Unfunny Hinge Prompts, Off Campus Baddies & Dating Red Flags

This week, we’re discussing why toe rings are a sign of a true baddie, why our standards have been permanently ruined by fictional men from Off Campus, and why some Hinge prompts should honestly be considered a crime. If you’re a man who’s account say “my biggest fear is… you” just know this is an intervention, we must put a stop to this! 

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Welcome to the Talk Talk Talk Over Podcast. My god, we're back. Hey you guys are Wednesday and we're back in the studio. Yep. We're so back. We're so back. I know back up. Have you guys been? I need to figure out how to get comfortable again. I've been so good. I haven't been here in a while. The sun is out. I know. After a rainy morning. Yeah, thank you. I know. And it's been so fucking windy. I was hanging out with Crystal the other day. Shadow Crystal, actually, she just got back from City. Shout out Crystal. Welcome back, Queen. It has been so windy. A tree literally fell down in my neighbor's yard. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 0:34

That's actually so scary when that happens. I know. It's so loud, too.

SPEAKER_00 0:38

It was. It cracked, and I was like, that's a tree. She's like, what? And all of a sudden you just hear a boom. Dude.

unknown 0:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 0:43

Brutal. It was crazy. Why am I out of breath?

SPEAKER_01 0:46

I know. We're just too excited.

SPEAKER_00 0:48

Well, when I was with Crystal, she was like, Oh, I'm back on hinge. Now let him in the States. Like, I'm back on so she helped me set up my hinge. Oh.

SPEAKER_03 0:56

Oh. And she's the culprit. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 0:58

And I had one back in the day, and then I was just getting like action. Yeah. I haven't had hinge in probably a year or something. And because like, number one, I'm not gonna I'm probably not gonna meet up with you. I'm scared you're gonna murder me or kidnap me. I know. Um, number two, I just feel like it's like one in a million on hinge. It's like really painful. It's hard. So I made a list of prompts that I don't think are funny that men put on their profile. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 1:23

There's a lot of them. Like the common ones that are. Yeah, like the ones that are the big one.

SPEAKER_00 1:27

Yeah. My irrational fear.

SPEAKER_01 1:29

Women. Yeah. Yeah. I see that like every other life.

SPEAKER_00 1:34

That's literally my top one. My biggest fear is you. Or women.

SPEAKER_01 1:38

If you have that and you're listening to this, go delete it right now. It's not funny.

SPEAKER_00 1:42

You need to switch your thing to say that you're not. It's not funny and it's not original. Yeah. It's clearly not women. Um, and then another one that had. Oh my god, I'm choking to death. Oh. This year. This year I really want to be what you talk to your therapist about. I said, now why would I want to date you if you're already emotionally meditating? Why is it all toxic? No, it is. I love you but hate you.

SPEAKER_01 2:08

And you can already tell you before you even read the problem.

SPEAKER_00 2:10

Yeah, the other one that says I'm looking for someone I can bully. Well, I don't want to be bullied.

SPEAKER_01 2:15

Oh, I hate that one. Why would I want to date you? Listen, I love good banter, but the if you're saying you want to bully me, that's like That's so different.

SPEAKER_00 2:23

Like there's a sarcastic humor, but that's like not funny. But the other thing. It's like sarcastic humor's fun every once in a while, but if that's the only way that you're communicating with me, I'm just gonna assume you don't like me. Yeah. Because I don't like it's not the he's mean to you because he likes you like on the playground. Like I don't buy that bullshit. I like a playful like banter, not like of course. Not like you're hurting my accent. I can't tell if you actually like me. My heart is breaking. Yeah. Seriously. Okay, the other one uh I've seen a couple times. Big biggest risk I've taken, joining Hinge.

SPEAKER_01 2:55

Yeah, I've seen that. This is the biggest risk taken, then your life is so boring.

SPEAKER_00 3:01

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 3:02

Or together we could get off this app or something.

SPEAKER_00 3:05

Oh my god. I see that one a lot. Like, I can't tell us what I'm saying. No, you're so right. Yeah. Like, this has not helped me in the slightest. Okay, the last one, well, this one says, This year I really want to disappoint my parents. I saw that one today and I said, Why would I want somebody that would disappoint your parents and my No. I'm not matching with you. I don't know if I didn't know. I've probably seen that one actually. That one, I don't know if it's common, but I saw and it pissed me off. I don't like it though. Another thing that's common taxidermy photos. Oh my god, yeah. Showing me the fish. Yeah, lots of fish, which I can handle fish.

SPEAKER_01 3:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 3:43

This picture was like him and two buddies standing underneath this taxidermy moose. I swear to god, the moose was touching his head. I was like, this is my living nightmare. You X'd so fast. This other guy, he was like standing next to like this deer that he killed, and it was like when they hang him up by the legs. No, I don't like that either. It's creepy. It's it's really creepy. Why do you think a woman is gonna click on that? I don't Yeah, that's sad. It's really sad. Also, when your when you like profile does is like totally opposite of what my profile says. Why do you think we're gonna align? Right? Like this makes no fucking sense. So I'm already struggling with hinge and I've had it for two days. It's definitely such a big struggle. It is.

SPEAKER_01 4:26

Yeah, it's like for some reason, it's like I I rarely go on it. Yeah, like I just go on once in a while to see like who's in my legs is no one good ever. But like I don't know why it's so hard to delete.

SPEAKER_00 4:40

Like I've like debated deleting it, and I'm like, We should do a bonus episode where we each screen share our react to people. Yeah, because that's what we do in our free time episode. Yeah, we were doing that last week, and it was actually really funny. Like a bonus episode of hard. I feel like no one wants to be on a dating app, but I feel like bad because not like bad, but it's like what if and like I don't want to be like closed off to like something that like what if my person is on there. Yeah, you know? That's how I feel. I know. So not trying to do that. Well that's the thing, I'm like not trying to because I feel like at this point I'm like saying I'm not dating because I live in home or like whatever. It's like I feel like I'm just avoiding it. Like I need at least need to be like looking on the market and like being out there, you know. Because it's like I'm saying there's a lot of people that I'm not attracted to on Hinge, but it's the same thing in real life. Like I go to the bar and there's like maybe one or two guys that I think are remotely attractive, so yeah, it's the same thing on Hinge. So I just need to know that it's gonna be one in a million, but my husband is going to be one in a million.

SPEAKER_01 5:37

Yeah, and maybe you would meet him on hinge. I would be more open to it if I wasn't living at home. Right, yeah. Just like the thought of like having someone know where my like whole entire family knows. No, I feel the same way. Or just having a random person pick me up and my parents are home. Like, it's weird. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 5:51

It's just so you gotta meet at least. Especially because like we're dating hopefully like men who are like 26, 27, like they're old. Like, you're picking me up with my childhood. Literally, like, I feel so weird about that. Yeah, no, I agree.

