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<v SPEAKER_03>Welcome to the It's Life Podcast where conversations about faith meet real life.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We are a ministry of Liberty Live Church in Hampton Roads, Virginia, and all over the world through our online services.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We invite you to join us if you don't have a church home and share with a friend who may need some encouragement or need a word from God today because we have a special guest in the studio, our senior pastor, Pastor Grant.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Welcome.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Thank you, Jenny.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Always good to be here.

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<v SPEAKER_03>It's good to have you here.

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<v SPEAKER_03>And today, they have submitted questions for you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've read them.

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<v SPEAKER_03>You've read them.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Are you prepared for this conversation?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Oh, I've tried my best to uh find the biblical answer for every question.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We appreciate you doing the hard work.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Hey.

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<v SPEAKER_03>I know it's a lot of things.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Seriously, it really didn't matter what I think or what somebody else thinks.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It matters what God has said.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_03>So are y'all ready to jump into this conversation today?

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<v SPEAKER_03>I know you are because you've sent your questions in.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We thank you for doing that.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We'll start with an easy one.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_03>You ready?

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<v SPEAKER_03>Uh-huh.

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<v SPEAKER_03>What version of the Bible do you preach from?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, uh the answer is different versions.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, I don't preach from just one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Of course, when I started, uh, I preached from King James.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Oh, wow.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And uh because I started, you know, 1984.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So uh pretty much everybody was still preaching from the King James.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, and then uh I later moved to a new King James.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, but now I honestly read a lot of different versions and I try to find exactly uh what the original text is saying and who best says it today in our language.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so uh when you look at the different translations, uh it's either literal or dynamic.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So some are word for word, they call that literal.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But sometimes word for word can be awkward.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And uh, and then there are those uh that are thought for thought.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And sometimes they may leave out something that word for word gets better.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So um the the blessing is we have a lot of different translations, and uh I like what one person said.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh they said, listen, the one you need to buy is the one you're gonna read.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's a good word.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You know, if if you're gonna buy something that may be considered one of the best word-for-word translations, but you can't read it, uh, then, or or you don't want to read it, you're you're not comfortable reading it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's awkward, then then that's not the one for you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So today uh when I preach, you know, I may use the uh ESV, which is word for word, or I may use uh CSB, which is going to be thought for thought.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh when I read my daily devotions, I'm reading the NIV because it's just easy to read.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Right, right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh and I would say uh we don't talk much about it, but but there are some that are a paraphrase.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So it's not a committee that really looked at the original text, but it's just an individual who is, in their own words, paraphrasing, you know, the Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I I think that uh those can be good tools, they can be inspirational, but they're not on the same level as a translation.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Are there any, like you would say, maybe avoid that one then, like a specific one, or it's all stuff?

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm not gonna get into any specific one, but I just I think we need to clarify between a paraphrase and a translation of a version.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's a good that's a good word.

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<v SPEAKER_03>I think it's neat too on the Bible app, you can change what version.

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<v SPEAKER_03>So you can, you know, as you're doing your quiet time, if you're following along with a devotional, you can see, oh, I do like reading this one or this one or this one and find which one.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's what I do.

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<v SPEAKER_01>If I'm preaching a text, I'm gonna read it and change it and look at a lot of different um translations and different versions of the Bible, really, and then zero in on which one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's why I can't say I just preach from one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh you know, CSB, if I if I said if there's just one, CSB is probably it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But sometimes we use NIV, sometimes ESV.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, so I I would say use them all, but get the one that you're gonna read.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Good deal.

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<v SPEAKER_03>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Well, what can a new believer do when their faith is challenged and they don't know how to respond?

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<v unknown>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, um I I think that certainly all of us have been there, uh whether it's in a uh classroom setting, you know, at high school or in college, or at the workplace, or at the dinner table with uh family members.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I I remember as a young pastor, uh Tammy and I had just married, and um we went and had dinner with a family member uh who was married to uh someone from India.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And uh as a Hindu, they wanted to debate the childhood of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, as you well know, uh the Bible is pretty silent on the childhood of Jesus, except for one or two stories.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so um they wanted to talk about something the Bible didn't address.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I remember the panic or or just intimidation of that moment that I felt like I had to have an answer.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I would just say, uh be honest and tell people, I don't know.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Or be honest and say, the Bible really doesn't speak to this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um uh what I would do after that is say, but let me tell you what I do know.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then I would go to your story.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and I often say that a good testimony is 25% what your life was like before you met Jesus, 25% how you met Jesus, and then 50% the difference he's made in your life, uh, purpose, direction, meaning, how your life has changed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And that's something they just can't argue with.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And that's why Paul kept telling his story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and so I think you just admit what what you don't know, and then you tell what you do know.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's good.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's good.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Um, speaking in tongues, does that happen today?

