Wholesome Menace Backyardigans II

The menaces are in the back yard again. We talk success, we talk struggles and how maybe sometimes life is a lagging measure of your habits and decisions.

Transcript

SPEAKER_08 0:14

I don't want to hear it. I do not. Goodbye.

SPEAKER_12 0:18

We need an hour.

SPEAKER_08 0:20

Go sit down and watch TV.

SPEAKER_06 0:31

The devil is a liar. Daylight comment. We wanna go.

SPEAKER_03 1:09

Hello, and welcome to the wholesome menace podcast ex backyard again's times two. Your host, Chris Marie, Risa Lynn. In the building. And Stefan.

SPEAKER_08 1:23

Easy. Let's go. Welcome.

SPEAKER_03 1:26

We're outside again. It's nighttime. We're all fucking excited.

SPEAKER_08 1:29

I'm really excited.

SPEAKER_03 1:30

Me too.

SPEAKER_08 1:30

Thank you for allowing the scene to just keep shifting. It just keeps it fresh for me. And I can express myself in a different vibe. I like it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 1:44

Yeah. Some nice fresh air, right? Keep me a little calm.

SPEAKER_08 1:48

Yeah. I hope a rooftop grill allows us to do this one of these days.

SPEAKER_12 1:53

That would be dire.

SPEAKER_08 1:54

That'd be so nice.

SPEAKER_12 1:55

I'd like it.

SPEAKER_08 1:56

But alas, here we are.

SPEAKER_03 1:59

Here we are, back out again.

SPEAKER_08 2:01

Let's run it. Ladies, let's not waste no time. Let's get into some attitude and gratitude.

SPEAKER_00 2:10

Put anything that can help me grow.

SPEAKER_03 2:18

Are you guys letting that bullshit go?

SPEAKER_10 2:20

I am for sure. Because if you aren't, you should be.

SPEAKER_08 2:24

I'm glad you said it like that because I got a question. What? Let me just say it how I wrote it. Sorry, mommy.

SPEAKER_02 2:35

That's cool.

SPEAKER_08 2:38

What do you do when negativity reigns?

SPEAKER_03 2:47

I put on my invisible shield.

SPEAKER_08 2:52

What happens when attitude and gratitude doesn't work?

SPEAKER_09 3:03

It's very rare. I mean I had to text mom the other day and apologize because I was in here being a bitch. You know, because I came out and said it to you in Leonardo.

SPEAKER_12 3:13

It was being very fucking I was I was dying when she told me. I was very overwhelmed.

SPEAKER_11 3:21

And I was not living in gratitude. A lot a whole lot of attitude though. It happened. And you know, I just had to go home, decompress, reel it the fuck in, and definitely apologize to mom.

SPEAKER_08 3:40

So I think what I'm hearing is that you don't pretend. And I feel like a lot of times we get into the feel of it all. And because we're quote unquote good people, we want Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:58

Maintain that.

SPEAKER_08 3:59

But what if you're not feeling that right now? But if you can't. You know all the things.

SPEAKER_12 4:05

I noticed I've been in my avoided behavior for the past few probably days or a week or so. That's honest. And either saying what I need to say and trying to find the best way to say it so I'm not being a complete bitch about it. Or I'm just gonna excuse myself. Those are the only, it's there's no in between with that. So definitely trying to trying to moderate the the anger in the words and all that. So yeah.

SPEAKER_08 4:40

I definitely find myself shutting down. Because I obviously attitude and gratitude is the segment that I leave with a pencil. Embody that. If I don't feel that right now, that's okay. Let's be honest.

SPEAKER_12 4:59

Like we're all like don't got it right now.

SPEAKER_08 5:02

Yeah. Doesn't mean I'm gonna necessarily change my behavior, but emotionally or yeah, but I need to still express myself.

SPEAKER_09 5:11

Yeah. Yeah. That's important.

SPEAKER_08 5:13

I tend to shut down.

SPEAKER_09 5:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 5:16

I do think a lot.

SPEAKER_09 5:17

Like I'd be driving home from work and I'm just I do too, but so like a lot of times with me is like I take shit on the chin, but then it's like I get to a point where it's like, nah, this is too much, you know, and I and I just have to say something. Sometimes they do come across like a little cold because I can be a bitch. But you know, I'm honest. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 5:42

We should put up like a vet where we just put one mic up.

SPEAKER_02 5:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 5:49

And everybody gets in line. Cycle it and just walks up and says like a thing, yeah.

SPEAKER_12 5:56

What is it? Scream it, yell it, cry it, whatever. That would be dope. And walks off. Safe space.

SPEAKER_09 6:02

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_08 6:04

Safe space. I love it. Yeah. Yeah. Just come to the mic. I'll be the first one to scream. I'll make it comfortable for you guys. Yeah. What do you want to do? And then have that be the space where people can just be able to do it. Yeah. That would be fire. Because again, it's not, we're not doing that today, bugs. Yeah, I already said that. I will kill somebody. They're gonna embarrass us. Insects are going down.

SPEAKER_12 6:29

I just had one on my thumb. I just I can't believe we didn't bring like our candles, incense. Yeah. It's whatever. We gotta like, as we said, we have a lot going on. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 6:38

Um I like the word like when negativity is raining because you have that yinning yang inside you, right? Yeah. The positive's there, and so is the negative. It's always lurking. Yeah. Trying to cluck out of it. And sometimes it's winning. That dark side is real, bro.

SPEAKER_12 6:58

Yeah, all the complaining I've been doing, and you know I hate that. I hate spreading that, you know, that negative energy, but you guys are my who I go to when I'm you know going through shit. But I also don't love bringing that to you guys because I know we're all we all got shit going on, and it's a lot. And guys, you guys, like even doing this has been a bit of a struggle, not because we don't want to do it, it's just everything that's going on. Things are fine now in this moment, like, but we're still gonna bring it because this is also our therapy, and this is the real shit, and I'm sure you guys can relate to what we're going through. And I mean, we're not we're being vague, but it doesn't matter. We've all got shit going on. Yeah, life is happening, right? That's it. Bills, fucking bills, say that. Nothing else ready to go off grid, brother. My bills, anyway. Me alone.

SPEAKER_08 7:52

I think all that to say survival is sometimes enough for the day.

SPEAKER_04 7:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 7:59

Some days you are able to go above and beyond and be super positive.

SPEAKER_04 8:03

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_08 8:03

Push that energy out into the world. Some days, at least you got up and took a shower and everything.

SPEAKER_02 8:09

Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 8:10

You know, fed the kids, you know. Yeah. Had $40, put some gas to the car. So even when you are going through the things, you know, in the middle of that shitty ass day, as it were.

SPEAKER_09 8:26

Right.

SPEAKER_08 8:27

So that's all I have for attitude and gratitude. I was just thinking of how that should be like. I'm here now. And I'm gonna say the things that I want to say, which is cool. It's there, it's all you. I can't love you less because you show me a different side of you. Right, yeah. I feel like a lot of people don't handle that.

SPEAKER_12 8:49

Right, yeah. Because then you're showing me that it's conditional. Yeah. You can only love me in my light and uh same.

SPEAKER_08 9:00

That's why I loved had to tell you that I love you when I saw you in face paint. What is this?

SPEAKER_12 9:09

Who are you? Oh that was hilarious.

SPEAKER_08 9:12

I tell you guys, I tell you that you are beautiful when you have makeup on all the time. So what's the difference? Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 9:20

Full grown beards. Beautiful boy. Yeah. Attitude and gratitude, eh? Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 9:28

If you have an attitude, it might not be that you're not living in gratitude. Because boom, nigga, you could be thankful and still having a shitty ass. No, seriously. For sure.

SPEAKER_12 9:39

I'm always thankful. Always. I'm grateful for my foundation, my family. And I was just telling Risa that have some fucking awesome family, bro. Like we really do. And we're going through it, but that that also helps. Yeah. And then on top of it, you have eight kids running around this motherfucker.

SPEAKER_09 10:00

Like from three to sixteen.

SPEAKER_12 10:04

And everything in between. Like, shit is real.

