CockTales and Girl Talk season 1 Ep1

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SPEAKER_02 0:22

I'm just a D girl from Round Away with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, KD. And it's your girl, Lady Blade, Lady Blaze. So we are bringing to you all cocktails and girl talk. Yes. That's what we're doing. That's what we're doing. That's what we're doing. So give you a little backstory about us. We are sisters. Same mom, same dad, same parents. That's crazy. Yeah, you know, sometimes you gotta specify. Yeah, like we're not playing sisters, like we're literally blood sisters. Literally, same oh my god. Same thief, same thing. So we so we really just welcoming y'all into our shenanigans. We have we have sister shenanigans, so we say, you know what? We should bring the people into our sister shenanigans. Yes, the people need to know, yes, what we be saying, thinking, and doing for sure, for sure. So this is episode one. Um, we will later on we'll have like social media for you all to follow, send questions to things like that. But just to kick it off, let's just have let's have some girl talk.

SPEAKER_01 1:18

Yes, let's get it.

SPEAKER_02 1:20

So we had a saying have it done before I get there. What does that mean, sis? Who um so I've surveyed this question across the board, and it can mean of a plethora of things, right? Petra. Yes, wide range. So I'm gonna just start it with what that what that means for me in a sense of like dating and relationships, sometimes even friendships. Have it done when you get here. When you have it done when you get here. The insecurities, right? Like them deeply rooted issues, mommy issues, yo, mommy issues that I can't fix. You know what I'm saying? Abandonment issues. What else? What else can go into that? Just having having your deeply rooted internal issues worked out before you get here. Because don't come over here projecting and bringing your bad energy or whatever. It may not even be bad energy, it just may be unhealed energy, right? Have all that worked out before you get here, right? So for me, I agree. I'm not very much in a dating world. As if you listen to our other podcasts, you know, I've been hooked for a long time. But as far as friendships, I agree with that. Like, even like you say, even with friendships, like the insecurity, like, yeah, don't come over here with your bad baggage from your old friendship. Yeah, because that don't got nothing to do with me. Yeah, you know that traumas don't got nothing to do with the kid, you know what I'm saying? But also have like your what's that? Like, I'm I'm too good for this attitude. Keep that over, yeah. You know, it's okay to outgrow things, but don't come over here with oh, I don't do that. Like, yeah, like almost like a judgmental thing. Like, come on now. We listen and we don't judge, huh? Yeah, we could cuss. Sorry, y'all. Sorry, y'all. It's my it's my first road, y'all. Y'all be patient, girl. I be cussing, not a lot. No, I do, I do, I do cuss a lot, but yeah, but like even in relationships, like just because your baby mama cheated on you, and now your your baby got 17 daddies, that don't got nothing to do with me at all. Cause what we got, we got one daddy, so don't come over here trying to go through my phone, yeah, trying to track me down. Don't don't do that, you know what I'm saying? Have all that done before you get here. Come come to me as a whole person, yes. He'll heal, I'm not Dr. Phil at all. Um what's that lady's name? Ayana. I can't do that. I'm not Ayanna. No, actually, so yes, Ayana. If you listen, I got a life. Yeah, so that's that's that's major though, especially if you're dating, yes, right? So if you like, oh my ex-girlfriend was a gold digger and all that, but I don't that don't that don't got nothing to do with me at all. My ex-nigger was a drug dealer. Do you sell drugs? Is that okay? So we can't. I mean, even and even if it's this, even if that answer was yes, it's still no two people should are the same, right? That's what I'm saying. Because you don't want me bringing my insecurity to you, exactly. So don't bring yours to me. If I can't bring my and not even if I can or if I can't, I've learned over the years the trauma is nothing but a weight, right? So you're bringing your trauma on me, I'm bringing my trauma on you. Now we got this huge toxic situation. Yeah, and come on now, we pushing 40. You know what I'm saying? I I'm past 40. Wait, okay. I'm knocking a little bit, I'm knocking right at the end. You're knocking at the door, I'm already in a dough. So I don't I don't have the space or the capacity, you know what I'm saying? Especially coming out of my previous situation, you know what I'm saying, where I was married for seven years and I really uh dealt with a lot of unhealed trauma and unhealed things, and that's what kind of geared me to change my mindset. Because after dealing with that for so long, and you kind of see, damn, some people don't do the work. You know, that's a real eye-opener where sometimes you're thinking, like, oh, if you're of age or if you're uh of this experience, that it's just you're just supposed to evolve. And like, no, the want really has to be there, and like I really feel like you gotta really lose some good shit sometimes, yeah. So realize, like, damn, I can't do that. That's gonna fuck up the game. So you'll be next, you be, I don't mind you being better for the next chick. Oh no, please, please, because you ain't the one for me, exactly. So maybe you could be the one for her, you know. And we gotta be careful with trauma bonding too, right? Because especially when you both grew up with like like maybe like a mom addicted. Like I talk, I talk about mom on the other podcast. I'm very candid with people, you know what I'm saying? So growing up with a mother that had addiction, sometimes when you link up with somebody, you don't even realize that y'all really bonding over having moms with addictions, right? So when you heal and get over that hump of her addiction, don't got nothing to do with me. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? We went through what we went through, but we it's not a response, we're gonna get past it and we're gonna make sure our kids don't gotta go through it. But then once you heal from that, but the person who you with don't heal from that, now you like come on, like you said, we knocking on 40. We password, we can't keep saying I'm doing this because my mom did this or cause my dad did this. Like, when do we stop blaming and become accountable?

