You + Me= Us
Podcast Description:
Sharon and Evan have been married for 16 years and are sitting down to share their honest, real-life views on marriage. From the highs to the challenges, they dive into what it truly means to build a life together. Grab a glass of your favorite wine, sit back, and enjoy the conversation with two imperfect—but happily married—people keeping it real.
You + Me= Us
Who's Time Should Be Priority??
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Evan and Sharon dive into a real-life relationship debate that hits home for many couples—whose time matters more? Is it the partner grinding long hours to provide, or the one holding everything down at home with the kids and daily responsibilities? The conversation gets honest as they unpack balance, appreciation, and what “priority” really means in a healthy relationship.
The episode heats up as they explore why the smallest things often turn into the biggest arguments. From tone of voice to overlooked gestures, Evan and Sharon break down how minor moments can reveal deeper feelings that couples sometimes ignore.
To lighten things up, they wrap things up with some laughs, sharing the best April Fools’ pranks they’ve seen (and maybe even pulled themselves 👀). You won’t want to miss these stories!
Tune in for relatable conversations, a little humor, and plenty of insight on building stronger relationships.
You+Me=US — where real talk meets real love. ❤️
Y'all know what time it is. Y'all know what that song means. Y'all know it's 7:30 on the dot.
SPEAKER_04We on time time.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I've been trying to graduate from CP time.
SPEAKER_04I see.
SPEAKER_00And go to AM Time, American. That's better. Yeah. Yeah. We are Americans up in this thing. We do want to send a welcome out to everybody that is live with us right now on YouTube and my Facebook page, Evan Curry, that is. We are, there we go. We back. Sorry about that, y'all. But we are live, and I want to welcome everybody into this episode. It is episode eight. Last week was seven. So eight comes after seven. That's how we was all taught how to count in America. But this is episode eight of you plus me equals the USs. The Us's. Yeah, the Us's. That's our new nickname. The Us. The Uses. Okay. So when y'all see us out there on the street, say, hey Uses, how y'all doing? And we're gonna say we alright. But welcome y'all to episode eight of you plus me equals us. We are extremely loving y'all's love and y'all's compliments and everything else that y'all giving us, the replies. Always, always, the chat is always fired. My bad. Let me get this chat up so we can see who up in this thing. Of course, it would be Elkie, the first one up in there talking about hey, hey, I just left you, woman. Just saw you less than 30 minutes ago. But welcome on in, sister. You are the first one in here. Waiting for Ari. Usually Ari be up in here. Maybe she on the CP time. I don't know. But don't forget, ladies and gentlemen, the YouTube page we are on, Coachy Game for All Seasons YouTube page. Go ahead there in the search bar, type that in. Like, subscribe, and share. Let me rearrange that order. Subscribe, like, then share. Keyword is subscribe. That's why it's in the big print. So subscribe to that YouTube channel. Also go to the you plus me equals us Facebook page. We will I'll give it two weeks. We're gonna put a deadline on it because we can just keep saying soon we're gonna do it. Two weeks is the deadline to go ahead and follow that page so we can switch over. Yeah, week 10. Week 10, we will be live on that you plus me equals us Facebook page. So go ahead and continue to follow that, like that, and share that. Email the show. E-A-C-U-R-R-Y, the number one at gmail.com. Just for now. But in week 10, we will have a separate email address for the show. So go ahead. We got comments, we got frustrations. You can air it out. Ain't nobody gonna hear it or see it but us. If you want us to bring it to the chat, we will bring it to the chat.
SPEAKER_04No names. We won't use names.
SPEAKER_00Oh no, always no names.
SPEAKER_04Confidential.
SPEAKER_00Always no names, please. So we're gonna start this thing as usual. It is Thursday.
SPEAKER_04It's Thursday. It's the start of our weekend.
SPEAKER_00Yes.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, it's the start of our weekend.
SPEAKER_00But you already know how everybody says throw back Thursday.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So we've been doing that for six weeks now. We didn't do that the first couple weeks. No, we didn't. But now it's a new thing. Yeah. What's up, Ash? What up, girl?
SPEAKER_04Hi, Ash Yay.
SPEAKER_00How you doing?
SPEAKER_04Yes, Miss Thurman.
SPEAKER_00Yes. Still waiting to see you in the streets.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, anyway. You leave my cousin alone.
SPEAKER_00Take care of you. I tell you what, before I play the song, Ash, I blame you. She's still wearing y'all house shoes. Oh my god, literally has them on now. And I'm really sick of them because she just be leaving them in the middle of the hallway, and I be tripping over them. I try my best to kick them out the way. And every time I do, I say, that damn Ash, get them my gifts.
SPEAKER_04They are the best. This was the gift as being a matron of honor in their wedding. And this is one of the best gifts she could have given me.
SPEAKER_00Unbelievable. Unbelievable. What up, Milo? Milo in this thing. Okay. How you doing, brother? Minister Miles. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_04All right. I'm loving it. Well, let's let's get the show started. Oh, yeah. Okay, yeah, we got the chat going. For the ones that this that you're new this week, um, we start our live off with TBT. Um, yeah, throwback, throwback Thursday. Some some songs to kind of get us in the groove. Um, some old school, some new school, but if anybody knows me, it's usually old school. So, what we got for this week? What's the first time we got this week?
SPEAKER_00Hey, we're about to pump this. Y'all showing y'all age if y'all up there snapping y'all fingers and nodding y'all heads. Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_04Blows my mind if she things like this that talks like a squeak toy.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_03No reason why.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah, quiet stone. You already know about that mama. You already know.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Or, you know, you still kinda young. This was the lovers only first. So I usually get my radio DJ voice on right now. You get to grab a glass of wine. Sit down. Put your feet in the glass. Grab your glass of wine. Relax. Let the mood set itself.
