Klay's addiction is preventing him from finding love....

Meg and Klay's break up have made its rounds around the internet. Meg accused Klay of cheating but that wouldn't be the first woman who accused him of disrespecting the relationship. His ex exposed his past journal entries where he expresses his desire to find balance between relationships and the fast lifestyle that comes with the NBA. He describes his lust as an addiction.
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SPEAKER_04 0:00

Hello and thank you for watching and listening to another episode of the Podacity with Kita Rose.

SPEAKER_01 0:05

I should've lied. I should've cheated. Maybe I should've went out to the club. Or maybe I should have done it. Shoulda given away all my life. And maybe I, I should've played you.

SPEAKER_04 0:22

Here we dare to use our voices. Have the audacity to own who we are. And vow, raise up your roses. We vow to never stop, never shrink, and most importantly, never shut up. It's just not gonna happen no matter how many times people tell me to shut up. I'm not. You know what? It's gonna be hard to get me to shut up about this whole Meg the Stallion and Clay Thompson situation, but I'll get my rocks off and I'll try to, you know, move on. Like, share, subscribe, talk, shit in my comments. You know, tell me how you really feel. Hit that bell notification so I can pop up on your timeline. Why won't you all say, bae? I'm the best on your screen, isn't it? And hype this video up if you can. So I'm not gonna lie and say that I didn't think that Meg the Stallion had finally found the nice guy, the good guy, right? They always, people are always saying that good guys finish last. And honestly, I think anybody with a heart finishes last. In the world that we live in now, anybody with a heart finishes last. Because it's like, oh, you know, you have a conscience, you right? You you follow a moral code. Oh, what's that? I don't do none of that. I get it how I live, and if I do anything towards you or steal anything from you, get it back in blood. People are dead ass evil, and it's getting worse every day. We're turning on each other. The system is working as it always has. People are lacking empathy. People are having a hard time showing each other empathy. If it didn't happen to me, if it's not happening to my family members, if I don't see this happening in my immediate circle, it didn't happen. It doesn't exist. You're a liar. Your experiences are lull and void. Unfortunately, what's going on with Meg the Stallion isn't unique because it's happened to millions of people. Men, women, millions of people have experience being cheated on. Meg the Stallion went ahead and she accused Klay Thompson of cheating on her, playing house with her, wasting her damn time when you could have left her alone. Havia on the you could have left me the f alone. Had her cooking for his family on holidays and whatnot and what fourth, only to cheat on her. But this isn't the first time that he's cheated on anyone. He's cheated on his exes before.

SPEAKER_02 2:22

I wanted to know who Clay Thompson cheated on before Meg and his relationship history, so I looked it up. He cheated on Hannah Stocking in 2015 and she also publicly exposed him. She said, When you catch your man naked in bed with a groupie, L-O-L at Clay Thompson. The trolling of him post-cheating is not new. It's actually a decade old. And I find that very interesting because I feel like he's just always been a cheater, and it does raise questions about if cheaters can even be reformed. I'm banking on no at this current point. But she also said I told him I'd at him if he kept harassing me. So I guess he really wanted that tag to get his numbers up. He also dated Laura Harrier and allegedly cheated on her too. So these questions about what else does he need? This woman's perfect. She's so beautiful. Again, like, I don't think that's the question we need to be asking. I get why people are asking it because it's the same shock of like, this is the most beautiful woman in the world. How could he want anything else? I think it's completely like his habit and his pattern and his muscle memory. I don't think he can break it. He's 36 years old. If he's done this to Laura Harrier, yes, Hannah, but Meg the Stallion, it's obviously nothing about what else could he need. He doesn't want anything. Like he doesn't want it. He just like wants to keep this pattern, or it must be like so ingrained in him because he's been doing this for over a decade, getting publicly called out.

SPEAKER_04 3:49

I mean, women have came out and said that Clay has cheated, right? One of his exes exposed his journal entries, even though you guys know over here that is a technical foul. We don't really play that journal entry shit because our journals are near and dear to our hearts. If you know, you know, go on down to ketoset.com. If you don't have a journal and pick up a growing through it journal, because all of us are just trying to grow through this shit of assimilation. That reminds me.

