Is She Doing It Because She Wants To… or Because I Do?

Coach DTM, KD, and Keke…

My wife and I have been together for years, and early in our marriage I admitted that I’d always been curious about having threesomes.

At first she wasn’t interested, but eventually she agreed because she wanted to make me happy. We’ve had a few experiences together, but lately something doesn’t feel right.

She never brings it up herself.

She never seems excited beforehand.

If I don’t mention it, it never happens.

Whenever I ask if she’s enjoying herself, she says she’s fine and tells me she’s doing it because she loves me.

But that’s exactly what’s bothering me.

I don’t want my wife doing something intimate just to keep me happy. I want to know she’s genuinely comfortable and wants it too. Now I’m wondering if I’ve unintentionally pressured her simply because she loves me.

She insists everything is okay, but my gut keeps telling me otherwise.

If your spouse is only participating to make you happy, is that enough? Or should both people genuinely want it before it becomes a healthy part of the relationship?

Transcript

SPEAKER_04 1:15

I'm just a D girl for Ron Away with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, KD.

SPEAKER_03 1:19

It's your hostess with the most test. It's Kiki.

SPEAKER_05 1:22

What up, though? You know who it is. Your boy Coach D T M AKA Pure Motivation. I am Mr. Energy. Everybody loves me. I don't have one enemy. Our podcast is here now, so you gotta respect that you never get off on us. We never the exit. If you know me, then you know that I'm more than a savage who loves living life is alerts to average. So win conclusions, so it's no confusions.

SPEAKER_04 1:38

If you see somebody really than us, it's an illusion. What up, though? What up? What up, though? What up? What up, though?

SPEAKER_05 1:46

Did y'all see when I added that in? That's crazy. Did y'all see when I added that in? Y'all see when I added that in on the intro on the last one? But listen.

SPEAKER_04 1:56

My ass will flare up. I don't got time for the last one. No, I see it in your boy.

SPEAKER_05 2:01

Welcome to yet another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast where you get your daily dose up.

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SPEAKER_05 2:55

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SPEAKER_03 2:59

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SPEAKER_05 3:00

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SPEAKER_00 3:08

You can't miss it.

SPEAKER_05 3:09

You can't miss, all right. So, man, let's jump into it. Kiki, how was your week and weekend?

SPEAKER_03 3:14

Busy, busy, busy, busy.

SPEAKER_05 3:17

How are we enjoying the new truck?

SPEAKER_03 3:19

I just got a new Jeep Wrangler, y'all. It's so pretty. I wrote in yesterday. My home girl, well, not even my home girl. She's gonna probably be closer now because she is one of the people that's in charge of the the Jeep hers or something. Oh I was like, girl, sign me up. And nobody has a pink one like me in it.

SPEAKER_04 3:40

So I was like, oh so now you're about to be on the part of the Jeep Club. You're already you're already on the election committee. Now you wanna be the Jeep Club, and you're the ambassador. If you're gonna be too busy for us, just say that.

SPEAKER_03 3:51

Never too busy, okay. Because that's where I'm at today.

SPEAKER_04 3:54

With me.

SPEAKER_03 3:55

You can't say it.

SPEAKER_04 3:56

I mean him too, but him one.

SPEAKER_05 4:00

Oh my god. Okay, okay, okay.

SPEAKER_04 4:02

Moving along. It's been cool though.

SPEAKER_03 4:04

It's been a little busy. No, I don't even know where the start is. I'm not going to. Not even going to. My son went out of town for not even out of town to Ohio once stayed over for the first time with his girlfriend, and I was stalking him the whole time because why is my son? Why do you make these decisions to leave me for a day?

SPEAKER_04 4:31

A day.

SPEAKER_03 4:32

It was just a day. He came back the next day, but I was like, I don't know how to feel about it. I gotta grow up in like three months.

SPEAKER_04 4:43

20 years. But literally three months ago.

SPEAKER_03 4:46

Y'all want to go where? I said the air quality is bad. Where do you want to go?

SPEAKER_04 4:51

They like my mama.

SPEAKER_03 4:52

Oh my god, but yeah, that was it was he came back the next day, and I switched cars on him. So he was so ready to get out of my pink Jeep. Like, I don't have my girlfriend no no anymore. So where are you? We can switch vehicles back.

SPEAKER_04 5:03

First of all, my godson pulled up at her at the restaurant. He did, too. You say you were? No, you no, no, no, no. I don't have to wait till you come home.

SPEAKER_03 5:10

I'll be yeah, he absolutely did.

SPEAKER_04 5:12

I don't even want a burger, I just want my side waiting.

SPEAKER_03 5:15

I was like, Oh, you tired of the pink jeep.

SPEAKER_04 5:17

He's like, I just want my truck. I don't even care. I don't even want a burger.

SPEAKER_00 5:23

That's funny. That was pretty cool, but yeah, that was it for me.

SPEAKER_05 5:27

Man, so I'm gonna start with realizing that old folks just literally don't think before they speak. And I I guess that's a way to determine whether or not you're old. You know what I'm saying? When you just get to speaking without thinking, it lets you know. So I had this older guy give me a call not too long ago. And he was letting me know, you know, things weren't going too good on his end or whatever. He had injured himself at work pretty bad. I had to be off for like four to six months or something like that. Getting climbing into the truck. I think he like did something to his leg where he messed his leg up or something. I don't know exactly what happened, right? So I'm giving him you know, good spirit, good vibes. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? Are you gonna be good? You see, you still getting paid? Yeah, they pay me. I'm like, okay, good, good. Just make sure you go through the therapy, this, that, and the third. Yeah, the old head that's with me was not on the same, and I was just sitting listening. I said, You don't even think you said nothing wrong, do you? So his words were, Man, you gotta give it up, man. You oh you older than me. You you worse than me. You gotta go ahead and get your papers and go down there and get that that that SSI gonna get it in because because this ain't gonna work for you. I'm trying to tell you, this is too much.

SPEAKER_03 6:48

I was like, Taking him off the camp.

SPEAKER_05 6:50

I said, You're gonna make him kill himself. Like he's stressed out already. You just going all the way in. He was like, What? What I do wrong. See, I'm just telling him how it is. See, I said, but sometimes that I said that's why he didn't call you. Yeah, not to mention he don't have your number, but you just couldn't wait to hear you heard that voice. You was like, Oh, I know who that is. Oh, yeah, you're worse than me. I remember you couldn't come to work at least once or twice a week. Sometimes, like just going in. I was like, no, so I don't think he needed to hear it. All right, well, but what happened when you're dealing with the old head?

SPEAKER_03 7:24

They just don't care at like you said, they don't even know that they say anything wrong.

SPEAKER_05 7:31

Right, he like, huh?

