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Love vs Respect… Can You Stay After THIS? Episode 301

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“What’s good RRP family… I’ve been holding this in for 6 years and I feel like I’m about to lose everything.


I’ve been married to my wife for 10 years. We built everything together — house, businesses, kids… what I thought was a solid life.


About 2 months ago, my son needed some medical testing done and something came back that didn’t make sense genetically. Long story short… I took a DNA test.


That boy is NOT mine.


But here’s where it gets worse…


I confronted my wife and she broke down crying and admitted that she had a ‘moment of weakness’ years ago… with MY YOUNGER BROTHER.


I almost blacked out.


I pressed my brother and at first he denied it… then admitted they had sex MULTIPLE times behind my back when I was working double shifts trying to provide.


So now I’m sitting here:

•Raising a child that ain’t mine

•Betrayed by my wife

•Betrayed by my own blood


My son is 6… and I love him like he’s mine. He calls me dad. I’ve been there for EVERYTHING.


My wife is begging me not to leave, saying it was the biggest mistake of her life.


My brother says he was ‘young and stupid’ and wants to fix things.


My family is telling me to ‘keep it together’ for the sake of the child.


But every time I look at my son now… I see betrayal.


I’m torn between:

1.Leaving and starting over

2.Staying for the child I raised

3.Cutting EVERYBODY off and disappearing


And here’s the real question…


If I leave… am I wrong for walking away from a child that isn’t mine biologically?


And if I stay… am I a fool for accepting that level of disrespect?


I need real answers… because I feel like I’m about to crash out.”


If you’re watching this… I need you to pick RIGHT NOW:


A️⃣ Stay for the child

B️⃣ Leave for self-respect

C️⃣ Cut everybody off”



Sometimes the hardest decision in life ain’t about what’s RIGHT…

it’s about what you can LIVE WITH

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SPEAKER_04

I hung out with all the clockers and thrown by all the doors. I'm a ghost. Yes, it's down and just take a note. Are you thinking that you more folks? But it's just a OPC. Got a fishing in your face. I guess that's just my OPC. Got a question. I got two investigators. Oh, it's been a shit, we don't smell like money, I can own it. But the block and look at the case quick to kick the mouth.

SPEAKER_02

I'm just a D girl from around the way with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, KD.

SPEAKER_01

It's your hostess with the mouse.

SPEAKER_02

It's Kiki. What up, though? It's your boy Kiki.

SPEAKER_05

Pure motivation. Now I have a mental energy. Everybody loves me. I'm gonna have one enemy. Our podcast is here now, so you gotta respect it. You never get off on us because we're never the exit. If you know me, then you know that I'm more than the savage who loves living life and is allergic to average. So in conclusion, so it's no confusions.

SPEAKER_07

If you see somebody really than us, what up, though?

SPEAKER_05

301. We in the building was good.

SPEAKER_07

Stop making fun of me.

SPEAKER_01

Oh you did this to me.

SPEAKER_06

My bad.

SPEAKER_01

No, I don't did you. No, that's that wasn't accurate. That was I felt like you was making, I felt like I was getting punked when I listened to that. But go ahead, let's move along.

SPEAKER_04

What up, what up, what up, what up, man?

SPEAKER_05

Welcome back to another episode of Relationship Reality where you get your daily dose of relationships and real reality. Talk about it. All right, so again, 301. We still celebrating, man. We got a few guests in the building starting with the person on the right of me. Talk about it.

SPEAKER_02

It's Reese. Thanks for having me.

SPEAKER_05

Hey girl, yeah, Reese in the building. Next to the person to the left of me.

SPEAKER_02

Two cup water zones, by the way.

SPEAKER_05

Do it again.

SPEAKER_07

It's dark. Whoa.

SPEAKER_02

Why they say this one? Why are they doing you at that case? We was going to eat now. We are going to eat. We're not fucking with them. You said y'all going this. We going to eat. We're going to eat. We're not fucking with them.

SPEAKER_05

We're not effing with them. All right, next.

SPEAKER_03

I ain't even saying nothing.

SPEAKER_05

It's not y'all too so funny. So I ain't even saying nothing to the right of KD. We have none other than the biggest man is Shred, man. Y'all know what time it is.

SPEAKER_03

Talk about it. What are you? What am I not supposed to say so I can say it? Because I don't even know what I'm not supposed to say. Okay. He said, okay. It's a miscommunication. It's a miscommunication. It's a miscommunication. Like, okay. Okay.

SPEAKER_02

Don't do what they did. Making fun of me. And he did. But if you want to fight, we can fight. Not today. I ain't trying to fight. We ain't doing today.

SPEAKER_05

We in Oakland County. All right. So now Red Bear.

SPEAKER_02

Rare bear.

SPEAKER_00

You gotta hit me with something. You want a real one, you gotta go be a girl, go home.

SPEAKER_07

Well, what we got?

SPEAKER_00

Also, in the building, the voice that you're hearing, we got big TMO, man. Forever 2030. They know what's going on with us.

SPEAKER_03

Hey, that nigga just said everything but his name. Exactly.

SPEAKER_05

All right, big TMO scoop, man. Big TMO scoot in the building.

SPEAKER_02

Come here.

SPEAKER_05

Not with that voice. He likes uh no. Not with that voice. Oh, I'm not in charge. Okay. All right. So as promised, man, we're gonna get we had uh we got a segment on the show that we didn't get dig at you on the 300 episode because we had a lot going on.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, he's about to introduce himself.

SPEAKER_05

Oh, but okay, okay. Who we got? No, he said no. No, he said no.

SPEAKER_02

Oh you on camera, sorry.

SPEAKER_05

You on camera, you gotta say who you are.

SPEAKER_01

He said, I don't want to.

SPEAKER_02

It's fat JJ.

SPEAKER_00

It's fat JJ.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, two or three murder one, some shit. I don't know. I got I can't keep up. Saigon.

SPEAKER_05

Saigon.

SPEAKER_01

He said y'all doing it. And then we are from Saigon. Hell no. From Saigon.

unknown

I forgot.

SPEAKER_01

No, he not.

SPEAKER_05

He ran across the street.

SPEAKER_02

We also got my hope and my babies in the background.

SPEAKER_03

Look, look down the street forget. No, his mind. You was on Pope. No Lehigh? Stanford Lehigh. Oh, yeah. We used to change some niggas all up and down them street.

SPEAKER_02

Not first of all, you wasn't doing nothing and you wasn't even a thought before. You wasn't even a thought. I mean, he was a big thing.

SPEAKER_05

That was back in Martin Luther King that we don't and you.

SPEAKER_02

Damn. Where you from? Definitely from Inkston. You from Inkster.

SPEAKER_03

Where you grew up at? Where you grew up? I seen the whole thing. Where you grew up in, nigga. You was an Inkster nigga. Right. Hey man, where you get all this information from? Hey, right over this information.

SPEAKER_05

He stayed right right by uh Malcolm X Bill.

SPEAKER_03

It's a corner house. Yeah, how you where you see that? Somebody showed it either you and your twin. Right. Hey, and I uh okay, and another thing, right? So his twin, right? I got a problem with this. His twin, right? We call him Uncle Fatty. I'm a grown man. I don't like that. You said that too. I don't like that. I told him that is weird. We couldn't think of nothing else. No.

SPEAKER_05

Now it's gotta be paused every time you say it. Uncle Fatty, pause.

SPEAKER_03

If I see him right now, guess what I'm gonna say? What up? What up, Uncle or his government? I will call him his government. I will call him his government before I call him that. I'm about to be 25, almost 30.

SPEAKER_02

You 25, you're not almost 30. I'm almost 30. You're not almost 30. You're 25. That's not almost 30. Oh, you're not 25 is not almost 30. That's the truth. Hold on. Early, mid, mid 20s. But that's still not close to 30. First of all, currently right now, today, dog's still 24. And that's still that's why I said early, because mid not till 25, 26. Yeah. When you're 2070, like you close to 30. Now you're close to 30. Sorry. You round that up to the nearest 10. Not till you get to five, though, right? So still at four, you go down. Yeah. You said you're 74. Nowhere near. Damn.

SPEAKER_05

Look, you see how how excited.

SPEAKER_02

What's Kevin Hart say? Damn, damn.

SPEAKER_05

You see at the uh at the last episode, how excited he got when Lux was like, you go to the old folks' home, right? He lifted up. He was like, He's like, What you need, Walker?

SPEAKER_02

He was like, He said he already got a walker. Y'all played. Um, all right, let's get into it, man.

