My EX calls me for counseling! ft Shred episode 305

What would you do if your significant other’s ex constantly called your significant other for advice? Would that piss you off? 

Transcript

SPEAKER_05 0:18

I think it's a week. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, what's going on in the scroll? What do you think of the store? I got to investigate a stop and gym just trying to run it to point it. Oh, it's been a girl, we own it. Smell like money, I collect it.

SPEAKER_03 1:08

I'm just a D girl from Ron Away with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, KD.

SPEAKER_06 1:12

What up, though? You know who it is. Your boy Coach D T M AKA Pure Motivation. I am Mr. Energy. Everybody love me. I don't have one enemy. Our podcast is here now, so you gotta respect it. You never get off on us because we never the exit. If you know me, then you know that I'm more than the savage who loves living life and is allergic to average, so in conclusion, so it's no confusion. If you see somebody really than us, it's an illusion. Talk about it. What up, though?

SPEAKER_03 1:34

What up, what up, though?

SPEAKER_06 1:36

Man, listen, listen, welcome to another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast. We are on the network, baby. We're getting it, and this is gonna be a star studied. You know, we got a fan favorite, we got a already city legend, you know. We already, you know, he out here doing this though, physical out here, you know what I'm saying, making waves out here, being a household name, etc. and etc. Go ahead, introduce yourself.

SPEAKER_02 2:03

Come on, man. This is Mr. Rare Ridge being forever 2030, the biggest shred, man. I'm back, I'm back. Did we check on did we check on old boy? We did check on old boy. Is he okay?

SPEAKER_06 2:14

He good, he good.

SPEAKER_02 2:15

I didn't want my words to come off as too harsh, man.

SPEAKER_03 2:17

Oh, they was harsh as hell. I listened back to that episode like dog.

SPEAKER_02 2:21

Yeah, but I but I told him this slid up at the end though, so it's okay, right?

SPEAKER_03 2:26

I said I thought I wasn't raped too tight. This little boy ain't rapped at all.

SPEAKER_02 2:29

And who fought is that?

SPEAKER_03 2:31

I guess genetics. We had to get it from Munro. No, we got that from hey Noah.

SPEAKER_02 2:37

Y'all want to know a silly story about Monroe? Man, what listen? So y'all know my car got took. You feel me? So I tell Papa, I'm like, Yeah, Papa, they found I got my car. You feel me? It's at the impound lot. Guess what? He asked about Papa, don't care about nothing else. You gonna give it to me dinosaurs? No, sir. No, sir. It's about to blow your mind, actually. He say, son, did they get your gun?

SPEAKER_03 3:09

I say, I say, Papa, man.

SPEAKER_02 3:11

I don't know if they got my gun, but the way, but it's like that y'all gotta hear it in the enthusiasm in his voice. Like, yeah, like, like, did they get your gun? Like, like, look, like, think about Martin Luther King saying, yeah, like like like, no, did they get your gun? Like, man, I'm I'm right here with you. I don't know what they got. You can't tell me something. Tell me, did they get it? He damn near like, if they got your gun, we're gonna get you another gun. I damn near said, Papa, who you ready to say? Who gotta get dealt with? Who did it, Papa?

SPEAKER_06 3:43

My daddy, no, he ready, you ready. I thought he said, Were you gonna be able to take me? Like, I thought he was known.

SPEAKER_02 3:48

He didn't even care about no dialysis. He didn't care about no dialysis, he cared about that gun. I say, I say, Papa, how you even know my gun be in my car? He said, I seat this, huh? I said, I seated in the back seat, son. He said he said, He he said he ain't new to this, he's true to this. Good. Next time I pick Papa from dialysis, he rocking Drake.

SPEAKER_06 4:10

He's gonna have it lap, he's gonna have it on his lap. Like, they don't want to see no old school. Oh, this is heavy. That's what I used to have. Oh, you know, yeah, he was in the service, so chill. My pop in the service, man.

SPEAKER_02 4:22

Pop ain't had no fully Drake, man.

SPEAKER_06 4:24

Man, he had grenades.

SPEAKER_02 4:25

They didn't have no FRTs back then, man. They don't want to see me one of them, man.

SPEAKER_06 4:35

All right, before we get to pod, man, let me just check on everybody, man. How y'all doing? Everything good? How was y'all week and weekend?

SPEAKER_02 4:42

You gonna ask me that, and I was just one off from a $13,000 parlay. How would you be? I would be good, man. You know what?

SPEAKER_06 4:51

You would be good because I still got my fent my 10 fingers and my 10 toes, and I'm breathing.

SPEAKER_02 4:55

You know, I know who I bet now never see in real life.

SPEAKER_06 5:01

Hey, these ladies are get you gone, trying to tell you. Hey man, they they they say uh Kevin Durant got so much hate mail one day because he he he was off by one point.

SPEAKER_02 5:10

No, LeBron or no, KD, crazy. He'll get on Twitter with you. Yeah, yeah. No, they want to. Matter of fact, if you look up, look up KD right now on Twitter. Somebody added them, like, oh, you weak woody whoop. He said, No, you just a weak ass parlay picker.

SPEAKER_06 5:23

Yeah, no, KD will go back and forth with any and everybody.

SPEAKER_02 5:26

Sure, we'll talk about me.

SPEAKER_06 5:28

Something in the name, something in the name.

SPEAKER_02 5:30

Oh, y'all want to talk about me? Hey, I know you're a LeBron fan, so I know it's kind of biased, but is he scared of LeBron? It gotta be.

SPEAKER_06 5:37

I mean, he ain't really he wasn't really able to do anything with him unless he was with Golden State. That's the only time, but it's because they had so much firepower over there.

SPEAKER_02 5:48

That I mean, with or without KD did was win the championship.

SPEAKER_06 5:51

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So he well, so well, they they didn't win the year before, they was winning the championship. They was, I mean, they were doing their thing, they they was gonna run for sure.

SPEAKER_02 6:00

You could have put Isaiah Stewart right there, they were still winning the championship. You could have put playoff Jalen Duran right there. I mean because obviously Jalen Duran don't do nothing in the playoffs. Apparently, I had this nigga for 20 or for 15 and 10. He don't get neither one. I will say this. I know I better not see him no more.

SPEAKER_06 6:17

I will I will say this though. The year that the years that they did win, he was the playoff MVP and all that other stuff.

SPEAKER_02 6:24

That's cool. But if he wasn't there, somebody else would have just been the MVP. That was a team right there. They was gonna win regardless. No, yeah, they definitely had a fire, a fire team. That's just like saying, Oh, Tom Brady wouldn't have won without Gronk. That don't even make sense. That's a do-it right there. You can't play with no do-it.

SPEAKER_06 6:41

Look, look at look at KD face. She likes it. She don't know what we're talking about.

SPEAKER_02 6:45

All right, let's get into that.

SPEAKER_03 6:46

I know who Tom Brady is.

SPEAKER_02 6:47

Who is Tom Brady?

SPEAKER_03 6:48

The football player. I I watched his roast. Oh, the football player? Yeah, he was he was a quarterback. Donald Trump, the president. He was a quarterback, and then his wife left him, and now she married to a young guy. But I watched the Tom Brady roast with Kevin Hart on Netflix. What position he played? I just said it was a quarterback. Oh, for what team? The Patriots. And then what else? Oh, I don't know. England.

SPEAKER_06 7:11

Damn. We gotta stop you at Patriot. We let you stay right there. You said Patriots.

SPEAKER_03 7:16

Oh, that's wrong.

SPEAKER_06 7:17

No, that was a good one.

SPEAKER_03 7:19

Yeah, he left there though. I know he retired, then he came back out of retirement and yeah, and then his wife left him.

SPEAKER_02 7:28

Yeah, and he'll come out of his retirement right now and win another one.

SPEAKER_06 7:31

He got he getting he got a team now, though. You know, he owned the Raiders, yeah. Yeah, Las Vegas Raiders. All right, let's uh let's get the pod, man. We got one, we got a couple good juicy joints to uh get to today. The first one said, Hey, coach DTM and the crew.

