The Posting Debate : Is This Love Offline?

The saying goes no face no case. Is posting your partner reassurance?
Territory?
Proof?
Or pressure?

As always, the Menaces take the conversation further than expected — raw takes, real stories, uncomfortable honesty, and plenty of laughs in between.

Welcome to Wholesome Menace.
Where the conversations are real, messy, funny, and probably a little too honest.

Transcript

unknown 0:01

Wonder if you need a notice.

SPEAKER_09 0:12

Just wanna be okay.

SPEAKER_11 0:18

Hello and welcome to the wholesome menace podcast. I'm your host, Chris Marie. I got Steph and Risa with me today and every day and everything.

SPEAKER_03 0:27

Welcome to the podcast.

SPEAKER_01 0:28

We're here. We're back.

SPEAKER_03 0:30

Once again.

SPEAKER_10 0:31

Yeah. What do you got in store for us? What you got in what do you guys got in store for me? I got games, jokes, laughs. Yeah. Yeah. You don't got more jokes than me. I have some delusions, of course. I know that.

SPEAKER_03 0:46

You think you're funnier than I am?

SPEAKER_10 0:49

I don't know. You're pretty funny, but I'm funnier than you. But she's funnier than you. Maybe. You know I'm funnier than you, so I don't even know what this conversation is. It's not. Thank you. But hey, put it in the comments, guys. Who's funnier? Who's funnier? Me or Stefan?

SPEAKER_03 1:08

I think we'd definitely we'd definitely be cracking off for sure.

SPEAKER_10 1:11

Yeah, definitely. Because of me.

unknown 1:13

Okay, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:15

No, not all.

SPEAKER_10 1:16

Not just because in our own different ways.

SPEAKER_03 1:19

Lady Reese, you're also really funny.

SPEAKER_10 1:21

You are. Thank you. Nonchalant. As fuck. Love it.

SPEAKER_03 1:25

Yeah. How was the week?

SPEAKER_10 1:29

It's been good. It's a Saturday.

SPEAKER_03 1:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:32

My week was pretty gr it was okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:34

Yeah. I was very productive at work this week. Um, and I feel great about that.

SPEAKER_01 1:39

That's nice.

SPEAKER_03 1:40

I went in and did the things. I didn't leave anything unattended.

SPEAKER_02 1:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:46

And I left on Friday in the afternoon, knowing that my job was accomplished, and that felt nice. I love that. And it's not that hard to actually do that when I now that I you know understand my job and I know what I'm doing, it's just close my eyes need to see. Buckle down to it. Yeah. That way my boss about my ass. Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 2:07

Gross. Week was pretty, it was pretty peaceful. It's just I just did not want to be there any of those days. Not at the daytime wasn't it? You said any of those days. Just want to be home, doing nothing, or like not even being home, just doing anything. But word for God, damn, leave me alone. What do they want from me?

SPEAKER_03 2:25

I can understand that.

SPEAKER_10 2:26

Your time.

SPEAKER_03 2:27

For sure.

SPEAKER_09 2:35

That was crazy.

SPEAKER_10 2:40

It was pretty good. Yeah. My days are usually long, which makes my weeks long, but yeah. I really can't complain too much.

SPEAKER_03 2:52

So I won't. Good. That's awesome. Well, hopefully it gets better, ladies. Let's get into some attitude. Okay. And gratitude. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 3:07

Okay, the night that you help me grow.

SPEAKER_03 3:16

Let it go. Alright. So for attitude and gratitude, we usually always talk about mindset. I'm always trying to give something like that. Yep. Tonight, we're gonna put that mindset on display. We're gonna play a game. Ooh.

SPEAKER_10 3:30

I like it.

SPEAKER_03 3:31

Life always gives you situations, but your mind is always filling in the story. So I'm gonna give you a bunch of scenarios, four or five scenarios. Okay. And I want you guys to tell me the first story that your mind tells you about what's going on. Don't think about it. Don't want the right answer. I want the first story your mind tells you. Then we're gonna figure out is that reality? Or are you tra are you believing something your mind's training you to think about? You know? We just something like that just happened just now, so I'm really excited about this guy. Alright. Tell us. Here's a light one. Alright, your ex still watches your all your stories, but never reaches out.

SPEAKER_08 4:13

You said the scenario now?

SPEAKER_03 4:14

This is the scenario. Your ex still watches all your stories, but he never reaches out.

SPEAKER_10 4:20

Of course you do. On the shit.

SPEAKER_03 4:21

What do you think's happening?

SPEAKER_10 4:24

Miss a ruminant.

SPEAKER_03 4:25

What is the first story your mind's telling you?

SPEAKER_10 4:27

If you're not obsessed with me, you're nosy as fuck.

unknown 4:30

Okay. Okay.

SPEAKER_10 4:34

Okay, I like it.

SPEAKER_02 4:36

That's it. What about you?

SPEAKER_10 4:38

You miss me, duh. How could you not? I'm fucking onspawn.

SPEAKER_03 4:42

Okay, cool. That's good. Those aren't bad, those aren't wrong, but that's what's your first thing that pops in your mind.

SPEAKER_10 4:47

Yeah. You're watching me. What else could it be? Okay. Well, it's yours. You missed the best thing that ever happened to you in your life. No, it's not a fact. This is could be a delusion. It's in my mind. It's a story. Yeah, it's a story. It's made up. Fuck you watching me for. You didn't want to be here, move around.

SPEAKER_03 5:04

Hey, but it's the fact is he's watching me.

unknown 5:07

Fact.

SPEAKER_03 5:08

Alright. Second scenario. He's active on Instagram, but hasn't texted back all day. Fuck him. First thought. Don't filter it. What's the first thought?

SPEAKER_09 5:20

That was it. The fuck? What are we talking about? I'm not doing that. You're weird.

SPEAKER_03 5:29

Hilarious. Okay. That was my first thought. He's ignoring me. Love that. Oh shit, my bad. Maybe he's talking to his cheating.

SPEAKER_10 5:42

I'm not thinking about it like that. I'm gonna jump right in. If you're active on social media, but you're not texting me or texting me back, then you don't want to talk to me, and now I never want to talk to you again. So, yeah, fuck him. Cool. Cool.

SPEAKER_03 5:54

Alright, I have another one. Good heavens. You guys give me some serious ones right now. You're giving us some serious ones. Yeah. Question three. So have you has that frame of thinking ever been the right course of action when those situate in those situations?

SPEAKER_10 6:12

For me it is, because I just feel like to me, that's weeding out who's not supposed to be for me or with me or whatever. I we are grown as hell, and personally I know what I'm looking for, and to be ignored, but then watching your bubble bounce around on social media, that I don't want to do that. Bubble. Whatever, your green dot, whatever the fuck happens. No, if you wanna if you're interested in me or want to be here or want to do the things, then we're gonna be talking all the time.

SPEAKER_03 6:45

I like that. Anything for you, Lady Risa?

SPEAKER_01 6:48

I don't care. I'm not interested in anyone. Leave me alone.

SPEAKER_03 6:54

I have a third one. All right. You feel drained every time you're around somebody you care about.

SPEAKER_10 6:59

Ooh, that's wicked. You're a negative, nasty person. You don't belong in my energy. Okay, so you're saying I'm a vampire.

SPEAKER_03 7:07

You're they're the problem.

SPEAKER_02 7:08

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_10 7:10

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 7:11

What are you saying?

SPEAKER_10 7:12

You're this thing's like, okay, so they're the problem, not you.

SPEAKER_09 7:17

I look like that. You know he's like weirdly like he loves it.

SPEAKER_10 7:24

He's like, okay, because I've been through that. I'm right. Um I'm sorry, say it again.

SPEAKER_03 7:29

You feel drained every time you're around somebody you care about.

SPEAKER_10 7:34

Um, either I'm gonna slowly stop being around you, or I'm gonna tell you what's bothering me is draining me, and let's fix it.