SPEAKER_05

Shout out to my my two babies in the back, too. Love y'all. Appreciate y'all coming through. One knocked out, you know.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, shout out to my mind over there in mommy mode. Yay!

SPEAKER_05

So she definitely would be on the screen if she didn't have to be in mommy mode. I know she got some stuff to say.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_03

So I'm gonna show her some deep.

SPEAKER_01

Chill out, chill out, chill out. Not too much, bookie, but don't forget we got an announcement.

SPEAKER_05

Oh, talk about it. Oh, we do got a big announcement. Oh, we do got an announcement.

SPEAKER_02

This bell is hilarious. I already put our announcement. We're just so annoyed by the big bell. So I like the bell though. What? That's why you're on that side of the table. Wait, we in here. We in here we already win the annoyed too.

SPEAKER_03

I thought I changed what the bell meant. I thought I changed what the bell meant. Nigga, you can't come.

SPEAKER_02

You can't come up here and make changes.

SPEAKER_03

This ain't the jail time. When we hit the bell, that means jail time.

SPEAKER_02

No, this ain't the blue red show. This relationship reality is my name.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02

That's when you get your shit treasoned. And that's a red and that's a red and blue.

SPEAKER_05

Coming soon.

SPEAKER_01

Oh my god. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05

We in here. You know, this is a little bit more. My brother's sitting over there with my laptop. So we're gonna get it ready. Yeah. All right. No, talk about what's the announcement?

SPEAKER_02

Announcement is on Thursday. I took my farm my board exams for farm tech and I passed it. So now your girl nationally certified on these hoes. I left the test. I called, I called Shred, like, what y'all doing? He like, nothing. I'm like, I'm about to come over. He was like, okay. Now mind you, I usually be at work. This like 2:30 in the afternoon. The the test was supposed to take two hours. I finished it in less than an hour. So when I called him, I pull up, he like, what's going on? Him and my mic looking at me like, Why you here? Why you here on a Thursday?

SPEAKER_01

Like work day.

SPEAKER_02

You just pulled up, what's going on? So I showed him. They was actually the first people that I showed the actual results to. Oh, yeah. But yeah, I was excited. That's so exciting.

SPEAKER_03

My SAT.

SPEAKER_00

How you doing it? How you do?

SPEAKER_03

What's the score you get to put your name on there? Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00

Don't mess up.

SPEAKER_07

Pause.

SPEAKER_02

Pause. Ring the bill. Don't mess up my good news with your fuck news. Oh, my bad. Anyway, I just wanted to share that with you. Congratulations. Congratulations. I did. I did that.

SPEAKER_05

If you got a drink, man, if y'all watching, y'all got a drink, cheers for the right now.

SPEAKER_03

Cheers. Y'all want to hear a problem start? This is what it sounds like.

SPEAKER_05

There it is. Not the problem.

SPEAKER_03

You're too nephew.

SPEAKER_05

That's the problem.

SPEAKER_02

Wow, waiting for the sound though. I waited. Bro, his girl over there looking like, yeah, that nigga going home with y'all going home with y'all, baby. Cause he's not. He owned it. No returns. I told you that a long time ago. No returns. So no returns is crazy.

SPEAKER_05

We got too far. We got a good reality check that came in. For those, if this is your first show, you got 300 more episodes to go back and listen to. You better sleep it, baby. Wake up. Get from up under that rock, man.

SPEAKER_02

We're playing level four trees.

SPEAKER_05

Reality check is a segment where people reach out to me or us. Usually it's me, because I'm like the only approachable one. They scared of the other.

SPEAKER_02

I'm very we are approachable.

SPEAKER_05

You KD would say on the mic. Don't get in my DM. No, she does say that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, how are you gonna say don't get in your DMs and then be like, Why y'all not in my DMs?

SPEAKER_02

No, I never asked why they got there. They not allowed you got to be certified to get in. I don't even think Kiki knows her password. She don't.

SPEAKER_05

So as I was saying, I'm the only approachable one for this segment here, okay?

SPEAKER_01

Because they be going crazy, and I don't oh babe, we gotta talk about how BFF act last night, too. I don't respond to DMs.

SPEAKER_05

Oh, you we we can go there first, then because this one's gonna be this one gonna be juicy. We'll go there first.

SPEAKER_02

I should have so we at the bar, we're chilling, we're having a good time. Oh the bartender.

SPEAKER_05

So for those who've been listening, first off, y'all know how look I'm all in. What happened? Y'all know how possessive Katie uh Kiki is over words, right? Over a specific word to be exact. Yeah, yes. Okay, go ahead. Continue.

SPEAKER_02

So the lady she like we cool with her, she always be our bartender when we go in. Last night she was just hanging out. Go ahead. You you was cool with her until then. She was all right. So she came over there, she said something, something because you my best friend. Oh she said that to you.

SPEAKER_05

She said face changed and everything. She was smiling at prior to this.

SPEAKER_01

And I liked her, right? She had the body, she had a little booty, she was dancing, she was, but then she had said those words, and I had you know how you see red, like I had seen red, and I was like, Hold on, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_06

Like Red Wigman? She said, I'm gonna be no no no no no.

SPEAKER_02

No, she didn't know she said she said I'm gonna be your white. She said no, no, she said she can't have a white best friend. What you say, BFF?

SPEAKER_01

You can have it red, white, green, blue, yellow, purple. Just not my best friend, bitch. I don't give a fuck what color you use, but just not best friend. She said, okay.

SPEAKER_05

She kept saying, okay, now you tread lightly.

SPEAKER_02

She said, okay, I'm just gonna be her BFF. She said, bitch, no, you're not. I'm saying. I said, look, you can just be my good, good friend. She said, okay, okay, I'm gonna be your GGF. I said, yeah, that's because girl, you about to get smacked. She's cracking up though. I'm serious in the moment. You seriously hurt it. I felt like Shred. Like, I know you fucking laughed. She laughing though. She like, I always give you guys good drinks. She said, I don't give a fuck about none of that. Well, since we on the floor, I apologize when I said hey, best friend. So who? So who? So who that day when I had something like hey, best friend. No, no.

SPEAKER_05

You were labeling her, not like you were.

SPEAKER_02

No, we used to that though, because even like when we go.

SPEAKER_01

No, that's what people say.

SPEAKER_02

When we go places, I'm just like if it's kicky, like when we go to kicky people, they always be like, hey, best friend. Yeah, and when she comes around, like my people, they be like, hey, best friend, because they know we always together. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But don't they don't nah, don't you? No, she was trying to say, like, that's her best friend. Like, she was trying to say I was her best friend. As soon as she said it, I was like, I gotta get that shit together. Like, like, no, no, I didn't. I didn't even blink twice.

SPEAKER_05

I'm in the background, like, do this if it's a problem.

SPEAKER_01

What you say, like, what you say? Well, well, no misunderstand this.

SPEAKER_02

Okay. Right. She said, What the fuck you say? And she was like, Oh, she can't have a white girl for her best friend. Absolutely. She said, I don't give a fuck if you orange, purple, green. She ran it down all the fucking colors.

SPEAKER_01

All the colors, baby.

SPEAKER_02

Bitch, that's my best friend. And she was like, Well, we're gonna be BFF. She said, No, the fuck y'all late. She was like, Well, what can we do? That was even worse. She sobered up quick, like I said, girl, you're about to get smacked. Go on over there, go on over there, Carrie.

SPEAKER_01

Nerd, them flashbacks came back, nerd. Like, oh my god, I gotta get my girl.

SPEAKER_07

Man, this is your guy.

SPEAKER_01

You had to you had to bring it back.

SPEAKER_02

Like, let me see what I'm about to do. You get your lady. We gotta get put out the pink bar every time we go, we get it cracking. We're gonna have to stay home. Right. You had that drink, like, what you say? We don't act like that, but I just serve. No, y'all have your whole face shit. You don't act like what? I usually don't act like that.

SPEAKER_03

I I can't I don't know how many times I'd have been out with you and you ain't acting crazy, though.

SPEAKER_01

Trying to get it together.

SPEAKER_03

I love going out to eat with Geeky. All our food gonna be right. That's true. That's a fact.

SPEAKER_01

But you know, we don't play about food, baby.

SPEAKER_03

No, you don't play about food. I'll be ready to eat. He'd be he'd be ready, he'll be ready to play about food. He's like, it's right here. I'm gonna go ahead and accept it. I'm out.

SPEAKER_05

I might complain a little bit later.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, bring all the food out. She said, Was this near rice? Take all this back.

SPEAKER_05

Mine's not right, and I don't want theirs to be cold, so take it all.

SPEAKER_02

She don't eat rice, so don't bring her out no rice.

