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3: Inside Eros: A Night at Knoxville’s Lifestyle Club

• Ann Lyons • Season 1 • Episode 3

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A small, speakeasy-style club in Knoxville shows how smart design, clear consent, and a warm vibe can turn a crowded Saturday into an easy, connected night. We share how the tour, wristband doors, and playroom light system made everything safer and smoother, plus our locker and go-bag tips.

• BYOB system with tracked bottles and fast mixers
• Intimate scale with lively dance floor and quiet lounge
• Security wristbands and buzz-in doors for safety
• Playroom light signals and door etiquette explained
• Membership, pricing, hours, and dress code guidance
• Why the space feels welcoming rather than cliquey
• Our step-by-step night from check-in to play
• Practical packing: lockers, go bag, and comfort tips
• BDSM room features and voyeur-friendly layout
• Actionable “just the tips” for first-time visitors

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Welcome, Trip Setup, Wintering In Florida

SPEAKER_01

This podcast is intended for adult audiences over the age of 18. The podcast includes adult language, situations, sexual explosive material, listeners please be advised.

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Welcome to Nextdoor Swing, a podcast about lifestyle travel and events, hosted by veteran lifestyle couples, Core and Matt. In each episode, we hope to entertain, educate, and provide information based on our own personal experiences. The views, thoughts, and ideas expressed are solely our own and not to be taken as professional advice. Hey there, welcome to Nextdoor Swing Podcast. We are on episode three. Today we are actually going to talk about a lifestyle club called Eros in Knoxville, Tennessee.

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Absolutely. So just to kind of give you a little bit of the backstory, we were on our way to Kentucky in our RV. As you can see, we are bringing you this episode from our living room of our RV. We are full-time RVers, and uh we were traveling to Kentucky uh for some family time for Thanksgiving and decided on our way back, let's stop through Knoxville and uh check out this club called Eros. We had an amazing time. We'll get to all that later, but uh to kind of tell us a little bit where we are right now and what we're doing at this point in time. Go ahead, Ms. Koro.

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So we are it is December as we are recording this, and this episode will come out in January 2026. So we are wintering in Florida in our RV.

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Yeah.

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And kind of still enjoying the nice weather we've got.

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As you can tell, I'm enjoying the nice warm weather. Got my shorts on. It's nice 80 degrees outside. True.

SPEAKER_00

Enjoying some golfing, enjoying some uh club events, lifestyle events here in the sunny state of Florida. And um we have been uh let's see, we did Caliente a couple of weeks ago because we're kind of near there. We did Secrets a couple of weeks ago, um, and having a you know great winter.

SPEAKER_01

And we're at the point where now we're trying to get caught up on these episodes to bring to you guys the you know all the information about going to these clubs, why to go to these clubs, and what to what the what are just the tips when you're going to those clubs. Right. So the that kind of brings up speed where we're at now. And now we're gonna start getting into our next episode of uh talking about E Ros. E Ros Knoxville.

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We'll be right back.

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We'll be right back.

Introducing Eros Knoxville And Crowd Vibe

SPEAKER_00

All right, welcome back. We are talking about Eros Knoxville today. Yes. So let's first talk about the who. We like to bring you the who, what, where, when, why, how of all of these locations. So we're gonna start with the who.

SPEAKER_01

The who. Well, I'll tell you, as we walked in the door, uh, we were kind of blown away at the wide diversity of uh the participants there or the personnel there. Uh it was crazy. We saw 20-year-olds all the way to maybe, I would say, probably 70s. Maybe 70. Maybe, maybe 70s, and they're all having a great time. Now, mind you, the bar itself might hold, and I say there was probably about 100-150 people there the night we were there. It was a Saturday night, it was one of their bigger parties.

SPEAKER_00

I would say that was capacity too. I don't see that place holding more than 150.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, it was pretty close to capacity, but I'll tell you the way it was divided up, and we'll get into all this information later, but the way the bar and everything was set up, it was fantastic. You didn't really think that there was that many people. Right.

SPEAKER_00

It didn't feel it didn't feel crowded at it by any means well space.

SPEAKER_01

And we had a we had a great time.