SPEAKER_03 7:44

Interesting. Have you ever felt like you've been the draining person?

SPEAKER_10 7:47

Fuck yeah. Yeah, I'm sure I have. I've definitely been the draining person. Risa, I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_03 7:56

It's funny. Do you feel like sometimes that's not setting that's you not setting boundaries, and that's why you feel drained by them?

SPEAKER_10 8:04

Could be, but people are gonna be who they are as well. Right. True. Boundaries are not, and then that's what I'm just gonna.

SPEAKER_03 8:11

Mover on.

SPEAKER_08 8:12

Yeah. I love mover on.

SPEAKER_03 8:14

One more, one more, one more. All right. You feel a shift in the relationship, but nothing specific has happened.

SPEAKER_10 8:23

I mean, that could be what's the relationship.

SPEAKER_03 8:25

What's your mind telling? You feel a shift in in the relationship.

SPEAKER_10 8:28

Is this a bad shift?

SPEAKER_03 8:30

Nothing actually happened, but something's off.

SPEAKER_10 8:33

Something's off.

SPEAKER_03 8:35

What's the story your mind's telling you?

SPEAKER_10 8:37

What's up? Oh okay. If it's in a relationship type deal, then you're cheating. You're cheating or something, or something. Maybe somebody just had a bad thing, but then their energy is just off. I mean, I've been that there too. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 8:56

Do you feel like when in those moments you might be sensing something real? Yeah, for sure. Or maybe you're reacting to something that has happened in the past in that type of scenario.

SPEAKER_10 9:07

That's a pattern. Yeah. I mean, I feel like you could be reacting to something real. You're in a relationship with somebody and you really know this person and you're like the energy is off today. Like then you know. It just what do you know? You know that, okay, this person maybe they came home and instead of coming in and giving me a kiss and then going about whatever they gotta do, they just come in and go start doing what they just say hey and then walk by and do whatever. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 9:39

That's I feel like women are very, very acutely aware of how of patterns, especially with men. So they they know he walks in the door, he puts the briefcase down, he walks up, he kisses me, he slaps me on my left cheek, and then he goes and sits down, takes his shoes off. You guys pay attention to those things so he walks in.

SPEAKER_10 9:58

Why the left cheek specifically? I'm saying, not bad, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:02

Double cheek.

SPEAKER_09 10:04

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 10:05

He does the things. Yeah. And you guys are acutely aware of those things.

SPEAKER_01 10:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:09

As soon as they don't occur, things start firing up here. Okay, why why didn't you do that? We always do that.

SPEAKER_01 10:17

Right.

SPEAKER_03 10:17

Right. Men are not necessarily like that, but we do pay attention to how you all are doing and moving our lives. The reason why I want to play this game is because sometimes, again, we l we all go through scenarios, but our brains are creating the scenarios. Or we all go through situations, but our brains creating the story, filling the gaps.

SPEAKER_02 10:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:37

You know, we was talking to you earlier. Your boyfriend goes to the you know, I have a boyfriend right now, but the person goes to the gym out of the blue now.

SPEAKER_02 10:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:45

You know, he smells good out of the blue now. He's got new clothes out of the blue now. He won't he won't he won't leave his phone with it on the table even though he's done that for years. Your brain's starting to make clear in your brain of what's going on.

SPEAKER_10 10:59

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:00

Filling in the gaps. Well, what's going on, right? And especially if you ain't doing that, right. And sometimes I think that the situation isn't the problem. I think sometimes we attach meaning to the scenario before we have all the facts.

SPEAKER_07 11:14

Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_03 11:16

You know, and that's why I want is I was I like the game beat belief for reality because maybe it's something that you believe. Maybe it's your brain trying to protect you from something. Our brain hates not knowing all the details. So we fill in certain certain things.

SPEAKER_01 11:31

Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:32

To try to put ourselves, you know, in a more regulated space. Right. But that's tough. It could be dangerous, right? Because then you bring that into the situation, even though maybe he just had a long day.

SPEAKER_10 11:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:44

You know, maybe she's been dealing with the kids all day and she didn't want to cook or she didn't want to do the thing for you. Now you think she doesn't like you anymore. Now you think the situation's off.

SPEAKER_02 11:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:55

And we just don't have all of the facts.

SPEAKER_10 11:59

Let's get the facts. Let's talk about it. What's wrong? What's going on? Why are you being like this? Do you want to talk right now? It's not cool, but come talk to me later so we can fix whatever.

SPEAKER_03 12:10

Yeah, it's super, super important. And to be able to make that space for the person, and if they don't want it, be okay with it.

SPEAKER_10 12:20

Okay with that. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 12:21

Yeah. Yeah. So know that they're in a couple of things.

SPEAKER_10 12:23

Yeah, like I'm not ready right now to talk about it. That's super simple. Yeah, what someone's going through through something can't be having them. Well, what's well why don't you want to talk about it? Give somebody and then getting mad that person's not ready to talk about it. Like to open up about whatever's going on. That would make them maybe want to open up even more.

SPEAKER_03 12:43

For sure, for sure. I think just to tie that up, it's just that sometimes the story you're telling yourself might be trying to protect you. Sometimes it might actually be misleading you if it's actually taking a second to debrief and get the facts straight before you attach meaning to them is really important, right?

SPEAKER_01 13:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 13:04

Because your brain will suck you up. Yeah, for sure, for sure. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 13:08

Yeah. Suck it together.

SPEAKER_03 13:11

Attitude and gratitude. I like we're gonna come back to this game and it'll be more risque.

SPEAKER_01 13:21

Nice. Okay. I like that. That was interesting.

SPEAKER_10 13:25

Yeah. Now who's ready for oh goodness? I don't know if I'm gonna had a long day at the track too.

SPEAKER_11 13:37

Name the quote. We haven't sung that together in a while. We haven't.

SPEAKER_10 13:42

Name the quote. Yeah. Okay, it wasn't. That was it. It sounded good. Yeah.

SPEAKER_09 13:52

That was good. Woo! That was really good.

SPEAKER_10 13:58

Gotta start it. Yeah. Good job. Alright.

unknown 14:01

Thanks.

SPEAKER_03 14:07

We're doing three and three or two and two.

SPEAKER_10 14:09

We're gonna do two and two today. You want three and three? Y'all want three and three.

SPEAKER_03 14:14

I like the game.

SPEAKER_10 14:16

I like the game. Do three and three. Alright, I'm sorry. So let me.

SPEAKER_01 14:30

Let me get my mind ready.

SPEAKER_10 14:32

Get my mind right.

SPEAKER_03 14:35

Damn, I need to get my shit. You never know what crystals gonna go, so it's just right, up in the air. Really?

SPEAKER_10 14:43

All right. Let's go with your first two suckers. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 14:53

All night. Drunk and love.

SPEAKER_09 14:56

Damn, that was so easy. I hate y'all. All right. Congrats, guys. We both got that. You can avoid. You can avoid. Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 15:10

You got it. Okay. Don't are you done?

SPEAKER_02 15:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 15:19

Are you done? Okay.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

That's what I think.

SPEAKER_10 15:24

Ready for your movie clothes.

SPEAKER_06 15:31

Tell her she's wearing the shirt and I've built the margarita on and the earrings I give her for Christmas. Tell her she's wearing the shirt and I've built the margarita on and the earrings I give her for Christmas.

SPEAKER_10 15:59

Yeah, no.

SPEAKER_03 16:00

Can't even pick who the person is.

SPEAKER_10 16:02

Me either. I love this.

SPEAKER_03 16:05

One more time. It's gonna be a third part.

SPEAKER_10 16:07

Oh, you got it one more time. I played on my time.

SPEAKER_05 16:13

What a main tell her tell her she's wearing a shirt that I built the margarita on and the earring here because I gave Christmas.