SPEAKER_01 6:28

Right, that's what it is.

SPEAKER_02 6:30

Because we we we older, yeah, so we still lashing out because our mom had an addiction when we was kids. Okay, we ain't even lived under her house for shit 30 years for me, you know what I'm saying? So it's hard to oh yeah, I'm like that because of my mama. That may have worked from like 17 to like 25. Because it was right, yeah, but then you had to make the decision am I gonna keep reverting back to this or am I gonna get my shit together?

SPEAKER_05 7:00

Exactly, exactly, exactly.

SPEAKER_02 7:01

But that also I think uh makes a wedge because while I'm getting my shit together, you you comfortable in the discomfort, yeah, and I'm not. No, I want to be better. Like, dog, we got kids looking at us, so we just gonna be fighting and acting a fool in front of them forever. Yeah, oh no, that's no, yeah, no, it's a no for me, boss. Yeah, a hard no, hard pass, a hard pass on that. So that's one of them ones you need to come. Have a sorted out. Yeah, have that shit sorted out before you get here, before you get here, and you know what? I I really want to touch on it, have it worked out before you get here, uh, like where you want to go in life, right? Like, we are all at that point where we should know or we should have a pretty good idea of like which direction we're going. Because again, we're not 21, 22 years old, you know what I'm saying? Not anymore. And though even then, you know what I'm saying, you should still that's still a good age to have a good idea of which trajectory you're wanting you wanted to go in. But I just feel like in my age group, when I'm gonna just say we're gonna do 30 between 30 and 40, okay. All right, between them years, that is definitely um, you should be stepping into who you are and blossoming into that. And if we're 34, 35, 36 years old and you don't have any concrete paths made out for yourself. What are you doing? What are you doing? What the f are you doing? Like, see seriously, what are we doing? And what is your goal? Like, what's your end goal? Are you just gonna be thugging it forever? Like, that ain't that's not a plan. I was listening to I think it's pretty Braya new song that she got What Side of Baby Argue, argue, yeah. So she got a line in there to Pretty Braya, period. Detroit's finest. There's a line in that song where she said you'll rather hustle and be broke than get hired. So instead of getting a job, you just want to beg and borrow forever. That's crazy. I can't, I just feel like we got too much hustle in our blood to be with somebody who don't got you, don't got no hustle, not it, not a little bit. Dog, you don't want to go so so your girl can out hustle you. No, I can't imagine. Shout out to Big Tay, DTM, whatever y'all call them, because dog gonna get it done every time, every time every time, dog gonna get it done. So I couldn't even imagine if me and him weren't together anymore and I started dating somebody else. I couldn't imagine being with a nigga with no hustle. Standards gonna be crazy, like no hustle. So, so what you do all day while I'm at work? Because I'm gonna work. I gotta go to work. I'm gonna go to work. I'm gonna make sure we straight. But while I'm working, what are you doing? What you doing? Heavy on it, heavy on the what you're doing. So you played the game. I did 12 hours and you played the game all day. Oh no, that's not gonna work. This is not gonna work. OFM. So you don't gotta get on the prophylactic and you and yeah, I'm gonna have to have a shaving kit and go to the holiday. The prophylactic. The prophylactic ain't the condoms ain't that a prophylactic. What's a prophylactic? I think it's a condom, right? I don't think it's condoms. I think it's something else. I'll look it up. Okay, Sissy said, take your condoms and your shaving kit and get out, get everything, get all your shit and get out. Because what are we doing? What are we doing? You need a drive, yeah. That's that's for sure. And then okay, let's let's dive into this. Could we see ourselves with a person who did not take care of their kids on purpose? Well, no. So on purpose, I was about to say, so let's get deeper into the kids. So on purpose means no on purpose means that it ain't that they don't want to take care of their kids, it's that they got, you know, the woman and they the baby mama, like, oh, you're not with me, you can't see your kids. I ain't talking about them guys, that's out of their control. Okay. I'm talking about the guys who don't take care of their kids on purpose. Or girls. Yeah. Because there's some dead bee mamas out there too, right? You know what? I'm learning it's uh probably a couple more Debbie moms in there or dads. They're trying to service to the top. It's like shit getting flipped, right? No, yeah, heavy. But it's like as women with children, like you like like now you're starting to date, you're starting to, you know, get back into the dating world after almost 10 years out the game, that's a long time.