SPEAKER_03 7:48

The fuck?

SPEAKER_06 7:49

Yeah, I want to be the crew.

SPEAKER_02 7:50

I guess we the crew.

SPEAKER_06 7:51

No crew.

SPEAKER_02 7:52

You you you you address me as Mr. Red Wristband. I don't know nothing about the crew. You not staff on our podcast.

SPEAKER_06 8:02

All right, it says, uh, my husband. Here we go with talks to his ex.

SPEAKER_02 8:08

What? No, come on. Not to not come on, hold on, hold on. Can we can we don't want to leave her alone?

SPEAKER_03 8:17

She don't want to.

SPEAKER_02 8:18

The camera won't be on you.

unknown 8:19

I don't care.

SPEAKER_02 8:20

You so weird. All right, bro. It's good. Don't even touch me tonight. Bro, what I'm sleeping on the couch. No, you sleep on the couch because I'm mad. Excuse me.

SPEAKER_03 8:28

All right, this is this is not the domestic violence of podcasts.

SPEAKER_06 8:32

I always do blue rich bands. It said, Hey coach DTM and the crew. I'm sleeping on the couch tonight.

SPEAKER_04 8:37

Huh?

SPEAKER_06 8:38

Oh no, that's not what he said. No. Oh my bad. No, it said my husband still talked to his ex. Damn. Not the hookup, not about the kids, not even about old memories. She calls him when she needs guidance. Oh career problems, relationship problems, life advanced life advice. And he picks up. He said she just she trusts me. She don't trust a lot of people. She trusts me. So I'm gonna give her the information she needs, right? I say, Why does another woman need my husband for emotional support? Last week she called him crying at 11:30 p.m. Oh, and he answered, and he answered. Oh, did you write this? Because he that's exactly what it said.

SPEAKER_02 9:25

Did you write that? I lost it. She line this shit a lifetime movie. I seen it.

SPEAKER_03 9:30

He it's a too be movie.

SPEAKER_06 9:32

He swears, he swears it is he swears I'm insecure. Or I I say it feels like emotional cheating.

SPEAKER_02 9:40

The evil word.

SPEAKER_06 9:41

Can somebody be too available for an ex? Is this maturity or is it disrespect?

SPEAKER_02 9:50

I ain't gonna lie. My shorty run a very, very strict. She the principal. She the principal. No, no, no, no. She's not the principal, she's the warden. Don't call me for the I ain't gonna lie. I'ma tell I'm I'm gonna look at my phone ring and look at her and be like, I ain't gonna lie. I don't know why she's calling me right now. What? What is you calling me for advice? Well, first of all, I don't even like none. I don't I don't even got no exes. Well, I don't calling you for advice is kind of insane.

SPEAKER_03 10:21

That's stupid, anyways, right? Why are you asking me for advice? If you just want to crash out, just go crash. So I would so did she say they got kids, him and the ex got kids.

SPEAKER_06 10:33

She said, 'Cause she said he don't call about the kids, right?

SPEAKER_03 10:36

I would assume that that would make sure her head on straight. But I would say that would maybe imply that they had a friendship, long-term relationship or like a friendship, right? Now calling 11:30 at night, that's you know, my my person can't be your person. 1130, not that late though. It is, it is in grown up time, that's late. Everything's still open though. Everything's still open at 11 o'clock. Listen, 11:30. Listen, first of all, Laura voice, but uh 11:30 at night in grown-up years, that is late because we got to get up at six o'clock in the morning on a Sunday.

SPEAKER_06 11:12

I did.

SPEAKER_03 11:13

He he had to work today. So, you know what I'm saying? So you gotta be respectful of people's time. Now, I feel like if something happened to you and I weren't together anymore, I would call you for that guidance, and you know what I'm saying, because of the part that you played in my life. So that's just playing devil's advocate.

SPEAKER_06 11:29

I wish you shorty would say you can't call Pop. How would your new new feel about that though? That's the question.

SPEAKER_02 11:34

You don't listen, it don't matter how one thing about it is he don't really got no choice. Yeah, a new new don't really got no choice. First of all, he's gonna be so extorted from every different way, it's so bold, right? Because it's really unfair because he's gonna be like, damn, I can't do nothing with yours. He like, I'm scared to come see you.

SPEAKER_03 11:56

They every time they see me, they're trying to rob me. I don't know what's going on, daddy. But I'm just saying, like, I do think those kind of things play a part, right? Right, but it's calling 11:30 at night. No, like if you ran out of gas, don't call my call. You don't got a man to call.

SPEAKER_02 12:12

I ain't gonna lie, people used to call me at 11:30 at night, bothering me, and they had a boyfriend. Yeah, but that don't count because why don't it count? That shit count, but y'all matter of fact, the whole reason we start back talking is because I was at work and the motherfucker called me at 11 o'clock at night off her niece's phone. Her niece talking about she wants a McDonald's, right?

SPEAKER_03 12:34

But y'all back together. So that would prove this young lady's point that she got a reason to feel insecure. I ain't gonna talk to you like I was talking to a dog. That's don't that don't that kind of prove her point that she was calling you 11 o'clock.

SPEAKER_02 12:49

If somebody calling me at 11 30 at night crying, I can for sure hit that. You calling me at 11:30 at night, these are my sleep hours. You wake me up on my sleep, you know what come after. Don't wake me up at 11:30 at night for nothing.

SPEAKER_03 13:07

But I thought you just said 11:30 wasn't that late, huh? Huh? It ain't that late.

SPEAKER_02 13:11

Everything open at 11:30. But if you're gonna call me at 11:30 at night crying and shit, but I think it's all right, come cry on my shoulder or on my with my thing on your shoulder. I mean, on my shoulder.

SPEAKER_03 13:21

But that's like a that's like a younger generation mentality, right?

SPEAKER_04 13:25

Right.

SPEAKER_03 13:25

Thinking from our age, you know what I'm saying? Like, if we wasn't together and I called you for guidance, I'm just calling you for guidance. That's different though, y'all. But that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06 13:35

Like, but we don't know how and I wish your nigga would say something. We don't know how long what R.

SPEAKER_02 13:41

Kelly say, you know what R. Kelly said? What do you say? It's on chapter seven through ten. What do you say? Ass grass. Let the let the nigga say something. Ass grass.

SPEAKER_03 13:54

Somebody come get this man.

SPEAKER_06 13:55

Yeah. I wonder, is it is it different for different race, though? Do you feel like more black people feel like you can't you can't do that? Now, I'm gonna lean over because I feel like different race see things differently. Why they do though, but respect is respect though. I don't think they look at it as disrespect at 11:30 at night.

SPEAKER_03 14:23

Depending on I ain't gonna lie, he's sugarcoating a white woman gonna be like, make sure she's okay.

SPEAKER_06 14:28

Yeah, I'm saying even if it's a a white couple, right? I believe, and even even a black couple, I feel like the person who's getting called, my man, I don't think he's doing anything wrong, right?

SPEAKER_05 14:40

Because Jamie, we can ask Jamie.

SPEAKER_06 14:42

But I'm saying he's not hiding anything, but I'm sure now if you call me at 11:30, you're not answer the phone and walk out the room.

SPEAKER_03 14:51

His wife is gonna have a problem with that. It's 11:30 at night, bro.

SPEAKER_06 14:54

Jamie, do you agree?

SPEAKER_00 14:55

Uh she calls me at 11 in the afternoon, she's got a problem with the ex calling.

SPEAKER_03 15:00

That's what I'm saying. Like, why is your ex calling you?

SPEAKER_00 15:04

Because my pimping unless you play together and there's a problem with the child, there's no reason to talk to that person. You're done.

SPEAKER_03 15:14

That's what I'm saying. And you like you're not calling about the kids. What are you calling for? But that's the thing, is that mean my person is still your person, and that ain't okay. That's not okay for damn the only reason why my person should still be your person is if y'all still being people together.