SPEAKER_01 6:04

So it's like we can't even we can't date until we move out.

SPEAKER_00 6:07

I that's how we feel. That's really how I feel.

SPEAKER_01 6:09

There's so many things riding on that.

SPEAKER_00 6:11

I know. So we just need to move out at the end of the day. Yeah. We need a hottie, but we need a hottie. We need a hottie. But so speaking of, we should get it together. Let's get into our hotties and hodies. Ari, who is your gorgeous hottie today? Okay, guys. As you know, I love a big man. Of course. Oh, we know. Me too. Yeah. Luke from Gilmore Girls.

SPEAKER_01 6:34

Yes. Wait, Gilmore Girls is one of my favorite shows.

SPEAKER_00 6:36

Is that the mom's boyfriend? And uh Situation Show. Okay, because I've never watched it. You would love that show. You would. That would be like a really good idea. I've seen like a couple episodes, but like I watched it like three.

SPEAKER_01 6:50

It's one of the only shows I've like been able to re-watch. It's so good. I watch it like every fall because it's so far.

SPEAKER_00 6:58

So when we get our apartment, we can binge it in the fall. I just got the chills. I know what you're kidding. Yes. Yes. Yeah, Luke is like the best guy in that whole thing.

SPEAKER_01 7:07

Yeah, he he's such a bad guy. Is he big?

SPEAKER_00 7:10

He's he's he's like pretty big.

SPEAKER_01 7:11

I mean, like a big thing. He's like really tall. He's very like masculine. I've definitely seen him.

SPEAKER_00 7:16

But like he's always just doing whatever Lorelei wants. Yes. Whatever she needs, whatever support.

SPEAKER_01 7:22

Or he acts like he hates it, but he like he is like down bad for her.

SPEAKER_00 7:28

I just love I love him. I just love him.

SPEAKER_01 7:30

Yeah, I love that. He's gorgeous. And also his nephew, Jesse.

SPEAKER_00 7:34

His nephew.

SPEAKER_01 7:35

Who you know him because he was the dad in This Is Us. I know.

SPEAKER_00 7:39

Exactly. You were saying before you even think. He's cute in that. Also, her first boyfriend is really cute in that too. What's her? Dean.

SPEAKER_01 7:46

Yeah, he's a big thing.

SPEAKER_00 7:47

Love Dean. He they have You're a Dean girl? We're gonna fight. No, no, I'm Luke. No, I'm I'm team Jesse. Okay. Jesse's cute. Jesse's cute. You know, I saw this thing. They were saying that um John Logan looks like Jesse. John Logan from off campus, he looks like Jesse. I kind of see that. And I saw a comparison. I guess we see how they look very similar. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. Or Jesse. I I I don't like the last boyfriend.

SPEAKER_01 8:15

Um Logan? Yeah, I think it's I think it's Logan.

SPEAKER_00 8:20

I didn't, I think, I don't know. I didn't really like him that much.

SPEAKER_01 8:23

I like liked him, but he was kind of just a dick.

SPEAKER_00 8:26

Yeah, I don't know. Sometimes I've been to that. Yeah, but he was like a rich like dick, so it was kind of like attractive. Kind of worked. And the whole like when he like when he was about to get married and they Rory and it That was fucked up. Yeah. That was so funny. They like hook she like they were about to get married and he she she hooked up with him. I'm sorry, I just don't remember that for when we watch it. I the camera will see my face in that last time, but I just saw a picture of what Dean looks like now from Gilmore Girls, and I just I don't think he looks good, right? I was really shook. He does not look good, yeah. Yeah, no, I'm not sure. I've never I didn't think he was. He was kind of cute when he was younger, but not as cute as Jesse. His hair like carried him. I know. Jesse is just like a big thing. I mean his hair was it was giving bowl cut.

unknown 9:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 9:15

No, but look at the bottom corner. Yeah, he's cute. But Jesse, I still Jesse has like that little like smirk face. Like one is a little bit of a big thing. I love it. And he's actually getting mischievous. Yeah, yeah. I love that.

SPEAKER_01 9:27

And that's how he is in the show, and that's why it's attractive.

SPEAKER_00 9:30

Yeah, it's like that.

SPEAKER_01 9:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 9:32

I like that. Wow. Forever aloop. That was a good hottie. Forever a loot girl. I love the Gilmore girls. So I love Gilgamesh. No, I'm gonna comment the one emoji. Comment the coffee. The Gilmore girls emoji. Okay, Sarah who's your hottie.

SPEAKER_01 9:47

Um, okay, my hottie, I feel like you're gonna agree with this one. My hottie is um when my feet are pretty.

SPEAKER_00 9:55

Yes, I love that picture. Or like if my feet are pretty, I just feel so good all around. When my toe ring is out. My toe ring when I when I have a pedicure, when I have my anglets on. When I have like a slutty little sandal on with like a baby heel. Yes. Yeah, like I'm like I want everyone to look at my feet. I I want pictures of my feet. Yes, I do not get the feet hate. Like, I love I love it. Sorry. Well, it's like such a big thing. I love having my toes out and I love them being pretty. Yes, I love them being grossed. My toes are adorable. Right. Why are we hating? Your toes are cute. Yeah. Sue me. Golf a bit, my top. But a pedicure can cure everything. I really can. I really love it. On my worst day, we'll turn it around. Right. Sitting and throw a toe ring on and especially when I must love for a toe ring on. I love my nail artist because she just like won't even say a word. Like she'll chat with me for a beginning when I first get there, and then I can sit there and read my book. Yeah. And get a pedicure. Thank you. Oh my gosh. And get massage. There's really not much that can beat that. Yeah. Yeah. The mashage chair. Massage chair. I was once told that I was a slut for having a toe ring, and I kind of agree. You know what? Then I'm a double slut. I have two toe rings. I'm a double. Me too. I feel like I don't know. I feel like people are weirded out by toe rings. I'm like, I don't know why. I had never heard that before. I was like, most people that I am friends with right now have toe rings. We're all sluts. We're all friends with sluts. I'm not friends with ugos, and that's because I'm friends with hotties. So I don't know. Forbid sue me. Yeah, sue me.

SPEAKER_01 11:32

I love a toe ring. I love when my feet are pretty.

SPEAKER_00 11:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 11:34

And I want them out, and I want everyone to see them. I want them out. I agree.

SPEAKER_00 11:38

My toes are pretty. I agree. I'm a full, full-fledged agree with that. I thought you would agree with that. We know that. I do. I know. She's for me. I'm for the feet. I think why are we ashamed of any part of our body, especially the feet? Amen. Come on. No, it's so true. Why are we that it's like propaganda it is propaganda? It's like why are we don't take care of their feet now? They have to shame everyone else. It's not my fault. You're insecure about your hairy toes. You can shave them. You can't shave them.

SPEAKER_01 12:04

You can wash them down in the shower. Wait, that's the other.