SPEAKER_03Okay. All right.
SPEAKER_00All right. Y'all know I've been working on my DJ voice. You never know who's gonna need a DJ voice for a party. So if y'all out there looking for a DJ voice, he is not your guy. I am already ready to be hired. I already got the job, I already know it.
SPEAKER_04All right, what other song we got here? What's another one?
SPEAKER_00So let's see here. Okay, we got another one brewing. Let me see what y'all ages is. This is old school for show, for sure.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, we was babies on this, but it's still a vibe.
SPEAKER_00Weed smokers, roll your joints tight.
unknownOoh.
SPEAKER_01Looking back over my years, I guess I shed it some tears.
SPEAKER_00Snap your fingers now.
SPEAKER_01I've told myself time and time again, this time I'm gonna win. Tell me for another fight. Things ain't right. Take the fool and lose twice. Stop all over me.
SPEAKER_04What'd he say?
SPEAKER_00The boy had his hand like this. He said, He gotta do this.
SPEAKER_01Looks like I never love TKO.
SPEAKER_00Let it go to the peak.
SPEAKER_01What you think about it, girl?
SPEAKER_00He said, What you think about it, girl?
SPEAKER_01Oh yeah. TKO.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_01That's the jail.
SPEAKER_03That's the jail.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That's good right there. Hopefully we set that move for y'all. And y'all was listening to the radio DJ. He said, grab some wine and put your feet up and relax. Everybody knows Thursday is the precursor. And half of y'all probably already got Friday off because tomorrow Good Friday. So y'all should be nice and relaxed and ready for a good show. Unfortunately, I do have to go to work, but that don't mean nothing. It's okay. One monkey don't stop no show.
SPEAKER_04Get them coins, Daddy.
SPEAKER_00Hey. You know what? Float on the track like a segue. That is a very good segue you just threw to me. You ain't even know you did.
SPEAKER_03I didn't.
SPEAKER_00That's a great time to open up with today's topic. So we was thinking, had a couple situations talking to people. You know how we always do. People come up to us with these ideas and things that's going on in their personal life and they need some help. But once again, precursor, what is it?
SPEAKER_04We are not professionals. We are just two people keeping it real.
SPEAKER_00At all times. Solid. No, but today's subject, today's question for y'all. We need to know whose time is priority. That's what we need to know. Whose time should be priority? Elaborate. So let's say we got a scenario where married couple, we got a husband and a wife. Husband works his butt off. A lot of hours, barely at home during the week. So the wife just has a baby, right? She's on maternity leave. Okay. The husband's job is very, very good. He's able to allow her. Sorry, that that probably is a bad choice of words, allow her. So he brings that suggestion to her. Like, hey, take as much time as you need. Okay. Don't rush back to work. I got us. I got a lot of things going for me right now, and I'm making a lot of money. So just take your time. Do what you got to do with your life.
SPEAKER_04No need to rush to get back to work.
SPEAKER_00No need to rush to get back to work. Take time, enjoy the baby, do what you got to do if you got to breastfeed, blah, blah, blah. So he'll be at work doing his thing, making the money, supporting the household, keeping everything afloat as if she was still working because he kicked it in the second gear, because she's at home doing what she has to do. And then slowly but surely, she starts getting upset because he's not as home at home as much as she wants him at home. But mind you, he just said that you get the green light to do what you gotta do, stay at home, don't rush, I got us. So in turn of him having us, she gets upset that he's not there helping with the baby like she thinks he should. He's not doing the fatherly duties like she thinks he should. He still gives it his all. Weekends, he's all in because that's majority of his time that he has to do the family-father thing. So whose time should be priority? Should it be the husband's time because he's working his butt off and not there as much as he can be? Or should the wife or spouse or partner be upset that he's not there as much as he should be? Although you already had this conversation and you knew what was happening. So should that time take priority over his job, or should that job take priority over the baby in the family situation?
SPEAKER_04Well, if you ask me, the reason he's working the job is to supply for the family and the wife, correct?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, to support.
SPEAKER_04So to say to prioritize time, um, that's kind of like I don't I don't really know how to really explain it because that's two different things. Without him working, y'all don't I mean things are gonna fall apart, right?
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Because there's one person working.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_04So I think it's unfair that she's asking him to, you know, so she's basically saying, don't work as many hours as you are because I need help with the two kids.
SPEAKER_00Yes, pretty much. That's what she's saying. So I need you to fall back a little bit on the job, brother, because I need you here because I'm overwhelmed with the babies that I can't be the mother that I need to be because you're not here helping me. I'm pooped.
SPEAKER_04Okay, so my question is so when he comes home from umpteen hours at work, is he giving her some form of um um you know, relieving her from her duties? And he kind of takes on until Yeah, absolutely. Okay, then she needs I mean, there's there's nothing to even talk about. Like I'm you're at home doing work, being a mother or a full-time parent is a job. Being working um teen hours to support your wife and and chill newborn kids, whatever, I I I don't know. Like I said, I'm a different breed of woman, and I and I'm not saying that to two my own horn, but like common sense nowadays just ain't common.
SPEAKER_00So we got a a comment here from Milo. It has to be a healthy balance. Having a child is a sacrifice. You have to value the working man, but working man has to value the working mother. Absolutely. But that's you know how thin that line is because it's probably happening, but it's just not to the standard of the other ones. Like the outlook that they have on that situation should be a little bit more on that side of the line, should be a little bit more on that side of the line. That's where it always gets a little befuddled because one expects more out of the other with that line being crossed or drawn, because the the husband is like, hey man, I'm giving all I can to support this whole household, you and the babies.
