Do You Still Flirt With Your Partner??

Episode 5 of You + Me = US, hosts Sharon and Evan Curry dive into the importance of keeping the spark alive in a long-term relationship. The conversation begins with a simple but powerful question: Do you still flirt with your partner? Sharon and Evan talk about how flirting shouldn’t stop once you’re married and how small gestures, playful comments, and intentional attention can help keep the connection strong.
The discussion then shifts to compliments and appreciation in relationships. Who actually enjoys hearing compliments more—men or women? The couple shares their perspectives and experiences on how affirmation can impact confidence, emotional connection, and overall happiness in a marriage.
Later in the episode, Evan brings up another real-life relationship challenge: Are you able to agree to disagree with your partner? Sharon and Evan explore how couples handle differences of opinion, why every disagreement doesn’t have to end in a winner or loser, and how respect plays a big role in maintaining a healthy relationship.
To close out the episode, Sharon and Evan turn the conversation over to their listeners by asking them to choose the first question for the next episode, inviting the audience to become part of the discussion.
Episode 5 is another honest and relatable conversation from a couple with 15+ years of marriage experience, sharing real perspectives on love, communication, and keeping relationships strong.

Transcript

SPEAKER_03 0:23

Now we can welcome y'all back. This is the fifth week of You plus Me equals us. Let us know how you like that there. We've been working on that for a long time.

SPEAKER_01 0:32

No, we have not.

SPEAKER_03 0:33

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SPEAKER_01 1:38

I did. I seen there was like 35 people. Oh, it's not enough that are friends. I mean, you know, it's just growing.

SPEAKER_03 1:45

It's growing. Yeah, like fungus, you need to grow like wildfire. So the 35 people, thank you very much.

SPEAKER_01 1:52

Okay, you know.

SPEAKER_03 1:55

If you want to say that, that's I'm going to.

SPEAKER_01 1:57

I'm going to.

SPEAKER_03 1:58

That's however you want to say it.

SPEAKER_01 2:00

Well, let's start off how we always start off. How was your day?

SPEAKER_03 2:03

My day was pretty busy, but that's awesome because I have the opportunity and the blessings to have a busy day. So uh let me see, let's run it down again. Woke up early, started driving early, got done driving pretty early, then normal, had enough time to go to today was our uh basketball banquet, of course. You know that, but the world didn't know that. Yeah. So met up with the uh Beachwood basketball team and coaches, so had a couple wings, gave out a couple awards, gave out uh senior blankies and all that good stuff. Okay. Left there, went to the gym to train clients, and here I sit. That's my day in a nutshell. So let's open up your nutshell. How was your day?

SPEAKER_01 2:51

My day was great. I didn't do much. Once again, woke up by the grace of God and went to one of my favorite places and favorite things to do nowadays, which is Polatize. Yes. Uh, did that and then did a little work and came home and watched a little TV. So nice, relaxing day.

SPEAKER_03 3:09

So just for uh the other ladies out there, because I know they're probably doing the same thing. What are you watching?

SPEAKER_01 3:15

What am I watching now? Yeah. Um you know my usual. I like crime shows. But out of who knew but outside of that, nothing really. Nothing really, nothing. I am waiting for there's a show that um a uh series that's coming out on Monday, actually. Um that's coming on Fox and it's called The Faithful Women of the Bible. So I'm pretty sure regular Fox 8 or like FX. Regular Fox 8. So I'm actually pretty excited to uh see that. You know, that's one of my favorite things. Anything that deal with the Bible is is my fave. So I'm excited about that. That starts Monday. So three three-week uh event, I guess, leading up to Easter.

SPEAKER_03 3:53

What is it at night or what? Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 3:55

Yeah, I think it's yeah, evening.

SPEAKER_03 3:57

Like six, something like that.

SPEAKER_01 3:58

Uh no, I think it might be eight. Don't give me the line. I don't know, but I just I have it in my in my calendar. So I'm excited for that.

SPEAKER_03 4:05

Well, um, I didn't see the previews of that. When did they start advertising it? It's been a while. You know about this?

SPEAKER_01 4:10

No, I actually it was actually the other day when I was watching TV and it came across. Uh and then I actually went and looked at the trailer, and it's I can't wait. I literally can't wait. Who is it starring? You mean as far as like stars or just people in the Bible, women in the Bible?

SPEAKER_03 4:24

No, I'm saying like who is playing the part.

SPEAKER_01 4:26

Oh, I don't know, just regular actors.

SPEAKER_03 4:28

I don't know. I don't know. That's what I'm talking about. I mean, I know it's starring the people in the Bible. Yeah, no, no. I should have said who's playing the people in the Bible.

SPEAKER_01 4:35

I don't know. Just know who they're playing.

SPEAKER_03 4:37

Oh, yeah, well, Mary, of course. She had a little lamb, fleece was white as snow. Then you got uh who else?

SPEAKER_01 4:45

Oh what?

SPEAKER_03 4:48

The women in the Bible, I was asking.

SPEAKER_01 4:50

Oh, Ruth, Sarah, yeah, Hagar.

SPEAKER_03 4:53

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 4:54

But I mean it just talks, it's just different. You know how you know how it goes.

SPEAKER_03 4:57

Okay. Yeah. Yeah, I just didn't know how far they went. That's all I'm saying.

SPEAKER_01 5:00

I mean, I don't either because I ain't seen the show.

SPEAKER_03 5:02

You said you saw the trailer.

SPEAKER_01 5:03

I did.

SPEAKER_03 5:04

The trailer should have given you those options. All right. Come on now. All right. But I did want to do something a little different. You know, everybody has like uh favorite songs, and then this nostalgia that goes with the songs. And I'm not saying this is my favorite song, but it's a very popular song, and for some reason, every time it's like a uh couple's event or kind of like a romantic event, like a Valentine's Day dinner or a wedding reception, or just like a couple's night out at the bar.

SPEAKER_01 5:38

I'm just waiting for you to get to the song because you not the anticipation is like grown because you that's the point. You're giving me audience.

SPEAKER_03 5:45

I'm not about to say, I want to play a song. Here goes a song. Yeah, I'm not about to do that. You gotta build it. Oh, okay. If you build it, they will come. All right. But anyway, they played this at the concert too, before the concert started. And it always turns the place up and everybody jams to this song.

SPEAKER_01 5:59

Kevin, Tevin Campbell.