SPEAKER_03 7:32

What's wrong?

SPEAKER_05 7:32

What I did after I pointed it out, he still he he understood, I feel like, but I don't think he felt like it was still wrong. He's he like, yeah, I said that. I don't care.

SPEAKER_04 7:40

Yeah, he said, you over there, you over there being nice and gentle. I'm gonna rip the band-aid off.

SPEAKER_05 7:46

Rip it off. But at the same time, this person that's kind of how he is, right? So if we sitting here and we looking at like you know, something that's gonna happen. Oh, it ain't gonna work. Oh man, we're gonna I'm about to take the kids out to the pool. You know what I'm saying? We're gonna go to the pool this this Saturday, I'm gonna enjoy it, and it's gonna rain.

SPEAKER_03 8:03

I wonder if it's a lot of things. Wait a minute, what? Like you know, it's some people that's our age or younger, and they act like that already. So it's just gonna be worse when they get older.

SPEAKER_04 8:11

Yeah, like they always just negative. Like, I'm pessimists for sure.

SPEAKER_05 8:15

But what happens is, and I'm I'm watching that happen right now in real time. Not with these people, but yeah, with a different individual. Uh-huh. I'll leave her name out of it for now. But because you were so evil for the duration of your life prior to now, it's hard to get help from people because nobody wants to subject themselves to the evilness because they know that it's still gonna be evil. Even you in a point now when you don't even have the right to be evil. You probably don't even got the strength. You're in your last days, literally. Yeah, and we can guarantee that evilness will still come, yeah. Yeah, and and it's just it's just hard to see.

SPEAKER_03 8:57

But you don't blackbard yourself from everybody, so everybody like they like, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 9:02

And imagine it being like your son, right? Your son, who's the evil one, where you as the mother, like, I want to help you, yeah. But every time I leave you, I feel down. Yeah, yeah. I feel that's out of the feeling, and then and then whoever, if you with somebody, now they gotta be the one to try to bring your spirit back up. And they like, oh, we we this morning, everything was good. You went around Jeffrey, and now you acting, you know, all up out of it. Now I gotta bring you back out of it, and then they're gonna stop wanting to be around you.

SPEAKER_03 9:32

Because guess what? It's negative every time I'm around you. I don't want to be around negativity all the time. Yeah, when I'm feeling negative, I need to be around positive people that's gonna bring me up, not just every time you talk about this chick again, like again.

SPEAKER_04 9:44

Now I'm up here, now I'm with you, now I'm down here.

SPEAKER_03 9:46

I don't think you don't have the energy for that. I think and it's cool sometimes, but just not every single time. Like, we know life be life, right? Right, but every single time, I'm tired of hearing this shit. Like, god damn so life on another day, not today.

SPEAKER_05 10:04

Right, right. Let's save it for tomorrow.

SPEAKER_03 10:06

Save it for tomorrow, skip a day.

SPEAKER_05 10:08

Hey, skip a day. He it's so funny because the guy who be with me, he was like, he was like, I already know you don't think we can do everything, so it's my job to make you feel like we can't do it. I said, That's not your job. Who gave you that job? Who gave you him?

SPEAKER_04 10:24

Who gave who gave you him? Who gave him that job?

SPEAKER_05 10:26

He gave himself that job. I said, that's not your job. You don't have to uh no, no, that's not it.

SPEAKER_03 10:32

I started coming. I almost had to move to the zone. Probably couldn't see me. I see you, girl. I said, Well, I should have fucked up. I'm in trouble.

SPEAKER_05 10:45

So let me ask y'all this here question as I tip my truly with the PK shout out to the sponsors, keep the checks coming in. Um, have y'all ever had a situation where your past, let's say, relationship or past situation that you may have had came back to kind of haunt you in your current relationship because they won't let you forget about it. Right? So let's say, let's say in another universe, in another stratosphere, I know where that's going. KD and I was not together anymore, right? And the indiscretions that I made in our relationship here in that next universe, next stratosphere, that next person keep bringing up what I did back when KD and I first got together.

SPEAKER_04 11:37

Oh, I wouldn't even tolerate it. Yeah, what I heard of people doing that before though, like like why I don't be going upside your head like that nigga did. You mean like that? Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't tolerate that.

SPEAKER_03 11:52

Yeah, that wouldn't even work out though. Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_04 11:54

Because I didn't I didn't tell you, yeah, I didn't tell you about those things for you to weaponize it against me. You know what I'm saying? So to me, you already coming off of somebody I can't even trust. Because why are you throwing that stuff up in my face? Nah, I'm straight. That'd be like a super, super red flag.

SPEAKER_05 12:08

I think that's definitely a top three, and realizing like I can't trust the person I'm with. Yeah, that's like top three for sure.

SPEAKER_04 12:16

Uh it's up there, yeah. Because we had we probably had the conversation of why did your previous relationship end, or what are some things in your previous relationship that you didn't like, or whatever. So I was vulnerable enough to tell you these things. And then in sometimes it don't even gotta be in anger, sometimes it's just be in spite, yeah, and you just throw it up in my face, it's like, oh, okay, well, let me remove myself from this because you're a bitch.

SPEAKER_05 12:40

Or what's even worse is if I'm vulnerable with you and I tell you everything, see everybody gonna have the dynamic of having the same best friend per couple, like we have. But let's say that Kiki was just only my best friend, okay, right? And you tell me some stuff that you was, you know, you get real vulnerable and just open up with me, being hot with me, right? And then I go back and tell Kiki. Kiki, like the moment that she can y'all get into it, it comes back up to you that I told her what you you know what I'm saying. So, like, where you like I I can't even trust because you can't hold water, you can't keep it in. Oh, okay. All right, I get it.

SPEAKER_04 13:25

All right, so but then I actually don't trust you because I trusted you with my business, and then you went and told her my business, and then now she's throwing up my business in my yeah, first of all, how the fuck you even find out? No, I don't like no, I don't like nobody.

SPEAKER_03 13:43

I gotta hold my shit in. Yeah, dang it.

SPEAKER_04 13:45

I don't like nobody, ain't that some shit?

SPEAKER_05 13:47

All right, so let me read this to my fan here. It says, My girlfriend says she forgiving me for the mistakes I made before we got together. I don't think you gotta forgive me for something I didn't do to you, but right, but every time we get into an argument, she throws my past right back in my face. If we arguing about the dishes, somehow we're talking about how I cheated on my ex years ago. If I come home late from work, she'll say this why this is why I don't trust you. If I disagree with her, she'll remind me that people like you always lie. You don't mean to laugh at you, cuz you don't mean to laugh at you.

SPEAKER_04 14:28

I don't tell what I mean to laugh at. That's funny.