SPEAKER_10 16:22

We probably never get about eating scene. I have no clue. Gave him the long buzzer. That would be the movie Ghost. Patrick Swayze. Oh, wow. Oh Patrick Swayzer.

SPEAKER_03 16:53

Yes, what?

SPEAKER_10 16:55

Oh wow.

SPEAKER_03 16:55

Why do I not know that scene? Because that's I did watch that movie.

SPEAKER_10 16:59

I can tell you why. But he said you suck! He sounds really in that too. So maybe that's why. Through a soft. Why are you guys making excuses for you not getting it? Through a soft. Yeah, you guys. That was good, right? It was good. Yeah, that's just lazy. That was good. Yeah, I gotta get my shit up. Yeah. Because you guys have been killing it lately. Alright. Solomon. Let me do this one first. It's easy.

SPEAKER_01 17:45

What's it called?

SPEAKER_10 17:50

No, I'm gonna ask that stuff on.

SPEAKER_03 17:55

I don't know if I'm probably sure I've heard the song. I just don't know the time.

SPEAKER_10 18:01

Are you guys even trying tonight? Wow. We're tired.

SPEAKER_02 18:04

Here we go with that bullshit.

SPEAKER_10 18:07

Here we go with y'all's bullshit. I'm giving it some of my all. Like. Some of it.

SPEAKER_09 18:16

I'm giving it some of my all. I'm giving all my nothing.

SPEAKER_10 18:23

Sweet memories.

SPEAKER_02 18:26

I got nothing. Fuck.

SPEAKER_01 18:28

I'm embarrassed. Embarrassed.

SPEAKER_02 18:30

Yeah, we should be embarrassed. This two for two. The other one we should never got that, but I didn't know.

SPEAKER_03 18:35

Nah, I've really like, yeah. Maybe people would be in there.

SPEAKER_10 18:40

If I were I love you, and you want to know what's by Mary J. Blige.

SPEAKER_01 18:44

She was like, and then she's like, I'm gonna I'm I was like, I'm gonna I'm headline, she's gonna get it, she's gonna get it.

SPEAKER_10 18:53

And she didn't get it. I mean, she doesn't give us a lot of things. I don't really suck about thanks, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 19:01

I know she's not gonna give you that.

SPEAKER_10 19:02

Yeah, no, but uh, I appreciate the gesture.

SPEAKER_02 19:06

You got it, you know the song.

SPEAKER_03 19:08

Thanks. They probably would cooperate it too.

SPEAKER_10 19:11

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_03 19:12

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_10 19:12

They agree. Thank you, guys. Damn, you guys are going through it today. Yeah, for sure. Got a whole bunch of excuses and all kinds of weird shit. Weird as crazy.

SPEAKER_01 19:25

All right. Movie quote. Better be one I know. Hopefully, it's like some pick sort of shit. I got no bitch.

SPEAKER_02 19:35

Don't be a menace?

SPEAKER_01 19:36

No, that's Friday.

SPEAKER_09 19:44

Woo! Don't be a menace.

SPEAKER_03 19:46

Play it one more time, play it one more time.

SPEAKER_10 19:49

I got to kicking around.

SPEAKER_09 19:54

Oh yeah, it is fucking hilarious.

SPEAKER_03 20:05

Listen to the whole damn thing. That was fucking funny as hell, bro. I was thinking about that other scene. That's funny as shit. All right.

SPEAKER_10 20:15

We got one more quote. One more tune. Right. He's stressed, guys. He hit that real hard. Horrible. Relax, brother. Breathe regular air now. Yeah, right. Slowly. Just breathe.

SPEAKER_02 20:39

Motivation. Yeah. Millie Roland.

SPEAKER_09 20:43

Good job! He loved that. He loved that. That's his favorite beat.

SPEAKER_10 20:50

That's not that movie. Point two seconds of the fucking beautiful. She's cool. Of the fucking beat playing and he's like, motivation. Yeah, he's sexually motivated. Okay. Most men are. It's the gloom.

SPEAKER_03 21:07

It is the gloom.

SPEAKER_09 21:08

Yeah. It's the gloom.

SPEAKER_03 21:10

Literally connects two people. Whatever. She's not interested in men right now, so don't listen.

SPEAKER_10 21:16

More women. Don't get it twisted.

SPEAKER_03 21:20

Ever. Great.

SPEAKER_10 21:24

That was good. Yeah, you ready for your last quote? I'm ready. Here we go. That was good because he got it. Yeah. I don't hear any excuses, anyway. Here we go.

SPEAKER_03 21:47

Ready, player one?

SPEAKER_07 21:57

Calm down, that's one of my favorite movies. Um, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 22:05

First of all, fire, fire.

SPEAKER_01 22:09

We're not gonna turn it.

SPEAKER_03 22:12

Hello, what? Ah, well such a good movie.

SPEAKER_11 22:16

That's all I got for name 19.

SPEAKER_03 22:21

So good. So good. That was good. It was. Now I'm probably gonna go watch Ghost because I love that movie. Me too. Yeah. I love Patrick's Swiss. Not to say that I know what's gonna happen when we die, but that'd be cool to come back with the ghosts and fuck with people.

SPEAKER_08 22:33

Yeah, I'd love that.

SPEAKER_10 22:36

I think I have better things we do.

SPEAKER_08 22:38

I'm holding your dream. I don't know what's in here.

SPEAKER_11 22:42

I mean I I think I know what I don't know every time, so now it's time for that.

SPEAKER_01 23:10

Hey.

SPEAKER_10 23:15

Let's see what we got for you today. Today. Oh my goodness. I'm hungry a little bit. You keep saying that. I'm sorry. We're filming. I'm delusional. Don't think I'm gonna eat right now. Yeah. Please continue. Thinking providing financially replaces emotional presence.

SPEAKER_08 23:43

You're delusional.

SPEAKER_10 23:44

You're a fucking. I'm sorry, you're an idiot. Delusional. I hate that. Very delusional. Please emote me.

SPEAKER_03 23:54

Yeah. Also, men really, I mean, this is a lesson I'm learning now. You have more than one station in a woman's life. You have to carry more than one thing. It's not just the money. It's not just the sex. It's not just the emotions. It's a combination of a bunch of different things that you need to be able to provide her. If you can't and you're falling short, a lot of men get stopped at get stuck at the money part because it's such a plays such a big part in their lives. Right.

SPEAKER_01 24:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 24:27

Or and then they excel at that and they forget about the other ones. Or they're really great about those things and they suck at the money.

SPEAKER_01 24:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 24:34

So but it's it's a bunch of them though. You can't. You gotta come as the full package. So that's on the hard way, which is why I take it a little easy with dating because I'm not trying to fuck up the next situation.

SPEAKER_01 24:49

Yeah. Smart guy. Yeah. Good for you, Stepon. And his lucky lady.

SPEAKER_10 24:59

Believing children don't notice tension in the home.

SPEAKER_02 25:03

Delusional.

SPEAKER_10 25:04

Delusional as hell. Yeah, be careful. Okay. Accountability feels like attack to people who avoid responsibility.

SPEAKER_03 25:16

Or sure, you're delusional.

SPEAKER_10 25:18

You're a loser. You're not a loser.

SPEAKER_03 25:21

Take some accountability for you.

SPEAKER_10 25:22

But take some accountability for it. Honestly.

SPEAKER_03 25:25

I can say they're a loser. Take some accountability for me hurt for it. And you might actually be better for it.

SPEAKER_10 25:33

You would for sure be better for it. Especially if you're blame.

SPEAKER_03 25:37

Yeah, 100%. Loser.

SPEAKER_10 25:43

Delusions or lifestyle choices.

SPEAKER_03 25:47

Delusions are lifestyle choices.

SPEAKER_10 25:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 25:51

Can't sit like that.

SPEAKER_10 25:52

Lifestyle choice.

