Episode 3 - A J Massage

Join me and AJ as we discuss how his massages have taken him on his own kink journey

Transcript

SPEAKER_03 0:05

In this episode, I sit down with the lovely and charming AJ Massage. Now it's not just a masseuse, and you'll know from social media that he does a lot more than that. So we're going to sit down and talk dirty with the lovely AJ and see where this takes us on our king journey. Welcome back to King Perks Podcast. I am joined by the lovely AJ Massage.

SPEAKER_04 0:26

How are you? What's bad? How are you? Very good, thank you. Good bit stressful. London's stressing me out a little bit being a country boy. London is a stressful place to live. But once you get used to it, it's alright. I'm going to get used to it. I'm going to pop down a little bit more. Thank you so much for joining my new podcast. Obviously, my podcast is about kink. But also I want to talk to lots of influencers, uh, people in the content world, and see how you get into this journey. Um, so obviously I've been following you for a little bit now, and I know like by day you're an amazing masseuse. Um and I'm not just complimentary, I've read your reviews, uh, you're an amazing masseuse. But outside of that, what else? Do you have any kinks yourself?

SPEAKER_02 1:06

Um, yeah, I definitely say I've got a few kinks for sure. Um actually, yeah, quite a few. Um, to be honest, the only things I'm not massively into as such is um scaffold needles personally. But anything else I'm pretty much open to like um for me, a lot of it comes down to energy and the connection. Yeah, whether that's a kink or not, I'm not entirely sure, but I definitely say that's like the most important thing. Yeah. Um I love pits. I tell a lot of my clients not to wear deodorant because I just enjoy worshipping them. Love feet. Yeah, I don't know if people have seen a lot, but I do like putting feet in my mouth and fucking guys at the same time. That's really quite hot. Um, but also like water sports, um, role-playing, um fetish wear sort of thing. Start again to a bit more like leather sort of stuff, which I think is quite hot.

SPEAKER_04 1:55

Um I can see you're as a leather daddy, actually. Yeah, yeah, I can see that. Is that not done yet?

SPEAKER_02 2:01

No, um, kind of. I did do a shoot thing a couple of weeks ago and we had to wear leather, but I just wore like a leather jock strap and a wrist wrap thing. Um wasn't full leather gear, but maybe one day.

SPEAKER_04 2:13

Yeah, you're gonna have to try it. Yeah, not not not too far away.

SPEAKER_02 2:17

I'm doing a lot more shoots now that it's a little a bit more themed. Like beforehand, I mean, with massage stuff, people aren't really wearing clothes, so it's quite easy just them to be naked. But um, I'm doing a lot more shoots where it's a bit more like sport themed or a bit more chubby, yeah, which I think's quite hot. Yeah. Um, so I'm doing a bit more like that, which I'm looking forward to. But no, yeah, I'm quite an open book best way to be.

SPEAKER_04 2:42

I think it's the easiest way to be. And I think with you like meeting your clients, as I mean, I don't know how you meet your clients, but you're like with that world of the content creating, having them clients to be able to use and then finding your own way through their kinks, is if you're an open book, then you're trying everything else.

SPEAKER_02 2:58

Exactly. Um, and I mean sometimes obviously sometimes early filming is not massage-related at all. Um, so that involves a lot more kink play, which I think is a lot more free. But um, I mean, there's a few things even with massage stuff that I wouldn't mind trying out. Yeah, you know, I want to put like a vibrator in person's hole and then getting people to control the vibrator. You do realize that everybody's gonna be signing up for this, yeah. I know, yeah. But I think it'll be really hot. Like they get to like connect via the Bluetooth and control the vibrator as I massage the client. I think that would be quite hot.

SPEAKER_04 3:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:31

So, like, there's definitely new things to try, so yeah, I'm excited.

SPEAKER_04 3:35

And how did you obviously you must see during the day, and that's your job, that's what who you are, and that's non-sexual. How did it come about? That was it just a natural progression into the um link side of it or the the the porn side of it kind of no, not it was actually my sister that told me to do it.