SPEAKER_05 14:31

I understand my past isn't perfect, but I'm starting to feel like I've never I'll never be allowed to become a different man. She says my history created the trust issue, so I have to deal with the consequences. I say if you're going to keep punishing me for a life for a lifelong if you're gonna keep punishing me for life, I no longer live. Dot dot dot. Why are we together? Can someone truly forgive you if they keep using it in your past as ammunition? Or is it just the price you gotta pay for the mistakes you made? Let me go first, and then we'll let y'all keep talking about it.

SPEAKER_04 15:20

I'm glad you said that because that's what I'm gonna go on.

SPEAKER_05 15:23

Let me just start it, and then you can go off, and then if I can chime back in, I probably will. But here's the thing the mistakes or the decisions that I make with somebody else has nothing to do with the person that I'm with now.

SPEAKER_01 15:34

Thank you.

SPEAKER_05 15:35

Right? So I don't understand what you are apologizing for about your past because you cheated on your ex. You didn't cheat on your current, you just was vulnerable enough and courageous enough to disclose that information with the current person so they can have a full view of who you used to be and who you are now, who they are with, right? Which is no, there's nothing wrong with that part. But the problem that you facing is that you are treating her as if the mistakes were made toward her, right? So let's just cut that out all together in one. All right, I'll stop there, I'll let KD cuss you out, and then I'll let Kiki cuss you out.

SPEAKER_04 16:18

I don't think a cuss out is necessary, but I do agree with why are you asking your current girlfriend for forgiveness of what you did to your ex-girlfriend? First of all, she doesn't even have a dog in that race, right? She don't even she can't if somebody violates Kiki, they I can't forgive them for what they did to Kiki. I can forgive you for whatever you did to me. Now hurting her might hurt me, and that's different. Yeah, but the if the actual violation is not to the person, they cannot forgive you. Yeah, you're not even in a space where you should even need desire or want her forgiveness for what you did to your previous girlfriend. Yeah, first of all, second of all, her throwing it in your face, you ain't do the dishes, and she like, oh, because you cheated on your other bitch. What the fuck do they got to do with the dishes?

SPEAKER_05 17:08

Nothing, nothing, nothing because you just did her dishes, you still cheat.

SPEAKER_04 17:11

But the thing is, you're not even throwing up in my face that I cheated on you, you throwing up in my face that I cheated on my previous girlfriend. That's foul as fuck. But it might be though, because like I said, what if the question is, what did you why did your previous relationship end?

SPEAKER_00 17:24

Yeah, that comes up.

SPEAKER_04 17:25

I previously related my previous relationship end because I cheated. I'm not that person anymore, whatever, right? But I don't need your forgiveness for what I did to my ex-work. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03 17:35

I think you're a weak ass nigga.

SPEAKER_04 17:37

Damn.

SPEAKER_03 17:39

I feel like I do, oh my god. Like, what are you doing here? No, Lasso feel like she cheating. Damn, you because you making excuses for every little thing, and he ain't even did shitting. Yeah, like you don't even like him no more. Girl, leave that nigga alone. You don't even like him when I was in relationships like that, and I find something washing dishes, or you come home two minutes late, or you you find any little things to make an argument about because you doing something else. You don't like that nigga no more. And that's a that's got bad sex, though.

SPEAKER_05 18:14

That was another thing, too. Like the arguing word, too far. Too far, too far.

SPEAKER_00 18:20

I think he worked though. I ain't gonna lie. I do think you work.

SPEAKER_04 18:24

I mean, it do give kind of a whack tendency for you to allow certain things.

SPEAKER_03 18:28

And I really want to know how long they've been together because how long you're gonna take it, like how long you're gonna deal with that.

SPEAKER_04 18:34

Because my thing is once you start accepting it, then that's because you know what's what's dangerous, you walking on eggshells in that motherfucker. Like, why for something you did to somebody else? Not even nothing you did to her, because you're apologizing for it.

SPEAKER_03 18:49

Yeah, that's crazy. Like some people, probably not. But what happens is I believe I think he worked though.

SPEAKER_05 18:56

I think he's I think sometimes people get used to being treated a certain way, yeah. Right. So if you can think about it, you look at a coalition of like how things are. The ex may have been treating him like this because he did this to her, right? So when the news starts treating him the same way, he's already accustomed to this treatment. Yeah, it's just weird because you don't have the right to be treating nobody like that. Because it didn't happen to you. To me, I feel like certain things that you have to keep your eye on, right? Is if you were abusive, right? Why did you leave your last relationship? Because you know, she she got tired of me hitting on her. So you might have to look out for them signs. Yeah. So it gives you a tailgate to look like, okay, let me look at these signs to make sure you ain't coming like that. You know what I'm saying? She was tired because I was on drugs and it just started taking away from the house, whatever. So when stuff starts coming up short, you got you know where to look and what's going on and things like that, right? And you may have relapse or whatever the case may be. Certain things like that, I feel like should be a must. Sometimes when people cheat and the relationship ends, a lot of times it don't end right then and there. Right. Right? You still try to forgive, you try to make it work. Yeah, and then you realize it can't happen. So your excuse for most people will say, Oh, we grew apart. You know what I'm saying? Whereas the person who got cheated on might be like, nah, this nigga can stop cheating. But the man gonna be like, well, we grew apart. Because in his head, we worked through that. Yeah, we just couldn't get back to where we were, so we grew apart. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 20:36

So, but in his case, I feel like if you sometimes, I mean, that's just some retarded shit.

SPEAKER_05 20:51

I mean, because this is the thing too. Did she show signs of like weaponizing your words prior to you giving her this information?

SPEAKER_04 20:58

Well, first of all, it it was it was crazy from the beginning because he started off with she forgave me for things that I did before we got together. How?

SPEAKER_05 21:08

That's the question.

SPEAKER_04 21:09

The the the beginning of the whole the whole letter blew me. She forgave you for what you did to someone else. That is not that is not real life, or or did he really do something to her too?

SPEAKER_03 21:22

And that's why she still, I wonder if he if he was leaving out some shit. You know how niggas be leaving not true.

SPEAKER_05 21:27

I was thinking he's leaving something out. I was thinking she was the one he was cheating with. So you could not withhold this information because you were the corporate with me.

SPEAKER_04 21:39

But then what so still, what did you forgive me for?

SPEAKER_05 21:42

Because you know about it.

SPEAKER_03 21:43

She never gonna trust him again, though.

SPEAKER_04 21:44

But that's how I be though. That's your fault, right? You started off as a side chick, and now you got now, you the main chick. Now you're wondering who got your position. Yeah, you graduated, but who came into the who came into the class behind you? Exactly. You know what I'm saying? You took her. Place and I who took yours, but that's but that's the insecurity that she gotta deal with.

SPEAKER_03 22:04

That changed the whole dynamic of it.