SPEAKER_04Right. Does she want him to cut hours and then now y'all struggling for for money? You do get what I'm saying? Like, so it that is a a tricky line. Yeah, it really is.
SPEAKER_00Not just tricky, but you ought to be careful of how you cross it. And is there a comeback after you cross it? I I don't know. We got Ash say when we did that, it sucked. Uh no, I sucked it up, but I was stressed out.
SPEAKER_04And I understand that too, Ash, because that's it's a thing called it's not to cut you off, but postpartum is real. So I'm I'm gonna I'm gonna bring that into the factor because postpartum.
SPEAKER_00I can't speak on that.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, postpartum is a real thing, and after having a child, just you're meant you're physically drained, let alone emotionally, mentally, you're drained. But to say, you know, I need you. So it this is what he told you, she said, to cut back hours or when you're home, do more.
SPEAKER_00Although you're tired and you just busted your butt.
SPEAKER_04So she's seeing it as, well, I'm tired because I've been here with the kids.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, so you I'm not gonna say you don't have the right to be tired because you're not here with the kids, but I'm tired too, and I'm pushing through. So I expect you to come home and be tired and push through with me because I'm pushing through and I've been here all day with the baby.
SPEAKER_04But also, these are this is a conversation that I would have had while I was still pregnant. You know what I mean? Have this conversation before the child is born, like, hey, how are we gonna do things? You know what I'm saying? But if it's your first shot, I guess you really don't know it's a touchy-filly thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But um, yeah, that would have been a conversation to have beforehand. But like you say, it's it's very touchy-filly because every situation is gonna be different. But if you are um, I I don't know. I don't, I don't know.
SPEAKER_00I'll say this is why it's healthier to plan a family ahead of time because when you're not on the same page, it makes it tough. Bringing 100% every day isn't 50-50. Sometimes it's 90-10, sometimes it's 37. Amen. And so you just hit on the previous episode. We that we definitely hit that topic. Yes, is marriage 50-50? But that's what I said. It's always a moving line, a moving target, and a moving number. Because no, it's not always 50-50. Because especially in this situation, the man could probably get up at 5 o'clock, got a clock in at 6 o'clock. He gets off at about, well, let's just say 4:30, 5 o'clock, do an almost 12-hour day. It don't matter if it's the physical work or it's the desk work, it's 12 hours. I don't care who you are. You are pooped. So then you got to come home and still have that reserve tank for your family because that's what you're doing it for at the end of the day. Yeah, you got to make sure you had that reserve tank. I spoke about that in that episode. For all of you that didn't see it, I'm gonna just touch on it a little bit more. So, with a schedule that I just laid out, my schedule is very similar to that. And let's just say, hell, it's 7:47 right now. Literally just got home at 7 o'clock from being gone from 6 a.m. this morning. So I still have to have energy. Screw this show. I love the show and everything, but I have to have energy for her outside of this show. I gotta have energy for my nephew outside of this show, and that's every single day. And once you get in the habit of doing that, I think it's easier to keep it up instead of just having those gaps that okay, today I'll do it. And tomorrow, oh no, I'm tired, I ain't gonna do it. Yeah, that's the hard part to stop and go with it.
SPEAKER_04Especially with a with a newborn.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, we got a comment here, um, what Elkie said, and I I get what she's saying. It her son almost took her out.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Like it's it's a it's a lot, and some babies are more demanding, but I I get what you were saying too. Like, you have to have that um that reserve tank.
SPEAKER_00Yes, you do, but but that's and this is coming from me. Sometimes it's hard because you be literally dead, and you know you only have a certain amount of time to have that time with the family, with the wife, because you gotta go ahead and prepare for tomorrow because it's about to be the same long day tomorrow, too.
SPEAKER_04Yep, but that's in my opinion, her basically telling him, and this is what he told you, he said that she wants me to cut back hours. Yeah, she's acting like, and and like I said, maybe I don't know the situation in full, but it's she acting like he's going out to be with the guys. That's something totally different. You know what I mean? But like, baby, maybe he can't cut back hours. He cut back hours, maybe he won't have a job.
SPEAKER_00Not maybe he won't have a job, maybe we won't have this lifestyle that we have right now. Or exactly, for you to be able to take off or have to go, you know what I mean? Like for you to still be on maternity leave.
SPEAKER_04Exactly. Wow. Oh, wow. Okay, because he ate every every seven minutes. I believe it, because I know what he looked like now.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that boy ate every five minutes. You just try to make it sound good.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, Bill Jack would uh boy man.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you can't even say little bitty boy man.
SPEAKER_04No, he's not, he's not. Well, I'm I'm like I said, I'm glad that people are um reaching out and and wanting to have conversation about things that I don't want to say bother them, but bother them and are comfortable with coming and talking to you or and myself. Like I said, it happens weekly.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, so I don't I don't want to use that word bother. That kind of like could be a bad word. It could be worrisome. I'd rather be worrisome than bother. Because a worry you can fix you can fix a worry, but bother is kind of like oh that get on my nerves. I don't want to do it. It's already like a big thing.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, no, that's that that you don't know that'd be people's thing sometimes. Yeah, well, okay. I mean, you can't relate to it, but trust me, I hear that a lot.
SPEAKER_00What the bothered?
