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Ep 16: How iCandy Parties Work From Rooms To Themes
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Rooms can sell out in a week or two, themes go hard, and the energy can feel like a mini EDM festival, so if you’ve ever wondered how iCandy parties actually work, we lay it out from the inside. We’re recording from Secrets in Kissimmee, Florida during a First Friday weekend, and we walk you through what to expect when you show up, how the crowd feels, and how to avoid the common booking mistakes that trip people up.
We break down the two main iCandy formats: the Secrets hotel takeovers (three big weekends a year with a multi-night commitment) and the Colette’s club events (typically a Saturday night party without the hotel piece). We also share why people travel in groups from all over the US and beyond, how big these nights can get, and what makes the vibe feel welcoming even when it looks like everyone already knows each other.
Then we get practical: how to book takeovers through iCandyParties.com, why you should join the email newsletter for room-release alerts, where to follow iCandy on Instagram and Facebook, and how the merch tent works. We also give our best “just the tips” advice on going all out for the party themes and using the room crawl as the easiest way to meet people fast.
Finally, we answer a listener mailbag question about games in the lifestyle, including when games are a fun icebreaker, when they get pushy, and why “read the room” is the rule that saves everyone’s night. If you enjoy lifestyle travel, swingers events, and real talk about community and consent, hit subscribe, share the show with a friend, and leave us a review so more people can find us.
Adult Content Warning And Intro
SPEAKER_02This podcast is intended for adult audiences over the age of 18. The podcast includes adult language, situations, sexually explicit material. Listeners, please be advised.
SPEAKER_00Welcome to Next Door Splane, a podcast about lifestyle travel and events, hosted by veteran lifestyle couple, Cora and Max. In each episode, we hope to entertain, educate, and provide information based on our own personal experiences. The views, thoughts, and ideas expressed are solely our own and not to be taken as professional advice. Welcome to this episode.
Why We’re At Secrets Tonight
SPEAKER_00Today we are talking all about iCandy, iCandy parties and events.
SPEAKER_02Yes, and I tell you what, we are actually here in our room because we are taking part in a First Friday event with iCandy. And to let a little bit of the cat out of the bag, we are also host for the iCandy. So we work for iCandy and we uh enjoy coming to these parties as well. But we want to bring to you today all the information about iCandy parties, where to go and how to get there, and uh get to the location we're at right now at Secrets, where they're hosting this first Friday event.
Hitting The Road For Summer
SPEAKER_00Before we talk all about iCandy, let's talk about what our adventures look like right now. We are recording this episode at the beginning of April 2026, and we are in the midst, days away from getting on the rig and heading north.
SPEAKER_02We are this is semi-our first little trip. We are already we already packed up the rig and we went over towards uh central, central Florida, and then that what's uh kind of got us closer here to Secrets, so we can come over here and do this event here this weekend. So we are you know, we are just steps away from getting on the road, and uh it looks like next week we are gonna be heading our way up towards the panhandle of Florida, and then eventually going up. We're gonna spend some time in Nashville. We're hoping to get some uh time in Nashville and take, you know, take you guys on some tours to some clubs up there, and then we're gonna head over into Missouri and then relax and enjoy Missouri for a little bit.
SPEAKER_00That's right, and then from there heading all the way across back towards the east eastern United States, and then going to Kentucky and then kind of just touring around the eastern United States this year, this summer.
SPEAKER_02But we want you to follow us on all of our socials out there as well because we are going to be documenting our trips as we're going down the road and we're doing our uh doing our thing, uh taking the shit show on the road. We're gonna be taking quick little shorties and little clips and we're gonna be posting them all over the socials. So make sure you're tracking and you're out there liking and following us on all of our socials.
SPEAKER_00Please, definitely. Yeah, we're gonna do little short video reels and we're gonna put those on YouTube shorts as well as on Instagram reels and on Facebook reels. And so, and we're gonna do that more of the actual documentation of the travel because so many of you have said you want to see the where we're staying at, what does it look like? What does our rig look like? Things like that. So we're gonna bring that to you.
SPEAKER_02That's coming to you because we are taking this shit show on the road. All right, so we've just covered everything we're up to uh up to right now at this moment, and when we come back, we're gonna be start talking to you guys about eye candy parties. So we'll be right back.
What iCandy Parties Are
SPEAKER_02Okay, guess what? We're back now. The fun and the I I'm so excited about this episode because we uh we actually enjoy iCandy parties. We've been working for them for a couple of years now, and I tell you, it is probably one of the sexiest and best crowds ever. So before we get to let's not waste any more time, let's get right into it. Uh, what is iCandy Party all about?