SPEAKER_01 4:15

Everything that I said before this and after this is alleged. I'll be making up shit sometimes. I'm AI. This episode is for educational, satirical, and entertainment purposes only.

SPEAKER_04 4:25

You know, he said in his journal entry, this life, this he was 28 years old, and he said this life, this fast-paced life of being in the NBA, comes with, of course, a lot of perks. He was grateful for the money that he got, and he probably deserved. I didn't know much about Clay, honestly. I don't know much about Clay. I know that he was in a relationship with Meg V Stallion. A lot of people want to act like he did her a favor by dating her, but Meg was Meg before she met Clay, and she opened him up to a wide range of new fans and followers and supporters. I don't think it's the other way around, seeing as his fans are men and sports fanatics, right? Sports fanatics type men that rejoice when something comes out like this. When news comes out that a woman has been cheated on, that a woman is hurting, that a woman has been attacked, these type of men rejoice. They're excited, they're happy. And it's like, what the f is wrong with you? A lot of men are angry with Meg the Stallion because she was shot, right? They don't believe that Tory Lane did it. Again, Meg didn't even press charges. Let's go and see what Tory Lanez went to jail for. Tory Lane's was found guilty on all three felony charges of assault with the firearm, illegal possession of a firearm. He wasn't supposed to have a gun, wasn't he on probation? We're just acting like Tory Lanez just had this like really clean past, didn't have so much as a traffic ticket, and then he got wrapped up in some shit. No, Tori's a menace. Didn't he punch August Alsina? What happened with Tori and August Alsina? But of course, nobody really cared about that situation because people view, you know, August Alsina as part of the LGBTQ community, so people could tend to ignore those attacks. It says Chicago, September 2022. There's a video of August. He was walking through a backstage hallway when Tori extended his hand for a handshake. August hit him with a fierce sidestep, avoiding all contact. He wanted to avoid this man. A perplexed Tory was left standing with his hand out until a random fan dapped him up instead. The embarrassment was caught on camera. After getting curved, Tori followed August outside with security. August tried to talk it out, but according to the tour creator Rip Michaels, who says he personally witnessed it, when August turned around, Tori sucker punched him in the face. August posted photos of himself with a bloody mouth. Yeah, that's what I remember. So this is a guy who, if you don't talk to him, after he tries to befriend you, he'll punch you in the face when you turn around. But everybody's acting like it was like he's some angel, some big brother, some some guy who's done so much for the community, so much for the culture, and he just hasn't. He has a couple of hit songs. That's great. So does Meg. They're good artists. That's amazing. He has a fan base, she has a fan base. But the fact that people are saying that they're rejoicing or they're happy or that she deserved one to be shot is crazy. But that's just a pure visual example of what black women have to go through, especially in America. And I say this: I know we were supposed to be here, but I'm over here. This is gonna be one of those episodes. I can just already feel it. I want black women, especially older black women, to stop, stop, stop. I love you guys so much, but I want you to stop saying things like, I don't want to be strong. I'm tired of being strong. No woman wants to be strong anymore because at the end of the day, nobody wants to be strong. But in order to exist in this, again, similation, you have to be. Women need to start showing strength and standing up. People are talking shit now because she decided to walk away from a situation that no longer served her, from a situation that was toxic to her, from a situation that made her cry. People are acting like they never cried at work before. Please. So yeah, that was a clear visual example of how this world, especially America, especially black America, treats black women. And so I never once thought to myself that a man was gonna protect me. I have a father, I have uh men in my family that will absolutely protect me. But outside of my immediate family, I never thought a man's gonna protect me. Maybe when I was married in my early 20s, you know, I thought men are supposed to protect and men and providing, and oh, I can't wait to be married and I'm a wife, I'm a wife. Look, everybody, I'm a wife. Yeah, that era in my life, possibly, but once I jumped out of that delusion, they say