SPEAKER_03 6:00

Nope. People listen to it. If you know it, sing along. It's a classic song. Yeah. You gotta let it play for a while. This is great music.

SPEAKER_01 6:17

This is the music I still listen to. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_03 6:23

This reminds me of For Lovers Only.

SPEAKER_01 6:26

I was just about to say that, yes.

SPEAKER_03 6:27

93 FM W Z A K.

SPEAKER_01 6:29

Or the Quiet Storm.

SPEAKER_03 6:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 6:31

Yeah. Wow, Quiet Storm.

SPEAKER_03 6:32

Quiet Storm is a classic. Wow. We're just gonna vibe out for a little bit. Let the people get in so we can start this chat. We know the chat has been going crazy these last couple weeks. So we gotta get this chat going. Just giving little people a little bit more time to get on. We appreciate the people that's already watching, but we will end waiting for more people. So let it play. Yes. I don't want nobody to disturb my guru. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 7:07

This is some hand dance music too.

SPEAKER_03 7:09

Yes, it is. Just a little something. Just wanted to warm you all up. Okay. Can't play the whole thing. You know how that go. Copyright.

SPEAKER_01 7:22

You don't have the rights.

SPEAKER_03 7:23

Yeah, I don't own the rights to this music. I'll beat you to it. Is there a particular song that you like to hear? No.

SPEAKER_01 7:29

That you know, but you know, I mean, there's plenty of songs I would like to hear. But it's just so funny when you talk about nostalgic songs or just just nostalgic anything. Like it really can take you back to exactly I don't want to say exactly what you were doing, but you just have a memory. No, it does. Like what you were doing, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 7:47

And where you were at and how old you were, yeah, what your parents was doing when I was out. And some people can remember your parents cleaning the house to that.

SPEAKER_01 7:57

Saturday mornings, Sundays too. But also just like, I remember back in the day, like we'd be outside, and my mom used to have those big speakers, and she put it against the wind, like the screen door, yeah, and had the windows open, and we'd be outside jamming out.

SPEAKER_03 8:12

Jamming out.

SPEAKER_01 8:13

Jamming out. And back then I couldn't stand um that type of music. I didn't know why I was like, oh my god, it's old people music.

SPEAKER_03 8:19

Now we is the old peoples, including Ari.

SPEAKER_01 8:24

Right. What a fucking. Right, don't disturb this groove. A jam. You already know about it. Jam, yes.

SPEAKER_03 8:31

Appreciate you putting your three cents in, Ari, because you got more than two.

SPEAKER_01 8:34

Definitely a jam.

SPEAKER_03 8:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 8:36

Um, okay, phone ringing. Put it on silent, please.

SPEAKER_03 8:41

It is on silent. That was just my watch. Yeah. Technology.

SPEAKER_01 8:48

Um, but also too, like, just going back, like I said, just nostalgic things. There's certain things that like I could smell. And it reminds me of like my childhood. Like, I used I could not stand the potpourri in the bathroom. Like, my grandma was really big on keeping potpourri like in the bathroom.

SPEAKER_03 9:04

The bag or just like the stuff? Both. The bag always used to creep me out. You already know how I am. You know what I'm about to say. Smells do something to me, y'all. Like the smells that I don't like, usually it'll hurt somebody's stomach, or they'll be like, ugh, I don't want to smell that. Kind of makes your boy go to the bathroom. You know, the BGs, if you want to say it.

SPEAKER_01 9:28

I didn't know you were about to say that.

SPEAKER_03 9:30

I'm just we're being honest, ain't we? Oh boy. Yeah, so if whenever I smell something that, like how you explaining the potpourri made you feel, yeah, it uh, you know, makes your boy go to the bathroom. What store was that? Earthfare?

SPEAKER_01 9:45

Yeah, Earthfair and Solon.

SPEAKER_03 9:46

Earthfair and Solon. They used to have all types of like vitamins and earthly medicines. And it was like two particular aisles that I used to hate walking down, and I tried to avoid at all costs because hey, you just gotta boo-boo. You do. Can I believe you just said that? Hey, everybody on here watching and listening, boo-boo. I'm not ashamed of my boo-boo. Okay, grown man.

SPEAKER_01 10:12

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 10:13

What up, Gravy, cousin Gravy? Hey, cousin. Yeah, boy, what you doing watching this show? Did you ask your parents if you could watch this? I ain't see no permission slip from Mr. or Miss Grayson. Make sure you add that in the next uh Welcome in.

SPEAKER_01 10:28

Welcome in. Welcome in. For those that are just tuning in, we actually talking about um uh nostalgic songs.

SPEAKER_03 10:35

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 10:36

Um, I was just just talking about the potpourri. I think I don't know if that's something that was just did all do all cultures did they did everyone do that, or was it just that's a good question?

SPEAKER_03 10:48

I don't know. Um that's a great question.

SPEAKER_01 10:50

But yeah, I should my grandma used to keep it in the bowl too, like in the living room, and just that smell throughout the house. She'd be like, my goodness.

SPEAKER_03 10:56

On the living room on the coffee table? Yes, on yes, because y'all are some heavy coffee drinkers.

SPEAKER_01 11:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:00

Well, that Watson family.

SPEAKER_01 11:02

No, it wasn't the Watsons. It was the Watsons definitely have the coffee drinkers. That's what I'm talking about.

SPEAKER_03 11:08

Whoa, people, she forgot her maiden name.

SPEAKER_01 11:10

I did. Whoa. I did, I did.

SPEAKER_03 11:13

I do have one more song to play. This is like one of your favorite songs, too. And this is definitely a song when you was younger, people in our era, 44, 45, you know, and to 35, you'll be at them parties, dance with the girl, try and grab their butts. Okay. That's right.

SPEAKER_01 11:33

You just you're doing too much tonight.

SPEAKER_03 11:35

You gotta let this play too.

SPEAKER_05 11:41

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 11:42

I've been trying so hard to get over you.

SPEAKER_01 11:45

Okay, okay. All right.

SPEAKER_03 11:47

And by the way, he did get permission from Mr. and Mrs. Grace to watch this show.

SPEAKER_01 11:52

That's right. Well, the music you playing, we're gonna need permission slips out here. You playing love making music.

SPEAKER_03 11:56

I know Gravy grabbed some butts to the song.

SPEAKER_01 12:02

All I'm looking for is the jams.