SPEAKER_01

And don't ever bring my food out last. Because what? Oh, wait, hold on.

SPEAKER_02

While my food last, everybody. So everybody else I ready?

SPEAKER_03

That might be a good prank. I wasn't gonna tell the waiter waiter hey, bring bring us a bowl of rice. No, we're going to jail. Never mind.

SPEAKER_02

We all get dog, and she don't eat no rice. We all go to jail. We went to the hibachi place.

SPEAKER_01

We went to the hibachi place the other day. My food ain't come off fast enough. I was like, hold on, y'all got your rice, and I ain't got my food. Hold on, hold on. But then they now they brought it out.

SPEAKER_02

She's ready to turn up, though.

SPEAKER_05

She's ready to turn up.

SPEAKER_02

Even people at the other table came. Right.

SPEAKER_05

Oh, all right. So let's get into the reality check. Again, if you got a reality check that you want to uh tap into, feel free to jump into my DMs. If you know me personally, let me know your situation.

SPEAKER_02

Not too much though, Bookie, but let you know, get it in. Please, please, not too much. Don't do too much.

SPEAKER_05

So here we go. Say, what's good, RIP family? I've been holding on to this. I've been holding this in for six years. Damn. And I feel like I'm about to lose everything.

SPEAKER_07

Dang.

SPEAKER_05

Ain't no point in giving them no. I've been married. I've been married to my wife for 10 years. We built everything together. House, businesses, kids. What I thought was a solid life. About two years ago.

SPEAKER_03

Two years. Oh my God. This was you? You what you wrote in?

SPEAKER_05

About two years ago.

SPEAKER_02

All right, two years.

SPEAKER_05

My son needed some medical testing done, and something came back that didn't make sense genetically.

SPEAKER_07

Uh-oh.

SPEAKER_05

Long story short, I took a DNA test. This is the husband.

SPEAKER_07

Okay, okay, okay.

SPEAKER_05

Long story short, I took a DNA test. The boy is not mine.

SPEAKER_00

Rare wrist bands. Rare wristbands. We spamming rare wristbands right now.

SPEAKER_07

Rare wristbands.

SPEAKER_00

We spamming rare wristbands right now.

SPEAKER_05

But here's where it gets worse.

SPEAKER_02

Worse? Right.

SPEAKER_00

How do it get worse than that?

SPEAKER_02

Right.

SPEAKER_00

Watch.

SPEAKER_02

Worse or is not a worse. Hey, look, a felony.

SPEAKER_05

Here we go. It gets worse.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_05

I confronted my wife. She broke down crying and admitted that she had a moment of weakness years ago with my younger brother.

SPEAKER_03

Oh I'm gonna show your ass a moment of strength.

SPEAKER_05

I almost blacked out.

SPEAKER_02

Definitely we had wristbands for sure. Lord, your son, your nephew?

SPEAKER_05

Jesus, please pray over this. I pressed my brother about Is that what that is? Please pray over this one.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, because if she had a baby with his brother, now my son is now my nephew.

SPEAKER_05

His younger brother, younger brother. Oh my lord.

SPEAKER_02

Then let him shoot the club up.

SPEAKER_05

Press my brother a moment of weakness.

SPEAKER_02

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_07

That was planned and staged and everything.

SPEAKER_05

I pressed my brother. And at first he denied it.

SPEAKER_07

Nigga gonna deny it.

SPEAKER_05

Then admitted they had sex multiple times.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, they've been fucking around.

SPEAKER_00

When I was working double shifts trying to provide right, why you do it? Why you do it more than once? That ain't a moment of weakness. Right. I'm sorry. That's like a week of weakness.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Well, what happened? A week of weakness.

SPEAKER_02

Plan plan weakness. Yeah, y'all playing that. A week of weakness. Now go back, go back by two sentences. You said be at work before the work doubles, man.

SPEAKER_05

He said they had sex multiple times behind his crazy while he was at work. Damn. Working double ship to provide. So now I'm sitting here raising a child that's not mine, betrayed by my wife, and betrayed by my own blood. My son is six, and I love him like he's mine. He calls me dad. That's okay. He's been there for everything. Don't say nothing. My wife is begging me not to leave.

SPEAKER_07

What?

SPEAKER_05

Saying it was the biggest mistake of her life. My brother is saying he was young and stupid and wants to fix things. My family is telling me to keep it together for the sake of the child.

SPEAKER_03

And who is you all to speak on this?

SPEAKER_00

That's level that's level four treason, bro. That's level four treason right there.

SPEAKER_07

Why do you say y'all doing this?

SPEAKER_01

Is somebody listening? Yeah. I got the bill money, my nigga. Damn.

SPEAKER_00

Let's get it going.

SPEAKER_05

Quick.

SPEAKER_07

And I got the bill money.

SPEAKER_05

My family's telling me to keep it together for the sake of the child. But every time I look at my son now, I see betrayal. I'm torn between leaving and starting over, staying for the child I raised, cutting everybody off and disappearing.

SPEAKER_03

That's why she did it here.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, let that shit go.

SPEAKER_05

If I leave, am I wrong for walking away from the child that isn't mine biologically? And if I stay, am I a fool for accepting the level of first of all?

SPEAKER_03

First of all, you a damn dummy. Let's start there. You a fool. Why is you still there? Second of all, you could give her two options give me my businesses or pick your casket. It's that simple. Mind you, that's your nephew, not your son. In the family, and you keep calling this little nigga your son. That's your nephew, dummy. That's your little brother. Your little brother. She didn't want, she had enough of the old bull. She wanted the young cat.

SPEAKER_01

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_03

You like, listen, listen, every time. Every time you look at the little nigga, look at the little nigga, and just imagine your little brother all in your wife, everything. And listen, and listen, he ain't pulling out. He ain't pulling out. He leaving it in there. He leaving it in there. Bro, listen, listen, listen. Listen, listen to me, folks. Listen to me, folks. Listen to me, folks. And then your family took. They knew.

SPEAKER_00

They knew.

SPEAKER_03

They knew my nigga. You still you you a him. Bro, listen. That's level 10. I'm getting so mad, bro.

SPEAKER_02

You gotta be level 10. I'm getting so mad.

SPEAKER_03

I'm getting so mad, nigga. Listen to me, they gotta make his wristband. This is all I'm gonna say. They gotta be custom, bro. Listen to me. This this is where I'm gonna leave it off at. Either you do something to them, or I'm gonna do something to you, my nigga. Wow.

SPEAKER_07

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Hey, my mic, come get your man, bro.

SPEAKER_05

You're gonna go to the oven. Let's see what Scoop got going on.

SPEAKER_02

That nigga didn't push the microphone.

SPEAKER_05

I feel like he ain't wrapped the mic, he pushed the mic.

SPEAKER_01

I'm honestly mad though. Because when was you still there? What you mean? Should I go? That's why she hit it.

SPEAKER_06

That's what he's feeling like KD with the uh yeah, with the buttons.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, you're you're a cup, you want to see your little brother hit her. You bro, bro.

SPEAKER_00

Go ahead, go ahead. Talk about it. What's your what's your thought? I feel like I feel like listen, just because the fact that they had it going to be that shit. Just because they had it going for longer, you might as well just go ahead and tell everybody. It ain't no point of you playing daddy, and you know he did that, and they was doing it behind your back or type. No, you might as well just go ahead and tell the business man.

SPEAKER_07

Everybody already knows everybody already knows.

SPEAKER_00

So it ain't gonna be hard telling one. Tell the kid because that's your nephew. Oh he's angry. My man took a shot.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, yeah. That's his spot. Yeah, no, listen. He's angry about this. School, listen. The family already knew because the family said that's your brother, you gotta forgive him.

SPEAKER_00

So at that point, you only gotta tell one person, the boy. The baby.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, nigga. The only person you need to tell is God. Forgive me. You gay. How do you look at your son and say, I'm really my you really my uh my nephew? He's fucking fine. What do you have?

SPEAKER_03

What are you explaining it to him for?

SPEAKER_02

Man, I see no. You gotta wait until you get a little older, man.

SPEAKER_03

Wow.

SPEAKER_00

Hey, he had his buddy, but you know, you don't blow the buddy.

SPEAKER_03

I will blow his shit out. Yes. The child, the animation, the fuck the title. Nigga, he knew too. You knew who your brother is. He ain't no, bro. He ain't no, bro. Don't take that out on him, bro. He ain't no. So you justify this.

SPEAKER_00

Don't take it out on him, bro. He ain't no. I'm gonna tell you the truth. You fucking your bitch too.