SPEAKER_08 10:10

So bits inside the house.

SPEAKER_09 10:12

Yeah. For sure.

SPEAKER_12 10:13

So imagine cooking, cleaning, packing, moving. Like. Yeah. It's a lot. We got all that going on right now, guys. Tell us what you got going on.

SPEAKER_08 10:25

802-319-913. 3-3. Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 10:29

Let us know. Maybe we can help you dissect it. Maybe you can help us. Help each other. Shit. Yeah. Let me help you help me. Call us.

SPEAKER_09 10:46

That was good stuff. Next. Yeah. I try.

SPEAKER_12 10:50

That's it for our attitude and gratitude today. So let's uh let's try to pick it up a beat. Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_08 11:04

I am not down in the bumps.

SPEAKER_09 11:07

I'm not either. I'm a little tired today, but we've been chilling all day.

SPEAKER_04 11:13

Literally.

SPEAKER_09 11:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 11:14

On the front porch. I was working a little though. Yeah. Doing things. Yeah, yeah. Alright, guys, let's hit you with your tune or your quote. Let's see how I'm gonna do today. I'm gonna start with a quote. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 11:35

No young blood. I took care of your woman and your baby when you were in the war.

SPEAKER_02 11:53

I'll play it again. Yeah, please do.

SPEAKER_12 11:57

That's a runs tape.

SPEAKER_05 12:00

I took care of your woman and your baby when you went to walk.

SPEAKER_09 12:05

What is that? I've seen it. This time it ain't love, Joe.

SPEAKER_10 12:12

I bet you never saw. Fucking weirdo. I didn't even see that, but I know what's that movie.

SPEAKER_11 12:18

Damn, what is you don't know, Steph Arm?

SPEAKER_05 12:23

Just that way. You know, young blood. Uh I took care of your woman and your baby when you were in the war.

SPEAKER_12 12:31

I don't know what that is.

SPEAKER_05 12:33

Give it to us.

SPEAKER_12 12:34

Alright, I won't even do the time. Uh that would be Dead President. Damn. Oh, you never seen the bro. I'm not surprised. I don't know why you're acting. Nigga still email his card in though? Nah. Insane. I think I lost. He never had it. That I could believe. Oh my god. All right, let me get you with a ten now. There he is. That's a fucking plastic.

SPEAKER_11 13:14

Oh, I know that.

SPEAKER_04 13:17

I know it too.

SPEAKER_12 13:18

You do know it. Yeah. It's not about put on. Oh, okay. Don't play it again yet. I I'll play what I want. This is gonna be sitting here for twenty minutes.

SPEAKER_09 13:39

Who is that?

SPEAKER_11 13:51

Is that future? Drake in a future.

SPEAKER_08 13:57

Look, I want to say it's Drake. I want to say it's because you like Drake, but I'm like it's not.

SPEAKER_12 14:04

It's not.

SPEAKER_04 14:05

We good, damn.

SPEAKER_12 14:12

I love you, Fab. My Scorpio brother. That's my sheer. Yeah. That's on every playlist that I have. That's fine, man. Yeah, I like that. Alright, I was wrong. I'm gonna hit you with your next quote. That was good. I thought you guys were gonna get that. No.

SPEAKER_01 14:32

I like my you done. You know, for now I didn't know the burger was my color.

SPEAKER_11 14:38

I didn't know the burger was my color.

SPEAKER_01 14:41

I don't know what it is.

SPEAKER_11 14:43

Oh fuck.

SPEAKER_01 14:46

I like my you done. You know for now I didn't know the perpetrative was my color.

SPEAKER_09 14:52

That's not the harder they fall.

SPEAKER_08 14:55

I feel like I've seen this movie before. I'm sure.

SPEAKER_01 14:59

I like my damn bit. You know for now, I didn't know the perfect leaves my color.

SPEAKER_12 15:05

I'll give you a five heartbeats? I'll give you a small seconds.

SPEAKER_08 15:10

I feel like I've seen this movie before. That that sound sounds familiar to me, but no.

SPEAKER_09 15:16

It's not the five heartbeats. What other music movies could it be?

SPEAKER_08 15:24

I'm gonna open my mouth during this segment because I the Jenga.

SPEAKER_12 15:28

The Jenga. Yeah, I love that movie. And I only seen it like one time. I think it's just Jenga. Oh, is it?

SPEAKER_03 15:36

I always say it's Jajenga. The D is silent, baby.

SPEAKER_07 15:41

Like that. The Jenga's.

SPEAKER_11 15:48

Nigga ain't never seen dead president, bro. Not too much on my sister.

SPEAKER_12 15:54

Tripper. Okay, we'll be give you guys your last two.

SPEAKER_02 16:10

That sounds like some shit from Jason.

SPEAKER_08 16:13

I want to say that's coded black. But I might be wrong.

SPEAKER_02 16:17

What's the song called?

SPEAKER_10 16:26

I love this song.

SPEAKER_08 16:31

I'll just listen to the song too. It's this one. So I'll just listen to it.

SPEAKER_12 16:34

Well, that's not what the song is called now. Fuck.

SPEAKER_08 16:41

I don't know it. At all. I want to say it's Kodak Black. Fuck.

SPEAKER_04 16:46

I don't even know what any of his songs are saying.

SPEAKER_12 16:50

It definitely is Kodak Black. I don't know any of his songs.

SPEAKER_08 16:55

Oh my god. Why do I why are you doing this to me? Fuck me.

SPEAKER_09 16:58

You suck. You're good though. You know it.

SPEAKER_12 17:05

I'll give you the long brother.

SPEAKER_08 17:09

Fuck me. Shout out to my nigga.

SPEAKER_12 17:11

No flock in there.

SPEAKER_08 17:12

No flock.

SPEAKER_06 17:13

Smoke no flock.

SPEAKER_08 17:16

He's slit on that shit too. Shout out to Kodak Black, bro. Bug. I knew it was you though.

SPEAKER_02 17:25

No, see you knew. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, you get that.

SPEAKER_12 17:28

I'll give you a happy roll for that. I'll give you that. What's that feature? Hilarious. Well, that's all I got for uh name that tune, name that quote. Very good ones. Name that tune, name that quote.

SPEAKER_11 17:43

The band's back together.

SPEAKER_12 17:45

Oh no, we've been slipping. We really think that's we've been down in the dump, sky. A little bit, motherfucker. You know, we've been filming it, but we're here, guys. That's all right. We're doing what we can. Name that tune, name in that quote.

SPEAKER_10 18:03

Yeah, guys, give us some slack. Give us some fucking slack, motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_11 18:09

Alright, now it's time for the Yo.

SPEAKER_12 18:38

Yo, dead ass. I'm a writer. I'ma have a I'ma gonna go straight up.

SPEAKER_11 18:48

Please stop. Welcome to the delusion Olympics. Man, I feel like I haven't said that in so long. I know. What the heck? Well, let's get right into it.

SPEAKER_12 19:03

Let's. If we break up and you really move on, you're weird as fuck.

SPEAKER_07 19:09

Delusional.

SPEAKER_12 19:16

Um, not delusional.

SPEAKER_06 19:18

Move on.

SPEAKER_12 19:20

Are you fucking serious? You're fucking weird. You like somebody else? You really like somebody else? You really think this bitch is better than me? You you love me. You told me you loved me.

SPEAKER_07 19:34

You guys are sick. They must be gay, for sure. The fuck? Oh my god. I kind of get it.

SPEAKER_12 19:43

Yeah, I get it clearly.

SPEAKER_07 19:45

I get it, too.

SPEAKER_12 19:46

Good for you. I might be losing. Move on. Now she's angry about it.

SPEAKER_11 19:56

Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband. And vice versa.

SPEAKER_12 20:03

I've been waiting for the right moment. Y'all. That is perfect. Hilarious. Definitely do that.

SPEAKER_11 20:15

Goodbye, my lover.

SPEAKER_09 20:18

Y'all be lying on your BD. He cool as fuck. We on the game right now.

