{"version":"1.0.0","segments":[{"startTime":12.3,"endTime":12.96,"body":"Hello, and"},{"startTime":12.96,"endTime":265.68,"body":"welcome everyone to the intuitive lifestyle success podcast where we explore empower conscious living to create priceless advantages for your wellness, your business and your life. I'm your host, Master intuitive coach and energy therapy practitioner Cathleen Miller, and today's episode number 48. is we're still in the July intuitive transformation month. And it is all about allowing chaos for change. And what does that mean? What does that look like? Haha, well, what does chaos look like that in and of itself can, you know really puts you on edge easily because it's really not knowing what's going to happen it is the unknown it is, things changing in ways we didn't anticipate. And that's often happens in manifesting, but also in transformation that in all kinds of stages of our life, you know, I really believe we're always in transition. And this can be transitioned into greater or less, depending on what our focus is, what our choices are, what we are, you know, choosing and, and working with. So it's important to be, you know, really clear about those things and to stay out of, you know, the victim mentality of life happening at you, instead of getting in the driver's seat, and really getting clear about what you're wanting to create what you're wanting to be, and beginning to kind of move and function from that energy. So for me, you know, I, as I do these podcasts, I'm I'm really living it. Outside of the podcast, I'm really, you know, I chose transformation month one, because I tuned into the energy of what's happening with not only my clients, but just really in general in a wide radius around me. But I also personally will be going through and having some sort of, you know, real self experience with that, and a real tactile, kind of involvement with it. So for me, you know, choosing transformation, inviting transformation to generate a greater future, That, to me, has really opened a lot of questions, I'm really sort of reevaluating some new business directions, some new, you know, personal directions, there's all kinds of change happening behind the scenes, some of you that follow me on Instagram, you'll see that I went from very blonde to very red. And so there's that personal physical change that can be happening. But then also, because transformation does happen on all levels, it is cellular, it is mental, it is emotional, it is spiritual or can be. And when we can align in all of those, that's where we can have a really, you know, it can be a powerful experience, that's what we are here, that is the adventure of living that we are all in. And so really, you know, I always try to give three steps or three points of focus to support you know, if this is something you're personally zoomed in, on, or, or really asking for, if you're asking for transformation yourself. And really, you know, step one is, in that being the chaos for transformation, is really letting go of the old self. And this can be pertaining to, sometimes physically, like new lifestyle habits, you have to choose that then begin to move your entire being in a new direction. And I know that can sound really too simplistic like, oh, if I really changed my diet, or if I really changed these little things, is it going to, you know, create an entirely different future for me? And the question the answer, you know, one is, do you believe it can, because our beliefs are a big factor in that equation, but also, are you willing to allow that to create that much change for you? And this is kind of, you know, and this can also be old self from,"},{"startTime":265.68,"endTime":267.09,"body":"you know,"},{"startTime":267.09,"endTime":278.64,"body":"if we have maybe scarcity beliefs, and then we decide, hey, I want to do better, you know, I was a single mom at one point and and really struggling financially and and decided, Hey, I,"},{"startTime":278.64,"endTime":279.209,"body":"you know,"},{"startTime":279.209,"endTime":524.269,"body":"maybe I didn't mind flailing for myself, but I'm not willing to do that for a child. So I really decided I'm going to create a very different future, for her to be able to get educated to be able to be whatever she desires in the world to be able to, you know, not have any limitation and so that was basically I had to out you know, expand beyond my old self of those limitations to create a different reality. And so for you, and whatever level of transformation, whether it's financial, or sometimes it is physical, you know, I've worked with so many clients dealing with progressed, health issues or cancer or, you know, really advanced, you know, physical challenges. And, and so part of the healing is the transforming into, beyond that limitation of the body. And the ones that do, whether they are Western treated, Eastern treated, integrated treated, doesn't matter, it's that willing to transform again, on all these levels, so that as you become the new being of well being, it can really go and generate a future that has a real groundedness to it. Because I see so many that are just, you know, waiting for the other shoe to drop of, well, well, my future, you know, still hold wellbeing for me is this is this gonna stay this way. And, and that really is that chaos to have, it's not trying to control the energies, or control the body or control your business. Even though we all want to, I certainly have done my fair share of attempting to do that, but it's being able to, and again, that's that letting go have, you know, the control of it to allow the chaos of more possibilities to come in. Because oftentimes, even when we're creating, or I'm asking for something to show up differently in my business, it always shows up, but sometimes it's in a different way, it's in a different timing, it's in a different, you know, sequence of what I was anticipating, because I had decided that I'd figured it out, which is absolutely ridiculous. And when I let that go, and let go that limitation, that's when that chaos of even a bigger possibility really could show up. So that's really step one is being able to let go of what we've decided is the right way, or is the truth. Super, super important. And then step two is, you know, staying balanced when we're in that transition. So we're not all the way into the new change just yet. We're not where we were, where we've been. And so that's for some in some spiritual circles, that's called the dark night of the soul where, you know, you're not where you're into the light yet, but you're not out of the dark yet. And, and so again, this can be you know, while people are recovering, where they're still getting treated, they're still not showing 100%, clear or balanced. And so they're, you know, they're going, they're progressing to better, but they're not all, you know, they're not all the way in the worst case scenario of illness. And they're not all the way to the well being. So there's a lot of transition. And that is, again, part of that chaos, where you are having faith you are knowing where you're going, you are clear that you have chosen to be well, you've chosen to be successful, you've chosen to be, you know, in healthier relationships, or whatever, whatever your focus is. And that's where, you know, finding balance in that when it's going to be, you know, transition for possibly years. And again, that circles back to the chaos of not quite knowing how it shows up, really staying in surrender really, you know, on a on a strong,"},{"startTime":524.4,"endTime":526.4,"body":"consistent basis."