SPEAKER_05 11:14

Oh, yeah, it is.

SPEAKER_02 11:15

So you meet a guy, you digging a guy, you find out he got kids, he just don't rock with. Because he don't want to. Yeah. Because when I left that relationship, I left them kids too. Yeah, could you see yourself condone, not allowing it or condoning it? Like, I mean, of course not. That ain't got nothing to do with me. No, yeah, never one of them. I'm never one of them because I feel like uh we we represent each other, right? So if we out here we rocking and you taking care of my crew, but not your own, it's a problem. Ain't that crazy? It's a problem because you're going to over here, you know what I'm saying? Because it comes with the territory, what you thought this was, you know what I'm saying? Type of thing. But no, you know what? And I even so I'll put it like this let's let's say, let's say we're cool, you know what I'm saying? Let's say we're so cool that I don't want your personal decisions to affect what we have going on. But in my brain, I gotta bookmark that, right? You don't take care of your responsibilities, so no matter what the hell we do together, I know that it's a possibility. You're gonna leave me in the wind no matter what it is, because that's somebody who you owe life to. You know what I'm saying? So will we ever get serious? Like, you're probably not gonna be my husband, you're not gonna be my husband, you know what I'm saying? Like, you're not gonna be anything serious. But if it was like a flyby good time type of thing, what you what you I mean, that's different though. But yeah, yeah, we ain't building nothing. We're not building nothing. You just you just a UWAP right now. That's it. Because if I'm being honest, I can't even be friends when motherfuckers don't take care of their kids. And see, even on a friend level, that's different from like you know what I'm saying. If we if we if I see you on Friday and I Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and then we go back to our lives and you doing, you know, if you're not gonna be able to see that's still different though, because that's just a situation ship, right? Yeah, it's it's not really any expectations or standards for a situation ship, right? Because we just dangling, we do what we do, and then we go and we go our separate ways. That's different, yeah. I mean like a relationship or a friendship. Like, even if I had a homegirl, because I had a homegirl that didn't take care of her kids, I don't get it. Yeah, I don't get it. Like when you a mom in real life, I don't get how you walk away from your kids. My oldest son about to be 25 years old, he could call me for whatever, yeah. And if he if I got it, he knows he got it for sure, or I'm gonna figure out how to get it, yeah. Because that's my son. I made him, yeah. You know what I'm saying? So for you know what I'm saying? If we hanging out all the time, and I'm like, damn, you don't never got even to the damn, we got the kids' birthday party, you don't got your kids. Like you showing up at the birthday party, no kids with a bottle, ready to be. This is insane, yeah. So on that level, absolutely not, especially with my female friends. And I've had I've had female friends who just were not good mothers, and that kind of spills over, right? So, like your behavior now is of one who don't take care of their kids, exactly. You don't got no responsibilities, you absolutely are not taking accountability for anything, so that's you're pouring that off into your behavior. So now what we linking up, and I got my kids, and you you drunk, or you know what I'm saying? You're out of a state of being an appropriate state of being around a child or whatever, so yeah, it definitely strains, it puts strains on friendships for sure. So, yeah, I would that like I said, that's a hard enough for me, yeah. Cause so we are we don't never do play dates at the park, we always go to the bar, girl. We got kids. I mean, that's cool for nighttime. That's what I'm looking listening because we turn up, okay. That's that I ain't saying that because we do the mommy thing and then we do the grown-up thing for sure. Definitely gotta be separate because of course we're not taking the kids to the bar, right? That's dumb, we're gonna drop them off. But what? Unless they got a grill, unless they got a grill. You don't have a microphone, sir. It's my nephew in the background. Shut up. This is cocktails and girl talk, not nephew. We we have a segment where we need uh male uh opinion, so we're gonna have y'all step in, but yeah, I don't know. I just couldn't, I don't know. It couldn't be me. You can't be in my circle, you don't rock with your kids. Because how can I trust you with me and you can't be trusted with the life you created, and that's exactly how I feel. That's exactly how I feel. How can how can I trust you with my well-being if you created a person, you don't give a damn about their well-being? You made that. I'm just you just gonna leave it out here to suffer or whatever, whatever, you know what I'm saying? Because not all absent parents are missed, you know what I'm saying? That's true. So you might have a situation where a person is absent on purpose because they know that they don't add a greater value. See, that's different though. Like if you if you're not there because you're trying to get your shit together, yeah, that's different. Yeah, because I'm I'm I 100% believe we shouldn't expose our children to things they shouldn't have to be exposed to, right? So if you're not there because you're getting your shit together, that's different. Yeah, but if you're not there