SPEAKER_02 15:30

Damn, and that's just being honest. So, what if I don't answer the phone? She killed herself and the kids and writing the letter this because your girl wouldn't let you answer the phone.

SPEAKER_03 15:41

But she just said he don't she don't call about the kids. She said she don't call about the kids, she called about her aunt.

SPEAKER_02 15:48

Obviously, she's having a mental breakdown over something that don't got nothing to do with the kids.

SPEAKER_03 15:52

If she got emotionally unstable, then we need to go to court and get your kids away from her. She bipolar schizophrenic, and you could take your kids from her. I know somebody who bipolar schizophrenic and my nephew took his kids from her, like psycho beat. I'm just saying, like, if you think your kids are in danger, you should step in as a dad and take your kids away, right?

SPEAKER_04 16:10

Right.

SPEAKER_03 16:10

But her her being free to call you every time she called the phone, you answer. I got a problem with that because why does she still got full access to you if you're now my husband?

SPEAKER_06 16:21

I mean, I think to be honest with you, I think some people, even I'm gonna I'm gonna definitely say women, right?

SPEAKER_02 16:29

I would take these headphones off.

SPEAKER_06 16:30

I swear to God, no, no, no. I think that's it. I see y'all later, women will have that same problem, even if it was your job calling, if you keep answering the phone.

SPEAKER_03 16:42

Accurate facts, you feel what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_06 16:44

Because we saw it last night, though.

SPEAKER_03 16:47

We saw it last night. See, I'm about to get the fuck up. Somebody auntie called the phone. Listen, nobody should have full access to you all the time, right? Nobody other than me should have full access to you.

SPEAKER_02 16:58

I ain't trying to be here for this chat. I ain't trying to be here for this chat.

SPEAKER_03 17:03

This shit get personal. They talking last night and shit. Listen, on some real shit. If you if you and your if you and your lady out on a date, y'all having a good time, and I call your phone. It's okay not to answer the phone. Oh, you yes, I'm definitely answering the phone. No, now if I call your phone and I call her phone, probably something going on. Yes, answer.

SPEAKER_06 17:22

Or or if you call twice, something like that.

SPEAKER_02 17:24

One thing about Mr. Rare Risban, people don't usually call me to just see how I'm doing. That's true. If people call me, shit happening. So I gotta answer the phone. I don't care if I'm on the airplane, I don't care if I'm in front of Trump right now. I definitely gotta answer the phone because people don't call me and say, damn, bro, what you doing today? That's true. And I'm a texture. So who so if I call, it's like who has who has that access though? Who has access to family brothers for sure? X. I I will gas four dollars a gallon right now. I will give you $40 to put 10 gallons in your tank and go to the Howie Bridge, the one that's closed, and drive clean off that.

SPEAKER_06 18:03

But no, so even when you say family, that's all family. I mean I'm just asking because I'm asking that because I will hurt a lot of people's feelings.

SPEAKER_02 18:15

I will hurt a lot of people's feelings though, because a lot of my family I don't even kick it with for real, and a lot of my family relatives, I would say relatives, please don't family, family and relatives are different, right?

SPEAKER_03 18:28

Because we got family that we're not related to, and I got and I'll tell you the truth, I got family members that I don't even trust.

SPEAKER_02 18:34

Them relatives, my uncle's son. Don't call me in the middle of the night talking about you need nothing for me.

SPEAKER_03 18:39

But listen, that's a relative, though. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, not family, family. Definitely, like I'm definitely closer to I mean, but I got certain people in my favorites, though, like you, mama, my brothers, Goldie, G, Lee, WAP.

SPEAKER_02 18:55

You feel me? Emergency, you feel me?

SPEAKER_06 18:58

If shit happening, I know y'all gonna call me, but like all the outsiders, like cousins from over there, like no, yeah, and I say that because I can remember when I was your age, right? And I had that same mentality, and I was literally at as I am today, but it was worse. But I'm you though, that's what I know, you are, and that's why we're talking right now about this because I was literally the call for everybody, and I it was exciting to me, and I was going, and it took for her to point out like if you go sit down, they they they gonna keep going exactly. They ain't gonna care about none of that. Yeah, but that's the thing.

SPEAKER_02 19:35

I'm you though. The only people that could call me, and literally, for instance, one of my little brothers called me yesterday. Somebody got up on him. He called me yesterday, I flew there. But I know for a fact, if my mama caught him crying, or you call him crying right now, gonna happen. It was, it was, it was, it was you feel me. So the mic's still picked up, so gonna happen. So, for certain people, yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna drop everything, but you gotta look at it as I'm you though. Yeah, yeah, you feel me?

SPEAKER_06 20:10

I know that that's why like I see it, I see it and say it all the time. We say it all the time, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 20:15

Like that oldest one, that's you two point because there's a lot of people that have called me, like right.

SPEAKER_02 20:21

You so you feel me? Certain people that have called me, and they'll say, Oh shit, they just rob me for everything, and I'm be like, that's what's up. Call me call me when you figure it out. That's what's up.

SPEAKER_06 20:33

You feel me?

SPEAKER_03 20:33

You gotta hit him with the uh I mean, even you had to put your foot down to people, like, stop calling him, yeah. Like, he can't be your car.

SPEAKER_02 20:41

Yeah, but I mean, I tell the nigga, I'm not that caught because listen, you feel me? It's it's people and it's people. Some people got money, some people don't got money. Nigga, you don't got no money. What is you calling me for? I ain't got shit for you. And then there's people that call me and be like, Neff, I got a thousand dollars. You cut it to this nigga real quick, and I'd be like, Oh, yes, I'm about to cut, I'm about to cut this nigga clean up.

SPEAKER_03 21:06

I just be feeling like, don't don't call me if I can't call you. But see, but but to circle back, but see, my problem is I don't call nobody.

SPEAKER_02 21:15

I don't I don't gotta call nobody. This shit could go however well.

SPEAKER_03 21:19

When you the call, you don't call nobody because your dad don't call nobody. Uncle Black, don't call nobody because when you the call, you don't call nobody.

SPEAKER_06 21:25

Usually the per the call call the call. I'm gonna tell the truth.

SPEAKER_02 21:29

If I'm in a situation where I gotta call somebody, call the fizz. Send the feds, send the fizz. This shit for the cookie. We do not support these. We do not support this relationship.

SPEAKER_03 21:42

So you're out of control.

SPEAKER_06 21:44

Usually, for we'll we'll just say for the the generation above you, the car usually only call the car.

SPEAKER_03 21:51

Right. When when dad needs to call somebody, he only called Uncle Black. Like he's not calling nobody else.

SPEAKER_06 21:56

See, but see, when I get mad, I don't even call nobody. Y'all ask it what shit and usually usually it'd be like the car when the call call in the call is it sounds like this. What part where you at? I'm 15 minutes away. You 10? Like, get there, just hold it down for me for five.

SPEAKER_02 22:17

Then we then you can't crazy because this because this just happened yesterday. I ain't gonna lie. My brother Tunk is the only nigga I ever call. And when I call him, I took is black. You feel me? Shit starts happening when I call brothers. She starts that's probably the only nigga I ever call in life. For real, for real.

SPEAKER_06 22:36

Yeah, yeah. So you know, that's a heavy one. But so do y'all feel like, and from what I'm hearing, once you ex, ain't no more communication, ain't no, especially if there's no kids involved. If it's kids involved, it's gotta be specifically about the kids. That's what I'm hearing.

SPEAKER_02 22:51

I forgot that was even a topic, definitely just about the kids.

SPEAKER_06 22:55

So, you know, as a as a host, when you're good, you you learn how to bring it back, you know what I'm saying? You learn how to bring it back.

SPEAKER_03 23:01

You gotta circle it back, you know.

SPEAKER_06 23:02

Talk to me, Katie. That's what you feel like when you're an ex, you act.

SPEAKER_03 23:06

Yeah, I mean, I personally feel like no woman should have access access to you other than me. Even even your mom, like her access gotta be kind of limited because if we out, unless it's important, like, because we know your mama call you just to be like, I ain't gonna lie. What's what what say Thursday coming from your son?