SPEAKER_03 25:53

These are good because it's teaching me a lot. And even if it's things that I'm actually learning and healing from, I'm learning to like every time we do a show and we talk about these things, like, damn, well, how does that apply to Stephon? Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 26:06

Yeah. And I'm learning that definitely still funnier than you. But I love your I love your segment as well. You're delusional. But yeah, I love it. Delusional is really good.

SPEAKER_03 26:21

Somebody leave in a comment, is she funnier than me actually? Tell us. Tell us.

SPEAKER_10 26:26

Just tell us so he can know for sure what the truth is.

SPEAKER_03 26:30

She's a lot more free spirited. I can agree with that. But funny? I'll argue that.

SPEAKER_10 26:36

I'm not arguing it. You are funny though. And I enjoy laughing with you. Okay. But you're not funnier than me. Just go ahead. Sometimes she does too much. We're not gonna lie. I do. I can't help. She is very funny.

SPEAKER_03 26:52

Thank you. You are very funny.

SPEAKER_10 26:54

Thank you, Crystal. I love when people tell me I'm funny. Should have been a comedian out this bitch.

SPEAKER_11 27:03

Anyway. Anyway, that's all I have for the dose.

SPEAKER_03 27:11

Thank you. It's funny. Ladies, I got a question for our main topic today. It's about posting your person that you're dating on social media. Should you post them on social media? I don't give a shit. I think that a lot of people put a lot of emphasis on that.

SPEAKER_10 27:28

They do. Today's day and age. It's weird as fuck. Like that shit's not defining what we have going. Like, real life is still happening at home off the computer screens.

SPEAKER_03 27:39

I from my perspective, I get why social media exists. I love it. And you guys know that I don't want to do it for free anymore.

SPEAKER_01 27:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 27:47

But to say that I have to post the person that I'm dating, if I don't post them, it means that I don't care about you.

SPEAKER_10 27:55

That's not true.

SPEAKER_03 27:57

Or worse, if I You're hiding me. You're hiding me. Or, you know, see girls do this a lot. They won't put his face, they'll put his arm. It would be dead. Everything's cut off.

SPEAKER_10 28:08

What the fuck is going on here? That's ridiculous. What are we doing? I mean, fuck it. It's not even not even saying hiding me. What'd she say? Something like that. But no way. I don't need to be posted. Like when we pop out, we gonna pop the fuck out. And I don't even care then who's seized us, who's watching, whatever. And they watching. Oh yeah, they're definitely watching.

SPEAKER_03 28:39

They always are. Yeah. What I know is that we're all I don't give a shit. We're all making a version of ourselves on these social media platforms. We're all expressing ourselves in a certain way, right? Or they're you with your hiking, you with your makeup, or you with your heart of gold, right? Stefan doing whatever Stefan's life is, right? We're all doing these things. And we want your person whoever it is to be able to experience that. That doesn't mean you need to be in every single fucking photo. Right. Or every single real, right? You we want you on social media.

SPEAKER_10 29:08

Or in your driver's license photo. Come on, bro. Like, what are we doing? No, wait, what about the people like couples who are like have the same share Facebook or something? Like they're both in the social media. Yeah, their social media. Well, yeah. I don't hate it. But that's different from because they're like making money together on there because people want to see them together. And that's content, right?

SPEAKER_03 29:34

This is I'm talking about, you know, oh, you didn't post me either. And now you're angry.

SPEAKER_09 29:39

Fuck I'm out of there. What's wrong with it? I hate you actually.

SPEAKER_03 29:42

Y'all mad because I didn't post you on the socials, or you don't get mad because you're or you do. And here's here's the kicker. Like, we live in a world where everyone's constantly I say everybody's for everybody. Sharing niggas, bro. Sharing hoes. That's what people are doing out here. So you pop out with one nigga. Next thing you know, two weeks later that didn't work out, pop out with another nigga. Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 30:04

Or you post your nigga now, bitch, in his inbox.

SPEAKER_03 30:06

Right, until it gets real super messy. Not that we're trying to keep secrets out here, but yeah. Why are we doing so?

SPEAKER_10 30:11

So shit, maybe you just keep it a secret. I will never share my nigga again. She said again. I don't like to share. I'm not sharing. I'm saying like photos of him online over there.

SPEAKER_03 30:28

I don't deserve it. Uh I'm bugging.

SPEAKER_10 30:31

Yeah. My bad. But yeah, I don't I don't care to do that. Yeah. I care to post this on social media and shit like that. But like if you aren't hounding me, I could never imagine doing it. That's weird about being posted on social media. I don't think men do that so much. I think women do it more.

SPEAKER_01 30:50

Like, why don't you post me?

SPEAKER_03 30:52

And then they flips, well, you don't post.

SPEAKER_01 30:54

You don't love me.

SPEAKER_03 30:55

And men will say, Well, you're not posting me either. Also shit like that. That's how it's like, I don't give a fuck. Like, I have my own social media presentation that I do on that, right?

SPEAKER_10 31:07

It's not for me to I'm not like thinking about even if we take pictures, I'm not thinking. You're gonna post that on Facebook? You're gonna post that on Facebook. Those are for memory. Post that on that stuff.

SPEAKER_09 31:20

Don't those pictures are for us and us only.

SPEAKER_08 31:24

Keep it in your phone. Don't even send it to my especially for some five that you really don't want on.

SPEAKER_03 31:29

Yeah, it's like, nah, don't ever post that ever. That's insane! Not that we hang out with that type of thing, but you know, it happens. I just realized that we live in a world where people are really out of pocket when it comes to that type of thing.

SPEAKER_10 31:44

Yeah. Which is People are out of pocket when it comes to everything these days. Very true. That is true. That is true.

SPEAKER_03 31:52

The fact that we can even have it means that it's not even kidding. And I don't know why, because it's all we're all curating it, it's not necessarily even real, to be honest. So I want to say do better. I don't know if it's ever gonna change. I just know that the people in our circle don't ever entertain that type of thing, and neither should you guys. You know, use the thing for what it's supposed to be. Express yourself. Right. And don't let another motherfucker try to tell you what to post on that thing.

SPEAKER_02 32:22

Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_03 32:23

And also, if you're in a committed relationship and that's the agreement and you guys are exclusively doing that, and you should and your personal wants you to do that, give them that space. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_10 32:33

But don't fucking beg to be seen. Like, don't beg it to be posted. Like beg to be able to do it. To me, that's what it sounds like. Why aren't you posting me? Post me. You're like looking for validation. That's that's a form of that. Like you're begging for validation. Like if that's gonna tell you where you stand in your relationship. And I feel like someone is gonna make you feel validated. A post on because the motherfucker can post you every day and be in every bitch inbox that he's he sees. So cool, congratulations on the post. But this nigga just was talking about wanting to take me out, you know what I mean? Something like that. So gosh, get in, let's snap back into reality. Let's let's try to do that. Let's live in the in 3D.

SPEAKER_03 33:18

Absolutely, absolutely. I don't know. Do you feel like people get jealous because of other people's social medias?

SPEAKER_10 33:24

Yeah, people are weird. What the fuck? People are so weird.

SPEAKER_03 33:28

Yeah. Maybe that's what it is. You're jealous because you're not on my thing, or that I didn't post you on your thing.

SPEAKER_10 33:35

It's just not you. It's not the life that you're living with your person. Go find somebody who's all about social media like you. And maybe they'll post you every day.

SPEAKER_03 33:44

I understand that that's not what it's for. Especially not anymore. Maybe Instagram 10, 15 years ago was a more photo shary type of situation. It's not the vibe anymore right now.

SPEAKER_08 33:56

Yeah, people are on there fucking crying and airing all the business out and stuff. Too much.

SPEAKER_11 34:06

I'll be reading it. I'll be reading some of the comments.