SPEAKER_12 20:27

Nah, them niggas be cool with everybody, but they baby mother. Yeah. I'm cool with my baby daddy now. Why is that? Because they still either they be in their feelings, they're still fucking. Shit like that. Somebody can't get out their feelings. That's what I honestly I can't see what else it could be. Or if they're either way, if either one is not doing what they're supposed to do. Yeah. As far as that baby goes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 20:54

I feel like what else could it be?

SPEAKER_12 20:56

I mean, I've gotten through all the time. Some people just be petty as fuck.

SPEAKER_09 21:00

Some niggas just be losers. You know what I'm saying? Shit, bitches be losers too.

SPEAKER_08 21:04

But I think I'm a pretty cool baby daddy, but I don't know. You be chillin'.

SPEAKER_12 21:08

You're great. You be chillin'. But you ain't my baby daddy, so I don't know how annoying you can really get. Like he's probably annoying as fuck, but not really. You're a great dad. You probably am. Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 21:20

And let me not say chillin'. Maybe to her, like some shit about you annoys her or whatever, but that has nothing to do with your co-parenting. So it's like that really doesn't matter. You're a great dad. I know you are you could co-parent with no problem.

SPEAKER_11 21:35

I mean, father's beginning of my nerve too.

SPEAKER_09 21:36

I mean, I love it. We get along and shit. Yeah. But you know, I seen my daughter's father's in the store.

SPEAKER_11 21:43

She was like, Don't let him get on your nerves. He's difficult. I said shit so much.

SPEAKER_03 21:50

Oh my god. Ask about me.

SPEAKER_12 21:54

She knows. That's what I'm saying. Yeah, well, I and that's like that's great. I love that. She Like I realized on the Father's Day episode I didn't even shout anything. No, and shout out literally Father's Day weekend with on this one, but yeah. I love you. You're great. Thank you for everything. Shout out to Baby Father's episode. Yeah, yeah. He loved the Father's Day episode. Trying to get Travis on here. Yeah. Well, shit I'm trying to get Duck on here too. Stop playing, Nico. Get the fuck on here.

SPEAKER_10 22:21

Get your fucking schedule together before I call your boss myself. It's like I ain't gonna do that.

SPEAKER_12 22:27

That'll be give him the dad off for me to record.

SPEAKER_08 22:30

Yeah. You can't get two outs. Right.

SPEAKER_12 22:33

Two hours. Yeah. You know it'd be taking us one.

SPEAKER_09 22:36

But yeah, we'll be looking around. Let me get the what kind of snacks y'all got?

SPEAKER_07 22:40

Get your shit together. Yeah. Productions sucks in this time.

SPEAKER_10 22:44

Alright. What are we doing? Last week, like, we're in a bad mood.

SPEAKER_11 22:49

We love you guys. Thanks for taking care of the kids. Yes, we love ya.

SPEAKER_09 22:54

Bitches call you dumb over a nigga they in the process of being dumb for.

SPEAKER_03 23:02

Bro.

SPEAKER_11 23:03

You know, I think we all over a nigga they can't get over.

SPEAKER_12 23:06

For sure. I was the dumbest bitch I knew at one point. Yeah. Over a nigga. I mean, I ain't never been like that dumb though. No. Not like not like you. No. No offense. Yeah. Oh my god, I just loved them. I know. Love is blind. The blindest. Ignorance is bliss. I mean, it's okay. Yeah, it's alright.

SPEAKER_08 23:30

It is. As long as you do it. That's it. Because I'm responsible with it.

SPEAKER_11 23:37

Well, that's all I have for the delusion Olympics.

SPEAKER_10 23:39

That was great.

SPEAKER_11 23:40

Thank you. It's been so long. I was like, really gotta come up with something once. Gotta come with it.

SPEAKER_09 23:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 23:49

Let's get into our main topic.

SPEAKER_06 23:56

Spicy. That's so perfect for you.

SPEAKER_04 23:59

You, buddy.

SPEAKER_08 24:01

Quite a question for our main topic today. Why do we celebrate accomplishments, but we demonize the struggle?

SPEAKER_09 24:10

Who's doing that?

SPEAKER_08 24:11

A lot of people. A lot of people do do it.

SPEAKER_09 24:15

Yeah. I can't lie, like, y'all know me.

SPEAKER_12 24:20

Yeah, no, I've been for the last few years, like six years straight going through it. You know, as far as like my health, losing my apartment, losing my car, like everything.

SPEAKER_09 24:32

And for me, I allow that shit to build character and like learn lessons from it because it's like now I really gotta know like I can't let this shit happen again that way.

SPEAKER_12 24:45

So, like, granted, you know, me having to have another heart surgery, like certain shit is just out of my control, but I can navigate through that and make sure, like, financially I'm stable and things like that moving forward so that when I do go through that, I know how to survive it.

SPEAKER_11 25:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_09 25:10

So for me, I'm someone who I don't want to say like celebrates my struggles, but for sure appreciates them.

SPEAKER_08 25:21

Yeah, I think every people want the success story, but very few are willing to put the messiness to get there on display. They're like, just give me the quick route. And it don't work like that all the time. What is the saying? Everyone wants a testimony, but few people want the actual test. Right.

SPEAKER_04 25:44

Right.

SPEAKER_08 25:45

And we're all going through things on in real life offline.

SPEAKER_03 25:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 25:52

Right? Things are happening in real time that you are struggling with, whatever it may be.

SPEAKER_04 25:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 25:58

Family, it could be a bit clever of things. But people just want the result. And they want to say, fuck the process, but your life doesn't happen.

SPEAKER_12 26:09

And then what is that? What do you appreciate when you get it? When you don't go through the struggles. Like what when you get shit handed to you, you don't take you don't appreciate it as much as like you working for your shit. Like, you know, for example, to bring up, I don't know, we had somebody reach out to us wanting to grow our show for a certain amount of money. And we're in the meeting, and you know, he was making some, I guess, valid points, whatever, but I just felt like, you know, it's a business thing. It was sharking a little, and you know, just talking about our numbers and how we've been doing it for six months, and we don't really have like a following, and it's like, bruh, like you're not. I don't care if we still had two people following us from day one to now. We love you, we appreciate you. Yeah, we're still doing this for you. If we are doing this two, three years down the line and we still just have the people that the 500 followers that, you know, want to hear what we have to say or, you know, get something out of what we're doing. I fucking appreciate that. And why? Because we're doing this from the ground up ourselves. We do everything ourselves. So it's like, you know, you coming in trying to make me pay uh thousands of dollars for a tutorial when I feel like we're doing everything we need to do and building our own traction. We got our own motion, we on the radio in at least learning as we go. And and that's what I was saying to him, too. Is anything that you can tell me, I can also go learn myself. And it's not to be stubborn or feel like we don't need any help. What the heck? That's the Hey McArena. What happened, brother? He's like, shut up, bitch. You want me to just say it my dog? That shit was playing for a minute. Can I get your fucking trying to play the alarm? You dumb. Yo, you not.

SPEAKER_11 28:20

No fucking stop. You tried it, you fucking downloaded it.

SPEAKER_08 28:27

I wasn't even touching my computer. What the fuck just happened?

SPEAKER_12 28:41

He was gonna make us do the macaroni. I was like, I'm gonna make you guys do the macaroni. I don't know how to do that anymore. Do that either. Guys, for okay, now we gotta put out there what the fuck it was. Ruin what I was saying to fuck up.

SPEAKER_11 28:59

You really fucked up. It's a bit kind of talk about that.

SPEAKER_12 29:04

Oh, menace of arm. That is the menace of arm that Stefan tried to pull on us, but because he stopped, he couldn't do it.

SPEAKER_08 29:16

You don't suck, Stefan, but you were not prepared. I was on prepared suck. And I don't know what just happened, my computer just decided to play something. Oh, that's that shit said, nigga, you do the Macarena. I was about to make him do the Macarena.

SPEAKER_12 29:28

I would have been sitting here like I would have been trying to think about Beetlejuice. Oh no, no, they don't. I don't know what they're doing and anyway.

