EP2 What happens when Lazy men attach themselves to Hustlers S1Ep2

Sometimes it takes a minute to see the truth in some people but when it reveals itself it’s important to respond accordingly. In this episode the girls break this down so eloquently 

Transcript

SPEAKER_02 0:24

I'm just a D girl from around the way with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, Katie, and it's your girl, Lady Blade. Lady Blitz Blitz Blitz Blitz Blade. What's up? What's up? Welcome to Cocktails and Girl Talk. Yes. Where we discuss different topics because we having drinks and having girl talking, that's just what we're doing. Yeah, we just welcome you into our world. If you didn't listen to episode one, go back and listen to it. We are sisters, and this is what we do. Like we sit all day and talk shit, drinking and talking shit. So now we're just welcoming you into our talking shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I do want to say that we will be opening up the platforms to be more interactive as well. I do want to take questions. Maybe our ladies out there are like struggling with relationships, with situationships, with your kids, work, whatever. Me and your girl KD, we have literally experienced it all. All of it. We both have been married. She is still married. So we can't say, damn, I used to be. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, brother. Sorry, brother. Sorry. Don't kill us. Don't kill me. But we can just talk about everything, right? Because you know, we just have been through it all. And we we keep it real. We keep it real. We keep it super, super transparent. And that's why y'all love us so much. Exactly. So we're just gonna jump right into it. And what girl, girl, girl. So I was on Facebook just being other people's business. And I seen something that said that asked, would you be more upset to find out if your man is sleeping with someone else or paying someone else's rent? Definitely paying the rent. Because what the fuck is you doing?

unknown 2:06

What the fuck are you doing?

SPEAKER_02 2:07

Money? You give dick out. I don't since you said we could get a dick out. But you do that anyway. Money though? Money. First of all, we got five motherfucking kids. Let's talk about it. Five motherfucking grandkids. Let's talk about it, bitch. God kids. All these kids. We got all these kids. And you giving away money? Our son is a senior. We just dropped over a thousand dollars on his suit. And you giving away money? But what that bitch better had a got gark three thousand. I feel like you have an area where you'll be like, Well, bitch wasn't good. Cause money though. And then why you messing with somebody that can't pay her own rent? Not to say that she can't, but you know how guys are. You guys come through, oh baby, what you need, what you need? Let me let me do this, let me do that. Let me send a bill my way. Send me, send me your payment portal, login. What that will be grounds for divorce. Type shit. Oh god. Type shit. Okay, talk about it. 20 years down or two. Because what do you mean you're paying bills? Okay. Somewhere else. And is it an amount? That's enough bills. A dollar. But even when they're fucking, they're still, or just fucking, even when they're quote unquote just doing the physical realm of it, they're still coming out of money, but you pay gas to get there. I pray to God you are a condom. I'm sure you courted her in some way. That's money spent. Don't let me find out. Bitch, he came, he hit, he left. Okay. No money spent. I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_03 3:45

Okay. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 3:46

I mean, I get what you're saying, like gas and all that. But rent though, in 2026, rent like $2,000. Girl, and is. So what the fuck? And the fuck is I'm pay it every month. Yeah, no, we're not doing that. And guess what? You get that text to send me your portal. Ain't no more $500 rent. Ain't no more $275, whatever. No.

SPEAKER_03 4:07

Hell no.

SPEAKER_02 4:08

Rent is like $1,000 or higher. Yeah. Hell shit. The mortgage is that. So you said you paid a bill. No, no, no. But you better pay her metro bill, cricket or something. Shit, that shit like $75, $90. Is it? I thought it was $50. I mean, I don't got it, but I'm pretty sure Metro is like $90 now for the unlimited. Just so y'all know, Lady Blade's got like Verizon or some crazy shit. And my bill is $150. Um, I have my ATT, which is still good. I mean, even though you gotta think about it, like all our boys are we still pay their phone bills. Yeah. Except G. He he pays his own phone bill. Okay. But we pay their phone bills. Yeah. So where do you get where do you have money to pay somebody's rent? So where is the extra funds coming? And we got a joint bank account. So did we pay the bitch rent? Oh. Nah, I'm really bank accounts. So do you watch your statements? Um so I have such a distrust. But if $500 just randomly come out my fucking, right? Like, where the fuck is that? First of all, my bank don't play. I'm gonna get an alert. She said, I got this text message here. I'm like, what's the first transfer to? It don't say where or why. You just took it out of the main account and put it on your phone. That's insane. Or if he because we we got a joint account, but we also still got our separate accounts, right? Okay, but the majority of the money is in the joint account. So if you get the moving shit, we didn't talk what why did you just move a thousand dollars into your account? I needed it for something. Oh, yeah, no, I had a prior, I had a previous commitment that I had to take care of. That don't come out of this account, my nigga. You better take that shit up.

SPEAKER_04 5:52

You better be out there.

SPEAKER_02 5:53

You better go, listen. You better go on your what's it, you know, like the app where you say like 40% of your check go here, 60% of your type shit, right? You better go change them percentages and let that shit go on your account. Don't move nothing out of this account. Okay, so I want to go a little deeper into that because like we're so very hard-working people, right? Right. So we notice things, we notice, but do you feel like if maybe you guys were let's say in a more comfortable area where you're in like the M's, where you're chilling in the M's, where you're not gonna notice, but it could be anything. But the thing is, the more money I feel like the more money you got, the more the more you pay attention. Okay, because when I was broke, broke, I don't fucking I never paid attention because it's gonna go anyway. If you swipe this bitch and it worked, now it's a couple dollars in there. I'm watching, yeah. And especially because you we got so much shit we gotta pay for. We got a cruise coming up, we got like when you got stuff coming up, you extra paying attention. Yeah, yeah, yeah because you want to make sure that you're not dropping below whatever whatever baseline you set, yeah. You making sure you're not dropping below that, right? I know we do. We make sure that that baseline we said this account can't go past that, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 7:16

