That's so cool. But anyway, so it took her three and a month, three and a half months to get to Barbados. Of my period span. Wait, what? Of rowing? She was so how do you bring your own food? Does somebody meet you out there? She did explain that. That's insane. It like follows them. Another person for 30 years old. Literally no technology, just a fucking boat and herself. You better be really good. Like freeze-dried food. No, she was by herself. She did it with her partner. Or with her husband. That's the gag. Then she did it by herself. No. That's the gag. So no, she did it with the husband. No, don't look it up. Don't look it up. Don't fact check it out. Let me explain. Well, I had already read it when I was looking up the time. Oh, okay. That she did it. So they start together. Okay. And he now they've been training on a river this whole time in London. Damn, that's hard. Okay. But the ocean versus the river. Exactly. The current? The river moves fast. The river does move fast. They do that in the Charles River. They do like a race thing. True, but I feel like the Boston. Yeah, yeah, they do. Very deep. It is. The ocean always wins. And so they they're training in a river for four years. They get onto the ocean, and her husband discovers he has a phobia of the open ocean. Are you fucking kidding me? Dude. Yeah. Wait, I low key would have divorced me. So it took two baby. You knew what we were gonna do. Like, what was we on an ocean? You're in a boat. You were literally in a boat. But like you knew what you were signing up for. You're in the ocean? Like, you maybe should have tested that out because you're sailing across the entire ocean. Like for something. Not even sailing, rowing. That's crazy. But no inkling that he'd be across. Literally. So she she was like loving it, and she was like two weeks in. Like he's having panic attacks so bad. He's that he's fading in and out of consciousness. Wait, I feel bad for him though. That is so scary. Like you can't control your fear. The ocean is a little bit more. I have attacked to derby fear. I can't control that. No, it's true. Yeah, and discovering that. No, it is. The ocean's very valid. Probably also the thought that they were gonna be out there for a while, like sailing. Oh, why? He knew he was going to the ocean, so that's why I'm like confused. Literally. He didn't know until I think that's why she was. I think it's been out in the ocean. Like open. Yeah, I mean, I haven't. Like I mean, if I was like I would like to go. Well, I've been on a cruise, but right. Then that's a big boat. Like, if I was in a kayak, even when I was just in Florida on the kayak, like it is a little trippy. Like a dolphin goes by you, you're like, this guy could tip me right now. Yeah. So like being in the open ocean in a tiny boat, like I get I do get that. I don't really like it. So then she calls the rescue team, they come and get him, like she said it took them a whole week to come and get the team. Yeah. They started the competition, then he discovered that. Yeah. She calls him a-cause that felt so bad too. I know they trained. And he's probably stressing him on himself out. But then she finished the entire thing by herself. And there were she said there were three other teams where one person had to get rescued, and then she said, like a week later, the second person got rescued from those votes. So she was the only one that finished solo. And she was also the only woman in the whole competition. Their rats were all men to be. I would never mind. She was like so humble about it, too. It was so like I fear I wouldn't be humble. No. No, like I'm the fucking I did that. Do you see these arms? Yeah, I think that's on everyone. We're the losers. Yeah. No, she was ripped. She was like showing pictures. She was absolutely like so fucking strong. Like her husband just watching her tour, like telling everybody about me being scared of the ocean. Literally. You know what? Poor guy, actually. Like, that sucks. I know. But that's so iconic. So I know he probably supports her. Oh, totally. He's probably a good ex-husband now. She didn't support her. Damn, there's no support and now it's gone. She doesn't care that she's trolling it.

unknown 6:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 6:33

No, I don't think so. I've been feeling bad for the whole time with me, dude. Good that fucking feels. Well, it's just a little bit more. First of all, you were a baby little bitch and you left me. I finished the shit, and now you're divorced. And now we're getting divorced. She didn't say why, but she was like, that's the number one question people ask me as if I'm still with my husband after he left me to go solo on three and a half long feeling. Damn. What a fucking story. So did you get to go up to her? You just like it was like a big conference, so you guys were just watching. Yeah, it was like a conference. I think we could have like meet and greet, but there were like other workshops that we had to get to. So wow, I didn't get to meet her, but she was so and there's a movie coming out about it. Oh wait, it's in the works. I don't know if there's like a date set yet of when it's super cool. I know those kind of speeches really like sit with you for a while, which is a good thing. Yeah, this woman rode her about across the buggy. Right. And her whole like the whole speech wasn't even about that. Like she used it as like a tool, but she was like basically giving people tools on like how to stay positive and keep a positive mindset because she was like, that's the only reason I survived out there. Yeah, she's probably in like the shittiest condition. Yeah, right. It's mental, most of it. Most of everything you do is mental. It really is. We did in New Hampshire, they have the presidential mountain range, which is like, I think it's like seven of the 48, 4,000 footers. So they're like ridiculously hard. And we decided we wanted to do them all in one day. And the song That's insane. Yeah, last year a group of us. Oh yeah, yeah, I do. And so it ended up getting dark before we could finish. So we're like on the way down. We finished like five out of seven. We're like on our way down, and I'm like, I am gassed. Like there is nothing in my tank, and Liam's in like in med school, so I'm like, dude, like how much does the human body like actually like how long can I actually go to like you could go for so much longer? It's just a mental game. Like you're mentally done, so like your body is done. But like if you really needed to, like, you could go forever. You could. Yeah. Well, wait, I have my so my dad was telling me about this study that they did on rats. It's not humane anymore. But rats are really You hate to see them coming. But I guess rats are similar to our brains for some reason. But anyways, so this guy put like a bunch of rats in water. See how long they could swim. So the they lasted actually. Yeah. So one kid survived. So like 12 hours passed and they're starting to drown, so he takes them out. 12 hours? The next day he puts them back in. The same ones? The same ones. May the odds ever in your favor. But actually. Actually. No, it's actually fine. That's how they kill mice, though. Like people just put a bucket of water out if you have a mice issue, they just drown. I know that's the one. Well, because they leave it, so it's like that they tip into it. Like there's foods they're fucked up. No, but so he puts them back. The experiment was experiment was that he puts them back in to see how long they would keep going, knowing there's hope that they would get taken out. That's so true. It was like days. Wait, so they do have to do that. And then he let them drown. Like literally, only a man would do that. What the fuck is wrong with you? Wait, that's actually fucked up. Hope is like the strongest religion you can have. It doesn't matter what you hope for. Yeah, just have hope. I agree. Holy shit, that's fucked up though. I know, it's crazy. There will be hope. I will come save you. Yeah. But it's crazy because like you'll give up if you don't think there's any hope. But like they they got picked out one time. So they're like, oh, there I'm gonna get picked up eventually. Like, let's just keep going. Like 12 hours? I'd have to float on my back. I couldn't see it. It's so sad. It's really sad. No. Wow. I don't think I could go that fucking long. That's crazy. 12 hours of treading water? No. I couldn't know a body of water. No, maybe I would have a panic at 20 minutes. Was it like a couple mice at the same time? Because the fact that I'm looking at other people, that Loki would panic me. No, but I would- We're drowning! I'm gonna drown! Like I just wanted to be. Yeah, you have to swim away from them because they're gonna try and drown you. Oh my god, we don't know the answer. Oh my god! It is hunger. This should be. Hunger Games. This is where Hunger Games came from. New fear on the mouse. I had a dream that there was a mouse in the house. And I have to like try to get it out. This is so weird. My manifestations are always like they're really been working recently, and I just need to. Wait, why? Was there a mouse? You just brought up mice. Oh, that's why I was like, was there actually a mouse? I'm like, wait, guys. No, there was no mouse. I think we're just on the same wing. No mouse. Okay. No real mouse, just in a mouse. Should we get into our haunted? Yes. Yeah, I think we should. I was low-key thinking the other day that I want to be a singer, but I'm not, I don't have a good voice. I was like, wait, I would like to be a few. You have the vibe to be a pop star. To be a pop star, but I just fear I don't have the voice. But you're like, wait, I want to be a singer. I feel like you'd be one of those in the world. You have a nice singer. Like Addison Ray. Yeah. I was gonna say it would be Addison Ray. You'd have to learn choreography. I think you would honestly be a choreography. It could be a better vibe. Okay, I think I could learn choreography. Really? If I tried artists. I think you could. That's what I'm saying. I'm not a dancer at all. I've never done dance class. No, but I think people, you could like get the like popular. But I really think I could do it. I think you could grab an audience. I've Dancing with the stars. Oh get her over. Wait, but um, they do say that about artists. Like, you don't have to have the best voice, but if you have like the best stage presence and like the best lyrics and like this kind of stuff. If people go to concerts for different reasons, they're gonna eat you up. So maybe that's a good one. I believe you one day in a good way. I was like, if I had a good voice, like I would be insufferable. I would be absolutely voice, I would never do that. This would just be a singing podcast. I'd get on Hamilton because they oldly sing.

