Can Men Be Monogamous??

Welcome back to another episode of You+Me=US! Evan and Sharon dive into one of their most entertaining and honest conversations yet. The couple gives their reactions to the biggest looks and wildest fashion moments from the Met Gala — from the best dressed to the outfits that had everybody confused online. They break down celebrity fashion, social media reactions, and whether some stars do too much for attention.
Then the conversation shifts into relationship talk with the big question: Can men really be monogamous? Evan and Sharon share personal opinions, real-life experiences, and debate whether commitment is harder today because of social media, temptation, and modern dating culture.
The episode also touches on the drama surrounding Klay Thompson and Megan Thee Stallion, discussing public relationships, celebrity dating rumors, and how fans react differently depending on who’s involved.
To close things out, Evan and Sharon tackle the double standards between men and women in dating, relationships, and public perception. Why are certain behaviors praised for one gender but criticized for the other? Expect laughs, debates, strong opinions, and a lot of relatable moments in another fun episode of You+Me=US.

Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:17

Hello, what up, hello what up, hello what's up. Shout out to Martin.

SPEAKER_02 0:22

Yeah, shout out to Martin. Well, welcome back.

SPEAKER_00 0:26

Yeah, been on a little hiatus here.

SPEAKER_02 0:29

Yeah, for what? This is week number eleven. Eleven. Eleven.

SPEAKER_00 0:35

Should be thirteen.

SPEAKER_02 0:36

Should be thirteen. But as you all know, anybody lives in the northeastern, um, northeastern Ohio or just Cleveland area. No. Bedford, no, not even Cleveland area. Can't even say that. So but they know about it. Yeah, the Bedford slash Solon area where we live. Um, what was that? April 15th, tax day. Um, we got hit by that hail storm. Um, I actually was driving home from work, got caught in the hailstorm, totaled out my car, had some damage to our home. Um, your car got totaled out.

SPEAKER_01 1:09

Yup.

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But to God be the glory, like that was literally a blessing in disguise. Uh, where I came out unscathed, everything was okay. Um, got new cars out of it. That's a plus.

SPEAKER_00 1:21

Yeah, I guess that's a plus.

SPEAKER_02 1:23

I mean, uh if they were cars with no car payment.

SPEAKER_00 1:26

That would be the ultimate plus. That would be an A plus plus.

SPEAKER_02 1:30

It was. So yeah, we uh we we took a little break just for mental health reasons. Um, just you know, life happens, so you've gotta do what you gotta do. But welcome back.

SPEAKER_00 1:41

You said we we what took a break.

SPEAKER_02 1:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:46

The Us's oh you plus me equals the uses.

SPEAKER_02 1:52

Yes, yes, so we we took a break.

SPEAKER_00 1:56

That's official welcoming in.

SPEAKER_02 1:59

Oh, we see how we just if it was very organic, how it floated.

SPEAKER_00 2:03

It floated it, it really floated it. Well, yeah, welcome to week 11, ladies and gentlemen. We thank you for the continued support, we thank you for the continued views, vibes, and just you know, commentary on what y'all want to hear and what y'all want to see and what y'all want to talk about. So let's get the chat going. We usually do a little something on throwback Thursday, but we had to, you know, cut back on that for reasons that will be explained at a later date. And this will be Market Calendars, the last week on this YouTube page. We have to create our own YouTube page.

SPEAKER_02 2:41

We will be creating.

SPEAKER_00 2:42

Yeah, I say we have to. Yeah, we have to. We literally have to for reasons to be explained at our.

SPEAKER_02 2:49

I hope you explain these reasons.

SPEAKER_00 2:51

Yeah, I will once we create our own Facebook. I mean, our own uh YouTube page.

SPEAKER_02 2:57

Speaking of Facebook, we'd like to be able to see the comments, please.

SPEAKER_00 3:00

Actually, there are none.

SPEAKER_02 3:02

Oh, okay. Yeah, all right, there are literally none.

SPEAKER_00 3:06

It's one person watching right now. Shout out to you, whoever you are.

SPEAKER_02 3:09

You get the good old I bet you I know who it is. Wink wink.

SPEAKER_00 3:15

The yeah, just got in the comments. Let's see who it is. Oh wow, that wasn't it.

SPEAKER_02 3:22

Is the y'all's it is the y'alls, and that's not who I was even saying, but that is the y'alls. I thought it was gonna be Ari, who's in the other room. Oh, that's why I said wink wink. Oh no, not it's the y'alls, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 3:35

It's the y'all. We the buses, and y'all is the y'all's.

SPEAKER_02 3:38

Well, if it's the y'alls, I know who's watching with the y'all's, and I'm gonna say this now.

SPEAKER_00 3:43

Nate. Hi, Nate, Nate.

SPEAKER_02 3:45

Hi, baby. We love you.

SPEAKER_00 3:47

Get your butt up and do something productive. I know your room dirty.

SPEAKER_02 3:50

We're gonna get uncle. We're gonna get uncle.

SPEAKER_00 3:52

No, it's we gotta do that. That's his favorite. Or that. Yeah, that and that.

SPEAKER_02 3:59

And you know what's crazy? I actually taught him those habits because he mimics a lot of the things that I do. Yeah, I didn't realize I did that a lot.

SPEAKER_00 4:08

Well, you do, you still do.

SPEAKER_02 4:09

Yeah, wow. But hi Nate, auntie miss you so much, baby.

SPEAKER_00 4:13

I miss you so much, but we do have to drop another piece of information.