SPEAKER_00

I would say probably the median age the night that we were there was probably 40. Uh it was on the younger side of what we're used to at events, and probably around 38 or 40, I think, was the median age there, if I had to guess.

SPEAKER_01

This wasn't your average kind of like uh resort swinger, lifestyle resort, if you're you know familiar with those kind of places, like secrets, desire stuff like that. This was just a small club setting. So let's get into the what and let's talk about the what. So what?

SPEAKER_00

So Eros is a lifestyle, play on premise, membership-only BYOB club.

SPEAKER_01

That's a mouthful.

SPEAKER_00

I I got all the ads on the city.

SPEAKER_01

You got it all in.

SPEAKER_00

It does have play on premise, it's small, it is intimate, is the word that I think that I like over and over. That best suits it. And it is a BYOB um type of club as well. And this is popular in the lifestyle club arena, I think, the the BYOB.

What Eros Is: BYOB, On-Premise Play

SPEAKER_01

Um, most of these places do not have a liquor license, and so the reason why is in most states you cannot have uh obviously nudity and running around naked and having sex and have sex on premise and having alcohol on the same location. So that's why majority of the places it's BYOB, right? Which is great because you get to bring your own bottle in, you give it to the person behind the bar, but they usually associate it with like a membership number that's also like on your wristband or associated with you. So you just you're drinking off your own bottle and you bring whatever you want to drink.

SPEAKER_00

And the bar supplies all the mixers and the cups and the ice, things like that.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. The play on premise piece, so they did have uh uh playrooms in the back. But what was cool was you uh when you first got there, let's talk about that. And we'll talk about that a little bit. Uh when we first get there, you actually walk in, take care of your membership stuff, and then uh like a lobby. In the lobby, and I'm I'm I'll get into the details of how uh in a minute, but uh just to kind of give you that idea or overarching idea of it all, you walk into the the lobby area, and then everybody that's there for the first time gets a no-kidding, it was a great uh little tour of the facility. They go through every little piece, make sure you're comfortable and you know everything of the ins and outs of the location.

SPEAKER_00

So when we first arrived, there were people in the lobby um that were ready to give newbies to the club tours. And and you had to have that before you were um uh cut loose, so to so to speak. One of the best features that I've never seen anywhere else was they had security bracelets. So there was a bracelet on our wrist, and that each of the doorways had a buzz-in system. So you had to put your bracelet to the door to open the door. And the reason they did that, one is for security for anyone walking in and out, but also there were certain areas of the club that single men were not allowed in. Yep. Um, and it was just a great checks and balances. I I felt very safe in that environment. I've been able to do that.

SPEAKER_01

Thinking of that, it was a great way of making sure everybody was safe, right? Had a good time. And again, I can't speak highly enough of how great Euros was as a nice, intimate little club. It was a lot of fun.

Tours, Wristbands, And Safety Systems

SPEAKER_00

It was it was a very classy environment. So after we walked through the lobby, we walked directly into a coat room that was small but great for um at stashing a coat. Um they also did after that room, we walked into the main bar area. So the main bar, the dance floor, that area had about 10 high top tables in there, and then the DJ, a nice, nice dance floor area.

SPEAKER_01

Yep, and the bar was kind of big enough to you know, enough people get it to it, and there wasn't a big line for drinks at any given time. Right. But what was cool was back in the back area, uh kind of to the right of the bar, there was another door you went through, and it was kind of more of like a conversation area where it was a little bit quieter, but it also had some open uh windows that you could look right into a playroom, which was kind of an open group playroom with some BDSM stuff in it. It was kind of cool. It was kind of cool to sit and watch too and uh take in some of the the activities that were going on back there.

SPEAKER_00

So in that BDS room, BDSM room, they had a St. Andrew's Cross, they had a spanking bench, they had a few, and some toys on the wall that the And a big you know CD area playroom area around the outside.

SPEAKER_01

And just to mention as well, but they did outside near the bar uh area, there were a couple big VIP areas. So if you're looking to go there with a small group, great idea is you can just get the VIP area and you all just hang out in your one little area and you can have a good time as well. And what was cool for us is when we walked in, we didn't think we would know anybody there, but we actually met some people we knew from um many years ago from different you know different parties we had been to.