SPEAKER_01 12:35

I'm joking.

SPEAKER_00 12:36

Anyways, alright, what is your hottie? Oh my hottie. Been with me long time. Long time. Been with me long time. Been with me long time. Uncle Jesse from Full House. Yeah. Oh my god, I'm like, Uncle Jesse. Please think about it sometimes. Or it's a click in your eye. She's like, you cannot. Because I'm like, please know who the fuck I'm talking about. I know who you're talking about. Oh my god. I love Uncle Uncle Full House. I honestly love the guys. Like the three guys in that show. I love them. Yes. But Uncle Justin. Bring back raising kids with your friends. Right. Like, oh my god. It takes a village. They had a fucking animal. Yeah, they did. They had a big ass. He was on the news. Actually, he was a news anchor. The dad. Yes. Oh, yeah, he was. The other one. He must have made pretty good money. I've seen their houses in San Fran. That's so cool. I've seen it too. Pacient ladies. Yes. They're so cool. I love that. But yeah, that whole show I loved, but I remember being obsessed. Yeah, it's because he's a baddie. He is such a baddie. He's like the original baddie. Could make you laugh. I'd talk forever. Oh my god. He's saying that to Becky when they uh I think when he proposed or when they got married. Something like that. Becky the Olivia Jade's mom. Not Olivia Jade's mom. That's Auntie Becky's. That's crazy. That is Becky. Oh my god. The most Gen Z sentence ever. I don't even know anything about Olivia Jade. I don't know. Um, I know that she cheated. And she dated Jacob Lordy. What? Yeah, they got like sued or something because they like paid for her to get into the driver. Dude, this is who is this woman? Auntie Becky's daughter. That's like literally just like her. They look exactly the same. I did see a picture and they both look bomb as hell. Yeah, they do look really good. They're pretty like I was like, I'm always pretty privileged though. Okay, but honestly, if you're not sure. What does she do? The fuck? She next. Oh yeah, the mom went to jail. I forgot about that. Oh my god! Yeah, Becky went to jail. Wasn't it like a fake Becky? Wasn't it like a fake um she went on like a rowing scholarship because she never rowed? Yeah. This is all connecting. This is all right. The rowing is coming back. She went to who went to jail? Who what does this woman do? What's her name? Auntie Becky was in jail. Auntie Becky was in jail. She went to jail because she like fraudulently got her daughter into college through like a fake scholarship. Yeah. That's a jail? I guess. That's a jail. Well, because she like basically like took spots from other people that could have. It was like a really like. Did she have to like pay someone off to do that? She paid like a few people off. Oh shit. She got that Jesse money. She yeah. Why is that the first search? How long was Auntie Becky in jail? My phone's listening to me. Well, you said was how long? What the fuck? What the fuck? Wait, I said how long was Aunt and it showed it up. It showed up Auntie Becky's jail. And how long was Aunt? Auntie. That's fucking weird. Served two months in federal prison. Two months in the children. For her involvement in college admissions bribery scandal. Dude, she was probably putting pickleball every day there. She paid a fine of $150,000 and she was ordered to complete 100 hours of community service. And she served two years of supervised release. Damn, they're putting this bitch in jail. I can't even get into this right now. We can't even. Who is your hottie? I can't. Damn. Oh. Guys, Hudson Williams.