SPEAKER_03 29:37

That's the medicine alarm. So basically, when somebody presses it, whatever the person says you have to do, you have to say, you have to answer, whatever.

SPEAKER_12 29:47

So we were trying to introduce it in a good way, but of course, DJ fuck up over here had to go ahead and press the wrong button.

SPEAKER_07 29:56

I didn't touch anything, it was just you touched something. You know I didn't touch something.

SPEAKER_08 30:00

You had a timer, you had a timer set. No, it was YouTube. I don't know what the fuck just happened.

SPEAKER_09 30:05

That's hilarious.

SPEAKER_12 30:07

You got caught out there, bud. Yeah, it's hilarious. Yeah. Wow. Okay. Better luck next time.

SPEAKER_07 30:17

Um over with that one. You got over with that one. I'm sorry for interrupting your thoughts.

SPEAKER_10 30:23

No, fuck you. And that was your fucking second.

SPEAKER_03 30:27

That was scared in the whole shit.

SPEAKER_04 30:31

Shut up. I'm gonna play the mother right now.

SPEAKER_08 30:36

Shut up into the lock card.

SPEAKER_11 30:40

Yo, idiot.

SPEAKER_07 30:42

That's hilarious. That's written. Well executed, that would have been awesome. Well, it wasn't, so I guess it doesn't fucking matter.

SPEAKER_12 30:52

Almost doesn't count. Oh man. I already forgot what the main topic was about. Thank God.

SPEAKER_08 30:59

I'm struggling, okay.

SPEAKER_12 31:01

We're all struggling, brother. We're just getting back to it. Give us a fucking break. I think I'm doing all right. Oh, that's hilarious. Yo, this dude is not music.

SPEAKER_08 31:17

Plays again. What the fuck, bro?

SPEAKER_12 31:18

Oh, all right. I can't. So next, we're on to because of this soccer.

SPEAKER_08 31:25

Also, I was just talking.

SPEAKER_12 31:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 31:29

Tom was a bitch. I wasn't even doing that hard with this. Hot seat.

SPEAKER_12 31:41

Never mind.

SPEAKER_10 31:42

Wait a minute, wait a minute.

SPEAKER_08 31:43

The beautiful city of Scum skin. Don't do this.

SPEAKER_12 31:48

There's a community. Schenectady. Shh. Schenectady. Skynectica. Yeah. My son called it Schenectady because that's Shine things it's called, but I tell him. This is little Guyana, actually. That's surely what it is. Yeah. So yeah.

SPEAKER_03 32:07

Okay. Alright, we're in hot seat. I'm just gonna ask some questions and we're all just gonna go for it.

SPEAKER_12 32:14

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 32:14

Okay. Okay. So, what are some things that you hate that men slash women do during sex?

SPEAKER_08 32:26

I like it. What don't you like? So I hate it when it's quiet.

SPEAKER_10 32:34

Awkward.

SPEAKER_08 32:34

I'm gonna fuck you harder now. You can say it like that, but thrust and best twerk. But because you're not gonna I'm gonna twerk you harder. Granted, it's never always just silent, but you know.

SPEAKER_03 32:45

Yeah, yeah. Yeah. That's weird. You don't have to be.

SPEAKER_08 32:48

Um if I'm down there, then then you're quiet. What the fuck's going on? Um are you bored? Getting out of here. Abort mission, bud. Abort because I feel like half the situation is me hearing what's going on.

SPEAKER_09 33:02

Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah, like are you enjoying this shit?

SPEAKER_10 33:07

That's fucking weird.

SPEAKER_09 33:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 33:09

Silent sex. Like, what are we fucking what are they? Mimes. What is this old black and white?

SPEAKER_12 33:16

Yeah, that's weird, brother. That's a good one. Yeah. Heavens. So let me go next. Yep. I Quiet, that's definitely a great one. I feel like when I guess someone loves eating vagina, but you just can't do it right. You're looking everywhere, but where you need to be looking, it's weird. But don't go fast.

SPEAKER_11 33:38

Like, take your time.

SPEAKER_12 33:39

We're not in a rush. Yeah. Too much porn.

SPEAKER_10 33:44

I don't know.

SPEAKER_11 33:45

It's but like when you I feel like, especially if it's somebody you're dealing with for a long time.

SPEAKER_12 33:52

Like if I'm fucking a nigga, that's the that's the nigga I'm dealing with. Yeah. So it's like, I feel like at some point you should know my body well enough and know what I like. And I could tell you too. Like, and I have, but that's just how they do it. Can't you help it?

SPEAKER_10 34:06

That's that's fucking scary. And get off of me. You're doing nothing. Don't do that.

SPEAKER_08 34:13

I feel like you should take your time and do it for a little bit. Then you can you're not supposed to go fast with the whole thing, but like if you're focusing on the clitoris, focus on the clitoris, and you gotta go a little fast. Bruh.

SPEAKER_12 34:25

I just I remember one time I just was like, please stop. Don't even want it.

SPEAKER_10 34:30

Like, you there's you're doing nothing for me. This was like a while ago, but I'm like, bruh. What was that? Oh bueno. Get out. Gotta go. Sadhead is an honor. That's yeah. That's terrible. And like you ain't want it, like, and it's the br like, oh my god, I gotta wanna have a dive on in it.

SPEAKER_12 34:52

And then you do that. And then you disappear. Yeah. Ooh, that's wicked. I hate you. I don't know. I've been lucky.

SPEAKER_10 35:01

Yeah, me too. It was only like that happened to me once. And that was really bad.

SPEAKER_12 35:07

Okay. Never mind. Or at least it's not like an ongoing. Yeah, fuck no, I could never. Situation. Yeah.

SPEAKER_09 35:15

So I don't like when like, you know, say you're like hanging out with the girls or whatever, and men come around or like yeah, go out or whatever, or you could be and just men happen to come around and then like a bitch start acting extra or different or yeah, like look just looking for attention. Like, girl. So we was out chilling. You know what I'm saying? Like, I guess because I never really had to do too much for it. So maybe if you ain't used to getting it, you act a certain way, or you just like to be the center of attention all the time. I don't know. But I I don't like that shit.

SPEAKER_08 36:11

I agree. I don't think men. Tacky. I don't think men really look at the ones who are acting like that. Like you know, I'm gonna take that picture.

SPEAKER_02 36:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 36:22

I think we can usually avoid those.

SPEAKER_09 36:24

Yeah, unless you're looking for an easy kill.

SPEAKER_03 36:32

Yeah. Okay, next question. Who here at this table would look the worst if they went completely bald?

SPEAKER_12 36:41

I'm thinking me. You're a guy. For sure me. I don't think so. I think me. I think I'd look just like Virgil, and then I'm never coming outside. You're not gonna look like Virg. You're gonna be good. You're gonna be cute. Bald. I got an egg hair. And I like already got like these bags under my eyes. I got a little double chin going on. I don't know.

SPEAKER_08 37:06

My shit's already fried, so what the fuck?

SPEAKER_12 37:11

You're a man, you're good. Yeah, you're good.

unknown 37:15

Oh my hair's gone.

SPEAKER_09 37:16

Yeah, your hair's not gone, but at least you have that option.

SPEAKER_12 37:24

Alright. What's the most annoying thing that someone at the table does? What's the most annoying thing we can each go? Interesting.

SPEAKER_04 37:35

Fuck.

SPEAKER_12 37:36

Oh, I know for Risa. Oh say it. The like planned ignorance or the the tune and out. The tune and out. The tune and out. It drives me too. I do it to you, Stephanie.

SPEAKER_08 37:46

You do it to everyone. I don't do it to me typically, but I see when you do it to a normal person.

SPEAKER_12 37:50

I'm like, you do it to everyone. She for sure does it to me. Like, shouldn't he be like I'd be like, shut up.

SPEAKER_09 37:56

We were watching Let's Rap About It.

SPEAKER_12 38:01

She was talking to me. I don't know what she was telling me. I don't know what she was doing. But I'm like laser focused. I think it was sound about the pod. On what this fucking podcast that we're I'm watching, and she's talking to me.

