Sunday Cookout Ep. 8 With Dub & Reckless

Dub and Reckless talk shop and relationships with Rod The Real. 

Transcript

SPEAKER_02 0:00

What's good with it? What's hood with it? You already know what it is, who it is, man. What's the deal over here? We keep it reckless and real. Huh, how you feel? You already know, man. Sunday cookout, cook out, look out, look out. Keep it 100. You getting cook out, took out. Y'all know who in the building. What's in the building is love, man. Turn up, burn up, man. Get your bread and earn up. You know what I mean? Go ahead, shout yourself out, dub in the guest room.

SPEAKER_00 0:29

PWGME, man. Sunday cookout, free but not free. Over Mafia Entertainment, East Oakland, California. You already know what it does. Y'all been tuning in for eight episodes. I'm sure you're happy to be here. We got a nice guest today. We about to kind of touch on some hot topics. They don't seem like they hot. They had a little hot though. They're talking about YFC relationships. That's always hot. We're gonna get it cooking though, man. Some my nigga ride.

SPEAKER_04 0:52

Oh, praise God. I'm the all out. You know, I'm in the building and I ain't going nowhere. I'm out here in Los Angeles, California. It's a nice sunny day, so you know. Have to close the blind so we don't get that good glare in the house because the sun is shining, you know, like it always do. You know, ready to chop it up. Give my uh perspective, as they would say.

SPEAKER_02 1:14

Man, if y'all don't know, man, we got the bro, Rod the Real in the building, man. I gave him the nickname Rod the Real just because, man, he always standing on 10 toes, man. That's how you feel, bro. You know what I'm saying? Hey, you ain't gonna waver him off of his opinion. You know what I'm saying? If he's standing on it, he's standing on it.

SPEAKER_04 1:30

You feel we can't do it. Not at all, not at all. And and I mean, my uh opinion is just simply that. It's never personal, you know. Uh uh, it's only personal if you make it personal. And typically, uh, if you get to that point, then that means you got a deeper rooted issue within yourself.

SPEAKER_02 1:49

Big facts, big facts, man. So you know, if y'all don't know, man, Rot the Real is one of the you know what I'm saying, cohosts of the viral weight podcast over there with Messiah, you know what I'm saying? Kylie Choke, you know what I'm saying, Mr. Viral himself, y'all already know. So he part of the team, he part of the squad, y'all already know, extended co-host, you know what I'm saying. So, hey, we had to bring all the brothers on from the family. That's like second family over there. So, hey, welcome to the plenty cookout, man. It's time to eat, it's time to eat, man.

SPEAKER_04 2:20

So I've been fasting, I've been fasting. I got I have my agua, you know. I got my agua, just straight agua. You know, you gotta purify, purify the soul.

SPEAKER_02 2:34

You feel me? Let's get it, let's get it, man. So, hey, we just gonna start it off with some heat. Topic number one, bro. This is just appetizers, you know what I'm saying? We touch on them, we don't try to stay too long to just appetizer. You you eat and you move, you know what I'm saying? You eat and you move around. So first topic on the appetizers, man. Can men and women be platonic friends, bro? You know what I'm saying? Without it being anything physical involved, without it being anything extra, and if so, how do you go about doing it?

SPEAKER_04 3:07

Well, uh, it depends on your dynamic, it depends on your perspective. Uh if I'm asking myself personally, uh, I'm not gonna make no new friends. However, I don't necessarily uh cut that off because sometimes not trying to sleep with a woman or uh approach her uh on some romantic stuff, you might get something more out of it, you might get a business venture out of it. So I look at the overall perspective. So that's why I pick people's brains, that's why I like to talk, dialogue, see what people are about, because it's not always about the sex until it is. Now, what I do understand is that everything does stem from sexual energy. Right, right. I do understand that component of it. So, sure, is there a level of attraction there, the undertone? Absolutely. So, you know, it just depends on what how you're going about it. But would I suggest you just be out here trying to be random women's friends? Absolutely not, especially because that's not absolutely your intentions anyway. So you plan yourself to start from the jump. You plan yourself. So you already given this person, your opposition, this lady, whatever you want to refer to her as, you've already given them leverage. So, what does a person do, human nature, whether they mean to or not? Oh, now that I know I have leverage, I'm going to use my leverage. I'm gonna see how far I can go with it. You you've already begun the game in a losing, you you put yourself in a losing position already, starting off that way. Right, right.

SPEAKER_01 4:42

How you how you feel about it, Doug?

SPEAKER_00 4:43

You know what I'm saying? You know I'm gonna go laugh. I I know this, I know this. Women can be friends with men and really put them in a friend zone and mean it, right? Men can say that they friends with women, but if she called them today and said, Hey, could you come get this pussy for me real quick? Most niggas ain't gonna turn it down, right? Absolutely not.

SPEAKER_04 5:05

Absolutely not. And the reality.

SPEAKER_00 5:11

No, no, interject.

SPEAKER_04 5:13

Okay, so I I agree with that in the sense of because the average man does not exercise sexual discipline. Now, can I do it at this stage of my life? I absolutely can't. I'll go sick several months and won't touch you. And you know, because ultimately the mind does, the body does what the mind tells it to do. So I'll rather stimulate your mind personally and you know, and see what you're about because the sex is always on the table. That's not going nowhere. As long as I'm really I'm I'm able, you know. Like I said, I drink water. I'm a healthy black man. So you know what I'm saying? Uh the sex is always available. So I'm gonna pick your brain and see what you're about. Now, while doing such things, while picking your brain, you will tell me with your way of thinking, your way of living, your culture, all of those things, what you will put yourself in a box. Casual, just sex, etc. I don't make the decision. I allow you to uh write your story.

SPEAKER_00 6:11

Right. I just read the book. And see, people, men like you, kudos to you are an anomaly, right? It's only I'm just saying it's only a few altogether put together official black men, especially that ain't playing a long game, meaning that they ain't looking for pussy every day, they ain't looking for new pussy every day, they probably got a pussy at home, but they just ain't really interested in it. If the pussy was to leave at home, it would be triple over leaving, but they in a pursuit of pussy, even if they hell and finish, right? So correct. Just like we know that it's men that already been putting a friend zone, but they will play the long game. The long I'm gonna call it the long kind with a chick hoping that one day either she's vulnerable to feel the same way about them, whatever. That's what I mean. That's why I don't play the breast sis shit. Like if you meet my wife, if if y'all cool be through me, we ain't doing the breast sis shit. Because I don't really believe in that shit unless y'all really got it. If I meet you and your hollow breasts, my thing is your real brother. If you call this dude right now, it's like, hey, look, I've been feeling you, I just ain't acting on it. I'm trying to fuck with it. If he really, if you we we don't know, he ain't gonna go nigga. You my sister, I'm like a real brother, it don't count, right? So I'm saying I'm answering it twofold for sure. I believe a I'm just we're gonna use you as an example. I'm not any man on the screen, I would believe, can be friends with a woman, even if you like she cute or something like that, she attractive or whatever, right? You like how she dressed, I believe that a man, a mature man, can't say, I ain't got no designs on her like that, and she can feel the same way, right? I believe that. But but I also believe that uh women have been known to be better at that sincerely, more consistently.

SPEAKER_04 7:53

Well, that's because uh uh I believe that's because by default they they have the discipline because when you're always approached when you don't have to put in the work, you get put in the position of you're in a lax mode, you're like, I don't have to. It's kind of like it's like I got food at the remember when you used to always want to eat out and your mama say, Man, we got food at the house? Yep, yep. It's almost like, man, it's like, man, I got what oranges. When I got oranges, cherries, strawberries, blueberries, man, I I got all that at the house, and it's from the and it's from the soil. Like it's and that's not and that's not their fault. The problem is, is when you begin to abuse it. That is the problem. When you begin to allow your reality to just be uh just get out of hand. That is the problem. Me as a person, I you are supposed to maximize your potential. By all means, it's just when you start being malicious about it, you start being cold about it. That is the problem. I don't care what gender you are. You're never supposed to hate the game. Excuse me, you hate the game, don't hate the player, excuse me. And don't hate me because I know how to play. I don't care what gender you are. The problem is when you start playing it dirty, and people don't understand that.

SPEAKER_02 9:06

Nah, that's facts, man. That's facts, bro. Straight up. And my, you know, my answer is gonna be short, simple, and to the point. You feel me? Yes, men and women can be platonic friends without it being anything physical, intertwined, intermingled, you know, in that situation ship, you know, or whatever. All it boils down to is point of view. Are you really just trying to be platonic friends with her? Or are you just trying to get in where you fit in, get close to her, so that way you can y'all jump in there like a swimming pool, you know what I'm saying? Kendrick Lamar's status, you feel me? So if you being truthful with your intentions, or if your intentions dirty, you know what I mean? So you know how it goes a brother be like, oh yeah, man, I'm feeling her. Bro, you just want to hit. Because as soon as she tells you you can't hit, you about to talk all kind of B's and H's and oh you ain't shit, you you ain't cute, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_04 10:01

So that's because there's okay, I apologize for you.

SPEAKER_02 10:05

No, no, go ahead, right. You good go ahead and go.

SPEAKER_04 10:07

Well, well, well, those those you know why they call them all bitches and all that? It goes back to what I said because you had you had all ulterior motives opposed to just being straightforward. If you'd been straightforward, then no one is stunned so hard. Because the reality of it is the worst thing a person can ever tell you is no. And you've heard no before, especially being a man. But just in general, you've never heard no before. Did you die though? What do you say on uh that'd be what it is? And that's all it is, and that ego right there, and I think one should have a healthy dose of it, private ego, because you do need it. But what I'm saying is, it it goes back to what I stated. It's extreme. And there's this uh once again, I refer to the seven laws of uh of uh of life or power, forgive me. But one of the laws is uh ego and checking it, and he has a uh or an acronym which is edging God out. So when you exercise an extreme ego, you're edging God out at that moment. And once you take God out of the equation, you all over the place, right?

SPEAKER_00 11:15

Right, and and it's a book, another book called Ego is the enemy, where they talk about that. If you ain't in control of your uh your ego, that's the biggest enemy that you face. So basically, it's like looking in the mirror, it's the enemy within. So my thing is really, really, if you're a hunter and you out there doing that anyway, you're gonna get rejected more than you're gonna get yeses anyway. I'm talking about if you hunt a career, if you hunt money, if you hunt women, if you like, you get more rejection, and just from a man or woman saying, But we know a woman don't have doesn't have to do much to be, you know, to be valued or to be craved. A man like a woman gotta be feeling you for you to even get be able to call her. You feel me? Like, like like real women, they don't even get aroused physically first, they get aroused up here first.

SPEAKER_04 12:00

And that's why I said I would just stimulate the brain. First thing I'm gonna ask you, I first thing I ask I like to ask people in general, but specifically with our feminine counterparts, is hey, what's the last book you read? And what type of literature do you read? And how often do you read? Right there, that's gonna let me know a lot of things about you immediately. Because there are several ways to stimulate the mind, and I'm not opposed to entertainment. We all need that, but the majority of the time, I need you to stimulate your mind with something conducive, something that's gonna help you maximize your potential, you know, or realize what your potential is. Something in that, you know, something that helps you vibrate high. I'm going to ask you, what do you read? And then after I ask you that, I'm gonna ask you, do you exercise? Because they go head in hand. Fitness and your physical and mental being, they go to hand, the conglomerates, uh so to speak. Whatever you want to call it, peanut butter and jelly, uh, I don't know, man and woman, water and sand, I don't know. They go together. And if you don't have one or the other, if not both, then what are we gonna talk about after this? Because at this point, I know it's probably gonna be service level.