It's not, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 7:16

And that means if it got to wait or whatever, it gotta wait. Yeah, because this is like emergency shit, right? Yeah, so if it dropped below that, I'm like, hey, what you want? What's the problem? What happened? Yeah, this don't this ain't looking right, you know what I'm saying? So uh yeah, I can't I can't do the rent, I can't do the rent. DTE too fucking much. Oh my god, yeah. Say rent slash DTE. Don't let me find out you're paying either. You're gonna have to go. No, I mean you get a bitch a full tank of gas, maybe not now. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, like a month. Bro, it used to cost me $30 to fill my. I got a little ass compass. It used to cost me like $30, maybe $40, maybe, bro. The other day I filled my take up $65. I said, what the fuck? And I still drive a caravan. Bitch, I don't got a V8. I got a V6 and it still costs me $75. That's crazy. That's crazy. We're living in some and I feel like the gas is evaporating, like it costs more. And it's what no, I seen that on Facebook. That was like, they're giving us fake gas. They're giving us fake gas, it costs more and it burns faster. Listen, they got that gas off Sheen. Give me this Timu gas. Don't give me this T Mu gas. Yeah, but yeah, rent. I can't. So yeah, I think I'm in the same boat. I think that dudes are so sketchy. Oh my god. Um, y'all, y'all fucking niggas is fucking insane. It just is what it is. Yeah, they go in, and sometimes you meet a guy who he'll he'll go and he'll do the the body the body experience or whatever, but won't touch his pocket. That's my guy. You go knock these hoes off and come back with your money or with something that she bought. Don't be no, don't be that guy where you're the trick of the week, and you know what I'm saying? Every girl is tapping them pockets because then no, yeah, no, what we're doing. So yeah, I definitely I I agree with Katie in that aspect. You gotta go. If you unless, unless I'm gonna play devil's advocate, right? Because uh now if it's our girlfriend, that's different, right? Even if I am our girlfriend, okay. But I'm just saying, like, if it's if this something that we agreed on that is okay, that's different. Yeah, I'm just talking about a bitch. You just sliding with. Yeah, even in that, so if I am the bitch who is just being slid with and you got other bitches that you're sliding with, do you as long as you make sure my shit's taken care of? Because so you you're giving us like very married, very decor decorum. I got we we got a way that we gotta be, right? I'm out here. I'm I'm out here in these Detroit streets, baby. And yeah, if you're paying my rent and I know you're paying uh Sarah's rent too, I don't care. But as long as my shit gets paid, so I think that's different because you're talking about you paying my rent, you paying Sarah's rent. We don't got money together, right? Right, right, right, right, right, right. But even if you still my dude, but I'm saying it's different. Like if you got your own money and I got my own money and we keeping money separate, right? Then I feel like you feel, yeah. Do what you're gonna do, just make sure home straight. Yeah, but if we if our money is commingling, yeah, yeah, yeah. Don't take our money to go take care of your bitch. That we're not doing that. I feel like that is reaching a new level of maturity. I was married for seven years, you know. I I mentioned before, I'm no longer married now. And I for those seven years, we probably put our money together, we probably put our money together all of I'd say six months. Yeah, but sister, you had all the money exactly, and but you ain't putting nothing in it, you just keep taking out of it. I'm gonna need I'm gonna need that debit card back. I'm not, I'm not no sugar mama, bro. Let me tell you, let me tell y'all how cutthroat my little sister, y'all. Yeah, it just be me out here, okay. Dog one day, the ex he I think he said, like, I need some weed or something. She said, Bro, you like a six fucking kid. You always need something. Get the fuck out of my face at my house, dog. Wherever we were barbecue. Listen, piss me off, and you gonna hear about it. Dog, when I tell you everybody got to like I know y'all can see my face. We was we started wiping down the walls and shit. We felt like we was I don't even smoke. If I did I could buy my own weed, she like, you know what? I'm about to roll up. I said I'm asking that girl for shit. Well, here I go though, like, hey dog, how much the weed cost? I I you know I cash at it to you or something because dog was just standard, like you know how you tell your kid no when they when they know they're getting something. No, get your ass out. Then I'm laughing at myself though, because I went in the straight auntie mode, like, bro, you don't gotta ask her for nothing. What you want? You want her kids come in next year, and that's why that's why shout out to him, shout out to him. But I'm just saying, like, the way you used to snap, like I mean, just think about the things that I had to endure. Uh, we're not even gonna talk about the deep, deep, deep shit, right? We're just gonna talk about the surface, surface level shit, yeah. But you know what? I do feel like when you develop a distaste for someone's spouse or significant other, whatever, it'd be because when I see you without them, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, this my nigga, yeah, you know what I'm saying? We never could have did this if y'all was still together.

SPEAKER_03 12:49

No, hell no.