simply because you think you're finna miss something outside. Oh, yeah, no, you gotta go. You gotta go. You drunk every day. So so first of all, we had Chuck E. Cheese. What are you doing with the with I mean, we go outside and do little shots too, but but we don't, you know what I'm saying? That's a limit. You just gotta be responsible, yeah, and I think it's even levels to that. Like my mind brain kicks on, and even if whatever I'm enjoying the spirit or whatever, I'm not like chugging the bike, you know what I'm saying? That's why we're going over by doing a little shot. Listen, Katie don't like kids for real. I got a lot of them, but I don't like them. So when we go to places like Chuggy's the fucking kid, dog, them kids get on my nerves so bad. Big Blaze Latin kids, she does listen. I'm not gonna Blaze is the auntie that takes all the no, they all can spend a night. I'm like all of them, yeah. I'm most of them is ours anyway, but I'm just saying five for me, four for you. First of all, between the two of us, we have ten kids. Okay, so so but four out of five of mine is grown. Blaze got kids, and my nephews will still come over and we'll still have slumber parties. They never cared about it. No, for real, but I think it's different. Like, if you take all five of my kids, two of them 25, one of them 22, one of them 18, and one 11. Even though the 11-year-old he likes 12 kids in one, yeah, but yeah, him and his twin, like you him and him and Layla. So, okay, we have children who are 11 days apart. They're 12 days apart, they're 12, 12 days apart. Sorry, y'all. 12 days apart. Um, but Taz was born on the first, Lei was born on the 13th, and yeah, we call them twins, yeah, and they are like their 10 kids together, and then they have a little cousin, Dash, who is a year younger than them, so they're really like triplets for real. And yeah, seeing them together at the birthday party. Shout out to Lady Blaze, threw my niece a bomb ass party for the sweet 16 turn up. I'm so glad that shit is over. That shit was so good, I loved it. But to see them three together is hilarious. So when Taz and Lei were little, they had like their own language. Like, I got videos on my phone, yeah, where they just I don't they kicking it though. They laughing hard though. Like, insert clip here. We're gonna insert a clip. I don't see if DTM could put it in there because they literally like are giggling, laughing, smacking their legs. I'm like, dog, what the fuck are they saying? And they wasn't, they was little, they was like maybe one between one and two, yeah, yeah. Because they both still had diapers on, so between one and two, they both of them knew how to talk, so it wasn't just like baby talk, like mumbling, they literally had their own language, yes, and they still kind of do, but it's coming into like teenage because they both about to be 12 this year, yeah. So it's coming to like teenage, so they got like looks and like signals that only them two know what's going on, like actual twins. Bro, Dash was like, What are they talking about? I was like, I don't fucking know, you don't know what they talk about. He's like, No, and I don't like it because they're leaving me out. Dash is like, I said, bro, but I remember DJ and Kiro was like third because they just they are four weeks apart, yeah. To the day, like they're literally both was born on Fridays, so them two got the same like connection, yeah. That's what it is, like the connection, yeah, yeah, yeah. This shit is wild, bro. It is, it is. I've always thought that you and I had a crazy connection, but to see them actually like foster a real connection in it, yeah, it's crazy. It is like bro, I want it's like they're real twins. I want a secret language, right? Me and Lady Blaze do got a secret language, though. It's called I knock all this shit over. Okay, don't piss me off. So look, while we on the subject about decisions, right? If you and meeting people, you know, stepping into the dating world again, okay. Does how someone's previous relationship ended affect how you would deal with them? So this question is so funny to me because I actually have two different point of views. Okay, so let's say it ended super public, right? And it got super, super out there, and y'all were like embarrassing each other and like exposing skeletons and mishandling each other, you know what I'm saying? When loyalty should be at the at its pit, it's it's not, you know what I'm saying? So I feel like if I seen you, and let's say we already know each other, whatever, if I see you online dogging the girl that you were just with, thinking you're about to come holler at me, you got me fucked up. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. And you could be a great guy, but not having that boundary and not having that respect and not being able to have that emotional intelligence to self-control, that that really stops, heart stops. Because at the at the end of the day, that's like sassiness, right? Or now I know guys hate that we're sassiness so much now, but it is though, and it's like misguided masculine energy, and but it's not though, it's feminine energy, yeah, yeah, yeah. To get on social media, first of all, the world of social media is so fucking mind-boggling, and I'm telling you the honest to God truth, I'm so glad that we grew up in an era where social media really wasn't a thing. Because it would have been bad, right? But we had the best time like without our phones, yeah. So I do notice now a lot when I'm hanging out, we're having such a good time. I forget to take pictures. I forgot to take pictures yesterday.