things like, no one's coming to save you, and that's not true. There will be people, men and women, that are in your life that God blesses you with, depending on whoever you pray to, you know, that the universe bestows upon you that are there to help you and guide you, and you help them, and you guys create something beautiful. That does happen. But the majority of people, uh-uh, they here just like the enemy to steal and kill and sabotage. And the worst type of sabotage is being sabotaged by somebody that you care about, somebody that you love, somebody that you wouldn't cross like that. So, yes, Tory fans are happy that something bad is happening to Meg, but I don't think, I don't want to look at it as something bad, you know? Shout out to Meg the Stallion to go from rapping to Broadway. She's moving, she's pivoting, she's making waves in her industry. And instead of doing what they do, you know what's so funny is everybody sat up here and acted like she deserved something terrible, as if she did something so bad by being shot or cheated on. Everybody acted like she did something so bad. So that was her karma. Her karma is to be cheated on, her karma is to get shot, right? Cool. But when you sit up here and you have this same conversation about these black men that do terrible, horrible things, right? When you sit up here and you have the same conversation about Diddy and people will say, Well, I just want to talk about the music. I just want to talk about the things that they've done in the industry. I don't want to talk about the allegations. I don't want to talk about the arrest and the convictions. I don't want to talk about the jail sentence. I don't want to talk about the victims. I just want to talk about the music and the legacy. But when it comes to Meg the Stallion, we can't talk about just her music and what she's got going on. Okay, so what? She I cheated on and decided to walk away from the relationship. You know a lot of like that. I would hope. I would hope. In fact, maybe you don't, because there are too many women that'll sit up there and stay. And a lot of people think I'm judgy judgy when I when I say things like that. And please believe me, I know that it is not easy to stay. Says, especially for domestic violence relationships, it takes upwards of seven times for someone feels comfortable enough to leave. So please don't mistake it. This is not a, I'm better than thou, I'm a woman and I'm better than you. Because I no, this is this ain't that. This is uh, I've been in situations like this before that quite literally almost tried to break me, to kill me, and it almost did. And I decided to walk away because not walking away, because you're wanting to still feed into this delusion that you're in this great situation that you know is slowly taking from you every single day is only prolonging the inevitable. When you're not aligned, you're not aligned. When whoever you pray to, the universe, God, whatever you call it, him, shim, her, when they say enough, enough is enough, and they cut off that connection, it doesn't matter how deep that bond is. It doesn't matter how tight that soul tied is tied. It doesn't matter. When the connection is done, the connection is done. A lot of people hold on to shit that should have been cut off a long time ago, but they're scared of the unknown. They're scared of the future, they're scared of the routine outside of who they are or what they do outside of their partner. They're scared of that. They they don't know what to expect, so they'd like to stay in the familiar. We are more comfortable with the devil that we know. We don't want any new devils. But you stay there and you waste so much time. I don't want people to think that I'm making fun of Tina Campbell when we bring that up. That was a huge story. But even with that situation, 12 years ago, she was like, I'm done. I'm tired of being disrespected. I love myself. I'm not dealing with this anymore. I don't want to keep choosing somebody that doesn't choose me. And then 12 years go by and now 25 years have gone by, and Teddy decides, you know what, I've had enough. After I've drained you, after I've humiliated you, after I've lied to you, I had enough. The least you can do is stay. I'm so sorry. I am an advocate, big advocate for leaving, big advocate for breaking up. I am a breakup advocate. But the least you can do after dragging somebody through hell, whether you're a man or woman, through hell to be in a relationship with you for no matter how long amount of time is stay. I had a woman in my family that allowed a man to cheat for so long. Think 60 years. And it was one of those situations where wherever he lays his hat, it's his home. But at least he comes home at night.