SPEAKER_02 13:14

Nah, that's real, bro. And I say that opinion, you know what I'm saying, coming from somebody who was a roommate with a female who we both liked each other. Like she thought I was dope, I thought she was dope. We were roommates at one time, never messed around, even though I've seen her physically naked right in front of me, you know what I'm saying? And we never pushed that button on each other or nothing, you know what I mean? It just kept it on some platonic friendship, and still to this day, you know what I'm saying? When we see each other, we just keep it all the way cool, just on some friends stuff. Like we ain't grabbing each other, you know what I'm saying, in different parts and groping each other and making a scene, like making it known, like, oh yeah, we we could have did this, we could like no, bro. We grown, you know what I'm saying? We just keep it on some friends stuff, and to keep it all the way 100 with y'all, I'm gonna keep it all the way real. I don't have a lot of male friends because I enjoy female energy. If I'm gonna hang out with people, I would rather have female energy around me than to have a whole bunch of dudes around me, a whole bunch of male that's top strong masculine energy, everybody trying to prove they harder than the next nigga. Bro, we ain't here for that, bro. We all grown, you know what I'm saying? Sometimes it's your time to shine, sometimes it's your time to sit back in, you know what I'm saying, let everybody else go and shine. You feel me? So, but you know how that be, but that's just me personally. I got a lot of female friends, I got way more female friends than I do male friends, so I'll be the first to tell you the hell yeah.

SPEAKER_04 14:37

I totally understand because, like I said, uh sexual energy is the real thing. And for me, it's about uh there's more than one way to stimulate yourself, other than within your loins. And women are put here to be pleasurable, and just being around them is pleasurable, so it does not always have to be in the bedroom, just like you said, feminine energy now, not Rand Bunch's feminine energy, not Jezebel's spirit energy. No, no, no, no, no. I'm not talking about that, but I'm talking about just being around actual feminine energy where they're just pleasant to be around. Their words are like honey, right?

SPEAKER_00 15:14

You know, like let me ask you something real quick. Did you see when Cam Newton kind of got some hot water when he was saying he can't even be around a woman? That like he said, any fine woman around him, he don't even want to be around him, he don't want to be associated with him, he don't want to because he always like he always thinking about being on go, like he can't even be around. Did you see that interview?

SPEAKER_04 15:36

Uh well, I didn't watch it, but uh I'm privy to it. You know, I know the nuances of it, so I'm not gonna speak to it as though I watched it, but I I grasped the context of it. Well, it's not this is um it's just it's kind of one of those things I can do it, so I'm gonna do it. Uh it's not that he can't say no. He wouldn't be who listen, Cam Newton wouldn't be Cam Newton if he didn't have discipline to some capacity. Right.

SPEAKER_00 16:04

No, I'm sorry, but I'm saying, but but but what I what I could we could we we could assume that he capping for his for the interview, but I mean if a man say what he is, and like just in my history, like usually when a man No no what what what I would say is what I'm saying is as as one would say over your third eye.

SPEAKER_04 16:24

So what I'm saying is I think he's he's speaking to the person who's really gonna, like, as you said, dissect this and analyze this. So how I see it is whether he agrees with it or not, I think he's just speaking to the average man because he understands the average man does not have discipline. Because how you do one thing is how you do everything. I stated Cam Newton would not be Cam Newton today if he had no discipline. So what I think he's speaking to is those who lack that discipline, which is the average person, this is their mindset. So hell no, I'm not finna just be your friend. So that's how he stated it. So he didn't break, he didn't say it in that matter because what's understood does not have to be explained, so to speak.

SPEAKER_00 17:09

Right. Well, I'll tell you this though, right? It's people with supreme discipline in areas like working out, uh getting prepared for the Super Bowl, uh, uh eating nutrition, right? But then they still uh go fuck over a kid or beat their wife or do some other shit. So I'm saying that the discipline is gonna always come down to where 100% of yourself is disciplined. So I'm saying that if a man says out loud, I can't even work with a woman, not saying the average, he said I, to where even the people that he was on a podcast with was like burning it. But my thing is that I didn't take it personal because I was looking at it, like, well, if you know that about yourself, that's like being an ex-drug addict. If you know that you're not doing drugs now, but if you're around them, you feel me? The craving it's like guns. Me, I can't be around guns and certain forms of violence in the game because that's where I came from. I don't want to be on that shit no more. But guns was usually the way to let me in. So if you come around me with a gun, I'm gonna tell you, hey, let me just get out of here, right? Because I can't even have it's not that I'm weak in the sense of that, but I know my weaknesses, so I don't want to even be around.

SPEAKER_04 18:16

I've and you know what? I can't dispute that. Anybody who uses or exercises any type of logic should not uh dispute that her child is dead. Here's the thing the reason why you're gonna get pushed rock is simply because people literally go out their way to misunderstand things. Quite literally, that makes sense. But people go out of their way to misunderstand things. So that goes back to what I initially stated, which is once I understand that you understand from your level of perception, there's nothing else for me to state or keep going. Like, why would I keep doing this? At this point, I'm just entertaining you because I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt. As though although I know you're stupid, it's not that you're stupid, you're playing stupid, you have nothing better to do. So you want me to play this game with you. I'm not one of them ones, I'm one of them ones. Right. Okay, right.

SPEAKER_02 19:08

Right, I'm top, I'll tell you. I'll feel that, I'll feel that straight up. So with that being so with that being said, you know what I'm saying? Let's go ahead and segue into the next topic for the appetizer. You know what I'm saying? And yet, for those that's tuning in, bro, this is an all female topic menu. You feel me? Share it along. You feel me, like, comment, share, subscribe, slap that bell. It's$3.99, catch a vibe. You know, we keep it wild. You know what I mean? Just like that. But bruh, alright, you know what I'm saying? Next topic natural beauty or made up beauty. Which one are you going for and why?

SPEAKER_04 19:42

Well, I'm always for it as natural as possible. And I understand things happen, and I I treat that at every aspect of my life, from what I consume, uh, you know, in terms of diet and everything else in my life. So, yeah, I want to be closer to the real thing as possible because it's real. So I'm gonna always go with ambiguity. We just talked about that a few moments ago. Uh, with that said, I understand sometimes you have enhancements. So the way I see makeup is I'm not against makeup. Makeup is only supposed to enhance your beauty, it's not supposed to turn you into a whole nother person. That is the problem. That is the problem. I I'm not, hey, listen, I love the look. I am not against uh makeup and the looks and all that. I like variety. Variety is the spice of life, and uh it keeps things fresh for you to change up your look. The thing is, though, um, I need to know that that's not I need to know what you look like when you get out the shower. And I'm quoting Kevin Changer. I don't care who like them or who don't. And if we get a chance, we'll talk about that later because it's some cats that that that's using his name in vain, and they some real life bitch niggas, but that's another topic. Anywho, I prefer natural natural duty. And it's not hard, and all you have to do is just take care of yourself and again, exercise discipline. And those who naturally look good, part of it is that is a blessing from God. Let's praise God first and foremost. Let's start there. Then there that blessing from God is that He blessed you to do have some common sense to say, I'm going to put these things in my body, I'm going to put my body in motion and use it like this. That's where the attractiveness comes from, because most women and men are not unattractive, they're just not in shape.

SPEAKER_02 21:33

Bro, and here goes something funny with you saying that. If, you know, it takes me to think of, you know what I'm saying, like with cosmetic surgery, you know, because even with this topic, you know, that's in there too, you know what I'm saying. Parts cosmic surgery, you know what I'm saying, made up beauty, natural beauty versus whatever. And it's crazy because, you know, Drake got so much backlash because he went and got abs. And females, like, oh, he got abs implants, but that's no different than y'all going to get a B. You feel me? It's it's the same thing, just different body, you know what I'm saying? That you have to do it. You feel me?

SPEAKER_00 22:08

I mean, the same way that we are training. No, look, if you hands down on all of it, bet. But I'm just saying that a nigga gonna get his body enhanced in the way, especially if you got any kind of African genes in you. The way that if you really dedicate yourself to a workout and a diet that you can chisel up, especially if you punch it, right? The way that you can do it naturally, I mean nigga, that's just lazy. Like now, now look, let me get my take real quick. Shout out to the women out there that struggle with whatever they believe beauty is, whatever TV or media or they dude or motherfuckers at school say me uh beauty is. Shout out to the women having to navigate the landmines of what men and and and and society as a whole think and tell you what beauty is supposed to be. Bigger shout out to the women out there who keep it G and rock with whatever they got and still make us love it, right? As a man, all we gotta do, we might not even have to shave. All we gotta do is shower, put on some clean clothes, and we can step out with a full beard, scraggly, whatever, and somebody gonna, you know, we still gonna be presentable. A woman gotta go through a whole lot of shit. So for three minutes sit up here and judge a woman on a panel of what I like and don't like, I'm just gonna give like a vague take. If you are a natural beauty, do your thing. I love that shit. Keep your hair, your nails, all that shit. If you got your body done, right? And I can't tell, everybody should. For the motherfuckers that's out there lopsided asses or big ass booties and legs hella skinny looking like they fresh out the pen in the 80s or something like that. I don't know what I I whoever your doctor is, you need a refund, you need something, right? Because there's some motherfuckers right here getting surgeries that don't make no sense. To the bitches out there with cake on, so where if they lean on you, if they touch you with some shit like that, and they leave a uh a face print on your shirt or something like that, man. That shit you could do better, right? So, all in all, I'm like for whatever women is on, really, honestly. But I really, if I had to choose, I want to ask.

SPEAKER_02 24:13

I mean, that's that's even with plastic surgery. No plastic surgery for me. I'll just take your God-given faggy tips, you know what I'm saying? Your asset ain't all the way perfect, you know what I'm saying, but it's perfect, you feel me? Stuff like that. Like me personally, I feel like female's imperfections are just as attractive as the things that highlight their features that make them even more attractive. You know what I'm saying? I'll rock with your imperfections and your insecurities just as much as your things that's not an insecurity or your things as you feel is perfect if that's only, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't hold nothing against each other, you know what I'm saying? For real, because being flawed is just reality, bro. Nobody is perfect, nobody is nobody will ever look perfect, not unless you're literally going to be made up to look perfect, and even then you're still not perfect for everybody. You might be perfect for that person or that group of people, but you're still not perfect for everybody that somebody go still see you and be like, oh man, she looks like the doll, man. Oh man, she look made up, man, she looked plastic. You still ain't gonna be somebody's type.

SPEAKER_04 25:15

Okay, that all that that's that's great. That's all that I will not dispute that. However, that has nothing to do with uh how you the maintenance in with yourself, with your mind, and with your your conditioning, uh sorry in terms of how your diet, you know. All that shit sounds good because I really have to uh say this natural does not mean without work. I see so many people who are shaped like croissants, uh look like the Michelin man, uh, all these things. I'm not gonna just I'm I'm not being facetious, I swear I'm not. It just has to be said. That's the truth. You just out here, man. You you you have you you have a horrible diet, you don't get with adequate sleep, you don't hydrate, you don't, the most you move is from you you you only move when necessary, and you know you'll do it. And you eat McDonald's, eat Burger King, you can't do it. So I yeah, and then and for some they get blessed in the fact cause in the right places, but I don't want to keep dragging this on. Bottom line, natural does not mean without work. And I see a lot of people in poor condition, particularly our ladies who are in horrible condition, and you know who you are. If it does not apply to you, please don't go out your way to misunderstand. And those of you that it do apply it to you, same applies. Don't go out your way to misunderstand. This is what I mean about taking accountability and showing some type of discipline. What I don't want profession, I want effort. You get an A for effort, because if you give effort, you're going to maximize it. Something's gonna give you you keep you keep chipping at it, and then you see your potential. If you're not trying, how do you know your potential if you don't try?