SPEAKER_02 12:50

For one, dog would have been sitting on the table because what like this in my face, because what are you about to say, babe? I just need some, you know what I'm saying? So, but to see how much you can elevate, yeah, after the after the marriage, yeah, that's what makes people not like the thought of marriage, not the thought of marriage, the thought of y'all together. Oh, okay, okay, you know what I'm saying? Okay, okay, because sometimes you sit back, like, damn, why they don't like this nigga? But it's because to see you without him, yeah, you so different, skin clear, happy, chilling, laughing, playing, more money, better bitches, better. We got Vini, you know what I'm saying? Okay, you know what I'm saying. We got shit, we got you know what I'm saying, but but because we see that you lost 200 pounds, easy, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, the same thing with we're with our nephew and his his old work, yeah. To see him without her, yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like, I got my best friend back, and not only that, but you got you back, yeah, and that's what's more important. Your kids got their mama back. Oh my god, fire. I got my sister back because we be cooked having a time, okay. It was a time we couldn't even hang out because within an hour you pissed, ready to go. Yeah, I gotta go. Because if I don't, then when I do get home, it's still gonna be World War Seven for me, bro. I I on some real shit on your birthday, we was having so much fun karaoke. Because listen, Lady Blaze and KD gonna karaoke every time, okay. At home, in the car, at the we never gave a fuck. Never, we know all the words, we can't sing, and so what? Who so what? We having a good time. Dog got so mad, dog turned to radio. My husband went to sleep. My husband went to sleep because he already know when Katie and and and Blaze get together, just let them be together. Yeah, the fuck. Yeah, so he went to sleep, knocked out on the couch. Her husband didn't want to go to sleep, her ex-husband. Sorry, well, at the time he was still her husband. He didn't want to go to sleep, he wanted to be a party pooper. Yes, that nigga turned the radio off. Yeah, yeah. And then get up out of here. He got mad at me. He said, You're not ready for bed? No, snatched the baby. Listen, snatched the baby off the couch, stormed into the room, slammed the door. I said, Oh, yeah, I'm about to go. She says, You ain't gotta go. Shit. Because I built up such a wall and such a uh I used to block it out, right? Yeah, you was unfazed, yeah, yeah. Because of all the nights that I was phased crying because you didn't chase my family out the house. Bro, you looked at me like, what's wrong with you? What's wrong with we're not letting him win? I said, What's wrong with me? Ignore him, didn't you see that? You was like, Turn that motherfucker. We're gonna finish this song. No, yeah. But I'm just saying, like, to see the see the you coming back to you, yeah, that's what just make you not and I I ain't talking about dog as a person, no, I'm just talking about him as a partner, yeah, as a partner, yeah. Because from what we see, was he a partner? I mean, to put respect on it, yeah. Because sometimes, so we sometimes we all have to be able to love in different capacities. You give me 20, I have to give you 80. But I'm not talking about the financial aspect of it either. I'm talking just in a high aspect at all, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So because it changes, yeah, yeah. Because sometimes you gotta do 100. I can't do nothing. Yeah, sometimes I gotta do 100, you can't do nothing, but we always gotta be able to work together, exactly, exactly, and and and DTM say this all the time. Sometimes you're stronger in one area than the other, right? So when it comes to cooking, I tell him, and I know how to cook. He just he likes it, yeah, yeah. DTM loves when you know how to do something, and when you enjoy doing something, it brings it yields two different results, and it make it make your life go better too, right? So he does the majority of the cooking. I do the cook, the cleaning, yeah, because cleaning is what it is nostalgic for me, yeah, because it reminds me Saturdays on North Campbell, put the music on, like we don't got natural, we don't got a stereo because it's 2026 and nobody has a stereo. I got my Bluetooth, I got my Bluetooth, or I put it on the TV, right? Yeah, cleaning, mopping, singing, you know what I'm saying? So it's nostalgic for me. Yeah, so I do the cleaning, yeah. So in that way, that's how our partnership works. Yeah, but if from the outside looking in, you was given 100 in all aspects. So I would I was given I was given 100 anything that I was investing in, right? I'm gonna give a hundred percent. And I I oh I hate it. So I I'm an overcompensated lover. Like I that is one of my love language to love you beyond, you know what I'm saying? I feel like any relationship you left, you left it better than how you came. Oh, for sure. Your other baby daddy got a whole house out the deal, yeah, yeah. And and he had the willpower to purchase his mom's house and do the same flip that we did in in that house, yeah, for his mom. See, you know, because you make shit better, yeah, yeah, yeah. I am definitely. I have always so I I have this saying, y'all. Blaze comes in love. If you know to know me, I hope is to love me, but I come in love already, right? So don't think you getting with me or you're attaching yourself to me, and you got me blue, and I'm this green girl. No, baby, no, this sauce, this sauce comes like this. She be teaching me shit, y'all. No, yeah. And I'm her big sister. Yeah, I'm like, wait, what that mean? Oh shit, yeah. I come in love, and the reason why I come in love is because a lot of people have not gotten a chance to experience like true compassion, true goodness, like just someone to love you without a cost, like that genuine love because you woke up this morning. A lot of people have never experienced that. So when they meet me, and that's the way I'm coming, they be like, Fuck, you are heaven sent, you know what I'm saying? But then you'd be saying, Ben, oh shut up. It's like I just played paying attention to us, it but that has a downside to it, right? Because you get the the obsession, because obsession is not love, obsession is a bad thing. Um, so you get those things, and he became very obsessed, right? And he became very we were working out of our egos, we were possessing each other, we weren't experiencing so he doesn't say my love. That's hot right there. He was possessing it, yeah. You know what I'm saying? And you can't, he was acting funny towards the my shorts, you know what I'm saying. And I hold on, you can't think that I'ma love you more than I love my sons because you a boy. That was for your mama to do, you know what I'm saying? That was blessed. Yeah, shout out to her, RP her. I but I do think that what you said is powerful, like instead of experiencing you, he was trying to possess you, yeah. And he had a jealousy for any man, yeah, any male, my kids, who my daddy is, daddy. How you jealous of the man who made me? But my thing is the I don't know where the jealousy came from, but it's like you can't you can't even compare. Damn, compete. You can't compare, you know what I'm saying? So you gotta you gotta know your role, I guess, in a way. Yeah, yeah. You got, I mean, you you you husband, you dad to the to our two children, you son, you brother, you walk in those roles, you know what I'm saying? With your sister, you be her brother, you be the best brother you can, you know what I'm saying? With our parents, you be the best son, son-in-law you can be, and and then doing that, those relationships harvest better fruit, right? Or or good fruit or fruit, right in general, but he never, it was just me, you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, these are your family members, and I'm here with y'all because of you. He wasn't trying to branch off and build those bonds genuinely, right? You know what I'm saying? They always came after tragedy, right? We get into it, he calling you crying. Oh, well, my brother called me crying. Like, no, he only called you because of he, this is what this is the outlet for that, right? You know what I'm saying? Even with the situation with him, he called me upset, but why he can't call you to see what you were doing to see if you want to go get your hair cut, yeah. Or you know what I'm saying, calling you, see if you want a bottle of wine just to drop it off to you, just to talk some good shit to you. You know what I'm saying? You're our daughter's godmother, because that's fine, yeah. Cause that's fine, you know what I'm saying? No, fun. Oh, fun. I thought you said because that's fine. That's too, that's true, too. It's fun and fine, actually. Actually, but it's fine or fun in in those moments where he was giving opportunities to not make that to make that possession and experience, he did not, and it just it split over, you know what I'm saying? I going back to what you said, uh I would yell at him where it it was frustration, it was seven years of frustration. He's like, No, I'm sick of this shit. Bro, when I got pregnant with Juju, it was one month I couldn't pay rent. And I was like, you have to pay the rent this month. And do you know he came short and I had it, I had to put up because of course I'm gonna have to put up, but I'll let me see your initiative. And when he gave me his little twos and fews, and I had to put it with what I had, I'm like, my sister is crazy. Don't ask me for a glass of water.

unknown 22:12

Damn.