unknown 16:04

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 16:05

Okay. Him, but also Shane Hollander. He did rivalry. Falling, I'm following, I'm following. So, did you guys see the his walk of shame in New York City after the Met Gala? That's my hottie. Wait, I loved it. I loved his Met Gala look. I loved it. Same. Okay, that too. Yeah. Characteristic. Wait, I loved it. I kind of thought it was a little cheesy. Like the makeup was a lot. I don't think so. I think they both look good individually. Who he is, I just stand for regardless. Yeah, like. But I feel like for his first met, they could have done something really good. Same with Connor's story. He played in Connor looked really good, but too safe. I am tired of everyone fucking mogging the camera. You guys have killer smiles. Rachel Ziggler. I can't even. Connor Story! Wait, was that a Coke jaw? I'm sorry. What? Was that a Coke jaw? Have you guys seen that? No. She just coked up. She's like, I only know that because of Tana Mojo, but your jaw like starts moving. She just looked like she's like, Yeah, I don't know. I actually like love her too. I feel like she was trying to like. I'd love to see those photos. No, don't tell me. Like, like, it looked fast. She's casting a spell. But it's like weird because she was like, it was like, like, actually. She had an eye mask on. Yeah. No, it was moving. It was a fluid. Why was nobody busting out laughing? Nobody works there. Everyone's too fucking stupid. No one's ever told her no, and that's what she gives. Yeah. Well, I'm telling her no right now. No. Don't do that. Don't fucking do that. I'm telling you right this second. No. Yeah, so, anyways, um, what's his name? Hudson Williams. That's my hottie. Yeah. Specifically the walk of shame. Was it the next morning or something? It was the next morning. I think there was like an after. They were walking back from the after party. Yeah. He had like no clothes on. Like, he didn't even have sunglasses, but you could just tell. You could see the hangover in his eyes. He still has like a smudge of makeup on. Yes. So good. Yeah, it was awesome. And someone's like walking him and he's like stumbling. That's what I'm saying. Connor's story has the smile of the fucking century. Yeah. And I didn't see one fucking smile from him. I know. No, it was. And they hid his body. I'm like, what are we doing? He could have dressed up as the statue of David. Like, I don't know. Fashion is art. Like, he could have been him with the curly hair. He's got a big thing. He actually missed that opportunity by covering his fucking chest. Let it out. Oh, I know. Shit. Get me in there. No, there was like a side-by-side of like his it was like his back, like flexed. And then it was like a statue. Hey, so that's going in my head. I'm framing that. Like if they literally did to that woman who looked like a big thing. They should have done that. Yes. They could have done that to him and he was a big thing. I don't know who that woman is. I didn't know who she was. She's like a model, but she did you see all like bronze. She looks amazing. Oh, I didn't see. Oh my god, to show you. That's really cool. Did you see Bad Bunny? I didn't get his. He was he looked old. Yeah, why? I don't get it. He was probably like that was. I saw a video of him hugging the art of growing old. Oh that's depressing. I came up with that on the spot. Bad Bunny and me talked about it. I saw a video of him hugging Chris and Kim Jenner, and the comment was like, I don't think they knew who he was. Kim Jenner. Yeah. Who Kim Jenner? Kim Kardashian and Chris Jenner. And Chris is looking at him like, who the fuck? Who the fuck? Oh, they definitely didn't know who. Yeah, she looked unreal. Whoa. That's so. Look how crazy. I love when people just absolutely eat on the red carpet because that's what you were saying. Wasn't Dea not there? No, she didn't. Okay. I immediately look it up. It said she didn't go because whatever conflicting media stuff. And like her movie was coming. Her movie. The drama. And I think it was like she was having like so much press with like um the drama and euphoria that she was like, Oh. Yeah. And she's got like the The Odyssey is coming out, which is another movie. Um she's got like a lot of films coming out. And the new Spider-Man movie just came out too, or is coming out. Oh yeah. She's been fucking booked. Bugged and busy. Booked and busy. Yeah, she should be. She's she's one of the top actresses. She's so young. She's like on the up and up in her career. She is. I think of challengers all the time. I still haven't changed her with two boyfriends. I need to see that. I should all have that. Okay. You would like that. Like I like those two guys, like they're gonna be your hotties forever. Like I they're like they're my heated rivalry because they were like obviously like the first. Okay, like Josh O'Connor. I think that's his name. The Brunel. I love him. I don't even know how that is. No, he I've seen him in a bunch of movies actually. Yeah. Yeah, like get to your hottie. I know. I know. My hottie right now is taking off your fake nails. Yay! Oh, you got them off. She's one step closer to naked. She's one step closer to being fully naked. Yeah. And I just feel like she always shapes them really well. Yeah. And like I can type a lot easier. Yeah. And I don't know. I just I feel really good. When you have an itch and you go to scratch it after getting them all up, is like the best. And I feel like it almost hurts because you're like, I haven't scratched. Yeah. But your nails are strong as fuck.

SPEAKER_01 21:50

I know.