SPEAKER_00 12:08

We talked about this how they don't clead their feet. Yeah, they don't clean their feet. They don't clean their legs. What are we talking about? Our legs. Wait, I was sitting in the shower last night washing my feet. And I was thinking that about our conversation. There's a man out there who literally stopped mid-torso and said, or maybe not even the torso. And I said, Oh my god. Not washing below the bowel. That's what I'm saying. We already talked about yeah. Yeah. That's disgusto. I'm pretty sure Mel Robbins said she doesn't.

SPEAKER_01 12:39

That might be it was Mel Robbins or someone close that looks like her. I think it was her. She said she does it, she only does up here in the side of the room. All natural.

SPEAKER_00 12:52

It feels like they're trying to prove something, and I don't know what they're trying to prove to. But like I think they should stop. They know they should start. I will wash my body and then I stand in there and I start washing my face and I'm like, shit. Did I not wash my body? And then I'll just go. No, I do that too. Yeah. By the time I go to the shower, I've cleansed four times. I'm not risking it. I don't want to be the stinky kid. Nobody wants to be the stinky kid.

SPEAKER_01 13:14

Definitely not.

SPEAKER_00 13:15

No one.

SPEAKER_01 13:16

Do not risk hottie.

SPEAKER_00 13:17

Yeah. Being stinky is a naughty. My hottie is like pretty obvious. I mean, it's Dean from off campus.

unknown 13:25

Oh.

SPEAKER_00 13:25

She's perfect and gorgeous. And I love anywhere that there's a sexual tension where like you're low-key not supposed to be having sexual tension. I know. Like makes it ten times better, or like you're having sex somewhere you're not supposed to. Like when they knew that like Jarrett and uh what's her name? Oh, we're Hannah were like in the other room and like he was eating her out. Oh my god, yeah. What could be like they knew what they were doing. I'm jealous of it. I fear like off campus is making me like go insane. Yeah. Yeah. I have to feel like me too. Because I my whole watching. I'm listening to the soundtrack every day. I'm listening to edits every day. I'm like, keeping editing content. I'm like drooling of like having dreams about it. Yeah. I can't. I'm seeing that I dream about two. I have to be alone. Dean's in my dreams. No, he's so gorgeous, and this is where I stand that like hair color doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you're a book like that. He could also definitely pull off like a buzz cut. Dude. Like he could totally pull it off. And I love a buzz cut if you can pull it off. He's perfect. But like I'm also I feel I'm so perfect.

SPEAKER_01 14:36

Same.

SPEAKER_00 14:37

I think Dean just outweighs it for me. Something about his like because he still has the sexy, silly banter, but he is also sweet. Like I feel like Garrett, he only has that sweet level to him. Yeah. Like at the beginning, he was like kind of had it to him, but now he the two of them are like only sweet. Like I think Dean will keep the spark alive.

unknown 14:56

Right.

SPEAKER_00 14:56

Yes. Yeah. That's just for sure.

SPEAKER_01 14:58

I no, I agree with you.

SPEAKER_00 15:00

If I got my hands.

SPEAKER_01 15:01

If I had on any of them.

SPEAKER_00 15:06

Yeah. Well come a day.

SPEAKER_03 15:08

That's common day.

SPEAKER_00 15:10

So if you look anything like Dean, please. Oh my god. Leave a call, then. We're on our fucking way. Yeah. Please. I don't even want to talk about naughty'cause I just want to think about him. I know. Okay, tell us. Okay, tell us. You're naughty. My naughty makes me want to fucking die. Oh no. Oh. Oh no. Is it the secrets of the universe? Yeah, the secrets of the secrets of the universe. I've been losing my mind. It's Usher and his stupid little cherry segment. What? Have you seen this? She has comics. Wait, I don't know what you're talking about. Okay. Wait, okay. He so he has his concerts, and there's a part where he walks around the crowd with a bowl, a little dish of cherries. Of like cocktail cherry. Like two cherries together. Like a maraschino cherry. Like maracino. Maracino, maricino. Two of them together. Um then he goes up to girls and they be licking the shit.

SPEAKER_01 16:08

How old is he of them? He feels too old to be doing that.

SPEAKER_00 16:11

The women are like older too, and they're licking them and sucking the other. I'm upset. Yeah, I mean if you're going to an Usher concert, there's a video of this woman is like dirty, look like licking the shit. Oh god. Like in and out of her mouth, and he's like in and out of camera. Zooming in on him. He's like. Wait, I I feel like not having it. I have to show you. This isn't. Because doesn't he have like a standing show in Vegas? I think so. Yeah. Wait, you guys go every time. Yeah, we should totally go. I'm not eating one of those. Usher cherries. No, because where is he getting that? No, I'm eating the cherries. Sign me up. Sign me the fuck up. Is Usher hot? Usher has little dimples. He's cute. Oh, he's cute! Look up a video. Actually, it's really cute. It's like actually the craziest thing I've ever seen. They're eating them. Oh, but they're like do the most. Like it's a performance. I'm obsessed. You have to pick somebody who's like, like, I would be like embarrassed. I wouldn't be doing anything cute. Yeah, I wouldn't decide like me, me, me.

SPEAKER_02 17:12

Like, all right.

SPEAKER_00 17:13

They've been practicing. Oh. For sure. Wait, I'm dead. Would you practice for that? No. She's like, practice.

SPEAKER_03 17:20

I'm like, no.

SPEAKER_00 17:25

That's funny. I wouldn't. My first thought though would not be to like suck on this cherry. I feel like give me that. I'm on my body. No, you know what I would do? What would you do? Oh. You would tie it. I would tie the fucking cherry at the end of the stem. Because I can do that with my tongue. I can do that too. I would take the cherry off and throw it in the stem. I mean it's fucking changed. I got it. Wait. The crowd's going crazy, and I'm like, guys, hold on. Ten minutes later. I did it.

SPEAKER_01 17:54

Tie it into a heart. Yeah. That's your next trip.

SPEAKER_00 17:56

Oh my God. Yeah, this shit is crazy because there was some free thing.

SPEAKER_01 18:00

I have nothing to do with you naughty. Wait, I know. Oh, like naughty naughty.

SPEAKER_00 18:07

It is naughty naughty. I mean, yeah. And if it's gross, then it's not. But like it's naughty, but it's also gross because it's like.

SPEAKER_01 18:12

I think it's a little gross.

SPEAKER_00 18:13

But we'll show you how to do it. He knows what he's signing up for. Oh, for shit. For sure that's the whole thing. And they do too. No, that's really good. I'm not gonna lie. I love that. Okay, so what's your naughty?

SPEAKER_01 18:25

Oh, my naughty, and I'm gonna come for some people with this. So I hope neither of you do that.

SPEAKER_00 18:30

I probably, I honestly probably do. I don't think you do, and I don't think you do either. I know you do.