SPEAKER_02 4:18

All this information is new to me.

SPEAKER_00 4:20

No, it's just a typical thing we say. Subscribe to that Facebook page, the uses, you plus me equal us. Subscribe, like, and share to that.

SPEAKER_02 4:32

Can you subscribe to a Facebook page or do you just follow the Facebook page?

SPEAKER_00 4:35

Okay, follow, whatever.

SPEAKER_02 4:37

Just saying.

SPEAKER_00 4:38

Who cares? You know what I mean? You know what I'm saying? I know it's rude. I was in the middle of doing stuff, and you had to put your little three cents in.

SPEAKER_02 4:48

Sure did.

SPEAKER_00 4:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 4:51

All right.

SPEAKER_00 4:52

Yeah, so uh what?

SPEAKER_02 4:55

I was saying your awkward silence was awkward.

SPEAKER_00 4:58

Oh, she still doesn't listen, guys. She doesn't take you know, advice or she doesn't hear when people say stuff. So she doesn't understand. It's a way of going going about things and doing things. Oh, okay. But yeah, so what you got first?

SPEAKER_03 5:15

Oh, this is the way we're doing it.

SPEAKER_00 5:17

Yeah. You took the time to do the homework, so we might as well turn it in.

SPEAKER_02 5:23

I did a lot of I did a lot of homework. So um I'll all you know, this past weekend, I went actually this past week, I think it was like Wednesday, um, the Met Gala happened, which usually I watched the Met Gala. Um, this time it just kind of like passed by and I forgot about it to the next day. But there was some interesting, um interesting costume, so to say, because this year's thing was it was hosted by um the guy that owns Amazon. I don't really quite remember his name. Um, but the theme Bezos? Yeah, that's what it is. Yes. What's his first name?

SPEAKER_00 5:58

Jeffrey.

SPEAKER_02 5:59

Jeffrey. Okay, Amazon man. Um, but the theme was designer art. So, with that being said, there were a cuss couple things that I saw that I was like, oh my god, this is so great. And a couple things I saw that I was like, this is very, very weird. One of the ones that stuck out to me that was one of the weirdest ones was Heidi Klum. Heidi Klum is married, was married to Seal. She to me, right here, looks like the ghost of Christmas past.

SPEAKER_00 6:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 6:25

Like it's it's giving um, I don't, it's giving scary.

SPEAKER_00 6:30

Freakazoid.

SPEAKER_02 6:31

You know, it's giving very like it's very scary. Um, so she was one that I felt that was that was different, which she she actually nailed it though, because if it's considered art, it's definitely art. She did because I couldn't even tell like who that actually was by Yeah, there's no way you can tell that. But there was also one that um Beyonce and Jay-Z came, but Beyonce's outfit I really didn't care for too much. But the one I did who took over the show was definitely Blue. Blue took over the show to me. Um, she being 13 years old, very classy. There was actually a video.

SPEAKER_00 7:05

I thought she was 15.

SPEAKER_02 7:06

Oh, maybe she is 15. Regardless, she's still a teen. I don't know, but she looks very mature here, but she's very, it's very classy. Um, one of the things I did notice, um, once again, I'm a scroller, was a video that popped up on TikTok of Jay-Z actually in a dad moment, which I thought was very cute, showing her how to actually properly place her jacket and pop her collar and things of that nature. So I thought that was pretty cool. Pop the collar. Pop the collar. It was, it was very nice. But like I said, she was giving very classy, um, just a beautiful young lady. Um, there were a couple other ones that kind of sparked me. I don't know if we have uh footage of that, but um, it's this one right here with the black up right here. This young lady here, um, I'm probably gonna pronounce it wrong. Anuke, i.e., I'm guessing I'm saying it wrong, but she's a model, and she killed it for me. Like, absolutely killed it. She's giving statue, even down to the makeup and the details uh within the makeup. And I hope that picture y'all can kind of see that good, but killed it, absolutely killed it. But I guess she's a model. Um this was fashion and art. This was definitely fashion runway.

SPEAKER_00 8:10

So the first person you were talking about was the uh the Clum. Hidey Clum. Yeah, she was married to Celia. How hidey, hidey, hoe. She was uh that's what you call abstract art. Oh, oh, okay. Abstract art is like something weird, and but it's still making a statement somehow. When you know, sometimes you see those exhibits and you like, now what is that supposed to be? That's the abstract art. So that's clearly what the she was going for.

SPEAKER_02 8:41

But yeah, even the Rihanna, uh Rihanna and what's his name? Um ASAP ASAP Rocky ASAP Ricky. She definitely came through, very classy. Um, I love them as a couple though, like they they compliment each other's swag, you know, kind of like we do. Yeah, you know, kind of like we do.

SPEAKER_00 8:56

Because you know, sometimes you be stealing swag off of me because I set the tones so vibrant, you know, it'd be so vibrant, and then I just swag out, and you'd be like, hmm, I gotta feed off of this because I like the way it makes me feel his swag. But I do see ASAP looking like he got the uh smoker's bathrobe a little bit, the smoker's bathrobe, yeah. You know how they smoke cigars and they put like the little robe on.

SPEAKER_02 9:23

Oh, like in the movies, like like old Hollywood.

SPEAKER_00 9:26

Yeah, yeah. That's kind of what I get from it.