SPEAKER_00 27:07

Exactly. Right, right. You cooked on that because that is true, because even even when I'm in my little boot camp class and shit, right? Because I go to uh I'm a study for a personal trainer, right? That's what he be saying. He says that too, like, even if you can't do them all, it's about your effort. Put your best effort because tomorrow you're gonna be able to do what you couldn't do yesterday, but if you ain't making no effort at all, it's just like a mama that criticized whatever you got going on. People will criticize what you got going on, but they ain't even willing to even try it. They couldn't even get like on a treadmill with you even trying that like that, or in an entrepreneurial space, people will say what you should and shouldn't do will talk you out of your dreams. Why they they they they afraid to even take upon those dreams. So I agree with that wholeheartedly. I'm with that.

SPEAKER_02 27:48

For example, he cooking, you feel me? He cooking, all right. You feel me? Hey, appetizers, bro, appetizer eating, bro. We eating fasting, man.

SPEAKER_04 28:00

I got something to say.

SPEAKER_02 28:01

You asked me, you asked my opinion, you know. You know, you know, but I respect it though. That's why I nicknamed you Rod the Real. You know what I'm saying? I respect it.

SPEAKER_04 28:12

I might have to run with that. I might have to.

SPEAKER_02 28:15

Hey, bruh, go ahead, take the alley you, bro.

SPEAKER_04 28:17

Go ahead and you all have to switch that up. I might have to run with that one.

SPEAKER_02 28:24

Bro, if you broke, like I literally gave you that nickname because it beat you, Rob the Real. You know, because either he's still gonna keep it 100 with you unapologetically, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00 28:36

Just like yeah, if you personal training, if you personal train it, that's a good slogan too. Because you always gonna keep it real with all your plans.

SPEAKER_04 28:45

Well, I'm glad you brought that up. I'm hopping back into that for those natives. Uh I'm in Los Angeles, California. I am doing that. Uh get at me uh yeah, yeah, get at me uh, you know, we'll talk about the later, you know, my Instagram or getting my DM. I do our training.

SPEAKER_00 29:01

Do that now and later.

SPEAKER_04 29:02

Give me a thing is uh my Instagram right now is Rod Livingston5623. Uh I am heavily in the fitness community. That's my passion. That is like what I man, I I want to go in the gym one day, but I'm really into that, you know. Uh I try to be as organic. I'll be talking about vitamins, all that stuff. Go follow me. It's a lot of different content on there, it's mixed in, but it's a lot of fitness content on there, uh, diet, all of that. Raw, Lickers Then 5623. And uh, I might change it. Oh, yeah, yeah, I am right there. Praise God. Praise God. That's your boy right there. You know, and uh I'm really into that. So uh I am uh back into training. So if you're looking for that, hit me up and uh we can get something going because that's really my passion. And I really want to help somebody maximize their potential uh because it really feels good when you in your best physical condition is good for the mental, and I don't want to get too far into it. I deal with mental illnesses, and what I will say that is a real medicine. You do not need to take their medications. I promise you, get in most.

SPEAKER_00 30:17

No, no, look, let me tell you something. Let me let me click on you real quick. The cold part about it is the dopamine's in your brain. This is why in prison I used to like to work out first. You get up, work out early in the morning. Anything that comes up, even if it's stressful or whatever, you can handle it better than if you didn't work out. This is a fact, absolutely. Like I'm saying, that's why I like to get to get it in early. So, whatever what I got coming on that day, not only that, it's an instant accomplishment. You instantly accomplish so you're already feeling like you went up, and another thing, when you from perspective of when you lead the exercise, when you're doing the training, it helps you too because you're able to see oh, yeah, yeah, you building something, and not only that, it's keeping you motivated because you got to keep up. You feel me?

SPEAKER_04 30:56

Oh, yeah, and you and you know what I like about it, like you said, you building something. Although this person is helping you help them, they absolutely putting in the work, but it's through your your coach and you scoped in it, and it's and they are your walking billboard. You know what I love about fitness? You are a walking billboard, it's that's everything about you, not just yourself, but with those other people who put in the work, but they're gonna ask, Hey, how did you get to that? Oh, I had a trainer. So they get that through me. It's like uh, you like this um, I don't want to say guy, I don't want to say that. That's just out of context, but like um you you like this artist, right? It's like you like I sculpted it, you just yeah, I did that. That's your art. It's like you know, and you just say, Hey, hey man, let me see your work. Look at him, look at her, look at me. I am the work, right?

SPEAKER_02 31:49

You sculpted yourself the way a painter would do a picture, you know. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_04 31:54

It's like I I I I I'm bragging without bragging, it's silent. It and I just you don't demand nothing, you command everything. When you walk in a room, I swear before God is my witness, you command all attention from everyone and everything.

SPEAKER_02 32:11

Right. That that was dope though, you know what I'm saying? I'm gonna have to clip that part, you know what I'm saying? He can use that for a whole infomercial. There you go. You know what I'm saying? He got all over the water. Yes, you know, it's love over here, it's love over here. So I know this is right here, this topic right here is gonna be a little touchy for some females to hear. And before I even start, I'm not dismissing y'all as a parent, I'm not discrediting y'all as a parent. You know what I'm saying? I'm not watering down nothing that women do as a parent. You feel me? But at the same time, men have to start being men and keeping it real with women and saying, hey, fuck these feelings, you know what I'm saying? We gotta keep it 100 with y'all because a lot of the times female feelings get in the way of them being the correct parent because they feel in the type of way. You feel me? So, with that being said, bro, let's just jump into it, man. Are women raising soft and feminine men out here, bro? You know what I'm saying? And I'm more taken to the households that don't have the dad around, you know what I'm saying, or have a stepdad that's there but don't really want to be there. He just there to get in where he fit in with mom. He ain't really trying to deal with the kid, you know what I'm saying? So this ain't going to the households that have a two-parent system, you know what I'm saying, a two-parent co-parent system, even if that ain't in the house necessarily, you feel me? This is for the single-parent household where you have women raising men. What's up with women? You know what I'm saying? How do y'all feel about women raising men? Are they raising soft feminine men or you know what I'm saying, or my turping? Uh you want to take this first or no, no, hey, you guess first, you feel me? Hey, you the guests, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 33:56

I'll say this. I'll say this. Absolutely, whether they're single or uh have a man in the household, step parent or biological father, uh I think that the intention is not coming from a malicious place in terms of the undermining and the emasculation and the challenging, uh, particularly in front of children or all those things. You have to already, as a man, take a consideration. Children, especially when they're young, and even as adults, are gonna naturally always uh uh take their mother's side in some manner or cling to their mother in some manner. So you gotta already have that. So a woman should already know that because you are like that with your mother. Well, I say that to say this. So you need to have a high level of awareness to always constantly show some form of respect to this man in front of these children, which means do not undermine. Even if you don't agree necessarily, unless he's extreme in that moment, sit back, allow that man uh to do what he's doing when he's chastising andor uh teaching these children something, and then later on put them to the side, say something there. And as a man, you should consider that and you should be aware that she could have said something in front of the kids, but she put it to the side. So you should have that high level of awareness to appreciate that, and she should have the high level of awareness to pull you to the side and appreciate that you are willing to listen to that if that makes sense. All right, all right, it's really not complicated.

SPEAKER_00 35:29

Oh, go ahead, Ron. Go ahead. Okay, you still going? Oh no, that's we flirting. Okay, look, okay, listen, for sure. Niggas is pussy, it ain't just I'm just up to me, right? I'm just saying that like because I I was I'm a crack, I'm a crack era baby, so I'm a real 80s baby. Niggas be saying an 80s baby that was born in 80. I was born in 78. So I went through the whole 80s, minds on rocks, last key kid, uh, what was constituted as trouble versus not, having a fight versus having a shoot, having a shoot ended, like instead of having a fight, so I done went through like sometimes niggas talking about the OG shit like that, but the real reason why you look up to a nigga that been through some shit is that he seen all the shit before you that you heard about, plus he going through the shit that you guys going through. So that means I'm a nigga sitting in it. So we sitting in the whatever epidemic it is, and we done seen all this shit all over again. But I'm gonna tell you, I don't know if his single mind because I had a single mind. I can't say she just raised me to be a man because the streets and shit, and then like you know, uh uh drug dealers and grinding for niggas and and and doing all that shit really kind of gave me my sense of manhood as a youngster wasn't the right manhood at all. But I'm saying like carrying yourself like a man, being strong, not being a bitch, all that shit, right? But I'll tell you this to me, it might sound far-fetched, but people might not believe it, but it ain't got nothing to do with the mama, it got more to do with society. When you look at the media, uh uh no offense to anybody, but the homosexual culture is really, really, really for real being forced down your throat. Sexual education ain't just putting a condom on a banana no more, it's a whole nother thing to that. You could be earth, wind, fire, air, a paper kite, you could be so, you could be anything you want to be. Uh, you got celebrities raising young men to be young women and making that choice when they under 18, which uh to me, and I and I'm not a homosexual, so I don't know. To me, if somebody says something about their sex and what they identify as, to me, it's like kind of thinking sexual. I'm not gonna allow my 10-year-old, nine-year-old, 11-year-old to even say, like, what you want to do, what nigga, when you 18, you would figure that out. You gonna wear these clothes? This is what you're gonna be gonna do on that, isn't it? I gotta do with the uncles, the cousins, whatever. But also, absolutely the TV we was raised in front of, right? When when TV raised me, I'm not saying it was a more wholesome TV, but it was a more wholesome TV, right? You couldn't say ass on the radio, you definitely couldn't say assign that shit on the radio. It was still programming, all that shit been programming no matter what generation we have, right? But I'm saying has changed now to where if you're Jewish or you're homosexual and you diss them, your ass is canceled. You call me a nigga, you know what I'm saying? You could call me a nigga on purpose by accident, had to rex, whatever, and you get away with that and be forgiven. So, my point is that, yeah, some women might be coddling or doing shit like that, but some grown men are mama's boys and don't know how to do it.

SPEAKER_04 38:25

Oh, absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 38:26

And like the movie, if you ever and when you grow up, when you really get with you, go watch Baby Boy. Baby Boy is a real true classic depiction of what young men are, yeah. And and that and that's a classic movie, so that means that it's been there. But if we go back further, and I hate to cook and burn the recipe, but go back when they hung us upside down and castrated us and left us in front of the village. Go back to what's part of welfare, and how you could even have a man around for you to collect that check. So I'm saying yeah, niggas niggas ain't been shit constantly in life. We could agree to that. Some bitches is rats and don't know what the fuck they're doing and only have a kid's for a check or to try to keep a man. But but but that's not the whole of it.