SPEAKER_10 34:08

I'll be reading when people be arguing and shit sometimes. I go like that. I'll be reading it. Nosy bitch. Yeah, when I got some downtime, I get that. I might even chime in. If I'm real bored, feeling real risque. Yeah. Real immature. That's hilarious.

SPEAKER_03 34:34

That's all I have for my main topic. Again, I you know, social media is a beautiful thing. Go express yourself, but don't get literally don't take it so serious from guys.

SPEAKER_10 34:43

Do not what the hell? Who's taking that shit serious? I love troubling you serious. Social media motherfuckers. Yeah. Just be cool.

SPEAKER_11 34:51

Be like, you're mad. Yeah. Mad.

SPEAKER_10 34:57

I cut my knee in the pool and it hurts. It's still hurting. Yeah. Dang it. You still complain about that knee? Yes. The same knee. Now it hurts times two. Now it hurts times two. Oh shit. Again? Yeah. What a bozo. Alright. Good heavens. I just got it. What happened? Wait, wait. We were when we were in fucking um Target. What happened? Oh, you did something or said something. And I'm like, what an idiot. Or she she like grabbed something. I don't know. I don't know. I was like, what a freaking idiot. And the lady's like, smoking like a true friend. I said, that's my sister. Oh, I sprayed myself in the face with the oil. Yeah, right in the face. Glasses and all. It was like in my mouth and shit. It was just it smelled really good though. But actually did smell good. I thought it was a per like a spray. It was a body oil. Spray that in your face. I had my glasses and still can't fucking read. And then she sprayed my fucking glasses or something. The same day. How the fuck almost happened? Yeah, I don't know how that happened, but anyway. That was good Stefan. Yeah. Yes, it was. Congrats. Yeah, I'm tired of you. I'm gonna say it again. Tired of you. I'm sorry, I love you. I'm never tired of you. I love you too. I don't even know why I said that to her. Because you thought I was talking about y'all, and I was talking about, I was talking to them. Stefan's trying to figure it out. Why did you say that to her? All right. So for hot seat, we actually have the words and the names again.

SPEAKER_07 36:53

Some days, I wonder.

SPEAKER_10 36:57

All right, we got Reesa in the word thrust.

SPEAKER_09 37:05

Not happening.

SPEAKER_10 37:13

You want to take my turn.

SPEAKER_09 37:33

Thrust today.

SPEAKER_02 37:34

He's tired. More passionate. More passionate.

SPEAKER_09 37:44

Oh god, I can't fucking breathe, bro.

SPEAKER_02 37:46

Fucking hell, bro.

SPEAKER_10 37:48

That's fucking hilarious. You got it anyway.

SPEAKER_02 37:51

It's a lot of work.

SPEAKER_10 37:52

Oh, good job. I'm gonna try it.

SPEAKER_02 38:00

That's a good one. Yeah, it looks good. Good word. Good sentence. For sure.

SPEAKER_09 38:10

It's me. And the word is dingus.

SPEAKER_00 38:16

Dingus, wow.

SPEAKER_10 38:18

Yeah. When I have a sentence. I feel like when Stefan says words like matur, he sounds like a dingus. What is a dingus? Divine dingus. Dingus to me sounds like some kind of bozo. Here we go. Look it up for Stefan.

SPEAKER_03 38:40

Dingus is a slang term for a thing majig or an unnamed or forgotten object. Or a fictional term for foolish.

SPEAKER_09 38:48

Silly or there we go. Read that definition. Read that one first. A goof. What did you say the other day? It ain't easy, mean cheesy. You did say that.

SPEAKER_08 39:08

You said it comes now.

SPEAKER_03 39:10

It does.

SPEAKER_10 39:12

It does. All right. Well, the last person's gonna be staffed. Okay. And your word is Weeness. You can't make everyone go.

SPEAKER_09 39:36

Um I can't even deal.

SPEAKER_03 39:39

Interesting. For the longest time in grade school, I thought weenus was inappropriate to say. Interesting.

SPEAKER_09 39:51

You're a dingus.

SPEAKER_03 39:53

Fucking dinkus. Stop saying it sounds too close to penis. Stop saying that.

SPEAKER_04 39:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 39:57

What dingus? Weenus. Weenus? Weenus.

SPEAKER_10 40:01

Yeah. Weenus penis in me. The word weenus means small dick.

SPEAKER_03 40:08

Small penis. It's not what a weenus is.

SPEAKER_10 40:12

That's a weenus? You're an actual fucking nerd. But anyway, he ruined my segment. I'm over it. That's all I got for Hoxie.

SPEAKER_03 40:20

No, we gotta find out what weeness is. Am I fucking am I wrong?

SPEAKER_10 40:23

Weenus? I mean say look it out of here.

SPEAKER_03 40:26

Weenus is the slang term for the loose extra flap of skin on the side.

SPEAKER_09 40:34

Who knows? Who is fucking doing? Show over. Show over. I'm disgusted. I don't care. You're still a dingus and you're still a weenus too now. I gotta call me a fucking wienest too, bro. That's all we got for y'all today.

SPEAKER_02 40:57

I know the word. Illiterate.

SPEAKER_09 41:01

That's hilarious. You just call me a literate nigga? And I'm a literate. Because I don't know what fucking weed is. Because I don't know if the flap of skin on your fucking stupid ass album.

SPEAKER_03 41:14

It's not loose.

SPEAKER_10 41:14

I'm gonna fuck with everybody. Everybody's just loose.

unknown 41:21

Flap.

SPEAKER_03 41:22

Are you fucking kidding me? What the fuck is a flap?

SPEAKER_07 41:25

I don't know. Fuck man. That's funny. That's when you got no job.

SPEAKER_09 41:31

Oh no, it ain't got no job.

SPEAKER_10 41:35

Yeah, but that was fucking hilarious. Now would you rather? Oh heavens.

SPEAKER_02 41:47

This is gonna be like dope in the head.

SPEAKER_10 41:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_09 41:51

Fucking dangerous.

SPEAKER_10 41:52

Would you rather always be 10 minutes late or 30 minutes early?

SPEAKER_08 41:57

Early. 30 minutes early.

SPEAKER_10 41:59

Yeah. I'm always late already, so I like to see what happens before shit actually bothers me. Yeah. Or just like give myself a minute to like, alright, let me see what's going on here. So I can. I like to get in there early so other people get the fuck out. And let me do my shit. There you go. Would you rather have unlimited money but no free time? Or unlimited free time, but just enough money to survive? Nah. Take all my time. Nah. I I don't want to just be surviving. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 42:32

I'll take the bust my ass. I'm busy as it is. I'll take the money.

SPEAKER_10 42:38

Okay. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 42:39

Though I would like to buy back my time eventually.

SPEAKER_10 42:42

Oh, that would be wonderful. Like that, what's that movie where their time was their currency? Up in time. Yeah, that's really like that.

SPEAKER_08 42:50

Give me a good century.

SPEAKER_10 42:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 42:52

Two centuries, I mean that's actually. I'm robbing all the dipshits. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_10 42:58

Yeah, that was a good one. I've got to rewatch that to think about what they did and watch their money.

SPEAKER_03 43:02

Can we just talk about how good of an actor Justin Timberlake is?

SPEAKER_10 43:05

Yeah, we can.

SPEAKER_03 43:07

We can talk about it. He's good, yeah. He's really good. Like I'd I could see him in a lot more movies than he does.

SPEAKER_10 43:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 43:15

Especially the action ones. I think he's really good at Dakota.

SPEAKER_10 43:18

He is good. Yeah. And I really like Amanda Seyfried. Seyfried? Yeah, for sure. I like her a lot. Was that that was her?

SPEAKER_03 43:29

Or is it Dakota?

SPEAKER_10 43:31

No.