SPEAKER_03

Matter of fact, you might as well let us all fuck the bitch. Raise my kid. You talking about you started a business. Niggas, you stupid. Nigga, that's your business. Bitch, give me the business or go die. Matter of fact, I'm gonna tell you how to do it. Matter of fact, DM me real 2030 Shred. We're gonna get this shit took care of tonight.

SPEAKER_00

So you go ahead and handle that for me.

SPEAKER_03

Bro, are you serious? Are you serious? You questioning this, bro? Like who who raised you niggas? Yes, pops. No, no, no. Pops. No, no, no, pops. Pops. I just found out. I I just found out again. Right. I had a kid out here and DJ the father, but should I keep taking care of that child?

SPEAKER_02

You ain't see his face. How he's how he raised this nigga. Do it say where he's from?

SPEAKER_05

No, no, he ain't say where he's from. Do you still take it out on the on the kid as far as bro?

SPEAKER_03

I'm kicking him in his chest. Nigga, get out my face. I can't stand. I hate your guts. It ain't his fault.

SPEAKER_02

Bro, it ain't his fault. You ruined my life.

SPEAKER_03

Nigga, you knew. You knew everybody was in cahoots. You can't tell me. I didn't. I done found out less shit and everybody was in cahoots. For sure. You ain't found out less shit and figured everybody was in cahoots. School. You ain't punched a bitch for less.

SPEAKER_05

No, the answer to that is no.

SPEAKER_03

No, you haven't.

SPEAKER_05

I don't put my hands on women. That's what you say. Oh no, she hit me first. It was self-defense. No, no, no.

SPEAKER_03

He showed his fucking showed his defense. And that's what you need to do, my guy. Show her some defense. Walk in the house, grab the broomstick, and beat that bitch to death with the yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Don't do that, please.

SPEAKER_05

I think that's the please don't do that.

SPEAKER_03

It ain't no wristband for him. He getting life. No, no, no. I'm talking about the for the yeah, he getting life. Don't even take me to the county. Y'all know what I did. Take me to the I'm trying to get comfortable with her. You ain't gotta do all that.

SPEAKER_02

No, he life. But she definitely wrong. She didn't go ahead and just go ahead and just talk.

SPEAKER_05

Six years at the end of the day, she worked. She wrote everybody. What do you give? Because she didn't write in. He wrote in what you what advice are you giving?

SPEAKER_03

Then he wrote in, not her.

SPEAKER_02

He she talked, she needs to be he just need to go ahead and just accept it. What it is, you this ain't your kid.

SPEAKER_05

It's six years in the game.

SPEAKER_02

Six years in the game. Just go ahead and just he calling you daddy, uncle.

SPEAKER_03

No, thanks. Look, I'm your uncle. Go to nigga. You got the same mama. You say we might as well just stay a leave. No, he gotta he gotta leave for sure. No, no, you know what? Stay, you know what? Stay. That's why you that's why you need to leave. You you want some justification to stay. If you was gonna leave, the nigga would have left. He wants somebody to justify this shit and be like, come on, you know what? Just figure it out. Fucking sister wife, fuck out of here.

SPEAKER_02

No, no, no, he definitely pushed the microwave.

SPEAKER_07

He'd be the president.

SPEAKER_00

Why you push the microwave? He over made a dramatic exit. What you think?

SPEAKER_02

He asked me to leave, though, for sure.

SPEAKER_00

That's actually a struggle. Yeah. Because this is the thing. Let me tell you, it's good. Let Marside.

SPEAKER_01

How you gonna ask him a question?

SPEAKER_05

But they still talking in the background, so I'm trying to get into it. But don't ask me. That's the part that you gotta think about too, though. Like I'm thinking of it from my my perspective of I raised kids that didn't come out of me. Right? Yeah. So if if something happened where they were younger and their biological parents decided to take them back, I would be hurt by that. You know what I'm saying? Let's let's say G G mama was like, or G Dad was like, nah, he he with me now. You you can't call him. You know what I'm saying? Or scoop, scoop mama's like, no. That didn't come from your wife cheating. No, no, no, no, no, no. I'm saying just from like you grow emotionally to a child, right?

SPEAKER_07

Right.

SPEAKER_05

So even if it is just six years, but it's the early six years when they need a lot of attention. You know what I'm saying? That's why I'm crashing. So think about think about how much attention you gave in just the first year of life. You already emotionally connected. So to be the one that had to be like, I ain't rocking with this baby no more. This ain't me. It's gonna be hard for that big difficult.

SPEAKER_03

I'm rocking with you as your uncle. Nigga, get on my face.

SPEAKER_00

It's gonna be harder than you think, bro.

SPEAKER_02

It's definitely it's easy for him to say it because he knows he's not gonna be in that situation. You know, my mind never coming like, oh, this DJ kid. You know what I'm saying? So it's easy for you to say in jail. I'm not saying whether or not you'll be in jail, but I'm saying it's easy for you to say, oh, I just cut it.

SPEAKER_03

I feel bad for Brody.

SPEAKER_06

But but when you don't got a bitch like that, you can't be bad for him, but I ain't going to jail about it. I'm I'm not doing all that. But that's in your older mind, though. It all depends on what kind of vibe.

SPEAKER_02

How would you keep it with your brother though? How would you kick it with your brother?

SPEAKER_06

Oh, me and me and him are through. We done. Me and my brother are done. But I'm not going to jail.

SPEAKER_02

But you know what's crazy? But you know what's crazy. Exactly. So you're going to jail. A DNA test came to the city. That's a blue wrist band, though.

SPEAKER_00

That's a blue wristband, though. Right.

SPEAKER_02

No, I was gonna say a DNA test came out, because he and I didn't know. Three and out. Three and three and out.

SPEAKER_00

You gotta say shit. Three and out.

SPEAKER_02

What I'm saying is like if something like that happens to y'all, y'all can't even y'all identical twins.

SPEAKER_00

Right.

SPEAKER_02

So the DNA test goes come back. It wouldn't even be. If you took the DNA test for Brayley, right now it's a good thing.

SPEAKER_06

We would never even so in our in our situation, we would never really even know.

SPEAKER_03

Right. Okay, bingo. I got it.

SPEAKER_06

But the fact, but the fact that you admitted that you've been sleeping with my girl, and it's a possibility.

SPEAKER_02

No, no, your wife.

SPEAKER_06

My wife, and it's a possibility, is crazy. And we definitely gonna fight over it. I might spend a few nights in jail, but I'm not I'm not doing nothing to really know.

SPEAKER_05

I feel like three days, he's sleeping on a semen, not a uh not a but you don't know.

SPEAKER_02

I feel like in that you don't know to you and that's you don't even know where your mind is gonna go. You don't know to you and that's if somebody came to me like, oh, uh Deontay really, uh my sister daughter, oldest daughter, father. I don't know how Maria. No, I know I'm going to jail. But I'm gonna call the police.

SPEAKER_06

Okay, but you say you're going to jail. Yeah, call the police now for 10, 20 years. Yes. While we halfway doing this shit. If we gonna do it, we're gonna do it.

SPEAKER_02

I done blacked out for for less. I done blacked out for less. You know what I'm saying? I tried to stab that nigga for less. So if you're telling me my niece is now your daughter, nigga, I would kill you, her, and the niece. And come home with you.

SPEAKER_03

She asked for strawberry cool in my job. And y'all wonder why I'm acting like that. I was just finna say that. I was just finna say that you're trying to kill his mother.

SPEAKER_06

I'm just saying, younger meat, but the older me.

SPEAKER_01

That's why I said the younger.

SPEAKER_00

The older mama said, Fuck this.

SPEAKER_01

I'm going to jail today. If you say mine, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_02

Listen, it's crazy. Sometimes when we're hanging out with G, right? People be like, Oh, he looked just like you, type shit to Deontay, right? To D T and whatever. So imagine finding out that's really your son. You don't think I'm a blank out? Right, yeah. Definitely. But what I'm saying is, but what I'm saying is, you don't think I'm a blank out? Like, we really raised this boy, and he really was your son the whole time, right? And you couldn't tell me. Yeah, that's cold. That's some boys. That's a boy. Yeah, school too, though. But nobody never said school look like that. People say Gary look like dad all the time.

unknown

Right.

SPEAKER_02

So imagine I find out that's really his son. I done heard.

SPEAKER_00

Like, so Shannon Vick ain't the daddy, you the daddy?

SPEAKER_02

I'm about to say you gotta come see about me. You and the mama.

SPEAKER_05

What's crazy is you and the mama. I'll post the picture of my mama. Oh my gosh, she looks just like you. I'll post the picture of Gary. They're like, Oh my gosh, you look just like me.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I like don't be huh. But see, I I want to use my mind because they got a baby together, so that's crazy.