SPEAKER_01 18:36

Guys, people who drink milk with like every meal.

SPEAKER_00 18:40

Oh, no, we don't. You don't do my father right now. I haven't drank milk since probably elementary.

SPEAKER_01 18:46

I think drinking plain milk in general is disgusting. It's so gross.

SPEAKER_00 18:50

You know so many people who do it. A cookie? Of course.

SPEAKER_01 18:55

I'll do that and I'll dip a cookie in. Or a brown. I've never liked. You dip a brownie in a milk?

SPEAKER_00 19:02

Yeah. Oh. Get it all. I love that. But my dad's a freak. He'll have like that's something on our. Sorry, I'm coming for him. It's like an old white thing. Like, it's such a white person's thing. All of like our our older relatives on like that side of the family, they all drink milk with dinner. Like they always have. I think that's disgusting. Every time my dad has lactose intolerant. No. You just don't like the flavor of milk.

SPEAKER_01 19:26

I hate milk. I think it's disgusting. Milk, yeah. Well, I knew someone that used to always be eating like spaghetti and meatballs and you have a glass of milk.

SPEAKER_00 19:35

That's a huge thing. That makes me want to gag. It's very American. Very American core.

SPEAKER_01 19:41

Yeah, it's so like old white American core.

SPEAKER_00 19:44

You're old and white American. But why am I? I'm like nostalgic for it. I think it's kind of sweet. No. I'm like not agreeing with you guys today. I think you say I'm like wrong. You're like cherry's hot. Milk hot. Milk is a hottest. Sweet. Okay, sorry. No, but I do get it.

SPEAKER_01 20:02

Like I can't. Like milk makes me get it. Like, literally, if I had like more than a little sip of it, I would get it.

SPEAKER_00 20:08

I cannot like the flavor of milk. I don't agree with that at dinner. I'm more of a chocolate milk girl. I like ch chocolate milk. I can get it. I literally never think to drink any kind of milk unless I'm having cereal, really. Like, who would though? Really? I don't know when I've had a glass of milk. I don't know. They thought I don't know anyone. You do know some people.

unknown 20:25

God.

SPEAKER_00 20:26

Well, my family's never been a milk family.

SPEAKER_01 20:27

Like, we don't even we haven't had a carton of milk in my house. You guys like eat cereal? What? No, we don't have cereal ever. I mean, we have like half enough because my parents drink it with coffee.

SPEAKER_00 20:38

But like we never have baking and stuff.

SPEAKER_01 20:40

We'll get we'll get it if we need to bake with it.

SPEAKER_00 20:43

If we need to.

SPEAKER_01 20:44

Yeah, but we don't usually keep milk in it.

SPEAKER_00 20:46

Yeah, because if you don't use it, that shit goes bad like like that. Yeah. So that's disgusting too. This is so silly. It's a good naughty. I feel so strongly about it hating. Okay, I guess. That's a good naughty. My naughty is that I'll never be able to like perceive myself from like somebody else's perspective. Like I'll never be able to like see my own face or like the back of me like walking away. I'm envious of you bitches. I wish I could see the back of me. Like what the back of my head looks like. I don't know. That does not come. That's not my business. I've never had a nice knowing that. Do you ever want to just be like able to see yourself like from an outsider's perspective? Like we're never gonna get like I've only ever seen my face in photos and in the mirror. Like I see your guys' face every day and you've never seen it.

SPEAKER_01 21:42

I've never seen my face.

SPEAKER_00 21:45

You've never You don't know You don't even know who you are. You don't know who you are. Well, being perceived is like kind of scary because what if people don't perceive me the same way that I perceive myself? Yeah, what if I saw myself and like who is that? Yeah, like. Like, I don't know. No, it's true because I perceive myself as like perfect. So maybe we do. I don't want to be disappointed. I'm like, that's it. That's all I'm working with. Everyone's been lying to me this whole time. Damn. Yeah. Well, that is a naughty too, I guess. Okay, so what's your naughty? Oh, that you can see you'll never see your.

SPEAKER_01 22:24

I'm like, my naughty is that I I don't want to.

unknown 22:27

Yep.

SPEAKER_00 22:28

My naughty is that that could happen to me and I don't want it to happen to me.

SPEAKER_03 22:31

Like, don't make that up. It could happen to me.

SPEAKER_00 22:34

I can perceive myself from an out-of-body experience. Yeah. Wow. That would be crazy. These were some good ones today. Yeah, these are good. Yeah. Oh my god. We're getting creative. 20 episodes in. We're still coming up with good stuff. 21. Still keeping it for the episode. 21. 21. Shall we get to our topics? Yes, we should.

unknown 22:52

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 22:56

Ariana has a question for us. I have a question for you guys. Okay. I'm scared. Dream destination. Okay. Is this a question? The cottage. Oh my god. Cousins Beach. Cousins Beach, what is that? What the fuck? Guys, from um The Summer I Turn Pretty. I didn't watch it. Oh my god. Wait, I watch it too. Or Malone's the bar from off campus. Ooh. The cottage. Well depends. Who's there?

SPEAKER_03 23:36

Who's there?

SPEAKER_00 23:37

Who's there? Ilya. Ilya. Oh, so they're there.

SPEAKER_03 23:40

Yeah, they're there.

SPEAKER_00 23:42

They're there. Both of them are there. The cast is at these places. Oh shit. Like, this is real game. You're in the story. If the cast is there, fuck, how am I gonna do that?

SPEAKER_01 23:52

Dude, I'm going to Malone's and I'm Macin' up Dean.

SPEAKER_00 23:55

Okay, how are we getting Dean away from Alley Cat?

SPEAKER_01 23:57

Oh, true. His Alley cat.

SPEAKER_00 23:59

Yeah, but Logan is available. Oh, Logan's available. Logan's available. Logan? Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 24:05

He's single.

SPEAKER_00 24:06

Yeah. Because I'm not gonna I don't think I'm going to go. Poe's available.

SPEAKER_01 24:11

No, I'm not going there. Fuck those guys.

SPEAKER_00 24:14

Okay, what if we changed it and it's okay. Have you all seen you've both seen Challengers? Yes. Okay, so what if it's the cottage? The dorm room or the hotel room where all three of them are making out of the bed. Oh my god. And I gotta make the thing. And you get involved. Yeah, yeah. Oh, we get to make the kids. Wait. We're changing this up. I like this. No women are there. It's just us. Oh yeah, we are the women. So we are the women. Okay, put us into it. I'm going to Malone's then, if that's the case. Yeah. I'm going to Malone's. If Ellie and Hannah aren't there, we're fucking shit on. Yeah. Shit on. We're there. Yeah. Okay, yeah. I'm picking Malone's Malone. And then on the way home, I'm stopping by the hotel.

SPEAKER_03 24:56

And then I'm gonna probably spend out a weekend at the cottage.