SPEAKER_02 9:28

But for Rihanna, it's kind of giving me like a clam, like or an oyster or muscle, yeah, or something. But she did it, she did it very well. Like I said, makeup was on point designer. Once again, I wish they talked about more of the designers with the Met Gallus. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't.

SPEAKER_00 9:45

So if you watch it, like if you watch the red carpet, they'll say what they have on and like who made it and stuff. But if you didn't see it, you'll probably have to just like read the small print or whatever.

SPEAKER_02 9:56

And then that um go to this top picture here, right here with the orange right there. So this is this is a picture. This is Kim. Kim kind of disappointed me this year because when Kim people don't really want to give him his credit, but when every year Kim came to the Matt Gala and she was with Kanye, Kanye designed every single costume she wore. This to me was just given like Wonder Woman or Bionic Woman. I don't really don't qu I really don't know.

SPEAKER_00 10:20

You know what that remind me of as soon as I look at it? What Spaceballs, the little uh golden robot lady that was with the night, what was that, the 80s?

SPEAKER_02 10:29

Oh, 80s, no, it was definitely 80s, but yeah, so I just feel like she, you know, it just was very, you know.

SPEAKER_00 10:35

And it looked like her hair ain't done.

SPEAKER_02 10:38

Well, that's the point. It's it's supposed to be like a messy, um, it's a high fashion look. But I was just very disappointed in that. Very disappointed. But that was just my little take on the Met Gala.

SPEAKER_00 10:48

Um, there were a couple others, but you know, we could go down a so do you even know what the uh Met Gala is about?

SPEAKER_02 10:56

No, you know, I really I don't.

SPEAKER_00 10:59

I don't it's supposed to be like a rich dinner or something like that, I'm guessing. Oh, I thought you were gonna tell me what it was about. I mean, that's just what I heard. Like it's donations and stuff, and they raise money for certain things. I don't know exactly what they raise the money for, but you know, when they pay to get their ticket to come, that money gets donated to some work, some organization.

SPEAKER_02 11:23

Well, hopefully not to the men that do Amazon because he don't need he now. I do like his ex-wife though. His ex-wife donates to the HBCs to the HBCs, and I'm pretty sure that eats him up inside. I don't you think so? I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 11:37

I mean, I don't know, but kudos to her. Yeah, I don't know him like that. I don't know uh him enough to say that he doesn't like that, but I like it that she does it because it'd be like 30, 70, 25 million dollars like each time. So I like the way she does that. And she at first says she wanted to be anonymous, but then she just starts putting her name out there, like, yep, I did it. So you might be right, it could be to get back at him and to make him feel a certain way.

SPEAKER_02 12:07

I mean, we like her, but if it's if that's her being petty, thank you.

SPEAKER_00 12:10

Yeah, sure.

SPEAKER_02 12:11

I can appreciate it.

SPEAKER_00 12:12

She's the Juanita Jordan.

SPEAKER_02 12:15

Oh, Jordan's what Jordan did something, Jordan's ex-wife did something to make him or to be petty.

SPEAKER_00 12:20

Oh no, she just has endless money like her that she can just donate at any time because she's still living off of MJ money in his uh what is it, alimony?

SPEAKER_02 12:32

Right, yeah, the prenup, the prenup, the prenup. And just to let y'all know that's what well, the one that's watching, but we'll let other people get on. Um, but just letting you know, he is really watching the game as we are recording, and that's maybe why we don't have the chat going right now because calves are on.

SPEAKER_00 12:48

Yeah, could be, could be could be, yeah. People know what's going on, yeah. But it's fine, we can continue without them. They'll see this whenever it's posted. They can catch up just like they do with their regular shows. How you be doing with your hulus and your LM Housewives, uh yeah, gotta love them. You know, I did use a lot of show, but the more money they got, the more weirder it got, and it felt not as authentic. I know it's reality TV, so it's not gonna be always been reality TV, so it's it's yeah, it's not gonna be like 100% authentic, but it was just they was trying to come up now.

SPEAKER_02 13:24

It's really about like who got the most money, yeah, yeah, yeah. Which is, I mean, I get it, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_00 13:30

Yeah, it takes you know things away from me. I don't I used to like uh well, I still do like Phaedra. She's Phaedra's absolutely hilarious to me. You know what uh I compare Phaedra to Cardi B.

SPEAKER_02 13:43

Oh, it was the funniest thing. So I wish we would have brought that up. Because if you get time, guys, check out Cardi B's um outfit from the Matt Gella. My daughter literally told me today, she was like, I love Cardi. I think she's so pretty, but her outfit looked like Keloids.

unknown 13:58

Oh boy.

SPEAKER_02 13:59

She said her outfit looked like Keloids. So I thought that was pretty interesting.

SPEAKER_01 14:03

Wow.

SPEAKER_02 14:03

Um, but no, it was just, it was just it was very interesting. But no, Phaedra, Phaedra, to me, it's funny. Phaedra's got that old southern um swag about her, and I absolutely love it. No, hey, bam, and it's so crazy because I literally was just telling your wife through a text message the other day, like how oh, did I say that to you, Angie? I can't remember. Or maybe I was thinking, or I told you how I just miss our back and forth, like Martin and Pam. Like, if anybody knows me and Melvin's relationship, that's really how we are. Like, if he says something nice to me, it makes me want to vomit.

SPEAKER_00 14:42

You said what, Ash?

SPEAKER_02 14:46

Her daughter said hemorrhoids.

SPEAKER_00 14:49

Where did that even come from?

