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Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends | Law 2 – 48 Laws of Power

Knowlo, The 5ft.philosopher

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We’re taught to trust our friends… to keep things close, to stay loyal, to ride or die.

But what happens when loyalty isn’t as solid as you think?

In this episode, we break down Law 2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends, Learn How to Use Enemies — a law that sounds cold at first, but starts making a lot more sense once you’ve been disappointed a few times.

We get into:


  • Why friends can become your biggest blind spot
  • How familiarity breeds jealousy, entitlement, and betrayal
  • Why enemies can sometimes be more reliable than friends
  • And how to move smart without becoming paranoid or fake


Because the truth is…

The people closest to you have the most access to hurt you.

And most of the time, they don’t even realize they’re doing it.


This is 5 Foot Philosophy.

Where we don’t just read the laws… we translate them into real life.


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48 Laws of Power Law 2. Never put too much trust into friends. Learn how to use enemies. 48 Laws of Power Law 2. Never put too much trust in friends. Learn how to use enemies. Simple translation. Your friends are more likely to betray you than your enemies. Friends get jealous. Friends are entitled and they get uncomfortable. Your enemies got something to prove, so they'll work harder for you. What this really means, people are entitled. Your friends expect things from you. Your enemies expect to be enemies. So anything that happens good is a win. So it's not don't have friends. It's don't mix friendship with power, money, and opportunities. He blew it. Michael III blew it. He became emperor of the Byzantine Empire and he needed someone that he could trust. He picked his homie Basilius. He didn't pick the qualified person, but he picked his friend Basilius. He gave him power, he gave him money, he gave him status. He gave him one of his wives. He built him. He gave him raise after raise and he gave and he gave and he gave to Basilius. And guess what happened? What actually happened is Basilius got used to power, drunk off power. He wanted more and more and more. And he turned on Michael and he had Michael murdered. That's what friends are for. Michael's head was placed on the stake by his best friend. So the lesson is when you give friends power, they stop feeling grateful. They get ungrateful because they feel like they deserve the things that you gave them. A masterclass. Emperor Sung put on a masterclass. He surrounded himself with dangerous friends. He surrounded himself with generals. Instead of trust, he gave them the bag. He gave them wealth. He gave them land. That's how he treated his friends. You know how he treated his enemies? You know how he treated his ops? He spared their lives and he showed them mercy, and that turned them into loyal supporters. The result? No betrayal. He had a long, stable reign of power, and his enemies became more loyal than a friend ever could. He put on a masterclass. He's some good game. Friends operate on emotion. Enemies operate on self-interest. And self-interest is predictable. Practical rules. Don't hire friends because you like them. Hire the most capable person for the job. Keep business and friendship separate. Because mixing them ruins both. Turn enemies into allies whenever possible because they'll work harder to prove loyalty. Don't overfavor people that are close to you. It creates entitlement, not gratitude. Beware of quiet jealousy from friends. Your friends are saw shakers and haters. Jealousy and resentment is always there. You just gotta wait for it to come out. The ugly truth is your friends clap for you, but on the low, on the under, on the tuck, they're wondering why your success is not theirs. Give a friend an opportunity and watch them. They're gonna start thinking, oh yeah, I earned this. They don't think, hey, homie, put me on, sis put me on, she hooked me up. Yo enemy is like, hey, give me a chance. I'll prove myself. I'm down bad. I'm trying to come up. But the dangerous part, this law can turn cold if you take it too far because you start seeing everyone as an asset or a threat. Also, some enemies will say enemies. You know that person where it's up in perpetuity, like it's never cool. So don't be naive. Not everyone can be flipped. Friendship is for friendship. Power is about position. If you confuse the two, you will lose both. The people that are closest to you are often the ones that are most capable of hurting you. Your friends will celebrate you until you have something that they want, but your enemies won't pretend. And sometimes that makes them a lot easier to trust.