Living with Boundaries
Living with Boundaries is a podcast for men who want to live with clarity, conviction, and purpose. In a culture that blurs the lines, we believe boundaries aren’t about restriction — they’re about direction.
Each episode explores what it looks like to live out the Christian faith in everyday life: at home, at work, and in leadership. We talk honestly about faith, family, discipline, and responsibility, with practical conversations that challenge men to set the line and live intentionally.
Hosted by Josh and Matt, Living with Boundaries is about setting the standard, leading well, and moving forward with purpose — not just listening, but living it.
Living with Boundaries
Marriage & Maturity: Setting Boundaries for Love That Lasts
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In this episode of Living with Boundaries, we tackle a question every parent will eventually face:
When is the right time for our kids to get married?
Is it better to marry young and grow together?
Or wait until careers are established and maturity is fully developed?
Josh and Matt take different positions in this conversation, referencing the book Outdated: Find Love That Lasts When Dating Has Changed by Jonathan Pokluda*, and unpack how modern dating culture has shifted expectations around commitment.
We explore:
- Cultural pressure to delay marriage
- The risks of marrying too young
- The risks of waiting too long
- Emotional, financial, and spiritual readiness
- What boundaries parents should set — and which ones they shouldn’t
This isn’t about controlling our kids’ timelines.
It’s about raising men and women who are spiritually grounded, emotionally healthy, and ready to build covenant marriages that last.
Living with Boundaries is a podcast for dads who want to lead their homes with clarity, conviction, and courage.
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Strong families don’t happen by accident.
They’re built with intention — and boundaries.