SPEAKER_04 22:05

But even in that, how I still don't, I don't still, I'm still not asking for forgiveness, and you were my side, bitch.

SPEAKER_03 22:12

Right.

SPEAKER_04 22:13

What the fuck am I sorry for? Because we was in that mess together, bitch. We robbed that bank together.

SPEAKER_05 22:18

Because quite frankly, I could look at you the same way. Who took my spot?

SPEAKER_03 22:22

Yep. Yep.

SPEAKER_05 22:25

You know what I'm saying? It goes both ways. It's a double-ended story, right? Yeah, yeah. So I could look at that. What is it called?

SPEAKER_04 22:30

A double entendre? Yeah. I mean, that's true though. But my thing is, but that just means their relationship was planted in disloyalty and and distrust off top.

SPEAKER_03 22:43

That shit was doomed from the beginning. Exactly. Because now that way it was they was doomed from the beginning. Exactly.

SPEAKER_04 22:48

So now when he is late for work from coming home from work, whether it's two minutes, five minutes, or twenty minutes, you wondering. She knows what they used to do. Exactly. Right. Right. She remember pulling up in the parking lot with the whoopty-woo whoop de woo, and then you going home. So you walking in the door, she likes let me smell. You like, what yeah. She watching, she watches. She likes why you take M5 any other time you take I75. You know what I'm saying? I know it's so M15. You know what I'm saying? Oh, you take her where we used to go, but that's making more sense.

SPEAKER_03 23:21

So that does make more sense. So that does make more sense. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 23:25

And then he just said she be arguing about the dishes. Sometimes getting doing the dishes start an argument because why the fuck all the time you doing the dishes? What you feeling bad for? Why you helping? What you do exactly? So she didn't say that the argument started because the dishes wasn't done. He said that the even the dishes start an argument, right? Because I remember talking to you, you like, man, let me go in here and do these dishes. I feel so bad for what we did yesterday. So now I come home and the dishes done. I'm like, why the fuck the dishes done? What you doing with the dishes? Why the dishes done? I told you that what you do.

SPEAKER_03 23:59

I told you a nigga was leaving something out. Yeah, telling you. That's one of all the stories.

SPEAKER_05 24:03

That's that's the part that makes me think that that because a lot of times I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you, men want to be open, yeah. They want to give you as much as they feel like you should know, not everything, yeah. You know what I'm saying? And it's for that reason, yeah, of just a certain thing that you just if you hear it, if it's weaponized against you, it you may get lost. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, and a lost male is a dangerous place, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 24:32

You got to be careful because weapon weaponizing things against people, they've been uh clicked out, absolutely, and then man, bad shit can happen. Yeah, to me, so if somebody trusts you enough and love you enough to tell you they deepest, darkest secrets, yeah. Never in the history of ever should that be thrown up in their face. And I've seen it, like I've seen like, oh, that's why your mom used to do crack in front of you. Like, damn, why you take it there?

SPEAKER_03 24:59

I don't think I can stay with somebody that's I don't think I could either, because what are you doing?

SPEAKER_04 25:03

So long, yeah. You can't and now I'm hurt on top of her.

SPEAKER_03 25:06

That's what I'm like, it's too much.

SPEAKER_04 25:08

Yeah, like I trusted you and I loved you, and you threw that up in my face because you was mad, and then you just go, What you gonna say? I'm sorry, but you gonna the next time exactly?

SPEAKER_05 25:17

So it's like, yeah, I mean, and then even like the phrase, I'm sorry, or I apologize, right? It still happened, it doesn't like erase it, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know how people like step on your shoe. Oh my bad, my bad. You good. You still stepped on my shoe, and still dirty, yeah. Yeah, so we still gotta fix this. But just I I appreciate you acknowledging that you made a mistake. Let's not do it again.

SPEAKER_04 25:42

Yeah, it's that part, it's that part, but yeah, too.

SPEAKER_05 25:46

When it that's one of the that's a that's an area, man. That that weaponizing your words type thing, and you sitting here because for one, men don't really open up to a lot of people, yeah. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. We it's it you will definitely not open up to like a bunch of men. We in a men's group just chilling, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 26:05

Y'all be in the men's group talking about sports, right? You know what I'm saying? Y'all never talk about what's the the deep down heart shit. Yeah, not I'm not gonna say never because I do think you have certain friends that you can be vulnerable with, but a man's group, I just envision y'all talking about sports, drinking beer, smoking cigars, you know what I'm saying? Women, women, yeah, not not getting you know too deep, yeah. And that's because everybody wants to be the men, nobody wants to be soft, yeah. Because sometimes you start talking about that deep shit, you get emotional, you start crying, like so.

SPEAKER_05 26:38

You're not gonna do that in front of 20 men. Because the problem is when you're doing it, the last thing you want is for somebody to laugh, crack a joke, or record it, record it, and post it, and all type of stuff. And even that, you can think I'm soft. We can we can prove that. But it's the other stuff that comes with it, you know what I'm saying? The other stuff that comes with it, where it's like, oh, I'm just trying to get this out. I remember when when we was at the funeral for our grandbaby, right? And it was a part, a part, a period where it just got like extremely heavy on me. So I just dealt down and I started crying. And I remember somebody in my ear was like, Come on, stand up, you can't let them see you crying. I was like, in my head, I'm like, I don't care.

SPEAKER_03 27:24

Right. This yeah, you should be crying. What are you talking about?

SPEAKER_05 27:28

But this is somebody who is not in touch with their emotions. So I was uh I understood it after the fact. I wasn't really paying no attention at the time, but I understood it after the fact, and I was like, they're not in touch with their emotions like that. I don't mind because I listen. Sometimes sometimes when when you when you pray a lot and when you're working on yourself and you hear like triggers, yeah, and it happened to me more now often than ever. Yeah, so I'm like, maybe I'm working on too much at one time. Let me just let me slow down and just work in one air because it's too many. I got too many triggers going on right now. I'm driving it, and my eyes is getting heavy. I'm like, what you what it's just Jay-Z, yeah. They just they just made up, you know, it's just Jay-Z, and then they hooked and it was good. Like, what? Why you but then it'd be like the weirdest stuff that it just is hit you in that area where you're like, Wow, what you claim for?

SPEAKER_04 28:24

You're like, why it do it'd be like but it'd be like a song, a smell, it could be something so simple. You'll be like, Why the fuck did that make me sad?

SPEAKER_03 28:32

Maybe trying to hold it in. Like, why the fuck am I because you confused? Why the fuck? What is happening?

SPEAKER_05 28:38

This is stupid. Yeah, my head always goes to I start planning. Like, if I feel like I'm gonna like tears is gonna come down my eyes, it's getting all hidden water. I start planning immediately, like, man. So when we do our live podcast, gonna come out to this, Katie come out like at that moment.