SPEAKER_02 14:51

Because I said Ari said that Cardi B's outfit looked like keloids, and Ash's daughter said hemorrhoids.

SPEAKER_00 14:57

I'm like, whoa, what? That was that threw me off. Ash you caught me slipping because I had no clue what you were talking about.

SPEAKER_02 15:03

But he talked, no, go see it in the beginning of the show. You said I don't listen.

SPEAKER_00 15:08

No, I heard you say key loids, but I wasn't expecting her to say hemorrhoids.

SPEAKER_02 15:12

That was great. Yeah, that's great.

SPEAKER_00 15:15

That was really, really crazy.

SPEAKER_02 15:17

That was great.

SPEAKER_00 15:18

All right, so got something else to jump into.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

What? Oh, me.

SPEAKER_00 15:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 15:24

I was about to say, there's so much that I that I that I want to jump into. Uh, but one of the first things I want to wanna jump into is the question that we have for today. And I'm just curious on how this is about to go because I can see the chat jumping on this. So the question that we have for you all are, and this was actually brought up to us by a co-host of yours on Game for All Seasons. Taboozy Timion is Byron, and his question was um, are men meant to be monogamous? Dun dun dun. Hey, I don't know. I don't know why he likes to stir the pot. And Byron, I I hope you're coming on soon because the chat about to get the going. So you kind of can you just give us kind of a basis of of how you guys even had got on that topic of yeah.

SPEAKER_00 16:18

So we was talking about uh the stallion, Meg, and the light-skinned boy, uh Clay. Yeah, and how they ended up breaking up, and she went through his phone or whatever and saw DMs of him DMing other people, and she approached him about it, and he said, Well, there's no way I could be monogamous. And she was like they just bought a house together, didn't they? No, I didn't hear about it.

SPEAKER_02 16:43

I saw somebody they bought a house together.

SPEAKER_00 16:45

After he said, I can't be monogamous.

SPEAKER_02 16:48

Meg was like, Say what?

SPEAKER_00 16:52

And then they broke up.

SPEAKER_02 16:53

So that's actually he cheated.

SPEAKER_00 16:56

Well, he DM'd other people.

SPEAKER_02 16:58

Oh so I don't think he Well, he's got a track record, and I did a little research on on Mr.

SPEAKER_00 17:04

Clay, the Lycian guy. Give it to me.

SPEAKER_02 17:07

So he dated the Miss Beautiful, absolutely stunning, absolutely beautiful, Coco Jones.

SPEAKER_00 17:13

Yeah. So cheated on her. But somebody said that that happened when him and Meg was together. But you know how people do.

SPEAKER_02 17:22

Well, how was that even occurring? She was with Meg. I mean, Coco was with Donovan Mitchell. I don't know. Anyway, um, streets be talking. He also let's see, let's keep going. The uh a Spider-Man actress, I don't know which Spider-Man it was from, but Laura, I'm probably gonna say that wrong. Harrier, Harrier, career, career, cheated on her, she's also a woman of color, and then there was Hannah Stockton, who is a she's a comedian that he cheated on. Now we can add Mag DeSallion to this list as well. Yeah, and he's really not a looker to me, like he he just full of himself. But like you said earlier, it's this life, it's that lifestyle, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:57

It's totally different. There's no way. But there's no there's no excuse for it, but then on top of it being a total different lifestyle, that's why I told you they're not even married.

SPEAKER_02 18:09

Okay, listen, you didn't cheat when you weren't married, once again, their lifestyle.

SPEAKER_00 18:13

See, there she goes.

SPEAKER_02 18:15

No, so this is why I'm confused. So the so the lifestyle and amount of money makes it the norm, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 18:21

For them, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 18:22

That's really sad. Then don't be in a relationship. Just say, you know what, we're sleeping together, we'll we'll take pictures together when we out on the red carpets, and that's that. Don't make it a whole thing, right?

SPEAKER_00 18:31

But you know, some people already, some people already make that known before they get together, like before they make it official. Some of them literally tell you, like, hey, we're just gonna be photogenic in certain out like out when we outside and stuff like that, but we're we're never gonna be celebrated.

SPEAKER_02 18:50

Okay, well, let's take this take this away from the celebrity status. Do you feel that men can be monogamous?

SPEAKER_00 18:58

Like duh.

SPEAKER_02 18:59

Well, okay, take you out of the equation. Like, do you feel that most men can be monogamous?

SPEAKER_00 19:05

Yeah. If you want to, absolutely. But if you don't want to, then no. Because uh, so once again, here we go. In in the gym, having conversations.

SPEAKER_02 19:19

And first of all, I'm gonna stop you there because I think this is hilarious. This has to do with the gym. He goes to the gym. This is a little side story. Evan goes to the gym, and there's a class, a water aerobics class. 90% of the women that are in that class are well into their 60s, 70s.

SPEAKER_00 19:38

No, I'm gonna say just regular 60s. 60s. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 19:40

So clearly, when you're walking around in the pool area, you don't have a shirt on, you're in a sauna, you don't have a shirt, he doesn't have a shirt on. And the commentary that is going on about my husband is absolutely hilarious. Hey, so you go out these one cause these women to have a damn heart attack in the water.

SPEAKER_00 20:00

I'll be minding my business.

SPEAKER_02 20:01

Sorry, I just thought that was funny you mentioned the whole gym thing, but go ahead, sorry.