SPEAKER_04 39:08

It is the No. It's a culture, it's a it's a it's a it's a type of culture. It's it's festival. And and so it like you just say, it really doesn't matter the walk of life or the demographic, uh, because you have educated uh ladies, uh particularly in our community, but you have educated women, you have uh common women, if you want to refer to us common folks, you have women, like you said, rats, whatever. But I've been I've had the pleasure or displeasure of dabbling in all types of women in my life. Something like a pleasure, call it what you like. So I've been around women of means, I've been around prostitutes, I've been around rats, hood rats, I've been around church girls, educated girls, and the one thing that all the pleasurable women had in common, they were still ladies in some capacity. Do you understand what I mean? If you're a lady, you're going to be a lady at all times. I don't care if you if you hoe. Listen, I'd have been around brand bunches hoes, and I'd have been around classy hoes. See, there was a time when when it wasn't even called, they weren't called hoes, they were called whores. And whores was actually that of something being classy. If you go back to the ancient culture, they were called geishes. So it doesn't matter if you were selling pussy, because that's all they were really doing.

SPEAKER_00 40:32

Excuse me, I like that it was concubines. All that should be the correct thing.

SPEAKER_04 40:36

So, but there was still an elegance to it. So, you know, there's still so I it I I laugh and when I hear ladies always refer to themselves as queens. Fine, I'll give you that. But if you understand what a queen is or anything that of royalty, you understand that anything connected to royalty is regal, and there's nothing regal about how you behave. So stop saying we're a queen. And same thing for you men, you're not a king because you're not regal, and half of you don't even understand what regal is. So we can't even go any further from this point. So please stop overusing king and queen, and I'm gone, please. Thank you. Humble Allah.

SPEAKER_02 41:15

No, no, that's real, especially when you're not abiding by what is depicted of. You know what I mean? Like, come on, bro. You know what I'm saying? It's nasty work. If you're not moving regally, then why are you using that phrase and that term to describe yourself if you're not falling under them actions of which it's depicted, bro? But I feel you on that. You feel me? I feel you on that.

SPEAKER_00 41:36

Rick, Rick, what you think about the young men right now? What you think the root of the root of it is, or do you agree with that?

SPEAKER_02 41:42

I mean, I'm gonna keep it 100, you know what I'm saying? Like, I feel like you know what I'm saying, they do and they don't. Meaning, I feel like they do because you go pick up whatever you're around all the time. So, you know what I'm saying? If your mom is super argumentative, I be seeing a lot of dudes who are super argumentative just like they mom. Like, bro, why every time a female says something, you gotta argue with them? Like, bro, it ain't that serious. You feel me? Or they are emotionally charged. So when they react to something, they're reacting nine times out of ten of how they feel and they emotions and not of what they're thinking, you know what I mean, and what's in their brain. You feel me? They can't articulate what they're feeling into words correctly, so they're just gonna act irrationally and act emotionally. Like, come on, bro, then you're gonna act like a female. Stop doing that, you know what I mean? So, yes and no, because at the same time, a female is only doing what she knows how to do. A female can't pretend to be a man because she doesn't know what it takes to be a man, so she's only going out where she's assuming a man to be, as far as when it comes to raising the son. So I can't be mad at her for that, you know what I'm saying? Because she's just doing the best she can with a mental.

SPEAKER_00 42:57

Who they raising? Who raising them, though, right? Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 43:01

So go ahead, go ahead. My apologies.

SPEAKER_00 43:03

Yeah, that that, but that means that she's not raising them to be a bitch, she's just doing the best she can, right? Exactly. Exactly. Who's faulty?

SPEAKER_04 43:11

So, with the so with that said, okay, so can I say this then? So I understand you're doing the best you can from what you know. That's a real thing. That's not the problem. You say you want a man around, you've chosen to have this man around, have an actual child with this man, or have this man be a stepfather to these children. It doesn't matter whether this man is the biological father or the stepfather. You've chosen to have your children with and or around this man. So you see something in him to have that, right? So I say that to say this. If you recognize him to be the man, then God dang on it. He's going to be the man. Step aside when he's being the man. You can't have him be the man, but be the man the way you want to. As my uncle would always say to me, Women, we're like TVs to women and they have the remote. They want to turn us on and turn us off when they like. They want to turn the channel when they like. They want to turn the volume up or down when they like, mute you, pause you, play, stop. It doesn't work like that. This is not Burger King. You cannot have it your way. If you deem this man uh honorable enough, uh whatever it is he suits you to have children with or be around the children and be uh someone in your life that you lay down with nightly, daily, all these things, then step aside and give him the space to be the man that you clearly see him to be. Because otherwise, why are you even with this man?

SPEAKER_00 44:44

So, Rod, you gotta flip it. You gotta flip it. But you gotta flip it though. I know you're gonna say the other part. Which is what that sometimes niggas ain't shit. A nigga will lay down with a woman and make him believe that she a king, that he a king, and then leave and leave everybody for dead.

SPEAKER_04 44:59

Well, well, well, well, you know why I didn't say that? You know why I didn't say that?

SPEAKER_00 45:03

The same man you talking about, because everybody wanna be the man, everybody ain't one man walking up acting like, look, I am a man, but I don't want to be the man, not to no woman. So if a man protects and and he have a baby even with a punk bitch, his responsibility is still supposed to be no matter what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_04 45:23

Okay, so so so all those things are true, and uh then there's a component of willful ignorance. Uh uh, I state this all the time. I'm I'm I'm 40. I just turned 40 uh just past October. So what I'm saying is you're too big for this bullshit. Excuse my French. What I'm saying is I'm not dismissing what you stated. That is an absolute real thing. But at this point, you should have seen the game because you've been in it, around it, you sniffed it. In some capacity, this should not be new to you. This should be in your playbook already.

SPEAKER_00 45:56

I'm talking about guys. Okay, so that's why so that's why I said the oldest is on the woman.

SPEAKER_04 46:05

At some point, you keep falling for the same trick. Well, now what I'm saying is in the beginning, when you're young, he's young, he don't even know what he's doing. Or you're young, you might be messing with an older cat and you don't know no better, something of that capacity. I totally grasp it. What I'm saying is, how many times do you keep being around people and you don't pick up on certain characteristic traits? That's why I said it goes back to when I asked earlier when I meet a woman, what kind of books do you read? What do you do in your free time? What do you do the first hour of your day? Those types of things let me know that you have discouragement.

SPEAKER_00 46:37

But but but Ryan, Ryan, Ryan, the real. You gotta keep it real. Uh-uh. Listen, you can throw a fishing pole with its worm on it in the same lure in the in the same lake over and over again, and all the fish gonna bite on it, and you're gonna catch them and you're gonna eat them, right? One fish might be telling other fish, they're all gonna fall for it. When a if you want you you you asking for a woman to go, when that man steps up, look at him as he as if he's the king, let him be the man, and I'm gonna step aside.

SPEAKER_03 47:04

I'm sorry, that comes with time. Right, look, look, but not off the rim.

SPEAKER_04 47:15

Oh no, I'm not saying that. Don't do that. That's not what I'm saying. Ladies, do not do that off the rim, lady. Hold on, ladies. You don't know this nigga. I'm saying if you've gotten to the point that he's your man, you've already did that already. That's what I'm gonna stop playing with me.

SPEAKER_00 47:33

Give me this, give me this right here. You could be the man that's walking to him, go, hey baby, what books you read? Oh, is that right? You ain't read this about financial name. Hey, you ain't read about that. Like, I'm gonna school you on all that, but he could be a wolf in sheep's clothing. I'm saying that you might be the real nigga. That's I'm saying women fall for bullshit. I used to be a visitant and seeing bad bitches with niggas. I know that was in there sucking dick. You feel me?

SPEAKER_04 47:57

I'm saying hey man, listen, hey man, hey, listen, man. Life's hard. Get a helmet. Yeah, because if you had a flip, we'd all be drunk. If we had a flip, we'd all be drunk. That's a lot of interest beat boxing. Man, I don't want to hear none of that, sir. Hey man, we don't hear explain bagging. Stop the press. I don't listen. We are 40 plus years old. I don't want to hear this. This is not Mario Brothers. I'm not Mario, you're not a Luigi. Stop it. Stop it. This is not PlayStation 1, no memory call. No, that's not no, that's not it. Don't put words in my mouth, please. I'm absolutely not saying that. What I'm saying is it gets to a point where you should have some level of discouragement to where you know what traits to shy away from. And that is the standard that you have for yourself. And once you see these things don't apply, they don't align, you should already know you should stem yourself away from that. People always say these things, they say one thing, but their actions say this. They say, Oh, I'm not into these, I'm not into drama, I'm not into drama, but they're constantly messing with a dude or a woman that's around drama.

SPEAKER_00 49:08

They're working with feelings. It's a man's job to be cerebral, it's a it's a man's job to be cerebral, see a problem, want to solve it. It's a woman's problem job to look at the problem, wonder how she's gonna solve it, and ask a man to do.

SPEAKER_04 49:21

So ultimately, so ultimately, what I'm saying is uh it's both parties are responsible for the the mayhem that is. Everybody plays a part. But you asked me specifically about uh uh the women, so I get my perspective from that. But if we're just speaking to it, but if we're speaking to it, like as they say, it's pissed in a dating pool, it's hella contaminated, and can't nobody point the finger because when you point the finger, it's three pointing back at you. What I mean is, what I mean is these men, they are bitch ass niggas, excuse my French, and yes, these boys are soft, it's because either they are being raised by soft emotional cats or there's no father around, so they're under a matriarchy. But even when these punk ass dudes are around, it's just like they're in a matriarchy because a lot of these dudes sit down when they piss. They argue in the comments, dude. That lets you know they sit down and piss. Why would I argue with a person? So, what I'm saying is I understand your premise. I don't want to sit here and play like I don't understand what you were expressing. You were simply pointing out, hey, here's this component. I'm just saying I'm gonna cut out the middle man and get straight to the point. Here's the problem, here's the solution. All that if we could, if we had a fit, I'm not doing all of that. That we we defend it. This is the problem, this is the solution. Now, you might not like your options, but their options.

SPEAKER_00 50:47

Right. I just know when a man pulls up, man, the man got to be the man. And if a nigga want a bitch, to be the man.

SPEAKER_04 50:52

Absolutely, and everybody will fall. That goes back to what I said.

SPEAKER_00 50:56

It's a man around me, any nigga around me, any nigga around me that I know he ain't fucking with his kids, even if his bag mama is so listen. I mean exactly a gremlin, and I'd be like, nigga, what was you ever thinking? But nigga, what's up, but you know it's Easter, right? But you know what's you know what I'm saying? I just I'm gonna hold a man accountable because and I'm not saying that bitches just dumb, but bitches be working with feelings, niggas would be working with something else a lot of the times.

SPEAKER_04 51:22

Like, I'm just saying, well, as my as my as my children's grandfather says all the time, and he reminds me constantly uh women work with two-thirds emotion, one-third logic, and then it's reverse for men. Men work with two-thirds logic, one-third emotion. The problem is, I always say this constantly. Everything is extreme these days and in the wrong places. So the women lean into that one-third, that that logic, or excuse me, the emotions, they lean heavily into that, and but uh, but the men do too now. Men don't lean into their two-thirds logic, they lean into so that goes back to the what you just this whole segment right here about these soft boys. So a lot of these boys lean into the two-thirds, uh, or excuse me, the one-third emotion heavily, and forget about the two-thirds uh logic, and then you know, they got fathers raising them, emotional men, so it's a vicious cycle.

SPEAKER_00 52:19

But not only that, it's women like I ain't gonna lie to you, bro. I did 19 straight years and got out. Women was harder than niggas in a lot of ways. I'm talking bitches carrying guns, bitches to clapping motherfuckers, bitches. That's why bitches be getting popped and beat up. I ain't saying that it's right, I'm just saying that some women step into situations talking like doing shit like niggas. You know why? So so I know why it's almost like a role reversal to where it might not just be the women's fault that they that's as young, suck, sucking, soft ass men getting raised, but looking at men nowadays that's painting their nails, uh wearing blouses, uh uh uh rapping about whatever, wearing dresses on covers to where it's kind of uh wearing part like to where I'm saying that the women, some of the women looking at niggas and going, this is a bitch ass nigga.

