Marriage Material - Is Putting Yourself FRIST in a marriage Dangerous

What Do You Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Support Your Vision?  At what point does “self-care” turn into self-centeredness—and how do you navigate a marriage when your partner’s priorities no longer align with the vision you’re building?  In this episode, we tackle the uncomfortable but necessary conversation around support, sacrifice, and shared direction in marriage. We explore what it really means when one partner puts themselves first—and how that choice impacts trust, leadership, and long-term unity.  We discuss:         •        The difference between healthy self-care and harmful self-focus         •        What it feels like when your vision isn’t supported by your spouse         •        How to communicate vision without control or resentment         •        When support looks like patience—and when it looks like confrontation         •        How couples realign when growth speeds are different  This isn’t about blaming women or excusing men. It’s about understanding roles, expectations, and responsibility when two people are supposed to be building together.