SPEAKER_00 20:05

Yeah, so we a group of guys was talking, and it was a couple guys just asking regular questions, like uh, yeah, so like I think it's kind of hard to like be with one woman for the rest of your life. I'm like, so are you married to this woman, or like do you ever plan on getting married to this woman? Yeah, uh yeah, but then sometimes they are married, then sometimes like I'll be having the wondering eyes, like I'll be looking at something that walk by, or I'll be somewhere and so I'll see somebody like man, she look good. So you know me, that keeps it real when keeping it real goes right. So I said at the end of the day, are you willing to risk let's just say an hour for the rest of your life? Because literally, if you go in and looking at a woman like that, you're not wanting to date her if you're already married or if you're already in a relationship with the googly eyes, you're you don't have googly eyes to look for another person to date, you're looking for another person to have sex with. So at the end of the day, are you willing to risk just that one sex escapade for the rest of your life to be trash? Like for your life to just fall to shambles, especially if you marry. Because if you marry, all that stuff is gonna come right back on you, whether you like it or not. So it's gonna be trash life. You're gonna be divorced. If y'all got kids, you're gonna be a weekend dad. You're gonna go from seeing your kid every day to a weekend dad with now a baby mama that's scorned, and we all know what comes with that in certain situations. I'm not putting everybody in the box, but just in certain situations, we all know what comes with that living hell. So, is that our worth a living hell? That's what I was asking them.

SPEAKER_02 21:57

But you so, okay, so and that goes. But like you said, talking about being a monogamous. So there was something you also told me that you heard someone talking on the Breakfast Club. I think it was actually a pastor that was saying and about the wondering eye and how it's not a sin, but it is a sin. So in my opinion, I'll give you my point of view on that. I feel like men are y'all are visual creatures. So I can get where some men say they can't be monogamous because some men are just so um, for lack of a better word, horny.

SPEAKER_01 22:26

Horned up.

SPEAKER_02 22:27

Yes. So like I get it, y'all visual creatures, but I feel once the wandering eye, because you're a human and you're you're attracted to the opposite sex. So for me, if I see somebody that looks nice, it's a glance, like, or you you'll see that person, you'll be like, you know, okay, they're nice looking. There's nothing else after that, right? But I feel if you are continuing, like you, you gawking, and in your mind you envisioning all this stuff, that is where I feel like that's the sin, right?

SPEAKER_00 22:54

Yeah, so that's what the actual Bible verse says. Excuse me, don't know the actual name of the book of the Bible, but it's let you be angry and not sin. So, meaning you can be angry, but don't take it as far as like doing something to somebody or thinking something so wrong or devilish on somebody. That's the sinning part. The anger is not the sinning part, just like you said.

SPEAKER_02 23:20

But there's no anger. Wait, what are you talking about? We're talking about no, that's thinking.

SPEAKER_00 23:24

So I was going to something. See what I'm saying? That's what you were talking about. The googly eye part is not the sin, but it's the thought or the action after the googly eye, which is the sin. So that's why I said let them be angry and not seeing. Googly eyes and not seeing. Just look no further.

SPEAKER_02 23:43

Not even a look, just a glance. Like, if you if you catch it, there's no need to double take. Because once you I feel like you double take, now at that point, like you like, oh oh, you know what I'm saying? Like a glance is one thing, but a double take is something totally different from a woman's point of view. If you we sit in here and somebody that you find attractive walks by and you look, okay, you look. But if you do a whole ass double take, now we got a problem. Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_00 24:08

I mean, I understand it, I comprehend it, but that doesn't mean I'm talking about you. Once again, I hear you and I comprehend it. That doesn't mean I agree. Because why not? So you could do that to a car. Like if you look like, oh no, oh man. Not a car. Okay. But I'm just saying, a double take doesn't mean that oh man, I want to sleep with her right now. That just means, like, oh man, she does look good. So you just took a double look.

SPEAKER_02 24:40

And then you get a double smack, smack right in the face.

SPEAKER_00 24:43

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_02 24:44

So that's okay. No, I mean, it is what it is. But like I said, y'all are y'all are visual creatures. So that is something I do understand. I'm just being a jerk about it. But I just feel like so men use that and say that they can't be monogamous when you literally can. I actually had a guy tell me why do you think that men have so much sperm?

SPEAKER_00 25:04

Like I I think that's just a horrible uh uh example.

SPEAKER_02 25:11

Yeah, well, that's how they feel.

SPEAKER_00 25:14

And I know so many people, and I have so many conversations with people that we just think totally different, and I can't understand it sometimes. And then people be like, Well, you know, I'm a man. I don't yeah, I'm a man too. And then when people hear me say something like that, they'd be like, Oh, well, you think you're perfect, you think you the no, y'all are you far from perfect, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 25:36

Clearly, not in that aspect, but you're a man. I put not all y'all in the same category, but you're a man.

SPEAKER_00 25:42

Women, we're like the number one species, so it's just like it's just not worth it. That's what goes in my head, it's not worth it. What what are we doing at the end of the day? Like, how far are you willing to go with that look or with that gesture or with that thought? Like, I just don't get it. I just don't, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 26:05

Well, you think differently than than most men, but it was so funny.

SPEAKER_00 26:09

But it's still people that think like me too. So I that's why I hate when people be like, Man, it's just you. No, it's not just me, it's actually normal people in the world that think like that.

SPEAKER_02 26:19

There's a comment Melvin put, watch out for Miss Jerry. Oh, Miss Jerry, it's a lot of Miss Jerry's. I say he's gonna have one of these women fall out in this damn pool.