SPEAKER_03

We we too, we too off topic. We gotta get back to this nigga, man. Oh we got to get back to this nigga in his situation. My boy is not letting that go. He don't like passion about this. Y'all not angry, no, like as a man, you're not angry. Like, why do you why are you asking me if you need to get the on? Yeah, right. But you know what it is, it's common sense though. It is why are you asking me that, bro? That is the why'd you ask me if you need to tell this little nigga that you his uncle and not his father. I I think that's how you was mad about when you're both passing about that shit.

SPEAKER_05

I think that him leaving is not the hard bumps. I think that him him and the kid might be hard. I figured it out.

SPEAKER_00

I figured it out, and that will that nigga scared of his brother.

SPEAKER_03

That is that might be what it is, though. That might be what it is. I fucked your wife right and nutted her. And what you gonna do about it? And what are you gonna do about it?

SPEAKER_07

Yes, sir.

SPEAKER_03

Nigga, that's my son about it.

SPEAKER_07

Nigga, what you gonna do?

SPEAKER_03

My son shit, and you gonna raise it going to sit down, nigga, and run that business, nigga. What you gonna do about it, nigga, and text R RP and nigga give the fucking get some fucking justification on why your ass is gonna be right here. Yeah, brother, husband. We need to bring him in. He needs to be burned again.

SPEAKER_02

But like you said, he probably skin his brother, like I fucked your bitch and what looking.

SPEAKER_05

But if in the beginning it was just a possibility, right? He's gonna walk in that bit. That's just a bad thing.

SPEAKER_01

That's just in the beginning.

SPEAKER_05

It was a possibility.

SPEAKER_00

Do he really believe that it was only like one time?

SPEAKER_01

Exactly.

SPEAKER_00

Do he really believe that it was just like a weakness moment? No, no, no, no. Because that's what he put it as. He said it was a weakness moment. She said it was a weakness moment.

SPEAKER_02

He's just but when he confronted his brother, he said, right. But look, no, we've been fucking. Hey, been fucking. Hey, nigga, this is our bitch.

SPEAKER_05

That's our baby.

SPEAKER_02

What you gonna do about it? Man, this R Baby, bitch.

SPEAKER_05

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_00

At that point, it's everywhere.

SPEAKER_05

It's our bitch and our baby. At the time of conception, right? She probably slept with both of them, right? Right.

SPEAKER_02

Probably in the same day, type of thing. Right.

SPEAKER_05

So in her head, she's both of y'all, baby. She no in her head, she's gonna blame the obvious person, which is my husband.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, the husband. Right. Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_05

It only came out because there was a melt, a medical issue. Yeah, so it could be a shock to both. She was not necessarily a shock that it's here, but a shock that oh my god, oh my god, I knew that this was what it was.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, I just had it. I just had an image though. Another medical situation. What gunshot wound to the head? She gone.

SPEAKER_00

That's level 10 trees.

SPEAKER_02

Well, imagine, imagine she done fucked your brother, came on and fucked you, and you done ate her out with and your brother Semen just in there.

SPEAKER_00

You want you know, okay. Now that's that's when you do some so you done slurped up, you done slurped up your brother. Okay, yeah. No, that's what you do.

SPEAKER_02

Wait, they did a threesome.

SPEAKER_03

I ain't gonna lie, if she fucked his brother, she's fucking she's definitely fucking. There's no there's no level to that. Bro, she fucked little bro.

SPEAKER_02

He can't he can't trust the baby. Every time she leaves for work, she gets hit. I'm gonna be honest. If you fuck his brother, it's nobody off limits. His homeboys, aunties, cousins, uncles. I ain't gonna lie, everybody.

SPEAKER_00

You need to go fuck everybody. You need to hey no, no, no. You know what you need to do? You need to go fuck her sister. No, you need to go fuck her mama. You need to go fucking. Yeah, the mama worked too.

SPEAKER_02

Now fuck the mama. The mama be the bitch. Do what you gotta do.

SPEAKER_00

Because it's no level of give back you can get. He really blew in her. Do what you gotta do. It's a baby in the it's a baby and you didn't fuck the dick. I don't care if you gotta do some shit. You better fuck somebody. I don't care if you gotta go get burnt and then go burn that bitch.

SPEAKER_03

If the mama did, he better fuck the nigga gotta go get burnt and burn that bitch. He gotta go burn that bitch. No, he gotta go get burnt and burn the nigga got a purpose to get an S. But listen though, but listen though. Listen though, listen though. He caught her fucked up, right? Gang, you could read matter of fact, you should stay because you could get away with anything. Murder, go to the bar, get drunk, walk in the house, smack the fuck out of her. Walk in the house with a bitch. She's not gonna do nothing. Walk in the house with a bitch. There you go.

SPEAKER_00

Walk in the house with a bitch.

SPEAKER_02

You fuck my brother and had a baby body. Fuck that.

SPEAKER_00

I get another bitch pregnant. You know what? At that point, I'm gonna get the bitch pregnant. What you gonna do? I'm about to fuck her and get her pregnant. That same bitch you walked in the door with. That same bitch.

SPEAKER_05

I'm about to bring her and her mama in here. Babies cost, I ain't getting nobody. Oh no, you know what?

SPEAKER_03

Oh, I'm not taking care of no more kids. Whoever I walked, I'm not taking care of no more kids. No, no, no, no, no. No, sir. You got a miscommunication. Yeah, I'm blowing up and everything. That ain't mine.

SPEAKER_05

That's when they say hurt people, hurt people. That's my brother's. Oh, yeah. But listen now, everybody finna catch the blood. It's gonna be like a chat reaction.

SPEAKER_03

I hope he's still listening right now. He probably not listening, he probably in the crib whooping ass right now. But if you are still listening, go on Facebook and contact Lux Walker, L U X Walker. We turn this into a movie.

SPEAKER_02

Hey, what you movie coming soon.

SPEAKER_00

Hey, I'm playing him. Hey, and hey, let me play him. Let me play him. But we gotta find out if he crashed out first. And we calling the movie my brother's keeper.

SPEAKER_05

No, no, we ain't crashed out. If we do the movie, he definitely gotta crash out in the movie. Yeah, so I get to play him.

SPEAKER_03

You can get in the movie. Can't nobody acting better than you, Mommy.

SPEAKER_05

Right. They're gonna be like, Oh, he's gonna be here, man. I ain't gonna lie.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, he played that, bro.

SPEAKER_07

I'm gonna tell you he did that. He did that.

SPEAKER_03

I damn near know for a fact he's not listening no more.

SPEAKER_02

That is funny.

SPEAKER_03

No, he probably is. I ain't gonna lie. He needs to I ain't gonna lie. Bro, he probably beating the fucking bro. But he he probably whooping her. You need to go beat your little brother ass. My little brother can't play with that. Man, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_05

Let me ask y'all this.

SPEAKER_00

So we his ass would have been grass.

SPEAKER_02

That it's your little brother, or is it just offensive that it's your brother? Period. Yeah, I think it's your brother.

SPEAKER_00

It's both ways.

SPEAKER_02

Hey, chill on Bernard, he didn't do nothing.

SPEAKER_05

But this this but I was about to ask. So we heard we heard how animated and how uh emphasis and scoop was. I want to hear from the older mind. Like in real time, how are you handling this night? Oh, me, me and my brother throwing hands. What if what if you know you can't beat him?

SPEAKER_06

Oh, I'm gonna beat him. Oh, but this. Oh, yeah, he on the same time we never beat him before in my life. I'm gonna beat him this time.

SPEAKER_03

You can't beat this me after this right now?

SPEAKER_05

I'm saying, so like, now y'all know what my mind is. Y'all know I done I done went against a seven-footer, 300 and something pound. It's nobody I feel like I can't beat. But that's true. It's some people who look at it's some people who look at people and be like, yo, I know I can't beat cuz, so I gotta look take this a different route.

SPEAKER_02

Let me tell you, let me tell y'all something so crazy. So when DCM Lil' Brother first got locked up, Shred always used to ask, like, he wanted to go see him because he really the only one who knew him, right? Because the other kids were still too little. So we were going to like fill out paperwork saying that the little brother was his dad, so that he could see him, because you could only see like immediate family, yeah. Like your like nieces and nephews don't count, right? Only kids count. So we was gonna fill out the paperwork saying that he was Shred dad. DCM said, No, because I beat both y'all ass. It ain't it wasn't even a possibility or nothing, it was just the the thought of he said, Yeah, I thought about it. We ain't doing that. That's like all right.