SPEAKER_00 25:00

Oh, okay. I like that cottage. Okay, but if you have to choose one, where are you going? Malone's. Malone's.

SPEAKER_01 25:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 25:06

And I'm making it count. I'm taking it count. That photo booth is not out of order, let me tell you. Yeah. It is in order.

unknown 25:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:13

Wait, what if we get, can we get to choose like who we are? Like I'm I'm Allie.

SPEAKER_00 25:17

Oh, I'm picking Allie all day. Yeah. Okay, but like I would be Hannah. Well, you want, yeah. Oh, you want Gareth. But you wouldn't be as cringe, so that's fine. Thank you. I would sing.

SPEAKER_01 25:26

You would be way better.

SPEAKER_00 25:28

You probably could not handle four pina coladas, though, just like her. No. Yeah. We we are the same. Four pina coladas is insane. Four pina coladas, I can't handle that either. I mean she never drinked 4,000 calories. It's also a frozen treat, which is filling, and I have a brain for me. That's what I'm saying. Like by the time I'm done with pina colada, I'm full, and I'm not even drunk because there was Yeah, it was a full meal. I agree. The frozen things don't do it for me. I don't like frozen. Yeah. I think it's good for like a little sweet treat, but I'm not drinking four pina coladas in one night. Yeah, that's insane. She's a child for that. She is. She's a child. She literally didn't drink. Yeah. She also is 19. Like, there's so many other drinks. She also could have switched it up. Guys, she could have had a bottle of crayon.

unknown 26:12

Right.

SPEAKER_00 26:12

No, she wouldn't do that.

SPEAKER_01 26:14

No, but she went for four pina coladas instead of.

SPEAKER_00 26:16

Actually, maybe she would. Allie's not having a pina colony. That's how I would change up. Allie's having fucking bloody martini. I was gonna say a dirty martini. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 26:23

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_00 26:24

Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 26:26

Yeah, they don't really get along that well.

SPEAKER_00 26:27

Okay, if you could remove one guy from that cast, who would you remove? From off campus. Yeah. I'm now I like forget. Okay, I had some fucking show. Number one, the guy from the bar. Oh, oh, oh. Oh. Hunter? The guy who she hooked up with. Yeah. Yeah. She's Hunter something. Hunter's ruining the pot for me because I just want them to live happy after.

unknown 26:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:50

Number two is I'm removing the fucking band guy. I don't give a fuck about him. I don't have him from the beginning. He's annoying. Oh, yeah, I'm removing. I have like actually nothing. Wait, I'm removing Jules. Wait, Jules is gone. She's Jules. She's out of jail. Jules is the person who does the content. Oh. And they're the one who kept recording everything and posting it. Like your friends are getting in beef. No, they were so annoying. They were pissing me off. That was pissing me off too. Yeah, that was so rude of them. No, no, no, no. Wait, I loved this game.

SPEAKER_01 27:17

Wait, so what did you say you're picking? You're picking Malones also.

SPEAKER_00 27:19

Yeah, we're all picking Malones. I'm picking Garrett's bedroom. I'm picking Wait, I was low-key still pissed at Garrett, though, when she walked up and he was like eating that stranger out. Yeah, that was crazy. Because at the end of it, we watched it. Oh, that was the three of us watched fucking off campus in one sitting. Yeah. He sat down and we binged it, so like I didn't have time to really process it. Like at the beginning, he was like supposed to be like a dick player. And then at the end, he's like the sweetie.

SPEAKER_01 27:44

That's how his character development made no sense.

SPEAKER_00 27:46

And I like for I like forget that he devoted to her. Yeah, it made no sense. I like forget that he was like a dick at the beginning. Like, same with Dean. Well, Dean wasn't like a dick, but he was just a player. Like, he just got a lot of things. He still says that he is. He said everyone likes to get a big thing. He likes it. Like his character makes sense as a roller coaster. Yeah. He's gorgeous. Yeah. Oh, I would ride that roller coaster. Okay, but Allen needs to lock the fuck in because why the fuck are you like just if I found a guy like this? I don't care. My heart is getting broken. Why does she even care? I'm not caring if my heart's getting broken. I'm lo I'm down. No, but she's like caring about what other people are thinking. Like, who gives a fucking thing? Yeah, they don't care. They're gonna be happy. Literally, who gives a fucking? Yeah, she's not like your last place with her friends. So fucking boring.

SPEAKER_03 28:29

Boring.

SPEAKER_00 28:30

You have to make a skeptic. Come on. No, wait, really? I'm gonna like mapping out when they were gonna hook up. Yeah, and she was like she was like wanting to do literally. See, that's not hot at all. Even a little bit.

SPEAKER_01 28:44

That's like the most unhaunted.

SPEAKER_00 28:46

She didn't want to do missionary anymore. And he was like, but I like it. She's like, of course you fucking do. Yeah. Kill us both right now. And you know what? She's so good. Like, no wonder we should not settle for a boring sex life. I'm not. What are we doing?

SPEAKER_01 29:01

Well, if it's boring, you need to find someone else.

SPEAKER_00 29:03

If it's boring, then you don't like them.

SPEAKER_01 29:05

Yeah, you don't like them at all. Yeah. Break up with them. No, I agree.

SPEAKER_00 29:09

I fullheartedly agree.

SPEAKER_01 29:10

Well, kind of on the same topic, I had this revelation.

SPEAKER_00 29:13

Ooh.

SPEAKER_01 29:14

And I actually already told Kara about it because we were walking on the beach and I just I thought of this and I couldn't wait.

SPEAKER_00 29:20

Well, our beach talks are like my favorite. The second we hit the sand, it's like anything that's ever happened to us in our life, we're talking about it. We're talking about it. We are talking about it. I don't know what it is about. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_01 29:32

We we did 11,000 steps. We walked for two hours straight.

SPEAKER_00 29:36

Damn. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 29:36

Yeah, it was awesome.

SPEAKER_00 29:37

It was crazy.

SPEAKER_01 29:38

But anyways, I came to this revelation that we so you know how we keep saying we need to go up to people?

SPEAKER_00 29:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 29:45

Like at bars and stuff. I came to this revelation that if we don't go up to people, then we're gonna have no say in who we end up with.

SPEAKER_00 29:54

I'm sorry. Right.

SPEAKER_01 29:55

We're not getting to actually choose anyone. We're just waiting for someone to choose us.

SPEAKER_00 30:00

Wait, I forgot we talked about this. You're so right.

SPEAKER_01 30:03

And I hate that feeling.

SPEAKER_00 30:05

Yeah, like I want to be in control. Yeah. Right. I want to go up and pick it up.

SPEAKER_01 30:09

Like I want to pick someone, yeah. And maybe someone will come up to you and pick you too, but like you can also go out looking for yourself.