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<v SPEAKER_03>Is that for today?

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<v SPEAKER_03>What does the Bible teach about the purpose of tongues and when and where it's appropriate?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Great question.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And uh and one that I think is very pertinent for the church today, and certainly in our local church, um, because we come from all different backgrounds.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um you know, I would say that uh, first of all, godly theologians uh and pastors have disagreed over secondary, tertiary issues, and this is one of them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So I respect people who may not agree with what I'm about to say.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um so don't make it a test of fellowship.

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<v SPEAKER_01>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's that's number one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There are two views that I personally um avoid.

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<v SPEAKER_01>One is that tongues or sign gifts, miracle gifts ceased with the death of the apostles.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I really don't find that in the Bible, even though a lot of uh theologians have held to that position.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The other uh view that that I really avoid is that you have to speak in tongues to be filled with the spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The Bible doesn't teach that either.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So I think to me, those are kind of two different ends of the spectrum that you you kind of avoid and stay away from.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um uh let's just take the the one here about you have to speak in tongues to be filled with the spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Paul plainly said here in 1 Corinthians 12 29, are all apostles, are all prophets, are all teachers, are all workers of miracles, do all have gifts of healing?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Do all speak with tongues?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Do all interpret?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And the answer is no to all the above.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so when you read the book of Acts, the word tongues is plural, it's always plural in the book of Acts, and it refers to a language.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Go to the day of Pentecost.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Peter preached, and people heard in their own language.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>All right, so it is a language, and and I'm not gonna say that ceased with the apostles.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, we hear of it on the mission field today.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've seen it with my mentors.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, um, one of my mentors, he he was preaching in Florida, and there was a lady there from uh Germany, and and she couldn't speak English.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so afterwards she's very distraught.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He goes over and talks to her, and all he knows to do is just share the gospel, and and he's just sharing the gospel with her in the middle of it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, she just broke down crying and she was just so overwhelmed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And finally, they get an interpreter from one of the local uh universities who came and um he said, Ask, you know, the preacher said, Ask her what happened.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And she responded, Does the preacher not know?

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<v SPEAKER_01>She said, He was speaking, and I couldn't understand anything, and all of a sudden he began to speak in perfect German.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Wow.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And she heard the gospel, she understood, and she was saved.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Uh-huh.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now, it just it it happens, and how can you say that ceased?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, we've seen it right here in our old church.

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<v SPEAKER_03>I was gonna say, I feel like you've shared a story like that from here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um a lady came from South America, she was visiting family here in the church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>She did not speak or understand English.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, she always would speak uh through her son or her daughter-in-law uh to me or to Tammy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>She was here for several weeks.

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<v SPEAKER_01>She came through the line on Sunday morning, and uh she is telling uh Tammy through her daughter-in-law, she said, I I don't speak English, I don't understand English, but when your husband preaches, I understand him.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Wow.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And she was saved.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, you know, Miss Tammy, she won't, she's like, Does she really understand?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Is she really saved?

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Tammy goes through the gospel again and makes sure she understands.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then uh before she went home, she was baptized here.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Wow.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And um, you know, she it was just it was the book of Acts, it was the day of Pentecost, right here in our own congregation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's cool.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So I'm never gonna say that ceased.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now go to um 1 Corinthians.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In 1 Corinthians, it talks about an unknown tongue.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And in that case, it's not plural, it's singular.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And some would say that is the language of angels or the prayer language or the language of heaven.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And um, I would just say that Paul gives warning with that, that um uh it's not misused in a public worship service.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And again, I don't want you to take my opinion for it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want I want to read it to you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In 1 Corinthians 14, uh, he says here, uh verse 2, for the person who speaks in a tongue is not speaking to people, but to God, since no one understands him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is Paul speaking.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yet in the church, I would rather speak five words with my understanding, in order to teach others also, than ten thousand words in a tongue, singular, unknown.