SPEAKER_11 38:15

I said, I can't hear anything you're saying right now. Let me finish watching this and then we could talk.

SPEAKER_03 38:22

That's progress.

SPEAKER_04 38:23

That's awesome.

SPEAKER_03 38:24

That is. That is actually, I gotta give it to you.

SPEAKER_12 38:26

I didn't even realize because you didn't completely turn me out. Turn me out, Jesus Christ. Turn the nickens out. Yeah, so insane.

SPEAKER_07 38:42

That's hilarious. You ladies don't annoy me, so it's not really have anything.

SPEAKER_12 38:47

The most annoying thing that Stefan does is that shit right there. Yeah, what's my annoying thing for you? Yeah, you don't really annoy me that much.

SPEAKER_07 39:02

Say laughie.

SPEAKER_12 39:03

Christine just annoys me because she's loud as fuck sometimes, and I don't like all that noise. My bad. Um, you Stefan's like, yeah, exactly. Yeah. You Stefan.

SPEAKER_11 39:19

Let me think if I can think of something.

SPEAKER_04 39:24

There you go.

SPEAKER_09 39:28

I don't know.

SPEAKER_08 39:36

I know I'd be annoying.

SPEAKER_10 39:37

It's fine.

SPEAKER_08 39:41

Very th many things annoying you like it. I don't think you like that.

SPEAKER_12 39:46

Yeah, love you too. We love you to be annoying. Yeah, for sure. I know I'm annoying. Oh, I know what annoys me about Stefan when we're editing. When I be telling him to play shit certain places in the video, and he'd be acting like he wants to talk about it. So what annoys me about Stefan is when I say, hey, make these reels. Like good ones. And it should be just like a bunch of talking. I wanna laugh. I need to see some funny shit. If I'm getting 30 seconds or some shit, yeah, gotta grab me. And gotta grab them.

SPEAKER_08 40:24

That's it. I want to blame Opus Clips on that, but no, for real, but we gotta figure out.

SPEAKER_12 40:29

Yeah, they gotta chill.

SPEAKER_08 40:30

Like, then niggas gonna have to do it by hand. I still have to post it, so maybe I blame myself.

SPEAKER_09 40:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 40:37

And Opus Clips.

SPEAKER_09 40:38

Like, yeah. Like that's what we were sitting down talking today, and I'm like, these need to be reels.

SPEAKER_12 40:44

Yeah. And all the bloopers. But I did work, and we can work with the shit that I have today. Love it.

SPEAKER_10 40:50

So yeah, anyway, uh that's all I have for hot seat. I wasn't very prepared, so it wasn't that spicy tonight.

SPEAKER_12 40:57

Okay, that's cool though. Yeah. I don't mind it.

SPEAKER_03 41:00

Oh now, moving on to Would you Rabbit?

SPEAKER_09 41:09

It's a beautiful tone. It is a gorgeous, lovely, melodic tune.

SPEAKER_11 41:15

We appreciate you donating your vocals. Thank you. We're gonna monetize it. To my segment. Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 41:23

Whatever you need. Whatever you guys need. I'm here for it. Wait till my rap comes out. Can't wait. Stay tuned, y'all.

SPEAKER_11 41:32

Welcome to Would You Rather. However, I'm switching it up today.

unknown 41:37

Woo!

SPEAKER_11 41:38

And this is gonna be Who's Most Likely To?

SPEAKER_12 41:41

And it's gonna be quick. So you either point or say whoever's name real quick. Okay. When I ask you something.

SPEAKER_04 41:47

I'll say your name.

SPEAKER_12 41:50

Who's most likely to get banned from Walmart? Me? For what? Not that go ahead. Could be anything. The attitude, like loudness, whatever. She's she doesn't steal.

SPEAKER_09 42:07

Think God. But she's for wild. Gonna get kicked out for that mouth. Oh shit. Yeah. Whatever, dudes. Who's most likely to accidentally start a cult?

SPEAKER_07 42:21

Show yourself.

SPEAKER_12 42:23

Yeah. Why? Why would you like to be like? I was thinking me, but so I don't know. I just feel like imagine if you get a big following, and then there's like he's gonna be a whole bunch of bitches.

SPEAKER_11 42:35

Who's over here? This is community. Yeah, we twerk here. This is uh everybody's for everybody, and this is a safe space. I thought sex is the glue, and we want you here. Nobody's annoying.

SPEAKER_08 42:51

Let it be sad and the bottom goes things really coil. Somebody make a flyer.

SPEAKER_12 43:01

I'll make it. Oh my god. Got you. So she's starting it for you. Got it. So you can just blame it on her. Who's most likely to rob a bank and apologize afterwards? Guys, I of course. No, you probably would do it, but you would be feeling so shitty about it. But this nigga's gonna go up and apologize. I don't know that you will. She will. It's funny. It's fuck. She's gonna be crying. I'm so sorry I need it. Please, I won't pay it back much. I just want to retire my mom. Yo, deadass. You gotta understand. That's funny. Who's most likely to become a bounty hunter?

SPEAKER_02 43:48

I'll get the mohawk and shit.

SPEAKER_10 43:52

I'm just doing my job. A bounty hunter is hilarious, bro.

SPEAKER_12 43:56

Who's most likely to marry someone after one date? No, not that bottom. Yeah, I think nah not him. Me? Yeah, probably. Not him. He's he's the low guarded now. I'm also but sure.

SPEAKER_11 44:16

Who's most likely to go back to an ex? You!

SPEAKER_03 44:20

You you you fucking Lisa guys? That's what I'm saying, you two to our audio listeners. No, because this this we'll just leave it at this nigga.

SPEAKER_07 44:34

Don't recycle anything, Lisa.

SPEAKER_12 44:37

You know, it's not always bad. Nellie and Ashanti got back together.

SPEAKER_11 44:45

Yeah, that's my bad.

SPEAKER_03 44:48

No, you dumbass. Yeah. It ain't always bad, but uh until I get pissed off again.

SPEAKER_12 44:55

Yeah. Sick. Who's most likely to spend $10,000 in one day? Both of us. Yeah.

unknown 45:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 45:09

I could go through that $10,000 in that day.

SPEAKER_11 45:12

I think so. Yikes. Yeah. Who are we? I need that she shed.

SPEAKER_08 45:17

I'm going right to Nissan.

SPEAKER_12 45:19

And Key Sarah wants that motorbike. I gotta get it. Yeah. I'd be responsible. I'd fucking tweak my car out and well, I'd, you know, make sure it's all good on the inside and then Rice wants to stream. Gotta get his stuff. You know.

SPEAKER_09 45:36

Yeah, so many things. $10,000 goes quick.

SPEAKER_12 45:39

And that $10,000 ain't even enough for all that. Yeah, it's not. I mean, it's for a start at least.

SPEAKER_02 45:46

Who's most likely to get canceled? Stefan? Yeah. I think so.

SPEAKER_12 45:54

Might be. Oh shit, maybe.

SPEAKER_02 45:58

We'll see. I mean, yeah.

SPEAKER_08 46:02

I might I mean. Might be coming up.

SPEAKER_02 46:05

Maybe.

SPEAKER_08 46:07

I've been banned on TikTok and shit before.

SPEAKER_12 46:09

Yeah. I mean, I feel like we all have our opinions. That doesn't mean that we dislike people who are in, you know, certain situations or live a certain way. I honestly don't give a shit how anybody lives. I mean, um, if you're a good person, you're a good person. That's what I care about. I mean, I understand everything that everybody does, but yeah. Whatever. People are like overly sensitive. We prefer. We gotta bring, nigga, we gotta bring like the sagitting humor back. Bring your tough skin back. Richard Pryor and all of them line in the same anything.

SPEAKER_04 46:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 46:45

Yeah. Fucking bitch. Who's most likely to walk out mid-show? Me for sure.

SPEAKER_07 46:57

Yeah. You might walk out.

SPEAKER_12 46:58

I might walk. You might. If you get mad enough, me, I think I will get there quick to leave.