Bar, Dance Floor, Conversation Lounge

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, that was fun. So you had the main um dance area that was kind of kind of loud, it was great for dancing, and then 10 high top tables, and then you walked back through the other conversation area, you could still hear the music, but it wasn't as loud, and it was nice to conversate and you know, chat with people a little bit more. And then there was another door to buzz through, and that took you through to where the bathrooms are and the lockers. So, this is important information. There were lockers there, so um, you could use a locker, you could also rent a lock if you didn't bring a lock. You could also bring your own lock as well.

SPEAKER_01

That's great. And they're all the lockers were set right outside the playroom areas, so you had everything you needed right there. So it was great.

SPEAKER_00

So a little tip also is I I take a change of clothes because whenever at the end of the night, sometimes I'm wanting to put on comfortable clothes, so it might be like a jumpsuit or it might be jeans and a t-shirt.

SPEAKER_01

More importantly, fellas, so you're not carrying around shoes all night. Uh, we always take a bag to make sure we can put an extra set of shoes in there. So when she wants to get rid of her high heels, because she loves her high heels, uh, she can put on her flats and then you know, have a nice place to put them.

SPEAKER_00

Right. And have in that night I was looking for warmth, so I took socks and boots.

SPEAKER_01

Mind you, it was cold.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, it was cold. So I was wanting to put on, you know, some some layers. But also in that bag, we'll take our our little go bag, our play bag, and then some hygiene hygiene products as well. And that was nice to get a locker. So we put our things in a locker, we um rented a lock. The lock was five dollars from the desk. We just rented a lock. So that was uh uh the hallway where the lockers were at in the bathrooms, and then on past that there was another buzz-in door, and that's where uh the playroom was.

SPEAKER_01

Well, the lockers were actually back with the playrooms, back in the playroom area. They weren't back with the bathroom, they were back around the corner that you had to buzz into right outside the playrooms.

SPEAKER_00

Oh, that's right. They were back in front of the playrooms. Um, so anyway, we buzzed into where the playrooms were. Now, the playrooms, I believe it was five rooms. Yep. So we walked down a hall. There was the wall, that's right. The wall of lockers on the left, and the playrooms were on the right.

SPEAKER_01

Yep. And there were small playrooms. Five of them. Yep, small. Yep, and you could fit easily fit, you know, two, maybe three couples in there. What was cool though is the very last, do you remember the very last room? Right. The very last room at the very end was really kind of cool. They had a Sybian. Not even known as Sybian. It's kind of like the uh motorbike of uh Play Toys. It's like a pommel play toy women sit on it and but uh they had one of those setup in there and kind of unique, uh, and we like the way, and we'll talk about this for a second. The it was kind of unique that they had a screen or a uh shear that you could put over the um the doorway so you could see in, but if you want people to join you, you could leave it open. And there were areas in there to where you can actually play, like on a bit or stuff like that, but they had the Sybian in there as well. But the other four rooms had a really good light system. They actually had above the door.

SPEAKER_00

I thought the Sybian room did too. Or the Sybian room did too.

SPEAKER_01

They had they had uh three, if not four different lights red, yellow, and green, all meaning at different stages of what the room was being used for. So if it was green, that meant somebody was in the room and actually playing in it.

SPEAKER_00

No, I think green meant that it was clean, green was hanging. So green, green meant it was open and clean and you could go into it.

SPEAKER_01

And if it was red, then that meant that somebody was in there using it that time, you just had to wait. And then yellow meant that actually somebody was in there cleaning it.

SPEAKER_00

So it was needed to be clean, yeah, exactly. Where someone was cleaning it.

Playrooms, Light Signals, And Etiquette

SPEAKER_01

And they and I'll tell you the Eero staff was fantastic. They were in and out of there quick, they did their job, cleaned it, they sprayed it down, new towels, whole nunyards, and uh I tell you it was great.

SPEAKER_00

Right, yeah. They had in the rooms, I want to say they had um didn't the room we were in have a sink? I think it had a sink in there.

SPEAKER_01

I believe so.

SPEAKER_00

And then um there were towels and clean sheets in inside there.

SPEAKER_01

Very well done.

SPEAKER_00

Very well done. We've never seen the light system before at during out of play club, so that was great to see.