SPEAKER_04 28:57

You can distract your mind, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 28:59

Yeah, yeah, it's a a great distraction. Let me just start playing.

SPEAKER_04 29:03

I will say, like, sometimes when life gets too heavy, I just crack a joke. Like, I remember when my godsister grandmother passed away, her funeral was in the same place our grandson's funeral was at, and then she was buried in the same cemetery that our grandson was buried at. So while they were lowering her into the ground, because only like they only paid for like a certain amount of people to be able to watch her get lowered, even though everybody watched, they just had to keep a distance when it was me and Angel was with me, and when we looked around, we like, wait a minute, my grandson right over there, like literally, we just walked over there, so we walked over there, kicked it with him, and I was like, I felt myself getting so sad. So I'm like, Hey, I'm gonna go because shit, this party dead. Angel just bust out laughing, like, Mama, what is wrong with you? I'm like, bro, I had to say something, like because we was quiet, and it was just like man, then my my godsister auntie was playing like some some sad ass music while they was making so much like the black while they was learning, like like how your auntie did that's the first thing I think. Yeah, that's what I thought about when she was doing it.

SPEAKER_05 30:12

I'm like, look at her acting like Deontay Auntie Rainey, but it was lowering her they boom by playing it while while they was lowering lowering my granddad the boom.

SPEAKER_04 30:22

I'm like yeah, playing all the sad music. I'm like, bro, and that's how close we were, that's how close grandma is to Jamante. Like, literally, we could still hear the music, right?

SPEAKER_01 30:33

Right.

SPEAKER_04 30:34

So I had to say something, and Agel just bust out laughing, like, what is wrong with you? I'm like, I don't know. Like, I just had to do something, bro. But yeah, that was it'd be those times, even just driving down. Like, if I'm driving down the street, I realize, like, damn, he right there, you know what I'm saying? And then it just be like, damn, he right there, like he's not supposed to be. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? So we do have those moments of like what the fuck moments is what I call them. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 31:02

So is this romantic or is it not? Was he doing too much? To me, I felt like okay, you thought outside the box, right?

SPEAKER_01 31:11

So Kiki visited Kiki visits Mama Cheryl pretty often, right?

SPEAKER_05 31:26

Right. So people say, and you tell me if this is true, because I got a different interpretation of like the cemetery in itself, right? Because I don't really believe in it like that. Yeah, but people say that when you do that is because at that moment you really start to miss that person. It's a way for you to kind of feel closer to them, right? So is this romantic or is it not romantic? Uh-oh. You with your significant other, and you make a few gestures, and you he can tell like you're kind of down or whatever. It could be around, you know, mama's birthday, or it could be around like Mother's Day, or the time that everything went down. It could be whatever, anyone in time frame, and they just kind of paying attention and noticing that you know you're not yourself right now.

SPEAKER_00 32:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 32:15

And I want to do something to boost you up, get you out of that funk that you're in at the moment. And sometimes you can't really use words because there's nothing I can say.

SPEAKER_00 32:25

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 32:25

Because it's nothing, it's not necessarily about me. You're just missing your mind, right? So I go to the cemetery, set up a bottle of your favorite wine with a couple glasses right there.

SPEAKER_00 32:42

Oh, you fucking wrong.

SPEAKER_05 32:43

Got the food and all that sitting there chilling, right? Just like a picnic basket type thing. Yeah, roll with me now. Roll with me. I ask you to, or I come get you and I take you down there, and it's already set up, like we just finna chill with mama today, have a cup of drinks, eat, you know, and just just vibe out a little bit. Because you was missing, and I wanted to try to be here with you in these moments. Is that is that a go or a no? That might be the name of the segment. Is that a go or a no?

SPEAKER_03 33:20

Hell no. Like, what the hell? No.

SPEAKER_05 33:23

No.

SPEAKER_03 33:23

That's not romantic. No, no. I don't want to go to the cemetery and kick you with my mama and sit on the bench and be like, hey, girl, no, not no, no, no. The people that know me know what I like to do. Eat and drink. Eat and drink. No, nobody wants to go to the cemetery is already hardened up. No, I don't want to be there and have a picnic. No, nobody wanted. No.

SPEAKER_05 33:49

Okay, KD. I don't know. Is that a go or no? I'm not.

SPEAKER_03 33:53

That's insane. No, that's not romantic. I mean, maybe for some people. Because some people do when I go out there, they be picnicking and I'm saying that's a good thing.

SPEAKER_05 34:03

I see it all like that.

SPEAKER_04 34:04

They stay out there all day, they be barbecuing and I was gonna say when I went out there and mother's was I think it was Mother's Day either last year or year before last. Because that's what KK wanted to do. So we had one out there, yeah. And people had their lawn chairs off, barbecue grills, speakers. I felt like I was at Bell Out. It was the line to get in that motherfucker. Was I'm like, oh, okay.

SPEAKER_03 34:27

This is looking like that on Mother's Day for sure.

SPEAKER_04 34:29

Yeah, it was Mother's Day. Yeah, it was Mother's Day, Mother's Day for sure.

SPEAKER_03 34:35

They be out there kicking it for me. Like, if you want to get me out there funk, don't take me here because I'm still just gonna be crying and emotional. Like, that's not a place where I'm gonna be out my head, and I'm gonna still be she right here. Like, damn, she is not here anymore. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? No, that's not no. Take me to go get some Mexican food in the margarita.

SPEAKER_04 34:55

Yeah, we're on our way there right now. And we're gonna experiment with some stuff too.

SPEAKER_03 34:59

Yeah, no, don't take me to the cemetery because I'm gonna be like, I know you lying. Like, I'm not what beat you where?

SPEAKER_05 35:06

Wait, why are we turning in here?

SPEAKER_03 35:08

Clearly, you don't know me. This shit is about to be over. You about to be blocked. Because what is we doing here?

SPEAKER_05 35:13

So, new segment go or no. And from the sounds of it, sounds like a no.

SPEAKER_03 35:18

No, not for me. It's this, I mean, that's good for some people, that's just not good for me. Like, I'm still gonna be stuck in that space. You're not getting me out the funk, keep bringing me here. That's not bringing me out the funk because I'm still remembering, like, I'm still, which might you gonna not remember, but I don't want to be in the funk, I don't want to be here. Oh, it's just remember reminding me that she's not here. Like, no, this is stupid. And you fired, and we broke up, and you fired damn man.

SPEAKER_04 35:43

We broke up.