SPEAKER_02 22:12

Don't ask me for nothing else. You have to get up. If not, help me with the bills, at least pay for your own shit. Your drink, your weed, your whatever. Because I have to make my household run. I got kids. You know what I'm saying? I got kids who have needs. So we're gonna be straight. This household gonna run no matter who in it. Right. Because me and them are in it. This shit going no matter what, because we're we're in it. We're doing it. What they say, one monkey don't stop, no show at all. So you attach yourself to me because you seen them. And once the children, once our two children were born, I I identified with it, and I was like, all right, because you are good help. You're not helping financially or in no other way, but you're getting up with Juju in the middle of the night. That's true. You know what I'm saying? You're you're doing everything that I need you to do for them. You're making it so I don't have to go get a babysitter diapers and making water bottles. Hey, you know what I'm saying? Every time and cooking dinner, and cooking dinner, you know what I'm saying? So he added, it was kind of like our rules were reversed. Where I was the provider, I was the the the leader, and he was the homemaker, and he was the homemaker, which I know a couple when it works, it works, right? But it can't become a burden. No, so when it becomes a burden, that's when you like because I could put these little kids in daycare. Listen, what they say about how to be quiet. The worst thing you could show me is that I could do better without you. Yeah, a hundred days, y'all. I've been out here by myself for a hundred days. Shout out to me, and I want y'all to listen to that Morgan Wall. What's his name? Morgan Wallen.

unknown 23:41

Morgan Wallace.

SPEAKER_02 23:42

Wallace. Is it Wall? No, it's Wallen. Wallen, Morgan Wallen. That's can't say listen to that. I mean, sure I listen to that. He has a song called I Got Better, right? And in the song, he's saying, I still drink, I still get in other people's business. He said, I still insert myself when it's not my fight. I still do all these things, right? So I'm not saying that I'm better. I just got better because I no longer have the tether. Remember, we were talking about the tether, the weight. I no longer have the tether of you. So like I got better in the sense of I couldn't get myself to get up and go before I couldn't find the motivation to walk into my light. I was able to find that once you got gone. You know what I'm saying? That's deep. That's so fucking deep. That's deep. I listened to that song and I get chills and like I fight tears. And I listen to it because it draws me out of that place where like because I felt bad, right? I know you did. But remember, I used to tell you all the time, you you can't carry the burden of a grown man's future. No, right? Yeah. For one, that's not your kid. Even though you baby number six, but that's not a joke, right? I know, but but I feel like every joke got truth in it. Oh, for sure, right?

SPEAKER_03 24:58

For sure.

SPEAKER_02 24:59

So you did feel a responsibility of if I'm not with you, where you gonna go? Obligation, obligation, because you like as a wife, but as a friend, just as who you are, yeah, right? Yeah, because you ain't never listen, y'all. I done told Blaze about bitches since she was able to have friends. That bitch ain't your friend, get rid of her. That bitch ain't your friend, get rid of her. And if y'all listen to the other podcast, y'all know I be on it. Like, it's just something when somebody don't uh I did it with DTM, my kids, even myself, I can see it more now. Yeah, but when I get that feeling, I'm like, no, that she ain't for you, she for the street. Have my friend, my best friend. It takes a while, then she be like, Sissy, let me tell you what that bitch is. Okay, because it just said one thing. You do one thing to me, you're cut off. I told you, but you you have like prime example. If you if we go out, if we leave out this studio right now and it's a cat outside, what you gonna do?

SPEAKER_04 25:56

I'm gonna get it.

SPEAKER_02 25:57

Exactly. She's gonna take it home, bro. I don't give a fuck if we it by my house, her house, your house. If my sister sees a cat, she's taking it. Yes, especially, especially if it's a kitten. You think I'm about to leave a kitten out here by itself? That's a struggle. Never never, you know how they be like cat ladies, them the same. No, no, no, no, no, no. My sister got kids, she got a man, she got ex-husbands. Listen, listen, and I love cat, and she still is the cat lady. At one point, she had like seven cats. At one point, I had 14 cats. Dog in the house. I couldn't even go in there. Y'all know I got real bad asthma. Okay, so wait. I said I got I gotta go. Y'all, I can't go. Y'all, I did have these mini cats in the house, but listen, I had I had I had a litter of five who all grew up into big cats, right? Me and them, me, me and them, and then I had mama MJ. Yep, I know these niggas' names, like they my nieces, and they they were they were very good cats, they did not smell bad. I had a little cage, I had a cage for my uh my little kittens, and all the little kittens slept together, and then the mama cats, of course, they roamed around and they did their thing. No, because we was good because I'm I'm weird about smells, right? Cheers, but that's what I'm saying. Like, you the cat lady with kids, though. Yeah, but that tells what kind of like nurturer and like protector, like bro. I'm like, sissy, I can't breathe when I come over here. We got to get rid of some of them. And I did, I'll just open the window. Well, I had to find good homes, right? You did, but I was just saying, like, no, I can't breathe. Uh they're all shedding at the same time. Your house is an instant asthma attack. Soon as I walked in. Just okay, when you're on your way, I'm gonna open the windows and I'm gonna vacuum. And yeah, I'm like all the surfaces down. Yep, she did all that, right? So then uh it wasn't bothering me as much. So, but you did end up getting rid of them, but you always get them back, not them same cats, but yeah, but that's what I'm saying. That's because you're a nurturer, you're like, okay, I gotta make sure you're okay. Like, if you had a way to set dog up where he had like a house and a car, you would do that for him because that's who you are, yeah. And I feel like that's why people leech to you. Deontay told me, like, I'm sorry, DTM. I well, I already said it, but he told me, like, that's one of the things that he loved about our family is that we love unconditionally so hard. Yeah, he didn't experience that growing up, yeah. And he talked about it on both marriage material and relationship reality. How his life was always conditional, they loved him as long as so to meet us and to be around us, he like, dog, people really love you for no reason, yeah. Yeah, we love you through your bullshit. Yeah, I guarantee you, your ex-husband ain't never had nobody do that for him. No, so that's why he like he gotta he feel like he gotta stay attached to you, yeah. But your love for him can't kill you, exactly, exactly, and you know that comes with time, and that comes with you know, as a woman who does love so hard, I had to really assess the situation. What am I getting from this? And yeah, my kids have their dad, and okay, dinner's done, and things like that. But when I think of the rest of my life, that part is the rest of my life about to look like this. Hell no. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I do eventually, and like I'm a business owner. Uh you know, we're we're business owners. Shout out to Fresh Start and my baby. Let's go. Get your house clean. Okay, the fresh is on tour. The fresh is on tour. We'll be in Oregon soon. Telling you heard the podcast, you don't get no money off, but just tell you heard the podcast. So, you know what? Ha 10 off, tap in with me. Fresh start clean 365 Detrait. Tap in with me. I'll give 20 off. I just said they don't get no money off. Okay, well, now the nurturing me gonna give y'all 20 off. So I be that's why I'll be in her business. I'm like, hey, hey, why you get that person 25 off? No, well she makes my very setting. Yeah, all right. Well, give me that email. I love my people, I love my freshes. Y'all love me, I love y'all.

unknown 30:17

Damn, what we're saying.