SPEAKER_00 30:18

You just need to get braided to choose you as well. Yeah. Right. You know. Like if you're just waiting, then go to you and you choose them. Like, why can't we do the same? Exactly. Um, I'm just scared. But yeah, I'm terrified.

SPEAKER_01 30:30

It was so scary.

SPEAKER_00 30:32

God forbid. It was just scary.

SPEAKER_01 30:34

Well, also, everyone is like closed off at the bar now. Like, I feel like it's like everyone just sticks to the groups that they came with. Yeah, it's not even like the conversation.

SPEAKER_00 30:40

It's intimidating myself because I know all of us can have like basic conversations. It's like the walking up to somebody is just like so daunting.

SPEAKER_01 30:48

Yeah, and being scared they're not gonna want to talk or it's like they always do.

SPEAKER_00 30:52

It was like my will to talk to new people at a bar. Me too. Like I played in uh my soccer league at work. Oh, you did! Really exciting. Oh, you played. Yeah, it was really fun. Um, but like the team was like mostly guys, like the other team, and like it's all like for fun. So I'm just talking. Yeah, yeah. Oh my god, like I'm gonna do that. That's a great way to meet people. Yeah, so like after the game, I was like talking to a few people. We should go next week and watch it. It's really nice. You should you should okay. But yeah, it was like like in that environment, I felt no pressure, no nothing, and I was talking to like everyone. Because there's no expectations. Like we're just here to like play a game. I don't know if it's because like at the bar, it's like kind of like aware that like you're supposed to be like.

SPEAKER_01 31:36

So it's like everyone's out in public for a reason. Right.

SPEAKER_00 31:39

Like it it just gives me more anxiety that like I'm like, I know. Well, then that's the other thing is that like if you go up to somebody that you're interested in and like you're going up for a conversation, I feel like I'll get nervous. Like, I hope they don't assume I want to go home with them. That too. Like I just want to like get to know themselves. Yeah, just get to know someone. And so sometimes it could be like I have to like put out there that I'm flirting, but like not too hard that they think I'm like trying to make this it's hard to look at. It's just like it's so intimidating. It is challenging.

SPEAKER_01 32:07

But like even on hinge, like I don't like a lot of the time I just go through my own likes. I don't like go and like anyone. But then again, I'm just waiting for someone to come to me. Right. And it's like I don't I'm not giving myself a say in anything.

SPEAKER_00 32:19

Right? Like I know, like I always say, I'm like, I just need to be carefree about it. Like just chat. I know. Because really, what's the worst thing that can happen? They say they're not interested, and then I say, Okay, well, you're stupid. Yeah, like why wouldn't you be interested? Wait, I have something that goes perfectly with this. I have a few questions, okay? Oh. Would you stop seeing somebody if? And I listed a couple good things. Okay. Stop seeing someone if. Yeah, like if this happened, would you stop seeing them? Okay. Okay, I'm following. Would you stop seeing someone if they brought up their ex three times on the first date? Yes. Yeah. I would absolutely stop seeing them. You're not over that. Like, why? Exactly. No, I agree. Go agree, but it's just unnecessary.

SPEAKER_01 32:57

Like, you're on a date, it's like an unspoken rule, you don't talk about exes. I think it's normal. Until way down the line.

SPEAKER_00 33:03

You think? I feel like within the first like five, I think it's okay to talk about exes just so. Maybe if it comes up. Because there's no like involved. Yeah. Right? There's nothing. But like not like me and my ex went on vacation. Like, I don't want to hear that. But like I feel like chatting about like what happened is like relatively normal. Well, I feel like, like, oh, if you like had an experience with someone, it happened to be like a past relationship. Like, you could also just leave that out. We're also like older. So it's like obviously we've been with other people. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 33:31

You know, so if actually I actually did this.

SPEAKER_00 33:36

You did what?

SPEAKER_01 33:38

Well, okay, I was just gonna say, like, if they ask you about your ex, because I was on a date with someone who's like from my hometown, so he like kind of knew I was dating someone, and then we weren't together, obviously. So he asked me, like, what happened.

SPEAKER_00 33:51

So, like, I feel like that's fine. Yeah, and it was like we both knew that person is like, whatever. Yeah. Okay. Would you stop seeing someone if they refuse to watch Heated Rivelry with you? Yeah. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 34:02

You're closeted.

unknown 34:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 34:03

Why are you scared to be turned on? Yeah. We're all turned on forbidden. We all are. I don't know how you wouldn't be. Okay, perfect. We know the purpose of the show. You're also homophobic. Canceled. Would you stop seeing someone if they put on one sock, then a shoe, and then the other sock, and then the other two. Dude. I have this written in our fucking color. Because yes, I won't stop talking to them. That's fucking weird. Okay, well, if you were talking. Well, we I wouldn't call them serious con Like why? Why are you seeing it? Serious conversation. Why? Like, why do you sit down and in the grand scheme of things, it really doesn't fucking matter. Like they're just gonna put their shoes on. But it's definitely silly. It's just like not normal at all. Yeah, like even. I don't think I'd stop seeing them though. I don't know if I'd stop seeing them, but I would definitely. I mean, I yeah. What is that? Because like the first couple of times you see them. I would definitely clown them. Right. Like I'd have to clown you for that. Yeah. But like, I mean, when would you start seeing someone put their socks on? Like a month into it. You're like sleeping over. Probably. And they're getting ready for work and you're like, wait a damn second. You do that every morning. Socks shoe. Dude, wait, socks shoe. Socitly ready on this side in your despair. Yeah, what if there was like a fire or something? You're running out. When has it ever happened? When has done what if that is not an issue? That happened to me in um, I mean, nothing that drastic, but like the fire alarm went off in the middle of the night when I was in college, and we all had to go outside like in our dude, that happened to me too.

SPEAKER_01 35:37

There were people in like robes and like towels.

SPEAKER_00 35:39

And the people below us like tried to microwave noodles or like pasta, like the mac and cheese. Oh my god! My English. The mac and cheese containers. Yeah. And the guys were high as fuck, and so they put it in there with no water and like burnt the fuck out of the noodles. We woke all of us up to the middle of the night. Dude, I'm yeah, I was fucked up. Okay, next question. Would you stop seeing someone if you've been dating them for three months and you find out they cheated on their last partner? Oof. But you've already been together for three months, and he's very like he's wowed you and he's been good to you. But he did cheat on his last partner.

SPEAKER_02 36:15

Dude, that shit would make me feel high.

SPEAKER_00 36:18

I would make me feel the type of way. Like I would get like immediately feel like hot. I'm saying I like would feel ill. Yeah. My trust would be like gone. No, I would trust a shot. Yeah. Like I wouldn't be able to recover from that. You'd have to be like, well, why? But then it's like, do I even believe you? Because you cheated.

SPEAKER_01 36:34

Yeah. Yeah. But what if like they went through like a major life change?

SPEAKER_00 36:39

Right.