SPEAKER_03

So this is up situation because at this grown age, I put my vegetation papers in and I put him as my father, and that's his granddaughter. Oh but I got denied because I got a ticket, so damn, but that was the only way we could see him though.

SPEAKER_05

But that's crazy how like time repeatedly.

SPEAKER_02

Because that was that was what he'd been locked up for what almost 20 years, right?

SPEAKER_07

21, I think.

SPEAKER_02

No, 20, because he got locked up the same year we got married, yeah. So almost 20 years. So when he first got locked up, Shred was only like four, but he was the only one, like he was asking about him so much. Like, I want to see him, I want to see him. So he was like, Bam, we're gonna figure it out. But it's crazy that now they tried it again because that's the only way she will be able to see him. Yeah, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_03

My daughter is named after him.

SPEAKER_05

Oh yeah, yeah, that's dope.

SPEAKER_02

That's yeah, and and it's crazy, they got the same middle name though.

SPEAKER_05

But I said when when when he gets home, you know, he's gonna be like a jackrabbit out here. He said name one afternoon.

SPEAKER_02

Two minutes, two minutes, it only takes a minute to make a baby.

SPEAKER_03

He's gonna be in there for two minutes.

SPEAKER_01

Like you looking at my friend when you said that because because she had the situation.

SPEAKER_05

I know with C O P D Mine Mine is the heart computer.

SPEAKER_02

C O P D. Let that nigga tell you the best two minutes of the movie.

SPEAKER_05

When you put a cup, you able to put a head to a fee feet?

SPEAKER_02

Because it's only five more years. He he that's in a minute now. Yeah, he's gonna be uh a young forty.

SPEAKER_05

So yeah,

SPEAKER_02

A head and he's put a head on the 37 this year or something with a heartbeat on the feet. Oh, it's all men can make kids at 42. Hell yeah. Oh, he's gonna make some kids.

SPEAKER_03

Me can make point. Oh, he's making kids. I know he makes a kids. I know who he's making the kids with.

SPEAKER_05

All right, all right. So let's do this. Let's do this. Listen, I'm gonna start with hilarious.

unknown

Okay.

SPEAKER_05

I'm gonna start with Kiki. Final word. What? What are we telling my man?

SPEAKER_07

Oh shit.

SPEAKER_01

Just hurry.

SPEAKER_05

What are we telling them, Kiki? Talk about it.

SPEAKER_01

I'm gonna just say, just go to jail and beat her ass. Because what you mean, man? Go to jail for more to be. That's your turn. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I you can't stay with her.

SPEAKER_05

I can't even say turn this mic off. You only got one yet.

SPEAKER_01

I mean you can't stay with her because you ain't you ain't never gonna respect her. So you can't stay with her. You can't respect her. So you gotta you gotta let that shit go. But I do, I don't even condone violence, but on this situation, you gotta throw some hands on that one. I ain't even gonna lie.

SPEAKER_02

It's unacceptable. It's too much.

SPEAKER_01

That's like the lowest of the lows.

SPEAKER_02

I'm I'm gonna be honest. I think that you should cut them all off.

SPEAKER_01

Everybody gotta go.

SPEAKER_02

Because you know, my my thought gotta go. My thought process is your relation to me does not give you access to me. Yeah, so your brother, your mama, whoever, whoever thinks this shit is cool, all them people gotta be cut off. Yeah, I don't think that you should throw your freedom away, right? I don't know. I don't because you still got but you still got a life to live. And bro, you still got a life to live. And I think that you should still live your life. But I do think that you should cut all of those people off. And I'm not gonna say it's gonna be easy. It's hard to cut your people off, but you have to. Relation does not automatically grant access. So if you gotta go dolo in this world by yourself, then do that. But I don't think you should risk your freedom. I'm going up here.

SPEAKER_05

Is it a is it are you in danger, right?

SPEAKER_02

If you you pissed off because you think everybody already knew, but if you're embarrassing, if you're embarrassing, but I'm not saying that they knew, but I'm saying they stance is that's your brother, you gotta get over it. That ain't true.

SPEAKER_07

No, no, I'm saying the question though. That's the question I'm asking is that the I'm sorry, go ahead.

SPEAKER_05

The question is you feel like in your head this person knew. Right, right, but in reality, they didn't know.

SPEAKER_01

So now I'm finna lose a relationship with how how does you know you're not gonna be able to do something.

SPEAKER_02

No, no, no, no, no, listen, listen.

SPEAKER_05

Well, he didn't know that the dad, well, the uncle didn't know until the dad didn't know he was an uncle until this moment.

SPEAKER_02

But listen, I'm not talking of the stance that they already knew, I'm talking of the stance that once they knew, they said that's your brother, you gotta get over.

SPEAKER_01

You gotta stay crying. That's what I'm talking about.

SPEAKER_02

I'm not talking, I'm not talking about, I'm not talking about everybody knowing your brother's fucking your bitch and being cool with it. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about once they found, let me tell you something. Let one of my sons come to me and say, My my brother fathered my child. I'm not gonna say that's your brother, you gotta forgive him. Fuck that nigga. That's what you say, less than 12 treason, whatever whatever the treason level is.

SPEAKER_05

And and I'm just saying her voice just came back to that one word, right?

SPEAKER_02

It's coming back to us. Listen, I'm saying that, I'm saying that from a stance of somebody that don't I don't fuck with my siblings. I never have to, right? Because your relation to me does not give you access to me. So if you out here violating to the point where you fucking my wife and making a baby, nigga, you nothing to me. You worse to me than a stranger on the street. Because you violated me in a way nobody should never. My brother, viol exactly. So not only did you fuck my bitch, but you fucked my bitch wrong. Yeah. You played in my face. You played in my face, you played in my face and procreated with my bitch. They talking about forgive him because you my brother. I don't fuck with my brothers for less. I don't fuck with my brothers because how they treat my mama. So imagine, imagine something like that. Like, I I guess I can't be in the same situation because I'm the girl, right? So my brothers can't fuck my bitch and make a baby. But if they could, nigga, fuck you.

SPEAKER_05

Okay, but you but you can do this though. You do got a sister. So what if it was your sister that not necessarily pro let's let's take the procreation out because my the hardest part of this whole scenario is the kid that's involved that don't have nothing to do with none of this, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02

But that's why they get worse, but that's why that's why it's casualty award, baby. Yeah, I get all that. It do make it worse. It does make it worse. But this is my thing. You gotta hey, you got a dad, nigga.

SPEAKER_00

All right. You think he'd be losing, you think he'd be losing more by by leaving? Like, do y'all think he'd be losing more by leaving than they? Yeah, I mean, I guess the bitch taken care of because he'll leave he'll lose his family.

SPEAKER_02

No, he definitely gonna be. No, no, no.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I don't think he'll lose more by leaving.

SPEAKER_02

Sometimes you gotta walk away and start over, though. Sometimes you gotta walk away. You know what's crazy? You know what's crazy. I wish Luke, right? Because he'll be able to stay. You sometimes you can write and you you you this low to the ground.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, that's all. But if you but if you stay, all you do is lose your pride.

SPEAKER_02

You just know your peace, everything.

SPEAKER_00

You ain't gonna never be able to do it. But is it worth losing everything though? Is it worth losing everything that you built for six years?

SPEAKER_01

Absolutely, because you're never gonna be able to trust her again.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02

So, what's the point? What's you're not gonna be able to trust your relationship? Your head is gonna always be over your shoulder, like what you doing? You're never gonna trust. No, I don't think they should be together. No peace. I don't think they should be together, but I also don't think he should throw his life away.

SPEAKER_01

No, that's the thing I ain't saying throw your wife like your life away, but you definitely get you gonna you you're gonna come out with some screws and rules now. It's gotta be what you're gonna come out with a little There's gotta be some consequence on those actions. I think I gotta feel better. That's all I'm saying. You gotta get your ass beat.

SPEAKER_05

Let's let's flip around.

SPEAKER_01

Oh my god, bro.

SPEAKER_05

I know he said a lot, but let's find the find a word.

SPEAKER_03

Listen, listen to me, folks. She wrong, he wrong, the little nigga wrong. What the little nigga do the baby, the baby. But listen, you know who your daddy is. You are you are presenting a daddy. All right, all right, all right, all right, all right. All right, the little nigga been lying. No, no, no, listen again on my side at that point. He in the bastard baby ain't got shit to do with me. Bro, listen, right. I ain't gonna lie, bro. Real shit. Listen, bro. I'm about to get canceled because of what I'm about to say.

SPEAKER_01

Oh shit. Don't say it.

