9/Fire Element Sagittarius in Love

 We’ve finally reached the grand finale of the fire elements, and we’re going big! In this episode, we are diving deep into the zodiac's ultimate explorer: Sagittarius, and its majestic cosmic ruler, Jupiter. 

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Hi everyone, welcome to Seventh Health Astrology Podcast. I'm Heather, and I'm here to talk about the messy, beautiful, and sometimes exhausting world of relationships. Hi everyone, welcome back. Well, we finally got to the end of the fire elements, and why not end with the big daddy? Yep, Sagittarius and its ruler Jupiter. Mm-hmm. One thing I want to mention is that Jupiter has just left Cancer and has entered into Leo for the first time in 12 years. So listen to the Leo episode and apply the Jupiter ruled themes to your Leo house. The timing could not be any better. Okay, as you have guessed, the fire elements is our drive, passion, pursuits, will, and so on. But now we have the last fire sign of the zodiac. And well, we ought to go big, right? Sagittarius is a mutable sign, and mutable signs are learning signs. Gemini is about facts, curiosity, data collecting. Sagittarius is here to display all the details that Gemini gathered, and Virgo put it all into systems. Thank you, Virgos. Sagittarius, well, where do I begin? Again, I'm a little biased. I am a as my fiery granddaughter, maybe a Leo rising, but she is a Sag son, and my son is a Sag rising. I get along beautifully with Sagittarius women. I have my North Node and Neptune in Sagittarius. So a little biased. Jupiter, the son of Saturn, is known in mythology as the king of the gods. Jupiter is the ruler of Sagittarius and Pisces and is known to be majestic and noble. Since Jupiter is the king of the gods, Sagittarius or strong Jupiter placements can be very attractive and have the ability to attract others magnetically. They are driven by all the possibilities and opportunities the world has to offer. They are exciting, adventurous, and free. People with heavy Sag or Jupiter placements can struggle with FOMO so bad. They are always up for a party, and they can be the life of the party. They can be super flashy, loud, energetic. You know, the person in the room that everybody just turns to watch because they're so impressive. Sag is full of luck as well. Or Jupiter, I should say. But I find Sagittarius people who have strong Sagittarius people are really lucky. Sagittarius needs constant mental stimuli, exploration, and excitement. There are too many unknown places and people and different cultures out there to feed their insatiable curiosity. Speaking of insatiable, their sex drives has no ending. So be ready if you love a Sag. They also love a good role play. So if you're up for that, they will be too. Some key words for Sagittarius and Jupiter, they are optimistic, enthusiastic, oh so imaginative they are. They are philosophical, charismatic, generous, visionaries. They are intelligent, free spirited, independent, spontaneous, funny. Some of the shadows are reckless, preachy, domineering, judgmental, blunt, flaky, restless, dogmatic, reckless, arrogant, irresponsible, impulsive, overindulgence, temperamental, and they like to lecture. Sagittarius loves an ideal. They see what they want and they point their arrow to their target. They are optimistic in their pursuits and it's big. Nothing Jupiter does is small. Sagittarius people can be so generous, warm. They are the endless seeker of what ignited in them. They want to attain that goal. They do this to enlarge their horizons. Sagittarius's are so funny. They are they like philosophical discussions, learning about religion and other cultures. In all essence, they want to understand and explore what life has to offer. Often Sagittarius people are great preachers, as Sag is another religious sign, but they also can be cult leaders. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Negative side. Shadow side. Of course, there's always a shadow side of any planet and sign. For Jupiter and Sag, well, that wanderer and in mythology, Jupiter is a womanizer. Since Sag is all about exploration on the shadow, they can be followers and follow the people that are doing the exact thing they want to do. So they kind of shine off of other people. That's the shadow though. They could be lacking the confidence based on chart aspects and where other planets are placed, but these can be the groupies who follow the star instead of being the star. The other shadow is the know-it-all. They can be the one who knows everything, and because they like a good debate, they can argue and they won't change. They will not change their point. They're stuck. Okay? One thing I forgot to mention, and it's important keyword is beliefs. Sag's place in the chart is where our belief system lies. So changing a Sag's mind about something they believe in, nice try and have fun trying because it won't go anywhere. Remember, I said Sag is temperamental. Yeah? When Sag is pissed, everyone in the neighborhood will hear it. They yell, they throw objects that big displays of emotion. Oh yes, people with Sag are not emotional. Oh yes, people think Sagges are not emotional. You will be wrong. Well, let me take that back. More sensitive. They tend to struggle to see emotional reactions in others and can be tactless in their delivery. Some describe sagges as emotionless, and that's not true. The lack of tact and sometimes incapability to see the other viewpoints come off as insensitive. It's something they need to work on for sure. But in general, they feel they need to express their beliefs on you whether you want to hear it or not. Sag struggles with overindulgence. Sometimes too much of a good thing is not a good thing. Sag just struggles with limitations of reality. See, Sagittarius is all about freedom. Their love for travel and culture makes them wiser and they can be the first to tell you about it. Mm? Yep. Because