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Situationship Mistakes: Don’t Be Loyal in the Talking Stage ft Olumide Oworu & Maleek

Kanyinsola Olukoya Season 1 Episode 3

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Many people enter the talking stage without defining what it actually means. And before they realize it, they’re emotionally invested in a connection that was never clearly established.

In this episode of The Spills & Thrills Show, Kanyinsola Olukoya sits down with Olumide Oworu and TheOnlyMaleek to discuss one of the biggest mistakes people make in modern dating: being loyal in a situationship that was never defined.

Why do so many relationships today start with confusion?

Why do situationships feel like real relationships — but without the commitment?

And how do you know when you’re investing too much emotionally in someone who hasn’t clearly defined where you stand?

In this conversation, we break down:

• The biggest mistakes people make during the talking stage
• Why situationships often feel like real relationships
• How emotional investment can happen before clarity
• What you should look out for before committing your time and feelings

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

“Are we actually dating or just talking?”
“Am I getting attached too quickly?”
“Why does this feel like a relationship even though we never defined it?”

Then this episode is definitely for you.

This episode is proudly sponsored by PowerOil — because emotional stress is real, and taking care of your heart matters in every way.

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