SPEAKER_00 21:50

Next week they'll all be broken off, probably, but they always look good for like the first week after you take them off. Yeah. But my hands, like, I feel like they look really cute and little. I love that. And the other ones were from my birthday, so they were like three and a half weeks grown out. Like I could not wait to get them. Oh, yeah. So I'm feeling very good. They start driving. I love that for you. And my new sweatpants, my new shirt, like, and my hair's resting off. I love it. Yeah, I'm feeling good. I dreamed. You're saying all my favorite words right now. Okay, so now let's ruin our day and get it. Yeah, I was like, let's see you ruin the fucking vibe real quick. I don't even remember what mine is. No, so my naughty is the Met Gala is a huge fucking event. And it's like and these people have so much money and all these stuff. Why are we not fucking fitting the theme? I know. Why are you wearing just a fucking house? No, every single year's a top. You're literally pissing me off. Go home. Is his name so boring? Fuck. There's a basketball player who's gone to like four Met Gallas. I know who you're talking about. I'm like, he bores me every year. He wears a suit. Well, him and his wife go. And his wife he goes by himself. Yo, Joe Burr went, he was wearing a nice fancy ass suit. I guess he was giving us. I feel like the yeah, the guys, like, I think they can do more than they think they can. They can't just do that. I know. Like literally wear a dress. Like, I'm not sure. I wouldn't think. Yeah. Right? Or like you're an athlete and you're not going to be able to do that. I feel like someone just don't wear a shirt. Like, do I don't know. Literally. I just feel like the Met Galley is a big thing. Your body is the art of like experiment and like experiment to you that's a very good thing. That's literally point. And I just think it's so cool, but when people just wear a fucking cocktail dress, get the fucking card. Like I could have showed it. Like, this one girl wore, it was straight off the runway. She wore like these jeans that were like looked like jeans, but they were like supposed to be like see-through. No. I'm sorry. What the fuck? No. Everyone was like defending her in the comments, and I was like, I don't even care. No, like Heidi Claim. Yeah, you don't wear jeans in the fucking walk out. Heidi Claim always looks like she always goes crazy. But does she fit the fucking theme? Yes. She was a motherfucking statue. Yeah. Like, and then like I also Sabrina Carpenter's outfit. Slay. Sabrina House. Sabrina always. Yeah. She looked so good. Because they love Emma Chamberlain. Yes. She ate down too. I love her pixie cut. Emma Chamberlain dress was gorgeous. I don't think I saw her. Gorgeous. It was like you would love it. It's so like colorful. Because I was looking at like side by sides of like basically people's dresses and like their art reference, like what they were doing, and it was so cool. But her weight I did see the little paint on there and stuff. Was it paint? Yes. Oh, I didn't know. So yeah, I watched a video of like literally an artist painting on the dress. She's so sick. See, that's literally our. She was gonna have a brunette pixie with it. I'm so glad she won with that. Okay, the blonde looks good. It matches the vibe a lot better than it really does. She looks crazy, but it's the theme, like it goes with the dress. She looks giving drama. She does, yeah. She needs to be a little bit more. She could be a superhello gala before I die. Like I have to. I think we're gonna go at some point. What the fuck do they do? What's the what they don't do once they're in there? I don't even care. I feel like is it just a concert? There's a concert. I think they look at art and they I think they donate and they like bid on art. Did you? I think. Do you guys see? I should have said this as my hottie. Sabrina Carpenter saying with with um I saw Stevie Nick. Yes. That shit sounded like. I'm like, I love all of like the famous stuff. I saw that. But that she it was beautiful. Oh my god, love that. Everything Sabrina does my slaying the game, but she's like everything she does is like perfect. But I just can't, I'm obsessed with I love I've always loved the Met Gala because I love when people like dress crazy. I didn't even know it was coming, and then all of a sudden, I didn't know who you think was it. I was like, oh my god! But the only thing I was so upset that Zendaya wasn't there. I love her outfits every time. Like last year she wore this like huge dress and like her head was like a part of a flower bouquet. It was beautiful. She Zendaya looked so good too. She too, she did that, and she also had this like moody, like dark blue and dark green, like emerald green like thing, and she had like hummingbirds all over her, but her makeup was like fucking cut a bitch. It's so crazy. I I look forward to her out every year, and she wasn't there. She wears everything so well, too. Like, I think everything looks good on her. I think she's such a cool person. She is. Like, I would want to be friends with her. Same. This is how I feel about the Kardashians. Every time they I always love their outfits. Like one outfit where Kendall's in orange and Kylie's in purple. Like, that is one of my favorite ever. Like they look like that. That one's I think Kendall. Kendall specifically. Yeah. She always fits the vibe. She does. I liked it. I think their BBLs kind of ruin their outfit sometimes, though. Yeah. Because it's like they can't really wear anything that doesn't show off a BBL. Ari and I saw a BBL. Whoa, BBL. No fucking way. We saw BBL. We went. We fucking saw BBL. No in real life. She was there. Tell me how you're affording a BBL. How can you afford servers? No, that shit was a good one. She must hop in on the bottom. No, okay. She looks like a fashion Nova model. Like her bowl. Where was it? I don't know how you fit. In fucking New Hampshire. It was in the Amherst, New Hampshire. What are we doing with a BBL New Hampshire? How do you find jeans that fit a BBL?

SPEAKER_01 27:19

Yo, that shit's custom made shape to the I was so shocked.

SPEAKER_00 27:23

Like sculpted. We were all so shocked at one point. All of us clocked it. We were like, no one said anything. We're like, that's a good one. Was it like a skinny BBL or was it like a BBL? It was a BBL. BBL in the wild. Capital B. Yeah. Okay. Like that thing was like a- Oh, you can't. You should have taken a picture. I've never seen one in person. I said I've never seen a BBL. I've never thrown a picture of you, but can you turn around? I was like, we're gonna put this on the podcast and be like, guys, we saw a BBL in the wild. Yes. I actually can't believe that. Neither I couldn't. See a BBL in like anywhere in New Angle. Yeah. I hope she's happy. I hope. Anywhere on the East Coast, actually. If you just feel so wrong. Right? It's because it is. Okay, let me get to my naughty. You haven't even done your naughty? No, I haven't even done my naughty. So now I'm like trying to go quick. Shit. She's like, I hate spiders. Bye. Next. No, my naughty is when and this just happened earlier, and it's why it's no. When someone texts me, so or okay, my cousin does this. He'll call me. What are we talking about? And then doesn't say anything. And I so I text back, hi, I'm working. What's up? He just goes, I had something to mention to you. Call me back later. Just text me, babe. Please. Now I'm like freaking out. Giving okay. It's giving. Can we talk later? You're getting broken up with.