},{"startTime":526.89,"endTime":779.37,"body":"And then that, of course, digs us to number three, which is having ease, you know, with being out of your comfort zone with being out of control with being out of like, knowing how it's going to work with being out of the, you know, again, that old self of this is the way this is what life is or this is as far as I can go. And, you know, going back to my example of, you know, really struggling as a single mom financially and that was, you know, for me, I had to really let go of knowing how that was going to shift, I had to be willing to choose way out of my comfort zone to you know, sell my car to invest in what I was doing then because that was the route to to change to create something greater, and that I would have to you know, figure all of that out and be way out of my comfort zone without that too. You know, allow support from friends and family allowing, you know different ways of, of being open to you know, How can I make all of this work? And so, you know, sometimes this is, again, it's a work in progress, it can be, depending on what you're going for what you're what you're going to change. You know, for me, my, my mom, let me some money, and that started this company, this is something that, you know, almost 20 years ago, I began, you know, to invest in building and slow growth, flow, organic growth over time, really turned into a really, you know, viable change that I have today. And this, this, you know, that I'm so incredibly appreciative of, and that I have really moved into that full embodiment of the, you know, willingness to be what I am today and do what I'm doing and, and really desire that same power of transformation, that power of possibility for everybody that I work with, because that's something you know, that, again, not everybody's wanting a really successful business, or that even has an interest in building a greater financial future, or, you know, maybe your focus is relationship, or maybe your focus is, you know, something else entirely, that is just really super specific to you. So, this still applies, no matter what your life is about what you're building, what you're creating. And, and then you know, there's also family, there's, there's a big segment of, you know, when you're, when you're a mom, and you're having children, and, and really keeping that balance for yourself, you know, definitely, I worked, you know, alongside raising my kids, and that was something that, you know, was a constant struggle of balance of desiring to be there and really be hands on and focus with them, but also to, you know, be creating feeling like I'm putting the right amount of time in the right amount of, you know, to currently create something that would be sustainable, or that would would, you know, generate a real stable foundation for a future business. And that, again, as it, you know, slowly grew, it's, I had to go through the transformation. For me, first, I had to embody that I had to stay balanced, when I was in complete doubt, that it was gonna come together, and, or that it would stay or that it would, you know, keep growing and in a way that was, you know, going to be better. And as I grew, and as I, you know, got more comfortable. And this is something I always say with, you know, being an entrepreneur in any way, it is just big girl panties to do it, period, when people say, Oh, I want to do what you do, I say, absolutely go for it. Yes."},{"startTime":780.75,"endTime":987.72,"body":"And then I have a lab like, you know, what it takes to run any business, even a very simple business, or if you're a solopreneur, or whatever that you do, you know, it is, you know, you've got, and this is something for me that just took time took a lot of time is getting comfortable being out of comfort zone, all of the time, you don't know where it's coming from, you're, you know, on point, you're trying different things you're trying different, you know, whether it's marketing or the way you do business, or the way you flow or your calendar or balancing it with family, all of those things, that is the chaos, and the willingness to pivot, the willingness to try it a different way, the willingness to scrap everything and start over the willingness to totally, you know, I've rebranded twice my business over the years and, and every time it's been a really fantastic thing, it's challenged me to no end, but it has pushed me into myself and what I'm really about and what I'm really, you know, that core sole purpose of of what it is, but that doesn't mean you ever have the answer and you get out of chaos. It just is where I am now in this fluid energy of who I am and what I do. This is true and expanding at the moment. So that my friends, is that wonderful, you know, flow of chaos, being able to embrace it, having ease with it, because initially when I heard and kind of learned about being okay with being out of the comfort zone, I just I remember initially and this was back 15 plus years ago, I was just no way no I'm going to I'm going to control it. I'm going to do it this way. And honestly that just doesn't create very much. You can do it that way. But it just is a small circle. You got to be willing to open the allow that to generate more allow that space of not knowing as you're inviting in a different possibility. And every time I did that, it every time I trusted and I expanded like, Okay, I'm just willing to have more here, it always showed up a new opportunity a new, like more dynamic project or event or collaboration always was on the heels of that energy. So trusting that embodying that and that transformation really can be yours. So so that is it today, my friends, I'm Cathleen Miller if you'd like to hear more about my work, you can visit my site at intuitive lifestyle success calm I am I do have a few spaces for working private with me if that is something that is of interest. If you follow me on Instagram, which I would love to be Instagram buds, it's in my handle is intuitive lifestyle success. And that's something that you know, I have great content weekly videos. I'm always you know, updating the podcast episodes to for reminders if that's something of interest for you. But I'd love to have you and thank you so much to those of you who have been subscribing and doing awesome reviews I really appreciate on the apple podcast. And otherwise, thank you so much. I wish you all just the best week ever. And everybody be well."}]}