SPEAKER_02 30:18

We was talking about being a business owner. I have certain so with being a business owner, I just have certain things like I do want to get out the field because I still do a lot of the cleanings and I'm still hands-on with everything. Right. I do want to start to have everything in a systemized way where I'm not in the field no more, right? And that's gonna allow me to do more, right? So, do I want to share this this hard-earned money, this hard-earned time that I earn to relax with a person who can't contribute to my lifestyle or appreciate it though. Fuck appreciating it. I'm just saying contribution. Contribute is definitely on the top, right? But you're not contributing or or appreciating it. Damn, if you gotta pick one, of course, contribution is what we're gonna pick. Yeah, but you ain't doing either. Yeah, you're not contributing or appreciating. What are we doing here?

unknown 31:11

What are we doing?

SPEAKER_02 31:12

What are we doing here? What are we doing here? We can do this by ourselves, yeah. And I can have so much more fun doing it, and I I have and within these hundred days, and I've been so proud of myself. Yes, within these hundred days, I have expanded my business. I have gotten a board membership. Uh I have my nonprofit and I have all my board members. Boom. Okay. I have met so many people who want to work with Fresh Star Clean. Bam. These are powerful men in the Detroit industry, uh, business or bar owners, club owners, venue owners who, you know, they need the services. And I would not have been able to open up my net if I still had that. I was very jealous, obsessed. Because why they want to do business with you? Possession holding. Because we own a business, but not even that. He's like, Well, why didn't they talk to me about it? Because you but when you have a conversation, your your tone, your, your, your demeanor, not only that, but your comprehension, right?

unknown 32:11

Oh my fucking god.

SPEAKER_02 32:13

Like, I ain't no disrespect, but I would say probably maybe uh ninth grade level on comprehension, right? Okay, you give it that, okay. All right, I'm gonna I'm gonna go with that. I don't wanna be embarrassing.

unknown 32:28

Damn!

SPEAKER_02 32:30

But what I'm saying is, how am I gonna have a conversation with you about business? Okay, how can I trust my business in your hands to expand us and move us forward? When you're gonna lose contracts, have and I was gonna say, half and half, right? So, so to piggyback off that a little bit, like when people ask through all the things that DTM and I have been through, like the infidelity, the bullshit, whatever, what made me stay? Listen, dog always been a provider, yeah, dog always been my person. You know what I'm saying? Like he's always been a contributor and an appreciator. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So everybody got flaws, right? But your flaws cannot outweigh your good. Yeah, no, and think I'm gonna stay. No, hell no. You know what I'm saying? No, you can't you cannot be a drain on my life and think I'ma stay here. This is stupid. No, stupid as hell. If every day I wake up, I'm like, damn, I I woke up again. Shit. Shit, you still here? God damn it. Okay, all right. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, or another thing when you notice when you go through things and people make it about them. That's another one that's like because I remember when your daughter got when my goddaughter got her diagnosis. Yeah, he made it all about him. Yeah, my nigga. Yeah, what is wrong with you? Yeah, like no, no, no, be sad, cuz damn it's okay to be sad in a moment because it was jarring, right? Yeah, like god damn, what the fuck? Because it makes you start thinking, like, what did I do wrong? Did I do enough? Whatever, whatever, whatever, right?