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<v SPEAKER_01>If therefore the whole church assembles together and all are speaking in tongues, and people who are outsiders, they're unbelievers, come in, will they not say that you are out of your mind?

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think it's funny.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, so uh you have to understand uh kind of my my background.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I grew up Baptist, but I grew up in a singing family, and all of the all-day singings and dinner on the ground, they were always held in Pentecostal churches.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So I grew up in both of those atmospheres, and I'm very much at home in both.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, and even my Pentecostal friends, I I first went to college at Emmanuel College, Franklin Springs, Georgia.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Wow.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That is home of the Pentecostal Holiness Church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And, you know, I'm the only boy there in the Baptist boy there in the religion department.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So anyway, um, my Pentecostal friends will will tell you that in some of the churches they grew up in, it was sing until something happens.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so they would just sing and sing and sing until some experience happened.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And it you never knew what was going to happen, so they would never invite a lost friend to come because, you know, it would just be uncomfortable and they wouldn't even know what's going on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so I would just say that uh we're not a sing until something happens, church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>At the same time, uh, we believe the Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So forget Baptist doctrine, forget Pentecostal doctrine, forget Presbyterian doctrine and Methodist doctrine, and let's get back to the Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And here's what the Bible says: same chapter, 1 Corinthians 14, verse 39 and 40.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Do not forbid tongues, but all things should be done decently and in order.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So when uh people tell me I have this uh private prayer language, you know, and in their prayer closet or in their daily devotion, they speak in tongues, I say, praise God, pray for me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And at the same time, I don't want everybody doing that in the middle of a public worship service because we don't want uh, because we're an invite culture church, we want lost people to come, and I don't want them coming saying, You're out of your mind.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and so I think the Bible is very clear on it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, but traditions uh kind of cause people uh to be polarized on the issue and we shouldn't be.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's good.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Thank you.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Thank you for that.

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<v SPEAKER_03>All right, we're gonna move over into a little bit of culture questions.

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<v SPEAKER_03>I feel like some of these are really hot topics right now.

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<v SPEAKER_03>So, should Christians view Islam as a threat to Western civilization?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, uh, let me preface it by saying that that Tammy and I have Muslim friends, we have Muslim doctors.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um if if you look right here at Hampton, uh the Islamic Community Center is right here beside the Hampton campus.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and and Jesus said, Love your neighbor.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so we want to be a good neighbor.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And uh and we have a good relationship with those um who are uh of the Muslim faith or or practice Islam.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um with that said, um you have to acknowledge that Islam is a competing world view, and if you look at it um in Africa and Asia, as a political military movement, it is all it has always taken over by force.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So uh Sharia law is not compatible with the US Constitution or the American way of life.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So uh but the answer to your question is yes, but I'm telling you why.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So uh whether you're a Christian or whether you're just an American and not even of the Christian faith, if you care about freedom of religion, uh freedom of speech, equal rights for women, then you would have to view Sharia law as a threat to our country or any country where uh it takes over.

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<v SPEAKER_03>And I mean, along with that, to view Sharia law as a threat.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That would be like if they're in positions of political power.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, you when you look at states around the country right now, they're whole communities that now um uh the whole city council, you know, it's made up of Muslims who w want to enact Sharia law.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And um it it is going to be a major issue, um, not only in our lifetime, but especially for our children.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and I hope that people will wake up.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um that that doesn't mean that you should uh uh in any way um um say all Muslims are are to be feared, they're not.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But Sharia law should be feared and uh and should be opposed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and I think you can just look at history and see where all those countries were either secular or Christian countries, and by force they took over.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And they did it the same way that you see it taking place in this country, and so it should be a wake-up call.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's a good answer.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Uh how should Christians think about the modern state of Israel?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, you know I love to go to Israel.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've been many times, and there's no place like it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's true.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So um uh the modern state of Israel is like any other country.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh its leaders, um uh they're they're human and they're flawed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, our leaders were human and flawed and are.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and so it it's true about Israel that they're not any different than any other country.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, just look at the um biblical context of Ahab and Jezebel, you know.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So even though they were God's people, they had evil l leaders at times to be in power.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So I think that you you have to view it uh just like you would view any other country.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um at the same time I say that, uh I I would say that it's the only democracy in the Middle East that um uh Muslims and Christians are protected.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, I've been there, so I I can tell you by first hand experience, they protect the holy sites of Christianity, of Islam, as well as uh uh Judaism.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so uh somehow they they understand that Jerusalem is a city that means a lot to a lot of different groups, and that and they protect it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Go to the Islamic countries and see what they have done to Christian sites, um, you know, or or just historical sites that they destroyed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um I so I I've just I do have a love and appreciation for uh the Jewish people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think there's connection with Christianity you can't get around.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um uh that yes, as Gentiles, we've been grafted in, you know, the Bible says um that we're children of Abraham uh by faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um and and so I I think that you know there's this connection, in fact, even in our country.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Our country was founded on Judeo-Christian principles.