SPEAKER_04 53:09

Right. Well, absolutely. Okay, so that makes sense. So this goes back to if once you realize that, that's when you're supposed to get out of what they call the matrix and get yourself spiritually aligned, get your mind right. So this goes for both genders for everybody. Um again, I'm not discrediting anything you're saying. I don't disagree. All I'm really saying is once this is about having a high level of awareness, because to continue to do the same thing over and over again is constituted as insanity. So if you're aware of this and you're not doing nothing about it, then shame on you. Your awareness is telling you these things that you guys just spoke to are happening. So now one must become something like a monk, a Buddhist, something you gotta get up out of there, you know, and you're not doing it, but you're complaining about shit, but you put it, you gotta switch it up, you gotta switch it up. That's that's all I'm saying, man. That's all I'm saying. If you have to start pulling yourself up by the bootstrap, and so at 40 years old, man or woman, there's things that you must know and and and just be and tell about.

SPEAKER_00 54:18

Yes, I agree.

SPEAKER_04 54:19

At 40 and oh, that's in life, but it particularly about this man-woman stuff. If you want to be a stepparent, I'm not gonna tell you not. I I have my reasons why I would tell somebody not to be, but that's not really what I want to say. It's your choice. What I'm saying is, whatever you do, I don't care what you do, always weigh the options. And once you do, if you choose to embark, don't bitch about it because you knew what you would get yourself into. Now, if at some point you find out it's not for you, don't make a big deal or deal about it. Simply bow out gracefully. That's all you have to do. That's all I'm saying. Why is that so hard for us to do? Why if you want to be a stepfather, be a stepfather. I don't care what no man tells you. That's your life, that's your you know what, your your swipe. That's do what you want to do. I might say otherwise, but it doesn't matter what I say. You're a man. But do it with the understanding of what you could go through. And if you should happen to go through these things or see traits, get out before the kitchen gets on fire. If you see a little smoke, then hey, get away before it becomes a fire. That's all I'm saying. Same thing for you ladies. If you're giving a man a chance and you start seeing signs, especially signs that you're familiar with, simply bow out gracefully. Don't make an ordeal, don't cuss, don't fuss, don't fight, don't crash out. Just bow out gracefully. And if that person cannot respect that, they have restraining orders. They have, you can block people. I don't want to hear they keep DMing me, man, block them. Oh, well, they keep hitting me from other accounts. Listen, I know there's people out there that's crazy, but you're flattering yourself right now. You want me to believe that this person keeps creating these fake accounts over and over and over and over again? This is a real life person who has a real life, a real family. Stop it. If you don't want to talk to a person, you won't. Because I if when you did it, you've done it before. Quit playing, people.

SPEAKER_01 56:22

Nah, that's real. That's real, bro. You feel me? Hey, Rodrigo. I'm long. I apologize.

SPEAKER_03 56:29

I'm just passionate. I get my bad, yo. My bad.

SPEAKER_00 56:37

Hey, I'm telling you, Rod the Real. Hey, he's on the pulpit right there.

SPEAKER_01 56:42

For real. Hey, he got a little bit of a little bit of a little bit of a shit.

SPEAKER_04 56:43

I couldn't tell, bro. But I taught myself like, hey, man, I should respect some etiquette. I I'm I apologize, and I mean that. I'm my bad. I you know, you gotta have etiquette. It's other people. I apologize.

SPEAKER_02 56:54

Man, no, ride the real, bro. We gotta stamp that, man. We gotta stamp that just like that, bro. So, hey, main course. Hey, we eating on the main course, bro. I'm telling you, cook team. You know what I'm feeling? So, hey, second topic on the main course, man. Hey, I was gonna jump straight into it, duh. Rod up and get your opinion first, as always, on it. Bruh, interracial relationships, you know what I'm saying? And that could be any two different races. It don't just have to be a black and white thing necessarily, because we know there is mad ethnicities and different races. Just interracial relationships, period. Hey, what's your thoughts and takes on it? You know what I'm saying? Y'all with it against it. Hey, let me know what it is.

SPEAKER_04 57:36

Uh, I'm definitely not against it, silly, because I've been dating interracially my whole life. I started off that way. Now, I will say that the mother of my children is black by all the tens of purposes, as she would say. Now, she has a lot of different things going through her blood, but on service, she's a dark-skinned woman with green eyes. And when I say dark, I mean Xbox with green eyes. That type of thing. Now, with that say, with that saying, though, uh, I've always indulged in women. Women meaning black women, all shades, uh, uh, all cultures, white women, Asian women. I'm from Los Angeles, California, Los Angeles County, specifically grew up in the Long Beach area, Lakewood area, so forth. You know, just California, all the surrounding cities. It's we come from a diverse city. And I'm a man, and I live under universal law. Now, I understand the nuances, the cultural differences, which is what people key in on, and that may matter. But if we're just talking about, man, I'm a man, I have eyes, and I like her, she likes me, we just vibe it as people. No, I'm not against that because you're supposed to go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated. And I don't care who you are. Now, if you have a preference, please exercise that. And while exercising your preference, you do not have to demean the other while doing so, and that is the problem. Now, are there comparisons? Are they valid? Sure. Um, and there's still a way to convey that without being demeaning. And once conveying it in a respectful way, if the person goes off their way to misunderstand, again, just bow out graciously. But no, I'm not against it. I'm for it. Go where you want to be, just understand what you're getting into. Don't complain about it, and don't throw it in people's face.

SPEAKER_02 59:19

Hey, that part, that part, dub. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00 59:22

How you feel, bro? I just I feel like you love who you love. I I don't I don't really I I got a family that was spawned from interracial relationships. Uh that's because my cousin Alicia. Like, so like like to me, it's like I got a family that was uh introduced to me as a family that was white. I I grew up I'm from the dubs, and like being we grew up with Asians, like that's the same look, Mexicans, North Asian, shit like that. Like you feel me? So at the end of the day, I really don't really care. Not only that, I'm more like a uh a culture. Like if I don't like your culture, like the way the food you eat, uh the like some of the smells that might come out your house and shit like that, I'm more so like a verse to that. Race is really a construct anyway. Like if if we know if we know that everything came from African, anything else on the planet, whether it's unless it's alien, right? You know what I'm saying? It's all derived from us anyway. So to me, race is like a it's more of a social construct in order to keep us against each other at all times, so we can never come together and do whatever we supposed to do if we were unified. I don't even look at race like that. Now, I that don't mean that I ain't never looked at a wood, uh, a judge or something like that and say this type of motherfucker and been racist. That don't mean I ain't never been there. That don't mean I ever felt that way. But if my son came up to me or if my daughter showed the three now and should have come to me and said when somebody else had a race and said, I love this person, I would more be like, I I might judge immediately. They judge it, right? Immediately ain't judging, right? I might judge right here, but I want someone to know what type of person it is. And I just see love go either way. So me, I'm I'm more like each his own. Uh I I I'll piggyback on him. But what he said, when you do indulge in the other cultures and shit like that, be prepared for what you get in, because there are differences culturally. The way people react to that. The way when when you go, if you if if you get brought home to meet her family in this case, or if you uh or if you bring her home to meet your family, those things happen. How y'all eat, uh certain smells, uh hygiene. Like you know what I'm saying? You know, that you may you might think you like this because you watching Instagram and shit like that, and all that shit, and you fuck around and find out. It's like being when you're in prison. You fuck with a bitch when you're in prison, you ain't never really been at home with her, yeah. You met her in prison, you get home. She might find out some shit about you, you find out about her that y'all really wasn't ready for. So just be ready and prepare for oh, and one more thing be prepared for the ridicule because we know how black people are.

SPEAKER_04 1:01:52

Oh, absolutely, all right, and antagonizing. Oh, it's gonna be a lot of antagonizing from the ladies, not the men, it's gonna be the military, them super military men, but the women, oh, they're gonna antagonist, they're gonna antagonize you. Oh, oh, and they're gonna try to fight her, they're gonna try to get her to fight, they're gonna try to get her to fight. Oh, they're gonna try to get her to fight.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:16

But look, but with the men, too, don't don't get it twisted. Niggas will see a badass black chick with a white dude, she fucking with that wood niggas judge too, right?

SPEAKER_04 1:02:25

But hey, but people not my niggas though, we don't even care because we universal though. When you universal thing, I'm of universal law, that means I have universal appeal. So we already understand what the game is. That's why I said now of my homies, we may have preferences, but of my circle, we abtract all demographics of women, point blank, period, because we understand that we under the guise of universal appeal or universal law, excuse me.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:52

A woman gonna make you feel like boo-boo, yeah. I'm saying I'm talking about even if you fuck with everybody say back in the days, and she found out about and we see Dr. Umar, Dr. Umar say straight up, if you fuck with anything outside of black people, nigga, you fucking over the whole race.

SPEAKER_04 1:03:11

What that dude say on that movie, uh was Tom Hasley when he said, Hey, look at me, look at me. That's me telling you, I don't give a damn what he said. I don't give a damn. What did I just say about a man is able to do what he wants? If he believes and that's what he wants to live his life and teach the people that want to follow that and it resonates with his tribe, I'm not against that, but that's not gonna, he's not gonna tell me that I'm any less black. I wish he would, because you don't know me, you don't know my life, and you're not gonna sit here and try to psychoanalyze me. I don't care anything about your degrees. You I don't know your lived experience, and you don't know mine, and you're not gonna tell me about my experience.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:51

Now, what you can say is I won't use my experience as an excuse. He's not the spokesman for all black people. How somebody seems like he's like the ambassador of everybody, right? All the opinions now. He's not he's not the ambassador, and not only that, you can't allow somebody else's opinion to become your reality. If you do be a leg, like you feel me? Oh, he's gonna be like I think your email I got you now. What I'm saying is you can't allow, I'm I said he's not the ambassador for black thought for one thing, and not only that you can't allow his opinion to become your reality. Because if you allow somebody else's opinion to come reality, you basically are supporting it and you let them allow them to lead and control your life. So I agree.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:32