unknown 21:45

Crazy.

SPEAKER_02 21:46

I know, like, I seen like BFF took some pictures, yeah, yeah. And I got a couple, I know DTM took pictures because he just that's just what he does. Yeah, but we was having so much fun. So in the moment, I said, damn, I ain't getting no pictures of. Like, that's why I'm like, Can you send me some pictures? I didn't get none. To piggyback on that, it was like a tether was released for me because I gave the kids my phone. They have my phone plugged up to the blue. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I just gave them my phone and I didn't even want it back. Because when I touched his phone, it's like that's when the world gets access to me and gets to bother me and interrupt me and just bring the bull crap into my world. So yeah, it's like a tether. You sometimes just have to disconnect and be like, no, let it die, whatever, right? Whatever. Oh, don't let it die, and we all together. I'm never putting this thing on the trial. We all here. What do I need to put on the charger? To re lose it. Like, where's my phone? Damn, it's dead. All right. Well, we'll figure it out. But I do feel like in the world of social media, for a man to get on social media and bash his girl, ex whatever, is it's telling to the character. It's disturbing. Yeah, yeah. It's disturbing. It's very telling to his character. And I personally I can't have that. I can't have sketchy character around me. You know what I'm saying? Like I'm pushing a brand forward where I only the solid is it. Right. And you know what I'm saying? And I'm really trying to embody that. And if I'm gonna embody that persona, I have to make sure that I'm pushing that out. And no, no. Now let's say, let's say, you know, couple or ex-couple, they went and broke up, and and let's say he cheated on her. You know what I'm saying? I do, I believe people make mistakes, right? Like, and those sometimes can be mistakes that we make that we truly regret and that we learn from, you know what I'm saying? And not even to say that the the internet situation can't be a situation you learn from. And that and that's not to say that the cheating is not a character flaw, right? You know what I'm saying? Innocence, but and disrespectful and all those same, all those same things, right? But what I'm saying is sometimes the situation can get so intense, you know what I'm saying? Or sometimes we do get distracted, right? Like we're all human beings, and the sexual uh beast inside of everybody, it comes out differently. You know what I'm saying? Some people are hypersexual, some people are good with or without it, you know what I'm saying? So I just feel like you know, when we make actual human mistakes that you need grace to navigate through, I do feel like all right, as long as you've addressed it, as long as as long as you've taken the time to like try to identify what really had you out here like that for real, right? No matter, you know what I'm saying, what it was, as long as you're making a conscious effort to be better. I might, you know what I'm saying? Of course, I'm always notated, right? Because that's I'm just that type of person, right? I if I see some whole shit going on, I'm gonna be like, damn, that's you're capable, you're capable of doing it. Yeah, some whole shit. Damn. I think for me, it depends on who they cheated with. Okay, because like you said, you're so big on loyalty, yeah. Like I feel like if you messed around with like your brother's wife or like your best friends, for real. Like, no, yeah, like if we we kicking it, like, oh, how your relationship in whatever, whatever, you like, yeah, I got my husband, my uh, my brother wife pregnant. Say what you did, what now? Yeah, you say your brother's wife, yeah, like your like your brother, even your homies' girl. I was gonna say, anybody who's in your close parameter, like yeah, siblings, friends, cousins, like somebody who you consider to be a number one factor in your life, because if you betray them, you betray anybody. Who am I? The next one on the list. That's what I'm saying. The next one on the hit list. So I I do feel like that matters. I feel like if your if if what you did to end your relationship was like huge a loyalty violation, yeah, I'm good. Yeah, yeah. I'm good, yeah, because that's crazy. Yeah, that's a character flaw. That's yeah, like so. Nobody off limits to you. That type of thing, you know what I'm saying? So, what is sacred? What do you consider sacred if not your homeboy's girl or your brother's baby mama or a wife? Or when where do you be like, oh damn, no, I can't do that. Yeah, because if you don't have that, then you're capable of anything. So ain't no got code. Like, you just you just out here just and I thought it was a bro code, like I thought that guys really stood, and we got oh, okay. Well, okay, so we we can you can jump in? You can jump in either either one. I just want to know what is the bro code, like what uh Vinny? Oh, there you go. Oh, yeah, what's the bro code? Jamie. Jamie on the one, two on the alley o what's the bro code? Like, we just want to know, like, who is off limits, like, or or if there is even truly, because we're not gonna bullshit the people, right? Like, we're we're serious. Is there a true bro code that exists? Like, is any girl off limits? Is any situation off limits? Like, what's the bro code? What's that bottom line?