SPEAKER_03 12:04

This is more than a jam. This is a feeling.

SPEAKER_01 12:08

Oh my life. Even an album cover. Teddy Riley. Oh, he's just a jam. Okay. Okay.

unknown 12:22

Don't be afraid.

SPEAKER_03 12:23

Just setting the mood for the conversation. Hope y'all got y'all a glass of wine or whatever y'all do. Or in Gravy's case, some Mary Jawan. Hey. Look what this boy is talking about as the good song plays.

SPEAKER_01 12:36

What about the smell of the Mary Jawan? Why using the bathroom? Yes. I used to um say to my dad, our house used to smell like skunks. And as I got older, I was like, that wasn't skunks. What was that Mary Jane?

SPEAKER_03 12:50

It was skunks. Some was skunky. That's what it was. Real skunky. Now, this is the last one I'm gonna play here.

SPEAKER_01 12:58

Okay, now you you doing them out here.

SPEAKER_03 12:59

Yeah, I am. Because uh this used to be the dancing song. A lot of dance contests broke out to this song. Never know.

SPEAKER_01 13:09

After this, you're done with the song.

SPEAKER_03 13:10

Yeah, we'll figure it out. Yeah. But this one right here, it's a classic, y'all. It's not working. Technical difficulties.

SPEAKER_01 13:21

Yeah, there we go. That's that means you don't need to play it.

SPEAKER_03 13:23

Wow. You're hating on your boy. Yeah. But it's all right. We won't play it. Uh-oh. This guy, Gravy says, direct dance, eighth grade. He was grabbing butts. That's what he's in. Right.

SPEAKER_01 13:38

That's when it that's when it starts. That's when it starts.

SPEAKER_03 13:42

It started a little earlier than that, but that's just the time. That's the nostalgia. You said you remember where you was at.

SPEAKER_01 13:47

Yeah, it wasn't about butt grabbing.

SPEAKER_03 13:50

It was in our case. The guys were the butt grabbers. Yes.

SPEAKER_01 13:56

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 13:57

Yes. So we want to go ahead and start this thing, y'all. So we got a couple people in here. We're going to go ahead and play this clip to set the tone and to set the mood and to get the conversation going for the panel. So enjoy this video. Let us know what y'all think.

SPEAKER_00 14:12

Never stop flirting with your woman. Never stop dating your woman. Never stop letting her know how gorgeous she is. Don't just assume she knows. Make sure. There's a lot of women walking around right now that are unsure about whether or not they man still think that they're sexy. Or unsure about whether or not they man still enjoys being around them. Like, and that's what we as men gotta come in at. Like, women operate on a reassurance basis. And we be thinking just because we pay these bills and we're taking care of her. You should know I love you. No, no, no. You gotta reminder. You gotta spell it out for her. You gotta let her know that you appreciate how she shows up for you. Let her know that you appreciate the mother that she is to y'all kids. Let her know that you appreciate how silly she is, how clingy she is, how annoying she can be sometimes. You gotta let her know that you appreciate those things. Like she shouldn't have to guess. Make sure she knows.

SPEAKER_03 15:14

So uh this this question was brought to us by Miss Curry here herself. That video was brought to us by her, and she also wants to know out there, ladies and gentlemen, do you still date your partner? Do you still your spouse? I'm sorry, your spouse.

SPEAKER_01 15:34

Do you still date your spouse? Do you feel it's no, do you feel it's important to flirt with your spouse? Not date, but flirt with your spouse. Um, and I guess I can start with with what I think um about that. And I think that is very important within a marriage or a serious relationship to still flirt with your significant other. Um even with the dating, we'll say the dating as well, because we do we, if anybody knows the curries, if you're close to us, you know every Friday or Saturday, or sometimes both, or sometimes a whole weekend, we date one another. My husband takes me on dates still, we'll go to eat, we'll go out. Um, we actually started something, it's probably about two years ago. Um, Thursdays is our I I love red wine. And we made Thursdays our red wine Thursdays. Um that starts our date week. So I want to know from the people in the chat, do you think that it's important to either like like Evan said, date your still date your spouse, also incorporating some flirting, it's some flirting in there. And like he said on that clip, just you know, men going to work and and being providers and women as well. Um it's important to still tell that person, you know, I love you, um, I find you attractive, or join them. Uh Evan D and this might be to TMI of my daughters watching, but there are times that, and we and I think all women do this, like I'll be cooking or just doing something around the house and I'll get a smack on the tush. And you know, the first thing we say, ladies, is stop. When that's really not what we mean. On the instant, we like, yes, yes.

SPEAKER_03 17:14

You know what pisses me off when you said tush.

SPEAKER_01 17:16

Well, then what booty? But neither one cheap.

SPEAKER_03 17:19

Just no tush.

SPEAKER_01 17:20

Okay, no tush.

SPEAKER_03 17:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 17:22

Um, so I just want to know in the chat, ladies and gentlemen, do you feel that it's still important to um, you know, flirt with your significant other, date your significant other? Uh, what is your take on it? I didn't even ask you.

SPEAKER_03 17:33

I 100% 100% think so, because it's important, especially if you have a person like you who's very uh what I'm I just saw one of the the um comments already from my uncle. Oh first we got a comment from Elkie Alonzo. She said absolutely. Yes, yeah, followed by Uncle Jimmy, who says this. Wait to keep it real, Uncle Jimmy. Hey, there is nothing wrong with that. I did not expect that, but that would be a good one. That's what you do, brother. That's what you do.

SPEAKER_01 18:08

That is absolutely great.

SPEAKER_03 18:10

And guess what? She better be watching because you you gave her a shot. Oh, that was great. She's gonna be trying to elevate past your side chick now. That was you gave her a public shout out.

unknown 18:20

That was great.

SPEAKER_01 18:21

Um to what you were saying.

SPEAKER_03 18:24

But yeah, especially if you have a person that you're married to or dating like you, whose love language is touch, feel, show of affirmation, show the love, make me feel the love, make me feel wanted. And if I don't not saying I don't, if I slip up on it, I can tell the energy change and I can see your mood change. And I guess in your mind, just trying to think for you, just knowing you, you thinking does he still like me? Does he still think I'm attractive? Is he still attractive to me? So in order to stop those feelings, yeah, I gotta do that. But I mean, I'm not saying that's the only reason I do that, but if you have to do that to keep you feeling good, then that's my job. So yes, I do think it's important, and I do think like I said, especially if you have a person whose love language is touchy-filly, affection, and all that stuff.