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:35

And like with me, I mean, hey, you know what I'm saying? I'm gonna go ahead, I'm gonna keep it transparent. I'm gonna go ahead and keep it one ten, a straight pure off the break. You feel me? Uncut, no steps on no filter. Bro, I got four baby wrongs. You feel me? Four BMs, and yes, all four of my BMs are white, or they chose it for them to be white. No, that's just what God put in front of me at the time that I was out here choosing to have a kid, you know what I'm saying, or not choosing, and certain situations happen, and God said, Hey, you ain't ready for no kid, nigga. Get ready, nigga, because it's coming regardless. You know what I'm saying? So, no, me having four VMs was not playing. Me having four kids was not playing. You feel me? But we all know sometimes you live a life that the cards was dealt and you gotta handle that hand as they come. You know what I'm saying? Not everything is go ahead, is gonna be pre-deceived in a notion to where hey, we're gonna put you through this, is how you're gonna handle it. So, hey, I'm gonna put you through this, but uh, sometimes it comes when it happens, you know what I mean? That's just life. So the crazy part is, as far as me dating interracially, I've only gotten hate from people and females who look like me. You feel me? I get a little hate from other, you know what I'm saying, Caucasians that see me out with my kids or see me out with my baby mama, you know what I'm saying? Shit like that. But most of the hate that I've gotten in my life. Lifetime has been from my own people. You know what I'm saying? Me raising my daughter, still living in the hood. Her mom having to come through, pull up, pick her up, drop her off, bring diapers, bring bottles, bring milk, you know what I'm saying? So on and so forth. Wanna come in, spend a couple of hours worth while she on break from work, stuff like that. So you know what I'm saying? I've got more hate for my own people, and it's not because of me not being a dad, it's because of me being a dad. Oh, you only get mad to your kid because she mixed, you know what I'm saying, and she all pretty and stuff. Bro, if my daughter or my kids was black as fucking peppercorn, nigga, and fucking ugly as I don't know what, I'm still gonna love my kids the same. My kids get get loved because of the type of kids that they are, who I had a kid with, who they mama is, what race and creed and ethnicity. No, bro. I'm a dad because I know what it feels like to grow up and not have your dad around. I had to grow up and not have my real dad around, have my sister's dad around. You know what I'm saying? Which I still call dad to this day, because he stepped up and did a job that wasn't even his job to do. It'll be stuff like that. So I've seen both sides of the fence. The side where you don't have a dad who don't give a fuck about you, who ain't gonna do shit for you, and a stepdad, you know what I'm saying, who love you, who doing everything under the sun for you, trying to raise you correctly, discipline you, all of that, trying to show you what it takes to be a real dad because your dad ain't around to be that dad. You know what I'm saying? So I've seen both sides of the fence. You feel me? So I didn't want to put my kids through the same shit that I went through, not having my dad around. So I chose to be a dad to all my fucking kids. It wasn't because they mix or because they moms is white. No, it's because of the nigga you chose to have kids with. That's what you females go wrong. Just like Rod said, y'all see the warning song and y'all still choose to have kids with these niggas and then get mad when they do a bunch of fuck shit. What you think they gonna do? You knew better than have a kid with this nigga to begin with. That was your choice. That was your fuck up, that was your decision. You feel me? Don't take it out on the kid, take it out on you. You the parent. They didn't ask to be here. You know what I'm saying? So, do I regret having four baby mamas? Fuck yeah. You think I want four fucking baby mamas? Hell no, you know what I'm saying? But I love my kids to death and don't regret having four kids, you know what I'm saying, just because of the situation of which they came. You know what I'm saying? Now, if I could rewind it, I would have one baby mama and four kids instead of four kids by each one of fucking baby mamas. You know what I'm saying? I would just change it. When I wouldn't change my kids being here, I love my kids to death, you know what I'm saying? But in a relational relationship, even I told my kids, love who you want. If my daughter brings home a white boy, I don't care. If that nigga Asian, I don't care just long as that nigga love you and treat you correctly and you love him, and it ain't no problems, and daddy ain't gotta hang them over the balcony, you feel me? Cool, you feel me? I don't care who you date, what race, what creed, what ethnicity, that is not my business. Love who you love. You know what I'm saying? So interracial dating to me, it ain't never been an issue because let's look, I mean, let's keep it 100. In 20 years, 25 years, the next generation all gonna be interracial. You see more interracial couples in dating than anything. All the fucking kids are gonna be moves.

SPEAKER_04 1:09:24

I can say this, I'll say this. In my city, it's interracial dating is not as prevalent as people love to believe it is. You gotta get out of your algorithms and then you gotta think about your proximity. Now, I can say visually for me, because of where I grew up at the city, Los Angeles, California, Long Beach, all that, that's prevalent here. But this is one of many cities. Normally, people date within their culture, ultimately. They date and marry within. They may have a sprinkler here, so it's not as prevalent. It's prevalent for you because it's normal to you. And it's normal to me because that's how I started, and I'm not opposed to dating the women that I deal with now, and yes, my lady and I do what we do. Anyway, I dabble with other cultures of women still. So for me, that's normal, but I still have a level of awareness that that's not normal for most people, no matter what culture you are. Because most people, no matter man or woman of any culture, don't have the capacity to date out of their culture anyway, simply because they don't have a universal appeal. Point quite literally. It's not as easy for a white. Y'all think white rich men can just go date a uh uh another culture or woman, it's not really that easy like you think. The money helps, but there's a certain ginetic you are that you gotta have when you want to date out your culture. I don't care what culture you are, it does not apply to only black people, it applies to everybody. And everybody does not have a universal appeal. That's why if you apply it to music, they have something called a crossover artist, which means they're universal, an X factor. So people love to talk about I'm gonna go dead out of my race and throw into one another's face. Yeah, no, you're not. No, you're not. First of all, I know better because I really be out here, I've really been living this. I know how this goes. No, you're not. Then if you want to get statistic-wise for those who like to indulge in that, um no, you're not. At the rate that you it's not happening in that way. So I would say for you, uh, you say that's just what you, you know, it just happened to be that you had to choose with white women, so be it. That's your prerogative. But no, that's what you like. You're just not opposed to other cultures of women because you you had it with women play. So let's say that. That's what you like, but you're not opposed to other types of women. I had to get you on that one. Uh probably more.

SPEAKER_00 1:11:42

It's one more thing. That nigga blame, that nigga blame God for him having multiple baby mamas. As if that nigga said, Hey, look, you you you didn't protect you on your pull-out game whack or something. God looking at you like nigga, that wasn't on me, nigga.

SPEAKER_04 1:12:02

Yeah, don't put that on me, Ricky Bobby. Hey, hey, yeah, I heard that too, but I don't want to get Segway, but we're gonna talk about this. Hey, I'm gonna get you up some stuff, but I'm gonna turn it out to you like white women, and that's okay. But but what I will say, what I will say is That's what you like white women, four straight niggas, four different women, but you ain't different, you ain't had no crossover, he never crossed back. That nigga you just say you didn't say I got four baby mamas, one is black, one asian, one white, one Hispanic. Then you said four straight, that nigga went four straight nigga table saw. That nigga said I got table saw, nigga.

SPEAKER_00 1:12:43

If you bring a white bitch around him, you gotta watch it. Like that nigga.

SPEAKER_04 1:12:47

Oh, you gotta watch it. Hey, he said it you said if it ain't snowing, I ain't going. You said he said so stop now.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:57

You know what I'm talking about, though? You know what I'm talking about.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:01

You just earned your name on the real because you don't know. Wait for me to stop talking. I couldn't even listen to you. Because once I heard him say that shit about God, I was like, Oh, I can't wait to talk again. I can't wait to go. Yeah, yeah, I couldn't wait to roast this nigga.

SPEAKER_04 1:13:17

Yeah, you gotta I can't let that slide. He told me no let him slide too.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:21

That nigga said no, no, because what happened? He tried to enunciate it too. No, because God, nah, nigga.

SPEAKER_04 1:13:28

Hey, he's talking about brothers, brothers. Hey man, hey, what he say on house party? He said, Hey man, go give me two pork chop sandwiches and a bean pie. Hey, watch out, brother.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:38

Let me tell you, do you hear me? My wife, if my wife watching this right now, he ain't even a nigga no more. She helps it nigga. When it comes to that, she be tripping. I'm talking, I'll be like, it's it's extreme, bro.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:55

Nigga, all black chicks be tripping about that shit. What are you doing?

SPEAKER_04 1:13:59

Hey, no, no, no. I'll tell you what, I tell you what, bro. Uh so really quick, I want I want to really say this. Aside from what we what we started about, uh, listen, man, you're gonna take care of your kids no matter what, because you're a man. And so for people to try to make the correlation of your care for your kids or your lack of care for your kids uh have something to do with them being mixed or not mixed, don't allow people to project on you. Here's the reality, man. You gotta understand human nature. And this is what I say. A lot of things are not really about you, so you can't take it personal. People project. Human nature goes like this. When you're a part of a faction and something not normal comes around or you go against what looks like the grain, you're going to naturally get pushed back. It could be with dating, it could be with religion, it could be with a gang, it could be, hey man, I'm in a union, right? Labor's union. Say I decide I don't want to be a laborer no more and I and I've dumped shit and I go to the uh to the uh contractors union for now. Or excuse not the contractors, but the uh the uh the carpenter's union. Oh damn, it's like that. So it's gonna, no matter what, if you're going against the grain. So once you understand human nature, you start having a high level of awareness to not allow to bother you, and that's where your stoicism comes in because you understand you cannot control people because they can't even control their own damn emotions. So, what can you do?

SPEAKER_00 1:15:25

Right, right, right, and it's pointless to do so. So, you know, like anybody, anybody, anybody really, even if you ever felt that and ridiculed you for having some children around because they don't even know your situation, they just look at, and I understand we all have a heightened sense of like kind of knowing what judgment feels like without words, like I think it's absolutely united. Like we could just kind of feel like this ain't you ain't saying shit, but I know you think it's some shit. You feel me? I'm saying that kind of judgment, them kind of people so lame that it don't even matter because that's yeah, they're miserable anyway. Yeah, because anything I do with some kids, who judges that? If if a white kid, age kid and walk up to me and need a dollar, I don't care. I'm like, well, you know, I don't know. I'm not even thinking like that. But culturally and historically, remember, people who thought kids parents would teach their kids that's a nigger, or when they like you know, they would be out there with lynching with happening. So you gotta understand that culturally, sometimes it'd be that, but the stigma of judgment, uh, you just can't allow somebody else's opinion to become your reality, or you'll never be you. That's that on that. So, what do we got next?

SPEAKER_02 1:16:27

Nah, that's facts, bro. You know what I'm saying? You already know, man. Dessert to finish it off, man. Dessert, hey, it's gonna be personally based on your opinion only, you know what I'm saying? This ain't a topic. This is five things that is a no-go as far as dealing with a female, and five things that you rock with as far as dealing with a female. You know what I'm saying? So we got the five for five. You feel me? Give me y'all five things, you know what I'm saying? That's hey, I rock with her because of these five reasons, and give me five of those. I can't rock with you because of these five reasons. You feel me? Five for five.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:04

Okay, uh, so what am I coming with first? My five reasons that that qualifies.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:10

That that that's that's up to you. You feel me? Whichever or whichever one put you on.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:15

I'm gonna start with I'm gonna start with qualifies first because I like to speak to other things that I like, speak that it's the universe. Uh, a woman who's physically fit or into physical fitness in some capacity, uh, or athletic, because I know that right then and there, you have the level of awareness right there. You already understand a lot of things without having to get into grave detail. Uh then from there, you know, the lifestyle, your routine, your morning routine, uh, how's that go? So I say that would be so I said fit level of fitness. Uh how do you stimulate some my like uh books that attracts me to you? Um are you uh soft-spoken, sweet, you sweet person? Are you a nice person? Are you nice? You know, there's a lot of ladies out here that are just not nice. Like, are you just a nice person? Do you have a sweet spirit? That's three. Um welcoming, I would say. I apologize. Uh number four, I would say uh family-oriented, and five, respectful. Because if you have respect, just blatant, I mean, bottom line, blatant respect, you're gonna conduct yourself as such. So those are the things that would attract.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:32

So those are the five things that would attract me to mention, you know what I'm saying, with her being new on her physical, you know what I'm saying, being physically fit, that's just something y'all naturally already have in common, just right there off the rip, you know what I'm saying? Just a frame eye level, just a surface level. That's something y'all already got in common without even have to ask about detail. Like, do you do this? I could look at you and be aware, like, all right, you take care of your body the same way you can look at me and say, hey, I know brother take care of his body. You know what I'm saying? We already got something in common off the rip right there. That's a conversation starter.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:05