SPEAKER_04 26:55

How I look at it, I feel like if oh uh uh hello, yes, yeah. We how I look at a bro code, it's more I feel loyalty's gotta be there. Like, as far as where I draw where I draw a line at is far as like brothers, cousins, best friends, but it's also a two-way street.

SPEAKER_02 27:16

I was just finna say that because we know he was in a situation where broco was violated, too. But you know what's crazy, just to just to piggyback on that. He was in a situation where broco is violated by such a close broco member, and he never fucking do that to him. He wasn't even trying to get get back, but I was like, hey, look at this bitch. I got this bitch on my face. Because listen, we was both on that, like, hey, hey, like no, but what I like about how he handled the situation was your disloyalty, don't neg don't negate my loyalty, even to you, even to you, even to you, because what you eat don't make me shit, right? So your violation is not my violation, even though I'm the one that was violated, yes, you know what I'm saying? That's a very noble, but I'm looking at you different at a bookmarket. I'm bookmarking because not now I don't know, dog. Like, I'm never bringing a bitch around you again, not one I care about in my life.

SPEAKER_04 28:10

Y'all hear me? In my life, never do it.

SPEAKER_02 28:14

I just feel I don't um it just and then it's like sometimes you gotta be Switzerland, right? Because both people are have a title, right? Yeah, so you gotta be Switzerland, you can't be on either side, but right is right and wrong is wrong, yeah. And my guy, that so I got something so juicy, and I don't know if I want to say it. We can say it, we just can't say names. No, no, no, it's me. It's actually oh shit. So you can't say names, it's me. I'm not throwing nobody under the bus. I'm owning my shit and I'm sharing it with the people. Okay, so the next person we're gonna listen to whose opinion matters here is Vinny. And I want to know Vinny's opinion on this because we actually have a situation where I could have kind of made him violate broco. Oh, yeah. He likes what you're like telling people, you always tell people that we're gonna talk about that. No hearing, you know why we are. You know what? Because we hot, humble, open, and transparent. You hear me? I own all my shit. Okay, okay, okay. So you want me to tell the story first or you want to get your opinion?

SPEAKER_01 29:22

Well, he don't know what you talk about.