SPEAKER_03 43:33

We gotta look it up. I actually think we should just keep doing this because we're we're not gonna get these shits wrong. They don't call us the military motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_10 43:41

Maybe you are fucking over there. Uncultured for sure. Yeah, fuck! Yeah, it wasn't uncultured. Oh, definitely. Oh god, I think so. Yeah, I know my shit, yeah. She does, she does. Next one. Would you rather your Partner vent to friends about you or keep everything inside. Fuck. I guess you can vent to your stupid friends. It's like that's me. I guess you can vent to your friends. I want you keeping shit inside. It is messy. Wait. I keep heard a nigga talking shit about me. Hold on. I have a question. You said keep it inside. Stop ignoring me. You said keep it inside. Do you mean keep it bottled up inside? Or keep it in-house? I need clarity. I just said keep everything inside. So to me, I'm taking that as you're keeping everything inside, so you're not talking about it. So I'm not sure. Yeah. Then keep shit inside. I mean, damn it. I mean, everybody needs it out of me, but sometimes you just need to talk to somebody other than rather than vent to friends, even if it was about me. But I hope you come back to it. I mean, I talked to like my mom and my sister and shit. I don't have any friends. I guess I understand that.

SPEAKER_03 45:03

I mean, it hasn't been a situation where I know where the narrative that's pushed out there is not the actual narrative what's what's happening. Yeah. Or it's exaggerated, maybe. Correct. And so in that case, I would rather you keep that in the house. Because all you're doing is creating a false perception of what the person is. That's not actually true.

SPEAKER_02 45:26

Yes. It's not consistent.

SPEAKER_03 45:29

But to your point, I think that's important. You should have an outlet. You should have a space where you can let it out, right? Yeah. Hopefully that person is a voice of reason.

SPEAKER_10 45:38

Yeah, not like super biased. Not like a hater. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 45:41

Go talk to your therapist. Don't talk to your friends. Bad idea, I think.

SPEAKER_10 45:45

Unless you're me, because I'm so large. For sure. And I can see things from all sides. Don't be a hater.

SPEAKER_03 45:52

Also, I think you really like if you really choose to see all perspectives.

SPEAKER_10 45:57

Yeah, she does. She does do that.

SPEAKER_03 46:00

You try to give them the benefit of the real.

SPEAKER_10 46:03

Yeah. She's she's good for that. Yeah. I will say that.

SPEAKER_03 46:08

Very good.

SPEAKER_10 46:10

Well, I have one more. Would you rather stay for the kids or leave for your peace?

SPEAKER_02 46:17

Out of there.

SPEAKER_10 46:18

Out of their bucko. Fuck them kids. So it was like I'm not staying for the kids, though.

SPEAKER_03 46:24

The kids are never the reason.

SPEAKER_10 46:26

No. That's not healthy. That's not healthy. They're seeing you miserable in a situation. Yeah. Now who does that work for? Nobody. No, I want my kids to see me happy. And if that means being alone and at peace and being able to be there and show up for them the way I need to, then I'd rather that. On both ends. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_03 46:44

I think this is super, super deep. You just tapped into something that has me thinking a lot. In relationships, children are byproducts of relationships.

SPEAKER_08 46:56

Yeah. Right.

SPEAKER_03 46:57

They're not the pinnacle. The relationship is the pinnacle. If you're not keeping this together, the kids are gonna suffer for it. So it's it will behoove you in the interest of the children to release that so that you guys can live a life that at least the children can see as healthy for each other. And on top of that, you guys have to you can only have one. As far as we know, unless you come back as a rock, you're probably gonna die sometime soon. Yeah.

SPEAKER_07 47:26

Soon as a rock. No, I don't want to be a fucking rock, bro.

SPEAKER_03 47:30

You know, but like I say soon, it's not gonna be 80, maybe 100 years, and then it's over for you, right? Yeah. So in that time, you gotta spend the time doing what you doing what I'm so sorry. Making you feel the most purpose-filled, right? Yeah, the most content with what this existence. So I'm glad about golf.

SPEAKER_10 47:52

Yeah, yeah. I would rather have my bees.

SPEAKER_03 47:56

Great.

SPEAKER_10 47:57

Okay. Well, that's all I have for Would You Rather. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 48:01

That was awesome. That was a wonderful would you rather.

SPEAKER_10 48:04

Thank you. Next time I'm gonna do a rapid fire. Stick. I like those thick.

SPEAKER_08 48:10

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 48:11

I got some rapid fire for you now.

SPEAKER_08 48:13

Oh. Here we go.

SPEAKER_03 48:15

Yeah, we're doing some facts.

SPEAKER_00 48:19

Okay. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 48:22

Figures, I realize I argue with you ladies a lot. I'm not here to argue today. I just want to hear your return.

SPEAKER_10 48:28

Because you can't argue with he loves arguing with us. You do love arguing. I do I love it too. I think the commerce maybe have some. I don't love it. Some hot ones. I love shutting idiots down with facts.

SPEAKER_02 48:46

Stop, stop, stop. What do you mean by that?

unknown 48:51

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 48:52

Alright, facts are debatable, ladies. I got rapid fire uh statements for you. Lust is stronger than love for most people.

SPEAKER_10 49:01

I'm sorry, what?

SPEAKER_03 49:02

Lust is stronger than love for most people. Facts are debatable.

SPEAKER_10 49:07

Debatable. Debatable for most people. We don't know those numbers. But it's definitely a thing.

unknown 49:16

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 49:17

Most people are lazy, not overwhelmed.

SPEAKER_10 49:21

Ah, that's a fact. That's debatable. That's debatable, I think.

SPEAKER_03 49:29

I want to say facts. This is our competition, guys, and I need you to hear this. Your competition is lazy as fuck. If you just lock in for 90 days, you could be a totally different person than the goals that you have.

SPEAKER_08 49:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 49:43

Most people just don't want to get out of their own way. Laziness is chronic.

SPEAKER_10 49:47

How long does it take to start a habit? 21 days or something like that? Yes.

SPEAKER_03 49:52

Something like that.

SPEAKER_01 49:53

So you don't even need a full 90, but even but in 90 days. Once you reach that 21, you're slick.

SPEAKER_03 49:58

Yes, for sure. Fries are better than onion rings. Hells yeah, baby!

SPEAKER_10 50:07

That's a fact. That's debatable. Fire. Me too. Me too. Um, I've had I don't even love onion rings, and I've had some really good ones. But I eat fries for me. Yeah. There's so many different things you can do. Sweet potato fries on my jam. Loaded fries, cheese fries. You're right. Fries, fries, fries, fries, fries. Fries, fries, fries, fries, fries. Oh, instead of the change, yeah, fries.

SPEAKER_03 50:37

Okay. Good one. Alarms should be won and done, those snoozes.

SPEAKER_10 50:42

Fuck. Debatable. I need my snooze. No, I try, I really do not hit the snooze. I literally hit the snooze button on my phone now because my phone's fucked up.

SPEAKER_03 50:54

Good. I'm getting up. People follow trends more than truth.

SPEAKER_10 50:58

Oh hell yeah.

SPEAKER_09 50:59

Sheeple. Sheeple!

unknown 51:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 51:04

I'm gonna say facts of that one. Not everyone deserves a second chance.

SPEAKER_10 51:07

Facts. Facts.

SPEAKER_03 51:10

No grace here. No.

SPEAKER_10 51:12

Facts on your ass. It depends, I guess, what the situation is, but fucking 9.5 times out of 10, I'm all set on that.

SPEAKER_03 51:21

Yeah. First, first dates should be simple, not expensive.

SPEAKER_10 51:26

Yeah. Facts. Let's have a good fucking time. Get to know each other and then figure out if we want to go on the expensive good dates. I agree. I'm not saying that an inexpensive date isn't good because there's so many things you could do.

SPEAKER_11 51:41

All we gotta do is use this noggin, gray matter inside your brain that Stephanie's gonna do.