SPEAKER_01 36:39

Like they were like an addict or something.

SPEAKER_00 36:42

Honestly, like I would like internally clock that and then I'm gonna keep that in my back pocket. I'm gonna keep that. And then when I see other things that I do not like to see, I know because it's gonna make you like that. I do think I was a cheater. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:55

I don't I like to think I'm special, but like I'm not.

SPEAKER_00 36:59

I'm not special. I have to like keep that to myself and keep track of things. I don't want that. I don't want that either. I want to feel like absolutely secure. Yeah, I don't know. No, because I would never ever think to do that in a million years. Okay, so we're leaving him. Leaving him, yeah. Okay. Okay, because I'm doing it. I have a couple more. Would you stop seeing someone if you had a girl best friend? No. Oof. Um, I don't think I've been. Depends on the girl. Um, yeah. I don't think so either. I think my first initial goal is to befriend her. Yeah. Let's be best friends. Tell me why you're gonna be a good one. Especially if they're like childhood best friends. We can't what the women hate. Yeah. Okay, you can't assume she's a bad person. Like what if they're childhood best friends? I'm gonna assume it's probably his fault. What if they slept together? I'm gone. Yeah, you can have a lot of people. I'm not your child. Yeah, that's it.

SPEAKER_01 37:48

Because there are there, I know like a lot of girls that have a lot of guy.

SPEAKER_00 37:52

I think that have slept with all of their guy friends. Yeah. But I do think there's a way to be platonic if that's both like what you see, but I think you just need to find like if you're if he's your husband, then he's he's gonna be respectful. Yeah. That's what it comes down to. Yeah. Okay. Would you stop seeing someone if he says he likes blondes, but you're like a redhead slash brunette?

SPEAKER_01 38:16

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 38:17

Speaking of that intron out loud, I do not like that shit.

SPEAKER_01 38:21

Well, yeah, if he said that like even in my earshot, it's like we're done.

SPEAKER_00 38:27

What the fuck are you doing with it? Well, it's so interesting. We're leaving all of these guys. Yeah, it's interesting because like in my head, I don't have like hair color. Like, what do you mean that's your type? Oh, my type is a blonde. Okay, so only blonde, yeah. Is she like like what else is there about her? Like, I don't I don't know. I guess I don't think that way. Oh, my type is a yeah, like what? I don't care what your hair color is. Oh, you can be bald. I don't give a damn. Right.

SPEAKER_01 38:55

Well, I've had um guys on hinge like my profile. But they're knowing I have red hair and it says like I go crazy for blondes, or like I go crazy for brunettes. I'm like, oh. Don't like my profile then. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 39:08

You're pissing me off.

SPEAKER_01 39:09

It's just weird. It's just very weird.

SPEAKER_00 39:11

I've also had people be like, oh, I love your hair straight. And I'm like, That's good because it's curly. Yeah, it's naturally curly. I'll just straighten every day. No. No. No. Why do you have a preference? I don't like that shit either. No, because why do you have a preference? If you liked my hair straight, then go find some girl with naturally straight hair. I'm not the one. That's not me. Leave me alone. I'm not the one. You see, I ain't the one. I ain't the one. You already saw my profile. I clearly have curly wavy hair. Yeah. Leave me the fuck alone.

unknown 39:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 39:42

I guess on that note, saying anything that you have on your body that they don't like is like, just don't do it. Right. No, that's not. Yeah, I'd leave this because clearly I'm just not your type and you're gonna cheat on me, probably. Right. Well. With someone who is your type.

SPEAKER_00 39:56

That's what I have.

SPEAKER_01 39:57

That was good. I liked that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 40:00

Basically, we'll leave you.

unknown 40:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 40:03

Well, I was trying to find ones that you guys wouldn't leave people for, but I kept finding ones that I was like, oh, we're definitely leaving this guy. Yeah. But we wouldn't leave him for the girl best friend because we trust him. That was a good one. And the socks is just like, that's just something you do that's a little quirky. That's okay. He got a little clown, but I am something to leave over. I don't think it's a red flag. That's not, yeah, that's not negotiable for me. Yeah, I'm just gonna clown you. Yeah. For sure. Sorry. Weird. You're weird.

SPEAKER_01 40:31

Change your ways. You're weird.

SPEAKER_00 40:32

I know.

SPEAKER_01 40:32

And if you drink milk, that's probably a non-negotiable.

SPEAKER_00 40:35

One of my prompts says you should not go out with me if you're an only child.

SPEAKER_01 40:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 40:42

I don't want someone who's an only child. That's just my preference. And some guy matched and was like, is this a deal breaker?

SPEAKER_02 40:47

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 40:47

Well, why the fuck would you be on my profile? If it's not a child, like yes, I'm dead. I'm dead. I want my children to have cousins. You're giving me nothing. Yeah. And I only have one brother, so I'm not giving much over here either. Yeah. I just think only children they grew up in such a different world. Such a different world. They don't know how to share. I mean, obviously, it's a stereotype. They don't know how to share very well. But it's true. But a lot of the times it's true. Yeah. So I'm just not willing. As a as a baby sister, I'm not willing to do that. Yeah. My God. Yeah, because I get my way, and only children always get their way, and I'm not sharing. So stand up. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:22

They're also just babies, I think.

SPEAKER_00 41:25

No.

SPEAKER_01 41:27

Yeah, like the athletic children. Definitely not doing that.

SPEAKER_00 41:29

Definitely not. Wow. That was good. That was great. That was delish. Should we get into our let's talk it over? Yes. Let's talk it over.

SPEAKER_01 41:39

So our question this week was do you believe in love at first sight?

SPEAKER_00 41:44

Ladies? Yes. Right. I think I do. I think I do.

unknown 41:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 41:47

I think I do.

SPEAKER_01 41:49

Oh. I said no, it's fake. You think it's fake? I don't think it's real.

SPEAKER_00 41:57

Elaborate. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:58

Well, I don't think you can see someone be like, I love you. That's like that's really what it is. Like love at first sight. Like, I don't think.

SPEAKER_00 42:06

But when I look at Dean, I love him. Wait, wait. I I do think that there's lust at first sight. Yeah. Yeah. And I also think that there's something on a chemical level that like in your body, it's like you know that like there's something more. Okay. Like maybe I'm not obviously in love with you because I just met you, but I think like right off the rip, like if you meet someone and like you're just like there's some sort of vibe and you haven't even talked, like that's just that's fucking science, baby. Okay. A vibe. That is like such a good feeling. Because you can I have felt that before. Yeah, because you can like someone all you want, but if there's not that spark, then you got you got nothing. Yeah. No spark will set up. I mean it's like spark wholeheartedly. I think you need a spark there when you first meet. Because if I don't feel the spark, then like I'm already questioning if I should go on the second date, and then once I'm questioning it, it's like I shouldn't even bother. Well, it's like if you're not sure, I should be sparks and just friends. Right. You just like the person. You're forcing it. The spark is like that's what makes it fun. It's that yeah, it's that chemistry. We were talking to one of our friends the other day. You might have been there, actually. And she was like, I don't even want this guy, but honestly, it's at a chemical level that like if he looks at me, like I I think I'm gonna have to marry him. Yeah, she's like, at this point, like it's just not even in my control. That's not in my control. We would button. She was like, I've never wanted to get married, but if he asked me today if I wanted to marry him, I would. She was like, Yeah, so science. I I can't say no. Like, I kind of get that. You're like, you know what? I fullheartedly get that as well. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. That's honestly such a good feeling to have, but also bad if you're not actually dating the person. I know, damn. But I don't know. If you're like smitten with your partner, you're not gonna feel that with someone else.