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<v unknown>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and so the two worlds are connected.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So I'm grateful that our country has been a big supporter of Israel.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now, does that mean that everything our country does is right or everything their country does is right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>No.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so I I think that just like we have the freedom in this country to disagree with our political leaders when we think they're wrong, uh, you certainly have the right to do that with uh Israeli leaders.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um uh, you know, the prime minister, Netanyahu.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He, you know, some people love him, some people hate him, just like they do with our president or whoever's in office.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I would just say, um, you know, he's got a tough job.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh he is surrounded by enemies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's trying to protect his people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That doesn't mean everything they do is right.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But he has a very difficult job.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And their um their goals as a country may not be the same goals as the U.S.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and so our leaders have to do what's right for our country, just like their leaders need to do what's right for their country, but all should be protected in the process.

00:19:09.119 --> 00:19:19.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And um the thing I I would leave you with is um while Netanyahu is not sitting on David's throne, okay, he has no connection to David.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus is the rightful heir to David's throne.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um it is the land of the Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh you you just look at it and and see uh the prophecies uh in Zechariah 12 and 14 describe a future when all the nations of the world will come against Israel and in particular Jerusalem, and God will defend the city he loves.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You read about it in Revelation 29.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Jesus was born in Bethlehem, he was raised in Nazareth, uh, he preached and performed miracles in Galilee, he was crucified in Jerusalem, he rose from the dead, and the Bible says he's coming back.

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<v SPEAKER_01>His feet will touch the Mount of Olives.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so um, you know, I love that uh really the Christmas scripture uh that he will be great and that he will rule on his father David's throne.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so I really believe that Jesus will rule and reign in Jerusalem.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I I do believe that there's a time period that that will happen.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, and then ultimately a new Jerusalem and a new heaven and a new earth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so uh there's no way that uh you can look at that geographical biblical area and say it's not significant.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It is.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um that said, do you have to agree with everything their human government does now?

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<v SPEAKER_01>No.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, so we should support what is right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and and I would I would leave you with this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Just remember the same enemies that say death to Israel say death to America.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So uh militarily, there is a great alliance and partnership uh standing against uh our enemies around the world.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's good.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Uh, how can the church genuinely love people in the LGBTQ plus community while maintaining biblical convictions about sexuality, marriage, and God's design for the family?

00:21:14.559 --> 00:21:16.319
<v SPEAKER_01>If you got any easy questions.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Our people really wanted to challenge you today.

00:21:20.880 --> 00:21:23.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Um I thought you loved your pastor.

00:21:23.599 --> 00:21:37.359
<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, no, seriously, the the the the fact of the matter is that there's hardly a family that is not touched with or dealing with this issue, it if not immediate family with extended family.

00:21:37.519 --> 00:21:40.240
<v SPEAKER_01>And so I understand the question and and welcome it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, you know, I think that first of all, you gotta look at what the Bible says about sexuality, that it is a gift from God.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He made us male and female.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So there's what I I like to call the beauty of sexuality.

00:21:52.160 --> 00:21:54.640
<v SPEAKER_01>He made everything and he said it is good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And yet we look around and see everything's not good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so there's there's the brokenness of sexuality.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Even the competitiveness between husbands and wives, all of that goes back to Adam and Eve and the curse.

00:22:09.839 --> 00:22:12.720
<v SPEAKER_01>And so, you know, we we live in a broken world.

00:22:13.440 --> 00:22:19.119
<v SPEAKER_01>And just like Adam and Eve believed the lie, that if I eat of this fruit, it's really gonna make me happy.

00:22:19.599 --> 00:22:21.039
<v SPEAKER_01>People still believe the lie.