unknown 28:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:44

I'm gonna kill myself before that. Or like we have to talk later. Yeah. No, we don't. Text it to me right now because now I'm like I can't sit still. No, I hate that shit. But honestly, it's on the other end of it. You're like, I can't tell you over the phone. It's better. Like it's better if I call you rather than also like give me a quick briefing, like anything. Oh, gonna tell you about this later. Yeah. Yes. No, but it's all the other day. She called me and I missed her call, and I was like, oh, I'll call you later. She's like, oh, I have something to tell you. I'll tell you over the phone. No, you can't. Are you listening to me right now? Just give me like spark notes on what it's about, and then I can like. No, it was good news. She's moving out. She's buying a new apartment. Oh, okay. Very good news. But I'm like, like, that just took you four words to say, though. Yes, but I was like, I really just had a lot of emotion. She's a real-time reaction. Yeah, that's true. Sometimes you do need a reaction. Girl, don't even tell me. Just side with you. It's very stressful. I know. It is stressful. Because your stomach just dropped and you're like, now I'm gonna have diarrhea. Yeah, like I'm not sure. I'm getting scared. Well, and you're at work, so you're like minimal time on the phone. You're like, yeah, and I'm like, I can't even tell like I couldn't even text him until I got out. So annoying. He still isn't answered, so we'll see. It's probably about nothing crazy. Okay, so my naughty is nicotine addictions. I've never had one, but I think it's really embarrassing that other people have one, and I would never date a man with a nicotine addiction. It's so bad at work. Everyone's got the fucking patches in their lip. That's bad. Yeah. They're all just stuffing in their lip. I'm like, you love a fucking dumb. No, I really think it's a waste of money. I think it's stupid health-wise. And I think, yeah, I think that's a good thing. Well, it's like so many other things you could be doing and spending your money on. Well, that's what it kind of does to me right off. Well, it's like first flavor of everything. Right. So that's like unattractive in itself. But also the money aspect is also I wasted so much money on it when I had a vape. So that's the other thing I was gonna say, especially at our age, it's embarrassing. A lot of people did it in high school, a lot of people in college. Like if you are in your mid-20s, going into late 20s, and you still have a nicotine addiction, I think we need to do some because I've had people be like, oh, I can't, I can't go on that trip, I don't have money. So you literally spend dollars on nicotine every year. And they're ex vapes are like the disposable vapes are really expensive now. They're like $20 each. Like even when I was in college, they were like 12 to 15. Like, I don't know. Which is glad I never hit that. No, I didn't because like $100. And then now I'm like, I'm so glad I never tried it. Oh yeah. I tried to do it. So really this was just me flexing on everyone who has an addiction on nicotine. Yeah, bum. Like, you sh No, I'm kidding. I just, yeah. I well originally I had written my my naughty was men with nicotine addictions, and then I tell you because I think anybody who has a nicotine addiction, it's just like it's nicotine, period. It is. Yeah. It's just pointless, honestly. Yeah, it is because you know how much it gets in the way. Like I couldn't imagine like dating somebody and we're like hiking and they're like pulling out their vape. How embarrassing? You're on like a 12 hour to like, I don't know, Hawaii. Right. Like I'm on a flight to Hawaii and like you're like fucking fiending. Yeah. Like, I don't know. But embarrassing. Well the reason the whole reason I quit was because I started going to the gym and I was like, I can't be running on the treadmill and getting vaping. Like this is like not helping me in any way. So I was like, I can't breathe because I'm vaping. At least you clocked it. Yeah. It's better when it's not. Well, just didn't start to not feel good anymore. Other than like other people telling me that. Yeah. Like when you move on to the city. Well, that's the only way you can actually quit anything. Of course. It has to, you have to want to. You have to be the adjacent. You can't do it for anyone else. Yeah. And I've tried. Bro, I have tried. Yeah. I can't get anyone to. Yeah. All you can do is protect yourself. All I can do is keep Hey, you can say, hey, I'm not gonna be dating you if you Hey, do you ever think that's a boundary? Yeah. You can keep doing it. I just won't date you. I just want to let you know you're really fucking ugly when you do that. Yeah, so just what do you want more? Drag me up bad. I am turned off so crazy right now. Don't even look at me. Yeah. That's my naughty. Like that is a naughty. Definitely an honor. Buttoned up. But it's called a chastity belt. Yeah, and I my chastity belt is locked. You're done. Wait, what is that? Dude, a chassis belt is loose. A chassity belt? Is they literally lock it in? It's like a metal diaper with a lock on it. So you can't have sex. For who? Like religious people. It's a religious thing. I'm like, is this a kinky thing? I don't think it's in. I can't get in. Everything religious is low-key kinky. Let me get me in. We have to lock men out in a doorplace. The men have to wear them too. Oh, because they don't. I think it's just a women's thing. I thought I've only seen it on one. If you need to put a lock, where am I seeing this? A chassis belt on somebody. I feel like the gag is like, I feel like in like a gag, like they like say, like, oh, the woman has a chassis belt. And then like the men's like, uh. And I say a gag, I'm like, scary movie. I've never heard of this. Scary movie is like a gag on like all scary movies. And they like have like the girl tries to like, or the guy tries to have sex, and she's like, oopsie, my dad's really strict about having boys over. She's got like a child. She's got a chastity belt on my. That's creepy as fuck. I just don't know why. It says that no chastity belts are not exclusively for women. And then it says modern usage. Today's devices are generally used for erotic consensual orgasm. That's what I know. So you can edge people to death, is pretty much what it is. Ew. What do you mean, ew? Just have sex like a normal dog like that. Just ew normal. I thought you meant edging. I was like, everybody edges. No, that's like everybody edges. That's like a part of it. But like nothing. There's some things that are like real strange. Let's not even talk about that. Yeah. Orgasm denial. Why are we denying ourselves of that? That's the whole point. Like you can't have that. That's like edge maxing. Edge maxing. You're edging so bad that you're denying yourself an orgasm. We're literally copywriting that. I want to share it that says edge maxing. I feel like we should just end it there. Shotgun silver. Hotdy of the week. Edge max. Wait, yeah, that is my hottie. Damn. Oh my god. Edgeboxing is my hottie. Shit. Bing bra bla blah blah. Bring back edge maxing, bring back dry humping, bring back knocking out, nothing else. Nothing else. Exactly. All of that is edge boxing. All under the umbrella. Wait, no, you're right. Edge maxing is the umbrella. It starts out here, and then edge maxing. And then there's dry humping. Edgeboxing is the brand of the umbrella. Wait, we're on to something. Yeah, wait. Write that down. Write that down. Should we get into our topic? Yeah, we need to. Awesome. Have you ever heard of the cheerleader effect? No. So the cheerleader effect. It can apply to men or women. And it's when, like, say, we're at the bar and we see like a group of like five guys, and we're like, damn. They like they're really hot. Oh my god. Yeah. And then you go up to them, and like as a group, they're hot, but individually, they are not. Oh, the cheerleader effect. It's like you see them as a group and you're like, wow, that's a good looking group. And then you start pinpointing them, you're like, oh my god. Yeah. Wait, no, you're so right. Isn't that crazy? I feel like that happens all the time. Oh, it happens all the time. Because then you get up close and you're like, you literally see a basketball team, you're like, oh my god. And then you're like, Yeah, because they're all like tall, never mind. Muscular. Or it's like when you like tell like someone like that, like, oh, like that guy's cute, right? And then you actually look at him, you're like, you're like, that bitch kind of ugly. Yeah, yeah. No, wait. That actually is true though. When we were in New York, I got clowned so hard. Oh no. By you. Oh. I'm like, that's awful.

unknown 37:12

That's awful.