SPEAKER_07 12:50

Hell no.

SPEAKER_04 12:53

At least he knows where home is. I would hope he lives there. He walks by your dumb ass every day. I would hope he knows where he's located, where all his shit is located. She came home. There was a sticky note left on the table, and it said that he was moving down the street to be with the woman he wanted to be with. She had to see him every day as he pulled out of her driveway instead of her driveway that she's used to, right? And two months later she died. And I think she withered away, and I think she did not eat, and I think she didn't take care of herself because depression got the better of her. Because all this time you let him disrespect you, you let him lie to you, you let him leave you, you let him show you over and over again that you were nothing to him. And finally, when he's used you all up, even if it's after six years, he said he couldn't even look you in your face or even shit, send you a text message. He sent a sticky note, he put a sticky note on the table or on the refrigerator. I can't remember where he stuck it, but he stuck it somewhere and said, Yeah, I'm moving down the street. And that is a woman's reality. And she died two months later. I absolutely believe that you can die from a broken heart. Let me know down below if you agree. All right, y'all. Let's listen to some people's feelings about this situation. Shout out to Layla Lynn.

SPEAKER_00 14:08

I'm glad they called it what it is, a betrayal. After how far he took her with them buying a house together and everything, it was a betrayal. But they said, Meanwhile, Clay's comments on his IG page are in shambles. So you can see Meg getting emotional. She's wiping tears from her eyes because she had to go perform. Like she had to turn it on after everything she went through. When she posted on her Instagram story, you could tell she was emotional. It was kind of like a crash out moment, like exposing him. But at the same time, she still had to work, she still had to perform. So she is emotional with the audience telling her, We love you, girl. Like, we know you're looking for love, but we love you. Now, meanwhile, Clay Thompson's comments are looking crazy. And mind you, I told y'all yesterday, Clay Thompson is not in a good space. He's not in a good place in his career, first of all, and then him flaunting Meg, I feel like was him trying to bring himself up, like trying to feed his ego. That's why he was flaunting their relationship the way he was.

SPEAKER_04 14:59

And a lot of women don't want to, you know, we don't talk about this enough. We grew up hearing that women trap men with babies. A baby can't keep a man, but a lot of these men will trap women in relationships and babies. If he knows that he has an issue with being monogamous, then he should just be flat out and say, hey, listen, there will be other women. I might get other women pregnant. I'm not really in this with you. Don't fall in love with me because I have no intentions of really, really being in love and loyal to you. And said he didn't. Again, I hated the fact that people came out and wanted to make it this whole like, well, who makes more money? Well, who's bigger and whose industry? And it's like, no, they do different things. She's a rap artist, he's a basketball player, they're different ages, they're on different levels. Absolutely not. We're not gonna do this whole comparison and come and competition shit. It's weird. We didn't know much about Clay, but from everybody else who is a basketball head says he's boring, he's he's not very remarkable. So, yeah, people that want to step out and say, Well, y'all should look at me. I'm somebody. I've been playing on this league for a long time. How come you guys aren't looking at me? You know what? I'll pop out with the hottest. Look at who look who I got. Men do it all the time. They want to trap you in a relationship, they want to flaunt you around, they want to use you as a status symbol, as being with a woman has always been a status symbol. Being married with kids has always boosted men's career because it's looked at as a status symbol. You look like a man who is responsible, who can take care of a woman and a child and himself. You must do good business. Wrong! Wrong like a mother.

SPEAKER_00 16:28

And it is what it is. Excuse my language. Someone else said, And you are baldy. This is the one for me. Fumbled every game for the last few years and fumbled at the baddest. Yikes. Someone else said, Megan, about to drop the nastiest this about you. I can feel it in my soul. Someone else said, Hope you roll your ankle the next time you take a jump shot. Someone else said, I'm glad we don't have to pretend you're attractive anymore. Oh my god. And then I know the playoffs. If he's reading these comments, I know the playoffs comments.