SPEAKER_02 3:53

Yeah, family badly. Honestly, she was like, You need to do only fans, and I was in a relationship for time, I was like, coming, it took a lot of like thinking about. Um, I did research into if only fans is better or just for fans and stuff like that. So I waited till I got to 10k on X first. Yeah, so then I had a kind of had like a little bottling. Yeah, and then I did like loads of filming, and then I start and then I I like opened up launched like the OnlyFans page, but it was just massaging, yeah. There wasn't anything sexual at all, it was just the guys would finish themselves off, um, which is quite hot, you know, it's the whole teasing and energy thing, which I find quite hot. Um, and then from there it progressed to just happy endings, and then from there it progressed to um sucking and playing, and then um Aiden Ward was my first full-on fuck, yeah, like filming. Um, and it was really hot. Uh and I kind of part of me is like, you know what, kind of fuck it, you know, let's just go full shebang. But I'm glad that I didn't do that straight away. Yeah, I'm glad that I kind of went through different stages. I think if I just did the full-on fucking, um, well, it's like you've just gone straight into deep end, I think. There's nowhere for the go with it, really. Um, and the massage for me is really important. I actually really enjoy the massage. But that's your skill as well, isn't it? Yeah. And I don't know if I should say, I do get a bit frustrated sometimes seeing sometimes massage content online, and it's it's not massage, yeah. It's just a rubbing oils. So a lot of the time, you know, I do try my best to at least massage the back side. Back side, the back half of the um of the client. Yeah. And then at the end I do that, the whole breathing face massage and all like that sort of stuff. But yeah, it kind of literally is like it was like stages when I started doing stuff. Um, and now it's just anything really. And has it been a good journey to get on? Yeah, it's been an interesting journey. I never thought people would asubscribe to my OnlyFans for one, or even follow me on X personally. Um, believe it or not, like my confidence in my looks is really like low. And that's mostly because I came from like a theatre background where you get judged a lot by size and stuff, and get told to lose weight and things. And so I know like I know I'm I'm not stupid, I know I like look okay. Um, but I do I did find that a bit like, oh god, I find it weird that people are subscribing.

SPEAKER_04 6:18

So that's nice that makes you normal instead of just being the person that people sometimes perceive on Instagram, just like this god that everybody does. I mean, if you're full of yourself, it's not a good look for anybody.

SPEAKER_02 6:30

Well, I don't really like arrogance personally, it's like a massive turn-off. So um confidence and arrogance is a fine line. Yeah but yeah, it's it's an it was an in it's been an interesting journey. I definitely don't regret anything. My family's been really supportive. Yeah. Oh, I just probably should say I do have an identical twin brother who has been noticed a few times as me, which has caused a few issues. I'm sure you're gonna get reply for that as well. So if you live up north, let's not be. Okay, uh just very quickly. Is he straight or gay? No, he's gay. He's gay as well. He's gay as well. There's there's gonna be people asking. Oh no, trust me, that's why I keep it normally keep it quiet. Uh but you're saying you just tell people that you've got a twin brother, and I'm like, okay, I can, but they don't know if you're me or the twin either way, anyways. You're identical. Yeah, I mean, I don't think we look identical, but we are. You probably are. Yeah, there's five minutes between us, yeah. Yeah, so you will be like that. Yeah, and that's not coming into the filming content. Yeah, not doing any of that. That's a massive no-no.

SPEAKER_04 7:26

But yeah, who so you've worked with some like really big names.

SPEAKER_01 7:29

Uh who is probably most memorable, maybe for last year. Oh, that's really tricky. I'll say quite a lot, but that sounds quite big-headed.

SPEAKER_02 7:42

Um my favourite technically was Marco Natalie. Yeah. Um, but I just think he's a lovely person in general, anyway. Big, just cuddly teddy bear that's just like gives you lots of confidence boosts sometimes. I think that's quite adorable of him. Um, Eddie FTM as well. Um lovely, lovely guy, really hairy, which I absolutely love as well. So hot, beautiful man. Um, and some of these people came up to me when I kind of only had like 10 or 15k followers. Which is nice because that makes them yeah, it's about the work rather than the number. Yeah, exactly. Um, so I yeah, I got a lot of respect, especially for Eddie. Like, he really like you know, I was literally no one, and they're like, Do you want to do one? I'm like, Yeah, okay, that sounds cool. Um, but yeah, definitely those two. Scott Traddy, um uh we we filmed a couple of days ago, and that was intense. That was very hot. That was one to look at. Yeah, that was like yeah, yeah, that was a lot of energy in that one.