SPEAKER_01 19:21

So here's my thing with that. Do you think that's something that most women are hardwired that way? And it is hard for a man to kind of understand that unless that man is that same way. So I guess what I'm saying is, do you think that there are men that are like that as well?

SPEAKER_03 19:36

I mean how we are. I'm pretty sure there are men that's like that, but you don't think you guys are naturally hardwired? Yeah, no, we're not wired for that. No, not at all, because we don't have estrogen.

SPEAKER_01 19:49

That has nothing to do with estrogen.

SPEAKER_03 19:51

It all it has the women have estrogen. So I'm saying we're not women.

SPEAKER_01 19:54

That's it goes back to a love language. Like I say, uh uh we talked about this on the I think the very first episode, we talked about love languages.

SPEAKER_03 20:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 20:02

So you don't think that a man can have that love language of um So here and this is I'm gonna use this example, and I this is gonna say what I'm saying. You always say, like, even if I never told you you were handsome again, you'd be okay with that.

SPEAKER_03 20:17

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 20:18

I think you would. Why would you be okay with that?

SPEAKER_03 20:21

Because you told me before.

SPEAKER_01 20:22

But what if I never told you?

SPEAKER_03 20:24

If you never told me I d I don't think I would even think about it. I'm just being honest. I think I don't think that I would say, Man, does my wife think I'm handsome?

SPEAKER_01 20:35

I think Well, you married me and we're still together, so I don't But you just said you just you just said exactly what he said that um in the clip he said that uh just because you're married to somebody when he was talking about the female, she still wants to hear those things. And I know for a fact Yeah, you said she. Right, but I'm I'm going back to you. I know for a fact um that certain things I say to you make you feel good. You've said that to me.

SPEAKER_03 20:59

Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_01 21:00

So it's not just an estrogen thing or a woman thing.

SPEAKER_03 21:03

So I'm just saying that I I don't think people, well not people, I don't think a lot of men have those thoughts like majority of women. I don't want to say all because all women are not like that too, but I don't think the majority of men think or like process things like that, saying I have to hear her say that about me or two.

SPEAKER_01 21:26

Not have to, but you like it makes you feel good.

SPEAKER_03 21:30

Like you want to know if the once again, if you say it, yeah, it's gonna make us feel good, but if you don't say it, I don't think majority of men will wonder if that's the case if you don't say it.

SPEAKER_01 21:43

That's interesting. I would like to hear from some men in the chat to to know uh your thoughts on that because I just feel like as a human being, we all want to be told good things about ourselves, right? Especially by someone who loves you, who's in love with you. Um I don't know, I would think that would be important. We had a couple comments and I want to just hear from what is it? What did Byron say?

SPEAKER_03 22:05

What up, BZ? It's good for men to hear it too. Smelling good, looking good. Give up the compliments.

SPEAKER_01 22:13

Yeah, I no that I I actually agree with Byron. And Byron, you might want to record screen record this because I'll never probably say I agree with you again. Ever. Ever. And you know that. But I agree with I agree with him. Um men need to hear it too. Like I I just don't understand. You have you have to make me understand why you think that it's just a woman thing.

SPEAKER_03 22:35

First of all, you're not gonna understand it, but I'm just speaking from my point of view. And I'm pretty sure other men feel like that too.

SPEAKER_01 22:43

But it's not uh Byron said you don't because you're not human, you're Captain America.

SPEAKER_03 22:50

But I'm I I just don't think men have men clearly have feelings, but I don't think it's a make or break type of thing for men like it is for women.

SPEAKER_01 23:04

But I think men can be just as sensitive as as women can be.

SPEAKER_03 23:07

Sensitive, yes. Right. But I'm just talking about you you asked if they didn't say that or compliment you, would you feel like that's not true or would it bother you? I don't think that would bother a lot of men because once again, we're together and we know we're together, and we know that you're still with us. So I don't think that crosses our mind as much as it would you guys if we don't say it to you guys, just because that's how y'all are naturally wired. Y'all ask other women, girl, how do I look today? No, we do, girl, how's my hair? Girl, ooh, girl, your hair is laid out. When have you heard a uh gathering of men say, I don't know, hey dog, I like your outfit.

SPEAKER_01 23:54

But it's okay to give compliments.

SPEAKER_03 23:56

That is, you know, I know it's okay, but uh that's what I'm saying. How many times have you heard that in a gathering of men?

SPEAKER_01 24:02

I've not dudes nights if you're dark-skinned, uh cousin Gravy says, or David, I'm sorry, says, uh boy Gravy. Dark skinned men know where to the stuff ain't no need to repeat it all the time.

SPEAKER_03 24:17

You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01 24:18

You know, I ain't gonna lie, I love me some chocolate. I love me some chocolate, so you know, maybe that's what it is. Maybe that's what it is.

SPEAKER_03 24:26

Oh, we got a new watcher and new listener, my boy. I ain't seen or heard from you in a minute. Jack, thanks for tuning in, man. My boy KJ, Keenan Johnson. He says action speaks louder than words. I agree. It feels good to be complimented, but won't question the fact of my mate loving me or finding me attractive if she doesn't say it, as long as the relationship is going accordingly and I know we locked in. See, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_01 24:53

So yeah, so and but so we're getting some mixed feedback. So I guess so, majority of men basically what I'm getting from this is don't need to hear it. So does that also mean we don't have to? I don't know how to want to say don't have to show it.

SPEAKER_03 25:07

Um, because I don't really know how we would show it, but but you saying you don't have to show it is not in y'all's nature. Y'all's nature is to show it because y'all are loving creatures, and showing the love is what y'all do and what y'all love to do with each other and with other humans that y'all love. So y'all don't have to worry about that part.

SPEAKER_01 25:27

But see, I get what once again, Byron. I just this was a great comment. Um compliment your man because the next woman will, and that it that's true, and that's why I think it's important for us women to flirt back with our men. So, like and I I don't want to go too deep, but I flirt with you like a lot, and it and I and you I know that you enjoy it, and I think that's important. So I guess going back to the question I don't know, because we could keep we could keep this going. That's the point. I know, but you know I go deep. That's the point so deep. I'm gonna go so deep. Because I just I don't I really don't understand. Like you got, like I said, Byron, which is it's right.