SPEAKER_03

Listen, folks, get worse because I know you, I know you not a nigga. Off the back, I know you're not a nigga. So off the back, you really need to get on your imperial wizard timing, nigga. You have to kill everybody, bro. This one to TI, like real life, like real life, like like like get into your roots, like your brother backdoors you, bro. It don't get no worse than your brother backdooring you, like nothing worse in your life could ever happen. Nigga, your little brother your bitch and blew up in her and had a kid, and you thought it was yours, and it's just your nephew, bro. That's peace, though. Gang, let that shit sink in. Like when you was typing this shit, I know you didn't let it sink in. Like, let it sink in. And I want I want you, I want you to make it listen. Listen, he said he thought I don't even want you to crash no more. I want you to make this make you a better person. Like, I want you to never trust another bitch in your life, damn, like ever. Like, don't trust another bitch ever. Damn, don't and nigga, you don't have no more family. They talking about no, that's your brother, nigga. Fuck y'all, fuck them, nigga. And and and stay from around me, yeah, nigga. And I'm a CPL holder. If I see y'all again, I'm gonna be nervous. I'm gonna be scared when y'all see me. You woke up scared. I'm gonna be scared when y'all see me. And and my nigga, I ain't gonna lie. All you gotta do is wake up every day, mad, because you have nothing to be happy about. All right, PMO school, talk about it.

SPEAKER_05

What you're saying, but final words, get it to him.

SPEAKER_00

I don't, I don't even know. He took my final word. I don't know if I should tell him this. I don't know, bro. You know, it's a lot, it's a lot, bro. Because listen, me in that situation, I will only think about the kid. I swear I would only think about the kid.

SPEAKER_01

Nigga, Tay just so you would stay baby daddy. So you would stay doing the tape.

SPEAKER_00

Nothing.

SPEAKER_01

You double get the fuck out of here.

SPEAKER_07

I'm liar.

SPEAKER_00

I love he's a liar. See, me personally, I love my little brothers a lot, right? What you're going to that woo. Yeah, now she might get it. Like she might get it, though. He's a liar. Talk about nothing. Now listen, right now, bro. If you if you and your brother would do you really telling me you're gonna just say fuck your brother, yeah, over this bitch. You probably just met. Yeah, nigga, talk about Jason. Nigga, they're married. Oh, married for 10 years. That's his wife. Mary my bitch, my little brother fucked her. Yeah, oh yeah, he's been married for 10 years. He gotta see me outside. Like, we gotta do it. That's how you find out. That's how you find out Jace is fucking Tayson. Oh, yeah, and he got to do the expenses and shit. Yeah, he gotta pay for all that. That's what I'm saying. I'm not doing that no more because he's spinning. He just sat right here and said he can't do nothing. I'm thinking listen, I'm thinking it was like a girlfriend or something.

SPEAKER_02

First of all, school, I'd have known you for girlfriend. Pause. I'd have known you for more half of your life. You crashed off for less. I know. Hey, no, why are you gonna find out your baby is Tay Baby and just oh, I love my little brother. You is a liar.

SPEAKER_00

Listen, but if it was just like a girlfriend, it's not like this nigga the other night.

SPEAKER_02

I never wanted to do that before.

SPEAKER_00

If it was just not like a girlfriend, like somebody that I just met, I can see my wife. But if it was just a girlfriend, then I would not care. Because you know you know how many, but do you know how many of my brothers not the all right, mama pop? Chill out, chill out. Do you know how many of my brothers did probably fuck the girls that I didn't fuck? I never got mad, never cared, never ended up. You're a fucking liar.

SPEAKER_01

But school, you my real brother.

SPEAKER_00

I didn't see you putting it. If one of my brothers even follow the woman that I love, I'm beating AX.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly. Exactly. Yes, exactly.

SPEAKER_00

Even if you even catch that follow button, listen, gang.

SPEAKER_03

This is my real brother.

SPEAKER_00

This is the woman that I love, though. Your brother can't follow your body. No, no, this is my reason in the real life.

SPEAKER_03

Went to war with one of our brothers because they followed Way Shorty. Yes, so all this, oh, but he previously grew up. And he previously tried to fucking liar.

SPEAKER_00

You see what I'm saying? He I had a reason to not trust him. He previously tried to fuck the baby mama. So it was like, it's like, bro, you I know his baby mama, yeah. After he tried, it ain't my fault. He couldn't fuck mine because you didn't let him. He said, 'cause you didn't let him see in my defense, she told me. That's good. In my defense, she told me, and his def in his defense is baby mama.

SPEAKER_03

Let me bottom of the bottom of the bottom bottom line. Very quick, this is my real brother. Right, he just sat here and said, If it it if I said if my wife is if it's my girlfriend, it's different. I'm telling y'all right now. TMO Scoop. If his little brother got one of his one of his side hoes pregnant, is going to be war in that house. No, don't even listen to him right now. He's a fucking liar. He's gonna beat everybody else in that house. A side ho, any bitch you got love for, scooter.

SPEAKER_00

No, I don't got love for my side hoes. Okay, so you gotta put somebody else in that. We talk about this nigga wife.

SPEAKER_05

So you're not possessed if you're anybody can get the side. It's good, it's good, it's good.

SPEAKER_00

Uncle Mardi and hey, and I spills, and I spilled some beans on here. I spilled some beans on here. No, okay.

SPEAKER_06

I just feel like uh if it's more than a day, I tell y'all how I feel if it's more than three to five. I feel like if it's more than three to five years, day one.

SPEAKER_05

Who won?

SPEAKER_06

Somebody locked up. Yeah, if I get locked up for more than three to five years, I feel like day one.

SPEAKER_02

You're right, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06

For sure. If you get locked up for a year, they won't get to five. But anything more than that, I feel like day one.

SPEAKER_00

Three to five, I do a year, more than a year, day one. You gone for a whole year.

SPEAKER_05

I know I'll I'll do three to five for them.

SPEAKER_02

Cheat damage you think you could do to get three to five years. It's not even about the cheating. That's because he's that's because he's in the union. That's the principle. That's just the principle of the shit. That's the principle. I don't give a union gonna get his job.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, not in the union, so you're not gonna keep his job, he gets it back in the job.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, all right.

SPEAKER_05

Read talk about it. What you got?

SPEAKER_02

It's the principle. You need your ass beat. No, don't deal with no family, none of that, because they knew all that. Just oh, the whole family. The whole the whole family just is over with. It's over with. Don't say shit to me.

SPEAKER_06

Anyone who knew about it is over, but I don't know.

SPEAKER_02

But I'm not saying once they found out about it, they stance wasn't what it is but I'm not gonna just like okay, well, I think they knew my you can't take care of my nephew, that's nephew, and all that. You know what I'm saying? But that's all he knew. You can still do what you want to do, but I ain't gonna be like, oh, don't do this, don't do that, don't do that. You know what I'm saying? But do do what you feel is comfortable for you, but I'm not gonna be with you though. I'm not gonna be with you.

SPEAKER_05

So this this is what I'm gonna say. I know sometimes the hardest decision that you make is not about it being right, it's about it being what you can take.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, that pill you can swallow.

SPEAKER_05

For me, the best advice that I'm gonna give is the thing that I've been teaching. I teach, I've been teaching this to my son since they could came out of the womb. Life is literally about being strategic. Y'all out here talking about I'm going through jail time and I'm getting rich. No, we ain't doing none of that. We're gonna be strategic about what we got going on, and then also we're gonna know that my presence in your life is more valuable being with you.

SPEAKER_02

I'm a little too, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_05

So if I remove that, then we're good, right? So I can't tell you exactly what I would do to my brother because the younger me was about to do my brother in easily. The younger me was ready to, you know, DDT my my one brother who's locked up at a young age. He did just something small. It wasn't small at the time, but I was ready to give it to him, right? So the younger me would have would have definitely probably crashed out immediately. But this version of me probably is it's not even probably, it's definitely way more strategic about what I'm gonna do behind that, right?

SPEAKER_02

Right.

SPEAKER_05

And it's way more dangerous for literally everybody involved. I don't mind cutting everybody off as far as family-wise, you know what I'm saying? I've done it, you know. It's it's a lot of my family I don't deal with just because I'm big on I'm big on loyalty, right? I had a homeboy that that was that showed disloyalty. Now I feel I feel nothing. No, you don't have to bless that we did. Oh, I'm like, I'm good with all of that.