SPEAKER_01

Now the doorway system on the other four doors, uh, it was a straight-up door that obviously you could leave open if you wanted people to join you, uh, or you closed it to make sure nobody else was joining you, or you could even watch.

SPEAKER_00

And that's a kind of an etiquette thing in lifestyle that I wanted to mention about um indoors. So we've been to certain clubs that they have kind of like the shear. If a shear is across, it means you can watch but don't join. We've seen the same idea with a little rope or a chain across the door, that meant you can watch but do not join. If the rope was down or the shear was open or the door was open, that meant you could join, but you should ask first. And that if the door is closed, it means don't join, don't knock. People do not want busy inside. Yeah, people do not want extras. They're they're good with their number. Um, and so that was a nice system. Really nice.

SPEAKER_01

I really enjoyed the system they had back there, and it was really cool, made it easy.

SPEAKER_00

Uh, we did uh well, we'll get into the details of what we did the night there, but um we and then past that hallway, it walked, it was like a circle back into where the dance floor was at. So it was a great setup. Um, it was kind of circular, and there were many different areas to go. If you wanted to talk more with a couple in a quieter area, you could back back in the conversation area.

SPEAKER_01

All right. So I think we covered the what. So now let's get into the when.

SPEAKER_00

Or where.

SPEAKER_01

Or where. Where well, how about where and when at the same time? I can cover both at the same time. So basically where it's it's in downtown Knoxville. It's right in, I can't tell you, it it's right off of I think it's Central Avenue, Central Street, uh, right downtown Knoxville. And what's really cool is when you go to their website, and their website is Eros Knoxville.com. Plain and simple, Eros Knoxville.com. Uh, you can actually find there that they have a uh a light, and that's how they tell you to find the location of the the club. They actually have an upside-down pineapple light that is on the corner of the building. It's a fluorescent light. It's kind of cool for us to actually show up there driving around the block looking, and immediately I was like, bam, there it is.

SPEAKER_00

So there's no sign.

SPEAKER_01

There's no sign, no sign.

SPEAKER_00

It's like a speakeasy, so it's kind of like a Batman symbol, you know. It's like it's it was a very speakeasy vibe. It's very cool.

Location, Hours, And Speakeasy Pineapple

SPEAKER_01

Uh but it's in downtown Knoxville, and as uh Ms. Korb mentioned, it's almost like a speakeasy vibe. It was easy parking. There was plenty of parking on the street, there was parking and parking lots. Uh it was real easy to get to.

SPEAKER_00

I did feel safe down in downtown. I felt safe. You know, there are some clubs we've gone into where it's a little sketchy on the outside, but not this one. It was it I I felt safe. There was easy parking, easy walking inside.

SPEAKER_01

And now into the wind. So this bar is like most other just uh lifestyle play on premise bars uh or club. Uh it's actually open just Friday and Saturday, eight to two in the morning. Now, I will say that I caveat that in saying that I'm sure, and they do uh have specialty parties for like New Year's Eve and stuff like that as well. So uh just pay close attention to the website. The website is Eurosnoxville.com. Now uh I also jump right into what uh we'll talk about the the how and how you get there and how you you know the kind of hoops you gotta jump through.

SPEAKER_00

So we said it's a membership base and so we keep that in mind that you're going to pay a membership fee and a nightly fee. And this is also normal in the clubs.

Membership, Pricing, Themes, Dress Code

SPEAKER_01

Absolutely. So like this club, like many others, you get to join their membership. So you go to Erosnoxville.com and on that page that has all the information you possibly might need uh to include even the dress code and all the other information. But on there you can apply to become a member, and on that application is pretty simple. You just fill out you know questionnaire type style, and then you send in a picture of you and your wife or uh your couple, or if you're single, you can do that as well. Uh but they just send it in, and then once you get approved, then you can actually join. Now that's another cool thing about their website is once you get you're joined and you're part of a member on there, you can get on there and actually talk to other people. There's a whole messaging system on there where you can talk to people before you go. You can even sign up for a party and show other people that you're willing to go to this party and then start a little talk back and forth. And it's kind of like even like flirting and bantering before you even get to the party, and then you're already worked up. Uh, it's kind of cool. And when we uh signed up and we signed up just a couple days before going, uh, so just to kind of show you how quickly the membership process goes, we we it was fast, and but we had a bunch of people reach out to us, say, hey, can't wait to meet you there, let's share a drink. And we did, we had a great time with them all. Yeah, that was and it was a lot of fun. But if you go to erosnoxville.com, all the information is there.