SPEAKER_00iCandy Party is a group that hosts events and parties and has a merchandise line. Um, and it is fast becoming the elite party group in the United States.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely.
SPEAKER_00It was founded in 2019, so it's been around a little while now. Um, and they do events in primarily the big takeovers are at Secrets Resort in Kissimmee, Florida. They do three takeovers a year, one in March, one in June, and one in December. They also at the Secrets location do First Friday parties. And that's what we're here for this weekend is an actual First Friday event. And that means that on First Fridays, um, the party is on Friday night, but the iCandy crew stays on Sunday for the pool party and the night party as well.
SPEAKER_02We take part in uh selling merchandise out by poolside. So if you guys want to stop by or if you're ever in the area and want to get some merch, that's your opportunity to do that.
Takeovers Versus Colette’s Nights
SPEAKER_00That's exactly right. Also, they do parties at Colette's. Now, Colette's is a group of clubs. Um, there's one in New Orleans, there's four in Texas, there's one in San Antonio, Austin, Dallas, and Houston. And Colette's host um has eye candy come in and host parties um all throughout the year. And so you can usually catch one of those parties once a month.
SPEAKER_02And what's great about those Collettes parties is they're owned by the same people, John and Jackie. They do an amazing job. They keep everything up the par, and uh the parties there at Collett's are off the hook. And uh we'll be taking part of those here hopefully shortly as well as we go on our trip.
SPEAKER_00Right. So some of the differences between a a takeover, a hotel takeover party that Secrets does say it in Kissimmee, um, and the Colette's parties is the Colette's parties is just a Saturday night. It's there's no hotel involved, there's no no rooms involved, things like that.
SPEAKER_02They might have a meet and greet type thing for the first night on Friday night, but predominantly the big party for the eye candy parties on Saturday night at the Collettes parties. Now, when you start talking about a takeover here, and we just got through our last takeover, as a matter of fact, in March, uh, you talk about a takeover here, it's a four-night party. And the best way of describing it, it's almost like a little EDM festival.
SPEAKER_01Right.
SPEAKER_02And uh it, I mean, they have great DJs, they have different styles of music going on at different places, uh, just like you would see at a you know normal EDM um EDC or any any of those electronic um parties, but it it's a great vibe, and I'll tell you the people is what makes iCandy so great. And why is that?
SPEAKER_00Because they are the energy of the party. So the energy of the party. And whenever parties uh happen here at Secrets, the takeover parties, what we've noticed, what's been happening over the years is that groups of people from all around the United States will come with their friends. So, for example, this last party, there was a group of gosh, probably 10 couples from Michigan, five couples from Virginia, you know, like 10 couples from Texas, and they come as groups of friends here to Secrets and then to partake in the eye candy parties.
SPEAKER_02And so this last party we were at in March, the takeover we were at, it surprised us that there were probably only 40 or 50 people in total, in total that we knew, and that would be a considerable local that we'd only see on a regular basis, which is which is a uh I want to say a staggering difference, but it is becoming a change, which we love because that means there's more and more people now partaking in the lifestyle events and coming out and checking out iCandy as well. So, yes.
SPEAKER_00Right. And so some of the reason for that is because the party is a three-night minimum. Yep. Um, it has to be a Thursday, Friday, Saturday of up an iCandy party. So for people to come here, it is for a takeover, it is a commitment. Yeah, um, and you are committing, and that's why there are people from out of state putting down money. It's a destination event to come.
SPEAKER_02It's a destination event, it's a destination type of an event that's going on as well. Exactly. People travel and we've met people coming in from all over the United States, uh, to include Canada. Um, you can't and South America as well. South America as well.
SPEAKER_00Right. And so when people come here for the iCandy Party takeovers at Secret specifically, that's why we're getting, I think, more outside of Florida people coming in, which is fantastic because we love to see our community growing as well. So it's kind of like people going to a destination instead of choosing Cancun, Mexico, they're coming to Kissimmee, Florida.
SPEAKER_02Uh, and just another just to add on to what you're talking about, Miss Corps, about the the groups of people that are coming here. Uh, big shout out to our group up in South Carolina. Uh some friends of ours up there, they came to their first event last year, iCandy's party, and now their group coming down here is growing. Uh, I believe they're coming down here with 20 people. So I think 20 couples.