SPEAKER_01 8:45

Is there anybody that you haven't worked with yet that you're uh really looking forward to working with? Interesting question again. I don't actually know, I know that's a weird thing to say.

SPEAKER_02 8:58

I mean, I I'll just happily work with anybody because to me I think I mean there's loads of big people, you know, you know, Gabe Cross and that that I would love to work with. Um I always get worried that when your numbers start creeping up, people who aren't as big are like, oh well you're never gonna work. Well, or think that you're out of there. Yeah, and to me, like it's not really about the following count or anything like that. That the only thing I kind of look at more so than anything is how regularly they're posting. Are they posting a good time? Oh, actually, sorry, I thought another one. Farm the sound was really hot as well.

SPEAKER_04 9:31

Yeah, I've seen that one outside, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 9:33

Pretty fit.

SPEAKER_04 9:33

He's going quite big at the moment, isn't he? Yeah, like honestly. He I've seen on his on one of his posts that he'd said that he invited you or wanted to invite you back to do the milking machine.

SPEAKER_02 9:46

Yeah, I think it's that on one of his posts. Someone said about oh, did you do it last time? And I was like, I know. I he did ask, and I was like, Well, I think you want to go back. Yeah, what's the point of doing it all now? It's quite far away, no? Yeah, it's quite far away. But it's a little mini holiday. Oh, it literally reminds me of home. Yeah. I grew up like grew up in countryside, so like the smell of cowpath, I was like, oh we have something in common. Literally, like such a good smell, might as well bring it back home. Um, but yeah, sorry, I can just remember that. Um, but yeah, it's to me it's about how regular posts, um, and if they've got a good vibe and energy, like you know.

SPEAKER_04 10:19

That's more important. Like you can you can all look really, really good, but you've got to have the chemistry, and you and you've got to have the personality to go with the chemistry completely instead of arrogance, like you definitely I think also as well, like it's it's a it's a call, it's a collaboration for a reason, right?

SPEAKER_02 10:34

So it's it's um sort of about you both working together to to make the the content. Yeah, um, so as long as it's kind of a fair way streak like that, then yeah, I'm down to putting anybody.

SPEAKER_04 10:46

And is do you find is it hard or do you find it an easy thing to do? Like do you does it ever get to you sometimes and yeah, is it quite intense sometimes?

SPEAKER_02 10:58

Yeah, it can be. I think it's a job, right? Yeah, I think you people forget sex is pleasurable anyway, and I think that's important, but when you're doing it as a job, um, it becomes a lot more okay, so I have to have to perform now, sort of thing, and sometimes it always work in your favour, and it can be quite hard, it's unpredictable, um, but at the same time, it makes it interesting in that way, I think, a little bit because it's unpredictable. Um I did get asked the other day by a friend, which did make me think um how much of you right now is AJ, and how much is it the other person when you're doing stuff with guys when you're not filming? I was like, I never thought of it before. And then we thought about if I'm changing so much between the two that when I'm on camera, I'm doing stuff that I wouldn't do if I'm not on camera. There are a few certain things that I wouldn't do.

SPEAKER_04 11:55

Yeah, but you must you must at some point go, Well, to I'm switching off. This is me just being me, and I'm just gonna sit down and watch Coronation Street, and it's nothing to do with anything, and that's just you only a quiet time. I'm not saying you want to show you street, but like you want to be full of or whatever, but that you're switching off completely and you don't am C DMs, or is it always kind of like in the back of your going?

SPEAKER_02 12:16

I was at my sister's house over Christmas, and she was like, Your phone's non-stop buzzing, and I'm not even exaggerating, like it is it must be quite intense all the time. It's not just what people don't realize, you know, if you message me on X, it's not just X that I'm getting messages from, it's also TikTok, um, Instagram, my personal Instagram, and then messages, WhatsApp, text messages, and then it's like it's just constantly all the time. So sometimes it is quite difficult to kind of cut that off and be like, you know what, I'm not gonna reply. Because then I go back the next day and I've got a handful of messages on Instagram and WhatsApp and X to kind of go through and it's a full-time job, yeah. It's a full-time job, honestly. People don't people see the glam, not really glamour, I say people see the sexual side of it and think, oh, it looks really fun and easy, but yeah, so much more work, man. Like so much more off camera that people don't realise.