SPEAKER_02 29:24

Oh, he know. He just don't know if I'm gonna go there, but I am oh shit. So go ahead. Okay, all right, all right, all right. So we got a mutual friend who I've known since I was a young, young teenager, right? Oh man, we don't need a shot behind that. Damn, but listen, and this is so crazy because God put people in our life, the bottle right there. Oh your Gatorade right there, too. Oh, that's your Gatorade?

unknown 29:53

Yes, man.

SPEAKER_01 29:54

Oh, sorry.

SPEAKER_02 29:54

Yes, yes. Let me get out of my business. Go ahead, sister. Okay, so uh we we have a mutual person who we know that I knew when I was a very, very young teenager when skating was popping and LP days to Southwest Detroit, all my comrades down there. So, anyways, we me and the friend, me and me and person B, we met, had fun, but we were kids, we were literally kids, right? And he was not a good influence in my life. He kind of was one of those people who was a part of my life when like I got bad, or like when I started experimenting with like things, life, real life shit. So years and we stopped kicking it. This was oh five oh six. We stopped kicking it back then. We kids, right? So, but we link back up as adults, not on no romantic shit, just on some come come hang out with me, you know what I'm saying? So we're all hanging out. Well, Vinny is one of the people that we're hanging out with. Oh, instant connection, instant fucking connection. That's crazy. That escalated quickly so quickly, right? Okay, and for a little bit more of a pretext with this story, the guy actually was intimate with one of my best friends after we hung out as kids. So if there was anything, it's gone because he done smashed my homie, right? And I I cared back in the day because I was 16, but as we grew older, I'm like, shit, we was everybody fucking everybody. You know what I'm saying? Like it just happens, especially in the teenage groups like that. Whatever, right? Whatever, whatever the details are, we'll we'll let we'll let the streets have it. So when we like I said, when we link back up as adults, I I know you smash girl, you know what I'm saying? I don't care. My sister keeps them ain't shit friends, don't she? So listen, listen, y'all. Listen, y'all. My bad. I digress. I'm a I'm a prophet, okay. And I need all the uh Jacobs and Judas to come to me so I can help them get this shit together. But neither here or there, right? So we push them forward. Me and Vinny, instant connection. We locked in. So let's say following weekend comes. Uh friend B ain't in the equation no more. It's me, it's me and Vinny. We like, well, shit, let's let's link, let's whatever. And it just it skyrocketed from there, and now it's crazy because I feel like I got a loyalty to him because I can't go back and chill with Fran B. So is is Fran B your friend or just somebody you know?

SPEAKER_03 32:32

He was like a younger childhood friend.

SPEAKER_02 32:34

You guys talking to Mike.

SPEAKER_03 32:35

So he was like a younger childhood friend, like when he's like 15. I don't know.

SPEAKER_02 32:39

We was like 13, 14, 15. So is this a friend that you've been friends with since that time, or are you just for you, not for you, or is just somebody who you bump into and then we all bump into and we hang. So that ain't like your boy, though.

SPEAKER_03 32:50

That ain't like your like your right-hand manage, and we just got cool, like right.

SPEAKER_02 32:55

Well, but is it what I'm asking is like, is has the friendship lasted all these years?

SPEAKER_03 33:00

I mean, like when we see each other and shit, you know. So I think they're just associates, I think that's what you're saying. Associates, associates, they're just somebody you know, that ain't your man's respond to our answer too.

SPEAKER_02 33:10

So so that but that ain't your man's like that. Ain't like we having a barbecue, make sure such and such come. Okay, no, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, but that's I don't I don't think that's a violation. That might be, I don't know. But I don't think it is because I mean, we know people, right? And that people get connected in the craziest way. I can't I can't not rock with somebody because you know somebody that I know now. If you my man's, you know what I'm saying? Like anybody my sister ever fuck with off limits to me. Off top, even you know, we do got an age gap, but sometimes she date older guys, right? But them niggas off off limits to me and my and my dogs, though. Right, because my my homegirls can't come with no none of my sister's old work. What are you doing? Yeah, no, it's all cool, you know what I'm saying? But that that's that's how I am. I know everybody ain't like that, you know what I'm saying? Because DTM done stepped out with people that I know, they ain't my friends, but I know them, yeah. You know what I'm saying? Or he done stepped out around people who was still like smiling, grinning in my face. Don't do that to me, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah. That's a that's like your loyalty is being challenged at that time, yeah. So just because you know people, if they ain't your man's, then you're not off limits to nobody unless that's your man's. Yeah, in my opinion. I don't know. I could take it. I mean, I'm not a boy. I mean not a boy. So did we ever get his drop on it? No, what's your you you never you never told our job told your job? So what what is broco? What is broco after me shit? Yeah, talking to the and then you know what we don't even have to put on on a like huge spectrum. Like you can just say the the contents of like the bro code between you and aunt's relationship, just like that's a very real you know, relationship of yours where you know you give him all that, right? Right. So just what's the broco behind that?