SPEAKER_00 26:30

You better believe it. What you say, Elbog? I had a guy tell me we can't date because I'm gonna cheat on you. See, and that's that's literally what Clay was saying to Meg. So we don't need to have a comment.

SPEAKER_02 26:46

So this is my thing. I want so these non-monogamous men, how would they feel if well, I guess they wouldn't care because you're not gonna actually care about a woman if you can cheat on her. So, like, what if it was a woman doing that to a man? Like, you give them like I just hate that men think that they could just I'm a cheating, I can do what I want to do. Do you realize that women they have no idea?

SPEAKER_00 27:08

We talked about it before.

SPEAKER_02 27:10

Double standard, it's definitely a double double standard. Yeah, like I get maybe that man was right. Maybe y'all just got too much sperm. I don't know. But I looked up some, even animals understand being monogamous. I looked up some animals that literally are with one significant other for then for the rest of their life. What them is one of them is a beaver.

SPEAKER_00 27:32

Oh, because he be damn.

SPEAKER_02 27:40

That was actually pretty good. All right, um, another one is a bald eagle. No, yeah, no, okay, stop the jokes. Snow owls, a seahorse. Did you know that the male seahorse actually carries the babies? And then once they had a baby, they die.

SPEAKER_00 27:54

Oh no, that's raw.

SPEAKER_02 27:56

Yeah, I think so. Um, cockroaches. I've cockroaches like the real the ones like in the wild.

SPEAKER_00 28:03

Shout out to everybody that went to East Tech. You're scarab, you're a roach.

SPEAKER_02 28:08

Okay, and then a gibbons, which is a monkey. Oh so if animals can figure it out, why can't the human male figure it out?

SPEAKER_00 28:19

You just said the key word in that sentence. Human. Humans are blinded by the flesh. The flesh is so temptational, so tempting. That's why. Okay. And they put themselves in horrible situations. That's a big reason.

SPEAKER_02 28:36

Yeah. But and then be telling us, I I want a good woman, I want a good thing. Well, that ain't the way to get it.

SPEAKER_00 28:44

What you say, Charlie?

SPEAKER_02 28:46

Do uh next conversation needs to be the double standard of it's a woman's problem if something happens to her and the man's and not the man's issue. The next conversation, not me reading it twice. I'm doing a double stage.

SPEAKER_00 29:02

Smack, smack, double smack. Y'all heard her say that. It was the double smack. You want to go ahead and start that? What? The conversation about double standard?

SPEAKER_02 29:13

Mm-hmm. Well, oh, we kind of had that a while back.

SPEAKER_00 29:16

Yeah, that's what I was saying. We talked about the double standard before when I I even said it because I'm a girl dad, and I used to tell this to my kids when they was growing up. I wasn't always your dad or your papa. I was a first. I was a horny little boy before. Shout out to Andre 3000. He made that so plain and clear. And for all you hip hop heads that know that line, you should know it. It's called they call it horny because it's devilish. Now we dead wrong. That's why you throw the horns up for horny. That's good. Wow. Shout out to 3000. Wow. And if you didn't know that, you're not a real outcast fan. Just wanted to let you guys know about that. But so the things that you used to think about women and girls back then when you were younger, it's gonna piss you off as a dad. And that's the double standard. So that's what made me bring up the double standard. Yeah, girl dad. So that's gonna piss you off because you know what he's thinking. Yeah, you know exactly what he's thinking and what he's trying to do. He's not trying to be your daughter's friend, he's not trying to, well, your daughter's just so nice, you know. I just thought we could be cool. No, I know what you're trying to do. You're trying to wait till I leave and call her and be like, is they gone? I'm about to come through. No, we're not doing that. Double standard right there. So that's what we were talking about on the double standards, uh, Angie. On that aspect, I don't know if you're talking about something totally different with the man issue. Trying to break it down a little bit more. Because you know, I do have a Bedford education, so it's a little bit slower than most. You paid attention in class. I didn't. So see if you could break it down. But do you understand what I'm talking about with the double standard?

SPEAKER_03 31:06

I do.

SPEAKER_00 31:06

So, what would be a woman's double standard like that with that definition of it? Didn't even gotta be the kid, it could be just like what is a woman's double standard? I don't know. That's that's I mean, you have to narrow it down. Um just give me one example of one.

SPEAKER_02 31:24

A woman's double standard. Y'all held me on the check because I really, I really don't know.

SPEAKER_00 31:30

I think we discussed it, but I can't remember what we um I want a man to do this for me, but then want to be independent, right?

SPEAKER_02 31:38

Okay, okay. I don't want to be a and this ain't for me. I tell we talked about this on the pot too. As a matter of fact, it was probably the same episode about how women want to be kept women, but want to be independent. I I want to be kept. Okay, mama want to be kept.

SPEAKER_00 31:52

I keep you.

SPEAKER_02 31:53

I know you do, honey. But is that that whole double standard? Like, I don't need a man, but I then be crying, I can't find a husband. You don't need one, remember? You don't need one, and it's not necessarily saying you don't need him for financial reasons. I feel, and this is just my personal opinion, when God made woman, obviously he made man. You we need one another for one to procreate, just for two, like I said, you can't marry yourself.

SPEAKER_00 32:20

You kind of said it backwards. What he made man first because oh he took my rib. You my rib. Okay, you my rib.