SPEAKER_09 47:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 47:06

I mean shit.

SPEAKER_08 47:07

Damn, maybe both of us. Mid-show? I don't know. I think I feel like I know you might walk out.

SPEAKER_02 47:12

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 47:12

I would out of there.

SPEAKER_12 47:14

Yeah. Yeah. I'll be thinking about it now. Finish the show on you.

SPEAKER_11 47:18

I'd be like, what's Liana doing? Out of here, bro.

SPEAKER_03 47:21

I gotta go.

SPEAKER_11 47:22

Does she want to fill in? Do you? And don't.

SPEAKER_12 47:30

Who's most likely to laugh at the worst possible moment? I'm for sure. I'm doing that for sure. Yeah. She does it. She does it. Yeah. I can see you doing that. It's a defense mechanism. No, for a fact. At the worst possible moment because I'm just processing. Try not to go. Try not to go proudly. Yes. Who is most likely to get lost in their own hometown? Yes, girl. Definitely.

SPEAKER_11 48:02

I've done it. I have experience. I have experience.

SPEAKER_12 48:08

Yeah. Yeah. That's alright. Now I use my GPS everywhere I go. The sick shit is I'd get lost in the city, though, before I would in the woods. Isn't that? Wow. I'd be lost everywhere. So last one. Yeah. Who's most likely to become a supervillain? Definitely me. Because I don't give a fuck. I thought about you, Stefan, and then I said, no. No, he's too wholesome for that. Yeah, you are. This motherfucker.

SPEAKER_08 48:39

If I tweaked, I might go back.

SPEAKER_12 48:41

Yeah, but I think you would definitely stay back together. Me? That bed and I had to.

SPEAKER_08 48:48

Thanks for that insight.

SPEAKER_12 48:50

Yeah.

unknown 48:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 48:51

I appreciate that. Won't stay back.

SPEAKER_12 48:54

You wouldn't. I think. Would I? I definitely could be a villain.

SPEAKER_08 49:01

Who's your favorite villain? Fuck. I have one.

SPEAKER_12 49:05

Kellos.

SPEAKER_08 49:06

Klaus.

SPEAKER_12 49:07

Love Klaus.

SPEAKER_08 49:08

Why was he just on my mind? I was gonna say to her.

SPEAKER_12 49:11

Because he's like such a softy, but he's can't be fucked with. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, bro. But he's not my favorite. Fucking as hard as fucking Thanos. Yeah. I'm not gonna lie, brother. That nigga was about his shit, stood on it. Yeah, he did. Fuck 10 toes, 20. He was a wild boy.

SPEAKER_08 49:33

Yeah, he's out here, for sure.

SPEAKER_12 49:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 49:36

Like, yeah. I don't know if he's a villain, though.

SPEAKER_12 49:41

That he's for sure a fucking villain. He's a masochist. He's all the things that you can think of. He's a villain. He definitely is. And why he's a villain? Because he there's no room for anybody to talk any counter, you know, shit into him. He's like, no, we have to.

SPEAKER_03 50:01

And the shit is you can understand his point, but nigga, that's not for you to decide, brother.

SPEAKER_08 50:08

You gotta let it take its natural course. He had all the stones. He could decide.

SPEAKER_12 50:12

Yeah, and he did. Yeah. And he did, you know, but that's why favorite villain, because he pisses me off the most. I'm an emotional cutter, guys.

SPEAKER_04 50:22

I got it.

SPEAKER_09 50:23

Damn, who's my favorite villain? There's so many. There's so many. Give me a second. Let me just look one up.

SPEAKER_10 50:34

Let me look one up.

SPEAKER_12 50:36

Because I know it's a woman. And then I was thinking Loki popped in my head, but he's not.

SPEAKER_08 50:42

He's good. I don't know if he's a villain. He's not. He's a trickster by design, for sure.

SPEAKER_12 50:47

I love Loki. He's an asshole for sure. Yeah, definitely. But villain, he loved his brother very much. Yeah. Just did some dickhead shit. Dang. See, I knew it. It's Maleficent.

SPEAKER_10 51:04

Oh, that's nice.

SPEAKER_12 51:08

Damn, that's a good one. Yeah. I'm so, I don't be even thinking Disney. Yep.

SPEAKER_08 51:13

I don't know if she's a villain. They fucked her all.

SPEAKER_03 51:17

Is is Maleficent a guys? Is Maleficent a villain? That's a good that's a good one. They did.

SPEAKER_12 51:25

They did her bad. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 51:27

Wow. All them niggas, bro.

SPEAKER_12 51:29

Wow. Yeah. You all deserve it. And I'm taking your hands. And I feel like everyone got there. Yeah. Like whether it was her, Cruella Deville, like when you watch back, like their original stories and see how they got there. Harley Quinn. Yeah. Whoever. Like some are just bad because they just are, but for the most part, they got fucked over.

SPEAKER_08 51:55

Klaus, Thanos, and Maleficent. Yeah. Shit. Good.

SPEAKER_09 52:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 52:01

Well, that's all I have for Would you Yeah. Would you rather?

SPEAKER_10 52:07

You gotta do your head up. I don't know what we at what we're doing.

SPEAKER_11 52:13

Would you rather who's most likely to?

SPEAKER_04 52:20

All right.

SPEAKER_08 52:21

Hey, let's get into some facts or debatables, lady. Yeah.

SPEAKER_12 52:32

I feel like I should have like glasses and a little school outfit on when we get to this segment.

SPEAKER_08 52:38

Alright, we're gonna do it like a rapid fire. Yes. We romanticize hard work after it pays off.

SPEAKER_09 52:47

Facts. Debatable.

SPEAKER_08 52:51

Yeah, I guess it depends on who are more inspired by success than they are compassionate towards struggle. Facts, facts. Most people support the winner, not the journey. Facts. Society celebrates recovery more than it supports healing.

SPEAKER_09 53:11

Facts. Yeah, that's sad.

SPEAKER_08 53:14

That's fucked up, actually.

SPEAKER_09 53:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 53:16

That's what I was talking about in our main topic is we always are looking for the winner. Congratulations for the promotion.

SPEAKER_09 53:24

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_08 53:25

You know what I mean? Yeah. When you're going through shit in the middle of shit, really no one's around.

SPEAKER_12 53:32

Right.

SPEAKER_08 53:33

And no one's celebrating that or acknowledging that either. It's not fucked up.

SPEAKER_12 53:37

Well, we do that for each other. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 53:40

Actually, it's when struggling in public is one of the fastest ways to lose people's respect. Facts. I'm sorry, say it one more time. Struggling in public is one of the fastest ways to lose people's respect.

SPEAKER_10 53:53

Yeah, it's a fact. That's a fact.

SPEAKER_08 53:56

Why are you? We all know niggas is going through shit. Yeah, right. Everyone. But if you put that out, boom. Where we work, them niggas is struggling. Clearly struggling.

SPEAKER_02 54:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 54:07

In all types of fashions, right? That's on display. Poor guys. Everybody can see their business all day.

SPEAKER_04 54:15

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_08 54:16

On top of the shit that they're dealing with, dealing with in the street, right? But then when they have a good day and they don't use or they don't do XYZ, that doesn't get highlighted or measured up to anything.

SPEAKER_10 54:31

Yeah, and I try to do that for them when they do do that. Fucking thing.

SPEAKER_08 54:35

Yeah.

unknown 54:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 54:37

Being in the middle of the process is lonelier than being at the beginning or the end.

SPEAKER_09 54:44

Facts. Facts. If you're someone who's really working on getting through that shit, you gotta isolate sometimes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 54:53

Most people don't hate the struggle. They hate being reminded that it could happen to them.

SPEAKER_12 54:59

Facts.

SPEAKER_08 55:00

Yeah. I agree.

SPEAKER_12 55:02

I feel like that's not something to hate. That's something to motivate you not to go through that again. Yeah. I have a positive mindset, guys.

SPEAKER_08 55:11

And lately, I'll be honest, I've been learning the same lesson over and over and over again, which has caused the struggle. So it's like fuck.