SPEAKER_02

And what you say, Keisha, about your family, just because you don't have access to me, whatever don't grant you access to me. Yes, I have I'm going through that now. I'm just like with my sister, you know what I'm saying? It's like just having relationships, you know what I'm saying? Just because we not cool like that, that don't mean you like okay, just call them like race. You need to do this. You mean you're gonna like you just older than me and you my bigger sister. That's it.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah, that's it.

SPEAKER_02

I don't fuck with my older sister. That's it. You just you got me by 17 months, and you're my bigger sister, you know what I'm saying? So it's just hard for me just to okay, I'm gonna listen to you. No, I can take heed to what you're saying, but it's up to me if I wanna understand what you trying to implement to me. Like, no, if I don't want to hear about it, like, no, I'm not about it, like, okay, well, you calling me, I need to do this. I'm like, no, like you said, you just 17 months older than me, and you my bigger sister. That's it. That's the only type of relationship we have. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, it's it's things that I would do, you know. I'll take my kids out the equation because they they can have a lung, a heart, whatever. But it's things that I would I would definitely do for Kiki that some of my family members has no access to.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, I I totally understand. Totally understand. Totally understand, yeah.

SPEAKER_05

It it definitely doesn't have anything to do with like your given title. Yeah, it's all about the title that you actually live in in my life.

SPEAKER_02

No, it is about your given title, it's not about your inheritance title. Yeah, so because I give you the title as my brother, like Lenar, my brother, because I want him to be. Yeah, not because he inherited that.

SPEAKER_05

Right, right.

SPEAKER_02

You know what I'm saying? But it's about your given title, it's not about your inheritance title.

SPEAKER_03

All right. So, with that being said, man, go ahead.

SPEAKER_02

I get that.

SPEAKER_03

Listen, this is this is for everybody here, and this is for the people listening. Hey, drop in the comments for me. Drop in the comments, and I want y'all's response. How often do y'all think little bro was hitting that motherfucker in them six years? That's a good question. Every every chance he could, every time she got it. So, hey, let me know in the comments, man. How often do y'all think that little nigga was hitting that in them six years, man? Yeah, that that's definitely a because if you ask me, he was in that motherfucker every week once. At least twice a week.

SPEAKER_05

Twice a week, twice. He said he was pulling twelve times out the week. What? All right, so also the 12 at least twice a week. Also, in the comments, let us know if y'all was leaving a stand of what you think about this whole situation. There's some people that are staying.

SPEAKER_03

There's some people that are staying.

SPEAKER_02

It's people that definitely will stay. Uncle not around us, so chill out. Go ahead, babe.

SPEAKER_03

Hey, Uncle Notes. Definitely stay.

SPEAKER_02

No, no, what no, no, no.

SPEAKER_06

Miscommunication. I I would probably still deal with the kid because it ain't his fault. Right, that's what I was saying.

SPEAKER_02

Still deal with the kid. And how would you deal with that, like far as dealing with the kid? Like, far is even though it's the because it's not the baby far, it's not the baby far. It's not so you would deal with uh your brother's so much trouble for him, though. How would you deal with that?

SPEAKER_00

He would have to be next, like you can't go back to the biggest. How would you deal with it?

SPEAKER_02

You have to deal with your brother or your wife. How would you deal with like far as like you got a little family communication? We about to go out and out. You being daddy. How would you be like, Okay, I'm gonna come get my nephew son for the weekend, nephew, son?

SPEAKER_06

Right, I ain't think about it like that.

SPEAKER_02

Who would you communicate with?

SPEAKER_06

It don't have to be my brother, okay. You don't gotta pick him up every week and he's your nephew, bro. But it'll definitely be my brother.

SPEAKER_02

Because you don't want to do nothing with the female. No, me and her ain't never speaking, right? So you have to do okay.

SPEAKER_05

The part that'll help is if he was deadbeat. Red, red, if your brother was a deadbeat, then that'll help. That'll help out a little bit because that'll help you with your decision. Okay, oh no.

SPEAKER_02

But if you try to if it's the summertime, you're trying to get your kid, nephew, whatever for the weekend, you know, for the whole summer.

SPEAKER_05

You're not obligated.

SPEAKER_03

That's making her win. That's a win for her. I got pregnant by your little brother. He don't want to step up. You still gonna take care of this little nigga. I mean look at my feet up, kicked up.

SPEAKER_05

Think about situations where the the baby Yeah, I get what you say.

SPEAKER_02

That's why Adam Lenard did I get it. But she won.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, sometimes, sometimes the I ain't look at it like that.

SPEAKER_03

And apparently, she a hoe at heart. So, guess what? Like, think about this too.

SPEAKER_05

So, we we gotta wrap it up, man.

SPEAKER_02

But what if he not a daddy though? What if the husband not a deadby? She knows we're a horny ass bitch that just wanna just want to fuck.

SPEAKER_03

I'm about to go live on TikTok. We're gonna talk about this shit on my TikTok.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, because this this this guy so everybody everybody invited to come back next week, man. Y'all want to come through?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, because he's funny the motherfucker.

SPEAKER_05

Right. KD talked to her.

SPEAKER_02

Oh you can follow. You can follow me at your girl.kd. You can follow Kiki at R R R P Kiki. You can follow Coach DTM at Coach DTM. You can follow the podcast, the podcast page at RP network. All of our handles are on the page. Thanks for having me, guys.

SPEAKER_05

Talk about it.

SPEAKER_01

You can't you can listen to us on my favorite platform, YouTube. Let me do it. I also love iHeart Radio or wherever you get your podcast.

SPEAKER_05

And we appreciate all our guests for coming through, man. Celebrating with us. We appreciate having one of the one of the dopest engineers in the building with us as well, man.

SPEAKER_07

Shout out.

SPEAKER_02

I love I love the bell, Deontay. She's my favorite. She's my favorite. I love the bell, Keisha. Deontay, I love the bell. Thank you. Talk about it. Talk about it. About to start.

SPEAKER_05

So yeah, we definitely appreciate y'all tuning in each and every week, man. We back again next week. Make sure y'all tune in. We got you something on Wednesdays. We got you something on Fridays. And we got something to works coming real soon. If you are available, if you're breathing, make yourself available. April 18th. We're doing a live recording. Downtown Detroit. If you're in the city, if you're not in the city, get to the city, man. April 18th at Buffalo Wild Wings at 6 p.m. Downtown Detroit. It's only one. It's only one downtown Detroit. Make sure y'all come through. It was be something that you don't want to miss. And then you can just literally party with us all night. We got a couple podcasts doing their thing. We in this thing, man. It's going to be an epic night. So make sure y'all tune in. If you thought any of this was something, April 18th. Got you. April 18th, man. Make sure y'all are there. Make sure you're in the building. Buffalo, Walloween, downtown Detroit. It's going to be something big. Reese, what you got?

SPEAKER_02

Same thing I said before. Thanks for having me.

SPEAKER_05

Talk about it. Talk about it. Shred, what you got? Before we brought up out of here. Not about my man. Just about just about life in itself. Just about life in itself, man.

SPEAKER_03

I'm mad now.

SPEAKER_05

Shred is one of the Shred is one of the dopest.

SPEAKER_03

So like he just ruined my money.

SPEAKER_05

Shred is one of the dopest feet in the game. So if y'all want to check out his music, let them know how they can find you.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, you go. Real 2030 Shred, man. I ain't gonna lie, bro. Scooter got an album.

SPEAKER_05

I got you. Hold on. I'm coming around in now. So also TMO Scrooge just dropped the album. It's one of the dopest albums that came out in 2026. Let them know how they can find it, download it, get it in.

SPEAKER_00

Uh you can find it everywhere for real.

SPEAKER_05

What's the name of it? All platforms. I'm about to drop another one.

SPEAKER_00

No, I'm about to drop another one.

SPEAKER_07

It's my turn. It is his turn. It's my turn. What is her? What's this one called though?

SPEAKER_00

This one, the one that I'm gonna be dropping from the intense. Oh, Toxic Lover Boys.

SPEAKER_05

You the the volume two. All right, cool.

SPEAKER_03

Rich off hits dropping soon, man. Rich off his dropping soon. I gotta drop before school because he be trying to take all the fans. I just got a lot of music.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, you can't follow me, but uh as always, it's a pleasure to uh to be here.

SPEAKER_02

He got that radio voice. All right, y'all. What you want for me to use down next time?

SPEAKER_05

Thank you to my thank you to my my beautiful babies in the background, that kid. They came through the sounds of love too. Love y'all. And uh we will definitely see you next week. I'm the one that only coached DTM.

SPEAKER_01

Your hostess with the most is kids.

SPEAKER_05

Tune in.

SPEAKER_01

So long bye bye.

SPEAKER_07

So long, take it ate so long.