remember, they can be no-it-alls. They can also be the swindler and the person that promises you this or that. My birth donor used to always promise he was going to leave me this or he was gonna leave me that. He told my kids, oh, I will leave you this and I will leave you that. It was all bullshit. He just promised people things so he would look like the best person in the world. That was really the only reason why. Not realizing when he didn't come through he looked like an ass. That's the hard shadow for Sag, as they like to promise you the world, but they can't give it to you. Sagittarius, you are on a quest for a journey of life. You are seeking wisdom, truth, your beliefs, and how you will experience the world. You are a glass half full, looking at the big picture of life. You are on a quest to strengthen your identity and ego through learning and experience through travel and education. You live in a world that is boundaryless. You have tons of optimism and enthusiasm. But it can be too much if you overindulge in things that are not good for you, like gambling, food, sex, too much is too much, and Jupiter can be sometimes too much. You know, it's funny. There's I when I first learned astrology, everything was Jupiter is this big, benefic planet, and it is, and it is about luck, and it is about good things. However, when I went to look back in my life of when I had strong Jupiter transits, for instance, when Jupiter transited through my seventh house, most people would see Jupiter transit through the seventh house and be like, oh, you might get married, or you might meet your lover, you might meet your perfect husband, or you might, you know, go on business with somebody or or whatever, right? No. My Jupiter going through my seventh house was a divorce. My next huge breakup was when Jupiter went through my tenth house. Here's what I'm trying to say is that Jupiter is big, okay? And so and it's boundaryless. So Jupiter is going to make whatever's happening in that house just bigger, regardless of what the energy is. So for instance, when it was my divorce, the energy was bad and it just made it bigger to the point where we got a divorce. But the fortune in the end was that I got the divorce and I got out of that bad marriage. That's where the the abundance and the the good luck comes out of it. I had to go through hell in order to get it, but that's what I had to do. I just want to really drive it home because that was a struggle for me when I first learned astrology. It was like, oh, I saw this Jupiter as this big beneficent planet, but then when I really looked at how it affected my life, it didn't go that way. Let me give you another example. Jupiter just went through my 10th house and I've been trying to find a new job for the life of me. And Jupiter just went in and went out, and it didn't provide me a better job. So what it did do is I I did start this podcast when Jupiter was in cancer. Maybe that might be it. I don't know. That's just my point, okay? So I don't want you to get this idea that every time you see Jupiter, oh my gosh, this means that I'm only gonna get great things. Whatever is happening in your life at that point in that house, if it is negative, it's gonna make it bigger. If it's positive, it's gonna make it bigger. Okay. Okay. Just wanted to make sure that got said because that was very confusing for me. I don't look at Jupiter as this big, huge, benefic planet like that anymore. I just look at it as whatever is happening in that house, it's gonna get bigger. Okay. Sagittarius moons. Your feelings and emotions are fueled by your optimism and quest for life. When Sag Moon is sad, hurt, they tend to deal with their emotions through avoidance, like traveling or parting, sexual encounters. You know, try not to escape the emotions, Sag. Instead, learn new belief systems about yourself and broaden your horizons. Sagittarius moons can struggle with commitment. Well, all three do because Sag equals freedom. For the moon, if the relationship gets boring, try not to run and instead sit with it and see if you can find a solution for you and your partner to spice it up a bit. Try not to lecture your partner. They want a lover, not a teacher. Well, maybe in that roleplay they might. Because they do like that roleplay. Yes, they do. All right, Sagittarius Risings. Oh, do I love a Sagittarius rising? I brought a Sag rising into the world, and he is the epitome of Sagittarius Rising. He has traveled the world, always trying to get us to eat different foods. He loves different cultures and he married into one. He is on a constant quest for knowledge. He seeks adventure like every day is a new experience. He is magnetic, charismatic, and he's lucky. People just love him and always have. Before astrology, I was like, how did I make such an amazing person? Sag's risings and all rising signs show so much in who you are. My rising is more me on an everyday basis than my son. The sun is what we are striving for. The rising, we already got there. We know this energy and it's our damn vibe. So Sagittarius risings are those people that sometimes you want to be. They are not shy, they are informative. Perfect example. My son one day decided he wanted to go to Japan. So he immediately got online and within a month, he and his wife and kids were flying to Japan. Oh, and my Sagittarius son granddaughter, she's also a travel traveler as well. She's 10 and has probably flown over 10 times, and she has already been to two countries. Sagittarius, I am telling you, we need these optimistic, adventurous types in our life, especially when life is rough. They're the ones who come and make us laugh. I have never met a Sag who hasn't made me laugh. Super, super funny. Sagittarius in love, well, sex will be adventure for sure. Sagittarius have no problem being in like polyamorous relationships. They're very Uranian like that. See, Jupiter is expansion and open to