SPEAKER_04Yes, there are women that don't even want to be in the same home as their significant other. That's tough. So that's bothersome.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that's real tough. Yeah, I mean, you know, that's a crazy lifestyle to be a part of right there. Um yeah, uh for I agree with that, but Yeah, because I've never seen it, I've never understood it. So that's that's that's tough. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04That's yeah, we know I didn't even touch onto that.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, we hit on that earlier. So if you haven't watched every single episode, you have time before next Thursday when we go live again to catch up on every episode. So you if you have some questions that you didn't put in the chat before, that you just seen episodes, feel free to hit us up, hit us up with it because we'll attack it and help you and talk about it if you missed it anyway. We do have another question, too. I asked you this earlier. See if it was good enough. And yes, she okay, the guy. She gave me the green light. Because I don't care who you are, that goes back to another episode.
SPEAKER_04Oh my goodness. The happy wife, happy life, which is not a thing.
SPEAKER_00Okay, let's dress it up. Like y'all said, happy spouse, happy house.
SPEAKER_04Yes, because it goes both ways. Like, I have to make sure you're happy.
SPEAKER_00But guess what? We're happy when you're happy. That's the end of the story. If you're not happy, we're not happy because we're trying to figure out why you're not happy and fix it.
SPEAKER_04So okay, we're not about to rewind it because we can go, we can go back into that too.
SPEAKER_00But we just did. But why is it in relationships, why is it the small things make the biggest arguments? Why is that? Like it could be something as little as, why'd you wash the dishes like that? Or why'd you fold these clothes like that? That can go on and on and on. And then next thing you know, you pulling out stuff from your waist that you held in from the 2016. Yeah, from another small argument.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Is at the time you thinking, wow man, all right, she's tripping. I ain't about to say this because I don't want to go through it. But then here it comes again. You took the clothes out the dryer.
SPEAKER_04We got an answer already.
SPEAKER_00Oh my goodness.
SPEAKER_04Drop small. Mic walks off. Drops the mic and walks off.
SPEAKER_00Let's keep it real. I'm glad you dropped the mic and walked off Elkie with a comment like that.
SPEAKER_04I'm with her. No, you're with her.
SPEAKER_00You're clearly no longer wanted in this chat. So you can definitely drop your mic and walk off. I will close the door behind you. You stay right here, honey. I'm putting a bolt on.
SPEAKER_04Stay right here. But did she literally, I mean, so I'll I'll go first with that one.
SPEAKER_00Please.
SPEAKER_04So something so small. And let we like, and if we um, if you've been in this this uh, what am I trying to say? My goodness.
SPEAKER_00Don't know.
SPEAKER_04Ty tongue. Um, been watching us for the last couple weeks, you know that we're very transparent. So I'm gonna give y'all a little uh look into things that Coach E does that drives me up a fricking wall.
SPEAKER_00Did you hear that?
SPEAKER_04No, bruh. That's the one I can't stand. So oh my goodness. The small going to the dishes, and that's why you say that, because you know.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm speaking from experience. This is not made up, people.
SPEAKER_04And I'm pretty sure most women can agree with me, agree with me with this. When you're done making dinner, you done making plates, everybody done eating, what's the ruling here? Once all that is done, the kitchen is what?
SPEAKER_02Clothes.
SPEAKER_04Okay. Meaning there is no dishes that are left in the sink when we're on our way to bed, right? There exactly. No. So something that small, if I if he knows that that is my pet peeve, why in the hell do you do it in your mind? And you always say this, I don't think like you think I think. I think in your mind you say, you know what? I'm gonna do it just to piss her off. Because there's no other way to think about it. There's no other way to think about it.
SPEAKER_00Well, that's the way you want to take it.
SPEAKER_04Nobody so tell me why you do it.
SPEAKER_00It's a moment of laziness. Just being honest, it's a moment of laziness. We just talked about the schedule of a working man, he got 12 hours, he be tired. So he go ahead and leave that dishes in the sink. But only to wake up in the morning and knock it out. And therefore, you don't have to touch it. So if you don't have to touch it, if he wakes up and get to it before you do, what the problem is?
SPEAKER_04Because I don't like it. And now that starts an argument because I don't like it. It drives me insane for whatever reason, OCD, whatever you want to call it, it drives me insane. So that's how something so small turns into a week-long argument. And things are brought up from 2016. Uh back in 2021, you didn't put the toilet seat down. Like we as women, I keep that in my back pocket.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, see, boom. There we go. You keep it in your back pocket. Why? Why you gotta throw darts from your back pocket? Why you just can't get it all out? Why you gotta tuck it away? Why?
SPEAKER_04Because if we said something every time you did it, it would be multiple times a day.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Multiple times a day.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. How many times? Okay, so what is it? How many times do you stop at a red light? Multiple times a day.
SPEAKER_04Get over it.
SPEAKER_00It's fine.
SPEAKER_04So okay, so you so you're gonna make it like it's just the woman that has the issue of something small and turns into an argument. No. Okay, so let's hear something else.
SPEAKER_00You said you wanted to start, so I'll let you have it.
SPEAKER_04Let's be transparent with the people. Yeah, y'all hope somebody uh y'all get in the chat, please, because I want to hear what he got to say about me.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, because this is one of my pet peeves going back to the story we just talked about earlier. Sleepy, tired. Yeah, see, let me have the flow now. Get off my flow. I sleep. Let's be honest, y'all. I snore. I call the hogs. Okay, I snore pretty loud.
SPEAKER_04Snoring is an understatement. And you know what? I'm proud of it. It is an understatement. I don't know what sound.
SPEAKER_00Exhibit that, y'all can't even have the flow.
SPEAKER_04I don't know what sound comes out of your throat.