SPEAKER_02 23:24

Coming from your son, that's wacky to say, and that's come and she could step in on the on the headphones and vouch, that's wacky to say. Because that means why when when it comes to my mom, if she say the sky orange, then that means the sky orange. So if you call me so and say anything, then that's what it is.

SPEAKER_03 23:45

Now I know but I do feel like our relationship is different.

SPEAKER_02 23:48

Yeah, our relationship different.

SPEAKER_06 23:49

But let me ask, let me just throw this out there then because I we can't we ain't we can't get on the mic right now. But let me just ask y'all this from the people who are on the mic.

SPEAKER_02 23:57

See, you cheating too hard, what you're about to say, man.

SPEAKER_06 24:00

Some crazy no no, this is this is a legit question here, right? Do you feel like it'd be an issue if there was an issue with her mom and she asked you to step in and you didn't, but the same issue happened, you know what I'm saying? Like you step in for your mom, you don't play like that. But when it comes down to her mom, if you don't step in that same way, do you think it'll be an issue at that point with your mom?

SPEAKER_02 24:24

I can't even understand.

SPEAKER_06 24:26

Wait, like you're saying that the mama's got into it. No, no, no. I'm saying if you don't treat her mom like you treat your mom, do you think that that will cause a issue or a wedge see when your mom calls you? You feel me?

SPEAKER_02 24:39

This wouldn't even be fair to ask me because I don't even know when y'all instilled this into me, but I don't play about no woman in my life. So when it comes to mama T, when she called high pitching and shit, I be mad. Like, I ain't gonna lie. Like, for instance, it was her birthday one year, her mama getting tour with somebody, shit starts happening, and I can't really control what shit starts happening. Because if anybody knows me, they know when I get mad, I get mad as fuck. So I'm like, damn, like literally when I calm down, I'm like, damn, I really can't like this is crazy. Like, like when it comes to that, I couldn't even understand, I couldn't even like like figure it out because I look at her mom like my mom, right? Just like I look at her sisters like my sisters, and I look at her nieces like my nieces, and that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06 25:30

So, like, if you didn't, right? Could you see that as a problem? Could you see it as like I ain't gonna lie? If your mama call you, you up, you jump up, jump the boogie. But when my mama call you, you got a thousand reasons why you ain't that's a problem.

SPEAKER_02 25:42

You get the on. Damn, you get the on because one thing I don't play about is the women in my life, like the dudes in my life. We are you feel me? Y'all tough, y'all ain't soft. Yeah, I got it. Y'all niggas ain't soft.

SPEAKER_06 25:56

He wasn't even here for the for the first part of the conversation last week, but that's exactly the same thing that was like for real, y'all niggas ain't soft.

SPEAKER_02 26:03

But when it comes to the women, like even my brother Scoot, everybody can say a lot of shit about Scoot when it comes to the women in his life, when it comes to KD T, I don't know which oh Lady Blaze, uh uh Mama T shit have happened so fast, you feel me? Like when it comes to the women in our life, it's different. Like, I don't even know. I don't I real life don't even know when y'all instilled it into us, but like when it comes, like, even when it hoe ass people, you feel me? Ho ass females, oh oh this nigga trying to smack me, shit starts happening and just unfold, you feel me? Because it's so crazy because no woman in my life was ever just beat on. You feel me? Like, well, not for me to see, you feel me? Like, no woman in my life was just beat on, so it's just natural. Like, when my when to my niece just got jumped the other day, I was furious. I'm she in middle school, I'm ready to do something to anybody. You feel me? You feel me? Or if my auntie getting into some BS, shit start happening. I ain't gonna lie. Lord be with anybody that play with KD. Because if KD ever call my phone, see this y'all gotta realize about KD. If she ever called any one of our phones, shit gonna start happening. And it's the same with DTM. DTM probably won't call because he can see the future. He knows if I call this nigga, then it's gonna be a lot of shit happening. Kd might do some shit in this in the spirit of the moment and call her sons, and then shit start happening.

SPEAKER_03 27:50

So it's like he wasn't at the pink bar. Oh, oh, I heard about it, and you gotta know him and John John together. Oh no, no, thank you.

unknown 27:59

It wouldn't have been on my pink bar.

SPEAKER_03 28:01

Dog said, I don't give a F who offended. I said, What I do?

SPEAKER_02 28:04

No, that ain't what I that ain't what I heard. He said he said some more stuff, but I heard some extra stuff, and I know he's not allowed at the pink bar anymore.

SPEAKER_06 28:16

Only only Fernando. He the only he the only one that can come, but the boss can't come. But wait, it was the boss, it was his boss. I don't know what job they do, but he said it was it was and it's so crazy. I thought it was about to be fun.

SPEAKER_02 28:33

It's so funny, right? Because this is how God worked. Called me when he was on his way to the pink bar, and I say, No, bro, I'm chilling in the crib. You feel me? I'm with my shorty. We watching movies. If I was at the pink bar, that was too big, too being chilling. We was to be we was watching regret too on to be right now.

SPEAKER_06 28:54

Make sure y'all make sure y'all too.

SPEAKER_02 28:57

But if I was there, then ain't no telling what would have happened. Shit, no, for real. What y'all listen? I I want the viewers to know KD is like a prize trophy, and you cannot even listen. My mama got asthma or type of shit. So when she gets aggravated, her asthma start acting up, and then my brain just goes blank. I don't even remember shit that happened when she started having asthma attacks.

SPEAKER_06 29:24

I heard something that said you can't don't don't call your ladies trophies, you gotta call them gems. And the reason being is because trophies get passed around year after year. Okay, well, whoever wins, you people fighting over the trophy, um challenging for the trophy, but the gym well.

SPEAKER_02 29:42

I don't need look, listen, we don't even gotta make it anything. KD is my mama, and that that's all you gotta know. Should it go a whole different way? Yeah, like you were thinking it'd go one way, and then it should go a whole different way, and then you'll be like, damn, I should stay my black as hell. And that's only if DTM don't get to you first, to be honest. Because listen, he's gonna talk to you. I ain't trying to hear you talk about, dogging. You like this end on with a whole bunch of young niggas that's 14, 15 that don't give a fuck about nothing, not even the life they breathe in a life. You feel me? You know, when you're 14, you get the the juvenile life, right? You get on when you're 21. Them little niggas will do something so bad to you about KD boy.

SPEAKER_06 30:27

Man, all right, let me ask y'all this question here. How do y'all feel about ultimatums in relationships? Giving them, receiving them. How do y'all feel about that?

SPEAKER_03 30:44

I don't I don't do ultimatum.

SPEAKER_02 30:46

I don't think I ever received an ultimatum.

SPEAKER_03 30:48

Well, ultimatums is like I'm forcing you to do something. Damn, you ever gave me an ultimatum?

SPEAKER_02 30:54

Have I ever gave you an ultimatum?

SPEAKER_03 30:56

But I don't I don't feel like she does she's the type of woman that would need to give an ultimatum. Like you love her. Have I gave you one? You want to, you know what I'm saying? Like, I feel like ultimatums are something that's forced upon you.

SPEAKER_02 31:07

I feel like if you come to the ultimatum stage, then it ain't all right.

SPEAKER_06 31:12

So here we go. Oh, it's a story, yeah. Somebody asked or something, situation.

SPEAKER_03 31:18

Let them let them ask.

SPEAKER_02 31:19

Well, it ain't never gonna be worse than the first nigga. Oh my god. So I ain't even gonna say nothing about it because I don't want them to do nothing to us.

SPEAKER_06 31:26

They say, What's up, RRP?

SPEAKER_02 31:29

What up, mud?

SPEAKER_06 31:31

My wife gave me an ultimatum.

SPEAKER_02 31:34

I ain't gonna lie. Hold on, before you even start, bae. Please don't ever give me no ultimatum. This shit might go all different. Go ahead, babe.