SPEAKER_03 26:10

And I said the majority of men don't. And it's it is some men that do, but that's just not the majority. Like on you guys' side, it's the majority.

SPEAKER_01 26:21

See no Byron, keep it going.

SPEAKER_03 26:29

Men like it too. Y'all know whoa, y'all know out feels? Okay, y'all know it feels great to hear when that woman says you smell great with cheese. Come on, y'all. It's okay to admit.

SPEAKER_01 26:44

No, and I'm not saying that. Thank you, Byron. Thank you. Give him a round of applause for that. Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 26:48

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_01 26:49

Thank you. Because it seriously, because like he's proven my point.

SPEAKER_03 26:54

Yeah. Um once again, you are saying this is the exception, not the rule. It's going to be men that feel like that. That's the part you're not hearing me say. I didn't say all men feel the same way and are manly man and beat your chest. It's that's not a hundred percent. There are men that feel like that. It's just not the majority like it is for women. That's what I'm saying. You're trying to make it into me saying that it's no men out there that feel like that. There are men, clearly, because he's saying this, and it's probably other men that's not here yet or that's not watching yet that feel that way too. It's just not the majority. Just not.

SPEAKER_01 27:35

Okay. Okay. But I okay. Well, I know I like to be flirted with.

SPEAKER_03 27:40

Because you're a woman. Right. You're the majority.

SPEAKER_01 27:43

Not even just that, it's just knowing. I okay, I guess. I'm a woman, yes, we get that part. But just it's that reassurance because also that we've got women of different age groups. Like sometimes I'm not what I was at 20 when we got together.

SPEAKER_03 27:57

So there You're not gonna be right.

SPEAKER_01 27:59

So you don't understand as a woman, we need to hear those things because we see something totally different in the mirror than maybe what you see.

SPEAKER_03 28:07

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_01 28:07

So sometimes when you come in and then I could be looking the worst, and you like, you look so good at it. I'd be like, Are you crazy? See, but but well, that's on the outside. On the inside, I'm literally like, oh my god, he said I was just beautiful.

SPEAKER_03 28:19

So why not say what's on the inside? Why say that on the outside? I don't know. Cause we're interesting creatures. I don't know. I can't very interesting creatures because if somebody hears that, you like, well, damn, I just gave her a compliment.

SPEAKER_01 28:32

No, it's the way we say it, like, oh my god, I look so crazy.

SPEAKER_03 28:34

Well, that's not just how you just said that at all.

SPEAKER_01 28:37

It's not just usually how I say it, or at least how I try to say it.

SPEAKER_03 28:42

I guess. But just like how you told me, you're not gonna understand because you're not understanding because you still think I'm saying all men.

SPEAKER_01 28:51

Like they're going back to episode one, we speak two different languages. Yes. And it is it's we need a translator. Exactly, Byron. Typical tough guy response. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 29:03

See, what I'm having a problem realizing is what why does it have to be tough?

SPEAKER_01 29:08

Byron, whatever you had today for breakfast, I want you to have it every Thursday because I'm actually agreeing with you. This is this is very rare. You know what?

SPEAKER_03 29:14

Byron, stick yourself because you shouldn't be saying this. It's nothing about tough guy at all. It's not tough.

SPEAKER_01 29:22

It's just Evan has to be uh what I always tell you sometimes, the King Kong effect.

SPEAKER_03 29:28

No, I really don't. Um I'm not at all. Okay. So can you say that about Kenan? Because Keenan just said the same thing I didn't.

SPEAKER_01 29:36

I'm not in a relationship with Kenan, so I can't read I can't but from the comment. He just said I think it's the delivery. Keenan's delivery was a lot different than yours.

SPEAKER_03 29:46

Oh, okay. The delivery.

SPEAKER_01 29:50

It was.

SPEAKER_03 29:51

Oh, okay. I guess I'll change the delivery.

SPEAKER_01 29:57

Go on pizza chest.

SPEAKER_03 29:59

Yeah. And I love this comment right here. Who paid you? Because this is what he does. LK, he's a professional troll. He goes around the internet, looks for shows. No, he does not.

SPEAKER_01 30:14

And just trolls people starts stuff.

SPEAKER_03 30:17

That's what he does.

SPEAKER_01 30:18

He's actually the the other co-host on Game for All Seasons podcast.

SPEAKER_03 30:22

And that's why I know what he does.

SPEAKER_01 30:24

Okay. He's not going around. I can't believe I'm actually defending you, Byron. Like, what it what did I have for breakfast?

SPEAKER_03 30:29

Beats me. Let's not eat that again.

SPEAKER_01 30:32

I'm really defending you. Maybe it's light skin nation standing up. I don't know. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 30:36

Please. I don't know. Uh sit down, light skin nation.

SPEAKER_01 30:39

Okay, so we we got that out the way. Um, but I do want I do have a question for some people in the chat. Um actually, I thought you had a question for some people in the chat.

SPEAKER_03 30:52

No, not really.

SPEAKER_01 30:55

No, I'm just trying to I was about to say, what?

SPEAKER_03 30:59

No, I I don't have a question for anybody. It's dead air. No, seriously. So I want to know, just like how we just had that back and forth, women, is it okay if you don't understand when you have conversations like that and you never have a uh let's go uh say a settlement? Is it okay if you agree to disagree, or does that make you even matter that you didn't come to a conclusion after you thought when you have these close conversations like that? Is that a clear question? No. So just like how we just close that conversation and we didn't agree, we wasn't on the same page, so to say, in other situations in a relationship or in a marriage, is that okay to end the conversation like that, just knowing that all right, we did we didn't agree on that?

SPEAKER_01 31:51

It depends on the it depends on the topic or the situation we're that's at hand that we're talking about. I mean, if it's something this wasn't like a dis I mean it wasn't like an argument. No. So are you talking about an argument or just the argument? Oh, an argument, no, like an argument. Well, you know what? I don't know, because when we have disagreements or arguments, I just think one of us just walks away and then, or did we just say, you know, I need I need space or you need space.

SPEAKER_03 32:16

So with that being said, does that fester and come out in later conversations, even if it's not the same subject?

SPEAKER_01 32:23

Yes, for me, yes.

SPEAKER_03 32:24

So that's what I'm asking. Why doesn't it just stop there on the disagree? Like on the agree to disagree. It's no disrespect. Like you said, it the conversation is closed. It just didn't come to the same agreement. So why does it have to carry to other things?