SPEAKER_10 51:49

Yeah, take me on a date to sit by the water and do nothing and talk and laugh. But bring some snacks and a drink, maybe. But yeah, there's so many things, guys, that you can do. Like go take a fucking walk. For sure. Free. Yeah. Go to the museum. I like that. Go to the library.

SPEAKER_03 52:16

Fucking free.

SPEAKER_10 52:17

Maybe not the library. Bookstore. Barnes and Noble's. Barnes and Nobles. Congrats for Starbucks. We have a really nice one in New Jersey.

SPEAKER_06 52:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 52:23

Not in New Jersey or Barnes and Nobles. Yeah, I know, but I'm just saying, like, maybe somebody else. Oh, yeah, somebody else out there. Sorry, sorry, people in New Jersey. New Jersey is a real place. Yeah, I know. But New York came my tolls from there.

SPEAKER_07 52:40

Shit. Probably shouldn't have said that on camera.

SPEAKER_10 52:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 52:43

But yeah. Last one, ghosting is a valid form of communication. Oh.

SPEAKER_09 52:50

Facts!

SPEAKER_10 52:53

That's debatable. Oh, that's debatable. That's terrible. Ghosting is terrible. You shouldn't do it. I've done it 10 times. Sometimes it's probably not necessary. No, I think sometimes it's necessary. Once I start feeling weird or something, or over you. I gotta get out of there, Bucko. Never call me back. Scat be here. It's like I was never here. Actually. What's that gift?

SPEAKER_09 53:20

And then it disappears. Insert here.

SPEAKER_10 53:24

That's fine. Hilarious, though.

SPEAKER_03 53:26

Yeah. Ladies, that's all I have for facts for debatable in here. Awesome. Thank you. And I think some of those were actual facts.

SPEAKER_10 53:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 53:35

Onion rings.

SPEAKER_10 53:39

I do love onion rings, so I'll take a couple, but I'm I'm halves with them.

SPEAKER_03 53:46

I have to have my sweet potato fries. Yeah, I'd get halves.

SPEAKER_10 53:50

You know what's so crazy? I don't love chocolate, but goddamn, I love me a chocolate milkshake.

SPEAKER_03 53:56

Do you really? Interesting. You do, actually.

SPEAKER_10 53:59

Ain't it? That's so funny.

SPEAKER_03 54:01

I haven't had a chocolate milkshake in years. Yeah. Strawberry is my favorite.

SPEAKER_10 54:04

Mine too.

SPEAKER_03 54:05

Or vanilla.

SPEAKER_10 54:07

I do like a good cookies and cream milkshake, not gonna lie. But strawberry can't go wrong with.

SPEAKER_07 54:14

Not chocolate shake.

SPEAKER_10 54:16

I like chocolate milk though. I told you about that time, Stefan got uh not strawberry milk. The pine, the mango pineapple smoothie with the vanilla ice cream in the middle. I said exactly fuck shit. But goddamn, it was good. Fucking fire.

SPEAKER_02 54:31

That sounds great. It's delicious. Like an orange mango cream sickle.

SPEAKER_10 54:37

Yeah, I don't like those.

SPEAKER_02 54:39

Yeah, it's delicious.

SPEAKER_10 54:40

But that was the you don't like mango creamsicles?

SPEAKER_02 54:42

Orange creamsicles?

SPEAKER_10 54:43

I don't. I never me and Boris love them. Me and Barries, we love them.

SPEAKER_07 54:51

They're good.

SPEAKER_10 54:52

Strawberry and cream sickles are good. Same thing with the mint. Never chocolate chip shit. I can't get with it. Yeah, love mint for chocolate chips.

SPEAKER_03 54:59

We're gonna talk about that next because I don't know.

SPEAKER_10 55:02

Okay, let's go. All right. Oh shit, we there, huh? Mm-hmm. You know what? That's why it's time for you to. Talk your shit. Talk your shit. We'll be talking our shit about today. Stefan, since you were so enthused by uh that mint, I need to hear what you got to say.

SPEAKER_03 55:31

Peppermint patties are bullshit. Ugh. Mint chocolate chip ice cream is bullshit. Savor, but that fucking flavor with the mint Oreos. What the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_10 55:41

Talk your shit, brother man. What's the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_03 55:45

He's tripping. I truly, truly, if there's anything I dislike on this planet, I've come to love beets and I truly hate mint and chocolate together.

SPEAKER_10 55:55

I love it.

SPEAKER_03 55:56

I would not care of beets all day.

SPEAKER_10 55:57

Beets, I don't know what that's like. I'll blend it into a smoothie. But I'm not eating any beets. You know who makes amazing beet juice, though, that I was scared to drink and I was talking shit and then drank it and shut right the fuck up. Horticulture cue. Let's go with the wellness clo. What's he add to it? He's got the chai, he's got the beet juice, brother. He's gonna have to, he's gonna have to make me some. It's so free. I don't know what he adds to it. Don't even care. I'm gonna take it. I'm gonna take some of that. When you're going back to see him, because I'd I'd like some horticulture cue.

SPEAKER_03 56:32

Yeah, we need to shout out to the NY Wellness Collective for sure.

SPEAKER_10 56:36

Shout out to the mint chocolate chip ice cream.

SPEAKER_08 56:40

I can't even get down.

SPEAKER_10 56:41

I can't. Can't do that. I like it. Just more of an Italian ice kind of girly talente. The fruity stuff. Okay. From Stewart. Raspberry Sauvet. I do like the Briar ice. I'm not a big dairy.

SPEAKER_03 56:57

Sorvant Stewart is really good. Yeah. I love that thing.

SPEAKER_10 57:00

It is. Um, her girls love it too.

SPEAKER_03 57:02

Yeah, it's really good.

SPEAKER_10 57:03

Did I have it? No, the mango dragon fruit. Bro, what are we doing? We're sitting here talking some ass. Talking your shit. Alright, goddamn, moving on. We done right. Reading meeting. I would like, matter of fact, I'm gonna talk my shit about when like you let people go when you're driving, like you let them pass, or you let them pull out of a parking lot and you don't say thank you, nothing. Not a little it takes just about milliseconds in the phone.

SPEAKER_04 57:39

Yeah, fuck you.

SPEAKER_09 57:41

Like, fuck you. Right, be nice, say thank you.

SPEAKER_10 57:45

I don't want to do it for somebody else. Right. You're dead ass. Like, I be letting people go because I'm just really a nice fucking person.

SPEAKER_11 57:54

Like, I'm a nice lady.

SPEAKER_10 57:55

Yeah, you're a nice lady. She really is. I'm not a very sweet. She's a very nice one. And then when you do shit like that, I'm in the car, like, you're broken, bitch. Yeah. You know?

SPEAKER_09 58:08

I've seen.

SPEAKER_10 58:09

Yeah. Or when people turn it on with their fucking blinkers on and shit. That's good. It's just not courteous. I'd be like, nice blinker, asshole. Yeah, I don't like that. Shit, lose your blinker. That's dangerous. Yeah, you guys are dicks, so uh fix it, please and thanks. I want to feel good about letting people about you know, I that's who I am. I'm gonna continue to do it. You fucks aren't gonna stop me from being a good person. You're gonna stop me. Fuck you're not gonna stop me from being a good person.

SPEAKER_03 58:39

I also hate when they like don't. You gotta finesse when you're turning left. Why are you slowing down, bro? Run the whole, turn the wheel and get on.

SPEAKER_09 58:48

No slow, bro. I be wanting to help, like tapping, tap it. Let me just help. Let me tap it a little bit. Let me help you out. Turn that shit. I'll be in the car, like, please, please, fucking stress. Just go. Because I'm late, because I live late.

SPEAKER_10 59:09

That's hilarious.

SPEAKER_09 59:10

I'm late. No funny shit. I need you to put me a phone away. Please, please. Just pull over and let me buy. I need everybody off the road when I'm driving. Everybody, just get off. That's funny. They're probably willing to. I swear I'm gonna get one of those blowhores. I'm going straight to jail. Excuse me. Pull over a little bit slower, buddy. Nice turn signal, asshole. That's funny.