SPEAKER_00

So what was the cost of the membership?

SPEAKER_01

The membership. Uh now obviously for a membership for a month it's like$15, but if you wanted to pay for the whole year, uh you got it goes up to$180. And of course, that's a a range because if you're a single male or single female, it's gonna be different. Uh now I will say the the party events too range from$35 to$60 per couple, and that's per couple. Now, singles, it's gonna be a little bit different. Right. But uh it's it that basically the parties are Friday and Saturday night. Now, again, they do have specialty parties, so I'm sure those specialty parties a little bit more. Now, for the fellas out there, and this is important for the dress code, that well, actually for ladies and the fellas, but mostly I've seen this happen. But the the the fellas are the ones that are breaking this the most. The dress code, they do take it pretty serious. Now, most nights are theme parties, so there is a little wiggle room there, but they are expecting you to wear fellas, not no raggedy, you know, torn-up jeans. You can't be you know hanging your uh jeans around your butt, no baseball caps with logos and stuff like that on there, unless it's a Fedora, uh Fedora that's going along with a you know uh outfit or something, no logos on t-shirts, like you know, baseball teams and stuff like that, unless again it's a theme night thing. Uh but they want you to it's a classy joint and they want you to class it up a bit. So fellas, get on your A game and bring it up.

Why It Works: Intimacy And Approachability

SPEAKER_00

And ladies like that. I like whenever men are cleaned up, you know. I I like to see a guy in a button-down shirt or a vest or you know, I mean, like we do a lot of work, so I kind of really enjoy whenever the guys put in some work too. Absolutely and ladies, as far as uh clothes for you to wear, I would most of the time whenever I walk into a club, I'm in some sort of classy dress, like a um a dress and um a top. Um sometimes it's jeans and a top, um, usually it's heels, and then I bring something to change into. Also, we should mention that once you get into the club, lingerie was permitted everywhere inside the club. Absolutely. And then nudity was permitted past the conversation area. So the conversation area and then all in the playroom nudity was allowed there, but nudity was not allowed in the main like dance floor area. Yep. And also, ladies, like I had mentioned earlier, I would recommend taking a different change of clothes for going home in. So so we always take a bag um with a variety of you know, clothes.

SPEAKER_01

So I think now we've covered the how and how to get there. Uh now, why?

SPEAKER_00

Why?

SPEAKER_01

Why would you want to go back, Ms.

SPEAKER_00

So I would love to go back because of the intimate environment that it was, and also that speakeasy vibe. I loved that. It was so fun. It was really fun, the speakeasy vibe, the intimate vibe. I liked that it was only, you know, like 150 people in there. It wasn't overwhelming. Everyone was friendly, from the staff even to people that we were just meeting for the you know, first time, you know, and they of course people know if you're just their if it's your first time there. And so it's okay to walk up and say, Hi, my name is and start a conversation. Um, that is how you know, a smile that that kind of starts a conversation too. And it's you know, talk about where you're from, how long you've been lifestyle, what is it, what else is there to do in Knoxville? People like talking about their areas.

SPEAKER_01

So I'm gonna actually gonna break off and say one thing right quick. Uh it kind of leads to this, uh, however, also kind of general lifestyle stuff as well. If you walk into a club and you think it is clickish, that is probably that's probably a 50-50% type thing because when it's clickish, that just means people are enjoying their group of friends that they're there with. Now, if you're on the outside and you're thinking somebody else is clickish, that usually means that you haven't done enough to actually go over and say hello or actually meet some people. So uh kind of a pet peeve of mine is that you know that around that whole clickish thing, uh, it's a 50 50 game. You also have to step out and say, Hey, how you doing and how you know where you from and all the other kind of stuff. So if you're sitting back in the corner, please don't look at the other groups in the that are enjoying themselves and have a good time saying, Oh, it's a clickish club, it's a clip clickish you know event or whatever. No, you gotta get out there. gotta you gotta you gotta do a little work. You have to say hello.