SPEAKER_02 43:53

Right?

SPEAKER_00 43:54

If you have like a spark like that. Yeah. Like you should if you already have a spark, then like there's Yeah, then you're not feeling a spark in first place. How do you how do you feel? How do you guys feel about like when people say like the spark is gone? I think the lust is gone. That's what they mean. I believe that like initially love, like, like we said, is like a spark and whatever, but love is also a choice. Yeah. So like if you're with your partner and you're not trying to be romantic, you're not trying to do gestures that make them feel loved, you're not doing these things to actually actively participate in the relationship, and all of a sudden the love is gone. Okay, well, you're stupid. Well, that's true. You didn't even try to keep it like the keeping a spark alive, like you're not tending to a fire and assuming it's gonna stay alive. Like you have to put the work in to keep the flame going.

SPEAKER_01 44:41

But also, like, how do you know the difference between that and like just not liking the person? Because I've experienced like sis like staying with someone too long to the point where I was getting the ick at everything they did.

SPEAKER_00 44:50

Well then you don't know And it's like I don't want to be with them anymore. I think that there's always that initial love. Like I I love them always, I might not like them right now. Yeah, yeah. So if you just actually don't like them ever, then it's like you can try to show love, but you actually just are not compatible. I think there's I think there's like there is a way to make marriages last 30 plus years. You just have to put in the effort. You both need to have the same like goals and desires and wants.

SPEAKER_01 45:18

I think the man has to be more in love. I feel like we've talked about this. I agree. But like all the relationships I've seen that have been long lasting.

SPEAKER_00 45:25

The man is absolutely smitten. Absolutely smitten. Yeah, that is my dream. That is my life. And we will get to experience that. We will, of course. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 45:33

What did the people say? So the people um said 58% said yes and 42% said no.

SPEAKER_00 45:40

We have half romantic stuff. Damn.

SPEAKER_01 45:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 45:43

Love us.

SPEAKER_01 45:44

A little more than half voted yes.

SPEAKER_00 45:47

Okay. So I love it. Nobody elaborated? No one said anything else about the fact that it's a good idea.

SPEAKER_01 45:55

Okay. Like, I do think that like you can feel that chemical magnetization.

SPEAKER_00 46:01

There is magnetization. Yeah, I know I agree. Magnetization. Yeah. Yeah. I know I do agree. Yeah. Because like this one time I went to a party with my cousin, and it was like all of her friends, and there was this guy there who she had like mentioned, and like we literally like locked eyes once, and I was like, I'm so he came up, he literally chatted probably for like four minutes, and I've been thinking about him ever since. Wow. We casually chat every once in a while, but I was like, Yeah, this is like chemical levels. Yeah, like it's like you're literally just noticed. I know nothing about him, and I already know we have like, yeah, there's already something there. Yeah. It's like our it's something. I don't know what it. I'm like, is it our fucking blood types? Like what makes what makes us compatible on a level that's like beyond like words. The Wi-Fi part is just wood. My wood. My wood. Yeah, they're sharing Wi-Fi. Yeah, whatever. My wood. Your wood. No one's gonna get that if you haven't watched the last episode. They should have listened. Yeah. They'll kidnap some dogs. They're gonna go and listen and be like, oh, her wood. Yeah. Yeah, so I think I think lust at first sight is real. I well, yeah, I believe in that. That's the start of it all. Yeah, that's the start. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 47:17

Start of it all.

SPEAKER_00 47:18

You eat with the ass for start. You know what I agree? Yeah. You know? You look at the food if it looks like. You know what? Close mouths don't get fed, okay? Go up to him, okay? You get to choose your destiny. I've never got that saying. Close mouths don't get fed. Yeah, you always say that. I don't get it. I know I never get it. Close, like, if your mouth is closed, you're never gonna eat. So if you don't ask for what you want, you're never gonna get it. Oh. That's what it's saying. So, like, if you don't, if your mouth isn't open. Close mouths, don't get fed. I'm gonna starve.

SPEAKER_01 47:47

I was thinking about it in the sense of like a parent and a child. I'm like, well, if you're telling them to talk a lot, what do you mean they're getting fed more? That's a terrible mother. Like, close your mouth and then you'll get fed.

SPEAKER_00 48:01

Don't mean and maybe you'll get me. Wait, I'm dead. No, it has nothing. I'm having always said, It has nothing to do with mom. It has everything to do with that girl's. Well, that's how I'm still thinking about it. You just have to ask for what you want at the end of the day. Okay, okay. It's just going for what you want. You'll never know. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, they all mean the same thing. Okay, I get that one. We should write a book. I'm cracking up. For crying outside. I'm looking forward to cracking up. I'm looking forward to cracking up. For crying out loud. For crying out. For Pete's sake. We need to write a book of all of our. Honestly.

SPEAKER_01 48:43

We could. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 48:44

So who am I gonna lust at first sight? So our woods are. Yeah, so I guess we're gonna go. Who can I have a chemical? Who can I have a chemical reaction with chemical bond with? We we said we were gonna go out tonight, guys.

SPEAKER_01 49:03

But then the sun came out and we were feeling more elected, so we might be getting a little bit more.

SPEAKER_00 49:06

Is there like a patio bar we could go to? That would be nice. Is it warm out? No. Do you know where we are right now? I know. Do you know how we are? Well, if you moved in with us in Boston. Yeah. Okay, okay. We're wrapping up. No, we need to wrap this up. Ari, where can we find you? You find me at Arizona 10.

SPEAKER_01 49:27

Find me at Sarah Bennett2SS3Ts.

SPEAKER_00 49:29

And you can find me at Kara Kelleher pretty much everywhere. And you can find us at the Talk Over Pod everywhere as well. Like, subscribe, comment, send us a text. Like that, smack that. Crack that. Crack that. We would love for you to slide up and tell us why you pick certain things for the question of the week so we can chat about what you think because why not?

SPEAKER_01 49:50

Yeah, because we need more prompts. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 49:52

Okay, people. We will see you guys next Wednesday. Bye. We'll talk to you later.