SPEAKER_0120 couples. I think it's 20.
SPEAKER_02That's right. Yeah. So just uh that's what it's all about. Once the word gets out about iCandy parties, it goes on. So another thing we'll care uh talk about here actually in a little bit are some of the tidbits. So make sure you're staying uh in tuned and coming up, we'll talk about those tidbits.
SPEAKER_00Exactly. I also wanted to mention iCandy also has a merchandise line, and the merchandise line is very EDM, bright color inspired um apparel. So there's t-shirts, tank tops, swimwear, but there's also tumbler cups, um, pasties, sunglasses, towels, a variety of things.
SPEAKER_02They got earrings for the ladies to wear during the parties.
SPEAKER_00Right. And so during the takeover weekends, the merchandise tent where we sell the items is open on Fridays and Saturdays. And on a first Friday weekend, it's only open on Saturdays. Now that's the only place that iCandy has merchandise available for sale in person. Um merchandise is not taken to the collets location, but you can still get your iCandy merchandise by the website. So we'll talk about that in a bit as well.
SPEAKER_02Yep.
SPEAKER_00All right, next up. Oh, did I miss anything?
SPEAKER_02No, I think we've gotten the what taken care
The Crowd Size And Vibe
SPEAKER_02of.
SPEAKER_00Okay, let's talk about the who's the iCandy.
SPEAKER_02Everybody. I've said I think I've said that on every episode. You have said that. Everybody. But if you take a snapshot, if I could take a snapshot of the picture of what you would expect to see of people here for an iCandy event, especially a takeover, you're talking everybody in the range of I'd say the 35 age group up to 60s, up into your 70s. There's there's some an older crew out there that loves their EDM music, and they're vibing it out by the club by the club and uh at night, and they're out in the pool during the day. And I tell you, it's a fit crowd, it's a good looking crowd. Now, I will say it it seems clickish, but it's not clickish. It's only because, like what we've talked about about the people coming, they're coming, people are coming in as groups from all over the United States. So, yes, they're gonna mingle and talk specifically with their group, but make sure if you come to check out an ICandy party, make sure you introduce yourself, get out, put yourself out there, like I've said in the past, and uh be a little adventurous and make 2026 the year of the adventure. That's right. That's who is coming to iCandy Party.
SPEAKER_00So I would say the median age is probably 35.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Uh there's like much younger crowd, 20s, mid-20s to 35, I think is a huge bulk of the um takeover crowd, especially on the Saturday night party.
SPEAKER_01Yep.
SPEAKER_00Um, so on the Saturday night party, as far as the Who, um, some of the largest crowds at Secrets are recorded on iCandy events. There's been as many as 2,500 people at a party. A party at Secrets in Kissimmee, Florida. Now, there's only um, I think, uh, what, 150 rooms or so here at Secrets. So a lot of those people are staying off property.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, and there's plenty of hotels nearby. Uh, everything from three star to five star, well, four star. Four star. Um, there's plenty of hotels nearby, and a quick Uber ride over here. You can definitely get in for a day party. You can just go to the front desk and uh you know take care of that. But uh, I tell you, it is something you want to participate in. And if you're going to be in Florida, definitely come to Secrets for one of the takeovers. If you're gonna be out in Texas, take care of one of the callettes events out there and make sure you check that box off because you don't want to miss an eye candy party.
SPEAKER_01Exactly. All right.
SPEAKER_02So we covered the who.
SPEAKER_00That's right.
SPEAKER_02Now I think we should talk about the
Dates Booking And Room Crawls
SPEAKER_02when. When are I when are the eye candy events coming up?
SPEAKER_00All right, like I mentioned, there's three big takeovers a year. One is in March, that's in the middle of the March, middle of March typically. Um, the next one is always the first weekend of June, and then the last one of the year is always the first weekend in December. Those hotel takeover events all are located at Kissimmee or at Secrets, Florida, um, in Kissimmee, Florida, rather. And they are the three night minimum. I will tell you the June party, we are filming this, we are airing this video right now, or we're filming in April. The June party is already sold out, and it's been sold out for two months. That's the way iCandy parties go. So I need to tell you and give you the insider tip of how to get here. So the takeover for June is already sold out as far as rooms, but you can still come for a day party or night party. You can still come, you can get a Airbnb and get a hotel room. You can get a hotel locally and then just drive in with friends. A lot of people do that. Now, the next takeover after that is December 3rd through the 6th. I need to tell you how to know when those rooms go on safe.