SPEAKER_00

You have to walk over to people and say hi and you know my name is or get out on the dance floor and start dancing with a hot chick, you know?

SPEAKER_01

And we don't have that problem. We are we love getting into new uh groups of people and new circles and saying hello.

SPEAKER_00

Right, yeah.

Our Night: Meeting, Flirting, And Play

SPEAKER_01

That great definitely we think we've covered all that so we actually want to cover a little something different. And this episode what we want to do is talk about our experience there and kind of walk you through uh what we did, how it went and uh if we would ever do it again. So what do you think? When we walked in or actually let's start right at the beginning when we parked and then we were trying to find the pineapple what'd you think?

SPEAKER_00

I thought it was fun. I thought it was an adventure. Um we walked in we got signed up we um went to the bar immediately gave them our bottle gave the bartender our bottle she was fantastic yep and then we went and got our locker put our stuff away and then uh got a drink.

SPEAKER_01

We went back to the bar got a drink and then we hung out in the main bar area had our drink and that's where we we actually met some people there that we had met before at another party and they recognized us and you know we meet a lot of people so we didn't recognize them right away but once they started giving us the cues of where and how we met, oh yeah we remember you guys we had a great time da da da and then we hung up for them a little while and then next thing you know we actually ended up back in the um conversation room because it was a little bit quieter and then we were back there and then uh talked with a couple and then we hit it off with this couple and as we were sitting there watch we were actually watching a little activity going on in the um BDSM room which was really kind of cool uh the the one I how'd it go down? I'm pretty sure the one lady asked you.

SPEAKER_00

Uh no I think I brought it up. You brought it up yeah we had been talking for like two hours and you know I was kind of like okay well it's getting late here and I'm kind of went to go back to playroom so I think I think I just asked her oh you know what actually it was she asked me earlier in the night if I was into girls. And then I said yeah and then an hour later I was like so uh you ready to go find a playroom? Are you guys into playing tonight? And she wholeheartedly said yes. Absolutely and then we went back to the locker area got our go bag went to the bathroom got a little cleaned up and then we had to wait we waited a couple minutes only maybe five or ten minutes for one of the rooms to become green because we knew that none were available because we were looking at that lighting system. So that was great. The lighting system was fantastic waited for a room to open room open the four of us went into the room closed the door because we didn't want any company.

SPEAKER_01

We didn't want no company we had our hands full this couple was a lot of fun they were fun we had a blast what was really nice and I'll I'll admit I enjoy watching you with another woman a lot so that was really kind of hot is allow you two to have the table and have some sexy time together.

SPEAKER_00

And it was a lot of fun and then you it didn't take long though until then we we needed some sexy time in the beginning and what's funny and this is kind of a lifestyle thing too kind of a tip guys are always questionable of when do we jump in? Trust me the ladies will tell you when it's time for you to jump in they'll let you know.

Aftercare, Takeaways, And Just The Tips

SPEAKER_01

So you just hang back and watch enjoy the show relax let them take their time again once like I said earlier once the women are comfortable and they're enjoying themselves they'll make sure you are enjoying yourself as well guys that's right that's all right um so we had our sexy time in there we were probably in the room maybe about an hour I guess um had a great time and then and both of us absolutely love this because this was another one of those great nights where we were down and dirty by 1130 and we were on our way home uh before it was too too late and we actually were able to hit Taco Bell on the way home and get us a little taco to refresh you know give us a snack.

SPEAKER_00

Yep yeah and then we were home in bed uh by like I think 12, 1230. It was great.

SPEAKER_01

I think it was a little later than that but we it wasn't too late and it was fantastic. We had a great time it was really cannot speak highly enough of Eros Knoxville. If you guys are traveling through the area uh no matter what reason uh make sure if it's a Friday Saturday night to check him out check it out and uh okay so now let's end up this part of the uh episode with just the tips so uh just the tips we each are gonna take a turn and give you uh an idea of what tips to make sure you you know if you're gonna go to Eros to make sure you're um you have with you or that you're just thinking of right so my just the tips would be do your research on the website before you go find out what the party theme is there's they always have a party theme.