SPEAKER_00You took over the flow.
SPEAKER_04Oh, okay. Sorry, go ahead. Because you're not about to talk about something you snore. That's understatement.
SPEAKER_00I said I'll call hogs. I'll be snoring loud. I wake myself up sometimes. I snore so loud.
SPEAKER_03But she hate Miles.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, go ahead. Miles, you telling the truth, man. Tell them the absolute truth. What'd he say? Spiteful. Spiteful on poipus. But yeah, so I'll be in a nice deep sleep, y'all. Snoring like a dupe. Next thing you know, uh, can you just turn over? Now I'm up. Now I can't even get no good sleep again because you done woke me up just to say roll over. You don't get no good sleep. See, just because I snore don't mean it's good sleep. Because I know in a minute you're about to wake me up. Oh, can you just turn over? Oh my gosh, I can't get no sleep. I'm gonna be tired tomorrow. Well, we're both up now. Because you just clearly woke me up.
SPEAKER_04You literally fall back to sleep in seconds, and as I'm still talking, your eyes are open and you're still snoring. Cry. So I don't understand.
SPEAKER_00Like and that's the thing.
SPEAKER_04You I'm a light sleeper.
SPEAKER_00I don't understand when I wake up early and wash the dishes and you don't have to touch it and you still harp on it. I don't understand that. So hey, now we're back at square one.
SPEAKER_04No, though the two things don't even compare.
SPEAKER_00It is, because it's little things that cause big arguments. That's the subject of that we were talking about. So it's literally the same thing. It does compare. There's no way you can get out of this. We brought it up, and you said I had the floor. You kept stepping on it. Johnny Gill, now, huh? You want to hit the flow? Just all up in my dance flow. Give me the flow. Why do you wake me up if I'm in my deep snoring sleep?
SPEAKER_04Because I can't sleep. Because when you snore, it literally shakes the wall. You snore so bad it scares the dog.
SPEAKER_00Well, first of all, she snore like a strong man named Leroy that worked at the auto mechanic shop for 13 hours, changing oil, and change the tire.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, okay, pot calling the kettle. But you can't be like, why am I waking you? And I literally like the only time I get really, really pissy about it is like when I'm about to fall in that deep sleep, and it'd be like you either your breathing will stop because he doesn't want to go get a sleep test because he does have sleep apnea.
SPEAKER_00Definitely have sleep apnea. I don't need to test, I already passed it. I already know I have sleep apnea. What are we doing?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, so that is why I get so frustrated. Okay, so uh I want to hear some people in the chat. What is something that with your significant other or when you were dating someone that would send you over the freaking moon that they would do and it would cause a week-long argument? Well, I wouldn't say a week long. Well, there has been times.
SPEAKER_00A couple days.
SPEAKER_04We don't depending on what it is.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, if it's that serious, yeah, it's gonna come back up.
SPEAKER_04No, but if it's that serious, you said something small, though, right?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but just like you said, you put it in your hip pocket. That's why Miles said spiteful.
SPEAKER_04That's not spiteful.
SPEAKER_00That is.
SPEAKER_04That's not spiteful.
SPEAKER_00Get it out at the beginning. Let it all come out.
SPEAKER_04I said if we did, we would literally be saying something every single minute of the day.
SPEAKER_00I'd rather do that on different topics than you put it in your back pocket and try and throw it back at me. You can take that more ways than one.
SPEAKER_04Okay. Okay. PG show tonight, please.
SPEAKER_00Ain't no PG. We grown. Okay. What Ash talking about? Ash say Antonio waking me up out of my sleep.
SPEAKER_03Yes, it's not fine.
SPEAKER_00It is human nature. We are humans and we breathe in our sleep. Some humans breathe louder than other humans in their sleep. That's all. No need to take offense, no need to get mad. And you knew what you was getting yourself into. You knew I snored. You knew peanuts snored. So take you and your bridle slippers and go to another room. That's what we're gonna do, as about that.
SPEAKER_04Elkie, what is it?
SPEAKER_00Um leaving crumbs everywhere, not flushing the toilet. First of all, this is not flushing the toilet thing. You're a grown man. You need to be awesome.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I don't want to see your pee. I want to see your P. I don't want to see your P, but leaving crumbs everywhere, definite pet peeve of mine. Also, now I will say this. I'm kind of like uh telling on myself a little bit. So I don't like crumbs like a we are at the dinner table, like everybody clean up after yourself. Your thing, which my bed is my favorite place to be.
SPEAKER_00Hate it.
SPEAKER_04So if I want like a little snacky snack while I'm watching the show, um, his biggest pet peeve is me having a snack in the bed.
SPEAKER_00Hate it.
SPEAKER_04I don't really I don't get crumbs in the bed because I don't, well, not all the time. But if I if I do, I make sure you don't seem like I kind of get him out the way. But that's one of my favorite things to do. It's relaxing. It's I don't know. I just I just love it. So I just kind of told him I said with the whole crumb thing.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Hey, let's just clean that up. I was always raised, you only go to sleep in the bed and you have another thing in the bed. Snacking.
SPEAKER_04You are on one tonight.
SPEAKER_00No, I'm just saying, we're talking about beds. Snacking and watching the kill the husband show is not what needs to go.
SPEAKER_04Any woman, it's crime shows I watch. Um, I watch everything. I even watch cartoons sometimes. Like it is what it is.