SPEAKER_01 32:42

Because it depends on what we're arguing about. We can't be arguing about okay, who loaded the dishwasher wrong, and like that's what I'm saying. It depends on the actual argument. If it's a heated, heavy argument, yeah, and it's something where like you said something to hurt my feelings, or vice versa. Yes, that's gonna linger because I feel like in most arguments, people really don't get everything out that they want to say because they're trying to um not I don't I don't know. But I I I don't I don't know. Your question was kind of what?

unknown 33:16

I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 33:18

It depends on the situation, it depends on what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_03 33:20

Okay, so give me a situation. Okay, no, I'll give you a situation. Let's just say with that, what we just got done talking about, the flirting with your partner or spouse. What if you didn't flirt with your partner or spouse and one of them brought it to the table in a conversation and say, why don't you do that with me or for me? And they give you an answer that you wasn't looking for, and you doesn't you don't agree with that answer, and throughout that whole conversation, you guys never get on the same page and the conversation is over. Is that okay to leave being agreeing to disagreeing?

SPEAKER_01 33:58

No, that's what I that's going back to what I said. It depends on the on what we're disagreeing. Yes, that situation, you can't just end and be like, okay, that's that.

SPEAKER_03 34:09

So are you taking that as if he's not going to try? Because the answer he might give you when you ask, why don't you do that? Like, why don't you flirt with me or why don't you give me compliments? Uh I I don't know. I I I you know I love you and blah, blah, blah. But I want you to give me a compliment. Okay, I'm sorry, I didn't give you a compliment that you haven't, you know what I mean, in the past. And he doesn't say, I'm gonna try in the future, but he just makes that effort to try in the future just because he had that conversation with you. So is it okay if that conversation ends with not being on the same page?

SPEAKER_01 34:48

No, not for me. Not for me. I would I would I want to know from the people in the chat, not for me, because uh it's gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna want to go deeper into that. You get what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 34:59

Yeah, but no matter what reason he gives you, you're not gonna agree or like it. That's what I'm saying. But that's what makes it not be on the same page. But what if he gives you an answer like well I'm like I just said, I'm sorry, I d I I didn't mean to do that. He said, but you don't do it. You know how it can get heated at certain times off of a delivery or off of a response, and it just doesn't make you feel the way that you thought the conversation would make you feel, like you thought you were gonna come to a solution in that conversation, and the solution never gets there by the end of the conversation. Is that okay? If after the conversation, the whoever is in the wrong tries hard to write that wrong so those conversations don't happen again.

SPEAKER_01 35:47

I like I said, I for I can I can only speak for me, so I I would like to know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So that's of course. That was just a long drawing I was trying to follow, and then I was yeah, I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 35:59

I guess the delivery was wrong again. Chad, I hope you understand what I'm saying. If you and your partner have a conversation and you are not able to agree on the conversation that was brought up, is that okay to end the conversation on separate pages? Because we all know how we can get elevated when we're talking to somebody that we are really in love with or care about or serious about. We know how feelings can get involved and certain things get said, like you said, and you say, you know what? I'm just done with this conversation because I'm not gonna take it there because it can go really, really bad. Let's just stop here so it doesn't go bad.

SPEAKER_01 36:46

Elkie says because y'all men are hard-headed. Agreed.

SPEAKER_03 36:49

I'm not even putting that in.

SPEAKER_01 36:50

And then Byron, too. Some disputes have no resolution. And I think that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_03 36:55

So is that okay? Yes. So, and then that's when I asked, will that be transferred to another situation that is going to come up later? Because you're still gonna be feeling some kind of way about that not being resolved.

SPEAKER_01 37:10

I mean, I could see where some women, woman, or man could do that. Um, I mean, I I can only speak for me. And like like Byron says, some you just can't resolve. So I I I don't know. I've never really, I can't recall even dealing with that.

SPEAKER_03 37:26

We got Britney back. What up, cousin? She said, Yeah, you can end the conversation and agree to disagree. And that's what I'm asking, B. So after you agree to disagree, is that all of your feelings in that like situation? Will it never come back up again?

SPEAKER_01 37:48

That's a hard one because you don't you don't know. You and like I said, it depends on what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_03 37:54

She said, it's your mic circle back right into the conversation. Girl, you gotta be reading. And I didn't know you were about to say that. You crazy. But that that's that's what I'm asking. Like, why why can't it just stay on the agree to disagree?

SPEAKER_01 38:18

I don't know. Byron said that's a woman thing. Maybe it's a woman thing, and then Elkie says no because it wasn't resolved. Like I said, I can't speak for everybody else. I can only speak for me. Like, it depends on what the conversation is.

SPEAKER_03 38:31

Like Right. So give me a situation that you know wouldn't be okay to end on agree to disagree. Um I don't care how serious it is, just throw it out there.

SPEAKER_01 38:42

I don't, I can't, I can't think, I can't think of one with you and I.

SPEAKER_03 38:45

No, just one like uh an example.

SPEAKER_01 38:49

That's a horrible. I don't know, babe.

SPEAKER_03 38:51

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 38:51

Someone give us an example. I don't know. He's asking me, I feel like I'm taking a freaking pop quiz over here. Like I'm sweating in my seat because I'm like, I don't, I don't know. I just know for me, like it depends on what we're talking about or what we're disagreeing about. If it's something that it like really hurt my feelings or I felt like, um, I don't know, like if it just really hurt my feelings, yes. If we ended a conversation, it was like, okay, well, I'm sorry that you felt like this, but this is how I feel, and we we go walk our separate ways. That is probably gonna come back in the next conversation somehow. Just just, I don't know. It depends on how if I'm still thinking about it and if I still feel hurt by it, I guess.

SPEAKER_03 39:31

So then it's not an agree to disagree, it's just uh shut up right now, and then I'm gonna bring it back up whenever I feel offended again.

SPEAKER_01 39:40

Okay, yeah, I don't know. You I I'm like sweating over here. I don't know. You taking me on a pop quiz. Um what we got Oki saying here? I can't really.

SPEAKER_03 39:50

She's talking to Byron.

SPEAKER_01 39:51

Oh. I'm too crazy to be. Byron, I would like if you do not troll our people in our chat, please.

SPEAKER_03 39:57

I told you.

SPEAKER_01 39:57

We need we need people to say, focus. We're gonna block you. We're gonna block you.