SPEAKER_04 13:09

And it must be like you must need like that moment where you go, I'm done. Like, I just need two days of just being me, and today is the day. I don't care, I'm not gonna answer. And I think you need to keep that for your sanity, and that's important, isn't it? No matter how big or crazy things get, you've got to always remember like 100%.

SPEAKER_02 13:27

Yeah, I always have two days off a week, the same two days off. Yeah, and I try my best not to do, I might do a filming if I'm honest, but other than that, I just don't yeah, I don't really look at my phone. Yeah, it's it's you because when you social media is like the platforms that you're using all the time, it's very easy to be constantly just on your phone. I remember when I first started doing massaging, I would reply back to messages at like half one in the morning, yeah. Talking about would you massage me tomorrow? I'm like, why can't this wait till the next day? Like, why do you have to message it now? Yeah, and then expect to reply now. Yeah, like it's um yeah, you've got to have a cutoff point. Yeah, people have working hours in offices and stuff. So I'm like, yeah, why can't I? So um yeah, I'm getting a bit strict on that.

SPEAKER_04 14:12

Are you due to attend any events coming up at all?

SPEAKER_02 14:15

I'm planning to go to the Gravity Awards, yeah. Um, I'm not nominated or anything.

SPEAKER_04 14:19

I had a friend. Or they all think they're all in actually, aren't they?

SPEAKER_02 14:24

Yeah, that they're not but yeah, they're I think that they've just not long announced the like nominees and stuff. We've got a few friends being nominated, yeah, which is weird to think. Um but yeah, I'm I'm going. I'm going to that. And then um I'm planning to do a few more trips around Spain as well. Not really for what's for Primavera, yeah, mostly, but also um why not make it a two-week holiday? It's gonna be hot. Exactly right. So it might be like Stitches in Madrid as well. Yeah, do some filming bits out there at the same time. So got some things to look forward to, which is good. So 2026 is gonna be a good year for you. I mean, let's hope. Yeah, you know, if not, then what's the point? I think you just take, well, you've got to be positive.

SPEAKER_04 15:08

Right. Like we can all just sit and just wait for something to happen, but if you don't go and grab it, it's never gonna happen. Exactly. I think it's important to do that as well. Um, so yeah, I'm excited for it, you know. So I asked a few people I've online, I've just said, like, I'm meeting you today and some regular questions. And the most popular question that I won't well, we've already touched on it this morning was is everyone a happy ending? Yeah, I'm like, right. I'm not even gonna like mention the names of the people that did that because that's completely pointless.

SPEAKER_02 15:32

You've been asked the question, I'm happy to answer it. No, I know. Well, but but it's in it's interesting people ask that question because I think they just think massage and then happy ending, but to me it's not about that. No, it's about building sensation, waves, and stuff. So some guys it's just a massage. Yeah, um, some guys, you know, it is a happy ending. Um some guys it's more, some guys it's less. Um, I'm very I don't like to talk about people in the room. I I'm no, I'm I'm not a doctor, but uh I keep it's still like a private confidentiality thing, yeah, because I don't know what people's personal lives are, and I don't want to fuck up anything outside. Yeah, so I'm quite strict on that. So I never mention names or anything. But yeah, you know, some people get happy endings, some people don't. But I think if you just focus on the happy ending, don't come to me because I'm not that's not one about the massage part is important, you know. Even if you just want the backs half massaged, it's very hard to say about you actually making a comment. Yeah, really hard. Any talk about massage, it sounds so good. Um, but if you just want the backs half of you massaged and then the rest of it you want a bit more fun by all means. But the massage. Yeah, if you want to come round and just dissect my dick, then talk to my grinder.

SPEAKER_04 16:52

Yeah, yeah, exactly. Well, thank you so much for joining us. We will catch up properly again, and maybe we'll catch up after grab these, because I reckon by this time next year you'll probably be up for an award. Oh god, we'll see. Who knows? But thank you, and we will catch up definitely next in London. I've got a feeling you're gonna be in date with requests and people from this. I mean bringing my books open.

SPEAKER_02 17:14

Yeah. Thank you very much. Thank you.