SPEAKER_03 34:11

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 34:13

But you can't live in it, yeah. And that aggravates me. What about me? What about me? What about me? What about me? It ain't about you, she gotta grow up with this, yeah. And then it's the denial, right? So, my biggest issue, and this I'm experiencing this real time, y'all. And like, he's crying, and like I like like KD said, be sad, be sad. I can't I can't tell you how to feel or or how those feelings may present themselves, right? So that's okay. But bro, I'm I'm the wife, right? Uh it's me and the baby. Get your shit together. You're crying, you're you're telling, you're in denial, you're no, she doesn't, and da da da. Just so y'all don't think she got nothing crazy. My goddaughter is autistic. Yeah, she's okay. So Julie, I don't want y'all to think it's probably like terrible, but the fuck the baby got the baby got HIV. No, and the mama just don't care. No, no, no, no. She's autistic. Yeah. So Julie is profoundly autistic, and when we first got her diagnosis, diagnosis, she had global delays, she had food intake delays, she had just these wide range of delays, and I did not see these things as some type of sentencing, right? Where dad looked at these things like very roadblocking. I ain't gonna lie, dog, dog was crying like she had a terminal inner. I ain't gonna lie, dog was crying like she got diagnosed with stage four cancer, yeah, like and radiation and and and uh chemo ain't gonna fix it. That's how hard when I went over there and we sitting there on that on the on that enclosed porch, dog was bawling, and I was like, what is happening? And I think it's just because the the the emotional equivalence is low, right? Yeah, and that's what I said like ninth grade, but like you said, I got too much dip on my chick. But he was like seven, he and he I'm just I wanted to say it, but he said, He said, It ain't your daughter, so you don't understand. I said, You're right, she's not my daughter, a hundred percent. I said, but this is my sister, and you not being a you're not being a shoulder right now at all. You adding shit. I'm over there, like y'all can go apply for grants and programs, like we looking up shit to try to find some good in this. Yeah, yeah. It's not your daughter, you don't understand. You know what I'm going to like if you don't calm yourself down, bro. But but I you're right. I don't. I don't, I don't, I don't have it, I don't experience it, but and it's a lack of experience and be on his behalf though, not even so much of your behalf. So, you know, you have um a a friend who has two that's that's DTM friend, okay. But their children, sorry, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not trying. Sorry, sorry. So my point of that was that we have been around, we have been around profoundly autistic uh children and children who kind of land at the higher end of the spectrum, right? So we have kind of get got a chance to see it, how it manifests in different children, and it shows and presents differently, right? Right. So when Bill took when he took in the when he took in the the information, it was kind of more devastating, but it was a very uninformative reaction, right? He didn't have a lot of uh a lot of knowledge behind it. We hadn't done much research, so it was it was it was scary, and it was something that he didn't really know a whole bunch about, but I was able to pull up some articles and show him like, hey, these kids live better lives than us, right? That's what I'm saying. We want to live whole lives. Both of us are like, yeah, like they live full, full, full blossoming, beautiful lives, and like it doesn't have to be where oh, she's gonna be with us when she's 50 years old and she's never gonna find true love. And I remember him saying, like, I'm never gonna let her date, no one's ever gonna take advantage of her. I'm like, dude, she's two. Like, what are you talking about? Calm down. No one's dating her. No one's dating her, she's two years old. Relax. And then moving forward, she got into speech, she got into ABA, we got into occupational therapy. This girl is saying on her ABC. She's repeating her colors, she knows her colors, she knows her numbers, and she knows how to cuss. She does it all just like a regular kid. Yeah, right. To me, she just a regular ass four-year-old. She's a regular four-year-old who stems the hell out eventually. And you know what? Girl, same. Sometimes she gets overwhelming. We do the shit too. We just not diagnosed. We knock all this shit over. Oh, right now. I never this shit. I never cared. No, not shit. No, not just teaching me. This is some really nice stuff. But if I was somewhere else, we're not going down yesterday. My god babyspn knocked all that shit over. Yeah. But you know, you just yeah, so yeah, it's just it's it's I I took it all in, right? Took it all in, I took all the information in. I and I kind of had to be the the anchor, you know. I'm letting him know it's gonna be okay, and that's crazy to me. Yeah, you let him know it's gonna be okay, I'm letting you know it's gonna be okay. DTM let me know it's gonna be okay. Daddy letting him know it's gonna be okay. You know what I'm saying? But but that's the type of shit niggas leach on to, though, right? Yeah, because we have this train of shit gonna be okay. Yeah, because remember when we had Taz, them doctors was like, he never gonna walk, he never gonna talk, he never, he never, he never, he never, he never. Yeah. Uh you was in the hospital when the lady with me, when the lady like, oh, you never gonna see your baby with your blood pressure this high. Like had to get a lady to boot. You hear me? Can we stop outside? I need you to come outside and have a conversation. Don't ever come back in here again. No, but people don't have that, yeah, right? They don't have that compound, they don't have that village, yeah, they don't have that people to lean on. You know what I'm saying? Like, if I'm going through something, I could hit you up. I used to drive to her house, y'all, but she lives so far now. I'll go, but I gotta go like in the morning, so I could be sober by the evening to drive home. But I'm just saying, like, we have those, we have that in our family. People don't have it. You know what I'm saying? So they leech onto it. But what I did learn throughout the years is we have to be careful because people will use us, yeah, right? Yeah, because we are so caring and and like when we love, we love for real. Like, we don't love fake. No, people can come around us forever, yeah, until they can't. All the way up until they can't. Because let me tell y'all, as hard as we love, we cut off even harder. Like, yeah, and I I to piggyback off of that, because we love so hard, we almost have that. I'm loving you through your bullshit, right? Right, so don't bite me. That part, don't don't don't make me regret loving you so blindly because that's real love. If I can come into a situation, I'm giving all of me, right? I'm giving everything, no foul intentions, no ulterior motives, no no secret motives, nothing. It's me and you, and and all this love that we can make, right? Figuratively and and literally, whatever. And you do some whole shit to me. Yeah, well, now I gotta show you why my daddy is my daddy and why I'm his last daughter. Y'all don't know, y'all know big money. Y'all know, listen. Y'all don't know big money or big blaze because it's a problem. Listen, big money ain't talked to his mama for 50 years. God bless the dead. Listen, my grandma lived to be 100 years old. I'm just a hundred. She was a hundred and a half of them years, a hundred and a half though, because she her birthday is in March, she died in November. Oh, she was damn near one-on-one type shit. So shout out to the Adams family. Listen, and when she died, he cried a little bit because you know that's his mama. So, of course, it was you know, fucked up like damn my mom did. But she a hundred, she was a hundred years old, but he has not had a relationship with her for the duration of my life, or mine, and I'm but I'm 44. Look, I'm younger than you, but yeah, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah. I met her through his ex-wife, you know what I'm saying? He never fucked with her. So somebody that could not back then, listen, somebody that could not talk to their mama, you don't want to piss mama off. You don't want to piss his kids off. Yeah, no, because he put that in our blood. Listen, you ain't never blocked a motherfucker in real life until you met him. He used to be like, motherfuckers know what they're doing. So you you act like they don't know what they're doing, but they know what they're doing. Exactly. So you either get on the same page as the next person or you allow, you're allowing. Yep. Whatever you are tolerating that you don't approve of, you are allowing to happen to you. Yep. Now, if you put your foot down in a motherfucking press, press, press, okay, maybe you're not allowing that because you are trying to make an initiative to like create space or whatever, because we got people who you know, whatever. But if you're just taking it and you're just, oh, I'ma just, I'ma just, I'ma just, or making excuses, you're allowing this. Yep. And no, you sometimes you gotta put your foot down and be like, listen, baby, no, we don't do that here. We don't do that, we don't do that. And if this is what you're doing, that's cool. You just gotta do it over here with the next bitch. Cause their part. And you know what's always so funny to me? We're gonna we're gonna say this and we're gonna move. So we got we got one more topic that I want to holler at y'all about. But it's always so funny to me when people assume because I do come smiling and I'm like this basket of like rainbows and butterflies and shit, then I'm such a pushover. I'm like such a I'm a green girl, right? Girl, boy. The only thing green around this motherfucker is in the money. I got some blue strips too. But the only green, the only green around here is the green baby. The weeds. I got and I like that shit purple too. I got that shit purple too. You feel me? You feel me? So, like, yeah, no, no, the only thing slow and green over here is this turtle. I got in the street. What dog say if you want something slow and green, but get you? You better get a fucking turtle because I don't got what? This ain't that. And the way that I could switch is so funny. Because a guy would be like, Oh, you're this, you're that, you know, and then he do some whole shit and then be like, Who are you? You're a totally different person. Like, no, this Benny. Who you was playing with? Thank you. Who you was playing with? Just Benny. Listen. You presented differently, so so did I. What do you mean? You showed me who you were, so I'll show you who I gotta be. Because if we the the term showing your true colors, what are we doing? What are we doing? What are we doing? You want to play? Do you? We can play. Because all these hues, I'm gonna win. I got all the shades, baby. Is Jay Z Blue, baby? What we doing? I'm a win. Will we do it? Who said that earlier? Somebody like I got something to say to Jay Z. These two, one of them frick or frat. Sleepy. He sleep. Oh shit. He said he see you in the morning. Oh, I mean it's already in the morning.

unknown 45:15

All right.