SPEAKER_04 16:50

And so then Party comes out. Party was Meg's ex. She was with him. She also accused him of cheating on a song. Another thing, people want to sit up here and say that Meg should be quiet, should be quiet. No, when people do horrible things to you, I don't know who taught us this or what type of fing conditioning this is from society. That's like if somebody does something bad to you, you're just supposed to just take it and not talk about it. Because if you talk about it, it means you're you're not over it. If you talk about it, it means you're still bitter. If you talk about it, it means that you know I don't give a f. If something happened to me, I have a right to tell my story. It was a part of my story. I'm sorry if my version of my story and my truth makes you look like the villain. Maybe you did some fed up shit. Talking shit about you and telling a story of what actual happened using facts is two different things. Now, if what I'm saying about you makes you look bad, it might be because you're actually bad. You're a bad partner, you're a bad friend, you're a bad insert that part there. It probably is because you are bad. Stop doing bad shit, stop behaving badly. People do terrible shit and want you to be quiet. Don't tell nobody why. You weren't ashamed when you did it. Why? You weren't ashamed when you did it. You were loud, proud, and bold when you disrespected me. Well, you have no problem manipulating or lying or acting a fool out there or making me look like a fool out there. You had no problem doing that. But now you want me to chill out. Now you want me to keep it on wraps. Now you want me to tell everybody that we split up, you know, just due to, you know, just differences. You know, we kind of grew apart. No, he's a cheater. He sat up there, he gives his D out to everybody. He'll know what he's doing. This nigga just babing it out. He's a thought, he's a thought pocket, he's a Jezebel, he has Jezebelian spirits on him. People don't understand how emotionally abusive cheating is, and I'm not gonna stop talking about it. I'm not going to stop talking about the emotional abuse that comes with cheating. You second guess yourself, you doubt yourself, your reality changes as you know it. Your world gets flips upside down, and people just act like it's just like whatever. Whatever. I don't care. I don't uh it is what it is. No, people have their lives tied up with one another, they have kids together, they have property together, they have businesses together. And it's like, oh yeah, well, you know, I just betrayed you. It's not really a big deal. So yeah, party's happy. I'm not sure why. Party really gives that he did love Meg and he messed up, and now he's like, well, I'm just gonna, you know, f with her. And again, that's just some childish shit. You didn't care to keep her, so why do you care to keep her in your thoughts?

SPEAKER_07 19:20

And do the things too like I do. I'm telling you, he can, he can love you, baby. You know, you should never want to be with a man.

SPEAKER_04 19:29

I don't know what happened with his relationship with Jada. People were speculating that that wasn't gonna last long. He was with a woman named Jada Kingdom. Shout out to RRG. Y'all know we love RRG over here. So again, I said that Klay's ex decided to expose him in 2019. He was out here living fast, probably cheated on her, and she posted his journal entries to the blogs, which again we are not a fan of over here.

SPEAKER_05 19:53

Well, we might not get a book written by him, but in February 2019, some pages from his diary were exposed. His ex-girlfriend claimed he left the diary at her home. Instead of returning it to him, she sent pictures of the pages to a blog. At first glance, the entries read like the inner thoughts of a young man living what most people would consider a dream. Clay places himself in Indianapolis, noting he's roughly 28 years old and already deep into his professional career. He acknowledges his success, even calling the NBA a place where he is very well compensated for his talent and professionalism. There's gratitude there, a clear awareness that he has access to a life many could never imagine. But layered underneath that appreciation is something else entirely. A sense that the lifestyle itself might be pulling him in too many directions at once. Throughout the entries, Clay comes across as unusually self-aware. He describes being in a reflective state of mind, almost like he's observing his own life from the outside. He talks about scrolling through his phone, revisiting memories through photos, videos, and music, and realizing just how intense his experiences have been. He seems to understand that he's living fast, maybe even too fast, and that 2018, at that point, had already been filled with a series of personal shifts that were starting to catch up with him mentally. But then the tone takes a turn, and this is where things get complicated. He openly reflects on his behavior with women, using words like promiscuous, womanizing, and even questioning whether he's becoming someone he doesn't fully respect. There's a moment where he asks himself outright if he's turning into a self centered, insecure addict, which is a level of honesty most people would never put on paper, let alone expect the world to see. And yet, despite recognizing the issue, he admits he's still drawn to it. He describes the experiences as euphoric, even exhilarating, suggesting that the attention, access, and constant validation from which Women feel almost addictive, and he feels powerful. He even hints that most people wouldn't be able to comprehend what it's like to have that kind of access, where women are seemingly available at every turn, and boundaries feel almost non-existent. And nowhere is that contrast clearer than in his thoughts about All Star Weekend.

