Love & the Layman
Ever wondered how butt plugs work? Thought about opening up your marriage? Curious what really happens at an orgy?
No topic is too taboo for certified sex coach Samantha Raddock and her layman husband Jared. Together, they pull back the covers on the messy, mysterious, and misunderstood world of modern sex and relationships. With expert insights, awkward confessions, and shameless honesty, they shine a light on the darkest corners of the bedroom and beyond, broaching all the subjects most don’t dare to discuss outloud. Just like your search history, Love & the Layman is spicy, unfiltered, and weirdly educational.
Love & the Layman
So… Does Perimenopause Ruin Sex, Really?
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What happens when your body changes the rules — and no one gives you the updated manual?
Perimenopause has a way of arriving quietly… and then making itself impossible to ignore. For many women, that can mean painful penetration, shifts in desire, and the unsettling feeling that a once-familiar body suddenly feels foreign.
In this episode of Love & the Layman, a listener in her early fifties asks the question so many people carry silently: If sex has become painful, does that mean it’s over?
Together, Samantha and Jared unpack the physical, emotional, and relational changes that can come with perimenopause — and why so many people feel blindsided by them. From discomfort during sex to confusion about arousal and identity, this conversation offers clarity where culture has offered very little.
Not sure how something so common can feel so devastating? Relax — your vagina doesn’t need a funeral, just a little resuscitation.
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