SPEAKER_02 45:15

He just woke up laughing. All right. And this is a drunk nigga. I'm drunk and sleepy. So we're gonna open this up to uh our guys, too. Um, shout out to Lil' Man and Benny. The size matter. What? No, that's not a good one. No, that's not a good one for them, sis. No, yes, it is. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. Oh, you the size matter of a woman. Like, does size matter? Yeah. You just blew Jamie's mind. Jamie's face was like, the fuck? Bro, we like we're gonna bring the guys in. Does size matter? Jamie's face over there, like fuck she say matter. Okay, it's hilarious. So I wish that was on camera. We're gonna give him a little tripod to put over there. What the fuck are these the producer's expression? Producer's view that was diabolical. No, okay, and let me let me go in. Let me go deeper. Let me cook. Let me cook, y'all. Let me cook. The size matter when it comes to the size of a woman, the size of a woman, the size of her bank account, the anything, the size matter. And uh to be more direct, I am asking a body size, not to body shame. She's saying, Would you fuck with a big bitch? Okay, I was gonna walk or a little bit. I was gonna walk us in gently. First of all, they didn't don't if they've been listening to me pot all these years, they already know I'm going to go. Okay, and Vinny, don't feel like move your foot, move your foot, move your foot. Don't feel like they're not gonna pay attention to me. Hey, freaking frack. We talking to y'all, okay.

SPEAKER_01 47:00

Go ahead.

SPEAKER_02 47:01

Don't feel like your answers have to be politically correct, politically correct, because it's it don't. It don't. We potting. We potting. This is it. Okay, all right, all right. That was just my little disclaimer. She's talking to you. He knows who I'm talking to. I got my baby. He like, I like slim bitches with big titties and small waists, light skin, light lashes on, okay, with a ponytail. I like bitches named Blaze. Look, dog light with a ponytail, with a pink hoodie, with silver earrings, some lashes with braces, with braces. That's all I like. That's it. I like my pretty face. I got my baby. But they look like sneakers, got my vans on, but they look like sneakers. Little backstory to that. Why they getting their answer together? They my since he pulled up to the house with dog in the car. I said, Who the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_04 47:51

And she said, That's fancy.

SPEAKER_02 47:55

I said, What? So I kept saying, I got my vans on, but they look like sneakers. She said, Why do you keep saying that? I said, Because you said name. And no, I didn't. I was like, Oh shit. All right. What's your answer? Does size matter?

SPEAKER_01 48:12

So this I feel like size doesn't matter. Real nigga. As far as like it just depends the preference. See, me, I'm 145 pounds, right? I can't have nothing. Are you 145 pounds? Yeah, so I can't have nothing to don't get wrong. Ain't nothing wrong with a beautiful, beautiful woman. I dunno. I've been with some big ones. But I've also learned you gotta know your limits. Type shit.

SPEAKER_02 48:37

Type shit. Type shit. I respect that.

SPEAKER_01 48:39

You gotta you just gotta know your limits. All women are beautiful, beautiful women.

SPEAKER_02 48:43

All women are not beautiful.

SPEAKER_01 48:44

Well, he he on the inside.

SPEAKER_02 48:46

And talking about on the inside, he's trying to be politically. Beauty is an eye as a beholder. There you go. There you go. Look, like lies. Okay, go ahead. Like, keep me out of it. Keep me out of it. I'm sorry, go ahead.

SPEAKER_01 48:59

Well, no, I just feel like size matters, but like as far as like relationship wise, sleeping-wise, like you know, doing the the you know what I'm saying, the grown-up thing, it matters, but that legs get heavy, yeah. Not then you say they get heavy. I ain't never heard that complaint. You cannot embarrass yourself in there. I learned I learned my lesson a couple times, though. I learned my lesson.

SPEAKER_02 49:26

You say you've been out here handling some big waves. Big waves.

SPEAKER_01 49:29

Man, I feel like I was.

SPEAKER_02 49:31

Okay, so who was your biggest? The biggest? If you don't mind saying what's your biggest sober? No, no, not sober. Sober, you got too much of a conscience. Drunk.

SPEAKER_01 49:41

Drunk? Oh shit. Like, like, like 275 close. Like 275. 275. Asshole at least or 175 by itself.

SPEAKER_02 49:55

You said that ass hemming every day. Oh, oh, I'm sorry. So that's true. Yeah, that's true. Clearly. That's my best friend. No, that's really her best friend. That's like our oldest nephew, but he like five minutes younger than her. No, yeah, literally my best friend. Okay, so you're bigger sober.

SPEAKER_01 50:12

Oh. 200.

SPEAKER_02 50:14

So that's not bad. That's like that's something. That's the that's a that's a good thing.

SPEAKER_01 50:19

My hand dog, you gotta anything can happen.

SPEAKER_02 50:24

Anything will happen. Anything will happen. All right, Vinny. What about you, babe? Anything is possible.

SPEAKER_01 50:30

I just care about how she is on the inside.

SPEAKER_02 50:32

You a liar.

SPEAKER_01 50:32

I do, for real.

SPEAKER_02 50:33

We don't do lies. All right, what's your biggest? We don't do lies. Cool. Cut cut cut all that shit out. But what was your biggest? And don't lie.

SPEAKER_01 50:41

Yeah, right here. Don't lie. You guys talking to my not you.

SPEAKER_02 50:44

Bro, you guys talking to my biggest woman that you've experienced.

SPEAKER_01 50:51

About 275, 280. You know, about 300.

SPEAKER_02 50:56

Can you just imagine Vinny like this? No, they can see him. So look, they can see him. What all type of shit? So look at my baby. So y'all see dog, y'all see dog by 115 sucking wet. First of all, I'm 140 and I be putting this skinny boom. Can't have nothing to do. Through the mattress. Who said that? What you put him through the mattress? Lady Blaze be putting it through the mattress.

SPEAKER_01 51:20

I'd be under the bed.