00:22:21.200 --> 00:22:29.599
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, if I live this lifestyle, if I if I if I lean into and give into my desires or my feelings, that it's gonna make me happy.

00:22:29.759 --> 00:22:30.880
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, and it's not.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's still the lie of the enemy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, you know, that's why Jesus came, and and that's the beauty of sexuality, that he came to redeem um uh what has been broken.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He came to restore.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh he's the second Adam, and he restores what the first Adam lost.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so I think that um uh it's nothing new.

00:22:52.160 --> 00:23:02.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, if you go back to Deuteronomy 22, 5, it tells us that there were in Moses' day men who wanted to dress like women and women who wanted to dress like men.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so uh you read it in the book of Daniel.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They took those Jewish boys and uh took them out of their homeland, took them uh to Babylon, and there they indoctrinated them.

00:23:16.480 --> 00:23:23.839
<v SPEAKER_01>They had to learn a new language, you know, they had to learn uh it's a new school, um, a whole new way of thinking.

00:23:23.920 --> 00:23:25.200
<v SPEAKER_01>It was a culture war.

00:23:25.359 --> 00:23:27.519
<v SPEAKER_01>They even changed their names.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And many of them uh were given um uh feminine names.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh it was uh is an attack on their identity.

00:23:36.000 --> 00:23:40.400
<v SPEAKER_01>And so ultimately that is the attack of the enemy today, is on our identity.

00:23:40.480 --> 00:23:44.720
<v SPEAKER_01>We're made in the image of God, and he knew us from our mother's womb.

00:23:44.960 --> 00:23:50.640
<v SPEAKER_01>And yet um, you know, uh the enemy says, hey, you're really not that person.

00:23:51.200 --> 00:24:08.079
<v SPEAKER_01>And uh and and the pressure that's on families today, um a lot of straight uh students are claiming to be um lesbian or gay or claiming to be bisexual because of the pressure that it's so accepted.

00:24:08.160 --> 00:24:09.279
<v SPEAKER_01>It's the end thing.

00:24:09.440 --> 00:24:09.839
<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

00:24:10.079 --> 00:24:17.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And um, I I just think that we were talking about the issue of Islam and in particular Sharia law being the issue of our day.

00:24:17.759 --> 00:24:32.480
<v SPEAKER_01>I think right there with it is um uh transgenderism and and uh biological males, you know, playing women's sports, um, you know, boys' and girls' locker rooms.

00:24:32.640 --> 00:24:35.759
<v SPEAKER_01>I think that's the real issue we're facing today.

00:24:35.920 --> 00:24:37.359
<v SPEAKER_01>And and it is spiritual warfare.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's an all-out attack on on uh the family and on God's design.

00:24:44.079 --> 00:24:48.160
<v SPEAKER_01>Um so there's a lot that I could say and need to say about it.

00:24:48.400 --> 00:24:54.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Um, you know, uh can do we have time for you know just a little humor?

00:24:54.240 --> 00:24:54.480
<v SPEAKER_03>Yes.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Okay.

00:24:55.359 --> 00:24:56.160
<v SPEAKER_03>We always have time for humor.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay, good, good.

00:24:57.519 --> 00:25:01.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Because you know your pastor, I'm gonna have a good time anywhere I am or what I'm doing.

00:25:01.279 --> 00:25:06.240
<v SPEAKER_01>But you know, we talked about transgenderism and we talked about uh Sharia law and and Islam.

00:25:06.400 --> 00:25:11.359
<v SPEAKER_01>And and so you see LGBTQ out there marching for Palestine, marching for Hamas.

00:25:11.759 --> 00:25:14.319
<v SPEAKER_01>That's like chickens marching for KFC.

00:25:14.480 --> 00:25:18.559
<v SPEAKER_01>It doesn't make sense because of the way those countries treat people.

00:25:18.960 --> 00:25:19.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Right, right.

00:25:20.079 --> 00:25:25.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And um, you know, so I it's serious, even though, you know, I'm I'm trying to lighten it up here.

00:25:25.759 --> 00:25:27.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Uh it is very serious.

00:25:27.119 --> 00:25:33.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Some people see it just as a social or political issue, but but LGBTQ has become the state religion.