Yeah, and and part of uh attraction in the seven laws of attraction, uh, it's also about uh, you know, having uh alignment with the person, you know, spiritually, mentally, and or otherwise. And if you don't share the same views on a deeper level or have the same lifestyle things, you're gonna conflict. It's not gonna work. So that's why I started off with fitness. It's not about being superficial. You already understand aesthetically what you like. I see people who are not necessarily gym rocks. It's it's let me make this clear. There are beautiful women in this world that do not work out. I want to make this very clear. Let me make this very clear. There are women walking this earth ain't never stepped in a gym. Boy, listen, you're rough for your money in more ways than one visually and otherwise. What I understand is the science behind it, and because I'm so passionate about life, I understand that although you may look good long term, if you don't take care of yourself, you're gonna decompose. You're gonna that's not that's not gonna be. So I look at the the long term in it. So I prefer fit women, and I understand you have the awareness. That's what that is for me. And then visually, when you are the fittest version of yourself, whether you believe it or not, you do look the best. Whatever your fitness version is. So I want to make that very clear. So that's why I left with fitness because all of that I just said, that's what I meant. I I ended up saying it anyway. So my bad if I always spoke. I know my man didn't give us uh version of his five what he like.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:42

No, no, no, no, you good, you good. You good deal breakers. Oh, yeah, no, deal breakers.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:49

Oh, doesn't work out and or exercise a quality uh diet or adequate uh way of living. Um does not uh have some kind of spiritual foundation or meditate in some capacity, uh stimulate themselves that way spiritually, does not stimulate their minds, you know, in terms of uh reading or fill their heads with a bunch of bullshit crap. Like I said, tell me you watch bodies. I'm not gonna take you serious. I put it to you that way. Uh the door is uh not uh the door is closed, it ain't locked. So if I see you you get yourself together, you might have a chance. But yeah, you really don't know. I don't feel like you simulate to mine. Um again, are you rude of noxies, rambunks that Jezebel spirit does number four? And um again, you know, uh five lacking that exercise uh uh uh accountability, having awareness. I understand you're a lady and you you have feelings, and I don't want you to be a man. I promise you, I don't want you to be a man. Uh what I'm saying is I need you to still have uh exercise your level of awareness when it matters, not just when you try to be malicious.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:02

That part. That part.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:04

All right, man. Hey, I rocked with that, man. Y'all got his five, you know what I'm saying? Hey, qualifications. You got the five disqualifications. I can't rock with you. Hey, you already know Roger Real, go keep it exactly that real with you. You know what I mean? Show host, how you feel, bro? What what's on your mind, man?

SPEAKER_00 1:22:22

I'm superficial and I'm internal. Nice teeth is my life. You gotta have good teeth, right? A nice odor, smell. I'm talking about whether you're in the shower, out of the shower, in the bed, whatever. Like you know what I'm saying. Uh financially savvy, right? Meaning uh you ain't gotta be rich or you shouldn't be poor, but I'm saying you know how to rock the bills, you know how to fuck with the taxes, your credit good, shit like that, right? Um a maternal instinct, right? Maternal meaning that whether you mother and a kid, whether we ain't got one yet or whatever, even if we do, but I can see it in you because sometimes you give it to me, right? So that's like a togetherness to me, the maternal instinct, right? And and and and the fifth one is is is all gotta do. And when I say it, it's gonna sound fucked up, but uh a woman that knows when to shut the fuck up, like when it like when it's time to just you know what that was, I can tell that was enough. Like I don't even know if that's even possible, but just a woman that knows that I can look in this nigga face and tell that I'm let me just be quiet. Or I or I'm learning right now. He's schooling me. He gives me some game. You feel me? I'm saying it's game time. Let me just be a lady, let me sit back. So a woman that can listen and know when I want to talk. That's my five snacks right there. Okay, bad teeth. I can't kiss you, I can't do much with you when I'm looking at you. If I'm looking in your eyes and honestly looking down at that, it's a distraction. I'm just sorry, like I'm saying. Uh no just no disrespect. I don't want to find that. I'm sorry, man. Listen I'm just sorry, I'm keeping it real. This shit is a joke to you, but this shit ain't no joke. So bad teeth, a fat bitch, and uh whatever comes to the fat bitches if your shoes lean. But now mind you, it be some fat bitches that do be cute, they be having a little dress code, and smelling everybody got that paper up. I'm just saying I'm just not me. Uh the third one is bad credit. Like, and you got that five points, and you trying to get the CPN to move in or something, that ain't cool. Uh uh uh super uh always tripping, loud. Um I and I don't mind like a thug. I'm just saying always I can't do it. I just can't do it, right? And uh a woman with too many homosexual friends. That's that's my that's that's it. I can't do it.

SPEAKER_02 1:25:12

Man, look, hey, I respect it, man. Hey, I love my big girls. You feel me? Hey, y'all already know, man. Fuck with your boy, you feel me? I love my big girls. You feel me? Big girls need love too.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:26

You feel me?

SPEAKER_04 1:25:27

Hey, you know, uh, you know, I have my thought about it, but what I'm really learning is I believe that thought, but what I do believe is too, because I'm so in tune and aware and understand sexual energy, you can't tell a person what get them going. For better or worse. Now, I think some things that's where discipline comes in, something you just should not indulge in. However, and under the guise of men and women, uh, despite my thought process of the type of men and women that deal with each other, sexual attraction is sexual attraction. And so, with that being said, if big girls is your thing, they are. For me, they're more of a kink.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:06

I love me. I love all women.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:10

I'm not gonna discriminate being a big girl, though.

SPEAKER_00 1:26:13

But you said they're more of a what you said.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:17

For me, big women are more of a kink for myself. Um, but long term, as far as the long term, I I will never uh date one long term because it's a it's a conflict of interests, it's a culture clash, it's a lifestyle clash.

SPEAKER_02 1:26:30

Clearly, you're that it really is though. It really is.

SPEAKER_04 1:26:41

Right. So that goes back to what I started off while I stated earlier. Believe me, you there are women of all shapes and sizes that I'll tell you what, boy, it's up. I don't give it, but we talking about lifestyle, it conflicts with the lifestyle I lead. So long term, I could not do that. So I don't mean to be facetious. This could only be casual. You can be like a cool girlfriend.

SPEAKER_00 1:27:02

You're being facetious, you're you're being facetious. I know you don't you don't mean to be, but you're being facetious. Just how so? How so you just being real though? I mean, that's being one hundred because you sound just like me, except you're articulating it better. You just don't want a bad bitch. Can't be the only one.

SPEAKER_04 1:27:22

But no, no, no, but see no no no. I say wait, well, see what here's the thing. You just were more uh you were more blunt about it. I made that clear when I said I like women that work out, that was already understood. See, I didn't have to say all of that, but now since we're giving it context and I'm feeding it, sure. But I that was already understood. You said that. When I say I like women that work out, clearly that's already understood. Well, I don't work out. So what that man say, uh well, uh Queen, you got you not qualified.

SPEAKER_00 1:27:50

But you already know that. I don't have to tell you that real quick. What I heard about Rek, what he said real quick is not only do Wreck like the, you know. Bunnies, he likes them big. No, I like all women.

SPEAKER_02 1:28:04

I like all women. I just don't discriminate over a female because of their shape or say size. You know what I'm saying? So I'll fuck with skinny chicks as skinny as me. I'll fuck with thick females. I'll fuck with bigger females. You feel me? Like, nigga, I'm skinny as shit. Every female is bigger than me.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:22

Let me ask you a genuine question. So let me ask you a genuine question. Let me ask you a genuine question because everything is about everything. You pick your friends, your career, you choose, you choose stuff predicated upon lifestyle. So are you an active person who works out sincerity?

SPEAKER_02 1:28:40

With me? No, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:42

I don't work out, but just as the nature of my body status, let me be able to tell that I don't work out.

SPEAKER_02 1:28:49

Like I'm not fat or at all. You're absent, everything. Like I'm not saying I just don't work out.

SPEAKER_04 1:28:58

I just asked you one question. Is working out your day? Is that a part of your culture, your day-to-day regimen? That's your program.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:06

No, no, it ain't.

SPEAKER_04 1:29:08

Well, so of course you don't have no problem with all types of women. That's not your life. I see what you're saying, though. So listen, so this goes back to what I said, human nature. See, you're not paying attention. Now are we paying attention, players? Human nature. So your human nature right now, and I'm not judging you. I'm merely pointing out to you, your human nature is to get with like-minded people. So right now, exercise, that type of lifestyle is not at the forefront of your life. So that's how you choose your women. So of course it don't matter. You don't have no problem with big women. But I can assure you of this. The day you sit back and decide that I'm gonna get in shape, start eating different, your friends' circle is gonna change, and so are the quality of women that you want and attract. I promise you this. Until then, you're gonna continue like big women.

SPEAKER_00 1:30:00

He gotta stop eating Taco Bell and McDonald's. You know what I'm saying? And shit like that.

SPEAKER_02 1:30:06

I don't want to eat no human meat. Bro, bro, bro, bro, bro.

SPEAKER_00 1:30:11

He's not here to judge you, Rec, but I am. He's not here to judge you. My job is to judge you when you say some shit out loud. But he's hitting on the nail, the nail on the head. The reason why is because although you have a discipline, when it comes to that, you like, bro, I just take a big tall skinny fat. The same way you take your food and beverage, you feel me? The same way you're not working out, you feel me? You take he just your lifestyle choice is kind of like you feel me?

SPEAKER_02 1:30:38

I don't eat fast food, nigga. I eat at home, nigga. I don't even eat fast food.

SPEAKER_04 1:30:42

Listen, man, you well, you eat well, you eat on chicks that eat fast food. Praise God, I'm doing a lot. You heard it here first. Come on now. Come on, can I eat some?

SPEAKER_05 1:30:59

Oh God in all the heavens.

SPEAKER_02 1:31:02

No, come on, man. I respect that though, bro. You feel me? Because I'm gonna keep it real with you. That's why I fucked with bro. You feel me? Hey, nigga, you gotta run with that, man. You gotta stamp that. It's a future, bro.

SPEAKER_04 1:31:13

Hey, Rob the Real. I I think I'm I asked my lady what you think about Rob the Real. She said they do got a ring to it. I think I'm I'm I think that's gonna be my hand on these uh these these streets, these YouTube. Hey man, I think short.

SPEAKER_02 1:31:35

You feel me? If you really know me, you can call me double R. You know where it's still from.

SPEAKER_04 1:31:40

Oh double R. Hey man, hey, somebody timestamp this pen this clip. Remember this because when it blows up, I gotta give credit where credit is due, where it's starting here from.

SPEAKER_02 1:31:51

Man, that's absolutely you already know, bro.

SPEAKER_00 1:31:54

And like and shout out to Dub for always inspiring Rick to do dope shit since I've been around. So you're welcome, Rick. Thank you. I appreciate that. Good looking out, though. You feel me?

SPEAKER_02 1:32:05

I couldn't have done it without you, bro.

SPEAKER_00 1:32:08

What's your five though? So we can end it. We can end it.