SPEAKER_09 55:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 55:20

You gotta make a judge.

SPEAKER_09 55:22

Right, that's what I'm saying. Like, are you learning or am I?

SPEAKER_12 55:25

Are you just because if you're going through the same thing, you're not stupid, but like now you see I'm going through the same shit. Something now literally have to make. Even if it's just a small change, you start somewhere and see the big results later.

SPEAKER_08 55:41

Yeah, I agree. Two more. People are more patient with successful people than struggling people.

SPEAKER_12 55:54

That is a fact.

SPEAKER_08 55:56

A lot of facts today. It kind of sucks that we're in that space, but these are the real truths, right? Yeah. Alright, last one. The same behavior called perseverance after success is called stubbornness before success. Oh my god, you're going, you've been here doing this six months.

SPEAKER_02 56:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 56:17

And you don't got the numbers. That is a fact. Niggas are in the middle of them thing doing it.

SPEAKER_12 56:25

Yeah, right. You can't tell me. Right. Nigga was trying to break me down. I'm sitting there like, yep. And look at us, still doing it. I said you can't make me feel like that about my shit. Small changes within it as well.

SPEAKER_10 56:38

It's not happening, brother. We came a long way in this little, yeah, six months.

SPEAKER_12 56:43

Yeah. We just started. Getting in this little six months. Thanks, but no thanks.

SPEAKER_08 56:50

Yeah. I got a question. If we truly respected the struggle, would we treat people differently before they succeed? Absolutely.

SPEAKER_12 57:01

Yeah. If people really experience that shit too. Or if people can just, I'm sorry, I'm just cut you up. If people could just be empathetic to the human experience. We're all having human experiences, and uh none of them are the same. So just because you don't understand or you're not going through, and that's what's hard of when you try to talk to someone and because they're not going through it, they can't. For sure. You know.

SPEAKER_08 57:28

I like that. Really. So my favorite tattoo is trust or struggle. And I've always lived by that. Yeah. Um, especially when I became an adult and I realized that I was responsible for my life. Yeah. Whatever I went through, I just learned you gotta trust that this is teaching you a lesson, like Resistance. And like I always say to myself, there are no good days, there are no bad days.

SPEAKER_06 57:53

Right.

SPEAKER_08 57:53

This day's a grace. And sometimes you gotta go through things and endure it. Sometimes the day is great and you get to enjoy it. So either way, struggles are not bad, and if you are struggling, it's okay. All of us are. Like she said, it's just a part of the human experience. Right. And I respect the person who is transparent and vulnerable about the fact that they are struggling more than the ones that are hiding and making excuses for why they're not showing up at 100%.

SPEAKER_09 58:29

Right. So well, I want to read this to you guys real quick because I am reading um Atomic Habits.

SPEAKER_11 58:40

Let's go. It's a great book. And I just want to share this with you guys quickly.

SPEAKER_12 58:48

It says, this is just like a little paragraph out of one of the chapters. Your outcomes are lagging are a lagging measure of your habits.

SPEAKER_11 59:00

Your net worth is a lagging measure of your financial habits.

SPEAKER_09 59:07

Your weight is a lagging measure of your eating habits. Your knowledge is a lagging measure of your learning habits. Your clutter is a lagging measure of your cleaning habits.

SPEAKER_11 59:19

You get what you repeat. If you want to predict where you'll end up in life, all you have to do is follow the curve of tiny gains or tiny losses and see how your daily choices will compound 10 or 20 years down the line.

SPEAKER_12 59:34

Are you spending less than you earn each month? Are you making it to the gym each week? Are you reading books and learning something new each day? Tiny battles like these are the ones that will define your future self.

SPEAKER_08 59:48

That's fire. Yeah. Lagging that.

SPEAKER_09 59:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 59:54

That's dope.

unknown 59:55

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 59:56

I never seen that.

SPEAKER_09 59:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:00:00

That's all I had for Facts of Debatables.

SPEAKER_11 1:00:02

Okay.

SPEAKER_08 1:00:03

That was great.

SPEAKER_11 1:00:03

It was great.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:05

Now you fuck. We're gonna go ahead and talk some shit.

SPEAKER_12 1:00:16

Yeah, because I just have so many things I could talk shit about. I'm trying to decide which one I want to do. I also okay. I'm gonna read some shit. You know, I've been just screenshotting things. Um they've just been funny, but it's real shit. So let's see. Alright, fuck it. This one's in my face.

SPEAKER_10 1:00:43

Nobody gives me butterflies anymore.

SPEAKER_12 1:00:45

Y'all make me feel like pulling out a gun. Oh heavens. I just thought that was fucking hilarious. Not even, but I haven't felt that since my last relationship. Like, you know what? No. Like when we met. Yeah, well, shit, I met that nigga when I was 18, but like when we really started fucking with each other. Yeah. I was like, oh my god, I love this man. I'm gonna marry him. You remember.

SPEAKER_11 1:01:14

I love him so bad.

SPEAKER_07 1:01:20

Yeah. Nothing fades me these days.

SPEAKER_12 1:01:22

Yeah. That's sad and terrible. You know, the I'm dating guys. I'm out here dating and really actually having a good time, but you know, recently I'm just gonna talk my shit about what I recently went through, got called a whore and all kinds of things because I went on another date with someone else who asked me on a date, and this dude did not. You didn't ask me, so I'm gonna go with the person who did. And we're not together, and you're not my man, and I'm not fucking on either one of you.

SPEAKER_10 1:01:54

So we're and we're dating, you know. So he's just like, How was your date last night? I'm like, Oh, I had a blast, it was great. How was your night? Oh, it was great. I was cuddled up all night. I had you know, cuddled up with son all night. Cool, buddy.

SPEAKER_12 1:02:09

Liar, yeah, whatever.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:11

So it just went off too. That's turning me on. Right. I'm happy like we're dating. You had somebody cool.

SPEAKER_12 1:02:19

I don't, you know, and that's why I just basically said to him, and he just was like, lose my number, you're a whore, you're fat, you're this and that. It always gets to that. But you know, guys, when you're dating, thank you. I appreciate that. And he can never make me feel anyway, nigga. You're fat. And I wasn't body shaving. I like fatness.

SPEAKER_08 1:02:39

You're not a whore, yeah.

SPEAKER_12 1:02:40

I'm not so you're mad. You wouldn't know that because I didn't do anything with you.

SPEAKER_08 1:02:45

But anyway, to try to get me to like you like this, weird, insecure, yeah.

SPEAKER_12 1:02:51

Very so, and that's just what I said. I was humble about like, you know, we're dating. I'm sure you have other people on your phone. And guys, if you're dating, like, unless it's solidified, you guys are making it exclusive, you're just dating one another. It's okay to go on dates and talk to other people. It's dating, it's called dating, literally called relationshipping, so you know, relationshipping. So, yeah, whatever. I just had to talk my shit about that. I didn't want to drag it on too much, but it's just that's really annoying that people act like that. Yeah, but you know, it's just a little insight. I'm sure other people have gone through this, you guys. Like, I tell us your dating horror stories, please. 802-319-9133. Yeah. I wanna know.

SPEAKER_10 1:03:33

I'm gonna say that.

SPEAKER_12 1:03:36

So talking shit about anything today, yeah. I don't like French toast that's made with thin bread. You better fatten me up, baby. It's it ain't easy maintaining this weight. Give me the shower bread.

SPEAKER_09 1:03:52

Don't skip me. If I'm gonna do it, I'm doing it.

SPEAKER_08 1:03:57

I hate the hot dog slander.

SPEAKER_09 1:04:01

Oh, the glizzies. I hate glizzy. Love me some of those beats.

SPEAKER_08 1:04:05

Enjoy a hot dog because it's like it's gay instantly, bro.

SPEAKER_12 1:04:09

Yeah, what's gay? Nah, niggas is throwing a bat. Well, I'm not gay. I'm talking. And I know my way around a hot dog. I hate it, bro. Just want to be in little put that hot dog meme up.