SPEAKER_02 32:32

Okay, yes. So he made man first. Shout out to Ari Ribs, inside joke, but no, so that would that's the double standard that I can't stand with a lot of women. Like I said, there's nothing wrong with being an independent woman, get it how you live, but don't in the same breath say, but I want a man, I I want to be independent, but I want a man, but okay, girl, all right.

SPEAKER_00 32:55

You really don't mean it. That's just the end thing to say right now.

SPEAKER_02 32:58

Do you?

SPEAKER_00 33:00

Oh, is this teasy? Hey, boo. Teasy independent women who want a high-value man, but don't want to submit to that, and that's what I'm talking about, teasy. That's exactly what I'm talking about. That's a perfect double standard that the women be talking about all the time. But so, and I know what the answer is gonna be because me and Mel is the only two males in here. So, why is that not well? Actually, he's a seahorse. You're gonna wish death on my man after he gives birth to the baby.

SPEAKER_02 33:36

That's not what I meant. Oh my goodness. Oh, that was bad, man. I couldn't think of another animal. I could have said a beaver, but seahorse came to my mind. So geez, that's the whole Martin and Pam thing. If you guys saw the beginning of the show, like Mart Melvin is my Martin and I'm his Pam.

SPEAKER_00 33:54

Back up. You're breathing on my nest.

SPEAKER_02 33:56

Shut up. It only works for me and him, not you.

SPEAKER_00 33:58

Oh, sorry. But no, so why is that not glorified like the man when we do stuff like that? Why? Why? The double standard. Y'all always go deep on our double standard, but we're not allowed to go deep on y'all double standard.

SPEAKER_02 34:14

Because y'all can't, because y'all shallow.

SPEAKER_00 34:16

Wow. You asked. Shallow how? I don't believe it.

SPEAKER_02 34:22

I mean, no, seriously, y'all are.

SPEAKER_00 34:23

Mel, they're trying to jump me. Where you at, man? Swing on somebody.

SPEAKER_02 34:27

He knows the truth.

SPEAKER_00 34:28

Please.

SPEAKER_02 34:28

He literally know it's the truth.

SPEAKER_00 34:30

No, y'all just are judgmental. Y'all rather judge us than to be judged. About the double standard.

SPEAKER_02 34:40

Okay, that that's when you hit the crickets because no. So how are we judgmental? What are we, what are we?

SPEAKER_00 34:48

That's what you want.

SPEAKER_02 34:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 34:50

Done.

SPEAKER_02 34:50

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 34:51

Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 34:53

All right. Anyway, your boy late. You you would have been up. Tell you say what you say. Because your double standards protect. See, her comment overrode his. No, I'm right. I hit the wrong button, man. There we go. Back up. No. Even the computer knew who to click first. It clicked her. That was AI. Let's go back to my girl's comment, please.

SPEAKER_00 35:11

That was AI.

SPEAKER_02 35:13

Because your double standards protect. Oh.

SPEAKER_00 35:16

It's not even real. She's not even a real person.

SPEAKER_02 35:18

Oh.

SPEAKER_00 35:19

She's under five feet. Hey. She is. If y'all seen this person, he don't even have a comment. See, now he's trying to come to me because that you're talking about y'all's insecurities. Men's is don't have no insecurities. We got too much going on to be insecure. We gotta deal with y'all. So how are we gonna be in insecure?

SPEAKER_02 35:38

See, that was good because shut him down. Okay, Melvin.

SPEAKER_00 35:50

The salmon swim upstream.

SPEAKER_02 35:52

Here we go with that. Here we go with that. Oh, she got you good.

SPEAKER_00 35:57

No, actually, she didn't. Oh, because men don't have. Uh oh. We got Flem in the thing. Wanting to be old-fashioned type man, all while being the modern type woman. Oh, bring it. Come on, Dan.

SPEAKER_02 36:13

Okay, now yes, that I totally agree with. Come on now. I totally agree with.

SPEAKER_00 36:17

Boy, I just walked into heaven. Welcome to the show.

SPEAKER_02 36:21

I totally agree with that. I totally agree with that.

SPEAKER_00 36:25

Yeah. Thank you, Danny, for having my back, brother. Appreciate it. It's now we got three in here. We three strong in here. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 36:31

Anywho.

SPEAKER_00 36:32

Yes. And look, now they argue. Look, now they argue. We start an argument with them. Get out the chat. And the sad part, y'all probably sitting right next to each other.

SPEAKER_02 36:44

No, get out the chat, like she said.

SPEAKER_00 36:46

No, stay in the chat, brother.

SPEAKER_02 36:47

No, ain't no helping. Ain't no helping.

SPEAKER_00 36:49

Ash already started trash earlier. So come on, Danny.

SPEAKER_02 36:52

That was actually a very good point that he made.

SPEAKER_00 36:54

Yeah. Yes. And that's what I was saying earlier.

SPEAKER_02 36:57

But it's funny because these women want um a man to take care of them in a I feel him in an old-fashioned sense, but like you said, want to be no PL work. He's supposed to be fucking.

SPEAKER_00 37:15

Oh, he's working all right.

unknown 37:17

Listen.

SPEAKER_00 37:18

What did you say? Um, I'll tell you the old-fashioned man and the new woman.

SPEAKER_02 37:22

And a new modern woman that's an independent woman. Like they want they want that type of man.

SPEAKER_00 37:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 37:27

Go to work, take care of me, but I'm independent. I don't tell, don't tell me when you come home that I'm supposed to cook and clean and blue, blue, blue, blue, blue.