SPEAKER_06 31:45

The ultimatum was either distance myself from my female best friend, or it's going to be a problem. Problem is, me and this woman have been friends for 17 years before my wife. It ain't been no cheating, no funny business, no history, just friendship. But my wife said a married man shouldn't have emotional intimacy with another woman.

SPEAKER_03 32:12

She says, Where the fuck you should get that from? Right. Why is it? I'm sorry, go ahead.

SPEAKER_06 32:17

That'd be the problem. People I'm sorry putting wrong words in there, but uh wait, where I'm at. Okay, I took a second. She said my friend gets a version of me that she has not that she should have exclusively. I I'm not even gonna say that again. I think she's that one word. What's the one word?

SPEAKER_02 32:40

I don't use the I word, I don't use the I word, I ain't gonna lie.

SPEAKER_06 32:45

She says, I'm protecting another woman over my marriage. Can marriage require sacrificing a friendship?

SPEAKER_02 32:53

Oh, this means you right here, this shit about to be so unbiased, right?

SPEAKER_06 32:57

She'd have walked away. So it says, Can marriage require sacrificing friendships, or is control being disguised as boundaries?

SPEAKER_02 33:11

Well, with my best friend in con in quotations, that's my little brother's sister. So my spouse doesn't really well. I don't really talk to my best friend. You feel me? She be begging from time to time, like she literally texts me, like, Oh, send me $500.

SPEAKER_06 33:31

$500. That's not my friends no more.

SPEAKER_02 33:35

You feel me? My spouse felt some type of way about that, yeah. But like, as far as I don't think she has a problem with like if she called me right now, because be because we never even crossed that line, you feel me?

SPEAKER_06 33:46

But you wait, see, I think the issue from what I'm hearing, right, is you if you feel comfortable enough, right, to confide to your best friend in a way that you probably don't confide to your lady.

SPEAKER_02 34:02

So that should be your lady.

SPEAKER_06 34:04

It sounds like now, okay.

SPEAKER_02 34:08

I mean, no, I can't even say that because I will, I will, I would uh we know somebody who, if you give them too much information when it's time to argue or beef, oh, this about to be this about to be utilized.

SPEAKER_06 34:23

I'm finna utilize. So, with that being said, I can't give you that much information. I I've never felt that with my best friend. She just takes it in, she give me good advice or whatever, and then that's that you know what I'm saying. But when I give it to you, it's coming back in a way, you know, to be weaponized. Yeah, so I could see that as a reason, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02 34:45

So, I mean, but he said 17 plus years before her. So, where your loyalty at my nigga, where your loyalty at, like, you feel me?

SPEAKER_06 34:56

Like, you so what you saying, loyalty to be with the best friend, or your lady who you starting a new life with.

SPEAKER_02 35:03

Why are you giving me ultimatum to begin with? She's been here 17 years. Listen, when it comes to friendships, you can't replicate a friendship. You feel me? If I never cross this line with you and we genuinely never did nothing, you genuinely my best friend. I love you, bae, but we're gonna have to figure something out. And if you can't get in touch with me having a best friend, this best friend has been with me since forever, then like what's your problem?

SPEAKER_06 35:34

So, so I'm about to ask you because I know this is a couple different generations right here, right? But there are men who will sit in the cut waiting on that that prime opportunity for you to come and complain about your dude. You know what I'm saying? And we sitting here, we drinking, and you like, man, I should just do you. All I all he need is a couple keywords to be like this game time, the time for facts slide in. They need less than that, yeah. But they'll they'll wait for years to get that moment, they will, you know what I'm saying, and they'll portray as if they are a best friend.

SPEAKER_02 36:13

Well, I ain't gonna lie that moment around well, well, two dude that wrote this uh excerpt.

SPEAKER_04 36:19

Right.

SPEAKER_02 36:20

If you gave her ultimatum, what the fuck would she do? You feel me? Like, if she had a boy best friend from 17 years before you, I guarantee any woman on planet earth is gonna listen, gang, you overstepping your boundaries, my nigga. Like, he been here. This is a brother.

SPEAKER_06 36:42

Yes, talk about it. So, talk about it. Let's go.

SPEAKER_03 36:48

So, DTM and Kiki have been best friends since before him and I met. When I initially met Kiki, I didn't like her, but it wasn't because of anything she did. My issues came from his history. But once I got to know her, and I'm like, Oh, I really like her, so I am glad that she's still around. However, he had another friend that was his quote unquote best friend from high school, and it was I don't think I put best on it, but I did say friend, but go ahead, continue. But it wasn't all it wasn't all like roses, and you know what I'm saying, like baby girl liked you right now.

SPEAKER_06 37:23

Flip sides.

SPEAKER_03 37:25

So for me, I had a best friend in high school that was a male, dude. Two, two, yeah. So one, we literally were like brothers and sisters, like we never looked at each other that way. Like he actually was in the room when I had you. I'm agreeing.

SPEAKER_06 37:44

Yeah, don't get smacked.

SPEAKER_02 37:46

Oh, you fuck, dude. You gonna smack me over, dude? Smack me over dude right now. Let me see. Let me see. Let me give you an automato. Smack me over dude. Shut up, shut up.

SPEAKER_06 37:56

Let me let me zoom in on this one.

SPEAKER_02 37:57

Let me so I'm being for all-star too. Don't think.

SPEAKER_03 38:05

So for him, I think he works at Dairy Queen now. So I think we stopped being friends well, like five years ago. No, longer than that.

SPEAKER_02 38:17

Longer than that, because I don't know this nigga.

SPEAKER_06 38:19

No, it wasn't that long. It was probably about six six years ago, maybe right before COVID.

SPEAKER_02 38:24

Yeah. So how good of a friend is he if I don't know this?

SPEAKER_03 38:27

Well, I stopped being friends with him because he got a lady, and his lady gave him ultimatum, gave him automatic, and was like, I know y'all did something together before, so we can't be y'all can't be friends. So he was like treating me like a side chick, like a what I say, a side friend. So he would only call me when she wasn't there or text me when she wasn't there, that shit just made me mad. But I told him, I said, Listen, we can't be friends no more because you making it seem like I hope you're listening to the shit.

SPEAKER_02 38:59

Fuck you, nigga.

SPEAKER_03 39:00

Damn. So I said, You making it seem like something was going on between us, and it never was. But but when Dan first said, bro, I don't do that, I don't do that guy and girlfriend stuff. That can't be your friend. I'm like, is you cool, right? Didn't I say that? I'm like, this is my friend, and he's gonna be my friend.

SPEAKER_02 39:18

So you either get with it or get lost. This is the problem. I ain't been asleep since Friday. Um y'all can't tell, but I'm mad as fuck right now. And listen, if you listening to this, if you know my mama, you know what block you grew up on. Bitch ass, they gotta be on that block every day.

SPEAKER_06 39:32

I ain't even wrong block.

SPEAKER_02 39:34

No, he ain't from that block.

SPEAKER_06 39:36

Oh, he don't know no better. He's from the other block.

SPEAKER_03 39:38

What other block?

SPEAKER_06 39:40

We'll tell you off the show.

SPEAKER_03 39:41

So dude, so in that case, I I don't understand the whole men and women can't be friend thing, right? Yeah, but then I had another friend who we was just friends, talk about it. But dad kept saying he likes you, he liked you. I'm like, bro, he don't like me until he showed me that he likes me.

SPEAKER_02 39:59

So let's do this prank. Call him and say you into it with your nigga right now. I'm trying to come see you. What's what? No, no, no, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_06 40:05

Oh no, no, no, no. No, the the second one. Well, we we he already proved itself. So this is the thing. This is what when I read this, the thing that I was saying was it's a slippery slope, right? If I tell you that you cannot be friends with this person, then it's gonna it's gonna develop a wedge between us because you're gonna be like, but that was my friend, you'll do it, you'll have a problem with it, but you would do it and you'll be mad the whole time.

SPEAKER_03 40:32

But don't it gotta be a why though? It can't just be you can't be this person's friend because they're the opposite sex, that's not okay. No, no, because they're the opposite because Shred and Kiki is not our kiki. First of all, he got a Kiki. First of all, first of all, first of all, Kiki is a fucking stud.