possibilities. When thinking of marriage, well, that is a little bit of a restriction, right? It's not that they they can't be with one person because they can. See, Sagittarius people can be faithful first, sure. I know several that have found their right partners and have been married for over decades. I mean decades. No, they're not all like this. They can. See, above all else, Sagittarius is looking for a friend to have an adventure and explore life with. Sagittarius needs an open-minded, ready to go, open to new possibilities, travel, culture, and they need to possess a need for knowledge. They need someone who will continue to light their fire. Remember, I said in Aries that the fire needs constant tending to or it will burn out? For Sagittarius, they need that partner who will constantly keep that fire attended. Remember, Sagittarius struggles with limitations of reality. It doesn't want to be tied down. Now, not saying that they need to have sex with every person they see. If they're single, go at it. They will be very satisfied. What I'm saying is they need a flexible partner. If you are a homebody or your libido is turned down or completely off or like super asexual, if you just want to work and no play, then don't be with the Sag or any other fire sign. Sag can be faithful and can have long-term marriages, but if you're constantly nagging at them, they will find an excuse to get away and the possibilities of infidelity can happen. Just being honest here. They can have a sharp tongue too, especially if you question their beliefs. They can outright be dirty with their mouth. Sag can be a little irresponsible and would benefit from earthy people who can help ground them and do everything for them. You just gotta watch out for that because they can get stuck in that. You know, it could be like a Sagittarius husband, found himself a good earthy woman, and man, this guy doesn't do any work around the house, or even vice versa. You know, a Sagittarius woman in here has an earthy husband and he's cooking and cleaning, doing everything, and she's just off having a good old time, you know? You gotta watch that. And if you are an earthy person who loves a fire sign, stop being their maid. Just kidding. I know for Virgos, it makes Virgos feel really good to do something for other people. I get that. Sag cannot stand boredom. They are people out for a quest, not sitting around and watching TV for a whole weekend. They like to party, they like get togethers, they like to socialize, they like to live and they like to have fun, they like to find new things, they like to explore, they like to eat. I mean, they they like to just have fun. Okay, Sagittarius is fun. Some turn-ons for Sagittarius, mental intellect, spontaneity, open-mindedness, flexibility, be active, world, have world views and beliefs, having a belief system in yourself, uh, flirtation, they love flirtation, new sexual positions, keep it fresh. They like adventurous sex too. So either having sex outside or the thrill of getting caught. Oh, that can turn them on, sexual openness and laughter. They love to laugh at you and themselves. Some turnoffs for Sagittarius is clinginess or smothering. No, no, no. You have to be independent for a Sagittarius. Okay, cannot not try to tie them down. Rigidity and sex and rigid thinking, that it's just not gonna work for them. You've got to be open-minded for a Sagittarius. No prudes. Nope, God no. Sag needs sex everywhere and all the time. Partners who are closed-minded, remember Sag, open possibilities, don't have a closed mind, needs to be open. More importantly, these last two, the constant nagging and mothering, do not do this. It will drive them away so fast. They're looking for a friend and a partner. They're not looking for a mother in to be nagged at, okay? The most important, don't cage them in literally and sexually, unless they want to be in the cage. They will break out and they probably won't come back unless they want you to put them in that cage. But it's only for that moment, okay? Don't, don't, don't cage them in literally. And uh, you know, cutting off communication, that is a big, big turn off for a Sagittarius. This is another no-no and will drive them away. Stonewalling should never happen, and it's not healthy in relationships anyway. If you are in a relationship and you stonewall, you won't for long because they will leave you. Okay? Stonewalling, by the way, is so unhealthy and is a serious red flag in relationships. They also do not like passive aggression. They are blunt, so you need to be as well. Do not try and possess them. Remember, Jupiter can't be caged. For all the fire signs, there is one main thing that you've probably noticed. They all need to be love. Think about it. Love ignites us, right? We've all been in love, and that feeling we get when that burning desire for one another, sex is hot, right? Who has had sex and didn't break a sweat said me never. Love is to be lived, not restricted, said all fire signs. Without fire, love can die. You know this if you've ever experienced a breakup. Fire and passion that once was there is no longer fire died. So we need to tap into that fire energy when we're thinking of love. Not water. Emotions is water. That's different than love. They are not the same, yet we combine them. Like I said before, if you do not have any fire in your chart, that's okay. You still possess that fire element. Look for wherever Jupiter is in your chart for more answers and how to use that fire energy. That sign that Jupiter in is going to give you guidance on how to use that Sagittarius energy. All right, we are done with the fire elements. So please like and subscribe as this helps the show grow. And that is it for Sagittarius Energy. I hope that helped you all. Next, we will be moving on to the Earth Elements. And if you have any combos you want to discuss, please email me in the show notes. And uh I will see you next time. Bye.