00:25:33.759 --> 00:25:39.839
<v SPEAKER_01>And if you don't bow down to it, right, you know, you you you pay the price as far as the cancel culture.

00:25:39.920 --> 00:25:57.279
<v SPEAKER_01>And and so I I would just say, even in our state, and I hope our members are listening, in our state this November, even more important than midterm elections is the constitutional amendments that we're gonna be voting on, and very few people even know about it.

00:25:57.599 --> 00:25:59.359
<v SPEAKER_01>And we need to get the word out.

00:25:59.599 --> 00:26:06.319
<v SPEAKER_01>But they're trying to codify LGBTQ ideology in the state constitution.

00:26:06.480 --> 00:26:06.880
<v SPEAKER_03>Wow.

00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:13.039
<v SPEAKER_01>So uh the historical biblical definition of marriage is being replaced with these words.

00:26:13.119 --> 00:26:14.079
<v SPEAKER_01>I'll read it to you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Any two adults, regardless of sex, gender, or race.

00:26:20.240 --> 00:26:21.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Now think about that.

00:26:22.079 --> 00:26:29.519
<v SPEAKER_01>We're we're not talking about just male and male or female and female, because you can do that right now.

00:26:30.000 --> 00:26:34.960
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, no nobody's telling uh same-sex unions that they can't be married.

00:26:35.599 --> 00:26:38.799
<v SPEAKER_01>Um, but it says here, not just sex, but gender.

00:26:39.039 --> 00:26:41.440
<v SPEAKER_01>So that's where you get into the transgender issue.

00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:41.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

00:26:42.240 --> 00:26:45.039
<v SPEAKER_01>And then it's put on the same level as race.

00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:58.640
<v SPEAKER_01>So the same protections that are given um uh to race, now they're trying to apply to some male who wants to uh uh you know claim he's transgender and wants to be treated like a female.

00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:05.039
<v SPEAKER_01>And so I I I don't see it as a Republican issue or Democrat issue or an independent issue.

00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:08.000
<v SPEAKER_01>For Christians, it's a moral biblical issue.

00:27:08.079 --> 00:27:21.759
<v SPEAKER_01>And I would hope and pray, here's what I'm praying, that Republicans, Democrats, and independents in our state will come together and take a stand and vote no.

00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:28.720
<v SPEAKER_01>Because once this goes into the Constitution, it is hard to change.

00:27:29.359 --> 00:27:35.759
<v SPEAKER_01>And it's really going to be left for our children and our children's children to deal with.

00:27:36.160 --> 00:27:43.039
<v SPEAKER_01>And so um uh the other one is abortion, it's it's unrestricted, it's just like Massachusetts the other day.

00:27:43.119 --> 00:27:43.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Yes.

00:27:43.680 --> 00:27:47.279
<v SPEAKER_01>Um, even what our governor said a few years ago, and I've got his picture in my office.

00:27:47.440 --> 00:28:03.119
<v SPEAKER_01>I prayed for him when he was governor, uh, he's been here in our church, and so it's not a personal thing, but I mean he said that a woman could give birth to a baby, and then the doctor and the mother could decide whether or not that child lives.

00:28:03.440 --> 00:28:06.720
<v SPEAKER_01>And so that's the kind of unrestricted abortion we're talking about.

00:28:06.799 --> 00:28:23.920
<v SPEAKER_01>And I would hope that Christians across political lines, regardless of political affiliation, would come together and and and and take at least a balanced, rational approach and say uh uh we we don't want that in our state.

00:28:25.039 --> 00:28:26.640
<v SPEAKER_03>Pastor Grant for president.

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<v SPEAKER_01>No.

00:28:28.640 --> 00:28:30.160
<v SPEAKER_01>No, that would be a step down.

00:28:30.960 --> 00:28:32.799
<v SPEAKER_03>But that is a very good point.

00:28:33.119 --> 00:28:36.559
<v SPEAKER_01>All jokes aside, you know, I was a political science major when I started college.

00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:38.160
<v SPEAKER_03>You've told us that before.

00:28:38.480 --> 00:28:41.759
<v SPEAKER_01>I was running from God, and God saved me from myself.

00:28:42.240 --> 00:28:45.440
<v SPEAKER_01>And um, I went back to my original calling.

00:28:45.519 --> 00:28:48.240
<v SPEAKER_01>I knew God called me to preach on the call of God's without repentance.