SPEAKER_05 35:44

All right, let's run through this next one real quick and then we'll shut it down. So, the next one that's pretty deep, man. It says, My wife and I have been together for 10 years, and early in our marriage, I admitted that I've always been curious about having threesome.

unknown 36:02

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 36:02

At first, she wasn't interested, but eventually she agreed because she wanted to make me happy. We've had a few experiences together, but lately something doesn't feel right. She she never brings she never brings it up herself. She never seems excited about it beforehand. If I don't mention it, it never happened. Whenever I ask if she's enjoying herself, she says it's fine and tells me she's doing it because she loves me. But that's exactly what's bothering me. I don't want my wife to do to be doing something intimate just because she thinks it's keeping me happy. I want to know she's genuinely comfortable and wants it to. Now I'm wondering if I unintentionally pressured her simply because she loves me. She insists everything is okay, but my guts keep telling me otherwise. So if your spouse is the only if your if your spouse is only participating to make you happy, is that enough? Or should both people genuinely want it before it becomes a unhealthy part of a relationship?

SPEAKER_03 37:16

My thing is why the fuck would you keep doing? Okay, if she wanted you wanted to do it, she did it. Why do you want to keep doing it? Like you just want to make that a part of your relationship. Why?

SPEAKER_05 37:28

Like, that's it sounds like she said she would she wanted it too.

SPEAKER_03 37:31

She's tired of that though. Like, okay, y'all want y'all experienced it. How long are we gonna do it? It's probably how she's feeling. Like, what you just want to keep fucking other bitches, is what you're telling me.

SPEAKER_05 37:41

So we in this together, we we want to keep doing it.

SPEAKER_03 37:44

She probably did have fun at first, but I mean she probably knows gonna be an everyday.

SPEAKER_04 37:47

That's what I'm like. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 37:49

We don't want to put that in our relationship because it's just not she's gonna get sick of you fucking other bitches at some point.

SPEAKER_04 37:54

I damn like, oh, this oh, this is the only way we could fuck is if we got somebody else. Cool, cool.

SPEAKER_03 37:58

So once you just talk about adding a third person, sure. You just got her threesome. Clearly, you want another bitch. Weirdo. I don't like her.

SPEAKER_05 38:09

Katie, what you think?

SPEAKER_04 38:11

I just said what I thought. You wasn't listening, no.

SPEAKER_05 38:13

Say it again because the people didn't hear you either.

SPEAKER_04 38:15

They did. What they said, you just didn't. I said she didn't know that was gonna be an ongoing everyday thing.

SPEAKER_03 38:21

So so the communication part of it was was lack, and if you get, I feel like if you're getting those bad vibes, or not even bad vibes, if she's not giving you the same energy as before, you you see it. Why are you? What a conversation do we need to have? She don't like it anymore. She's doing it now. At first, it was fun, but now she's doing it just for you. She don't want to do that no more. Why you pushing it? I feel like no, we need to add a nigga, and this is quite fun. Let's see how this goes. What are you talking about?

SPEAKER_04 38:50

Since we add shit, let's get this party started.

SPEAKER_03 38:52

Not just since we add shit, we doing.

SPEAKER_05 38:55

Yeah, that it don't even sound right when you said that. Yeah, that bell don't even sound right when you just said that right there.

SPEAKER_03 39:01

Oh, I'm just saying, clearly, she's tired of that. Spice it up another way, do something different, yeah. There's other ways to spice up a relationship. She's tired of that. She probably bored with that shit. Now, how many bitches can we fight? Let's do something else. We did that already. Okay, oh, it's something. Talk to her about this. You gotta communicate, and clearly she giving you the signs that she ain't feeling it no more. So I don't know which how much more you you need because you bought to be fucking bitches by yourself in a minute. Okay, I feel like you're gonna be divorced.

SPEAKER_05 39:34

All right, all right. You got you still got some some trollies in your in your cup? You still got some trolees? No. Oh, you need a new one. Okay, we're gonna we're gonna pull in a special guest for this one. Miss Malthy.

unknown 39:48

Uh oh.

SPEAKER_05 39:49

Can we borrow you for this last segment?

SPEAKER_00 39:52

Uh oh. Uh-oh.

SPEAKER_03 39:54

Our favorite ting ting ting. Ting ting ting.

SPEAKER_04 40:01

I can't wait to get off the air so we could tell her what happened. Oh, yeah. She just she just said she didn't want another one.

SPEAKER_02 40:10

Oh, I'll I'll promote her.

SPEAKER_04 40:12

You ain't got no choice. Treason treason. We're making her drink. Treason. She's not gonna drink. That's rare. That's rare wristband or blue wristband. Oh, boy.

SPEAKER_05 40:22

So, this segment right here, I've been wanting to try this out for a minute. I just want to see how this works out, man. I want to see you know what's going on. We're gonna call this sip or spiel.

SPEAKER_04 40:30

Oh, all right.

SPEAKER_05 40:31

So sip or spiel. That's what mean.

SPEAKER_04 40:34

She's like, I guess I open it.

SPEAKER_05 40:36

I read it. If you've done it, you sip. Oh, if you don't, if you haven't done it, then you gotta give us a special or intimate story on either why you haven't done it or just something in general. Oh I like this game.

SPEAKER_04 40:56

So it's kind of like never have I ever, but with a reason behind it.

SPEAKER_01 40:59

There we go.

SPEAKER_03 41:00

Okay, I ain't do good at this game last time.

SPEAKER_04 41:03

We played it on Friday and we was drunk.

SPEAKER_03 41:05

I spent the night, I spent the night at y'all's house last time. We did two years ago. I was too drunk, baby. I can deal some shit. Go ahead.

SPEAKER_05 41:12

All right, so sip or spill. Sip if you ever stayed too long in a bad relationship or friendship.

SPEAKER_03 41:18

Oh sip the whole thing. Damn, oh no, sorry. I said I just said it. Okay, Barry Pine.

SPEAKER_05 41:26

Truly talk about it. Oh, that's all good. Which one is that?

SPEAKER_04 41:32

I was kind of scared of it, but it's good.

SPEAKER_05 41:34

I didn't even read it, I just scared you more. Sip if you double back on the ex.

SPEAKER_03 41:41

Mm-hmm. So you're gonna be talking.

SPEAKER_05 41:45

You should be stepping too, because we were the ex.

SPEAKER_03 41:47

Oh, we was.

SPEAKER_04 41:49

Y'all didn't break up. We were the exact. We just talked about that. You're right.

SPEAKER_05 41:53

Sip, if you ever been jealous of your partner's friend.

SPEAKER_03 41:58

Wait, jealous of your partner's friends?

SPEAKER_05 42:00

Yeah. No. Let me see.

SPEAKER_02 42:03

Jealous. I mean I don't know. I'll step.

SPEAKER_05 42:06

I think I'm gonna sip too. I probably was jealous of a friend of some sort. Yeah, I sip.

SPEAKER_02 42:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 42:12

I can't recall.