SPEAKER_02 1:32:11

All right, man. Let me give you my five. You know what I'm saying? My five, you know what I'm saying? Good qualities, bro. You gotta be smart, sense of humor. Basically, you gotta have a head on your shoulders. You know what I'm saying? You gotta be smart, you gotta be able to hold a conversation, you gotta have a sense of humor. You know what I'm saying? Shit like that. Like, bro, that's just something that's just subtle and simple that goes so far. You know what I mean? Because you can have good conversations. Man, good conversations never fail. You feel me? They never end. You know what I'm saying? You could talk about this for hours, you broke. You know what I'm saying? Like, good conversation, sense of humor, just the basics. You know what I'm saying? That you definitely gotta have that. You know what I mean? And that ain't even nothing harsh. That ain't nothing hard. Number two, you know what I'm saying? What type of parent are you? You know what I'm saying? If you are if me and you was about to get down and your kid is in the other room crying because they need a bottle, they need to be, you know what I'm saying, a tank, they need to be pertained to, you know what I'm saying, attended to, whatever that may be. If you sit here playing your kid short because you're trying to get some D up in you, I can't fuck with you. Because if you go treat your kids like that, how the fuck is you about to treat me? You don't even give a fuck about your kids. So I'm supposed to think that you gonna give a fuck about me and you don't even care about your kids. Come on, bro. You know what I'm saying? So yeah, you feel me? You gotta be an actual parent. What type of mom is you? You know what I'm saying? How you talk to your kids, because I hate when I hear mothers be littling their kids, calling them out their name. Are you a stupid ass nigga? Are you acting just like your dumb ass daddy? Man, come on, bro. It's all of that necessary. You feel me? Like, ain't none of that necessary, bro. You ain't gotta be little with kids. You feel me? Just let them know what they're doing wrong and keep it moving. You know what I'm saying? Hey, you ain't supposed to be over there messing with that. Bring your butt over here. You know what I'm saying? You ain't gotta call them all kind of dumb and you stupid, and bro, that ain't necessary. You know what I'm saying? So be mindful of how you talk to your kids. Because if I was to talk to you the way you talk to your kids, you be pissed. Why are you mad at me and you ain't mad at yourself and you be talking to your kids like that? Come on, bro. You feel me? Number three, number three, you know what I'm saying? Just be honest and open about who you is. You feel me? Just be 100. You know what I'm saying? The good, the bad, and the ugly. You know what I'm saying? Just be 100 and let me decide if that's something I chose to deal with or not. You know what I'm saying? You can't choose to deal with a situation 110 wholeheartedly if you don't be giving, if you're not giving a whole situation 110 from the other person. So I can't choose to ride with you in a situation if I don't know what kind of keys you got to what car. You know what I'm saying? I'm riding, but what where we riding? We riding the car, we riding on a bus, we riding on a go-kart, we riding on the scooter, we ride on a big wheel, 10 speed mountain bike. What we riding on? You know what I'm saying? So just be upfront and honest. You know what I'm saying? Honesty goes a long way. Just be real. I respect you more just for being real. Even if it don't go in my favor, I'm still gonna respect you more just for being real. So to the females that's turned me down, like, man, I fuck with you, but you breathless, you ain't my type, but you cool as fool. I respect you because you kept it real. You know what I'm saying? So even getting turned down ain't even a turn down. I'm still giving you props for keeping it well honey, because I'm fucking with that. You know what I'm saying? Even if it don't go in my favor. You feel me? Number four. Huh? I don't know how many that was. Oh yeah, that was starting with number four, you know what I'm saying? Number four, the company you keep, what type of friends you got around you. Because if you got a bunch of ratchet, ignorant ass females around you, already know what they in your ear talking about and saying. You feel me? And now I'm in a relationship with you and all your goofy ass friends. I don't want to be in a relationship with you and all your goofy ass friends. I want to be in a relationship with you, you know what I'm saying, and your articulate friends that's grown, they know how to come, you know what I'm saying, they know how to converse, they know how to communicate. I want to be in a relationship with you and your grown ass friends, not with you and your ignorant ass friends. So, you know what I'm saying? If you got a bunch of dumb ass friends pulling you into the club every weekend, oh girl, he this, oh girl, you don't need this, oh girl, you can find somebody. Go ahead, be with your friends. You feel me? Because obviously they more important than whatever nigga it is you date. You feel me? And you know, last but not least, you feel me, just hygiene, you know what I'm saying, cleanliness, you know what I'm saying, how you keep your shit, you feel me, how you keep yourself, you know what I'm saying? It's like that. You you already know, you know what I mean? Don't nobody want to be fucking with nobody as a hoarder. You know, like the fuck is we talking about? So yeah, definitely, you know what I'm saying, how you keep yourself. And my five negatives, you know what I'm saying? It just be super quick, you know what I'm saying? If you are here promiscuous in the streets, I can't fuck with you. You know what I'm saying? If I met you and you we met because you cheating on your nigga with me, you think I'm about to cup you and I know just how I met you. Hell no, I'll be stupid as fuck if I cuff you and I just let you cheat on your nigga with me. What we talking about? You know what I'm saying? So no, anybody promiscuous, you still in the streets, I'ma I'm gonna leave you where you say it. I'm gonna leave you in the streets. You know what I'm saying? Anybody you know what I'm saying that's out here on some five-finger discount, bruh. I don't want to go to jail fucking with you. If you can't keep your hands in your pocket, nigga, I don't want to go to jail fucking with you. You know what I'm saying? Like dead ass, bro. So if you out here in the streets doing too much, hey, I ain't got no felonies. I'm not about to adopt felonies because of another bitch. All right, if I ain't getting none on my own, I'm not getting none because of somebody else. I'm cool on that. You know what I'm saying? Dead ass, for real, for real. Number three, you feel me? If you got a smart ass mouth, watch how you talk to people. Be mindful of how you talk to people, because the same energy that's given is gonna be the same energy you receive. So if you giving that fucking ignorant ass, I can do this, did it, bruh. You feel me? I ain't gonna I ain't gonna argue with you because I'm a dude that don't like to argue. But I got females on deck that hit bitches. Like, I ain't gonna hit no bitch, but I got bitches that do hit bitches. So I'm just gonna call one of them, like, hey, come over and handle this, because nigga, she tripping. He doing too much. She can she ain't jumped out of her body. I can't do nothing because I'm a dude. But pull up, you can. You feel me? Straight like that. Be mindful of what you're saying to people and shit. And last but not least, you know what I'm saying? Last but not least, uh, easy no go, bro. Is it just like the same thing with the crib being clean? If your shit is all fucked up, I'm not fucking with you, bro. If you hot and food under your bed from two months ago, I'm finding old ass pizza McDonald's bags. Bro, we not doing this. We not doing this, you know what I'm saying? Cleanliness is everything and shit. Like, I don't even feel comfortable laying with you being naked in bed. If you bruh, like, nah, bro, we can't do that. Cleanliness go a long way, bro. For real, for real. So you already know, man. That's my fault. No goes, my fault, you know what I'm saying? Qualifications, you feel me?

SPEAKER_00 1:39:16

If you call a bitch to beat up another bitch, just know that the bitch that was probably stealing somebody's store wouldn't send you to jail before the bitch that you called to beat the other bitch would. So just know that could end up being an accessory to something. If you call somebody with it to salt somebody, you can end up in court. I just want to let you know that.

SPEAKER_02 1:39:31

Well, better them than me, you feel me? Because I can't be a f a nigga in jail beating up another female because I don't beat on females. You feel me? But I got females that beat on females.

SPEAKER_04 1:39:41

Walk away. So I how about I was just gonna say, how about you just then we just talk about violent gracefully, you being a man, being logical. Why is it never well? Let me ask you a question. Human nature. See, you see how you're making my statement more human nature. No, it's not that pride. That's that pride and ego. Remember, I said ego edging God out. You took God out of it, and now you off your rocker. You let your pride and ego kick in. All you have to do if you seen that the woman was rambusters, if she is she's stopping you from leaving, or does she have a gun on you? No, walk away. So at that point, you've allowed her to drag you down to her level and beat you down with experience. But hey, go ahead and do you, player. What do I know?

SPEAKER_02 1:40:24

Hey, now you know what? Now, anytime a situation happens, I'm gonna have Ron Gorille in the back of my back of my conscience, like, bro, you know what you need to do right now. You feel me?

SPEAKER_01 1:40:35

Breakfast. You say breakfast shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:40:39

I know. It comes with the name, it comes with the territory. I can't help.

SPEAKER_04 1:40:45

Oh, you can absolutely help it. You've just what it is is it there's a there's a capacity of it that is very charming about it, and and and you've and you've you've crafted it in a matter of where this shit is cool, and I feel you, but at some point when when it goes off in real life, you gotta know that that's not conducive. That's actually counterproductive to what you're trying to do. Because I know you want to do good things, you seem like a nice guy. I wouldn't be on here if I thought otherwise. So, what I'm saying is on some real life player type stuff, hey, come on, player, you know better than that.

SPEAKER_00 1:41:18

Right, yeah, because you ain't about to because calling a bitch to beat up another bitch, you don't need to beat around that bitch. You said that's what you don't like about it, so just don't be around her. But um, but you know, that's real.

SPEAKER_02 1:41:26

I respect that though. I respect that though. You feel me? Rod the real. You feel me?

SPEAKER_00 1:41:30

I respect it. But you know it's all love for me, man. Nice meeting you, Rod. I just followed you. I got like five pages. I I I just followed you for free, but not free. Uh uh, I got like five other pages, Globe Mafia and stuff like that. But do you before we get up out of here? Anything dropping, anything going down, anything you want to shout out, anything that you want to like let the people know when we replay it? Yeah, anything you want to follow anything, bro. You feel me?

SPEAKER_04 1:41:57

Uh well right now I'm getting back into my fitness trainer. So, like I said, if you uh looking for a fitness trainer, come mess with your boy. Uh again, my IG right now is uh Rod Livingstead 5623. But I'm literally finna change it to Rod the Real, actually, real spill. But right now I'm just doing my heavy on my fitness tip. Uh, but I got some things that I'm working on. Uh I'd rather uh move aside as like the design. So, but look on be on a uh lookout for some stuff coming from me. But right now, follow me on this fitness stuff. Uh your boy get you right.

SPEAKER_00 1:42:29

Follow Ride the Real. We manifesting it. Follow Ride the Real.

SPEAKER_02 1:42:36

And if y'all want to see him on some pardon, you know what I'm saying? Because hey, he's not just a guest over here, he does, you know what I'm saying, do his own show. Catch him on the viral way podcast. Go over there, subscribe to the bros. That's the second family, man. You feel me? So if you want to see more of his takes and opinions, y'all can catch more of Rob the Real on the Viral Way Podcast, also.

SPEAKER_04 1:42:56

Praise God, how do I appreciate y'all? It's all love over here.

SPEAKER_02 1:43:00

Man, you already know all love is always, man. That's why I'm always preaching that. Because hey, man, that's what we don't do just as a black community, man. You feel me? We gotta start showing each other more love, you know what I'm saying? Even if brothers is in the same lane, whether that's podcasting, music, fashion, acting, whatever you do, man. Show love to the next brother over from you. You know what I'm saying? Love is 399, support is 399. It ain't gonna kill you to give another person a platform to come up there and kick it with you. You feel me? It's all love, man. That's what we gotta do, bro. Y'all see what kind of day is.

SPEAKER_00 1:43:32

Make sure we protect we protect the snow, protect the snow when my nigga.

SPEAKER_05 1:43:43

Y'all have a good one.

SPEAKER_02 1:43:44

We should play.

SPEAKER_05 1:43:46

Y'all have a good one.

SPEAKER_04 1:43:49

Yes, sir.

SPEAKER_02 1:43:51

Appreciate you.

SPEAKER_04 1:43:52

All the time, man. All the time, man. That was a good one. I like that.