SPEAKER_02 40:48

Oh, my fault. Kiki is a boy, but she still has a vagina. You could have said Nene.

SPEAKER_03 40:54

I don't know her.

SPEAKER_02 40:55

That's Kiki's girlfriend.

SPEAKER_03 40:57

Okay, well, that's but that's not your friend, though. Whoa, no, nene was my friend first. I met Kiki through Nene. See, I didn't know that. I thought Kiki was the friend, and Nene was the fiance.

SPEAKER_06 41:06

No, no, no, Kiki is my brother. But no, this is what I'm saying. So, like, you have this friend of the opposite sex. If I see something in this friend of the opposite sex that I feel like is an issue, I can say all day, still, this ain't that. You would say, because you didn't see the same thing, nah, you're tripping. Yeah, you feel what I'm saying? But if I force it on you and say, I don't want to see the either one or two things gonna happen, you're gonna sneak and do it, and that's gonna cause a bigger issue, or it's gonna build such a wedge between uh rare is being, but my thing is my friend is my friend until they show me that they aren't.

SPEAKER_03 41:47

Okay, so and that's any sex, men or few that's like you and Zoe. Y'all, y'all never cross the line, right? So, you know what I'm saying? Rather, y'all don't okay to you know what I'm saying? Y'all never cross that line.

SPEAKER_02 41:59

So listen, this the problem, right? Because niggas are horny, right or wrong, right? So, Nene, I could text Nene right now and say, I ain't gonna lie, me and Tamaya intuit, I need that. And she's gonna say, Nick, you got me fucked up. I'm about to text Tamai right now. You got me ooh woo woo. Right. Tamaya text one of her nigga friends, me and my nigga into it. I need that. What is he gonna say? Honestly, from from a woman's point of view, what is he gonna say? Well, if he just her friend, he's gonna say the same thing, ain't he? Jesus Christ.

SPEAKER_06 42:32

I don't, I think you smarter than that.

SPEAKER_02 42:34

He's gonna say, pull up on me. Oh, we're gonna get this going.

SPEAKER_03 42:39

I don't have guy friends like that, though. That's the thing. I don't that's because they're scared of your sons, but they might be more scared of your dad. But I like no pops pops older with more to lose, but like black. Well, if I text black, if I text black right now, because black started off as my friend, right? My brother from the bar, and then y'all just got close. If I text him right now, like me and Deontay into it, whatever, he's gonna be like, Okay, pull up, and he'll let me cry and drink or whatever, and he never gonna try nothing with me.

SPEAKER_06 43:12

Right.

SPEAKER_03 43:12

I love him, but I ain't even feeling that shit.

SPEAKER_06 43:15

He never black would never black ain't gonna black would never.

SPEAKER_02 43:18

I know I love him, but I ain't even feeling that because what the you mean pull up and cry.

SPEAKER_03 43:23

No, no, he will.

SPEAKER_06 43:24

He definitely, yeah, he definitely one of those ones where because black love me in real life, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 43:30

First of all, first of all, black done seen me crash out before, but that's but that's you like y'all said, it's a different generation, yeah. If somebody text my shorty and say, Oh, you can pull up and cry, guess what? But this thing gonna be out in 25 minutes.

SPEAKER_03 43:44

But it's the thing though, and as at but we also gotta be responsible for what we're doing, right?

SPEAKER_02 43:49

Right.

SPEAKER_03 43:50

If we if we know we're reaching out to somebody and they respond in a far way, we we gotta make the decision to cut that person off, right? Which is what I Did with old boy right when he came at me crazy, I was like, Oh no, why didn't you tell me? Because you wasn't even born yet, dog. This was when I was in high school, but I ain't gonna lie, I'm telling you, but immediately I called that and I was so upset. I was literally my feelings was hurt because I'm like, You was right, he did look at me in that weird kind of way, like so.

SPEAKER_06 44:23

So the funny thing was, I was a city kid that was moved that was pushed to the sub to the suburb, and I was trying to get accustomed to how suburb life was. So when we first got together, I'm listening to him talk, and my mind is still east side of Detroit. You don't know, you don't know. My mind is still east side of Detroit, but the stuff that he was saying, her dude at that time was just listening to it, and I'm just sitting there looking. I was like, I don't understand this. This thing how we get down on where I'm from.

SPEAKER_02 44:58

I'm straight. I ain't gonna lie.

SPEAKER_06 44:59

This is out. This is we ain't even gonna make it outside. This this is on site right now.

SPEAKER_02 45:05

Let's get it that I'm such the best son ever. I collected my parents' beef. I said, Nick, you a tool, my post nigga. Fuck you when I was just in mind for the red wrist band. I said, Oh, yeah, oh niggas talking. Oh, I'm from East Warren. Oh, them niggas from Mac and B Wick. I said, Who?

SPEAKER_03 45:23

Who I said, your daddy's not from Mac and B Wick.

SPEAKER_02 45:26

I said, nigga, my post from Mac and B Wick. What you want to do? What you want to do? Your daddy is not from Mackin B week, he's from Grass and McCullough. I don't care where he's from.

SPEAKER_06 45:34

Grass of the McCullough. I'm from Seven Mile Airware. Oh, yeah, I'm sorry. Fuck All-Star.

SPEAKER_02 45:39

Damn, nigga, Eric John. Aaron Fuck dude.

SPEAKER_03 45:45

Aaron John.

SPEAKER_02 45:46

Who?

SPEAKER_03 45:47

That's the name. Aaron John, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 45:49

I added him on Facebook and said, nigga, fuck your kids.

SPEAKER_03 45:52

What is wrong with your son, bro?

SPEAKER_02 45:53

Anyway, y'all did that. But what I'm saying, she did that.

SPEAKER_03 45:59

But what I'm saying is, I had to learn a lesson, right? So, I mean, you learn a lesson, and you you didn't never have to give me an ultimatum, though.

SPEAKER_06 46:06

Right.

SPEAKER_03 46:06

But I learned a lesson and I moved on. I've had to give you ultimatums, though. But not really ultimatums, but I guess it is ultimatum. She stays, I'm leaving.

SPEAKER_06 46:15

Like, yeah, but at the same time, I think when you hear the ultimatum, right? Depending on how I respond to it, will let you know how serious I am about. That's true. That is true. You know what I'm saying? So if you give me an ultimatum, I'm like, nah, this ain't that. We gotta, I'm fighting for this.

SPEAKER_03 46:31

Which that's what you did with Kiki, right?

SPEAKER_06 46:32

100%.

SPEAKER_03 46:33

That's what you did.

SPEAKER_06 46:34

I'm we've I'm fighting for this. Let's go out. Let you see, because you can get the vibe. You get a vibe. Tell me what you feel.

SPEAKER_03 46:39

And that's when we went to the comedy show.

SPEAKER_06 46:41

Yeah, we did a couple, a bunch of a bunch of comedy shows, and but I really bothered her after the first comedy show. Yeah, but we it was on both sides, though. Yeah, because her dude ain't like you either.

SPEAKER_03 46:53

Who uh uncle Narc.

SPEAKER_06 46:55

He didn't think it was genuine like that. He thought it was something else. So he but that's because but that once he seen it, he was like, but that's because he he older, right?

SPEAKER_03 47:06

Yeah, so he definitely believed in men. He bought to be damn. Oh, but that's definitely why. Like he don't he definitely don't believe men and women can be friends right now. He does, but before he didn't.

SPEAKER_02 47:19

Damn, so he was on the whites, whites, restroom, black restaurants. Nigga dinosaur. Chill on my brother, dog. Where the fuck is Uncle? I ain't gonna call him that Uncle Budnard. Oh, Uncle Fatty. No, no, no, no. I'm a grown ass man. I ain't calling nobody Uncle Fat shit. He I just see him last Sunday, and I'm genuinely mad that y'all had us calling this grown ass man that that's his name. I don't care about none of that. I ain't calling no grown ass man Uncle Fatty, and I hope you listen to this. He is listening, nigga. You irritate.