SPEAKER_08 1:04:26

Dogs to the feet cuisine.

SPEAKER_12 1:04:28

Yeah. I'm not gonna shove it down, but like damn nigga, you mean a glizzy?

SPEAKER_08 1:04:34

God forbid we're at the carnival and it's like one of them big ones, like you can cook instantly.

SPEAKER_12 1:04:38

Right, yeah. And I'm gonna get another is hilarious. They're terrible for you anyway. Whatever. I'll give it a naked hot dog. Oh, that's hilarious. All right. One more quote just to close out. Talk your shit. No nigga can make me jealous. That's your dick. Baby, burn it up. Good heavens. That was a lot. Maybe we can cut that out. We're not, but okay. But it is true. I don't care. You try it. Just be safe. Be safe out there, guys.

SPEAKER_07 1:05:16

Or don't. It's your dick, bro.

SPEAKER_12 1:05:18

Yeah, burn it up, baby. Yeah, but you should. You should, for sure. Don't be spreading shit around. Anyway. All right. Cool talk your shits. Yeah, yeah, nice. Now we're gonna really cool it down. Yeah, we need to. Yep.

SPEAKER_11 1:05:40

Take in the sound of the motorcycle. Reving in the back. While the bugs are buzzing around us, biting at our ankles. I'm all right. Okay. National Geographic thing. Squish that one mosquito.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:01

I'm not dumb. They said stay away from that.

SPEAKER_12 1:06:04

Nice.

SPEAKER_11 1:06:06

All right. Let's get into health, wealth, and positivity. Welcome. Well, yeah. Thanks. All right. Health quote. You can't outheal a low a lifestyle you refuse to change.

SPEAKER_12 1:06:23

Are you healing or just avoiding being alone with yourself? That's good. I like being alone with myself. I like rather enjoy it. I love my own company. Yeah. It's a good time. I'd be like laughing at myself, all types of shit.

SPEAKER_08 1:06:38

I also think that this culture that you have to heal before you get into a relationship is not exactly the best way to go about it.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:06:50

I think having community helps you heal.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:06:54

Should you be in a relationship that you can't handle? No. No. But that doesn't disqualify you from being in a relationship.

SPEAKER_11 1:07:02

You can still like meet new people, I think.

SPEAKER_08 1:07:05

You should actually.

SPEAKER_11 1:07:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:07:06

I went to a conference last week and the week before last, we were talking about how loneliness is like one of the largest epidemics right now. And obviously the larger demographic that of that are the social social senior citizens. Yeah. Not social security.

SPEAKER_04 1:07:30

That is crazy. There we go with that.

SPEAKER_08 1:07:33

Give them a break.

SPEAKER_09 1:07:38

People live behind their screens and not getting outside and socialize.

SPEAKER_11 1:07:43

How do you class or you know, walk through the park or and say hello to someone?

SPEAKER_12 1:07:49

Yeah, you know.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:07:52

Opening is gonna happen as soon as you say hello, right?

SPEAKER_12 1:07:55

Wave back. And it'll flow. Like how it's supposed to. I I went out last night and I was with a friend and his friend and he was like afraid to talk to the ladies in the bar. I'm like, brother, just go up and say something. The worst thing that can happen, and like his friend was saying is they can say no. Like it's okay, you know.

SPEAKER_10 1:08:17

And he's just like, I can't, I can't say let me tell you something. As a grown-ass woman, if you're scared to come and talk to me, or you know, whatever, start a conversation, you're never gonna get anywhere and you're doing yourself a disservice.

SPEAKER_12 1:08:29

Like, might as well go home. Yeah. So just try it. It was just the whole thing, and he just and then he did try it and ended up dancing with a couple girls. Like one was working on them, and the other one was they were on him. He loves it. Yeah. But no, that's awesome. That's dope. Because like that is the hardest thing, like just trying to do, and it doesn't matter what it is, like even me, like you know, I told you guys I've been so scared to like lift heavy weights. Yeah, and so I've been working out at home and I have this 30-pound weight. I could not, it was up on the shelf, I could not get it down. I somebody got it down for me, but I've been using it like to do my hip thrusts and my squats, and and that shit is heavy. It's 30 pounds, doesn't sound like much, but it is when you're me, it's a lot. And I when I tell you be sweating like a whore in church, but it feels so good because I that's something that I've been intimidated by and I just had to try. I'm like, fuck it, I'm just gonna try it. Yeah, and and I've been loving it. So yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:09:39

Make that 30 pounds your bitch. Yeah, I'm trying to toss it up there right now.

SPEAKER_12 1:09:44

It's the other way around. Just out of me. For sure. Okay, next one. Most people stay broke because they avoid uncomfortable decisions. Big time. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:00

I be doing that.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:03

It's just the reality. Hence why some shit gotta shake. I was literally just saying, I need a plan.

SPEAKER_09 1:10:09

I need a plan.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:10

I need a plan. That plan has to be stuck to.

SPEAKER_09 1:10:12

Yeah, definitely. That discipline, that's where that's gonna come in.

SPEAKER_12 1:10:16

That's how I feel like I'm all over the place.

SPEAKER_09 1:10:18

That's gonna change your life. Yeah. So yeah. Positivity.

SPEAKER_11 1:10:26

You're overwhelmed because your habits don't match your goals. Every small habit you change brings your goals closer.

SPEAKER_00 1:10:33

Like that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:36

That's great.

SPEAKER_11 1:10:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:39

And that's so like simple to understand.

SPEAKER_09 1:10:43

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:44

A lot of times the lack of accountability. I don't want to admit that.

SPEAKER_09 1:10:49

Bad with money or yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:10:51

That I eat bullshit all day. Yeah, I didn't eat too much, but you had three thousand calories. So two meals.

SPEAKER_09 1:11:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:11:01

You know.

SPEAKER_09 1:11:02

Yeah. We gotta be mindful.

SPEAKER_12 1:11:04

It's and it's tough when you know you're going for convenience, especially like when you're busy and trying to but you just gotta try and jobs. Do it. That's why I love cooking. Like I've grown to love cooking at home so much because I know what's going in my food. And like for me, having heart disease, I have to be careful with my sodium intake, or I'm gonna blow up like a fucking fish. So from having all that water and and you know, where salt goes, water goes. So it's just like I have to be mindful of that shit.

SPEAKER_09 1:11:39

So I've like I said, grown to love cooking at home, and the kid the kids love home cooked meals anyway.

SPEAKER_08 1:11:46

So you're a beast in the kitchen.

SPEAKER_09 1:11:48

Thank you.

SPEAKER_11 1:11:49

But yeah, that's all I have for health, wealth, and positivity. Very good. That was great. Yeah, I'm glad we did this.

SPEAKER_12 1:11:58

I am too.

SPEAKER_08 1:11:59

I liked how your segments kind of complemented mine in terms of solutions.

SPEAKER_12 1:12:05

Yep.

SPEAKER_08 1:12:05

So that's really good.

SPEAKER_11 1:12:06

Yeah, that was cool. Like when you were doing yours, I'm like, oh, I'm reading this book, I gotta share. Yeah, that's awesome.

SPEAKER_12 1:12:12

So yeah. That's good.

SPEAKER_10 1:12:14

You know, I was bullshitting per usual.

SPEAKER_12 1:12:17

And we love it. Yeah. Keep us entertained all the time. Tap dancing for you niggas.

SPEAKER_08 1:12:23

Folks, we got 25 episodes on our hosting distribution distribution right now. And that's a milestone for us. Here's the 50.

SPEAKER_04 1:12:34

Right.

SPEAKER_08 1:12:34

You know, that's really, really cool. Everything's going smooth in terms of what we got going on at the rate at the radio station. There is a contest coming up soon, so yeah, we'll tell you guys. You gotta look out for that.

SPEAKER_11 1:12:49

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh yeah. Oh yeah.

unknown 1:12:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_08 1:12:58

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SPEAKER_03 1:13:28

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SPEAKER_12 1:13:32

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SPEAKER_03 1:13:45

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SPEAKER_00 1:14:01

Just want to be okay.