SPEAKER_03 40:01

I told you he goes internet to internet, show to show, and trolls.

SPEAKER_01 40:05

Yeah, we're gonna block you. You're gonna be on the block list.

SPEAKER_03 40:13

Oh, Brittany said, not a pop quick.

SPEAKER_01 40:15

Yeah, girl, I feel like he's giving me a I wasn't prepared. I'm like, where where were these notes? I didn't get these notes for today's show.

SPEAKER_03 40:24

What do you mean? That's just a regular question.

SPEAKER_01 40:26

I thought that was a long question. That wasn't a long question. That was a question.

SPEAKER_03 40:30

I had to reword it because you said you wasn't understanding what I was saying.

SPEAKER_01 40:34

I wasn't following that. That was long.

SPEAKER_03 40:37

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_01 40:38

That was like a movie you had planned in your head or something. I don't know. No, it really know where it was going.

SPEAKER_03 40:43

This is crazy, guys.

SPEAKER_01 40:45

But uh Byron, I agree with that.

SPEAKER_03 40:53

Wow.

SPEAKER_01 40:55

Anyway, I agree with your first one where he said, My wife will come back all the time mad from a previous conversation. Um that has that has happened. I mean, I think that happens in every single relationship or marriage where we we we circle back. I mean, even men do it. We've circled back on it, but I just feel like it's important just to try to hash it out at the time of whatever's occurring. Yeah, exactly. I feel like that's important. I feel like hearing each other's sides, like maybe taking that time to kind of cool down, taking everything that was said, and then, you know, like I said, we do that all the time. We'll walk away and then kind of come back and say, okay, I had time to sit and think about what I said that made you feel like B. You know what I mean? Um, so I think that's important.

SPEAKER_03 41:41

So, should I have worded it in how do you handle arguments and conversations after the argument? Is that better?

SPEAKER_01 41:53

Yeah, I guess. I mean, I get it now. I was about to say how I didn't I get it now. Um, yeah, I get it, I get it now.

SPEAKER_03 42:05

Yeah, that's a very long response. That's Kizzle. At the end of the day, if a woman brings it to our attention, it means that they feel a way about it, even if we don't understand where they're coming from. At the end, at that time, it's best for you and to let her know that we will pay more attention to the situation and how we react in those situations and we will try to be sympathetic to her feelings and try to do better.

SPEAKER_01 42:35

Okay. I I I like that.

SPEAKER_03 42:37

Yeah, I have no problem with that. I like that a lot. But that's what I'm saying. So even if we say that and then y'all come back with another comment, that means it's not over.

SPEAKER_01 42:48

Right. I could see where y'all could say that. But yeah, I mean, then maybe she needs another day to cool off. Remember, we talked about that, I think that was in episode two. Yeah, it was needing time to kind of cool off and then come back to it.

SPEAKER_03 43:04

That's a Byron. This guy. Yeah. You get you have to be. Yeah. You have to be a better pick your battle guy. You do. That's the thing, fellas. Pick your battles, not wars. Please. And be smart about the battles you choose, and don't be dumb about the wars you choose. Because every war you choose is dumb. Because it's not gonna be in your favor. No matter what you think, no matter how right you think you are, you're gonna lose. It is. You just gotta be open and just be say, oh, okay, I know I'm gonna lose this one. So chalk it up, move past it.

SPEAKER_01 43:47

Why do y'all feel that? Do you feel you're not hurt on the other end?

SPEAKER_03 43:52

Uh no, I'm not saying that.

SPEAKER_01 43:53

Why do y'all feel that?

SPEAKER_03 43:55

Well, like I was saying on the other episode, happy wife, happy life, or as they say happy. Spouse happy house.

SPEAKER_01 44:01

I agree with that.

SPEAKER_03 44:02

I totally don't understand the difference in saying, but it's still saying the same thing. But that's that's the meat and potatoes at the end of the day. You got to keep that happy. Because if you constantly go into war, because wars last a very long time. Battles is here and there. It's a little battle here, a little battle here, a little battle here. But a war will last.

SPEAKER_05 44:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 44:24

And that's not good for men. Because y'all hold on to things and it lasts a very long time. Just when you think you thought the war was over, and you like complimented her and you did this and you did that, it's not over. So that's what I'm talking about. Okay. Not over by a long stretch.

SPEAKER_01 44:44

The happy wife, happy life mess. What does that say? I need readers. Makes a man back down. Why why, Byron? I would like to know why. I would like to know why. Do you what you why do you feel that? Or you say that that happy wife, happy life makes a man want to back down?

SPEAKER_03 45:08

No, I don't think it makes a man want to back down, but that's the period on the sentence. Alright, happy life, happy life. Or happy spouse, happy house. Sorry, I hit the wrong comment, baby. But this is the one I wanted to hear from her. Yeah. There we go. Happy spouse, happy house is a different mindset of equality. It includes the man and partner, not just the wife. Yes. Yeah, but the so does the happy wife, happy life.

SPEAKER_01 45:50

Because it's only this in my mind the way I'm seeing it is as long as the wife is happy, that's all that matters. When that is not how that should go.

SPEAKER_03 45:57

In that situation, it is because you're not happy. That's why the situation arose. So in that situation that causes that phrase to be said, yeah, that means a lot.

SPEAKER_01 46:11

This is where the crickets need to be played because I'm just confused. So you don't think that yeah, seriously, because that's just just what was playing in my head when you said that.

SPEAKER_03 46:25

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 46:26

Um elaborate, please.

SPEAKER_03 46:28

I just did.

SPEAKER_01 46:32

I don't know. I think we're off today, y'all. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 46:36

No, I think you're just trying to think too deep instead of listening to what I'm saying. And that like that's the answer, what I'm saying. I'm not trying to speak in riddles. I'm saying there's no other way to look at it.

SPEAKER_01 46:51

Oh. Okay. All the time. I'm breaking the husband code. That has to be Byron because I can't see what it's saying.

SPEAKER_03 46:58

Yeah, it's definitely Byron. But I wanted to highlight this one here, he says.

SPEAKER_01 47:05

So no such thing as a quality, happy wife. Oh man.

SPEAKER_03 47:13

Um that's to pick your battles and pick your wars. That's what that is.

SPEAKER_01 47:17

It does not mean man shut up. Like, y'all put that on yourselves. Like, no woman ever said that a man can't had to come up with that statement. No woman, no woman says, like, it better be my way or the hot. That's not how it goes.