SPEAKER_03 34:55

I mean, shit, just don't cross that line.

SPEAKER_02 34:57

I mean, that's it, that's it.

SPEAKER_03 34:58

That's all I mean. You know it's good, you know it's bad. Know what you're doing wrong, you know what you're doing right, right? Just be silent.

SPEAKER_01 35:06

That's it. All right, man. Man of your words, I guess. That's all I love. Just be silent.

SPEAKER_03 35:11

So what you want to choose, man? Yeah, all you want to choose money.

SPEAKER_02 35:13

There's a thousand of them all talking to the mic. So listen, it is a thing that says it's seven. No, you move to the mic. Stop moving the mic. I'm putting y'all off our show. I that mean I wasn't talking to you, don't it?

SPEAKER_03 35:26

You said y'all, I gotta have it between you both of us.

SPEAKER_01 35:29

I'm about to smack him on camera. Don't smack him on camera. Okay, my bad. It's my nephew. I can smack him.

SPEAKER_02 35:35

It's not a sort, it's abuse. That's my nephew, it's nothing but smack. So, okay, so let me ask y'all if y'all was dating a chick and y'all find out the reason why her previous relationship ended because she slept with her sister, man. Do you look at her like bitch? I can't trust you. Yeah, I ain't trying to fuck with you like that.

SPEAKER_04 35:54

I wouldn't even be on a date with a girl, but you don't know though.

SPEAKER_02 35:57

But you don't know, yeah. That comes in conversation. We kicking it, and I tell you, like, yeah, I get up and leave. Damn, you're just gonna leave a date in a heartbeat.

SPEAKER_04 36:07

Why is he answering like that?

SPEAKER_02 36:09

Yes, why he sitting up like I am out and will, and will and no, like in the you don't wait till the end and just be like, this ain't gonna work out.

SPEAKER_04 36:19

If she's gonna sit here in my face and say, We yeah, me and my last dude broke up because such, such, such and such. Girl, you want me to spend money on what a date, and you out here because the value drops.

SPEAKER_02 36:34

Yeah, what are we doing? Your value drops, we could have gone to Mickey D's, like you big Mac brown nugget, peace heaven. I know you fucking laugh. It's just one of them conversations, like you know, well, what happened with your last relationship? Like, oh, you know, XYZ dog like and that and hello, mama.

SPEAKER_04 36:56

Yeah, mama wait for the kids right now.

SPEAKER_02 36:59

Neff said, you said you did what with who? All right, well, that's it for me.

SPEAKER_04 37:04

And just I gotta go sweep the floor, please leave me alone. I gotta go sweep the floor.

SPEAKER_02 37:10

I gotta go mop the ocean right now. I gotta go. Gotta go vacuum my lawn real quick. I'll call you back when I'm done mopping the ocean. Cause you did what? Okay. Now I gotta take my goldfish on the walk. Because what's another goldfish on the walk? Dog said he's leaving the date. I'm not asking him nothing. Uh-huh. So energy-wise, energy-wise, I can see where he's coming from. Because if you say something crazy to me on a date, I'm gonna shut down. I'm shutting down. I have to because what am I doing? I can't I can't feed you any more of this high, this high frequency, right? And you want some bottle. I think that'll blow me too. Like, we on a date, we just chilling. I'm sending you the 911 text to call me and say anything. I'm putting you on speaker, I'm putting you on speaker, cry. Like, cry, girl. Apollo taking Charles on the walk. Come come help me. Cry so hard. Hello, my dog. And Charles is my bearded dragon. She's gonna call me crying, and we're gonna because why is he walking up down the street on the leash? Girl, stop it. I'm on my way right now. I'm on this date, but this is so much more important. And I'm I'm coming. Girl, mama knee is in the bed. Come get her. No, wait, that was that was a good first episode, sis. That was a good first episode.

SPEAKER_05 38:31

Okay, period.

SPEAKER_02 38:32

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