SPEAKER_02Stop right now and listen to her. Everybody stop what you're doing because you want to be getting I candy.
SPEAKER_00The rooms sell out in one to two weeks after being released.
SPEAKER_01Every time.
SPEAKER_00Every single, every single takeover is sold out. And so the way to get a room is sign up for the email list. The way you sign up for the email list is go to the website. The website is iCandies iCandyparties.com. On that website, there is a button that says sign up for the email. That's what you click on. Click on that, get on the email.
SPEAKER_02It's referred to as newsletter. I think it's the newsletter on the website.
SPEAKER_00It's where you put in your email, and then that's how you you are informed. Everyone who's on that email list is informed first before the you know the the big announcement happens. So get on that email list.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely.
SPEAKER_00All right, and then other the other wins are are first Fridays. And first Friday, everyone, there's no minimum uh or no uh minimum room requirement. So you can come on a first Friday and get just the room for Friday night if you want to, or Friday and Saturday, there's no like a three-day minimum like there is for the takeover. And that seems to be what most locals are coming to. Most of the Florida, you know, people that's what they're coming to is First Fridays. Now, the big thing about First Fridays is every Friday night on the first Friday weekends, there is a room crawl. And what that means is a big group of people um start in the tiki uh hut in the center of secrets, and we have a crawl going to different rooms who have volunteered to uh pour shots for us.
SPEAKER_02And host a shot in the room, which is cool because what that does is does not only allow people then to look and check out all the different rooms and the different styles, as you can see with our room here, but it will also allow you to meet some of the great people that are coming for I candy parties. We've actually met some of our best friends to date uh from an I candy party like five, six years ago. Exactly. Uh, and that's a that's the kind of the atmosphere it is here is that that room crawl. Now they do the room crawl on every uh takeover as well, the big takeovers, the four days it's on the Thursday night. So just look out for that. Thursday night for big takeovers, and then Friday nights for the first Fridays when we do those rune crawls, and they are a blast. They're so much fun. We're doing one tonight here, just a few hours, and we cannot wait to get uh you know, up there you get those shots going, the shots flying. So fun. Yep.
SPEAKER_00All right, did we miss anything about the win?
SPEAKER_02The win. I think we got everything covered.
SPEAKER_00Oh the um the win for collettes parties. Oh, the win for the collette's parties. Check the website. That website again is icandyparties.com. Um, there is one in uh San Antonio at the end of May. It's May 30th and 31st, 2026.
SPEAKER_02And the the most recent one or the ones coming up is in April. It's gonna be in New Orleans. So if you're around the New Orleans area, make sure to go check out Collettes. Uh, I believe it's April 18th that they're gonna be there. Um make sure you go out there and check that out. But if you want to double check me, go to iCandyParty.com and all of the collettes listings, uh collette parties are on there as well. Yep. What else we got? Where oh, yeah. I think we've covered that a lot. I think we've covered a lot. All over Texas, here here in Florida, which is our staple here at Secrets. But of course, you've got San Antonio, Houston for all the collettes uh and New Orleans out there as well. So yeah, and now we did, and be look on the lookout. We did do an event in Pigeon Forge a couple years.
SPEAKER_01Uh Tennessee.
SPEAKER_02Uh did it three years in a row out there. Uh, we're not doing it anymore. However, you know, uh just look for us and look, hey, like uh Miss Cora said, stay in touch with what's going on news-wise for the newsletter. Uh sign up for that newsletter and make sure you're uh staying up to date because you never know. We might throw a meet and greet or a big party somewhere near you guys.
Websites Socials And Founders Shoutout
SPEAKER_00Next up is the how.
SPEAKER_02The how. Well, I'm gonna leave this up to you because you've got all the how coverage.
SPEAKER_00How again, go to the website. The wet website is iCandyParties.com. You can sign up for rooms there, you can get merchandise there and find the dates of events there as well. Now, for iCandy Party Takeovers at Secrets in Kasimme, all of those rooms are booked through the iCandy website, not the Secrets website. If you go to Secrets website and try to book a room for a takeover weekend, it's gonna tell you it's sold out because you have to go to the iCandy webpage to do so. Yep. So go to the iCandy webpage to do so. Also, you can follow um iCandy on Instagram and on Facebook. Their Instagram is Parties iCandy. That's the Instagram, and the Facebook is Capital ICandyParties. Um, so check out both of those locations.
SPEAKER_02See, I always leave that up to you because you've got you're the organized one.