SPEAKER_03 47:54

I don't call him my brother no N-word.

SPEAKER_02 47:56

I'm grown and irritated that you had us calling you Uncle Fatty.

SPEAKER_03 47:59

He got nephews other than you that call him Uncle Fatty.

SPEAKER_02 48:02

Them niggas hoes.

SPEAKER_03 48:03

They not, that's just what his name was.

SPEAKER_02 48:05

I'm straight. Hey Pops, what you think?

SPEAKER_06 48:08

I mean, it's it's it's definitely a ditty moment, but you know, I'm straight.

SPEAKER_03 48:12

Well, y'all doing too much, like fatty, uncle fatty. His name his license plate said fatty.

SPEAKER_02 48:20

You did it. You did how the fuck we go from Uncle Nari to Uncle Fatty. Y'all niggas twins. It's supposed to be Uncle Nara one to Uncle Nar two moving along.

SPEAKER_03 48:32

Because first of all, Uncle Fatty Fatty is his nickname. Everybody call him Fatty.

SPEAKER_06 48:37

I ain't even talking about what they call him is fat daddy, is what they call him. What the fuck?

SPEAKER_03 48:41

No, no, no. No, no, no, no, no. Oh, yeah. No, they was calling him Fatty, and then when who the fuck called him fat daddy? Listen, they was calling him Fatty, and then when he got older, he changed it to Fat Daddy. Oh, so the girls was calling him fat daddy.

SPEAKER_02 48:55

So why the fuck am I calling him Uncle Fatty?

SPEAKER_03 48:58

Because Fatty been his nickname since he was little.

SPEAKER_02 49:01

Oh, all right. I'm grown as hell, and I'm not going. I would call this ass by his full government before I call him to some shit.

SPEAKER_03 49:09

What I'm saying is I love him though nickname. It's like Beef or Hodric or Doughboy. Like, these is all nicknames. Your nickname, like Homer. Homer, that's what I'm saying. Niggas scared of Homer. Bro, that's like that's like Kennedy getting older. Like, I'm not calling him Uncle Peanut. Like, that's your name. You know what I'm saying? Like, so Fatty was just a nickname that he had.

SPEAKER_02 49:31

But that was, but uh, so you saying right now that's not a crazy ass nickname for us to be calling the grown man.

SPEAKER_03 49:38

That was his nickname. I don't know.

SPEAKER_02 49:40

We couldn't think of no better shit. We didn't come up with it. His mama did. So we should have reiterated and thought of some better shit. What why why we got Uncle Nar to Uncle Fatty?

SPEAKER_03 49:53

Because Nar is Nar's nickname.

SPEAKER_06 49:54

Well, you gotta. If you look at them both, right? They they definitely both got two different personalities. They do.

SPEAKER_02 49:59

So guess what they saved in my phone as what Uncle Nar one and Uncle Nar two. I'm not going for that shit.

SPEAKER_03 50:06

So which one won? Because I think Uncle Fatty is older.

SPEAKER_02 50:09

Yeah, he is.

SPEAKER_03 50:10

I don't care about it. I don't talk to him. All right, moving along. Go ahead, baby. So that don't text me. This this man.

SPEAKER_02 50:17

So all right. With the ultimatum, right?

SPEAKER_03 50:19

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 50:20

Damn, I forgot we was on the ultimate. Don't give me no ultimate.

SPEAKER_03 50:23

We're not laying Rare Res Band back on our show. The fans want me.

SPEAKER_06 50:28

That's the thing. That's the thing. And and we got something else cooking. So y'all be able to hear him on it on his own show. Oh, yeah. Real soon.

SPEAKER_02 50:37

So yeah, 10 10. What we call it? 10 reasons of treason. 10 reasons of treason. And every week tell us what you went through in that week, and we're gonna tell you if you deserve to give them a rest, a rare wristband, or a blue one.

SPEAKER_03 50:50

That's gonna be fired.

SPEAKER_02 50:51

Yeah, it's gonna be turning up. I ain't gonna lie.

SPEAKER_03 50:54

I'm gonna shred and coach DTM. I ain't gonna lie. You can't do a podcast by yourself.

SPEAKER_02 51:00

We giving uh no. I got I got I got to me. We we be patrolling for the pre here. Yeah, okay. Brother got his CPL all type of shit. He legit. Go ahead, man.

SPEAKER_06 51:11

We we we yeah, so last last last piece of last piece of advice we'll give right quick. We go right around about this whole ultimatum thing. Just just talk to him, tell him what what to look, what what can he do?

SPEAKER_03 51:26

You asking me.

SPEAKER_02 51:28

Wait, he got the he got the ultimatum or he gave the ultimatum.

SPEAKER_06 51:31

He got the ultimatum.

SPEAKER_03 51:32

I feel like if that's truly your friend, you should stand 10 toes behind your friend. But if she's truly your friend and she sees that her being your friend is causing too much friction, she'll walk away. And that's that's talking from experience, not from not from what I think. I noticed that my relationship with Max was causing too much friction with him and his lady. I mean, he don't listen. So what I did was what I did was I respectfully said we just can't be friends no more. And that was hard for me because we were really good friends and we experienced a lot of life together.

SPEAKER_02 52:11

I never met him. What the fuck? I'm her oldest son. Fuck dude. What are you gonna do with me? She'll want to bury him.

SPEAKER_03 52:20

I don't, I'm not sure what happened there, but I'm not sure what happened there.

SPEAKER_06 52:25

You know what's crazy? I was I was gonna mess with him. I was gonna get him.

SPEAKER_03 52:28

I was like, but what I'm saying is because I noticed how much right there leave me alone. What I noticed was how much friction that it was causing. I said, This we're not we're not like creeping together. So why are why are we causing all this problem?

SPEAKER_02 52:42

Because niggas be having niggas be having fucked up what's that shit called arterial motive, arterial motives. He knew what the fuck his motive was. No, that's not true because my best me and my best friend, we don't have no arterial motives, so no matter what anybody says, we still close.

SPEAKER_06 52:59

But that's the thing. So let me ask you this if you if you and your best friend, y'all know it's nothing there, right? Uh-huh. But if it was causing frictions at the crib, so high, like the one thing men don't want is friction at the crib. We don't want no arguments, right? We don't want none of that. But if our if my outside relationship with my best friend is causing friction at the crib, it's gonna it's gonna push you in a way where you like how can I fix this? Some of us will fight for it and make you force you together so you can see that this is nothing, others will push away from it because they was like, Look, okay, even if I'm gonna be your friend, I'm not gonna let her know because this is causing the problem. You know, that's whole shit, though.

SPEAKER_02 53:44

It's good though.

SPEAKER_03 53:45

But even in that situation, like she wouldn't even go out and have dinner with us. Remember, we invited him on a double date, like it's good.

SPEAKER_02 53:51

I don't even want to talk about this whole nigga no more. Just keep your head up, folks. Just keep your head up, folks. What it's good, just keep your head up, what is happening?

SPEAKER_03 53:59

Okay, it's good. Just keep your head up. What's your advice?

SPEAKER_02 54:01

Huh? My advice? My advice? Don't give me no fucking ultimatum. I'm a grown ass man. What do you mean? What is the ultimatum? We could talk about it like adults, but if you say, Oh, it's either her or me, I'm grown as hell. What do you mean it's either her or you? We I make a group chat with all of us and we're gonna talk about this shit. What the fuck? Because I ain't gonna lie, genuinely, genuinely, like like relating to the to the topic. My best friend is my little brother, like my real little brother, little Rob, real sister. We ain't never crossed that line, no shit, huh? Talking about people we ain't never met. I never met her. You never met a little Rob? I met a little Rob. I didn't know he had a sister, and it's his sister. I never knew he had a sister. Okay, so I mean, I I ain't gonna lie, we really don't even talk, we barely talk.

SPEAKER_03 54:55

So, how is that your best friend? I would think your best friend would be like if you had like a female best friend from where I'm standing or Kiki.