SPEAKER_00

Also ladies dress classy um be ready to mingle and I would say men up your game in the outfit it is a classy environment and the more elevated you are the more elevated everyone else is you're gonna bring attention upon yourself and you will have a blast.

Mailbag: What’s In Our Go Bag

SPEAKER_01

Now my tips uh guys because we're all we're the logisticians I think that's that's a word you know the guys that take care of the logistics make sure you have your go bag ready make sure you have that stuff ready uh to go and again just take the cues from the ladies they will let you know and if it doesn't happen hey that's fine that's okay uh you're gonna have a good time regardless uh and also I'd make sure that when you're going there to uh like like Miss Cora said just take a look at the website look at the dress code and make sure you're covering all the bases that's right all right I think that wraps it up all right and then now next segment will be mailbag mailbag time.

SPEAKER_00

We're excited about this one we'll be right back all right on today's mailbag question that actually goes quite a bit with the episode that we've just talked about it does someone wrote in and asked us what is in your go bag or playbag or hoe bag there's a variety of names for it we have a little bag and it actually says fuckity fuck fuck fuck on it.

SPEAKER_01

And I'll throw it out there we found it in grapevine Texas and I was like that is going with us.

SPEAKER_00

That is now our go bag.

SPEAKER_01

That's our go bag.

SPEAKER_00

So what is in our go bag?

SPEAKER_01

You're pretty good at keeping it stocked I keep it stocked up fellas obviously the number one thing is you got to have what? Condoms, right? You got to make sure you have your condoms because you want to play safe uh I even actually I take extra size condom condoms for a you never know when you're gonna run to that single male or single guy out there you want to play with and you need to have something a little bigger than what you know you're bringing to the table. A couple other things we have in there some mints because you don't want to have bad breath. Always have mints you got to have some good breath there guys.

SPEAKER_00

Some wipes uh what are they called summer's eve wipes ladies ladies wipes they can clean up afterwards because it's before because usually I'll I'll I'll use it before and after.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah because you never know if you want to participate in another episode of fun. Right. Uh you want to clean yourself up beforehand. And then also we also what I like to have in there is uh coconut oil because a lot of times when uh I'm just playing with Miss Cloro ourselves in a playroom area I like to just give her a good massage with the coconut oil and get her worked up get the diesel engine running and then uh then it makes it a lot more fun after that.

SPEAKER_00

And then we use coconut oil for our actual lube. And so some some of you that like a different kind of lube take that as well.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah and you can get the little tubes that you can carry with you.

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Yeah keep in mind also sensitivity um for some women a lot of women don't like latex a lot of women as some toys need certain kind of lubrication um water based is usually preferred um things not sticky is what's usually preferred and I'll tell you we've known some friends uh that their go bags are a little bit bigger now our go bag is probably our go bag's smaller smaller like my nine by twelve maybe maybe and it's very easy to you know walk into a place with right but we've had some friends that actually come showed up our place with their go bag and they had uh like a big duffel bag with toys and well we had one lady that travels with a bath mat. With a bath mat because she's a squirrel is a squirter and so she wants to be considered considerate of other people's homes and beds. So she has a rubber backed bath mat, which which is good for her. Some people also take toys dildos uh vibrators things like that we just keep o simple also the other thing I think we have in our bag is a little bottle of Listerine.

SPEAKER_01

Oh yeah we have on the the little travel size bottle of Listerine you when you especially if you're getting into like a play situation where it's a big orgy in a playroom uh there's always going to be what we call swinger cooties.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah and uh afterwards just take a swig of that um Listerine Listerine and it will help at least yeah in our minds it does anyway makes us feel better yeah yep all right that was episode three coming up on episode four we are going to talk about a little city in Florida called Key West and all about fantasy best come on back and listen to episode four about Fantasy Fest. All right we'll catch you next time bye-bye thanks for listening please support us by sharing this episode with your friends and other lifestyle also follow our social media at Instagram we are nextdoor swing YouTube is nextdoor swing and Facebook is also nextdoor swing. And if you want to check out our spicy content head on over to OnlyFans and the link is nextdoor swing