SPEAKER_00Oh, okay. Flynn say she opened a new roll of toilet paper before the one is completely gone. Wait, then set it on top of the almost empty roll. Drives me crazy. Hey, I gotta hit that one more time, Flem. That is really, really annoying. I don't think I can take that because I too have a toilet paper uh fetish. Well, not fetish. No, not fetish. I was about to say, you own one for real tonight. I have a toilet paper uh rule. I'm a puller, like you gotta pull it down. She likes to have the end of the I like it under.
SPEAKER_04You like it over.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it just makes no sense. Why would you even do that? Because you know why? Because she's left-handed. Everybody left-handed, raise your hand. Only one.
SPEAKER_04And I almost raised the wrong one.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That shows left-handed people are weird.
SPEAKER_04Whatever. No, so I don't know why that aggravates me because I feel like if you have the toilet paper, it's over one little swipe and it's all gonna hit the floor. If it's under, you're grabbing it, you're pulling what you need.
SPEAKER_00No.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_00Can't do it. I'm not, I'll never agree to that. It's annoying. It's very annoying.
SPEAKER_04So that's why there's times like it's like a that's why the toilet paper be turned sometimes. That's really frustrating. One I set up a certain type of way and then it's turned another way. That's so frustrating.
SPEAKER_00You say we got a what? No, a padded toilet. Oh, we got a pre-loaded toilet paper ready. Over, not under.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_00Hey.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_00You know what you deserve?
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_00That's what you deserve.
SPEAKER_03Nick, no.
SPEAKER_00Yes.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_00I appreciate you, brother. I appreciate you being on the right side, not the dark side.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_00And notice I said the right side, not the left side.
unknownMm-mm-mm-mm.
SPEAKER_00And here go Flem. Flem says over his correct way, according to that patient. That is an assailant, an insane asylum patient. Because yes, they are insane. IJS.
SPEAKER_04You know, this is very therapeutic because I'm learning a lot about some of these pet peeves you've told me before, but I'm learning along with the people that's watching the live. I didn't know the toilet paper thing. I didn't, I thought you were playing tricks on me on while it was turned like that.
SPEAKER_00No, why would I take time out of my day to be like, you know what? I'm about to mess with her with the toilet paper.
SPEAKER_03Because you do that.
SPEAKER_00No. Hey, now we're on something else. Today is uh April 2nd. Yesterday was April Fool's. Was it a lot of April Fool's jokes going on? Didn't it just kind of like go away? Like, don't nobody really do no pranks on April Fool's no more.
SPEAKER_04I think because people are so sensitive.
SPEAKER_00I think that is it. But that's all the more reason to do a good April Fool's joke just to piss the sensitive people off. I love pissing sensitive people off.
SPEAKER_04And you do. Yeah, it's the best thing ever.
SPEAKER_00I get so much joy out of it. Can you remember the best April Fool's prank that you either played on somebody or the worst April Fool's trick that was played on you?
SPEAKER_04I don't think I've ever been pranked on April Fool's.
SPEAKER_00Oh. It's always next year.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. I'll be waiting.
SPEAKER_00You never know what is gonna happen.
SPEAKER_04Danny got another um comment. I've never been pranked on April Fool's.
SPEAKER_00Were you talking about Flem? Plus, when it's under, it's rubbing against the wall the whole thing. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Oh my God.
SPEAKER_00And now you putting paint chips in your rectum. Because it's rubbing on the wall.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00Boy, that's gonna burn.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00Especially if it's lead in that job.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_00Now you got lead right now.
SPEAKER_04No, because then I think of something disgusting. Okay. Like if you're on the toilet, men, you taking your hand and like flicking the roll down, and you could be getting poo-poo on the tissue I got to use.
SPEAKER_00We're not four years old. We're not gonna do this.
SPEAKER_04Well, sometimes that's why the toilet paper sometimes be hitting the floor. That drives me and saying that that's dirty, and I gotta put that on my my butt.
SPEAKER_00The the toilet paper I roll out doesn't hit the floor because I don't want that on my butt.
SPEAKER_04The next time it happens, I'm gonna take a picture because it does happen.
SPEAKER_00Please. Another person lives here too. You're not about to blame him. Well, you ain't about to blame me when I know I don't do it. Yeah, yeah, Elkie. You like that, don't you? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because she said, Daniel, come on, man. You ain't lying, Danny. You ain't lying. It's all right. Welcome to the world.
SPEAKER_03Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_00But I do have to tell this April Fool's joke that I will never get tired of telling. Well, not a joke, but what we did to my mother.
SPEAKER_03My God. It's the best thing ever.
SPEAKER_00It's the best thing ever. I know, Elkie, you're gonna love this because you are a mom. So me and my brother are jerks, right? So we did an April Fool's joke on my mother. Every single day she would get home from work, right? She gotta hurry up, run in the house, and go to the bathroom to pee, right? I wonder who that sounds like. Sound like you. So every single day, I'm talking like clockwork. Every single day for years and years and years. So it's this one April Fool's come up, we like, we about to get her because we know she's gonna come home and have to go to the bathroom immediately. So what do we do? We go to the kitchen, we get some saran wrap. We lift both toilet seats up, we put saran wrap over the toilet. You know it's clear, you can't see.
SPEAKER_04Well, you're not looking when you go to sit down if it's in her bathroom.
SPEAKER_00You ain't looking at all because you're in a rush. You doing the put it in reverse and bag it up. So we put the saran wrap on the toilet bowl, put the seats down. So she comes home in a rush. Sure enough, she hit the dough, sprinting. Ooh, mommy got a pee. Mommy got a pee. She go to that bathroom. Me and Larry just sitting in the living room waiting for that noise or whatever she about to do. She go sit on the toilet. We just guessing this will happen. But all we know we heard was Larry Jr., Evan, I'ma kill y'all. What did y'all do? Boy, it was pissed all in that bathroom, all on the floor, all on her pants, on everything.