SPEAKER_00It's only because I have it written down.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, well, hey, you do a great job of it. Now, I want to take a quick second right here as we're talking about the how to also give a quick shout out to all of our subscribers as well as uh those people following us out there. Make sure you're telling your friends about us and you know, click those likes and all that with our social medias. But the last thing I want to cover in our how is a big shout out to Candy Mama and Candy Daddy, Brandon and Shauna. They're the founders of iCandy, and I tell you they have done an amazing job, not only for the lifestyle through iCandy Parties, uh, but they continue to do it day after day after day. And uh, I'll tell you, iCandy parties you don't want to miss, but a big shout out to Brand and Sean out there. They they come up with all the logos, they do all the printing and all the stuff for all the merchandise. So uh if you see them out there, give them a big pat, high five, whatever it is, say hey, you guys are awesome because guess what? They are they are awesome.
SPEAKER_00They are.
SPEAKER_02Yep.
SPEAKER_00All right, now we
Theme Prep And Adventure Tips
SPEAKER_00have a just the tips.
SPEAKER_02Oh, my favorite part, just the tips. I don't like playing the game, but hey, we're gonna talk about just the tips. All right, so uh uh so just the tips. What are some of your favorite tips that you'd like to say about eye candy parties?
SPEAKER_00Well, my first one is book early. Get on that website, get your email on the website, uh, or get your email on the email list so you know when the rooms are released, so you know that um you can hurry and get your room booked. Um, and make the commitment. Uh you know, think of this as a party that you're going to that is a huge commitment because it is and uh think of it that way. It is a great lifestyle event.
SPEAKER_02And I'm gonna cover, and we have actually a huge, huge failure. We have failed all already in this episode. We forgot to talk about the amazing themes of the eye candy parties. I tell you, Brandon Shauna, Candy Mama and Candy Daddy, they do an amazing job every time coming up with these amazing themes. They're not any normal theme that you would get anywhere else. I mean, yeah, you we're close to Disney, so you can come up with Disney themes all day long, but they're amazing themes that they've got. So, like this weekend, the themes tonight is um uh bunnies and beats. Bunnies and beats. Uh, but you know, what and I the reason why I bring that up is because it ties right into my first just a tip. The amazing themed parties here at iCandy, you've got to go all out. I mean, I used to be the guy just wearing a t-shirt and you know with something funny on it. Not no more. No more. You've got to take part. You have to reach out, and you know, as I've said before, this is the year. 2026 is the year to be adventurous. Find some of those crazy outfits. Yeah, wear them, wear them and have a this is where you can do it. Everyone, this is where you can let loose and do it.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, see um everyone at iCandy events, they go all out for the themes. It is all out, and I love it. It is such a blast.
SPEAKER_02And my my last tidbit is not only just uh, you know, go all out for the um themes, but just like I said, uh, I've said this a couple different times now, be adventurous and don't come here and just sit in your room. Don't just be, you know, you got to get out and you gotta meet people and you gotta put yourself out there and be a little bit adventurous in 2026. Okay. So that's it for my tips of the day.
SPEAKER_00One of the ways to do that is our last tip, which is go on the room crawl. Oh the room crawl is a great way to meet people and be adventurous and walk up and say, Hi, my name is. And you never know what happens in that simple statement. Hi, my name is practice in the mirror at home. Hi, my name is. Hi, and hi, it's good to meet you. And then, you know, get out there and meet people. That's what lifestyle is all about, community.
SPEAKER_02All right, so we've covered just the tips, I think. Yeah, all right. Next we're gonna go into our mailbag session, but I'll tell you what, we're gonna take a quick break, so we'll be right back with our mailbag question of the day.
Mailbag: Games In The Lifestyle
SPEAKER_02All right, we are back with our mailbag question of the day.
SPEAKER_00And the question is the question is what is your opinion of games in the lifestyle?
SPEAKER_02Well, they made two mistakes already. They asked me for our opinion, so hey, I'm gonna give it to you. No. Uh uh Wow, that's a big one, actually. So I think you know, you can you can break that down in a couple different ways. If you're at a party and you're trying to intermix and talk with people, it might come off. As a pretty good icebreaker. But I've also seen that introducing games into a situation where you're expecting or wanting to play to happen, it can go on forever to their draws it out for the longest time period. And I'm not talking about it just has to be a game where, you know, it can, it's a simple game. It doesn't have to be anything like illustrious like twister, you know, hey, all right, we're gonna play Twister and roll out the twister, make a twister, uh, which you can do, that's fine if you're hosting or whatever, but there's a certain place and certain time, I guess, for different events. Now, as like I said though, for an icebreaker to introduce people to other people, absolutely. That if you got a small group of people, uh, however, just beware to read the room and read people uh to see where the where the game's going or where it's not going, depending on what you want to have happen, I guess. But uh make sure that uh you just kind of make sure to read the room. Did I miss anything? Or is there anything like that?