SPEAKER_03 47:31

That's not what we're saying at all. That's how I know you're not hearing. No, I'm not.

SPEAKER_01 47:35

I need a translator. Like I said, y'all really speak two different languages. I literally need a translator.

SPEAKER_03 47:40

Because of previous things that have happened, you know, like he said before earlier, he made a comment earlier that we're last word kind of people. That's not a good thing when you're talking or having a disagreement with your wife for a man to try to have the last word because it's not gonna happen the way you think it's gonna happen.

SPEAKER_01 47:59

And then Byron said most of y'all don't want pushback.

SPEAKER_03 48:04

Not a lot. No, y'all don't. Not a lot.

SPEAKER_01 48:06

It's funny how y'all are speaking, like if it's a back and forth conversation, like where do you think?

SPEAKER_03 48:11

You just sat here and talked about men too. You just said, it's funny how y'all can speak for us. You've been speaking for us a lot too.

unknown 48:19

Whatever.

SPEAKER_01 48:21

Yeah, I hope y'all understand it. Anybody that knows us, this is real, like this is just how we are with one another. That's why I said I didn't want to go too too deep because you know I I will stay on that one topic for a long time and just keep going and keep going.

SPEAKER_03 48:34

And that's my point when I asked that question. We you said so many times already in this conversation and in this episode, yeah. Okay, whatever. Let's just move on. And now we're back on it again. It literally just happened. Like right now, it just happened.

SPEAKER_01 48:53

It did. As Brittany said, it circled right back.

SPEAKER_03 48:57

Yeah, it did. It literally just happened, and hence why I said, pick your battles, don't be in a war. Because the war is never good.

SPEAKER_01 49:08

Not me proving points and don't even realize that.

SPEAKER_03 49:10

And it's not even the fact that I was trying to prove the point. It was it eventually it's going to happen. So just a nicer way, I guess, B, if I could speak for you, a nicer way to say no pushback, women don't want pushback is okay, you're right.

SPEAKER_01 49:30

Oh, I can't stand that.

SPEAKER_03 49:31

Okay, I agree. Uh-uh. No, you never say I agree.

SPEAKER_01 49:34

You'll be like, You're right. When we're not trying to be right, I'm just trying to get you to understand what I'm saying. It doesn't necessarily mean like what I'm saying is right. I just want you to hear me.

SPEAKER_03 49:45

Yeah. And just because we say that response don't mean we don't hear you. We hear you, we just don't want it to get to the war.

SPEAKER_01 49:53

But but that that's that start sparks a war with me. You right. You right. Oh, I can't stand it. I mean, in majority of the time, yes, I do be right.

SPEAKER_03 50:02

But see, but I'm wrong for saying it.

SPEAKER_01 50:05

Whatever.

SPEAKER_03 50:06

Unbelievable. Whatever. So you think we should give out the homework for uh next week?

SPEAKER_01 50:12

Yes. I think this was once again, y'all. I absolutely love the the back and forth in the chat. Um, keep it up. I love the fact that y'all really jump on here at 7:30. Um, I get messages all day long, like can't wait for the show, can't wait for the show. Um, feel free to send us um, is it instant messages on here? That's how old I am, is it?

SPEAKER_03 50:31

Oh, it's just DMs commenting on the Facebook page on the live chat.

SPEAKER_01 50:35

Yeah, and just let us know some topics you want to discuss next week. Um, but yeah, what what did you want to get for homework?

SPEAKER_03 50:41

That is a good one right there. I'll change it to that. So give us a comment or an email on Facebook uh or YouTube or YouTube. Yeah, whatever. However way you can get in touch with us on about this show, Messenger on Facebook, leave us a comment on this episode or leave us a comment on the YouTube page under the episode of a topic that you guys want to talk about that we haven't hit yet. So we're gonna let you guys pick the topic for next week. And don't worry, we're gonna have a jam out session before we start next week to give people enough time to get in here if we don't receive any topics before the show starts.

SPEAKER_01 51:19

Why don't you speak that? We will receive some topics.

SPEAKER_03 51:23

Oh we will looks like we got one right here.

SPEAKER_01 51:26

Oh that was fast. Yeah, she was a good student in school.

SPEAKER_03 51:30

Yeah, she asked too many questions.

SPEAKER_01 51:33

She was a good sense. So we got our we got our first one. So what we'll do is we'll we'll tally them up and and yeah, hopefully we get we get enough, we can kind of try to hit almost not depending on how many we get, we can try to hit all of them. Okay. Um, but yeah, okay. So how to date in 2026? Now that's gonna be for my singles because I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 51:52

Yeah, I'm gonna try my best to hit it. No, no, but I don't know how to date these crazy people in 2026.

SPEAKER_01 51:57

He just married one, that's it.

SPEAKER_03 51:59

Yeah, I'm I'm stuck with my crazy person forever and ever. All man to death do your part. I'm still alive. But yeah, so we appreciate y'all. Y'all did really, really good. Thank you. Thank you. We love the participation. We love the get back. We love y'all going back and forth with each other. And we do love you guys, all of you guys.

SPEAKER_05 52:19

We do.

SPEAKER_03 52:19

So tell a friend to tell a friend to watch next week and continue to watch. Don't forget to like and subscribe to that YouTube channel that we are live on right now, Coachy Gang for All Seasons in that space bar search bar. I'm sorry, and then go to you plus me equals us Facebook page, subscribe and follow that page so we can eventually transfer the show over there so we can do all of this, you know, the same way we're doing it on my page. Yeah. But I appreciate every single one of you.

SPEAKER_01 52:49

Thanks, guys. I appreciate you too.

SPEAKER_03 52:51

And thank you for being you.

SPEAKER_01 52:54

Oh, thank you for being you.

SPEAKER_03 52:56

No, you were supposed to say, Oh yeah, thank me for being me, because that's the you plus me. And then I'm gonna say, You're welcome, because we us.

SPEAKER_01 53:04

Oh, okay. So we'll work we'll work on that next week.

SPEAKER_03 53:07

Yeah, we'll we will.

SPEAKER_01 53:08

Okay. We'll once again I didn't get I didn't get the notes for today's show.

SPEAKER_03 53:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 53:11

But with that being said, guys, thank you so much, and uh we'll see you next week. Peace. Peace.