SPEAKER_02 51:21

Y'all, hey, well, that's I guess that's what the cocktails come from, huh? So if y'all see dog, he like 115 soaking weight. So 300 is like 300 is all right. Okay, and that's drunk. That's drunk and sober. No, no, no, no, T no Shea. No T no Shea. Is that drunk? Drunk, sober relationship. That was you.

SPEAKER_01 51:47

You know, like sober. I say can you talk into the mic? Sober, I would say about 185, 190.

SPEAKER_02 51:55

Okay, look good, good little Nicky. That's good. That's good. Y'all are fucking hilarious. But but what the hell going on over there? Sorry, I was recording myself, sorry. Oh, but that's yeah, I don't know. So for me, I don't I don't know. I've been with the same nigga for 27 years. Like, I don't know. But if I was single, I definitely couldn't be with a super small guy unless he was like had a really big gun. Yeah. Because but that's fair. That's fair. Because let me tell y'all something about KD. My mouth. I'm be trying, y'all. But I'd say stuff. I probably should to anybody. Hey, you gotta be able to protect me, bro. Listen, yeah, I'm gonna say some crazy shit, and it's okay. I might get us in some shit. Probably, yeah. Listen, we was at the bar a couple weeks ago. I got us into some shit and didn't even know I got us into some shit. That wasn't even my fault, though. She said this wasn't my intention. It did happen though. But listen, this some real shit. The the guy came in the bar, he was watching my husband, so I was watching him, and then when he looked at me, dog said, What you looking at? I'm from East Side, something, something, something. And before I knew it, DJ jumped up and was like, Dog, don't talk to my mama like that. And then Lil Man came from the right wing, and then Janelle said, I said, Oh my god, so that was not my fault. I didn't even get a chance to say anything. Because dog came at me crazy, yeah. But I'm just saying, I can't be with nobody who can't protect me. I was gonna say something, yeah, but I had to be quiet because which I talked about this before. Like, my my attitude used to be way worse than it is now, but I had to bring my attitude in because I realized I got grown sons, yeah, and boys don't play about their mama, they don't, so you gotta and my nephews. Like, I had to learn, like, my mouth can get us all in a whole lot of trouble, yeah, yeah. Cause it's a pistol. Okay, and then it also because you know KD know a lot of words, so I've been a cussing out, and we don't even know what the fuck. And that and he be so much, they be so much fatter at that. What the fuck you say to this? What do y'all know so many times? So our cousin used to own a bar and we used to work, we used to help him and work at the bar. But it used to be guys coming in the bar, like, no, no, KD, that motherfucker's mouth, da da da da da. And I used to be like, bro, you right, she do got a crazy mouth, but you can't talk to her any kind of way because now we gotta put hands on you. But she does got a crazy ass mouth. I agree, bro. I seen this TikTok and I said, This is me and my sister all day. So the girl doing the chick nails, she like, yeah, I went to this last tech and she was unprofessional. Da da da da. She in whatever city. So the girl doing the nails, like, what you say her name was, and she said her name. She said, Hold on, that's my little sister. What you on? Like, like, what bro, I know we off the size tip, but this was funny. I gotta share this. Lady Blaze used to talk to a guy that used to work at the bar, but we didn't know that the guy's baby mama had a had a relationship with one of the DTM homeboys. You know what I'm talking about? No, y'all didn't talk because he was like a cousin. So remember the bouncer. No, y'all didn't talk. I said that wrong. Y'all didn't kick it. This was our our cousin business owner. I mean our cousin business partner. Okay. His cousin used to work, you used to work security. Okay. So remember his baby mama used to mess around with one of DTM homeboys. Okay. So you like was you just told him, like, hey, she be cheating on you with him. Oh right. So then, so then he, so then the cousin actually reached out to the homeboys. I gave you some info, you burnt it. Yeah, because then he he reached out, he reached out to our homeboy's wife. Well, she wasn't his wife at the time, she's wife now, but reached out, like, hey, I want to let you know that they messing around. Because my cousin told me that they was messing around. So when the homeboy first called me, he like, yeah, he just going, going, going. I said, Wait, who said that? So he when he said, Oh, I'm gonna really tell you I said done. I said, Hey yo, hey yo, you gotta chill out on all that anger you got going on because that's my little sister. Yeah, and I go to war with you and your bitch about my crazy work, and then he he told DTM, like, she's so mean, KD so mean. Okay, so the truth about that is me. Okay, so our cousin's business partner, his cousin, he we were we were close, right? Right, and we did have something going on. Oh, we did. Oh, I didn't I did not know it was obvious, so a lot of people speculated. However, I was leaving out of a situation and he had his situation going on as well. So we were kind of pillow talking in a sense, but we're doing what we're doing. So when I tell you this bit of information, did you tell her what you was doing, how you got this information? So wait a minute, yeah. So you just put some little dip on the chip, yeah. So the nigga was on some bullshit, yes. You letting him know his bit don't feel bad because your bitch on bullshit too, yes, but then you take the bullshit to the girl though, yes, yes, yes. Listen, when they called me, they was on tip, and I was like, wait, who said that? So listen, you know what's so funny about that situation, too, is dude had put a bug in my ear previous about Big Dog, right? About yeah, him, yeah, yep, yep, yep. And the person who initials actually spelled his name.

unknown 58:03

Ha!

SPEAKER_02 58:04

That's funny, right? What? Cause his middle name is Earl. Oh, so it actually spell his name. Oh, that's crazy. That's kind of cool, right? Oh, it is, yeah, yeah, yeah. Hey, that's dope. That is dope, right? Right. So, anyways, our bad. We got distracted. Sorry, y'all, sorry, y'all. Um, but uh, he was telling me stuff about him. Oh, yeah, about how who he was messing with and yada yada yada. And I'm like, damn, you're putting me up on game. You're like trying to make sure. So let me put you up on game. But I didn't tell on you because how am I gonna say how how am I going to tell him that you and I had this conversation at 3 30 in the morning? Because what the fuck was y'all doing at 3 30 in the morning? The bitch. So knock the phone down. I done knocked the phone down, y'all. Oh, we gotta okay. So, yeah, so that was just you know, sometimes you gotta be careful when you share, share certain information with uh yeah, that was good. We're gonna finish that next week, y'all. Woo! Yeah, all right, y'all. Well, thank y'all for spending the the day with us, and it is Lady Blaze, your girl Katie, and we are out, peace.