SPEAKER_00Well, they well, one thing that jumped in my mind while you were talking was we have gone to daytime parties that games are a blast. We went to a daytime pool party at some friends, and they um rented this large blow-up uh blow-up slide, blow up water slide, and it had two sides. And then we had relay races. And so we split the crowd or the crowd, the crowd was split into two, and we had relay races. I think there was flip cup going on, I think there was ride on this bouncing horse, go up the relay race slide, comes in.
SPEAKER_01There's a relay race.
SPEAKER_00And and so everyone loved that game. That was but that wasn't one of those sexy games that turns into sex, right? Um, that was for fun.
SPEAKER_02That was like the theme of the party. I mean, it was a almost like a uh Olympics. I forget what they're called, Sex Olympics or something on that line.
SPEAKER_00It was really fun. So in my mind, like we have those kind of games, and then even like there could be like Naked Twister, or there might be in the pool, naked volleyball, or topless volleyball, or something like that. Even here at Secrets, just like in other resorts, other lifestyle resorts, they'll have um people running games, like where it's you know, dildo toss or you know, whatever. Those, yeah, those are fun. I think those are fun from a from a lifestyle um someone who's been in lifestyle for more than 10 years. I think those are fun. I think icebreaker games during a house party, whenever sexy time is getting ready to start. My personal opinion is I could do without them. That's my personal opinion. In the beginning, I wasn't that way though. In the beginning, it helped to have some dice to um throw and you know, see what it says and then do what was on the dice. Or there's a couple of card games and different kinds of games like that. There's sexy games. I did like those in the beginning, the first two or three years. Guys, after year three, I'm like, let's get naked.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, and I think some of that's just my opinion. Yeah, and I think some of it has to do with, and I I agree with your opinion, and I think that's a great way of putting it as well. But a lot of times the games kind of come off as being a little too pushy, right? Yeah, and it backs a woman into a corner of well, do I have to really give that guy a kiss, or do I really have to well, you gotta also remember no is a complete answer. You can always say no and whatever. However, and that's why I was saying at the beginning, uh, with games, they're a little bit, it's almost a double-edged sword where they can be too pushy or some people don't like them, right? And it can be a turn-off or whatever. So just kind of read the room and kind of read where things are going. Yeah, and uh a game could be something as simple as we've done this before. Um, turning over a car, high, low, you know, type thing, and then uh, you know, they gotta do something on a spin wheel or do something from another uh card deck that you know is clothes off or shirts off or whatever, um, those kind of things, but something simple.
SPEAKER_00You know where I see games go the best is whenever the woman uh starts it.
SPEAKER_02Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_00Or whenever women start the game.
SPEAKER_02Anything's better whenever the woman starts, especially when you're talking about lifestyle or swinging. If a woman is starting something, let's go.
SPEAKER_00Yes, because I do in the past, I remember we had a spin wheel and um a woman came up and she erased some of the things and she put in what she wanted to do, and that voice.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, and that was not definitely not an NC17 type thing that we can talk about here.
SPEAKER_00So Roland is in five minutes. Um that's fun. So, you know, I would say read the room and talk to the other people there. If it's a small intimate party, heck, people might be into strip poker, strip spades, I don't know, whatever it is. Um, but read the room.
SPEAKER_02Read the room and read the and read the people, yeah.
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SPEAKER_00Definitely, definitely.
SPEAKER_02Absolutely.
Wrap-Up And How To Connect
SPEAKER_02All right. I'll tell you what, so this has been fun. We are coming to the close of this episode, and I tell you, just gonna kind of give you a little bit of an idea of what if if you're you know watching this behind the camera is our window out to the parking lot, and we've had sexy people walking by the entire time. Sorry, you guys that you know if are listening online, you can't see it. Uh, but I'll tell you it's been fantastic.
SPEAKER_00I don't know, they may be able to see in that mirror, right there.
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SPEAKER_00Absolutely.
SPEAKER_02Anything to close with?
SPEAKER_00I think that's it. You cover it at all.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, all right. We'll see you on the next episode.
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