SPEAKER_06 22:20

Oh, wait a minute, honey. Wait a minute. Where is my margarita, honey? Hold on, hold on. Hold on one second, let me get a ship. Oh, honey, the rain is starting and everything. This story's gonna be so, so good. Go ahead, girl. I'm listening.

SPEAKER_05 22:35

On one hand, Clay is focused on his career, mentioning the potential excitement of competing and possibly winning the three-point contest. But on the other hand, he's just as excited about what happens off the court, which he clearly associates with banging groupies and being in the nightlife.

SPEAKER_04 22:52

He said, I'm really happy about All-Star Weekend. I really want to, you know, come and perform my best, but I do. I want to get some ass. I want to smash. I want to spread it all around. I want to be a thought. He wants to be a hoe. You know, even in one of his journal entries, he said, hooping over everything. H-O-E. Clay's a big hoe. And though he portrayed this really nice guy, this wholesome guy. I think a lot of it had to do with him being biracial, but that's another episode. Men and some birds were saying how Meg didn't deserve him. He was such a good guy. He's a nice guy. Meg's been with men in the industry, so what? Women have been passed around. They all date each other. So what? That has nothing to do with whether or not she deserves a monogamous relationship if somebody is presenting to her a monogamous relationship. And if that's the case, then everything that you've ever done in your life, I guess you deserve whatever horrible thing happens to you in your next or current relationship. They seem to think Diddy needs all this redemption, right? He's atoned. His legacy, his music. Well, Meg's just getting started. So since we're ignoring shit, let's ignore the fact that she's kissed a couple of frogs. You gotta kiss these niggas. Honestly, you have to date these niggas. You gotta try them out and see what's going on. Because it would be dumb of you to sit up there and lock down a cheater, to commit to a cheater. I said this before, I'll say it again. That's equivalent to buying a car that you know has a faulty fucking engine. You know it's fucked up, and then being surprised and calling everybody and clutching your poor pearls, you know, struggling to breathe and saying, Can you believe this shit just exploded in two days? Yes. She was cooking for his family. She was spending time with his family. You know, I think Jesse Wu, shout out to her. We love Jesse Wu over here. Jesse Wu had uh mentioned the fact that she doesn't have a mom, she doesn't have a dad, she doesn't have a grandma. And you got all these people out here laughing at her, saying she deserves to be shot and cheated on and the worst shit. And she doesn't have anybody as a support system, but doesn't necessarily matter. These are the same people that will scream about mental health. They don't give a f. They like that a man humbled her. You're a hot girl that goes around, wears what she wants, has her own money, spends what she wants, and tells men to bow down when they don't respect her because she's not gonna be the one doing the bowing. And everybody is so used to women bowing down and just sitting down and settling. Well, I'm just lucky to be with him, even though he cheats on me, even though he's torn up my things, even though he's made me lose my job, even though he drives my car, even though he doesn't contribute financially, even though I gotta take care of all his damn kids. I'm just happy to be here. I'm just happy to be here. No, f that. What's the opposite of a pick me? That's what I am. I'm a choose me not. There we go. Don't choose me. I am so glad I am not being chosen. Speaking of someone who is never chosen, academics who is a hip hop uh commentator, of course, had something to say. He is not a fan of Meg the Stallion. I believe that he is a big fan of Tory Lane's.

SPEAKER_08 25:42

Oh, two couple, and he's not. Okay, all of a sudden, he ain't pregnant no more. He won't tell me. You have a nigga that will tell. I got a homeboard like this. You'll tell any lot. You'll tell anybody that was. So at some point he's basically telling her, you're gonna eat it like each one's gonna like first fifth and fifty words. I can't always give you. I need to be I always want to lie about it. Know that I am not a monopolist. And you could be cool with it and potentially because again, if you don't accept the fact that I don't want to be monopolist, I guess it's all. Now, of course, you're gonna be like, yo, well, you lied to me at first, you said, no, you want to be monopolist, I cool.