SPEAKER_00 37:14

I was like, that's really terrible. Oh my god, that guy. By you and your relatives. Oh, because of who you thought was cute. Yeah, I got pointed out this guy. I was like, oh my god, that guy is so hot. They're like, they all like turn around and then look at me. They're like, are you serious? He wasn't cute. Well, then I'll stand up. I got it from far away, but I got up close and he really looked uncanny. That's how I felt too. He was like it was like he was pretty, but he was like scary pretty. Yeah. Well, he had nice hair eyes, but something else was going on that he was calling it. He had like nice hair and a jawline, and then yeah. He was blonde. You're right, though. You did clock that. He was blonde. He was blonde. He was like okay. Well, he wasn't, he was like a dark blonde. Dirty little blonde. Most of them are. You're right. Damn. She's shaking. It's the really light blondes that freak me out. Yeah, because how's that possible? Because this guy had really dark eyebrows. He did. It's giving me what I was doing. And Liam was like, that guy looks like a Wall Street douchebag. He's not cute at all. Without going into detail, someone in my group went up to a guy, asked for their number, and he like could not be bothered. Like did not want to give it to her. After talking to her the entire time. Literally. Yeah. Oh what? Literally. They were talking for a little bit, but then they were talking all day. For like we were there for like four hours. Oh, that's a that's weird. Another girl has her arm around him as sh my friend is asking for his number. They're also watching a game, so he's like distracted. He's like, Oh yeah, I don't really date. Like, I just got out of relationship. I don't really date. As a girl has her arm around him. He's like, I just want to hook up. Okay, so I just gave you my number. I never thought maybe that's what he would do. Like, this is a good thing. What do you want to think I want to date, you like someone, a girl finally goes up to a guy, like they've been telling us to do, and this is what happens. Alex Cooper. It is such numbers. And that is annoying that, like, like we have to get better at rejected. Like, even if you're not into me and we were chatting and like having a nice time, like we could just be friends. And you could just be able to work. Yeah, no one's rude. Right. At least be like, yeah, let's like keep in touch. Like, I don't I'm don't think I'm gonna get into a relationship. But like I wouldn't. I don't even know if you have to say that. Like, just you literally do not have to be able to do that. Yeah, we we had a good time. Let's keep in touch. Like, that's he could give in the phone number and then never answered again. Right. Which I don't know if that's better, but it's better than like almost being projected to the face. No, that's exactly as hell. Right. But guys, I didn't tell you. When you guys were gone, I got hit on this weekend.

unknown 39:55

Oh!

SPEAKER_00 39:56

I got hit on. You'll never guess. It was 13 years old. Oh, Jesus Christ. Hey guys, it was at the Tuscan village again. A 13-year-old came up to you. I swear to God, they were in middle school. I swear. I've been hit. What the fuck? I've been to Tuscan Village two times with people from work, and both times I got hit on by middle schoolers. What are they doing? I see every time I go, what's giving I look like Hayley back. Every time. I'm like, what is giving? I'm like, wait, yeah, what? What did they say? Okay, so me and my friends. We were just went out from work, and so we went out to work uh eat, and so we went out for food, and then we were hanging out by the area where like the the fire pits are. Right. And so we're all just we're just hanging out. It's just me and her, and we're just hanging out, and then all of a sudden we're like looking at pictures on our phone or whatever, and then all of a sudden this these group of like three guys come over, and they're like children. Three little three boys, three little lads came over. They literally got dropped off by their mom. Yes, I was like, I was like, were they even there? I I don't know. So did you ask? Like, how old are you by the way? No, they come over to me and they're like, yo, my boy over there. No, my boy over there wants to holler at you. I said, Wants to holler at me? Holler, holler at your boy. And I'm like, he's sitting over there in the corner. He's like, he's sitting in the shadows in a fucking long chair. Ew, not the lip bite. That's what he's doing. Yes. He's just sitting there like this. I'm like, like, do I look like I'm also in middle school? I look at them. Why did he think? I look, I'm like, in what world would you have? I'm old!

unknown 41:41

Like I'm old.

SPEAKER_00 41:43

But yeah, what did you say? I said, I'm old. Oh, you did say that. I literally said that. I was like, I don't know how old you think I am, but I'm old. Yeah. Older than you. Too much older than you're gonna do. What did they say? Did they know you were? You were like, oh, oh. They're acting surprised. What is happening? I'm sorry. You don't look like you're 13. I'm I would hope. I would hope. Dude, these girls don't go through awkward stages anymore. So they couldn't. You're not just like us in middle school auto. No, this shit was weird. That's true. Nobody's wearing Bermuda shorts or basketball shorts like we used to. No, everyone's like dressed in a nine full beat. Yeah, no, I didn't wear any makeup until I wore fucking up until the end of college. No, like really I never wore any. Well, because I like did sports and stuff. I I never cared. CBLs and a full face of makeup and pretty much the same thing. They're running. Where am I going with a full face of makeup at school? Oh, beat. I would literally go to school with nothing on my face. No. And I'd have I'd have mascara on and a fucking dark lip. I'm like cleaning this up. Yeah, I look great. That kind of is iconic. Yeah, I said, let me put plush on and let me do my eyes. And brush my brows. Oh, of course. Those those shits are fierce. I need to break away from the younger boys. That's crazy. Yeah, we want like older and you're getting half our age. Yeah. So that's my fucking crisis. What is the oldest one date right now? 27. Oh shit. What about you? That's like my age.

unknown 43:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 43:23

That's how old I feel. Girl. I would like 25, by the way. That's like my age. Well, what I feel like once I I'm 25 and a half, so I'm like basically 27. Yeah. I'm 22. I'm just rounding up. I think the old thing is, so I'm basically 16. How old am I? 24? Oh my god. I think the oldest I would go would be like 31. Six years old. Oh yeah. I think I would do like 32. I don't think I could do that. You know what though? If it was someone like really, really hot and he was perfect. And he was 65? No. 37. Oh shit! Okay. So this is what you have. He's an established man. Yeah. He's established. Okay. Like I would say, like, I wouldn't cut it off if he was perfect and my type. Yeah, you had all similar similarities. Okay, but then your child is having a 40-year-old dad. I know.

unknown 44:21

Well.

