Married but still looking

I will be telling stories from my friends who were approached or dated married men and also answering some of the SDK fam questions.

If you want to be a guest on the show, want me to tell your story, have questions or comments please email me at Shedidntknowpodcast@gmail.com

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

She didn't know, but she's rising strong. Because the life wasn't yours, you belong. She didn't know. She didn't know.

SPEAKER_03 0:19

Welcome back to SDK Wednesdays with your girl Ash. Happy April Fool's Day. I cannot believe it's April already. I hope your day is going well. And thanks for tuning in today. I will be talking about married men still out here in the streets. Actually, I have a few stories from people I know. And every time I hear them, I just shake my head every single time. So let's do story time with the sisters.

SPEAKER_02 0:46

Yeah. It's Ash on the track. SDK sisters. Yeah, we back. Pull up a seat. It's story time now. Real talk, real laughs. Let me show you how SDK sisters story time with ash. Little life lessons in the flash. From the cold to the chaos, we clash. SDK sister story time with Ash.

SPEAKER_03 1:07

Ash and this is just a random thought. I was watching a YouTube video, and a woman said she was knowingly dating a married man, and she likes it because he gives her money and she sets the times that she gets to see him. I just will never understand why some women thrive off dating men that are not single. She did say she ended up breaking it off after five years because he wanted to leave his wife to be with her and she was not about to date a cheater. When I tell you, I was confused and laughed at the same time. But anyway, let's get to some of these stories. One of my friends, she had so many of these not single men trying to talk to her. So at her last job, there was this guy who delivered packages almost every week. He would compliment her every time he saw her. He asked if she wanted to hang out with him sometimes on the weekends, maybe hit up a casino or something. And after a few months of the repeated flirting and his consistent behavior, my friend started to think about maybe hanging out with him one day. So he had given her his TikTok page, but she never bothered to look at it. So before she uh would agree to hang out with him, she decided to check out his TikTok page and her mouth dropped. He had just gone on his honeymoon a few months before. So he was freshly married and asking him her to hang out with him, which is crazy. Um, another one that Dang social media, he was in her DMs heavy and he seemed pretty cool. So they ended up exchanging numbers. He had even asked for her to come visit him because they lived in different states. He ended up getting tagged in the picture by his pregnant girlfriend. Almost do pregnant girlfriend. And this is why a lot of people are choosing to stay single. I have another friend with quite the story. So her and the guy met at work. She was very hesitant because she said she would never date anybody she works with, but decided to make this one exception. One of their coworkers actually said, Girl, ain't he married? Because I think his wife used to work here. So she immediately went to him and said, Are you married? And he said, Absolutely not. They started spending time together and eventually started a relationship. Her kids were older and so were his. So they spent pretty much their time together. They would pop out at family functions together, and his kids lived out of state with their mother, so they would make trips to visit them as well. One day, when his kids came to visit, one of his daughters pulled her aside and told and told my friend that her mom and dad are still married. My friend instantly confronted her boyfriend about being married, and he said that he did not want to lose her, so he kept it to himself. But they had been dating for years at this point. So my friend asked why he was not getting a divorce and what if they wanted to get married one day. His response was, mind your business. She minded her business right out of his life. I know she has ran into him a few times since this happened. And he always asks, can they try and work things out? And she just laughs at him. I have been asked to be on a few different podcasts, which is pretty cool. I haven't did any yet, but when I do, I will definitely let y'all know. Uh let's try and get a couple questions in. Okay, one of the first questions. I just cannot believe what a scumbag he was. Letting his wife drive your car was a whole different level of disrespect. I agree with you. What did you say to the wife when she told you that? I was kind of shocked, I guess, but I really couldn't be mad at her because she didn't know what was going on. So I kind of just more asked him about it and he just denied it, even though he knew the truth. I guess how can you deny something and all the stuff is out now? Yeah. Let's go. Does your daughter know anything about her dad? So my daughter has a phone, and I left maybe about three or four pictures of him in her phone. So when she gets older, maybe she'll want to, you know, do something with it. But besides that, all she knows is they have the same first and last name, and she just says, Oh, mom, that's crazy. But, you know, she doesn't really understand the whole situation. So she doesn't really know anything about her dad besides the pictures that she has. Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship? And if not, is that something you would try? I did a long distance relationship one time, and it's not for me. Um, you know, some people can make it work, but I would prefer my partner to be where I am. So more power to you for the long-distance relationship, people. What is your biggest fear in a future relationship? At this point, I can't even see myself in a relationship. Um, but my biggest fear would be finding out that my partner is lying even about the smallest things. Because if you lie about something small, you'll definitely lie about something big. So that's one of my biggest fears. Let's see what else we got. Alright, so I have been asked to go a bit deeper into my abuses relationship I had in Houston. So I will be talking more about that in future episodes. But the next couple episodes, I'll say, we'll be having ladies on the show so they can tell their truth. And so, SDK fam, thank you for rocking with me, and I will see you next Wednesday.

SPEAKER_01 8:24

Yo. It's Ash on the mic, we out, that's the end. If you felt this one, hit share, tell a friend. Thanks for riding with me. Every take, every gen. See you next Wednesday, SDK fam. See you next Wednesday, lock in again. Ash on your air, we're talking on my friends. Thank you for listening. See you next Wednesday, SDK fam.