SPEAKER_02 55:05

I ain't gonna lie, Kiki probably is my real best friend. Like, I can call Kiki on any type of you feel me. I can I can talk Kiki. See, Zoe Zoe was my best friend, but this bitch switch up for her. Don't call her no beware though. Who Zoe? Don't cart her no before.

SPEAKER_06 55:21

But what if what if what if what if my baby don't card no before the relationship you had with Kiki? What if she was like she didn't like it?

SPEAKER_02 55:29

But Kiki is such an outgoing person. You literally, you literally have to go out your way to not like Kiki. You didn't like Kiki or Nene or the other one, but that's because of your history though.

SPEAKER_03 55:43

That ain't because of them. Well, and my baby, right? Right. That's fact. That's facts.

SPEAKER_06 55:48

My baby don't like a lot of people.

SPEAKER_02 55:49

But I'm gonna tell y'all the truth. Pops, you literally went out with us. If you don't want to like Kiki, you have to go out your way to not like Kiki. What do Kiki do? I don't know, she came to the house.

SPEAKER_03 56:00

She had me cracking up.

SPEAKER_02 56:02

But what I'm saying, exactly. So if you if you want to say, oh, Kiki can't be your best friend, it's either me or Kiki. What the fuck are you talking about? Well, like, like literally, if you like genuinely, like, if if I told you, like, oh, my shorty said it's either her or Kiki, what would you say?

SPEAKER_03 56:20

I'd be like, why? Like, exactly. But I would wonder what you what you got caught doing, like with fucking Kiki. No, not not with her, not with her, but with her.

SPEAKER_06 56:31

No, yeah, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 56:32

Like, not with her, but what we all doing together.

SPEAKER_02 56:36

What you just do with your fingers? The scissor. Can we can we show it's on there? First of all, I'm a grown-ass man. I'm not scissor, no.

SPEAKER_03 56:45

But well, I just think Kiki, like, you know what I'm saying? But first of all, my nigga Kiki be pushing down. Well, what I'm saying is, that's what I'm saying. Not I wouldn't think you did nothing with her, but I I would think y'all did something together.

SPEAKER_06 56:59

And and that's what we do, run the bitch. No, but that's maybe well, that's usually what it is. It means either you made some ill decisions with somebody and they they stood for it. That's what I'm saying, or you made some ill decisions with somebody. You know what I'm saying? Them are usually the two. I think an automatic I ain't gonna.

SPEAKER_02 57:17

I'm gonna tell you the truth. My shorty probably don't trust me with Kiki. What to be truthful?

SPEAKER_03 57:24

But because bros hanging out though, but I'm gonna tell you the truth.

SPEAKER_02 57:27

No, you know, but the problem with Kiki is what these bitch don't like to come in the house till eight o'clock in the morning. Oh god, that's another one. No, for real.

SPEAKER_03 57:34

Because when they left the house, she's she has oh boy, like, where else we about to go? I said, Why you not going home?

SPEAKER_02 57:41

Oh, piggybacking on what we said about the casino nigga. Kiki likes to go to the casino till nine o'clock in the morning. Oh, last week. I'd be like, and then she liked to tune in last week.

SPEAKER_03 57:50

She liked to go to the slots. But see, that's the thing though. Like, that's what I'm saying. The issue is not with her, the issue is with her. You know what I'm saying? Right, because she really likes one of the homeboys.

SPEAKER_02 58:02

I swear to god, I ain't gonna lie, Kiki. I look at like a real brother, like when like when you throw your situation, like when you throw your events, Kiki don't one thing about Kiki. This is what I love about Kiki the most. She don't play about family, yeah. Like when it like when it comes to my daughter, Kiki be like, Oh, what size she in this week? I'm gonna buy this, yeah. Or oh, what mama throwing this week? I'm gonna go to WrestleMania.

SPEAKER_03 58:28

I'm gonna holla at her about that. Right.

SPEAKER_06 58:29

So look, she ain't no, she ain't an ultimatum, an ultimatum.

SPEAKER_03 58:35

Sorry, babe.

SPEAKER_06 58:36

And ultimately expose a breaking point or become a turning point where couples choose healing over habits. All right. Oh, so oh with you.

SPEAKER_02 58:46

See, you cheated. You knew about this shit earlier. We ain't know about it. See, you you'd have cooked up a poem, but they that's you know, that's sorry, babe. Go ahead. See, I called you earlier, said what's the topic? He oh, I gotta look at the I told you he wasn't gonna tell you.

SPEAKER_03 59:03

Yes, I said, call your dad, he's not gonna tell you.

SPEAKER_06 59:06

The beauty of the beauty of when you're pardon is that I found out that the the fans love the authenticity of it. So if you get to rehearse and think about some stuff, which what you just heard was not a rehearsing or thinking about. That's just me hearing the situation, hearing how the story's going, and hearing what everybody else is saying, and then boom, come up with something. There we go. But with that being said, Katie, talk to them, let them know. Next week, no phone for you.

SPEAKER_02 59:35

Sorry, no phone at all. But I ain't gonna lie, the phone wasn't her fault because people were supposed to be here, they wasn't here. Yeah, but when I will be calling them as soon as you're gonna do it. No, you're not.

SPEAKER_06 59:43

No, the thing is when you're potting and you're showing us. I apologize. I'm understanding that. But when you're showing visible, all you see is this okay, you know what I'm saying? But go ahead, talk to them, tell them how they can find us, how they can hear us. You can follow us on YouTube.

SPEAKER_03 59:54

Please don't roll your eyes. I already did. You can listen to us on YouTube, iHeartRadio, Buzz Sprout, or wherever you get your podcast. You can follow me at your girl.kd. You can follow Coach DTM and coach DTM. You can follow the podcast page at RIP Network.

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SPEAKER_06 1:00:51

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SPEAKER_02 1:00:56

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SPEAKER_06 1:01:00

Working on it, you know what I'm saying? We got some new sponsorships coming. We got new shows coming for those who don't know. Uh, what KD got a new show dropping? When is it?

SPEAKER_03 1:01:09

I do. We got a new podcast called Cocktails and Girl Talk dropping May 3rd. No, May 4th. Sorry. May the fourth before I know, right? I'm sorry, may the fourth be with you. So it's a Monday, so we will be dropping on Mondays. It's me and my little sister, Lady Blaze. So each and every week, we just cocktailing and girl talk.

SPEAKER_06 1:01:29

Monday, Wednesday, Friday, locked in. We got some more coming. We just didn't set ours up yet. We can't plug it yet, but what you got?

SPEAKER_02 1:01:36

Level 10 treason.

SPEAKER_06 1:01:38

Well, we gotta, we gotta we gotta get some episodes that's coming. Coming soon.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:42

Okay, level 10 treason. Level 10 treason, man. Let us know if you need a red wrist band or a blue wrist band. I'm giving out all red ribs, bro.

SPEAKER_06 1:01:51

Okay, and then uh eventually I'm gonna get my baby on the show too. So you know, y'all be ready.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:56

I'll be ready for that. Oh KD MJ. Oh, oh, MJ? Yeah, yeah. She's coming. She's gonna get coming soon. MJ don't want her other niggas to see her on our podcast. Shut the fuck up with this. Matter of fact, I'm about to get you an ultimatum. Get on this podcast or be single. Shut up.

SPEAKER_06 1:02:10

I think the ultimatum is gonna be her having a red wristband if you keep it up. So with that.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:14

Oh, I can't wait till she gets a red wrist.

SPEAKER_06 1:02:17

I am the one and only Coach DT. Girl Katie. And who else?

SPEAKER_02 1:02:21

Hey, hey, it's Mr. Red Risk Bean Forever 2030, man. Real 2030 straight. Y'all know how this is going, man. Keep your heads up. Matter of fact, matter of fact, I take that back. Keep your heads down. I don't want nothing positive.

SPEAKER_06 1:02:32

We appreciate y'all tuning in each and every week. We in this thing. We'll see you next week. So long.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:48

Goodbye to my pain.