SPEAKER_00 44:21

So if you Well, love his love. Love is love. Yeah. Yeah, they go perfect father. They have nothing to complain about. No, it is true. At least he's there. I don't know if I could do it. I don't know if I could do over 30. Okay, no, but picture your picture your dream man walks in and he's 31. You're you're saying no. Smash or pass. Yeah. Like smash. I know you're not saying no. No, I know I'm saying no. But just say, just vote. Just vote. Just vote. Just vote. That's what I'm saying. Like, if if like I would push my limits to be with 2020. So you think my dream man, right? At this like I think my my husband's probably 27 right now. But he's probably like a few years older than me. Like I think I think 28 would be good for me. Right now. I'm just thinking also like stages of life. I truly haven't started my adult life until I move out. Right. And then I feel like once I have a little year of moving out on my own, then that's like, okay, I'm an adult for a year. Yeah. It is hard because I just lost my whole train of thought. Oh, I hate when that happens. Wait, when your head goes completely blank, I actually hate it. What the fuck? Sarah, we're wearing the same sweatpants. I know, I noticed. I need to get a new pair. Wait, what was I literally thinking about nicer than mine? I know. I I washed them once and they still feel soft. I'm like, I don't want to wash them again because like when you first get them, they're like perfect. What were we just talking about? Oh, oh, that's what I was gonna say. Like if I started dating like a 31-year-old, like he would probably be like wanting to get married and have kids like very soon. That's true. And I'd be like, ooh, can you wait like five years? Right, no, you're right. The perfect man would wait. Of course. Right. Then what am I concerned about? Exactly. Okay. Also, I feel like men aren't that much in a rush to do that. Well, I guess someone, but they they're not really on a timeline like we are. They aren't, which is yeah, which honestly is nice though, because if we were both on a timeline, we'd be fucked. I know. The world would have no idea. Yeah, you're right. It would be insane if men and women were both on a timeline. Yeah, everyone would just be running around. People would be getting pregnant all the time. The guys would be like, we have to have a baby right now, we never can. Yeah. Right. Wait, what okay? Say your timeline ended next year. Like that's all you had to have a kid. Would you go and have one? Yes. Yeah. Really? Yeah. Like from like a sperm donor? Oh. I feel like I would get myself. Like at this moment in your situation right now. Oh, right. I would literally go to like a sperm donor. If I couldn't first I would make a real attempt to find a man. You know what I would do? I would find somebody. You're like, okay, I have one month and then I'm going. Whether I'm like actually romantically involved with this person or not, I think I would find somebody in my life that I think, wow, this person will be a good dad, whether like we're together or not. And I'd be like, knock me up. Oh, yeah. And then at least my kids have a good dad. Damn. So you're just like friends? Yeah, like we're just friends. Like full house. Let's just raise them together. Okay. Okay. Period. I don't know. I honestly don't know if I would. Okay. And that's your choice. Well, just because like I don't feel like I'm ready to have a kid. Yeah. Right the second. I was thinking about that earlier today because I'm trying to edit something, and my cat would not leave me alone. And I was like, oh my god, get out of here. And then I was like, damn, if that was a child, like I cannot be a mother right now. Oh, I know. Yeah, I'm not ready to have that mental load. It's so stressful. I'm reading Daisy Jones and The Six right now. Still. Have you read it? I've watched the show. Oh, I haven't watched the show yet. So one of the band members, Karen, gets pregnant by one of the other band members, Graham. And Graham really wants to have this baby, and Karen's never wanted kids. And so she like ends up getting an abortion. Graham's like really pissed off. And she was like saying, because like the whole the book is written as if they're in an interview. So like every paragraph like jumps from like person to person. And so she's like talking to somebody, being like, you know, I think that I maybe would have wanted to kit be have kids if I was in Graham's situation because he knows that like if I had this kid, I would have to quit the band and I'd have to take care of the child. I would want a kid if I knew somebody was gonna quit their job and take care of the child. Yeah, but like women don't have that industry. The guys are like, of course I want a kid. You're so nothing changes for me. I don't have to literally I mean stuff does obviously change. Why is it like like the kids? Dads don't tend to be the default parent. Yeah. And so she was like, Yeah, maybe if I wasn't gonna be the default parent, maybe I would want to have kids. So you're like wow, which is so fucking true. That is so true. I thought that was a crazy line. There's a lot of really good lines in this book. And I was like, fuck, no, I agree. I'm like, highlights. I need to watch that show again. Alright, should we move on? Yeah, but let's talk it over. Our question of the week is Is it okay for your friend to be friends with someone who has wronged you? Like this is a great debating question. It's a really good debating question, and I had a I didn't even I have an answer to it. Because there can be good. Okay, yeah, let me read the answers. There's valid points for both. There is. So the the reason I'm having a hard time answering is because I think it's different when like a partner wrongs you versus like a friend.

unknown 49:58

Definitely.

SPEAKER_00 49:58

What did we say when a partner wronged you or a friend? We said a friend. And I just think. But I feel like people are also writing in being like, okay, well, I would never be friends with your boyfriend after you broke up because that would be shady as fuck. Right. That is. Right. Like who gives a fuck about him anymore? Okay, but our answers were girl, what the hell absolutely not, or it's okay, they didn't do anything to them. I I think I said what the hell absolutely not. Right. Because I just I just feel like if you're my close friend at least, I don't think any of my friends would do that. I don't think they would be friends with someone that wronged me. Because it's like a friend to all is a friend to none. Yeah. And I think I would definitely distance myself. I think I'm siding with that. Yeah. I said the other one.