SPEAKER_07 59:38

Yeah, I'm going to jail.

SPEAKER_10 59:39

Anyway, Risa.

SPEAKER_07 59:41

I'm tired.

SPEAKER_10 59:43

Anyway. I don't like when people talk during movies. Like you can say a little bit here and there, but like to keep that shit as a minimum, bro. I'm leaving. I'm getting up. Yeah. No. Please don't do that to me. Oh my god. I'm very serious about watching. Tina.

unknown 1:00:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:02

If I'm in the movie the break, I thought shut the fuck up.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:05

Yeah, for sure that.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:06

At home is one thing.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:08

Even at home, don't.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:10

Yeah.

unknown 1:00:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:12

Gita. I didn't know. Actually, what's happening? Just watch it.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:17

We were watching that geista movie on I was at Netflix, I think.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:19

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:20

And I was watching.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:20

What memoirs notification?

SPEAKER_03 1:00:22

Yeah, and I didn't know how I did walking in, so I'd need to catch up. You know talking like I want to watch it. Yeah. You guys were trying to watch it too, so Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:31

Sorry. That's a good movie. Red the Room classic. Respect that. Yeah. You need to watch Blue Eyes Samurai. Anime.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:39

Sounds like some of my jam. Is it anime anime? Okay.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:42

Yeah, I don't like that shit though. Netflix original. That shit. Or that shit. Oh, talking during the movie. Sorry. I know you like anime. Yeah. You guys shut up during the movies. Please. How about and stop asking what the fuck? Why is this happening or what's gonna happen? Just shut up. I'm watching it. What you're gonna do? You're missing it because you keep asking the question. Yeah. Just watch the fucking movie. I've like turned shit off. I'll get up. Listen, no, guess what? Guess what? You can sit here and watch it. I'm out of it. I'm out of it. I'm gonna go. I'm gonna hit out. Enjoy your movie. Yeah. Crazy. And your questions. You fucked it up for me, thanks. You fucked it up for yourself.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:20

Now I'm not hanging out with you. That's funny.

SPEAKER_10 1:01:25

Yeah, that's mine.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:26

Yeah, good one. That was good.

SPEAKER_10 1:01:29

That was yeah, fuck. Shut up, guys. Mm-hmm. Say fucking thank you when people are letting you pass and giving you fuck. Stop handing out peppermint. And fuck me. Yes, and fuck me chocolate chip. Ice cream. Fuck it. No. I love that. Keep it, keep it coming. Keep it coming. And them Girl Scout cookies.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:52

Yorkshire peppermint patties were like a really big thing in Miami, so it's not a good thing. Yeah, I'm good on that. Flooded on them, shit. Flooded them. Yeah. Don't know where they came from. I hated them. Yeah. And they're so deceptive because the chocolate is on the outside.

SPEAKER_11 1:02:05

I'm not very interested in the channel.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:06

Imagine biting into that bullshit.

SPEAKER_10 1:02:08

I don't care. And it looks like dark chocolate.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:10

Neither nor there.

SPEAKER_11 1:02:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:12

I got another one for next week. Yeah, save it.

SPEAKER_11 1:02:15

Write it down. All right. Now let's tone it down, guys. Wake up.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:32

My face is numb.

SPEAKER_04 1:02:33

I want to do this.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:42

Oh yeah. Annoying. Oh.

SPEAKER_10 1:02:49

Welcome to health, wealth, and positivity. For a health portion. When your body isn't functioning at its best, everything requires more effort. Agreed. Hells yeah. Take care of your mental and physical health too.

SPEAKER_08 1:03:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:03:10

Everything's so hard when you're like exhausted.

SPEAKER_08 1:03:14

When you're sick.

SPEAKER_10 1:03:15

Yeah, yeah. You're in pain. Yep. Yeah. For sure. My teeth are. I received that teeth for you. That's a big deal.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:24

Your ache.

SPEAKER_10 1:03:26

Yeah. Yep. Take care of yourself. Detox. Wealth. Financial instability doesn't just affect your bank account, it affects your peace. Hell yeah. It shows up in your decisions, your relationships, and your ability to plan for the future. I felt that don't block your own growth. Positivity. Your thoughts shape your actions. If you're stuck in self-doubt, fear, or negative thinking, you'll hesitate, procrastinate, or settle for less.

SPEAKER_06 1:04:15

Yeah, that's what you need.

SPEAKER_10 1:04:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:19

That fear shit is an old joke. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:23

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:24

Yeah. That's deep.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:04:28

Say it one more time. Your thoughts shape your actions. If you're stuck in self-doubt, fear, or negative thinking, you'll hesitate, procrastinate, or settle for less. Yeah.

unknown 1:04:44

That's fire.

SPEAKER_10 1:04:45

A negative mind will never bring you a positive life. Right.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:48

We had a whole episode about that.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:51

Good shit, Ree.

SPEAKER_10 1:04:53

Thank you. I just want everybody to think about these things. You get back what you put out in this world. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:03

I appreciate you giving us a weekly influx of positivity.

SPEAKER_08 1:05:07

Yeah, it's important.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:10

For those of you who watch our podcast, and those of you who watch it all the way through, you don't know what that's doing to you. Just getting low doses of positivity.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:19

So thank you for that. That's really you're welcome.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:22

Yeah. Awesome.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:26

Well, that is it for Health, Wealth, and Positivity. I hope you guys enjoyed it.

SPEAKER_08 1:05:30

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 1:05:31

Very good.

SPEAKER_08 1:05:32

That was brilliant.

SPEAKER_10 1:05:34

Loki. I'm like, damn, that's great. Thank you. Built it in my fucking pockets.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:40

Thoughts. Yeah. Actions. Yeah.

unknown 1:05:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:44

Love it. What an episode.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:47

That shit blew by.

SPEAKER_10 1:05:48

It did. What are we doing? We're professionals. We're professional podcasters now.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:54

I know. How do you guys feel about that? We've got 15 episodes in right now. How y'all feeling about that?

SPEAKER_10 1:05:59

I feel like I think. It's amazing. It's amazing. I feel like I love all the fucking support, compliments, constructive criticism, all the shit that we've gotten from our supporters, even from the ones that we talk to, the ones that we don't talk to. Like we're so appreciative of you guys. Like I can't really put it into words, but I feel really great. And also you guys make me feel like I'm the shit. Yeah. You make me feel like we're the shit. And I thank you for that because you're listening to us and you're fucking. Hopefully enjoying it. Yeah. Keep coming back. Follow, like, subscribe. And the crazy thing is, I feel like we've made more than 15 episodes.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:42

Me too. Yeah. We're just in it. And we're at the beginning. I was telling Crystal yesterday, last night or after we finished recording. I can see 200. I'm on its track.

SPEAKER_10 1:06:52

Yeah. Yeah. I'm on your wax. I'm on your ass, bro.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:57

You can't hide from me either.

SPEAKER_10 1:06:59

No, you can't. On the wax. Really?

SPEAKER_03 1:07:04

I'm gonna find you. And then oh shit.

SPEAKER_10 1:07:09

We were saying two different person. Alright, alright. We gotta we gotta work on that.

SPEAKER_09 1:07:12

We gotta work on that. We need to rehearse. We need to rehearse.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:17

Guys, you know what the fuck to do? Like, comment, share, subscribe. That is exactly what you're doing.

SPEAKER_10 1:07:21

Call us. Call us. 802 319. 9133. We did have a text from someone, but I'm gonna get y'all next time on that because it was like it was really good.

SPEAKER_11 1:07:34

Anyway, yes, you guys, you know what to do. Stay wholesome, but don't forget to be fucking us.

SPEAKER_10 1:07:41

We love you guys.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:42

See y'all later back. That's all right.