Universe Said So: You Were Never Meant To Give All of Yourself

🎙️Galactic Godcast – Universe Said So

You Were Never Meant to Give All of Yourself

After a powerful inner child meditation with Boo-boo, this episode explores the painful realization that many of us were taught to over-love, over-give, and over-function in order to feel safe in relationships.

Inspired by Chapters 12 and 13 of the Karandavyuha Sutra, we reflect on the difference between intense love and secure love, and the truth that divine love was never meant to require self-sacrifice or depletion.

Universe never said to lose yourself in order to be loved.

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Transcript

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Blessings, this is the Galactic Godcast, a sacred space to receive messages from the Over Soul, the quantum field, and the living light that we are made of. My name is Cass, the Cosmic Being, and this is your divine remembrance. This episode is a deep embodiment of love. This transmission is revealing of conditioning, and it's a moment I realized that I was never taught how to be loved. And many of us have been taught how to overlove because of this. Through, oh my goodness, a raw inner child dialogue with my inner child. When I was younger, I was nicknamed Boo-Boo. And I find it hilarious that that actually means and is a nickname for shaman, and that is the occupation I have. But this episode is exploring the question that Boo-Boo, my inner child, brought up. Are we loved? And why doesn't it feel like it? And the truth that followed, it doesn't feel the same as our love. Now, this was an internal dialogue. This isn't about a lack of love. People that were taught how to overlove, but were never taught how to be loved, was never about a lack of love. It was about and is about a nervous system that learned to equate love with giving everything. Now we're going to explore the difference between being loved and feeling securely held. Those are very different things that are spoken about and exchanged as if they are the same. We're going to explore how overgiving becomes a survival pattern, not a personality trait. And why love that is mutual can still feel not enough when you are accustomed to intensity. Exploring the moment where personally my inner child revealed the truth that my adult self has been managing. And really transmuting the belief that love must cost you all of yourself to be real. Now let's integrate our scripture. We're going to use the inspiration gathered from chapters twelve and three of the Karandavu Sutra because we're entering and exploring chapter twelve, emanation. Love does not come from depletion, it flows from a source that remains whole. And chapter 13, devotion and sustaining presence. You are not here to force love into existence. Ever. You are here to exist within a field that sustains you without self-sacrifice. Universe never said to give all of yourself. That was conditioned. That was learned. Universe never said to prove your love through exhaustion. That was practiced over and over and over again, whether it was when you were being raised, or if it is still being practiced with the humans around you. And universe most certainly never ever asked you to disappear in order to be chosen. And that is what we as a collective are unlearning. This episode is for you if you love deeply, but feel like it is rarely matched. If you notice yourself overfunctioning in relationships, being confused with intensity and security. And if you've made it this far, you're ready to feel loved without losing yourself in the process. You are not too much. You were just taught to give too much in order to feel enough. Universe said so. Love that requires your depletion was never divine design. Recently, I have been recognizing the mismatch of energy within relationships. I've recognized where I have learned to give all of myself to others and understanding why I could never get it back. Universe never required me to deplete to give all of myself to anyone other than me. Universe is the only frequency that could ever give you an exact match of love. Because that's where it flows from. It flows from source, because source remains whole. We see it in many stereotypical relationships. For example, mothers, motherhood. If you are not sacrificing yourself to your children, then you must not love them enough. And now you are teaching those children, they must give all of themselves in order to receive love that would always be there. We see it in friendships, the overgiving friend versus the gathering of energy friend. We see it in a lot of masculine, a lot of males, and their bonding with fathers and attempting to prove themselves to their father and give all of themselves to their father or other masculine peers, and they remain depleted and have nothing to offer to their family, to their home life. And it's just this vicious cycle of external validation, of overfunctioning in relationships, of confusing the intensity of giving yourself completely to someone else, and forgetting that source, that universe, has all of the love you could possibly desire. And it's found from within. And that's where when you feel yourself proving your love to someone else, I challenge you to stop. I challenge you to no longer practice offering your love and depleting yourself to exhaustion. I challenge you to learn how to take up space in relationships, in moments, in environments that have already chosen you. God source creator has already mapped out exactly where you fit and are loved. And all of our forcing, all of our prodding and releasing and letting go of who we actually are, is creating a distorted mess. And now it's time to gather those pieces again. In no way is this saying avoid those people or places or things. But stop practicing proving your love. Stop supporting giving all of yourself and wondering why you feel so empty when you left nothing for yourself in the first place. You exist within this field. You are a force of love and light. You are already whole. So trust that love comes from being your authentic self. Trust the moments that your inner child or the personality that was conditioned how to be loved, what love looks like, how to overlove, is allowed a conversation with you. Because you were never meant to give all of yourself. Thank you so much. And as a reminder, love that requires your depletion was never divine design. You are loved, appreciated. And as always, be the light, be the love, be the quantum field, and remember the universe is within you.