SPEAKER_01 50:41

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 50:42

Do you have an instance where this would work? Yeah. Because so, like, in my instance, like we were all friends. And then I we were all in a group. I started talking to someone, it didn't work out, and then they're still friends. Yeah. So it's like, I feel like that's different because you were all a friend group. It was hard. It's all situational. Exactly. So it was like hard because it's like in my mind, I'm like, it's okay. Like, it's not like I don't need you to make your decisions based upon how I feel about this person. Because I'm really outside of it. Yeah. Like I really don't go to him. Yeah. However, there is still a part of me being like, but he wronged me. Yeah. Because if we were my friends more. That's what I was gonna say. Okay, so let's scrap the boy thing. Yeah. It's fucked up to be friends with your friends' exes. That makes no sense. Yeah. Okay. Say you're friends with a couple girls, and one of those girls totally wrongs you, and then your other good friend stays friends with them. You're thinking they're shady. Yeah. I'm thinking whatever I tell you, you're gonna go tell them. Right. Now I'm concerned about how you're the trust is kind of like faltering. And you know who you told first. I know. It is true, like if you tell one person something, you have to assume they're probably gonna tell one other person. And that yeah and then it just ends up going and going into it. And then, yeah. You definitely do, yeah. Yeah. But I don't know, I don't know if I could I I think I would distance myself. I don't think I would cut it off. I feel like when it's between the city. It depends on what's said and what how you wronged me. Yeah. That's so true. Like if you were a complete bitch to me, like. Then why does anyone want to be friends with you? Right? Yeah. Then why would you still go out of your way to be friends with them? No. Right? I don't know. Like if you hurt my friend, then you also hurt me. So that's how you double over it all. Well, this goes back to like the like cheating thing. One of our questions was about like cheating. Like, would you still be like friends with like one of your friends who cheated? Like, I feel like I wouldn't surround myself with those people. I know. You know? So it's so true. If you're that's what I mean. I wouldn't want to surround myself with that. Like, I don't want to surround myself with that person, but you want to is saying something. Okay, look, and I would just I I think naturally I would feel more distant from them. And so I think natur the natural distance just occurs. Yeah, it does, it does. You know, like it's yeah, it's natural selection. Like I'm just dating all somebody commented and said, if you want to be wronged again, then sure. Exclamation point. With that picture, and I said, This is killing me. Like, yeah, I have a point. Somebody else said, I tried to be, ended up being the worst decision of my life. Cut people off who aren't good for you. Yeah. Yeah. Somebody said, Oh, a friend to all is a friend to none. Well, yes. Yeah. Okay. And then we had somebody write in and said, Depends if you win them in the divorce or not, TBH. Damn. It's like when two of your friends are dating and then they break up, it's like which one of your friends gets to keep you. What's the percentages? Let's see. So 73% said, girl, what the hell, absolutely not. Well, yes, of course. And 27% said it's okay, they didn't do anything to them. Yeah, I do. I think it's situational. That's a situational thing. Situational. And the other one's just straight clothes. Everyone's like, fuck that bitch. Yeah, well, it's like at this point in our lives, like, we have a core group. So like if you're fucking up one of my friends' day, well, it's like I'm fucking up. There's no need to have negativity. And it's like, if you have negativity in my life, I don't give a fuck to keep you in my life. Literally, why? Why do I bring me negativity? What are you bringing to my life? Yeah. Nothing. Poop poop. Right. I just I don't think I would trust them as much. No. No, I agree. And I think I'm too fucking old for this shit. That's what it is. Yeah, so true. And I saw this other thing where it's like, oh, I give so much people, I give so many people grace because it's their first time living. It's my first time living too when I've been. And I learned what it does. I know a lot of people grow the fuck up. You have to stand on it. No, but you do have to stand on it. I think you need to give people less grace because people give people less grace. Yeah. You need to start saying no more because some people haven't been told no in their lives at first. No, and you know what? I'm gonna be the first to do it. I will delay it. I love it. And unfortunately, it's controversial. And I just I'm gonna be in the back and say, tell them, tell them. No, and you know what? My mother, she'll if she came on the pod, she'd say this. If I asked her anything, the first answer, no. And then she'd say, Okay, wait, what do you want to do? Yeah, wait, really? And then you have to like it, and then I'd be like, I want to do this because of the okay, you can go. Then my parents really would be like, So the default is no. But like the default was like, no. My parents, I think the default is yes. Oh. But my parents were not strict, which is so funny, but she was always like, No, wait, what do you want to do? My didn't know. My parents were like, We'll think about it. The answer's no. No, you need to tell me right now's actually. I know the answer's no, so just tell me no. Just like what do you mean you need to do that? So they didn't wait till day of and they're like, you can't fucking go. No, that's I think the other thing. It would have to be a good reason for them to like actually need no, but for some reason that was like the default. Yeah. But I think that, like, honestly, it was good for me because me and my brother were very different. Like, they would tell him no, and he'd be like, Okay, I can tell you this to a yes, and I tried to be a lawyer, and I'm like, these are the reasons I think I should be able to do this. And these are what I kind of feel like it helped me stand up for myself. Yeah, they were like, you know what? Yeah, you can do that. My sister does that scene. And Adam would be like, You get everything. And I'm like, you didn't push hard enough. You didn't lay out the facts, you didn't make a PowerPoint like I did. Guys, this is giving old salesperson. Dude, my sister did that. Is this the younger sibling versus older sibling? Because I just accepted my fate. And then my sister makes a whole fucking PowerPoint. Yeah, she's like, I'm friends with a lot of older siblings, and I do, I'm like, they're always they're like being angry at their younger siblings, and I'm like, oh, that's awful. But it's feeling with the younger siblings. I think it's the nonchalantness. I'm friends with all younger. Oh wow. Except her. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. I feel like it's a nonchalantness. Like me and Adam like are very like go with the flow vibe. Like, what like if we're doing that, we'll go do that. Right. If people want to do that, if the answer is no, okay. Yeah, right. Like it's whatever, but you the younger siblings are like, you know what? I do think actually with the flow, but it's like I don't want to do that. And this is why we're doing the. This is why, and this is why I want to do this. I guess I have a little bit of both, but I am the middle. So that's it makes sense. You get a little bit of both. I do feel like I'm going with the flow, guys. No, I think you are go with the flow. No, but when but I don't think it's like if something goes wrong, it's not like a bossy way. If something goes wrong, I'm like, Why did it not go my way? Yeah, it likes to go my way, but I think that's yeah, well, that's when you tweak out. Yeah. And then it takes after the fact, and then I'm like, the fuck was I all worked up about? That I do that too. Yeah. And I'm like, no, because then I get mad at myself, and I'm like, I had a birthday. That was so dramatic for me. Yeah, for my birthday dinner last year, and I like wanted to have like a certain place setting for everybody, and I was like, I only have 16 plates, like, I need everybody to RSVP. And then we had some people being like, I might be able to come. I'm like, so don't come then. That okay, I can't fit you. That was actually really annoying. I feel like I'm gonna be Bridezilla, and I'm like, I don't want to be. And then the next day I'm like, dude, it was a fucking plastic plate. Get a grip, get a grip. See your point because she's been planning this for like of hours. Yeah. All they have to do is show up or all they have to say is I'm gonna be here at this time. Right. No. And she was like begging them all day, like, please, when are you gonna be here? Like, code in RSVP this week. Oh my god. Yeah, yeah. No, I went full bridezilla and I was like, and then the next day I was like, you bitch. Everyone's dressed. I'm like trying, I'm like, I love hosting. Okay, I love it. I really do. Oh my god. Yeah, when everyone shows up on time, it is perfect. That's how I love it. Do your fucking job. I do want to go into event planning, but maybe I would be too maybe maybe. Maybe that would be perfect because you would lay the fucking line. Yeah, I think that'd be great. I would be a good wedding planner. I'd be like, no phones. If I see it, I'm taking it. Yeah. Wait, you would wait. I could actually see running the wedding. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're like, no, this is this is I'm running the show now. Great wedding planner. Well, because they do that. It's like a wedding coordinator, so that they're the person where the bride doesn't have to worry about anything. It's like this woman is running the show. Lights, so they don't have to do this. I grew up in a hosting family, so like it's in my blood. So when other people are like, wow, I'm like, hey, so this is standard. This is actually the lowest standard. This is what everyone's. Well, I wouldn't really know. This is my bread and fucking butter. This I could do all day long. This is my application. If anyone looks like your planner, I need your job. She'll be the bride's own for you. I see this too. And I like it. Well, this was great. That's it. That is it. I gotta go to the bathroom. I need to like eat again. Where can we find you? Yeah. Shocking, I'm hungry. It's because they had to be. We just ate right before those. Like me, okay? Because I'm little. Anywho. 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