SPEAKER_00 37:35

And guess what?

SPEAKER_02 37:36

What?

SPEAKER_00 37:37

Aussie, Aussie, Aussie, oi, oi, oi. That's a boomerang right back at y'all. That's your insecurities feeling like that. Don't say y'all.

SPEAKER_02 37:45

Because you know when you come home, it's a hot plate on the ground. I'm talking about women.

SPEAKER_00 37:48

See, she wants to go there. I'm just talking about women. What's up under five feet? Insecurities. That's what we're talking about.

SPEAKER_02 37:56

Don't cover my friend because she shut your ass down.

SPEAKER_00 37:59

No, she didn't.

SPEAKER_02 37:59

She did. And your your people in here wasn't helping you. Mel wasn't helping you, and Danny just had popped up. But he he got in trouble because he's supposed to be at work.

SPEAKER_00 38:08

You didn't got him in trouble. No, you all right, Danny. If you need help, give your boss my number. We'll figure it out.

SPEAKER_01 38:16

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 38:17

We'll figure all this out. If not, you know what that leads to.

SPEAKER_02 38:21

Cry. And like I said, this guy really, we're recording right now, and this guy really has the calves on the TV.

SPEAKER_00 38:32

Yeah. Sorry, I'm not a faker. I don't have double standards.

SPEAKER_03 38:44

Crickets? Yes, you do.

SPEAKER_00 38:47

No, I actually don't. I'm multitasking. That's what that's called. Or are you compromising? Tell them another person under five feet.

SPEAKER_02 38:57

I don't know why I'm surprised. I really don't. But I I don't. I didn't even let she know you all too. I really don't know why I'm surprised.

SPEAKER_00 39:03

It's the playoffs, Ange. I'm just doing my family duties and my coaching duties at the same time. But hey, you gotta do what you gotta do.

SPEAKER_02 39:10

She's right. I don't even know why. Jerk. I'm actually kind of disappointed that Byron hasn't jumped in the chat. Cause like I said, I the whole reason of me bringing up game on.

SPEAKER_00 39:23

He he's emotional.

SPEAKER_02 39:24

Um monogamous thing was for him because it's like he he's so uh I am man and he's married.

SPEAKER_00 39:31

You know, he ain't about to jump in here. Just game on. That boy's scared. That boy nervous. Well, what the Us's?

SPEAKER_03 39:41

The Uses.

SPEAKER_00 39:43

Are the Us's done?

SPEAKER_03 39:44

Is the Uses done?

SPEAKER_00 39:46

I guess so. You just abruptly put an end to it, like I did it. You did.

SPEAKER_02 39:52

You looked at me and said, Well, going back to can't remember what episode it was, but we were talking about compromise, right?

SPEAKER_00 39:59

That was episode nine.

SPEAKER_02 40:01

Okay. So compromising, I compromised with the draft. I'm compromising today with this game.

SPEAKER_00 40:10

It's a minute and 25 seconds left in the second quarter, about to be halftime.

SPEAKER_02 40:14

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 40:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 40:15

Well, you can get settled in.

SPEAKER_00 40:17

So I guess that means we're done, guys.

SPEAKER_02 40:22

He's so sad.

SPEAKER_00 40:24

Uh-oh. Look, look at her.

SPEAKER_02 40:28

Mm-mm. He ain't got no boots. Mm-mm. Mm-mm.

SPEAKER_00 40:32

Memphis.

SPEAKER_02 40:33

Mm-mm. He ain't in no boots. No boots. I'm compromising with this game.

SPEAKER_00 40:38

Hey, you gotta do what you gotta do to win.

SPEAKER_02 40:40

Next week, he's gonna be back on point. Well, the game will be on then too.

SPEAKER_00 40:45

I'm just saying I was on point anyway.

SPEAKER_02 40:49

The lies you tell.

SPEAKER_00 40:51

All right. Not at all. But anyway, since we have haters in the house, I guess we're gonna go ahead and wrap it up, guys. You know I gotta be a man and follow directions of the woman. So thank you for listening. Thank you for watching. We still want you to go ahead and follow, since I can't say subscribe.

SPEAKER_02 41:12

I mean you can next week when we have our Facebook, I mean our um YouTube.

SPEAKER_00 41:17

Yeah, I'll say that next week. But once again, this is the last week on this YouTube channel. We have to switch over for reasons that will be explained at a later date. TBD, as they would say.

SPEAKER_02 41:29

Make it sound like so like I don't know, like secret.

SPEAKER_00 41:34

Like no, it's not secret, but it's just very important. That's all. Very, very important. But you know, you gotta do what you gotta do in order to win. You'll understand when I say it next week.

SPEAKER_02 41:47

I'm I'm literally gonna give out, I'll find out when y'all find out.

SPEAKER_00 41:50

You know, I'm literally gonna give a whole breakdown next week.

SPEAKER_02 41:52

So we're gonna get a pod.

SPEAKER_00 41:56

Yeah, just just a podcast YouTube one-on-one.

SPEAKER_02 42:02

Are they starting a podcast too?

SPEAKER_00 42:04

No, to no, I just said I'm gonna fill them in while we gotta switch. Okay, yeah, that's all. But from the Uses and the Y'all's, because the y'alls was the first ones in here. Shout out to the y'all's name and everybody else. Thank you for watching. Again, my Russell Simmons on. Thank you for coming out. God bless you, good night.

SPEAKER_01 42:34

Wrong button, guys.