00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:51.680
<v SPEAKER_01>And so I'm glad that he would not let me do that.

00:28:51.920 --> 00:29:01.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Um and and so, you know, I do believe that God calls people uh to be pastors, to be business leaders.

00:29:01.279 --> 00:29:05.920
<v SPEAKER_01>I believe that he calls people to be politicians and to be government uh civic leaders.

00:29:06.000 --> 00:29:06.160
<v SPEAKER_01>Yes.

00:29:06.480 --> 00:29:13.359
<v SPEAKER_01>And we need good people to run for office, and so um we need to pray for them, whether you voted for them or not.

00:29:13.519 --> 00:29:17.119
<v SPEAKER_01>You pray for them according to Romans 13.

00:29:17.519 --> 00:29:23.519
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, uh government is there to promote good and restrain evil.

00:29:23.839 --> 00:29:27.200
<v SPEAKER_01>And that's what we want to do by voting no in November.

00:29:27.599 --> 00:29:29.279
<v SPEAKER_03>Thank you for that reminder, for that word.

00:29:29.440 --> 00:29:33.599
<v SPEAKER_03>And we're glad that God sent you the Liberty Life Church and you're our pastor.

00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:34.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you.

00:29:34.480 --> 00:29:36.000
<v SPEAKER_03>Um, final question.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Well, actually, I have one bonus question, but final question from our folks besides the Bible, what Christian books and authors would you recommend?

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<v SPEAKER_03>We kind of you shared some when we talked about marriage, but are there any other books or authors that stick out in your mind that have maybe been transformative in your life that you'd recommend other believers read?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um yeah, too many, too many to mention right here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, I think that you know, there have been a lot of books that have uh meant a lot to us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The classics, the devotionals, uh Springs in the Valley, Streams in the Desert, they meant a lot to us over the years.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We don't read them now all the time, but uh there was a a season when God really used those devotional books.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, you know, I talked about marriage up close and personal.

00:30:20.559 --> 00:30:24.880
<v SPEAKER_01>We did parenting up close and personal, and again, we read a lot of books about parenting.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And um, you know, I I think um we raised our kids.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um yeah, I think it was called Dare to Discipline, you know.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Yeah, I've heard of that one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yeah, and um, you know, parenting uh is not for cowards, and you know, it was James Dobson and it meant a lot to us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh that gave us a lot of practical uh helps.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But I think maybe one of the best ones I ever read was called uh Successful Christian Parenting, uh that really talked about um ultimately it's not about behavior modification, it's about the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So if you're not careful, you're just raising little hypocrites and Pharisees.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That ultimately God's got to do something in their heart.

00:31:03.599 --> 00:31:05.039
<v SPEAKER_01>It's internal, not external.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So there's so you know, I would say those books, you know, um, were good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm trying to think of another one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um oh my goodness, where is it?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, because I I wanted to give you, yes, making children mine without losing yours.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That was a good book.

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<v SPEAKER_03>I need to read that one.

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<v SPEAKER_03>100%.

00:31:27.039 --> 00:31:28.880
<v SPEAKER_03>I'm buying that off Amazon today.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let me give you another one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Leave the light on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Leave the light on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It was such a good book.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And um, and I would go back to the question that you just asked about how do you deal with a child or a family member who's come out saying, you know, I'm I'm living this kind of lifestyle, and it's against everything that you believe in in your Christian faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think that's good a good word of advice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Leave the light on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You want to maintain a relationship with them.

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<v SPEAKER_02>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I had a dad tell me the other day that um, you know, that they they his son was living that kind of lifestyle.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And yet uh they just really struggled to, you know, to be able to just talk or to get together.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And they they went to a ball game and they had the best time, and it was just like old times again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And they just got away.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I I would encourage you to do that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I I know um sometimes that parents say, Well, I've got younger children at home, or I've got to draw the line or have some boundaries.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I get all that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But but I think the ultimate example for a Christian parent is uh the story of the prodigal son.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In fact, uh I want to give you this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There are five steps in that story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>While the son was still a long way off, his father saw him, was filled with compassion.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He ran, he threw his arms around his neck and he kissed him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Five steps.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He sees his child, he's filled with compassion.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's not judgmental.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He runs toward the child, he takes the first step.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can accept somebody without affirming a particular lifestyle or choice that they've made.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, we always ought to show affection, even adult kids.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You know, they need a hug.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, you know, it says he kissed him, and then it says here, um, you know, that he he ran to him and he brought him in.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So it he was looking for him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He left the light on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I love that story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and and ultimately that's what we're praying for.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh Jesus is full of grace and truth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So whether you're talking about marriage or the hot topics, you know, with men and women, or or um uh sexuality, whatever it is, uh, we have to be full of grace and truth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Grace to forgive uh truth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>If you if you really love them, you won't lie to them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You'll speak truth to them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And and you gotta do that with the right tone.