SPEAKER_04And I know that after work, you know, you it was a long time. The closer you get to home, you like, I got to go, especially if you're in the type. Oh boy, I would have worn y'all out.
SPEAKER_00Oh, that was so good.
SPEAKER_04I would have worn y'all out.
SPEAKER_00All we did was laugh. Oh man, that was great.
SPEAKER_04No. Don't you you owe her an apology? Don't you ever do no stuff like that to me?
SPEAKER_00We apologized and laughed at the same time.
unknownMm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00See, I knew Elkie would love that. I'm gonna tell Aiden to get you next year. I'm gonna help him plan something out. We're gonna get you. You thought that was gross. Wait until we done with you.
SPEAKER_04But no, I going back to you asking me, have I ever been pranked? I don't think I've ever been pranked on April Fool's. For one, I don't do well with jokes because I'm I'm sensitive. And I get pissed off quick. So like I don't I've never been, I don't think you've ever done that.
SPEAKER_00No, I haven't got you yet.
SPEAKER_04No, you're not. You're not gonna get me because I'm gonna be expecting it.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, you can be expecting it. You can expect something, but you just don't know what it is.
SPEAKER_04Okay. Um boy, I I know you as I tell you. I know you better than you know yourself.
SPEAKER_00The day of the Gitchie is over.
SPEAKER_04I know you better do it.
SPEAKER_00The day of the Gitchy is over.
SPEAKER_04Anyway. I know, right, right.
SPEAKER_00No, no, I'm actually not. Because he's gonna be with me. He ain't gonna get effed up. Yeah, he is. You too nice to F him up anyway. You're you're a very nice mom.
SPEAKER_04Whose idea was that? Was that yours or Larry's?
SPEAKER_00No, we came to a committee meeting and we had that idea, and we both agreed on it. We used to do some weird stuff. Like some weird, weird stuff.
SPEAKER_04Still do.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, still do, but back then it was on another level weird. We used to have these weird con like contests. Okay, we're not going down that rabbit. We were about to go down a YouTube rabbit hole, right? We're not doing that. But hey, April Fool's is coming next year. So I wish you luck, buddy. I never know what angle it's coming from. I bet you I do. No, you don't. I know what angle you won't get. I can get all types of angles now.
SPEAKER_04Try it if you like. Since you say this is a ground people podcast.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Front, back, side. Girl, I love the sorry, I almost went too far.
SPEAKER_04You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna go back to last week's episode. So um I was scrolling through channels yesterday, and you know what show happened to pop up on uh it's not B E T. Oh, it's not B E T. It's a thing called um is it Dab?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, Dabble. Dabble. Dabble is my Jamie Foxx Martin Lawrence channel. You want to know what show was on Dabble? Probably something weird.
SPEAKER_04The Cosby's. Oh. Yeah, with your if you guys listened or tuned in last week, Evan.
SPEAKER_02Shout out Claire Huxtable.
SPEAKER_04Evan, uh, we were talking about older women, dating younger men, and how younger men fantasize about older women, which I still think is just very odd. Um, and Evan said that he back in the day had a thing for Claire Huxable. So I'm scrolling, and mind you, I I love Claire. I think she's just like I said, a beautiful woman.
SPEAKER_00See, you see, you see how the internet got you? But I You was changing the channel. You wasn't scrolling.
SPEAKER_04Oh, didn't yeah, I was changing the channel. I was changing the channel.
SPEAKER_00Thank you.
SPEAKER_04And it was sad because she came on a screen and I instantly got mad.
SPEAKER_00Like, Claire ain't do nothing to you.
SPEAKER_04Have my husband's attention. Well, he was a I didn't listen, but I didn't know you didn't.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_04I was a kid. He was still mine.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah, because of baby having.
SPEAKER_04Yes, that goes back to the first episode. You as my husband and baby having.
SPEAKER_00Hey, Milo, you already know, boy. Yes, Felicia Rashad can get it. He's still getting mouse.
SPEAKER_04Good God.
SPEAKER_00Hey, what would that boy say? To this day.
SPEAKER_04Oh my god. To this day. But it was just so funny because I was thinking in my head, because I couldn't let it go. I was even asking like younger women, like, have you ever had a crush like on an older guy, like a teacher? I was asking one of my coworkers, and she was like, Ew, said the same thing I said, old balls? No. Like now, as a mature woman, a seasoned woman, yes, some older men, like they got this thing called the um the guys with all the gray beards. The they are the um, oh my god, what are they called?
SPEAKER_00What up, Mikey? What up, though?
SPEAKER_04Somebody help me out in the chat. The guys with the the older men that walk around Silver Fox, you say? Yes, there's like the silver fox guys, like whatever.
SPEAKER_00They got old balls.
SPEAKER_04Um, okay, but they're very there, but I guess I'm a seasoned woman now, so like I find that attractive. But not, I don't know. I don't know.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, Silver Fox. Silver Fox. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04What did Miles say?
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah. We're gonna get to this, Mile, because I remember this man. Sharon tried to stop my cougar shine in real life, Club Cedarwood. Yes, for all people that don't know about Club Cedar Wood, it went down to Club Cedarwood. That's all we're gonna see.
SPEAKER_04Actually, a cousin's house, and this woman was my age, and my younger cousin at the time was barely 21.
SPEAKER_00Hey, she walked in that house.
SPEAKER_04I searched that whole house for that heifer. I searched that whole house for that half of it.