SPEAKER_05 42:14

We got two sips to know.

SPEAKER_04 42:15

I'm trying to think. Because I can't think of it. So I don't think I was ever jealous of the one friend that you had. What's your dad used to call her? Jumpstart?

SPEAKER_05 42:26

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 42:26

I don't think I was necessarily jealous of her, but I was jealous of the secrecy that you all had in y'all friendship. Which is why I used to think something was going on between y'all. But I don't know if I was jealous, but I didn't like it. That's for sure.

SPEAKER_03 42:41

That might be fun. Oh, you should have sipped because it was.

SPEAKER_04 42:45

I don't think I was jealous.

SPEAKER_03 42:47

Yeah, that's what I could.

SPEAKER_04 42:48

All right, I'll just do a I'll do an SI, but I ain't gonna do a P.

SPEAKER_05 42:55

Sip, if you ever forgiven something you never got over.

SPEAKER_03 43:00

I ain't gonna have nothing in a minute.

SPEAKER_05 43:05

All right, we do two more. Two more. Sip if you've ever revenge posted online.

SPEAKER_03 43:12

I did.

SPEAKER_05 43:17

I don't even know what that means. I don't think I've ever revenge posted though. Unless you want to talk about me posting my uh this track.

SPEAKER_04 43:23

That was a revenge post. Yeah, yeah. The the track was a revenge track.

SPEAKER_05 43:28

What you know you know, but he posted it and then the last one. Let's see. Nobody's gonna sip from this one. But sip if you ever if you hidden a purchase from your partner. I sip because I did hide.

SPEAKER_03 43:47

Hidden a purchase.

SPEAKER_05 43:52

Never?

SPEAKER_03 43:53

Oh maybe shopping. Maybe shopping.

SPEAKER_05 43:56

All right, you gotta give us something.

SPEAKER_04 43:57

Well sometimes you gotta hide it because it's a surprise. No, I'd be happy.

SPEAKER_02 44:01

Yeah, like spending too much or something.

SPEAKER_04 44:04

But nothing off the that's something like nothing like I don't got a Bugatti tucked away somewhere next to you.

SPEAKER_02 44:12

I never told him. Like I don't he don't care about anything that I'm like previously on Amazon.

SPEAKER_03 44:17

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 44:17

But it's like, should I be telling him?

SPEAKER_03 44:19

I don't hear some shopping bags before. Like, bitch, I'm gonna take them in the house later because I said it.

SPEAKER_04 44:24

Yeah, in fact, you don't hear shopping bags in my house. Yeah, I'm gonna come get him when he go to work.

SPEAKER_05 44:32

All right, there we go. That's it. That was good. That was good.

SPEAKER_03 44:35

That was good. That was good. I ain't never doing I'm never doing shots again. No for games that I play.

SPEAKER_04 44:46

It never ends up well. Should be thrown up, it never ends up well. Right, right.

SPEAKER_03 44:50

At home and all, I have to be at home, I can be out, I can be able to do it.

SPEAKER_02 44:55

I can be in the train on the plane.

SPEAKER_03 44:59

Yeah, oh, we did that before.

SPEAKER_02 45:00

I was like, I'm drunker than a motherfucker. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 45:03

We did shot roulette.

SPEAKER_02 45:04

Seen them racing in the hallway at the hotel. I'm like, hey j'ai dumb there.

SPEAKER_04 45:08

Like, yeah, we did shot roulette.

SPEAKER_03 45:10

Oh my god, I'm never no more shots for me.

SPEAKER_04 45:13

Tipsy land. We played that on my birthday and didn't even make it to nothing.

SPEAKER_03 45:17

I really didn't make it to that. I didn't make it past nine o'clock. So that was hilarious. Nine o'clock PM.

SPEAKER_04 45:23

I was yeah, shot shot games are for the devil.

SPEAKER_03 45:27

I'm not doing any more shot games. I said that last time, and this time I'm serious.

SPEAKER_04 45:31

No, we mean it this time because after 40, it ain't the same.

SPEAKER_05 45:34

Yeah, no, no, ain't nothing like throwing up or filling out. I hate that.

SPEAKER_04 45:38

Like you did a whole ad work.

SPEAKER_05 45:39

Yeah, you didn't, and it's like you don't even be down one day. Like not being there to remember the whole night is that's crazy.

SPEAKER_03 45:52

I did that for my last birthday. I had to look at the pictures. I'm like, we didn't even take any pictures all night. It was like, girl, yes, we did. Yes, we did. I was like, what?

SPEAKER_05 46:01

Uh the bowling, my birth, my bowling birthday. I was like, that's my last.

SPEAKER_00 46:04

Oh, yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 46:06

I seen videos of me hustling. I was like, I don't even remember being on the floor.

SPEAKER_04 46:09

I was like, I'm like, I'm like, he don't like lemonade. They like he over there drinking lemonade. I said, What the BTM was over there with the lemonade like no idea about it. Right. Until he was rolling down Southfield.

SPEAKER_05 46:26

Getting ran over by cars.

SPEAKER_04 46:27

I did not run you over. Oh you fell out the car.

SPEAKER_05 46:31

Yeah, and then you kept going. She was like, I'm forgetting something.

SPEAKER_04 46:35

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 46:36

Oh, this nigga left him put that boy reverse. Came back.

SPEAKER_04 46:40

He's lying.

SPEAKER_05 46:41

He's lying.

SPEAKER_04 46:42

I did have to call my kids though to meet me where we was at to get him back in the car.

SPEAKER_05 46:46

I'm like, I can't let's got the sprinklers hitting me there.

SPEAKER_04 46:49

I'm like, oh, I pulled over, bro. I pulled over. No, I pulled over so he could throw up. While he was throwing up, he fell out of the car.

SPEAKER_02 47:01

And you couldn't get him up.

SPEAKER_04 47:02

I couldn't live. I like got in the car and tried to pull it, but he's like, You was never gonna be able to get him out. So I called my kids, like y'all still at my house? They like, yeah. I'm like, can you meet me down the street? Get your dad back in the car. Then they drug him in the house. That was so my god.

SPEAKER_05 47:18

So I had two experiences like that, man. Yeah, but the first the first experience wasn't all that good like that, but it was still your birthday. It was still my birthday.

SPEAKER_04 47:28

You were trying to go to sleep on Michigan Avenue.

SPEAKER_03 47:30

Yeah, I remember we threw them that party of the trying to let me get got, but I you know, I feel like you should do that on your birthday. Now, when people do that and it's not their birthday, then you be looking at them sideways like just on the regular birthday weekend. No, just on a random Tuesday.

SPEAKER_04 47:56

We're not gonna be carrying this bitch home, no.