00:33:53.839 --> 00:34:02.400
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, I think a lot of times that um we get really passionate about our beliefs, and in the process, we don't always communicate well.

00:34:02.799 --> 00:34:06.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Um so you know, connect through kindness.

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<v SPEAKER_02>That's good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The Bible says that the goodness of God leads us to repentance.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so, you know, Jesus said what to the woman caught in adultery.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You know, we we all know John 3.16, for God so loved the world, but do you know verse 17?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus came not to condemn the world, but through him that the world might be saved.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so I think that uh however we address these issues, it should not be in a condemning way, but rather in a way of grace and gospel and restoration.

00:34:42.800 --> 00:34:47.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And and that that hey, God's waiting for you to come back home.

00:34:47.679 --> 00:34:49.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Right and that's what you're praying for.

00:34:49.360 --> 00:34:51.280
<v SPEAKER_01>And that's what I love about 21 Days of Prayer.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We we pray for a lot of marriages to be healed.

00:34:55.199 --> 00:35:09.280
<v SPEAKER_01>And not always, you know, will every marriage be saved, but I can tell you of uh two where they sent me pictures of divorce papers burning in the fireplace and they reconciled.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, you know, I I I can tell you the story after story after story of young couples who could not conceive or have children who God did what doctors could not do.

00:35:21.039 --> 00:35:26.480
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, I I can tell you the stories about prodigal sons and daughters who have come back home.

00:35:27.440 --> 00:35:31.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And um as it says there, uh he came to his senses.

00:35:32.400 --> 00:35:34.480
<v SPEAKER_01>And so we see so many answer for it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So keep praying and keep loving them and keep the light on.

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<v SPEAKER_03>That's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_03>What a great way to finish up all these questions.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Thank you for taking the time to do it.

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<v SPEAKER_03>I feel like there's been this underlying theme of what the enemy meant for evil, God intended for good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That that some you know, some some guys are more gentle or feminine, but they're still a man.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Some girls, I mean, they're rough and tough and tomboys.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They're still a woman, still a girl.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So, you know, just try not to get into what the world says, but rather just get into what the word says.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Yes.

00:36:15.440 --> 00:36:16.800
<v SPEAKER_03>Thank you, Pastor Grant.

00:36:16.880 --> 00:36:18.559
<v SPEAKER_03>This has been so enlightening for me.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We pray that it's been enlightening for our folks, those of you that submitted the questions, maybe you just tuned in or stumbled upon this or a friend shared it with you.

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<v SPEAKER_03>And we just pray that it encouraged you as well.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Uh, before we wrap up today, just a couple business things we have to do.

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<v SPEAKER_03>First, we have to do our giveaway.

00:36:34.960 --> 00:36:39.039
<v SPEAKER_03>We promised a tropical smoothie gift card in our episode on fasting.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's good.

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<v SPEAKER_03>So I'm gonna congratulate Daniel M from YouTube.

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<v SPEAKER_03>He won the gift card.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We'll get that to you.

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<v SPEAKER_03>So thank you for tuning in, for listening or watching the podcast and for commenting.

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<v SPEAKER_03>And then uh before we wrap up today, would you mind reading our prayer promise, Ephesians 3, 20 through 21?

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<v SPEAKER_03>Do you have it from memory?

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<v SPEAKER_01>I can do it.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now unto him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly far more than we could ask or think, according to the power that works in us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Unto him, be glory in the church by Christ Jesus, throughout all ages, world without end.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And everybody said.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Thanks for tuning in to the It's Life Podcast, where conversations about faith meet real life.

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<v SPEAKER_03>Make sure you check back in next month as we continue part two with You Ask For It with Pastor Grant.

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<v SPEAKER_03>We'll see you next time.