SPEAKER_00I was there, Ma. I was trying to stop her from hating because I knew what you was doing. Yeah, you seen her walk in that night, you took a look at her walking through that door, you said Say what? Yeah, yeah, that's my one right there.
SPEAKER_04He was drinking them Bahama Mamas, trying to get ready. I said, get ready for what?
unknownNo.
SPEAKER_04Was it Bahama Mamas?
SPEAKER_00No, I wasn't Bahama Mama.
SPEAKER_04It was some kind of rum Miles was drinking. Miles, what was that uh rum you was drinking? But he was getting ready. Yeah, and I was like, and I'ma stay up all night.
SPEAKER_00And they had me smoking cigars that night, too.
SPEAKER_04I was gonna tear that door down. You thought you was gonna go.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, mama wanna. That's what it was. Mama wanna. Well, yeah. Hey, that was a good night, Miles. It was a nice long night, too.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, well, he it wasn't a good night for Miles because he went to bed. By himself.
SPEAKER_00Hater. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Because that's just like it. No, I'm sorry. She she won, like you said, she wanted the Jackrabbit.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Because at that time, Miles was, I don't even know. I think, like I said, he wasn't even 21 yet.
SPEAKER_00Either Jackrabbit or Jack Hammer.
SPEAKER_04Once again. Yeah. Okay, once again.
SPEAKER_00That Jack Hammer a little different. That hit real different.
SPEAKER_04Like I said last week, not for someone of our age, a woman of my age. I don't. Mm-mm. Not doing it. But I didn't mean to get back on that topic, but I'm just saying, like, I was not scrolling, but going through channels the other night, and I was like, hit this. And I love me some Claire. But I was like, hit this half a go.
SPEAKER_00But then you turn around talking about silver foxes. They 60, 70. It's the same thing.
SPEAKER_04It's not. I'm a seasoned woman.
SPEAKER_00Well, if you want to keep it real, right now, Felicia Rashad is a silver fox. She is.
SPEAKER_04Well, Miles said she could still get it. And she's like 70.
SPEAKER_00And that's she's a silver fox.
SPEAKER_04No, she's a at 70, she's a dry fox.
SPEAKER_00You don't know nothing about that later.
SPEAKER_04Those that know know what I'm talking about.
SPEAKER_00She could be on that echinacea. She could be on that echinacea. That sea moss. You know, so that that fish oil.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_00Things nice and lubed up round there. All right, all right.
SPEAKER_03We're going down.
unknownDwell.
SPEAKER_00All right, y'all. We appreciate y'all tuning in to episode eight. We had a little fun. Thanks for the chat, man. The chat, y'all don't understand what y'all do for this show. Y'all keep this show rolling, y'all keep it moving. It's pretty much a fun night out. We want to give y'all the experience of y'all being somewhere, just having a fun time and just letting loose and enjoying conversations.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, having grown grown people conversation. Um, I look forward to it. Every Thursday, I'm like, I wake up and I'm like, I get to sit and do something with my bestest friend in the whole world.
SPEAKER_03Who that?
SPEAKER_04That'd be you.
SPEAKER_00Oh, shout out. That'd be you.
SPEAKER_04And just sitting like, just just be us. Just be us.
SPEAKER_00That's why I said when you see us in the street, we anybody's the uses.
SPEAKER_04Anybody that knows us, we have these conversations just how we're having them now.
SPEAKER_00And then when we get off, she's gonna find something that I said, and then it's gonna get brought up because it's in the hip pocket. You already know my.
SPEAKER_04Well, thank y'all for letting us be transparent with y'all. But this this was great. That we we wrapped up week eight, which once again, like I said, it that just that's crazy to me. That when we started this, we we were told we should start winning, just because of the conversation, like I said, that we have with people. Um, and then we did it, and now, like I said, week eight is crazy to me.
SPEAKER_00Now, let's not forget, this is very important, y'all. Don't forget to go to that YouTube channel, like, so excuse me, I keep saying it wrong. Subscribe first, like, then comment, please. Subscribe first. Also, the Facebook page, you plus me equals us, week 10.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Week 10, we will be there on that channel, except for the Evan Curry channel. Evan Curry Facebook page after week 10. We will not be live on there anymore. We will be on that channel.
SPEAKER_04Yes, so please go and follow that page now. Yes, please go and follow that page now.
SPEAKER_00We'll still be on YouTube, but Facebook you plus me equals us. That email address will become what do you tell?
SPEAKER_04Sorry, that is very mouse's comments.
SPEAKER_00Sorry. Spider Woman.
SPEAKER_04Sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_00It's okay.
SPEAKER_04Uh, okay, so what's the page?
SPEAKER_00The page is you plus me equals us.
SPEAKER_04The title of the show. Yep. It is on Facebook go follow. Also go on YouTube, like you said, and subscribe. Um, and also the the emailing, or even if you want to um um, what is it called? Direct message, private message? What is it called?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, messenger for Facebook.
SPEAKER_04Messenger for Facebook. Anything that you would want us to talk about on the show, like I said, we don't use names, but there are so many people that come up to us and say, like, hey, can you guys discuss this? Because I would like to see what the chat would say. So people are really not looking for our advice, they're actually looking for y'all's advice, to be honest. Like they want to just see what the chat's gonna say. Um, like I brought last week about the the situation. So um, yeah, just just email it, shoot a direct message. Um, or like even tonight, tell us what you guys may want to talk about next week.
SPEAKER_00Speaking of that, we will see you next week.
SPEAKER_04Thanks so much, guys. We appreciate you.
SPEAKER_00Appreciate y'all.
SPEAKER_04Peace.
SPEAKER_00It was real.