SPEAKER_03 47:58

It's cool on birthdays. That was fun. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_04 48:01

And anniversaries, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 48:02

Oh, we're about to be in Jamaica tonight. Yeah, especially I ain't gonna be carrying you though, bro. We a lot of time, you don't get us drunk. That's true. You know why? I think you'd be more conscious. I never no, you can't get it.

SPEAKER_02 48:13

No, Miami, I was fucked up in Miami. Baby, I was rolled over the toilet. I was screaming for my best friend. We had this big ass picture. Yes, in the heat. Oh no, it was just worse. Yes, I was like, never.

SPEAKER_04 48:33

Yeah, we do be lost. I don't yeah. And we be drinking, but in the party, we drink all day.

SPEAKER_03 48:38

We do drink all day.

SPEAKER_04 48:38

We wake up drinking though. Oh, that's true. We're definitely gonna eat a lot. I mean, I be passing out, but I just we're just gonna be texting us like go, y'all make sure y'all eat. I'll do because you ain't there to make us eat. I don't know what we do have to eat before we eat, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 48:54

Because when you get to especially in Vegas, you get to walking and looking and this and that, you don't eat that much, yeah. And then you pass up, and yeah, then I'd be like, Look, now we gotta eat every two hours, fucking with me, because I'm gonna I don't feel like passing out today. So we're gonna have to eat and get some order and sit down somewhere so it's ready, get some more that's the ritual. She's right, she's right. Well, I'm gonna be y'all gonna be lifting me up. I'm gonna have a dress on, so just close my legs and fake me up. I'm like, why the time I pass out? I got a dress on.

SPEAKER_05 49:26

I'm trying to tell you, Kiki is the queen, even though she got a dress, she is still gonna be conscious of what's going on in that area. She's like, Oh, wait, pull my dress down.

SPEAKER_03 49:35

Put my dress down. What are we doing here?

SPEAKER_02 49:38

I'm a lady first.

SPEAKER_03 49:40

I gotta get that too.

SPEAKER_05 49:41

They like carrying her. She's like, Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

SPEAKER_03 49:44

Booty out. Hold on, my booty out.

SPEAKER_05 49:46

Cheek got cold. Left cheek, left cheek, right cheek, left cheek.

SPEAKER_03 49:49

I've been doing good lately, not though. But you know what? It could have been because my blood pressure was high too. I'm like, no, not necessarily though, because when I first got diagnosed with the disease I got, they they checked my blood pressure and stuff, so it wasn't that like blood pressure, just just happened recently. I don't know. I'm about to be fucked up, y'all. I don't fucking know. I don't fucking know.

SPEAKER_05 50:11

All right, all right, cool. Appreciate you, Raquel. Of course, we love you.

SPEAKER_03 50:18

K do you love me? Finish the word, y'all. No, that's all I have to do.

SPEAKER_05 50:25

Y'all finish, finish it, finish it for her right here in the comment. Finish it. Talk about it, man. Let them know what they where they can listen to us at.

SPEAKER_03 50:35

You can find us on my favorite platform, YouTube. If y'all ain't on YouTube by now, baby, you got to see these faces that match these voices, hunty.

SPEAKER_05 50:46

You hear me?

SPEAKER_03 50:47

Okay, be on YouTube, because everybody on YouTube anyway. But you can also find us on iHeart Radio. What's the new one? Bumble Bumblebee. I'm gonna say Bumble so bad, because that's another thing. That's a dating website.

SPEAKER_05 50:59

That's a date now.

SPEAKER_03 51:00

Bus sprout.

SPEAKER_05 51:02

Coming soon.

SPEAKER_03 51:05

I always I'm like, I know it's that would be, but bumble always just pop in my head, right?

SPEAKER_05 51:10

I don't coming soon.

SPEAKER_03 51:13

What bumble?

SPEAKER_05 51:15

Cool we're gonna be on there as a as a show.

SPEAKER_03 51:18

Ain't nobody going on no dates as no show. No, but I guess if you got Apple Podcasts, I don't know. We on there too, but wherever you find your podcast.

SPEAKER_05 51:32

All right, and then just a little news for y'all. If y'all haven't heard on all of the previous shows up until now, this is your last chance to get your ticket to come chill with us at the hottest night of the summer, uh April, August 1st and August 2nd. We'll be downtown Detroit at Buffalo Wild Wing for Summer Slam with my other podcast, the Holy Shh Podcast. It's only 23Hs, man. Go to the event, bite, type in, type in the holy shh 3H's. All right, talk about it. Get your ticket. Tickets are not that expensive, man. You know what I'm saying? Jump on it now. Jump on it now. Because the last event we took over several rooms. It was so you know, several rooms. Always nice.

SPEAKER_03 52:23

You can't go around with Buffalo Wild Wings.

SPEAKER_05 52:25

And if the weather's good, the balcony is gonna be open. You know what I'm saying? Of course, we're gonna have some drink specials going at night. We got the food going, but you know, if you have Buffalo Wild Wings, you know what to expect. You know what I mean? Gotta get you that garlic palm, that's my favorite. Um, but yeah, make sure you're in the building. Get your tickets. This is the last show before that day. So get your tickets and come rock with the squad, man. It's gonna be what they call a time. You wanna have a time?

SPEAKER_03 52:55

The time will be here.

SPEAKER_05 52:56

You wanna have a time? Don't be left out, and now you don't know, you just gotta hear about it. You know what I'm saying? You don't want to have to hear about it when you got the capability to be there and rock with them. You know what I'm saying? They're gonna give me the mic, so you know when they give me the mic, I'm gonna listen. I don't really share her with a lot of people, but my grandbaby's gonna be there, and we're gonna be tearing up the stage, just so y'all know. We've been working on some stuff, you know what I'm saying? Behind the scenes when it's time, we're gonna see if she gets stage frightened or not, but we're gonna tear it up, we're gonna get it in. So make sure y'all get y'all tickets right now today. The holy shh podcast, three H's, event break. Get there right now before it's sold out. Talk about it. You gotta be there though to talk about it. All right, so be there to talk about it. Katie, let them know how they can follow finding.

SPEAKER_04 53:50

You can follow me at your girl.kd. You can follow kiki at rrp.kiki, you can follow coach dtm at coach dtm. You can you can follow the podcast page at rrp underscore network.

SPEAKER_05 54:06

Man, your future is quietly watching what you do today. Every excuse delays it, every discipline decision brings it closer. So make this day count. All right. So one and only, I am the one and only coach DTM.

SPEAKER_03 54:26

Your girl KD. Your house is with the monsters, Kiki.

SPEAKER_05 54:29

And this is the world's most dangerous podcast, man. Relationship reality podcast. We will see you next week.

SPEAKER_04 54:38

Peace. Oh no, you're truly not funny.