SPEAKER_04 26:31

You know, at first, and then this is how they think of that. That's why academics is never a good example, because this is how some men think. Well, I mean, of course, yeah, at first, we've been together nine months, and after nine months of me meeting your family, of going public with you, spending all of my time with you, buying you lavish gifts, celebrating your birthday with you after I've done all that, and let everybody know that I'm a lover girl, made a lover girl song. I'm not on that high girl shit anymore. After I've done all that, you don't know if you can be monogamous. And I mean, yeah, he could have told her that at first. You're fing right, he could have told her that at first. So again, academics was with Selena Powell. We are very, you know, we know who Selena Powell and what she does over on here on this channel. So academics was with her for three years. He was really in love with her, bought her cars, da-da-da-da-da-da. Academics just has this really big hatred for women, and a lot of his fans has a hatred for women. Uh, I think just a couple months ago, academics was saying that he hoped Mona from Don't Call Me White Girl, Don't Call Me White Girls, Mona, he hopes she died. I don't not sure why. Again, what could she have done? So like the literally the the punishment should be able to at least fit the crime, but it never does when it's a black woman. That's why I don't expect anybody, any of these men to protect me. Why? Never. And that's why I will always say, stop talking about strength. Maybe that's where I went on the tangent. Stop talking about strength as if it's a bad thing. Yes, you are tired. If you're tired as a woman, you're tired because you're placed in these relationships, or you've placed yourself in these positions that are draining you. All of your energy is going to emotional labor, physical labor, financial labor. You're sitting up here trying to keep these relationships afloat because you've already told people, or everybody's already gone to the wedding, or everybody knows, or you guys already have a kid, or it's already been nine months, or you've already met his family. Enough is a f enough. If it doesn't work and you're feeling disrespected and you're being degraded, manipulated, lied to, finesse, played, however, you want to flip it or dip it, you need to get the f out of that situation. You're only prolonging the inevitable. When somebody shows you who they are the first time, please believe them. They're not lying. They're not doing it for shits and giggles. And that's exactly what she did. I'm proud of Meg. I stand by Meg. We're fans of Meg here. And it is what it is. Yes, people are gonna laugh, and she'll be on to the next, and they'll be calling her a hoe. If she stayed with them for 20 years and finally cracked, or he decided to leave her like Teddy Left Tina, it would have been her fault. She let herself go. She nagged too much. He wanted some excitement. Men aren't supposed to be monogamous, men are naturally non-monogamous, and uh, and any other bullshit excuse people want to use to justify doing the worst shit. If if this whole thing was so normal, right? People not wanting to be monogamous and people wanting to spread their seeds all around the fing world, if that was so normal, we wouldn't spend so much time talking about cheating and people wouldn't spend so much time cheating. They would just do whatever they wanted. They would just date whoever they wanted. Instead, people will sit up there, men and women will lead people on, knowing that their partner wants something real, commitment, loyalty, a title from them. And they'll be like, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I got you, I got you, I got you, until they can't lie anymore, until that mask starts to slip off. And when that happens, it's okay. Well, I don't know, you knew what it was. And even if you didn't, I don't know. So many bird-brained women out here. I'll never stand by it saying shit like, well, you know, all men cheat, all successful men cheat. Okay, well, then I'm gonna be single for the rest of my life. Stop demonizing that wanna be single. Stop telling us that we're, you know, something's wrong with us. Ain't nothing wrong with me. I'm fine. And I never had a problem getting nor keeping, though that's not a flex, a man. Pinky promise I ain't never had a problem. But women don't want to stay with that shit either. Women don't want to commit to that shit either. You'll sit up there and you'll let somebody do all this for you, and finally, when it's time or when you're confronted or when you're caught like an avoidant, like a classic avoidant, you run away and pretend it didn't happen and act like everything's all cool, like you didn't just waste somebody's time in life and embarrass them for no fing reason. It's not funny, it's not cute, it's not cute when men are cheated on, it's not cute when women are cheated on. People don't care about the effects of cheating until it's stories like the man walked into the house, saw his best friend with his wife, and decided to off both of them, off all of them. Now what? Then it's like, oh, well, I don't know. Yeah, well, I guess he couldn't control his emotions. I guess not. Because his whole world just flashed up in front of him. Like that's just an example of those crimes of passion that can happen. They play too much with this shit, and that's why I keep my shit very small. I keep my circle and all that stuff very small. I can't even joke with you like that. So we all know academics was with, you know, Selena Powell, so we can't really trust anything he says about relationships or anything like that. I don't think anybody fumbled. You know, we can sit up here and say Clay fumbled Meg, but he didn't care about Meg because he cheated. He didn't care about the last girlfriend or the last girlfriend or the last girlfriend that he went ahead and cheated on. He didn't care about any of that because he uses women to get off. He uses women for his sexual pleasure. He sees them nothing more as objects, and that's just what it is. He flaunts you around so that he can get all these clicks and tags, like his ex said before Meg, right? He likes all the, you know, the people said that they've never seen him go live. Now he's going live all the time after this. Because he likes the attention. He couldn't get it in his career. He's unremarkable. He's not very memorable. You when you see him, you're just like, oh, it's clay, but you're not like, wow, it's, you know. And because of that, he he saw a come up and he took it. So what? Okay, men get played all the time by gold diggers that they claim are digging for gold that they don't have. Women get played too. It is what it is. Play yourself up, but dust yourself off and try again. If I first you don't succeed.

SPEAKER_01 32:08

You can dust him off and try his friend. Try his friend. And if I first you don't succeed. You can guess him off and try his dad. You can dress a mouth and try his dad. Try his dad.

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So let me know what you guys think about this situation. I'm sure we're gonna see a lot of trolls and a lot of people laugh. They laughed at her for getting shot. They're laughing at laughing at her for getting cheated on. She apparently wanted to stop doing the whole Moulin Rouge thing, even though this was a big opportunity for her. She, I don't think, can handle it mentally right now. And she decided to take a break because that's what happens when you've gone through emotional abuse. And that's exactly what cheating is, even though you guys refuse to believe it. Uh doesn't mean it's any less true. Let me know what you guys thought about this episode. I will meet you down in the comments. If you love me or my content and want to keep this thing going, please go on down to KitaSet.com and purchase my Girl and Through a Journal or my balance in my bullshit plural. And y'all, we are getting so freaking close to the new collection dropping. I am ugh! Like I feel like clay after spreading my body to like a million prostitutes. It's that, it's that energy that I feel, right? Like I needed that. Like that's what I need. Hooping over everything, ho. That's what I needed. I'm sorry he had an addiction. A lot of these men have addictions. A lot of these women have addictions too, but a lot of these men have sex addictions. We don't want to talk about it when we think about addiction. We think about meth and everything else. But again, this episode's already getting longer than I wanted it to get. Ta! We might have to do a part two. Because you got me cooking for your family. Let's just let's just sit with that real quick.

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I am whispering because Klay is feeling his food coming from last night. But let me tell y'all about cooking for my man and his family for Thanksgiving. Right here, this is me getting my dressing ready. I do not call it southern bad because this is dressing. This is a southern thing. Um, I was really nervous because I was like, dang, I'm really finna cook for my man and his whole family.

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I hope they love this because mind you, she doesn't have a family. So she cooks for his whole family for Thanksgiving, and she's taking pictures, and they're and they're happy and they're public with the relationship, and this is what you do to her, and I guess she deserved it. So when Meg pops out and that album is fire, I don't want to hear shit. Because when she's back to saying love, men, who cares if they feel, who cares if they suffer in silence, let them keep suffering. I'm a savage, I don't love love, I'm not a lover girl anymore, I'm a hateful ass ho. Y'all are gonna be mad. You guys are gonna be like, no, what happened to the traditional women? What do you mean you don't want to marry that and come into that? No, what are you guys doing? It's all feminism. It's feminism. Kiss my ass until next time. I will call her.